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| 8 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDI genuinely was asking a question but I understand why my comments were so polarizing and received downvotes from the group. Before making a comment, I will ask myself this. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDI agree with you 100%. I think my comment wasn’t the best as I did not see the encouragement at first glance — I shrugged this off as a company giving their customers an either/or option. But I’m still a FDS newbie for a reason, I’m here to learn the subtle nuances in language that I overlook. I appreciate the time you took to respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 13 | Done with my LV bossCongratulations . But it saddens me that we have to deal with these situations. I hope your boss’s boss really steps in and fires him, and more so I hope you do not have to deal with any retaliation over speaking your truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:14 PM |
| -3 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDWait how are they encouraging women to talk to men who commit micro-agressions? The screenshot you shared said they “will take care of it for you“ and “it’s important to know that either way is ok and there is not right or wrong”... Regardless I don’t use dating apps. I understand why some choose to (or not to) go this route. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Tired of people trying to sell this idea that posting half naked pics on instagram is empowering to us girls and womenYeah I agree with you. I do not consider men and their potential thoughts when enjoying a beach day with my girlfriends and photos are captured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:28 AM |
| 20 | Tired of people trying to sell this idea that posting half naked pics on instagram is empowering to us girls and womenI get where you’re coming — If you’re going so far as to being physically sick, I would agree that it is not empowering to post bikini photos. I’m not on IG, but most of the women I know have private pages, regardless of the photos being shared. I don’t think they have ever considered what men think by sharing a beach photo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 25 | This is straight up abuse. If you don’t like that she’s a makeup artist on TikTok, you can just break up with her, you don’t have to call her ugly and attention seeking in the process. Guys can never just leave with dignity, they have to make a whole ass mess out of itLOL she said “I’m going to turn lemons into lemonade” and I am not mad at her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...This was a tough read, nonsense and poor grammar. What a narc who thinks he’s a nice guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 36 | This is straight up abuse. If you don’t like that she’s a makeup artist on TikTok, you can just break up with her, you don’t have to call her ugly and attention seeking in the process. Guys can never just leave with dignity, they have to make a whole ass mess out of itThat guy was absolute trash and I’m glad she’s found out now and she is better without him I might get downvoted, that tiktok video she posted was cringe LOL but I think filming yourself crying and willingly posting on the Internet is attention seeking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 13 | The Vetting Process: A List of Minimum QualificationsToday I learned I am failing at adulting LOL. Joking but I would love to learn more about home maintenance for sure. I don’t currently know how to change a fuse or car things, outside of a quick DIY vanity project. I had a handy dad who would do it all so it just wasn’t needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:36 PM |
| 27 | Has anyone else gotten these? I am disgusted that they want to groom women to think their husband being on a porn site is okay. He said in the ad "it has tons of non-adukt content" NO ONE CARES. IT IS A PORN SITE. EFF OFF!! No husband should be on this site!It really is a terrible and nonsensical ad. I am actually sorry that you have to see them while browsing the web/ Reddit. I hope I my ads remain FDS friendly (even if they are annoying at times ha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 58 | That's what you get when you build a manThe comments ever make sense LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 53 | Has anyone else gotten these? I am disgusted that they want to groom women to think their husband being on a porn site is okay. He said in the ad "it has tons of non-adukt content" NO ONE CARES. IT IS A PORN SITE. EFF OFF!! No husband should be on this site!I agree with the sentiment and your frustration about this advertisement. I personally haven’t seen an advertisement for this website ever. I also make sure to give feedback on unsavory ads, and edit/ delete my stored information through Google, so on. ( I am not excusing the extremely odd advertisement for onlyfans at all ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 50 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.I often try to rationalize the thinking of the women we call “pickme”... but I can’t even do the mental gymnastics that would be required for this comment. I’m genuinely can not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 23 | Just read this thread of a 28 year old man trying to make excuses to why it's okay to have sex and a romantic relationship with a 15 years old. I'm disgusted.The ongoing smear campaigns against FDS, meanwhile they have subreddits for actual pedos to discuss the “sexual agency” of a 15 year old. How gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:25 AM |
| 22 | Screencap, video and meme posting: let's work together to ensure quality!Thank you for this message mods. I stopped checking here as often due to the frequency of memes, screen captures, and TikToks. I just don’t care to comment on every single negative tweet. We all know they are trash on social media so let’s not amplify their platform with reposts and shares. Especially now, it’s draining to scroll through a long feed of negativity towards women ! I agree with a separate FDS spin off subreddit or weekly threads for these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 21 | The only thing this picture tells me is that you probably had a woman slave away in the kitchen for you whilst you sat on your ass for years on end, not lifting a damn finger. She left you and you're now having to get up off that musty pc chair and start doing all the manual labor she once did.I disagree with this post making fun of someone who has lost weight. Correct me if I’m wrong —but this person hasn’t said negative about his wife or women at all; so why we supposed to attack him for getting healthier? I have a lot of friends who get divorced for one reason or another and then get fit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 33 | Another reason why studio Ghibli is better than regular "Anime" that is hyper sexualized and full of "Fan service" for basement dwellers. Regular anime is full of misogyny and portrays women as objects.I had to check the sub because I did not expect this to be posted here haha. But I love Studio Ghibli (and anime period)! I never thought about the attractiveness of the characters to be honest. But I have always loved Miyazaki’s choice for strong female lead characters, many of which are young girls! So awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Rewatching Girlfriends on Netflix and... yikesI loved the show, but I watched a few episodes first when I was a preteen. I re-watched with my girlfriends recently and we were laughing at the cringy moments. I still believe they deserved a proper end. I’m mad it cut off randomly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Be careful when sharing links from TikTok on reddit. A link to your personal TikTok page is also shared at the top of the post.There’s a lot of Tik toks being posted recently, I don’t like having to speed read while a woman dances to a random song. I’m sure I’m in the minority though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 27 | Woman trying to appease menWait how is this to appease men? Star Wars fans are not just men... It just seems like she’s discussing her love of the movies prior to Disney and the mandalorian Excuse me if I’m missing the joke here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:07 AM |
| 156 | Don't let these men use you!Ehhh let him relax. Maybe he’s just tired from not working all day! /s 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 13 | The ultimate LVMI hate that I thought their on and off relationship was romantic in my teens. In a “girl standing in front of a boy asking him to love her” kind of way! “Pick me.. choose me... love me!” Oh Shonda | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:28 AM |
| 43 | I hope they picked her. 😒No they don’t. Simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:55 AM |
| 62 | Yea...I got your joke Ijust didn't like itA joke with no punchline. How dreadful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:18 AM |
| 37 | Broke up with him after months of pain. He didn't earned it. I know my value now.I love her! The laugh gets me everytime. A talented queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 12 | 27F who deleted all of my dating apps and social mediaI deleted my social media in college, just didn’t like it. It was an odd adjustment but my friends send all the memes anyway. I lasted on dating apps for 3 months, before I deleted them as well. Prior to the pandemic, I found most either through friends/acquaintances, social events, or in fun classes that I would take on the weekend (I met an awesome man in a pottery class!) You won’t be alone forever and I agree with others about changing your mindset on that front. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:51 AM |
| 35 | Stop letting men down "nicely"Absolutely! I only have dates that are in public spaces. I responded with the misinterpretation that this was about men approaching women in public spaces (that’s my fault). From the grocery store to the gas station and even work, these are not places I can avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 118 | Stop letting men down "nicely"I do the soft rejections when I’m alone because I’d prefer not to be retaliated against, followed, assaulted, murdered. But I agree 100% that “No” is a complete sentence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 05:46 AM |
| 11 | What are good OLD sites?I only tried bumble and had to sort through heaps of trash to find a potential gem. In all, I’d agree that they are all pretty bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 48 | Women have a genuine cause of fear while dating but men, oh men, they're scared that somehow a woman will order all the expensive food and not even wet his D.I hope she is OK and pulls through. I hope her family is OK. This is a very unsettling situation for a person to go through. I will keep Malvi in my thoughts ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:50 PM |
| 132 | Gag.Thank you for the context, because I was very confused. While it’s a parody, I wish I had only 400$ in monthly expenditures! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 66 | Apparently calling out men when they post dumb sexists and racists comics is 'shaming' them 🙄Age is not a predictor of emotional stability. Regardless, likening women (actual human being) to being damaged dolls (a product) is tragic and low value in and of its self. Anti feminist are obsessed with controlling women and it’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:22 PM |
| 78 | If a man sees doing something for you as a dreadful task, DON’T give him the time of day.Someone once said “that’s basically a long distance relationship” when he asked where I lived while planning a first date. We live about 15 miles from one another. I blocked immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Don’t fall for the representative, it’s usually a performance at first.One of the best things I learned from FDS. So simple ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 13 | These fly out stories never end well and these women never learn....Voice messages in Imessage. Men do this so a person can’t screen capture what they said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 46 | Nah, sis. This is just sad.Lmao she has to be joking. This is comedy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 34 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkYikes and yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 25 | LVM Bitching About Paying $20 For A MealHe should be embarrassed. Sitting here doing math at the table and arguing with a woman to get out of paying $20 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How I never had a bad first date! (Except one)Oops! Love this advice so I’ll be waiting until things open back up and get back out there 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 15 | Wall? What wall?!Yes, from Botox to fillers and certain laser treatments. My friend hosted a botox party for her 30th. My coworker had a mini facelift (she looks great). I got roped by my esthetician friend and a bought one of those expensive LED facial mask things (spoiler, it does nothing 😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 16 | The news should have reported this as: "Lucky lady gets low value meal, effort and proposal all in one!" CoNgRaTs tO tHe hApPy cOuPLe tHoUgH 🥴Lmao I genuinely cry at all the dating profiles that have some variation of “swipe left if you don’t like sushi” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | How I never had a bad first date! (Except one)I know this is posted somewhere but how has COVID affected your strategy if at all? I live in an area that still pretty locked down so people aren’t out and about. It’s my first time on OLD and yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 9 | How I never had a bad first date! (Except one)I always excuse myself to the restroom to “freshen up” so they can pay and tell them I’ll meet them outside or at the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Women in Other CulturesI can’t wait until my book club resumes. We tend to pick up a few good woman empowering books! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 12 | Wall? What wall?!Oh shoot I’m sorry! 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 15 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.Thank you for donating, that’s amazing!! I know some don’t have money to donate. There are other meaningful things people can do like be a true ally offline, vote for causes that create equity, talk to those in your life who have different views and call out their behavior when they say/do something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 78 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.This is exhausting and embarrassing. I have friends “buting” this mess in the grext. “I don’t agree with what he did BUT... blah blah blah”. I’m not listening to this stunt and putting money directly into his pocket. To me, this is an abusive, poor excuse for a man who is taunting his victim publicly. If he really needs to “clear his innocent name” he would do it through legal channels and show that he takes it seriously. Not make a damn album to make money like he’s doing here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 39 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteI’m not in social media (except Reddit) and this hurts to read. I can’t believe people actually think this in this in the current day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 18 | Stay awareThis was me as a late teen, I’m embarrassed but I have since found the light! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 158 | Wall? What wall?!I don’t agree here. I don’t think this is a good argument against ageism, nor should it fall on these altered photos celebs with access to copious amounts of “anti-aging” treatments. Women should be able to do what they want to do with their bodies. I have friends (20s/30s) who are undergoing misguided preventative cosmetic procedures to uphold the idea that they “won’t age”. With that being said, I agree that the wall argument is nonsensical. There is nothing wrong with aging and the natural pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 14 | Bought this for myself while preparing for my job interviewsGood luck! You’re going to smash the interview! And the flowers are beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 32 | Is this just part of the culture now? What are you’re thought a women who use these kind of names? To each their own or do you think it’s wrong and degrading?This is definitely a porn thing, and it’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 41 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.That’s a great point about the subtle, implicit message of accepting dates after a poor first “attempt” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 61 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.I stopped giving them an opportunity to take two after a lot effort date has been offered. I politely decline and then cease communication. I’m also metropolitan city with wayyy too much to do - there is no reason for men not to put men best foot forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 23 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedTo answer her question, yes. Now where do we go from here? If a man can’t buy his own gaming system, I highly doubt he could afford a $3K plus designer handbag. So that NVM who started a social media begging campaign and I are not playing the same game, we aren’t even in the same arena. NEXT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 36 | Man takes a woman on a walking date and she calls him over later to try to initiate sex.... This can’t be real. We’ve found Queen Pickme!Lmao that is the best part for me! He left because he had to go to the gym the next day Oh what a fictional tale we weave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 22 | "hE iS hUmAn": pickme vs. random guy's perspective on these kind of liesI really struggle to neg or put down other women, because I just don’t know what they have been through... But when I see nonsense like this, I just dont understand why women do this.. This situation happen in my friend group last year and I was the voice of reason (aka leave him now), I was admonished for being “too young blah blah wait until I get into my 30s blah blah blah people makes mistakes”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute leastI figured they were at a beach /tropical vacation as well. I guess as a FDS newbie I’m not seeing this automatically makes him a lvm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 21 | What about STI tests?I had a guy I was dating tell me he couldn’t tested because he didn’t have health insurance.. this was after his retort of “I was going to use a condom!” 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?I love how Russell adores her and their children so publicly and proudly. It might be a smidge “performative”, but I don’t care it’s adorable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 19 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸Who gave them the idea that holding random babies would be suitable for a dating profile? I just assumed there’s a “male dating strategy” that got it very, very wrong... I just can’t imagine that child consented to having their face on a man’s dating profile with “just looking for someone real. NoT My Kid😆😝” in their about me. KNOCK IT OFF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I agree with you. This seems like a large over generalization. I also don’t like cats. I was attacked by a friend’s cat when I was 8 at a sleepover. Scratches all over my face and arms, it was unsettling. I guess her cat was jealous of my awesome Pocahontas sleeping bag shrug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:40 PM |
| 17 | The bar is so low it’s literally in hell. Tired of LVM online.Ugh I just got this from someone. Then wanted to say I was “Friend zoning” him 😒😒😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:42 AM |
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