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if you have to ask the question of “if you should” while you are on a couch amongst peers… the answer is no. She might be into it. She might be into it but not around peers. She might be into it, but not in public. Give her a ride home afterwards and make your move then, or something.
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:27 AM
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dont fix what isn’t broken. escalate when you are alone. unless you think a blanket and couchtime will cover you for some grab ass. lol. otherwise take the win. get her number. take her to a bar or pizza or boba after the movie. except just ask her to do those things, but take her to your place instead
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:25 AM
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have you considered cuddling her back? hold her hand?
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:20 AM
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one last piece here: These lines from your post speak volumes to me about this being a social/emotional/intimiacy issue, not a sexual one: 1 "I go out with friends regularly, and they’ve tried to give me advice and introduce me to women, but I always end up avoiding the situation." 2 "The fear grows stronger, and obviously, I can't just tell a woman that I've never had a girlfriend or any dating experience, because by now, most women have already accumulated a lot of experience just by being wom…
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:21 AM
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My $.02: • you have deep emotional trauma's, i'm sure from the bullying, but also likely from things elsewhere in your past • no matter what the root cause is, you have not yet found the right therapist to workshop those issues with you. going to a therapist and saying here is what is going in with me is no different than writing six paragraphs on a subreddit saying here is what is going on with me. the difference is that therapists are licensed, and that yes, you have to look them in the face, …
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:21 AM
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you been overly detailed about ASL here but if you are not in a major metropolitan area then it will be tough. that kind of situation is already searching for a needle in a haystack. your best bet may be to book a weekend trip to LA / Vegas / NY and set up meetings in advance. outside of that I would suggest Fetlife and search for munches that are less kink-oriented and more group play oriented. again, if you are not in/near a major city that will be tough. good luck!
/r/seduction30/11/24 09:04 PM
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you guys need to be on Feeld
/r/seduction30/11/24 08:57 PM
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i agree - the virtuous path is the honest path. those two books are all about pretending to be something you are not.
/r/seduction07/03/24 07:27 AM
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How to embrace being an integrated masculine male in today's society, how to be up front with women and honest about what you are looking for, how to own one's sexual desires and not be ashamed about it, how to present those things in a straight forward way and not feel bashful in doing so and not take it personally when it's not reciprocated. Models in particular was a life changing book. Mark also wrote a book you've probably heard of - "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck"
/r/seduction06/03/24 10:51 PM
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you need to read two books. No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and, Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction06/03/24 06:25 AM
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ELI5? please?! the women with bigger gaits longer strides etc have been laid more often?
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:20 PM
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this is the best comment in this thread
/r/seduction04/12/13 07:15 AM
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i book marked this thread. i work in a high-pressure, high-stress industry, and really don't have time to really read and delve into the big books.... the things on the sidebar... i just don't. so i glean what i can, when i can. i also can't count the # of times i say to people when they're beginning a story, "just gimme the bullet points dude!" ... no patience or time ... i feel like i have learned more in these bullet points than i have in months of thumbing through stuff on this sub. you've g…
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:26 AM
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how long does that take though?
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:08 AM
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i think you mean swim before you crawl
/r/seduction03/09/13 10:58 PM
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gotta crawl before you walk
/r/seduction03/09/13 10:26 PM
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takes game fun out of it
/r/seduction21/12/12 08:19 AM
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ATTA FUCKIN BOY BRO! ATTA FUCKIN BOY!
/r/seduction15/10/12 06:16 AM
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dude.... how'd it go tonight bro?
/r/seduction15/10/12 06:09 AM
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Dude... grammar dude. I just read that like 15 times and I still can't figure out exactly what happened.
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:10 PM
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I always say "if they smoke, they poke" ;-)
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:11 AM
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Why is this downvoted? Props to you for making your system work, bro.
/r/seduction11/05/12 10:10 PM
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