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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The "We" Frame I don't know why you're getting downvoted. If someone's takeaway from this is to use "we" in every scenario regardless of situation, it can definitely be weird. That being said, I do like using "Let's grab drinks etc etc". I feel like it's less intrusive while still has the same "we frame".	/r/seduction	28/06/16 04:58 AM
1	Smashed last night! If anything, this is an example of the fact that it doesn't matter what you say on the approach.	/r/seduction	17/04/16 05:46 PM
1	Finally got over the girl Why do you have to stop being friends? If you are really over her, then you can just be her friend.	/r/seduction	17/04/16 05:36 AM
19	How do I start a date? Hug, kiss, hello, etc? How do I escalate it? I always prefer to hug upon first seeing her to immediately start kino and make both of us comfortable with touch (avoiding it just makes it more awkward). You can compliment, but I don't think it's necessary. Don't overthink the details. Like godurdagur said, just start with normal conversation "how was your day so far?" and go from there. Don't worry about going in with questions memorized or planned, just let it happen naturally by listening and responding to what she is saying. I'm not sure …	/r/seduction	16/04/16 02:33 AM
1	Is changing the location of a first date the day before a bad idea? I prefer to start with a bar for the first date.. one that isn't so loud that you have to yell. Many here will recommend a venue where you can sit 90 degrees from each other for kino, but I really prefer side-by-side seating (such as being seated at a bar or couch), then turning my body slightly to face her. This makes kino extremely natural and easy because your arm ends up resting on your backrest with your hand close to her. Here you can do the initial arm-touch-while-laughing type kino. It's…	/r/seduction	09/12/15 05:55 AM
3	Have a date in a town I don't know, advice needed Google best date spots in ____ and top attractions in ____. I even do this for the city I've been living in for 6 years. Find new places this way then look at the photos in/around the place to see if it'd be a good spot. I use Google map's thing where you can look around the inside of a bar/cocktail place to see if it has the vibe I want and has the tables, couches, etc set up in a way that makes kino easy.	/r/seduction	26/11/15 05:52 PM

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