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Ha ha that's mad, my journey has been very similar to yours. Keep up the good work man.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:27 PM
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Same, didn't know it was connected to testosterone but I find I sleep in a more solid block with ZMA.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:26 PM
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I agree with this. I lost 55lbs doing MMA and Muay Thai (245 >190) and looked like shit (5'11") as there was absolutely nothing underneath. I was a full on skinny guy gone fat and after a huge effort of positive changes and weight loss felt so let down that I still didn't feel confident in a t shirt, let a lone no shirt. I'd seriously have needed to drop another 30lbs into ridiculously skinny for any definition to show at all. Then blood tests confirmed low testosterone. So I went keto, beefed u…
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:00 PM
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Agree, it was a huge lightbulb moment for my sorry, defensive DEERing ass. "Wait, I can make a mistake or be criticised and it doesn't directly relate to whether or not I'm a good person?". Mind: blown. Never been so happy or productive. It is unbelievable the freedom you gain from being able to say " yes, that was dumb of me" and realise the world didn't just end. Uncoupling from the (usually invented) "meaning" that you give to other peoples words to actually listen to and respond to those wor…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 05:23 PM
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Sounds like we've had the same week and drawn the same conclusions.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 09:37 AM
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I have 2 good days of OMS and then come back here and realised I'm an ant standing at the bottom of everest. How do you control the anxiety of knowing how open you've left your wife to Chad but you're now so unattractive to her you can't do anything about it for months? I literally have constant tension/indigestion and jangling nerves knowing that play by play I've set this up by being a burden and a passenger. Any tips on clearing the mind of these "what ifs", they are killing my fun vibe and o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 09:18 AM
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Chin up, bar up, keep busy. All the best.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 01:49 PM
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Was gonna say just this. Nice one.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/17 01:56 AM
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Have you done anything to your diet? Any kind of low carb made my moods terrible until I went full keto.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:39 AM
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The reason I know this works 100% is I work from home and pre-MRP I was the one getting pissy and whiny when she'd come home and do the dishes or in general do anything I was "just about to do". Pretty soon my most important job was getting the kitchen tidied by 5:15 before she got home. Shit works because at my lowest I allowed the mrs. to lead a me in exactly the same way.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 09:54 PM
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Buy a coffee machine. Problem solved.
/r/askMRP10/06/17 07:22 PM
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The suggestion to get out is good, if you build a routine of certain trips you will start to bump into the same people each time. I found that little bit of familiarity can be enough to make it much easier to strike up a conversation. No stalking lol, just jog or go out for a paper etc. at the same time each day.
/r/askMRP10/06/17 03:28 PM
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Wow, this post has just connected so many dots for me, thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 12:23 PM
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This. Double win if you're doing something else as it maintains that you're choosing what you're focused on. Even raising a finger to get them to wait, feels weird first couple of times but is totally natural after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 07:19 PM
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It's takes so much practice to stay playful in those situations though, I've made real progress over the past 6 months here but can still just trip straight into the butthurt brigade if I'm not fully concentrating.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 07:09 PM
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