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| 1 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotI replied to another comment but I do wanna put out there that there isn't a certain time you need to have relationships/sex by. There's no countdown for men unless you impose one on yourself (for women there's a countdown for having kids but besides that it's all in your head). Besides, everyone has different sexual desires so if experience is your concern just know there's gonna be some learning involved with a new person no matter how much sex you've had. Good communication skills is the more… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotI agree with aspects of this but not the roasting/provocation stuff unless that's a natural part of your personality. I'm just not that sort of person and I've had a lot more luck lately by being more conscious of what I do and don't say, and generally being more attentive. Messaging first and simply demonstrating that you paid attention to something on their profile or something they said that gives them easy ideas for how to respond is a good start. A little wit is nice sometimes. Depends a lo… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 08:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Mmm yeah that's rough. I think it's pretty common for this to happen. I grew up in a very conservative town and their unhealthy relationship values rubbed off on me for a while. I later realized these ideas were weighing me down and causing me to self sabotage. It takes some mental and emotional effort to overcome that kinda stuff. Reflecting on where those values come from, whether they are grounded in reality, and whether they make sense for you and your happiness is a worthwhile exercise. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't see the problem with someone having a lot of past partners or sexual encounters. It's probably worth asking yourself why it specifically matters to you. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Speaking from experience, it's probably not that you have boyfriend vibes. It's that you didn't set clear enough boundaries and expectations upfront, and from a scientific perspective have been physically intimate enough times (doesn't always take very much) for feelings to develop from physiological attachment, which is a hard-wired biological mechanism for humans (yes, even for you). It's likely all about what you're choosing *not* to say. If there isn't clarity, it gives people false hopes so… | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:08 PM |
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