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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Second Divorce	Rant	saywhatonemogdmtime	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 08:09 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What are your distractions? “All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone” - Blaise Pascal. Just give it some time. You’re trying to distract yourself from the pain and escape your own mind, which is understandable but only when facing it head on will you eventually overcome it and climb out of the abyss. Good luck to you man, you can do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 04:45 PM
1	Second Divorce Thank you man! This is sound advice and is a positive (and accurate) way to look at my situation. You nailed it, much appreciated!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 03:48 PM
4	Second Divorce Yeah wish I could go back. Thought maybe it was just a one off with the first one. Not going to get married again though, I think I’ve had enough. It was real, it was fun, but it wasn’t real fun	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/26 06:09 AM
2	Second Divorce Heard that. It was embarrassing enough to have all the same faces at my second wedding (more of a celebratory dinner rather) and LESS THAN 6 MONTHS LATER having to tell them I’m getting divorced again…..what an absolute joke. I just feel like an idiot. Not gonna give up on kids….just gonna be feeling like crap for a while. I might try therapy at least in the short term as much as I’ve blown it off in the past.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 06:30 PM
1	Second Divorce Yeah that’s the only reason I got married in the first place. Otherwise marriage is just a one sided contract where you get screwed if you’re the earner	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 06:26 PM
2	Second Divorce Yeah I know it. This most recent one had existing debt I didn’t know about, didn’t have a job, and called the cops on me at the end….long story. Suffice to say I’m done with this and with anyone in the future that doesn’t have any respect for me as a person and partner. I’d rather be alone. I needed to hear that so thank you for the wake up call	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 06:24 PM
3	Second Divorce I’ve thought about that as a last ditch option. I’d rather find someone first that wants to do the traditional route but we’ll see. Definitely an idea for the future if it comes to it. Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 06:23 PM
6	Second Divorce This is what happened with the second one, 90k in credit card debt. I found out on my own	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/26 06:13 PM