scammingladdy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How can I develop a social life? Amen brother :)	/r/seduction	16/06/16 08:45 PM
2	How can I develop a social life? The finding your hobby part is so key, once you are out of college. I also do martial arts (Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) and it really puts you in an automatic community of like minded people who are interested in the same things as you. You guys train together every week and quickly make a lot of new friends to hang out with. Edit: first it starts out as just training together, then maybe grabbing dinner/lunch/drink after training, then an exciting UFC or boxing match happens one weekend so you end up …	/r/seduction	16/06/16 02:03 PM
1	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour agreed	/r/seduction	15/06/16 03:24 AM
2	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour I agree that we inherently prefer people we see ourselves in the same "groups" as. There are actually very interesting psych studies on that, and that sort of "group think" was a major part of our survival for a long time. To say it's a racism that's written in our DNA I believe is a bit of a cop out tho. I do think that's the way things are now, but I also believe things are changing where the race factor will matter less. It's inevitable really, as globalization will always progress.	/r/seduction	10/06/16 03:59 AM
3	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour I have zero attraction to black girls, and my two best friends from Sudan are black. Are you saying i'm a super-racist No. I said you can be someone who is not racist (essentially), but have preferences that are due to deep seated racism, at a subconscious level. Thinking black is not beautiful is racist. I'm not accusing you of being racist, but lets face it, saying I have zero attraction to black girls Sounds pretty racist, does it not? How do you think black girls would feel saying that to th…	/r/seduction	10/06/16 12:06 AM
1	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour Large-scale "preferences" like these are a subconscious racism. You may not be overtly racist, but your preference not to mate with a minority or a specific race shows a deep-seated attitude you have about that race or the idea that you ultimately won't want to have a child with them. There is a reason you're not attracted to certain race. I will admit, I have preferences as well, my limited attraction to african-american women for example, shows a deep-seated prejudice that I hold. Am I overtly…	/r/seduction	09/06/16 08:40 PM
4	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour Yes, asian men do typically have a harder time hooking up outside their race. That doesn't mean its not possible though, or that this instance is fake. Not necessarily directing this comment at you, since I feel like you are playing devils advocate. On a side note, very interesting article, true to many minorities experiences.	/r/seduction	09/06/16 06:59 PM
28	Japanese guy in Europe: pulls sexy girl from street in 1 hour As a japanese person, i resent this comment. Overall our english isnt great, but there are lots of people who can speak good english. I wouldnt even call this guys english good. And re: the english accent -- maybe his english teacher was British. Idk, who cares about that detail. He even states he lives in japan. What i find most annoying about your comment however is the part where you assume hes not a normal japanese dude because he seems to have confidence. Wtf kind of generalization is that?…	/r/seduction	09/06/16 06:19 PM
8	Unspoken Rules of Texting Emoji's are not just for girls and if you think they make you girly, sounds like you are being insecure. Texts inherently lack tonality, emotion, inflection, or any non-verbal cue that vastly changes what is simply being written. Emoji's are great for conveying emotion or tonality that could be misinterpreted only through texts. For example ;) is great for conveying that you are being cheeky, flirtatious or that you are kidding. It can add a lot to a joke that might otherwise be misinterpreted a…	/r/seduction	05/01/16 10:27 AM
2	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? Thank you.	/r/seduction	20/12/15 03:02 AM
6	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? Did you not see the part where i said "besides things like genital warts"?	/r/seduction	19/12/15 02:34 PM
13	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? Don't think so. I've taken many sex ed classes (even recently before graduating college). We'll both agree that condomless sex with an untrusted partner is a bad idea, yes. But think about what's going on with oral for a second. DIRECT exchange of bodily fluids, you are literally swallowing whatever situation she has down there. All of that bacteria/virus right into your body. Thats about as unprotected as it gets. Even bareback, you only have one small hole as a point of entry for anything unwa…	/r/seduction	19/12/15 02:27 PM
11	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? not sure whats with the downvotes, solid joke imo.	/r/seduction	19/12/15 02:15 PM
51	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? Not usually, but it depends. Honestly, I do love to go down on girls, but for the first time or a ONS I usually don't as you really have no idea what her history is and what she's got going on down there. Be safe man. Just because it doesn't smell bad doesn't mean there can't be plenty of STD's down there. I save going down for once I can be more sure its safe. Going down is more intense then condomless sex, STD wise.	/r/seduction	19/12/15 11:55 AM
66	How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it? ...well your dick has a condom, so that's not a great rule.	/r/seduction	19/12/15 11:51 AM
3	I'm a piece of shit, just turned 26 and still a virgin. I need some fucking help. Hey dude, reading over your post I don't think it's stuff here that's going to help you. You have internal stuff going on that I think you should talk to a therapist about. I know what you're thinking, therapy is for weirdos and psycho's: it's not. There's an unnecessary stigma agains't it, a lot of "normal" people could really benefit from it. You've said it yourself: social anxiety. Deep psychlogical block that comes from years of avoiding social interactions (I come from a poor family, always…	/r/seduction	17/12/15 06:08 AM
2	how to politely excuse yourself from a date with a girl you're not into Yes it matters. Don't be a dick, that's why.	/r/seduction	02/02/15 10:29 PM
6	Good Links/Books on reading body language? The Definitive book of body language by Barbara and Allan Pease. Fantasically-easy read. I first read it maybe in the 8th grade. Can be bought here: http://www.amazon.com/The-Definitive-Book-Body-Language/dp/0553804723 I also found an online pdf version: http://e-edu.nbu.bg/pluginfile.php/331752/mod_resource/content/0/Allan_and_Barbara_Pease_-_Body_Language_The_Definitive_Book.pdf	/r/seduction	02/02/15 10:16 PM
5	Three tips you would give yourself on your first date Always show up happy, with a smile. That can mean meditating beforehand if needed. Always have a plan for the date. Go somewhere you have been before where you will be in your element, and you can be assured is a good spot. Don't be afraid to escalate touch. Sexual jokes are also good. Bonus: Just treat her like you'd treat your friends!	/r/seduction	14/05/14 04:20 AM
8	6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better person You hate yourself because you don't do anything. Not even you can just "love you for you" Can't expect to find an SO if all you are is a value leech. Very nicely put.	/r/seduction	17/12/12 10:40 PM
2	Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help. I never said don't stop talking to women altogether. However, I guess i never said keep on honing your social skills with women either, so you raise a legitimate concern. Yes, OP even though i never explicitly said it, keep talking to women (or possibly in your case start talking to more women). With that said, lets get something straight. I was commenting regarding his statement on dating women, not meeting women. Talking, hitting on and even hooking up with people is a very different dynamic f…	/r/seduction	23/07/12 09:02 AM
30	Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help. Let me tell you something regarding I want a girlfriend This may not apply to you completely, but really consider it. You say you want a girlfriend, but what are you doing to get one? Many guys feel this way, and they also think they'd be a good boyfriend. But do you have any idea why you'd make a good boyfriend? Ponder that for a second. Many guys want a girlfriend simply because they think it will make them feel better; like having a girlfriend would make everything right with the world. If th…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 01:46 PM
7	47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) How about read, and actually go out into the field? As they say, the people who read, read, read, and keep reading are just key-board jockeys who've never really tested their metal in the field; which just so happens to actually be the best place to learn. Just throw yourself in that situation, which seem uncomfortable to you. Expand your comfort zone. Word of advice though, (not necessarily directed at you, more to the OP), know how to handle blow outs. Don't ruminate in failure, it's all about…	/r/seduction	09/06/12 10:12 AM