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I see so many profiles for women age 45 and up that say "sarcasm, banter spoken freely" Followed by take me on a boat, up for adventure. Yeah. This is the dance monkey dance and entertain me routine. Also, you are paying for my "spa weekends" that i mentioned in the profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/23 09:40 PM
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I went out with a woman who was 49, attractive for her age and after a few weeks she started the "my daughter has always wanted to go to a big college and have the college life!" I was like oh thats nice, how is it going?" Is she working? getting scholarships etc etc etc?" Her answer was "no, we are just going to hope the right situation arises. " It occurred to me that i may be the arising situation. I now have a new fear unlocked. Paying for a woman's kid to go to college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/23 02:05 PM
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Yeah that too. I had to pay over $4K a month post divorce. Both of my girls didnt even stay at home those three years before they came to live with me when they turned 18 as my X was so pissed about leaving her she made my life hell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/23 04:02 AM
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Wow, where do i sign up? Two kids, never married and now the "nice guy" gets all the leftovers. leftover kids, leftover sex drive, leftover emotions from being pumped and dumped, leftover trauma. Then to top it off. He can work two jobs and pay for her to take care of kids who will never love him as they do their real dad and she who will never let him be a real father to the kids except for the paycheck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 03:42 PM
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Inevitably all of them by the 2nd or 3rd date. I am now realizing that this is their way to see if they will "settle" for me. As in, I am 6'2", own my home, have a good job but have gained some weight over the last few years. I think the salary thing is a "Can i be entertained on his budget until i find someone i want to fuck". I am not very fuckable from the start. I get that and have accepted this is true. I don't push the sexual part but i can sense the lack of desire by the 2 or 3rd date and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/23 05:39 PM
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Ive worked in churches for 30yrs. If 20yo me knew what i know now.... Everything from the "women who come to church at 25 with 1-3 kids from some schlep and then is "washed clean by the LORD" a Virgin bride in the eyes of the Lord. And she will find a "nice guy" who will think she is His Beloved given to him by God and then I watch him over the years as he works two jobs to support her kids and her being a "stay at home mom" who is also independent and needs her "mental health days" because he i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 05:25 PM
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As a 53yo man on the dating scene this is about 90% of all women in my area. I am 6'2" so i get a large number of hits, I also have my stats from the female delusional calculator which outs me at .062% of the population. And yet even these women find that I dont meet up to their 300K salary. Oh you love to travel? So does the rest of the fucking population! Its just that it cost money. So Yeah she is a 50yo woman who thinks she is a boss babe and wants the top 1% of the 1%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 04:53 PM
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Expects you to pay all bills, and dinners because the patriarchy shifts towards you. Unemployable so will make trinkets while you work two jobs so she can stay home for her mental health. You will not only work two jobs but will be doing most housework because patriarchy trauma and "her mental health". I was married to the christian version of this for 20yrs. RUN
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/23 04:31 AM
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jesus, looks 50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 04:15 AM
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You missed the "Vertical Mambo" activity she selected. As a 53yo man, i see these types all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 03:03 AM
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How true you are, sir
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 07:21 PM
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All Women want is my money. ( As i walk into the strip club with a pocket full of ones ).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/22 04:38 PM
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She is a single mother trying to date the top 4% of men on a dating app and surprised its not going well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 10:33 PM
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Im in a few small groups with women like this. She 100% was going for a top level chad because other guys are invisible to her. An average guy would take her and her kid no problem, but she wants a top level guy. She has been told all her life how beautiful she is and she will accept nothing less. At 53, Im done dating after being married for 20yrs. Its just not worth the trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/22 08:46 PM
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I overheard her telling my sister that she had been with over a hundred men before me. This was 1995. Met her at church! Of course. Born again virgin. I was thinking i was going to have insane sex with this hot girl. Nope. We get married and its starfish sex. 20yrs of starfish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 05:23 PM
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Oh my young men, take it from my bad experience. This woman is trouble. I M53 married into this type at 25. I did the whole raise her kid thing also. She made me conform to every standard. She never held any other man to. I was the sucker who thought I would have access to sex whenever I wanted. This is a fucking trap that needs to be avoided at all cost
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 03:27 PM
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Boys are very protective on moms. Also no hormonal boy is going to out up with another man in the house. Ive watched 3 of my work guys go through with this. All led to cops being called and ultimately divorce
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/22 08:17 AM
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I M53 here have several LA friends that look like her. Two of my friends this age are 40+ and gorgeous still. They are still dating Chads who will not commit to them, they complain how these guys wont commit and yet how they can still Get these gorgeous guys in bed. Other men are invisible to them. She only wants the Chad who has no intent of being with her. I did two years in a relationship course with women like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 01:58 PM
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I agree. I think its time i got off my fat ass and got serious about this area of my life. Ive done good on my finances post divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 12:11 AM
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I have gained weight during Covid my matches have definitely dropped this year. women want absolute perfection because even these 40 50, 60 year olds are getting constant praises on dating sites and they think that they are 9-10's.Especially here in Southern California, many women look fantastic "for their age" but think they are still hot like a 25yo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 09:43 PM
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lol this! I dont deal with any women with Teenage or 20 something Sons. Its a nightmare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:53 PM
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Nice! I may go that route. Ive gained weight since covid. Back into working out last month. I want to be fit by End of Year
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:51 PM
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I have a job where I had high potential of getting Covid. Now that its passed, I am just getting back into some of my LA group activities. But I agree. Its cheeper to do that than to date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:50 PM
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As a M53 who is on Bumble who dates occasionally this attitude continues past mid 50's, even in thier 60's if they are attractive for their age. She put her height because she wants a 6' or taller guy. As a 6'2" tall man with all of my hair i do get a higher number of matches for my age range of 45-55. They are all insufferable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 04:11 PM
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I have paid plumbers a total of $3000 this year for repairs. They never stayed more than a few hours. Independent plumbers are making a killing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/22 04:08 PM
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Mens online therapy groups during Covid were the best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/22 01:00 AM
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I had a male member of our small group who at the height of his obesity at 620lbs, would get men from adult sites to bring him fast food orders for a BJ as he was unable to leave his living room. He had 2-4 men a day coming to his place with food for years. Never underestimate a mans desire for sexual encounters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/22 12:53 PM
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Two full time jobs, I did 2. 20yrs i worked because she was unable/unwilling to work. Then when i got home i cooked and cleaned because she was "exhausted". And Yes, she was the high school slut and we met at church after her 2marriage failed. I was a practically a virgin and had never dated. At 53 i wish i could talk to my younger self
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/22 02:47 PM
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I actually said " that a man in his healthy masculinity wants to care and protect the feminine as a natural order of things" She reiterated she doesn't need a man to take care of her. She lacked many things, including her sense of reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/22 07:29 PM
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I like that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/22 07:25 PM
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She actually made a comment that she is OK to be by herself. That she will "figure it out" if she got sick again. More than likely she would find a man to take care of her again and them leave him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/22 07:24 PM
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I am 53 and went on my 3rd date this year yesterday. She was also 53. Nice looking for her age. Cute, petite and wore a nice dress. We had a 2hr coffee date and actually had a great conversation. A few things she said during our conversation made me realize how insane the standards for her were. 1. She makes $200K a year and wants someone who make the same or better. 2. I am 6'2" and she made a comment that she was glad i didn't lie about my height. 3. She said several times "I don't need a man …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 02:10 PM
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Thank You!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/22 03:50 PM
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Hey stop reading my secret journals. JK. 6yrs free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 04:52 PM
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So i get to be her last priority, after the dog and the father of her kids of course. Pay all bills, (food included). Send her kids to school, then college. Then they hate me because i am "not their dad". Then wake up at 50 and realize my whole life was a lie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 04:04 AM
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Wholy shit this is 100% accurate in my opinion. I mean you fucking nailed it on the head. I subscribed to all of the youtube channels you just mentioned and then just unsubscribed. This morning, i was thinking that the information these guys present is factual but inaccurate when it comes to the end game. My end game is to be in a loving, nurturing and kind relationship but not be the mushy piece of self deprecating milk toast ive been in the past. Great post, great insight.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 12:51 PM
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She deleted the account. But the internet lives on.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/20 03:48 AM
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Progressive here. I am voting progressing in every election I can and then for Trump. Fuck everybody and I will love to see them all fight it out cage match style.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/20 11:49 PM
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He did an interview with Joe Rogan. Whole shit that guy went through sooo much.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/04/20 01:33 AM
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Or as Dane Cook calls it “Tom Foolery”
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/20 11:57 PM
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Because I would come home and she would just do everything crazy and sexual all of the house. We did it everywhere and it just wasn’t vanilla sex, we pushed some serious boundaries with each other. Physical and emotionally. It was awesome. One night I let her scream and slap and cry and I growled like a lunatic for hours. The next day she said she was the happiest she has ever felt. It was nuts...
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 03:46 PM
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I agree, all my girls are beautiful and great. And yes she did pay the bills etc, what she was dishonest about was the 1500.00/month online shopping that she did and hid the clothes all over the house. Most were not ever opened. For me It’s a progress. It took me awhile to be OK with spending anything on myself. It took two years and excruciating painful feet to finally buy shoes that don’t hurt my feet.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 03:44 PM
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A work in progress. Counseling in any form is wonderful. I love cognitive therapy myself. Also did a bunch of brain washing cultish shit in LA and each time I either broke free from an old thought, or gained a new tool to use. I noticed that being a victim is easy for me so I specifically wrote down what my part was in each incident that I was resentful for. Even if I didn’t have a part. For instance as a kid I was beaten mercilessly by both parents. Now I didn’t have a part in it, but the way I…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 03:41 PM
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My two oldest tell me almost everything. My youngest is 18 and she is like “I’m not telling you shit”....
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 02:38 PM
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That’s awesome. I believed it. I look back now and feel like I was another person. My only regret is the 20yrs of just working two jobs and having nothing to show for it. No vacations no house nothing. My last 10yrs in the marriage I made over 100K a year and I still wore $20.00 shoes from Costco and now my feet are all fucked up. By the way, she went on “Mission Trips” every year to different countries. You know, for Jesus.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 02:36 PM
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Not sure what a simp Is but it’s sounds right. I was not in a good place. Now I am. Agreed, never again.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 02:31 PM
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13, 16, and 29. It was rough after I left. Teenagers have just a terrible time anyways. But now they live with me. I am super happy in that aspect.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:18 PM
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My X girlfriend ( we still talk) was overweight in her 30’s and lost weight and looked amazing by 40. I’ve written about this before but I would come to visit and she wore all these crazy outfits and we had chandelier sex... ( basically crazy sex everywhere and anywhere in any area of the house or position.) super confidence building....
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:16 PM
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That fear of being alone and unloved was sooo hard to get over even at the time with all of the self help work I did it was hard to step out.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:13 PM
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Nope, we were involved in church so we were doing good in gods eyes. She eventually became hardcore charismatic and In the end of I wanted to have sex she would allow it “because god says to, not because she wanted to” lol....
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:12 PM
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It was a nice letter. :). I learned that arguing with her made no difference so why ever start. I kept the letter on word and printed it out on the printer for her.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:04 PM
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Yep. Exactly this. My X stopped working after she got pregnant and never returned. Even with the kids in school and then when they were teenagers she spent her days shopping and with friends.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:02 PM
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Exactly this! It becomes familiar. My mom was a compulsive shopper and was always in huge debt and finances were always aweful. Even when my sister and I got full time jobs and gave her all the money. We were broke and never made rent. I just married someone with the same issue. At one point in our marriage I was working three jobs and brought home 12K a month but we only had 3K in expenses and we didn’t have money for groceries.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 01:00 PM
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Yes, when guys treat her nice, she will literally just get out of the car or get super defensive and dump them. She told me when a guy is nice to her, she would instantly distrust him. Her first boyfriend at 16 that she still goes back to ( for the last 35yrs) hit her on the first date for looking out the window. Tortured her for hours most nights. She still loves him...
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 12:56 PM
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I agree 100%. Also you can check my post history. It’s all real. I now believe every day we make a 1000 decisions that determine our life. I was just stuck digging the same whole day after day saying “today is going to be different, only to keep digging the same whole.” Self doubt can be debilitating, a cancer of the mind that makes you think you have no other option. Today I make different choices and looking for a healthy relationship. When you grow up being told your a piece of shit and no on…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 06:55 AM
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Lol. Ok funny thing is my three daughters have been asking me to leave for years. I played it off as “Well that’s just your mom” etc etc. but in the end, it was my eldest that was like. “You need to leave, this is aweful”
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 06:44 AM
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Something that helped early on when I first left. I wrote down all of the shitty things she did; and that list was long. I Then wrote down what my part was. It really helped me not make her the bad guy, and helped me take accountability for my part and not have any bitterness towards her. An example; no matter how much I made; 60K to 160K. We were always $20K in debt. Our whole marriage. My paycheck from both jobs went into her account which I had no card to nor had any idea what was the balance…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 06:00 AM
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So she is 53 and still very hot for her age. I divorce her and we did mediation which took about two and a half years. Paid 4K in Alimony and child support for one kid. Divorced was finalized and she gets remarried 3months later. Never happier in my life. I am now 4K richer and she has a new guy to pull this shit on.... :) happiness is not only what you get, but also what you don’t. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 05:43 AM
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Uhg. I was married for 20yrs. She was my first girlfriend and I was her 3rd husband. I will Admit, I am Not that great looking ( overweight and so so looks) and having a hot piece of ass is great for the ego when we were out in public. It’s never worth it and it took me 20yrs of being miserable to make a change. My wife used to brag she had been with 100’s of guys, how hot she was etc etc etc. we get married and I think I am going to marry into this great sexual dynamo. Nope. We get married and …
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 05:29 AM
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This occurs also in the mainstream Christian church where there are complete weekends dedicated to "How to treat your wife better." Yet there has never been a weekend dedicated to how to treat your husband better. What i see quite honestly is that many men will do everything "right" but get nothing in return ( because a woman is always right and anything that goes wrong is because HE either did something or didn't do something) . Many times they seem to have given up hope and gone into porn and …
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