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| 1 | Roosh in Toronto. Did he really say rape should be legal? | scamper_22 | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 05:22 PM |
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| 21 | Mother Just Confirmed TRPthis right here. women are women. mother, sister... doesn't matter. but they don't act the same. your mom knew you had to act like a man so she made a good hard choice. my own mom talked shit and manipulated us to isolate our father. it's quite frankly sick in retrospect. and she didn't make those hard calls your mom made. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:53 AM |
| 7 | Hostile reaction to giving redpill advicedefinitely. you can definitely talk to friends and give advice, but once you enter theory land, you might as well be a religious preacher. you will only make sense to the converted. in this case, his friend is already hit hard by his wife's request. advice is supporting his feeling of feeling disrespected. advice is telling him not to think him doing more chores will make things better. advice is telling him he has lost his wifes respect. those are all things any one can understand and have him … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts from the Anger Phaseyeah i did because it's not the point and has a lot of cultural context. i used to be obsessed with it before i realized it was not the problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts from the Anger Phasedef a blessing to find in early. imagine being 30+ and seeing the world in new eyes. i was pretty jaded in my 20s and already had a sad view of relationships and marriage. i was seeing this girl around 30. seemed so nice. there was one catch and a big mistake i made. i asked her one important question for me. not her virginity. family related. i was still hp thinking u express urself... i basically tell her this is so important it will kill me. she says no no no...for like a year. then as soon a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What It’s Like to Go Through Life As a Really Beautiful WomanThis is really one of the best things about being a top male. A top male builds a group of other followers who are generally happy to see him rise. I was never the top male, but I always wanted them to do better. To put it crudely, if we went out and he was hot/successful and able to attract a good group of girls, at least I could get one of the other girls. I was genuinely happy that I could benefit from his success. Or at work, if my manager rises to another level, I can rise with him. Women i… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Found an interesting online quiz: "Are you a slut?"I had a discussion with some women a long time ago. It was along the lines of why guys (me included) look at other girls. I stated something along the lines of Don't women oogle over Brad Pitt...no difference there Most guys would love to just fuck around with whoever they want. That's our desire. What's the difference, as long as the guy doesn't cross any lines To which the women replied. See men are pigs. Even the good ones. Good women only want one man. 'Goodness' in the female mind is about … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/18 02:41 PM |
| 3 | How to get out of a rut using The Jordan Peterson 'Positive FeedBack' concept. Sometimes we sabotage ourselves into bad habits through small seemingly insignificant actions with FUCKING DISASTROUS repercussions. Here is the way out.The only thing sadder than people who worship JP are people who hate on him. You want to hate on someone who tells people to make something of their life and questions some of the societal choices we've made in the west? Heck, even if all he says is to clean your room, that's a message worth hearing that apparently enough people haven't heard. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How to get out of a rut using The Jordan Peterson 'Positive FeedBack' concept. Sometimes we sabotage ourselves into bad habits through small seemingly insignificant actions with FUCKING DISASTROUS repercussions. Here is the way out.Let's assume all of what you say is true. Almost everything people say is just recycled from the past. Good on him for speaking to people who need speaking to. Sure... the 'autistic generation' exists. So that is a 'need' or 'market' that requires a solution. If this 'autistic' generation never had a real dad or real masculine influence, then a gap existed and he fills it in a limited online way. I don't even think JP has ever said anything more than that. He's said numerous time something along… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/18 12:18 PM |
| 0 | The Problem With Nice GuysThe problem with saying it is 'fake' behavior is that immediate connotation behind it. I don't know if there's a correct psychological term of it, but I'll give the counter example. Masculinity and sexuality exist. It is who we are. There are problems with it when it goes too far (rape, fighting...). But that's not the majority of men or the majority of the time. Most masculine and sexual behavior is just regular decent life. What feminists have done is tried to take behavior and actually shame … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The Problem With Nice GuysI read a great quote once on loyalty. Men are loyal to ideas/hierarchies/institutions/ways of life. Women are loyal (better word is devoted to people). The best way I see it now, is if someone asked me what color I like to paint my walls. I mean, I've got half assed preferences and red lines, but the truth is, it's not something I feel strongly about. Most women really see many 'important' things the way I'd choose to pick the color of the wall. They really don't feel that strongly about it. Whi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys say that these quotes reflect red pill knowledge if men were oppressors since the beginning then how come you had some1 saying it centuries agoboth. most guys in pretty much all cultures are beta minded. i grew up in the developing world in the 'mysoginistic patriarchy'. still most guys are beta minded. in certain cultures though, u can have a beta mind, and not need to act alpha if the culture ensures a woman acts correct. the beta guys act correct too... get a job, provide... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys say that these quotes reflect red pill knowledge if men were oppressors since the beginning then how come you had some1 saying it centuries agoits not about alpha vs beta. it's about how society is setup. even in the developing world or saudi arabia... most men are beta. if the default is beta man gets beta women but society defaults to beta women acts like this or that. beta man gets a job and acts like this or that. that works. most of the redpill knowledge for the average beta male is unlikely to make him alpha. it might just allow him some dignity in life and avoid catastrophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowDefinitely. What I've learned is to just start small. Things that aren't even big deals. Next time there is dinner to be had. Just lead with that decision. 'Let's have X for dinner tonight. Can you pick it up?' Start small and then proceed up with leadership. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowThe number one thing I've learned and it is very hard for modern guys to do, is to recognize that a woman will complain and blame... and you just have to ignore it. The reason, they will complain and blame regardless of the situation. You have to recognize that. Even the most 'independent' women I've met, just sit around complaining and blaming this bf/husband for anything that possibly doesn't go right. What do I mean by this? Suppose you have a kid, and your wife stays home. She will complain … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowPeople are very conscious. I'm from an Indian background, and people are extremely conscious of things. Whether it's having kids, so they can take care of you in old age or having them for entertainment. Sometimes it borders on creepy. Typically, it's the men who will say in a very practical manner to have kids so they can take care of you. It's typically the women who will say the kids are there for their entertainment. I don't particularly see anything wrong with any of that. As long as it doe… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The Great Trad Con, and How Not to Get Conned.here's the thing, so much of what you take in goes through your own filter. 95% of what ive gained from jordan Peterson is the same as what i gained here. improve urself, handle ur business, don't resent and hate the world/woman... of course that's my filtered content speaking. i find, especially with jp, he actually takes very few hard positions, and just focusses on how you should be thinking. is he a trad con or a liberal? i don't know. what he will say is value thousands of years of knowledg… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up my relationship by showing her my vulnerable side even though I didn't believe that this could happenthis right here. women are funny man. sometimes they really do try n help you out. i was a good looking guy with a good job. my first gf was fun. but I had an issue when she talked to certain guys. i told her i had issue with it... nothing changed. i wanted her to act right... nothing changed. one day she tells me... you know... you can tell me not to talk to them. that blew my mind. like bitch... you know this bothers me. i assume u know it's wrong. you're willing to do it if i tell you.but u w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Being controlling doesn't workhere's how i see it. there's basically 3 ways to get what you want in a relationship. cooperation. two people communicate openly and honestly trying to make sure they both get a good deal. its hard to find a person for this. much less a female. manipulation. this is traditionally a womens weapon. physical. this is traditionally a mans weapon. 3 is basically outlawed in the west. think of all the force other people use. honor killings, hitting wife. so you're left in general with 1 or 2. i havent… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson is not your friend.I think people often hear what they want to hear from speakers. I've listened to a lot of JP and am reading his books, I don't see him preaching much except that people need to humble themselves when looking at history and clean up your shit. When he talks about young men manning up, you can hear it as, here we go again... telling men to man up, take responsibility, and get married, and support a family... stupid tradcon stuff. When I hear it, I don't extend it to the goal. I just hear to clean … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 03:43 PM |
| 0 | "The Great Frame"; The Second Great Alliance Between Alpha And Beta Male; The Only Antidote To The Feminist ThreatI'll make it slightly longer, but still shorter than op :P It's not about what women contribute or men. I've worked long enough in my life to know plenty of really talented women. We live in an age where you just can't pretend women don't contribute or work. What it really is about is about being power. You can be the most alpha person in the world, but without a tribe, you won't get very far. Even someone like Matt Damon gets shut down publically for just commenting. Ponder what, who are you to… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansarithe only comedian i seen to do even remote justice to this issue is chapelle in his latest netflix special. theres something odd about chapelle in appearing genuinely concerned about issues. its like he says, we (men) want to help you, but this is s witchhunt and you cant be so weak: where's your personal responsibility. not his funniest work, but it's good. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | "You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it." Cognitive dissonance-whenever bias prevents someone from even considering an alternative view let alone weigh the merits.no... they know they are difficult and most good men wont tolerate them. so they challenge men to make feel it is manly. i just watched a movie where a female exec is having her husband cheat on her. the only explanation offered on the show and by her is that he misses being the man and he is insecure. a real man would be okay with her earning more and being the ceo. anyways, no considering is given upon the impacts to the man. she is never home... lack of intimacy... similarly with bitchy women… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Sweden at it's best again: Sex now requires active consentapparently at the guys house :p | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Sweden at it's best again: Sex now requires active consentnot much trp stuff, but i have a general blog. ill message u | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Sweden at it's best again: Sex now requires active consentActually strange story... wife was talking to me about this. Some woman are starting to see the downsides of all this. These laws are basically 'killing' any ability for 'good' 'decent guys' to function with women. She was at work and this really good guy offered her a ride to a carpool. She was like 'why' I'll drive myself. He then took her aside and literally said 'I have to give a ride and I don't want to be alone in the car with her'. My wife was like what the hell, and so she went with. But… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 02:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR, India] Alpha widowed a girl in India. Not sure what to feel about it.Not worth the trouble and you know it :P Indians are too much drama for that kind of stuff; especially if family gets involved. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 01:52 PM |
| 13 | [FR, India] Alpha widowed a girl in India. Not sure what to feel about it.Indian chiming in. Don't worry too much. These girls screw around all the time. You think you were Sir Magic Thundercock here who managed to get an Indian girl to a cheap motel, because only you could? You were not the first, and not the last. I had a Pakistani girl once try to play off like she's a virgin and I could take her virginity because I'm special. Yet, she somehow sucked dick like a pro and had a shaved pussy... and she was willing to give it up to me after like 2 dates. Wow, I must ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Wife Openly Admits How She Can't Wait to Get Fat In Front of Her Husbandthis right here. when a woman has no intention of honoring her husband, that the mating game... was just that... a false game to get hooked. just the the term honoring is probably looked at weirdly... when its just about being a good spouse and prioritizing ur own household. in a way, i prefer full out feminist whales who make this stand and repulse men on first meeting, than the kind of duplicitous woman who counts on deception and getting a man hooked. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Highly recommend this article on #metooi agree with you, but its about your response. she spoke out... makes sense... have some damn gratitude and appreciation. i grew up under apartheid in south Africa. i just use that as its my experience with oppression. you can be bitter and angry at every attempt from the 'other side" or you can move forward. trust me... its better for your own sanity to move forward. if a white person wrote about how apartheid is unjust... you should appreciate that person instead of dwelling on how theyre a mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Highly recommend this article on #metoojesus man. yes she is a minority view. but she speaks out and says some very common sense things. i know plenty of woman like that they like to flirt, have fun drinkin, love sexual jokes.. what a shitty world theyd have if people couldnt do that. theyve realized its good too far as it could ruin a functioning society for them. they might not be white knights, but they understand the greater good. anyone who doesnt think such women exist is ignorant. just watch judge judy for a pop culture versio… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Girl complains about weak-willed boyfriend, then glamors about Chad's cocki know this may come across like an after school special, but increasing your SMV to get a girl is like a girl being fit to get a guy. Meaning if you dont get what you want you do end up questioning why you do it in the first place. like that hot girl who turns fat and lazy. and you get fat and lazy guys. no increase your SMV for yourself. be in great shape for you. excel at work or hobbies for you. if your perception is i want a great job with lots of money so i can get a hot girl, you're her b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/17 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is GOOD for men?? (3 reasons why)no. thats fine. you obviously dont know a wide enough number of muslims. people practice religion regardless of what the book says. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is GOOD for men?? (3 reasons why)u seriously think muslims or any other people follow their religion perfectly? people pick n choose my man. i cant tell if ur serious or joking. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is GOOD for men?? (3 reasons why)its not what the koran says. i was raised orthodox sunni hanafi. its what people do with the religion. girls dont not have sex just because koran. girls dont just obey their husband just because koran girls dont just tolerate second wives just because koran it all depends on the girl | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is GOOD for men?? (3 reasons why)i see the picture. i grew up in a non western country. i know that way of life. i also know throughout the world womens rights are happening. even in non western countries they are not all under control as you would think. things are changing globally. you can try and hang on, but id be on watch. i wouldnt trust a girl from Pakistan or india either. if you don't think theyre doing things your eyes just arent open. barring a society that lets you beat and cage them... chances are yours being play… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is GOOD for men?? (3 reasons why)In many ways, it really is. What is needed though is for men to understand this. The problem is really not with women today, but men. I have a certain appreciation for the various forms of life. I come from a pretty religious upbringing (Muslim), and so I get to hear a lot of traditional talk. Recently this religious woman said something to me that stuck with me. She didn't like women who had sex before marriage because 'sex is how we control men'. I know it's popular here to think of Islam as t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | "Marriage counseling may work"Yeah, I had this too. Not for marriage counseling, but general therapy. She would sit there and literally shake her head and mutter 'naive, naive'... Honestly, therapy wasn't much help. I think if I had seen this therapist prior to marriage, it might have helped. But just seeing her reaction to my tale is funny. She sits there stunned at my naivety. I would say, even before marriage, I knew something was wrong with the situation, but I thought in my head, if I discuss things with people, then yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you are broken?So let's see here. First off some empathy. I'm a brown guy. Raised in a strict Muslim household (no girl contact in my youth). Grew up with PTSD, due to being born in a violent country. Speech impediment... Don't dwell on your situation. Plenty of people have it worse, others have it better. Here's a simply piece of advice. DO THINGS TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM. It may be right, it be wrong, but try and do something. So I read your post and you talk about being 21 and not having kissed a girl yet. So … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | You dont find the RedPill, the RedPill finds you ?i try and help where i can i also gave a son who i will help make strong as well. now id never point them here or even call it the redpill. id make sure they value themselves properly. id make sure they know that people lie and women are people. ... risks of marriage, divorce.... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to live for myself or by myself. I have nothing to live for.i think i used to think the same way. i also came from a very religious background and was pretty religious. one of the main things i learned was to just do it and stop overthinking. respect your feelings. dont let them run your decisions, but respect them. let me give a trivial example. ive always been conservative with money. saved a lot during my younger days. anyways, i always wanted a wrx. i put it off for so long because i didnt think it was worth it. temporary fun id say it in my head. i … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | How white knighting will leave permanent scars (literally)theres a big distinction in how that plays out. yeah, Any situation can escalate and you can kill each other for no good reason. but leaving a situation because you do not want to be bothered is very doable. the guy 'defending' his girl probably doesnt want a fight either. he also has no idea if you're a psycho or have backup. 99 percent of the time you can leave a situation with strength. like we could do this but whats the point. even if you have to be the most respectful... its better for you… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | To those in student loan debt: Do Not Get Married... to those not in student loan debt: Do Not Get Marriedschool in the us is ONLY expensive if you dont go to state schools. i did engineering at waterloo and my tuition was on par with say the university of austin or Washington for in state. yeah if u go to harvard or whatever... u pay through the nose. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guys are Fucking Boringdont deal with women. simple as that. if u want sex... escort or get really good and fck buddy if u want kids be someones beta bux or just adopt on ur own. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guys are Fucking Boringit all depends on what you mean by boring. one of the guys at work is really nice... to men and wonen. he is also really active. rowing... camping... i cant keep up with his activities. to me he is not boring at all yet he has a hard time with women. he cares too much about their feelings... is too polite... meanwhile i know guys who get mad girls but who dont do anything theyre bums who at best drink a lot...but they do pursue women and are sick. what is the definition of boring... that is core… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 02:49 PM |
| 14 | Nikola Tesla explains why he never married.i dont know tesla but he was a really intelligent man who had very scientific interests. he might not find a lot of joy in playing with women. i know i dont. id much rather do martial arts, read, learn a new skill, work on a project... than have fun with women in that sense. ive had my flings and i get bored. its probably just a personality thing. do what you enjoy doing and excel ay what u do. but dont assume everyone has the same wants or needs | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Most black women want to be single mothers?Tell me about it. I got in a lot of shit once critisising a black friend of mine for knocking up 2 randoms. He was a good guy... good job... good prospects. Guy getw defensive.... calls me racist because baby mamas are a part of black culture. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How women from minority communities in India desert their men. Post by an Indian living in IndiaI'm of Indian origin and so this is kind of funny. In my family, it is really only the women that want to get together with family... most of the men just do their own thing or hang with who they want. So in my head growing up, family/culture was a woman thing. Before I understood what was happening, I thought family and culture was a really big 'female' value. I mean for us men, it was really just a bunch of burdens. Go to such and such event and sit around doing nothing. Now I've been to some … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 09:02 PM |
| – | Swedish feminists systematically having sex with underage refugeesAbsolutely. My point is not whether or not authority is needed. It absolutely is. It is rather in attributing some kind of intention women, or children. Are women testing the man to see if he is fit? Some nefarious scheming mind of giant shit tests. I just don't see it and it seems more likely to me they simply want to do what they want to do... Without morals or a code of life, there is no guide of what to do except authority. It came comes across as shit tests to the authority figure because t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 03:25 PM |
| – | Swedish feminists systematically having sex with underage refugeesIt's an interesting theory and it is in keeping with the red pill idea of women testing men for fitness. I don't claim 100% knowledge here, but let me just pose something a little simpler. It is a lot more basic than that. It is not a test. It is simply that 'girls just wanna have fun' as the old song goes. If you were a 40 something year old man and could have sex with a teenage girl. Generally without social stigma... you'd probably want to. Is what these women want any different? I don't thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Relationships lost the feels and magic for me after taking the RP. It's like Santa died and you see Christmas for what it really is.It thats how u read it. More power to u | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/17 10:15 PM |
| – | Relationships lost the feels and magic for me after taking the RP. It's like Santa died and you see Christmas for what it really is.I hear that. It really is soul crushing. My sympathy for cheaters and other 'deviants' has gone through the roof. One of my wife's cousins is getting divorced. She is bipolar. Apparently the dad used to hit her in front of the kids. They're conservative Muslims. Anyways, my wife mentioned this to her mother. Her mother is very traditional and said it always takes two to fight and your generation is weak. To my wife, him beating her in front of the kids was the line. I had the opposite experience… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Theory on why women hopelessly try to "change" the bad boyId like to know why you need a complex theory to explain simple behavior. Ask yourself as a guy is there a difference between someone youd like to fuck and who turns you on versus the one whod be the best mother. Of course there is. Women are no different in that respect. Now at different times in history society allows either sex to have the upper hand. Back in the day men could have harems of concubines and several wives. Today women can fuck chad and then have guv take care of them or sucker … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 05:55 PM |
| – | Today's news.com.au hit-piece - "What Young Men Really Want" (written by a woman)Lol. Early fem lit is not that bad to read. If you can read marx or other different political ideologies, you should be able to read it. Ita actually a lot more coherent and honest than most of the modern stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 06:04 PM |
| – | Today's news.com.au hit-piece - "What Young Men Really Want" (written by a woman)Youd know if you read any feminist literature. They know that given a choice, the vast majority of women would choose to stay at home or work casually if they couldcbe supported by a man. Thus men would always have the power. Being a house wife is an illefetimate choice. Read the works of linda gordon and other feminists. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 03:57 PM |
| – | I used to laugh at "Rape Culture Cowards".,...until this morningWell u were. The law and society attitudes might be sexist against men, but u were raped. Theres no debate in any rational persons mind with that. Heck first time i had sex one could say i was raped. I was scared crapless bout pregnancu/stds... Would have wanted ti be prepled with condom. Girl just slid it in during regular make out session. I said no... But like u know the moment. So i get what girls mean when they say no but let it happen anyways. Id never want her charged though. Too harsh. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 06:44 PM |
| – | I used to laugh at "Rape Culture Cowards".,...until this morningYeah issues involving alcohol and rape are iffy. They are simply complex cases. Forget sex, just look at regular old contract law. Is a contract valid if you are drunk? It's debatable and depends on if the other party knew you are intoxicated. Taking advantage of someone you know is intoxicated is violating them. Whether the action is signing a contract, stealing their wallet, or having sex with them. Now, we can talk about personal responsibility all we want. Yeah people who get drunk are proba… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Look Within Yourself Before You Blame Your LTRI think blame is a complex thing. More than one person can share blame. You run the risk of accepting shitty behavior if you dont recognize when youve been wronged. Let me give you an example. I felt my mother wronged me. I was really upset. After i got on TRP i got into the mindset of it was me at fault because you cant expect honesty from a woman. Theyre children... This was fruitless in the end. Getting on trp definitely improved me. However it doesnt change that i was wronged. It wont change… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Brown/Indian MalesIll have fun with this. Are there alpha indians. Of course. Theres alphas in every group. Indian culture is a lot of bullshit bravado. I am just too familiar with it. Tier 2 cities, metros, our girls... Let me tell you a story. I belonged to a pretty conservative indian muslim community. Anyways when i was in my teens i rolled with this guy who fcked a lot. He used to point out all the girls he fcked at family events. It would surprise you... The most conservative girls. Anyways one day were cha… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 05:52 PM |
| – | Stop giving women orgasms, you sexist bastards!Women really have no concept of win win This is a great example. Yes i like sex. Yes i love pleasuring women. Yea i get off on it. Yes they love it. Anyone see a problem here. I didnt think so, until i started becoming more awarw of women. I happily fcked and pleasured in total ignorant bliss throughout my 20s. Then i began to see how much of their mind is just focussed on power. Unless you are 'sacrificing" something they dont see it as them benefitting... Only as you benefitting. Hate to break… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 02:14 PM |
| 30 | Why do single mothers sabotage their children?Did he claim to be rp when he got her preggo. I dont see it in his post. The vast majority of people here are here because they learned a life lesson. For some they were fortunate or smart enough to learn just by dating or tindering. For others the lesson is harder involving divorce and/or kids. Its a long road to realize just how different womem are. Just how ruthless and in the present they are. Yep... This guy is still figuring it out. Its not about the well being of the daughter. Its about h… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How to accept that every girl you meet is settling for youWhat exactly is the point of a post like this? There is always something better in every aspect of life. By this logic. You're settling for a job. You're settling for a wife. You're settling for friends. You're settling for a house. You're settling for a car. Yes, any girl is going to want Brad Pitt if she meets him. But there's so many factors on determining if a girl will cheat or not. She will weight the cost benefit analysis. What is the likelyhood she will be found out? How will you react? … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 05:57 PM |
| 3 | FR Hypergamy at work.It always cracks me up how western people view islam. I was raised overseas in a muslim culture. Pardon my anti-colonial mindset, but the west just romantasizes or demonizes muslims. Why would you think that hijabi is different from any other girl? You go to saudi and so many women are in niqab. You think theyre all holy? You see a guy with a beard you think hes religious? Honestly there was more casual sex happening back home than when i came here. I theorize this... Because being seen i public… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 04:20 PM |
| 3 | The kids are redpilled.I guess you'd call me a gen-xer. My view on millennials is that they are a mix of blue and red pilled. However, what is perhaps new is that the people who have bought into the blue pill... really buy into it. In a sense the millennial blue pill is less harmful to men. Some of them really and truly believe in gender equality. Whereas in my generation, we were taught it, but most of us still thought guys had to be more responsible, earn a living... I don't get that sense with millennials. Even the… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 05:46 PM |
| – | Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys.It's a combination that plus dominance. I'm in Canada; but I noticed 90% of the backpage ads say 'no black men'. That puzzled me, so I asked a few folks. While there was some mention of safety, the biggest response I got was that that the guys just come in and start fucking. Another white girl actually told an Indian friend of mine (She was his plate) that she wants to be man-handled and thrown around by a big black guy. That threw him off and he left her. Women like to be dominated and black me… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Obsessing over a slutty past is an indirect pedestal; Assume she's a slut, but don't obsessDefinitely. In my case, the realization that honesty means very little to them came as a shock. It depressed me for a while thinking she must have thought I was the greatest fool ever. Until I took it less about me. She lied the same to her family... When I asked her who will take care of her parents. She knew I'm not that traditional to tell her no she can't should the time ever come. So she could answer her brother knowing that I wouldn't tell her no when the time came. I've come to see my que… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/17 05:02 PM |
| 7 | Why do women lie about what they want?I find so much of this over analysis. I used to do it too, but lets be careful about making it complex. A big problem for many western people... Me included is not being raised in a community. You will see men lying constantly too. Protect family honor, ego, social niceness... Women will say they want X because it is socially good to want X. If it was socially good to want the greatest warrior or the guy with the biggest left nut, thats what women would profess. Social creatures of reputation. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Realizing that nobody gives a shit about you should be the most liberating thing you think.This shit right here. The world broke me down and i came to this realization as well. I actually confronted my parents about things to which they literally responded with 'ur on ur own' That it came from my mom hurt, but i loved the clarity. Im just there for caretaking and providing grandkids. They dont owe my anything. It was a crystal clear realization that was empowering. I now just focus on me and what makes me happy. If ur in my life and can be a positive time, ur welcome. Beyond that... f… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 06:06 PM |
| 3 | 'Emotions should be listened too' A modern idea?I've thought about this a lot. As a child, I was actually raised to ignore my emotions. So I learned to pay very close attention to my emotions now. They are always telling you something. To put it in a TRP context... if you feel repulsed by a girl's sexual behavior, that is a signal to you. The 'rational' part of your brain can easily try and override that to mean... you should not feel repulsed. I'm not a virgin, why should she be one...? So listen to your emotions absolutely. I actually think… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Stop Hiding Behind Law 38. It's Your Default Setting.This is the key here. Understand why ur using it. I think the ops point is not to use rule 38 out of fear. If u want to work that corporate ladder, go ahead 38 away. It u just fear being ostracized, ask yourself how much is there to gain from the group and if theres an aspect of fear or someone ruling you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.Definitely try and get in there and help the kid out. My mother was pretty feminist and it totally screws you up. I barely talk to her anymore, because I see what it is all been about. Even now that I'm married with a kid, her only concerns seems to be that I treat my wife 'right'. I'm going out with some friends, she says 'you shouldn't go out and leave your wife alone'. I just joke, I'll be home around 3. There is so little concern for me or my well being. I can definitely see how it impacted … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What are my girlfriends true intentions?Her intentions are pretty simple. You have a good job and can be a good husband/father. Why do you love her? Well you listed the reasons. She is a good woman who cooks, cleans, sex... Now you tell me what is wrong with her thinking you are a good man because you make 80k/year? Utility is the foundation of any relationship. In terms of the pre-nup. You want to protect yourself. Good on you. Now is she a gold digger with the intention of marrying and then divorcing to get a piece of your stash? Wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 02:33 AM |
| 1 | In LTRs/Marriage, You're Replacing Her FatherBaumrind Yeah thanks for the links. I've read up on it and by in large it seems accurate. This line from wikipedia stood out a bit. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parenting_styles#Baumrind.27s_Parenting_Typology Children raised by authoritarian parents tend to be conformist, highly obedient, quiet, and not very happy.[32] These children often suffer from depression and self-blame Now my wife kind of brands herself a rebel; at least when we met, but deep down that is her. I suspect she kind of mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 09:27 PM |
| 6 | In LTRs/Marriage, You're Replacing Her FatherJust a small note on the word 'strong' as it relates to a father. Be careful about confusing strong and strict. My wife's father for example was very strict, but one thing I've noticed is he doesn't handle anything. Is that why she was attracted to me? I handle shit... even pre TRP? Possibly. What do I mean by this. Well he wants a lot of the thing you might think are TRP? He wants to be the family patriarch so to speak, but he works through woman. For example, when I got married, I was expected… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 03:59 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people on this subreddit have the wrong idea about MGTOWI think you just have to be honest with yourself If you go mgtow, you're checking out because you think women aren't worth the effort and/or you're not able to win. This probably extends to work where u want to work just enough to live ok, but not to excel. Nothing wrong with that. It just is. Not everyone can be in the top 20% by definition. TRP is about a way to be part of the top 20% Pua is just a way to get women and isnt a philosophy per se Everything on a spectrum of course, but just recog… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 03:51 AM |
| 2 | The Female Brain - a manipulation machineSaid it many times here. Women are ruthlessly rational in action. Finally learned this quite late in life. Actually funny thought I had last week. Donald Trump's campaign is about learning the progressive/feminist framing of arguments. Except this time it comes hard from the 'right'. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Give up control of women. Take control of yourself. Harness power, and freedom through abundance.This is it right here. I got married pre-TRP. Had issues on who I thought she was and what we were doing... basically bad 1st year. Then one day, I just decided to say fuck it. Let her do her. I'm going to just do me. Remove all the unwritten rules I was playing by to 'be a good guy'. Just this past weekend, I flew to Florida to hang out with my friend and had a great weekend with the boys. Did I imagine myself doing that before? Nope. I'm not going all hedonistic, but I mean just do what the he… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Uncontacted Amazonian Tribe Member Gets a Girl...Goes Hunting...Girl Sleeps With His BrotherWere all shit biologically. If you go by this, guys are rapists and betray family for pussy. Lets not even get into violence. What makes us less shit is our social training. But were all still shit. The only interesting question for me is how will women do with social training. Men have done okay in the west. Were not raping or warring on the whole. This is where biology may come in if women are less able to submit to external moral rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 12:40 PM |
| 2 | TwoXChromosomes outdoes itself: Whore decides she wants a break from boyfriend, flips shit when she discovers he is texting a coworker.lol, my absolute favorite was from my first girl. I broke up with her. She dated this guy right after and got married. They get divorced like 2 years later. I get an email saying, why didn't you chase me. I only married him to see if you'd fight for me. This was before RP and I just sat there laughing like that is about as stupid a plan as I could possibly imagine. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 09:49 PM |
| 0 | TwoXChromosomes outdoes itself: Whore decides she wants a break from boyfriend, flips shit when she discovers he is texting a coworker.I won't dilly dally on the wording of logic or rationality... Women are ruthlessly goal oriented. Their mind works like this: If a do or say X, can I impact outcome Y. In a way, one could argue that they are 'more' logical or 'rational' then men who try and apply external concepts instead of simply pursuing their goals. If a woman wants sympathy, she will say what she has to say to get it. If she wants to rally people to her cause, she will say what she has to say. Let's be clear here on one big… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | The story of a Beta-Christian boy, and the questions that still trouble me...Muslim here (secular now), but the same thing. Religions are for woman today. Like most institutions, they had slightly more balanced approach years ago, that basically had: Men work and take care of woman Woman stay virgin before marriage and obey husband Most religions have begun to phase out much emphasis on what women have to do. Women's rights and what not have made this imperative. You can't really have a regular church or mosque telling woman they must obey their husbands. Yet, the emphas… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 09:48 PM |
| 5 | Dad accused of raping daughter saved by mention of ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’I don't see how there 'has to be someone' behind it. I'm not saying this isn't, but kids are pretty capable of this stuff on their own. I have nieces and nephews. The idea of telling a lie to get someone in trouble is pretty basic to them. Now granted, one hopes that by the time you're capable of reading 50 shades of grey, you're capable of having some grounding. This isn't blaming daddy for eating the last cookie. It might really be as simple how can I hurt dad who is too strict. Rape seems to … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Rethinking Shit Testsyeah, like I said, I get the intellectual idea that women shit test for alphaness. I definitely agree that the women with the biggest insecurities show the most hostile behavior. From my life experience, it just seems like digging too deep to find a reason. A simpler reason in my view just comes from bad behavior. They just want what they want and will use whatever means to get it. Their way is social. So social games are in play. The idea of 'mean girls' isn't a new one. Women do it all the tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Rethinking Shit TestsI come at shit tests from a different perspective. I think the analytical idea of shit-tests to 'test the alphaness' of a guy is interesting, but here's my two cents. Not sure if it jives with the rest of TRP knowledge/theories. Shit-testing and being rude/disrespectful are one in the same thing. Basically, most women are taught to behave and be very aware of social circumstance. The question is if she loses it with you, you have to ask why did she suddenly lose all of her behavior? She doesn't … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Overthinking: The Beta Male Trait That Is Holding You Back.Let me give you my background. Stutter growing up... Hello anxiety Conservative muslim growing up... Not much girl knowledge Came from a low_pride family... Pride was seen as a bad thing I spent a huge portion of my life thinking of the 'right' way to be. Imagine even simply ordering at a restaurant being a planned act for fear of stuttering. Its late in my life, but ive progressed more in 3 years than the previous 30. The most important is to not fear failure. You have to fail to learn. And i h… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Letting Go Of Your Anger Phase By Realizing It Was Never PersonalI'm at this point and it honestly kill me inside; knowing what I know now. I was mad for a while. Now the word might just be depressed. I don't know. Let's just say sadness for the exact reasons you state. It was my fault for getting involved; for not screening properly; taking her too seriously... In the end, everyone has a share of blame on some objective level, But like the previous poster, the consequential guilt makes me feel like a worthless shit. I knew better. In many ways, she is just a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Video explains why marriage is good for men, i.e., it forces them to work more hours and earn more money.Some women really do think this. Its fckin mind blowing. I think it has to do with men appearing to do what the hell we want. If we do something we must like it in the end. We get money and power and pride from work. Maybe some percentage of men but most men have silent sacrificial tendencies. They work silently knowing they must provide. You cant put the duty back in women. What you can do is simply liberate yourself. No sacrifice. No silence. No duty. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 02:37 PM |
| 16 | Why Sex is Different for Men Women and on the Double Standards Placed by those WomenHere's the thing. I learned this as well. Woman know why it is different for men and women. They might not think it is fair. But they know why. Just remember one thing. Women in general speak for power/get what they want. They don't speak for understanding. Why is this girl asking why it matters; because she knows she is used goods and will not get a quality man. So how to convince men that this should not be. I once dated a girl and queried about her past. Anyways, it got to a point where I was… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why We Need Gender RolesWomen do self-actualize. If you talk to more 'modern' women, many are totally aware of everything that goes on in life. There are a few problems that occurs when a woman self-actualizes. Self-actualization cannot be learned by reading. It is learned through experience. So... you got it... for a woman to self-actualize in the relationship realm... well she has to go through a lot of crap. A lot of the time that leaves her damaged to some extent. Both for her own self, and in the view of others. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [X-post] "I dont WANT to be a gold-digging girlfriend"I read this and you have to peer into the mind. Growing up, I always wanted women to do their fair share. Even when I was 'beta'. I just didn't see the value they bring just for being female. So my first girlfriend made much less than I do, but worked. It was never 50/50; money rarely came up. I knew what she made and she'd pay to a reasonable portion of her ability. I'd do that same. When I dated my first 'equal earning' partner, things became more complex in terms of mindset. I got the feeling… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Never confront her -- Betas don't get to set boundariesYeop. Another way to think about it is that for the most part, most people know what 'good' behavior is. If there is a person of respect or authority in the room, people's behavior changes. They don't need to direct or tell you what to do. You already know what to do. Maybe a flawed example, but you're driving on the highway and you see a cop car. You, like everybody else slows down to drive the speed limit or less. Everyone's behavior goes up a notch. The police officer might not even be a spee… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 10:01 PM |
| 12 | FR: Girls don't even understand how they work.Because dont communicate for truth. They communicate to get what they want. You see a question like that and see a genuine question. A women asking that mighe be looking for sympathy, excusing her own shame, finding weak guys who try and prove theyre not assholes... They know they like confident strong men. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 06:17 PM |
| 7 | "Toxic Masculinity"Words and labels matter. You can be talking about pretty much the same thing, but if it is labelled 'wrong' then it becomes something shame worthy. For example. 'rape culture'. Really what is it that feminists are talking about here. If you're ignorant, you might actually think it is about women being raped. But a woman walks down the street and gets cat called...that is rape culture. Really what 'rape culture' is about is men viewing women primarily for sex. Now, they put a bad label on it and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Verbal consent & permission; things you don't need. Aka how I fucked a girl who said no but meant yes.Man, I tell you we can all talk about it, but it's still screwed up. Before TRP, I had a conversation with my wife about consent and rape as that was all the news. She was pretty big on men getting consent. They need to try extra hard during alcohol sex. Anyways, I was taken a back a bit; because we had plenty of drunken sex and rarely do I ask for sex. I just figure it to happen. I'm like (logically), so you want to me ask you every time for everything? And we can't ever have drunken sex. Cause… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Society Intends to Murder the Beta Male Who Subscribes to Traditional ValuesIts called euthanasia. Some of us are okay with going out without struggling for every last breath. Besides if no one loves you enough to wipe your ass at 70, whats the point in living. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 12:51 PM |
| 5 | I wonder how much of modern women's r-selected strategy is because the general breakdown of community and social trustWhile I don't mind the intellectual understanding, I think focusing on R versus K or hypergamy just takes away from a core understanding. Ask yourself as a guy, what do you want; assuming no laws or anything. Well that answer might be something like. I'd like to screw as many women as I want and have a committed partner(s) and family at home. Now of course the environment shapes a lot of our 'wants'. Most men today aren't thinking they want a harem of women and concubines... mainly because it is… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/16 09:56 PM |
| 9 | Academia gap myth: women fall behind in their careers because they choose family over work and go into unprofitable fields, study findsThe solution is obviously two fold! Pay workers is women's field's more money; especially those in the public sector. A child care worker should be paid as much as a CEO! They take care of children for God's sake! Reduce the ability for women to be 'punished' for working less or choosing family. More mat leave. Bringing in Paternity leave, so men work less and thus the field is equalized. /I'm half serious, but already see this ideology coming in. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Girl doesn't understand why her b/f is mad she let her big dicked ex have anal with her but not himThats reading into it too much. See the good guy did win her over by being good. The issue is women dont give their all to good guys. Why would they? They already have them. Rational decision. A few ways to look at it. Cant stand she would do it for ex but not him... Bad women? Something wrong with him that he cant have authority like the ex. That was my reaction. Accept that she did those things she didnt like trying to win over a guy. Its not personal. How women want you to see it. The example… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/16 12:57 PM |
| 2 | "but... come on guys, shape up! YOU have to save Europe." Former Swedish feminist now demands men save Sweden from the ravages caused by the philosophy she's only recently disavowed.Yeah, I see it much clearer now. Western women are not ashamed to express their wants. A man might want to be independent and handle his own shit. But that's typically not a woman. If they really don't want to be in a situation, they will tell someone or leave. As you found out, she was with this guy and was fine with how he treated her. It might not have been ideal, but she was used to it and she got enough out of the relationship for it to be a positive. So who are you to intervene? I learned … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 06:12 PM |
| 51 | "but... come on guys, shape up! YOU have to save Europe." Former Swedish feminist now demands men save Sweden from the ravages caused by the philosophy she's only recently disavowed.You really have to screw up real bad as a society to have men thinking like this. I look back at my former self and think yep... how the hell did I end up here. I would have risked my life and be there to take care of women. That was me. How I was raised. Almost instinctual. Now? The hell am I going to risk my life for such people. I say that, but the reality is I would still take care of my friends sisters... and if that's the case most of these women will still have men protectors. Heck, even … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 11:06 AM |
| 4 | Women are chameleons.This is very true. They say all of society is built upon myths. In a way, a 'traditional' society best maintains these myths. A man marries a virgin is likely to see her 'adapt' to him in her chameleon way and this keeps the myth of her as a good girl who is in with his life style. In the same manner, a girl who marries her first guy is going to see him as a myth. First person to provide her with sex. First leader outside her father. Date a few and the nature of men and women appear and you lose… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Y-Chromosome analysis of 1200 men from 26 different populations shows half of all European males descended from a single 'king' around 4000 years agoTheres no problem with hypergamy. The problem is misinformed men who cling to an idea of good women and family. Society may collapse. It might not. Robots and minimal work might make life passable for many. If you dont trust a woman to be nice and loyal to you for being a provider she doesn't need then don't get married. Work hard and pursue your passion and become great. Or just work minimally to eat and survive and play video games. Due to automation, the number of people needed to progress is… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogyny"It's not the way courting worked when my parents met. There was value to your word when you agreed to a date. But not our culture now, that's just not what it is any more." I think this is really the key line and it works for anyone. It's not a misogynistic point. Let me rephrase this whole part from a women's angle :P Men used to have it much easier. All they had to do was oppress women by denying them careers in both legal and community/family roles. Then they simply needed to get a good job … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut; No Self Control Does.This right here. Self control is not putting yourself in a bad position. If youre an alcoholic... Dont go to drinking parties. A past girl wanted to stay friends with her ex. I said u talk to him... Were done. She weighed it and dropped the idea. But as i reflect, this was stupid of me. A good woman would know she cant be friends with an ex and not slip up. Lo and behold i noticed all kinds of lack of self control. Trust your instincts is all i say noe. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 03:56 PM |
| 3 | TRP spilling out in TwoXBecause they say different things. As men, we take things in as they are. Its part of our evolution. We cant pretend a tiger is not there. We cant aim our spear upwards and think it will hit a deer in front. It takes a lot of experience to learn to ignore everything in front of you. Tv. Mother. Women. Beta men.... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 12:46 PM |
| 2 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.By understanding what's really going on you can cope with the >dishonesty better? Or, put diffrently: once you've learned to hear >the truth behind the lie, it stops being dishonest? Yep, that's pretty much how I've come to see things now. I do really mean, that she laid out the signs. To the best of her ability, she tried to convey the truth to me. I'd never gotten to know someone closely who did this, so it was a shocker to me. I think at one point, she even told me, she just does things and c… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 01:06 AM |
| 9 | You are a sexist despite your philanthropy. You are what you think and not what you do.Absolutely. What's sad is what spreads as common knowledge. I was watching some show and the scientist guest was asking how you even start a conversation with christians who think the earth is 5000 years old. And its true. I agree with him. Yet, in the average person's life... That's trivia knowledge. I love dinosaur facts as much as anyone, but that's where it ends for most people. Yet our understanding of things we encounter day to day is pathetic. Out understanding of women, men, politics, po… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 09:16 PM |
| 2 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.Really appreciate the commentary. You hit it right on the head when you say people can intellectually get it. I do get everything you say, but it's definitely hard to really be there in the mind. It's challenging with the wife. I'd say the confusions with conversations wiped out my ego completely. Things I thought we had a common understanding were just not. There was a point I thought she was just ridiculously manipulative. She has a really 'nice' personality who trumped up how honest she was a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 08:30 PM |
| 1 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.Yeah. Its a tough one. Blew out my view of life. I cant have a relationship with such a person. I can just handle them. But thats more me. Someone is dishonest with me, i cant form bonds with them How do the people close to you handle it? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 12:38 PM |
| 4 | My (single-mom) cousin shared this idiotic FB rant today along with the phrase "too true".Male shaming.. Its their main weapon. Its effect is fading though. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 12:30 PM |
| 3 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.Yeop. Lesson i learned the hard way. Never make a deal with them. They either follow you or they dont. Deals are pointless as they rewrite history. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 01:01 PM |
| 15 | She rewrites history in her head without even realizing it.Yeah its deranged. I still have no idea if its conscious. First happened with my mom. Then my wife pulled it on me. That one broke my view of life. I made a huge deal to my wife pre marriage about me leaving religion. I made the purposeful effort to figure out all my views. Were talking months of discussion. Anyways. Later in some casual talk with a friend of hers, she says it was different when we got married. I was still religious then. I flipped out... Like dont u dare! Luckily her friend was… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Wife resents beta husband for being more attracted to her after she loses weightExactly. The analogy is a guy had a decent but crappy job and got married. Then started moving up and got a prime job. Would his wife be more attracted? You betcha | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 12:49 PM |
| 2 | My grandfathers decline and understanding that you're only as valuable to women as you are today.If you're going to a social reputation war with women... you'd better be armed to the teeth. You have to face certain facts. The average man is physically strong than the average woman. The average women is socially stronger than the average man. Quite frankly, if you want to fight a social battle, you'd better have women on your side to do the fighting. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 10:16 PM |
| 0 | My grandfathers decline and understanding that you're only as valuable to women as you are today.Heck I'm married, and I I've already decided to go the Euthanasia route when I'm unable to care for myself. I had decided that since I was in my teens and saw my grandfather pass away when he was with us. The last years of life are just pointless suffering in my view. My brain just can't process the moral stigma we have with Euthanasia. A painless way out of this world. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 10:13 PM |
| 6 | "Everything I do near a dude, I'm accountable for"This is by in large true, but I really want to see the political ramifications of all this. It's a genuine curiosity of mine. Politically for example, feminism excuses even men from bad behavior as they're not responsible for themselves. In today's context, blacks, Native Indians, certain cultural groups. Really only the white man is seen as 'accountable for his actions'. Although this logic is hardly consistent (did you ever think it was going to be :P ) But the general attitude is there. We do… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Woman on TwoX finds out her work crush is a pedophile. Refuses to believe it because "he's a very attractive and fit guy and not at all the kind of guy you would expect to have such habits".First of all, this is hardly a woman thing. If you found out anything reprehensible about a 'good' person in your life, the average person tries to put it aside. All those Catholic Priests fucking children and turning a blind eye weren't woman. You're missing a greater point. It is hard for the average person to have a general moral perspective. It is even harder for the average woman to have a general moral perspective. What I mean by that is you can't take an action and decree it wrong/evil. L… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 09:56 PM |
| 2 | They think its an honour to pay for them (FR)You pay if you want, don't pay if you don't want. Just get the 'obligations correct' If she's the kind of girl who thinks she has an obligation to cook, clean, look pretty, exercise, make you her top priority, be loyal, not hang around with other guys... then sure... you can take it as your obligation to pay for dinner and your obligation to provide for her. Beyond that... if the obligations are not reciprocal, you're a chump if you do. Now if there's no 'obligations' then you can pay for dinner… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | A Male Contraceptive (real equality)Could and should do not a law make. The above makes sense, but even the most liberal and progressive countries suddenly turn 'family values' if you suggest that. Ideally you'd have some kind of law like a woman must let the father know by the week 11 or something like that. After, which has has 2 weeks to choose not to have the child. If she goes ahead, he is off the hook. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/16 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Lessons from a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) - Part 2I had a Borderline experience and I got off okay, but I could have easily been totally destroyed. Everything was there is retrospect. One of my best friends even commented as a one off comment 'something is not right'. But I was just dating her for the summer and planned to dump her. So it wasn't a big thing. The lies were just up the wall and blatant. Where I really screwed up was when I broke up with her, she went a little insane. Now, she was a half friend from university, so I cared what hap… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 10:29 PM |
| 5 | When did you become a man?Men are from mars. Women are from venus. Both think each is 'evil' Yeah finding trp post marriage is fucked, but heres a little perspective. A man might find a woman evil because she lies, lacks loyalty... A woman might find a man evil because he is willing to leave the tribe. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 02:13 PM |
| 20 | When did you become a man?I became a man post marriage. Most men can figure things out. They just need to really take in some realities. No one cares about you as a man Women are not 'good'. The average one is more immoral than any asshole guy you can think of. If you are to judge them as men, they are snakes. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 01:12 PM |
| 7 | The feminist fantasy doesn't work in practice, destroys the family and actively disadvantages men and womenSee cases like this leave a lot to be desired. A big one, is the guy sucked at being a stay-at-home dad. He got fat. He lost child-rearing battles. See, if I ever had a stay-at-home wife, she'd have to take that role seriously. Part of that is handling the home, raising the kids right with values I have, and being in great shape herself. So this guy isn't even meeting my requirements of a stay-at-home mom. Forget about the feminist fantasy idea. He fails my stay-at-home dad test. You then throw … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 05:13 PM |
| 22 | Couple has argument, wife leaves and fucks husband's friend, hubby finds out, that one sub tells him to just forget about itTo a lot of women things are just words to be used when they want. Just to give you the extent of mental gymnastics they play. I was with this girl pre-trp. She's Indian... which means a lot of family politics. Anyways, she lives the normal Indian girl life. One life with family. One life outside. I told her, she's being dishonest with her family. Anyways, a few days pass and then she tells her parents something. How she got some award at work or something like that. She comes to me acting proud… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/16 08:08 PM |
| 13 | Ghomeshi's defence lawyer gets grilled by CBC for "Betraying Sisterhood"Oh god. The cbc was the worst. When the verdict came they even had a special on what MEN think and are concerned about. Had a glimmer they'd talk how men worry false accusations... But no, just 3 sjw men ranting how men suck and women are vulnerable. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 12:53 PM |
| 7 | "My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it"Here's the thing, she has an absolute right to be pissed at him. He is like the lazy stay at home mom who isn't pulling her weight. I don't know what goes on in her head. But from the post, what she is saying isn't unreasonable. Effort goes a long way. Now yes, she does phrase things in insulting ways. He should provide and what not. Women love a good shaming. I'm just blown away by how women think it works. Yelling at a man to 'man up' doesn't do a whole lot. She attacks his manhood instead of … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 01:35 AM |
| 22 | Jian Ghomeshi trial: History & Judge's verdict today.I found some interesting irony on thestar.com. On the front page were 2 stories. Ghomeshi who at worst engaged in some light choking and smacking without consent. That's the accusation at least. Anyways feminists are outraged. One crazy women even got arrested. A mother in Alberta is found not guilty of 2nd degree murder of killing her 2 babies by throwing them in the garbage. She got a light sentence of infanticide. Because you know... Its a mothers right to act crazy with new borns. Not much o… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 10:09 PM |
| 4 | 2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I saidShame is a big one for women because they are creatures of reputation. It also allows them to 'obey' without thinking they are submitting to their husband. They are submitting to 'god'. Also the reputation in general makes everyone more on the lookout for bad behavior. The community does keep them in check. Now you don't want to get too philosophical here. But I mean if a girl is shielded from being 'bad' by her family/community being too restrictive, is she just as bad as a slut who was free to… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Cheating May or May Not be in Our Genes, We're Still Not Sure: What Science Says about MonogamyWho cares if something is in your genes or not. Being human is about choosing your life. Embracing those areas your genes work for you. Countering those areas your genes work against you. Have fat/genes? Yeah, maybe you have to workout a little more than the average person. Don't have the best IQ genes? Yeah, maybe you have to study harder than someone else. Have the aggression gene? Yeah, maybe you have to work harder to keep self control. Maybe you have to medidate more or avoid certain drugs.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 12:24 AM |
| 11 | Captain of Yale Basketball team is expelled after his plate claims that their 4th sexual encounter was not "consensual."That's why they've been doing their best to get outside the judicial system. Be it in universities, human rights tribunals. Basically anywhere without the rule of law where you can just destroy someone because. There's a really interesting political example. I was watching the Democratic debate between Sanders and Clinton and the topic of a law regarding being able to hold gun manufacturers liable. Sanders: Against it because he doesn't think you can just hold them liable unless they break the l… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 12:21 AM |
| 10 | Captain of Yale Basketball team is expelled after his plate claims that their 4th sexual encounter was not "consensual."We had a case in Canada a little while back about Jian Gomeshi. Basically he was accused of sexual assault. He was into chokin and BSDM stuff. But the women kept came back to him. Anyways, I joked to my brother that this is ridiculous and if they came back and wanted him to fuck them again, they can't claim rape. His response, them wanting him doesn't mean rape didn't happen. It's just ridiculous. The only analogy I can come up with is if a friend of yours steals some money from you, but you kee… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.That is beyond what I was trying to say. I was simply talking of my friend who beat himself up over his cheating. Only to find out she was cheating as well. The point I was making was he beat himself over it. He thought she was his and then he screwed up. As in the title of this post. She was not his. It was just his turn. I didn't say to accept her cheating and keep going on with the relationship. It is to not be surprised by it. To not think she is yours and have that kind of mental investment… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 03:02 PM |
| 5 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.This is gold right here. I was that beta guy hoping to find that nice-enough girl who still believed in that system. I chased ghosts :P | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 01:48 AM |
| 31 | She's not yours, it's just your turn. The glass is already broken.A friend of mine got divorced a few years back. He was always good with women and eventually married. He cheated or something and she caught him. They tried for a year or two. She said the trust was broken and it can't be repaired... He beat himself up over it. How he fucked up his life... Well... time passes. He finds out she was cheating on him the whole time. He's just like wtf. If I knew that, I wouldn't have beat myself up so much. In the end, you just accept you have that part of her you h… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 01:43 AM |
| 5 | How To Make Sure She Won't CheatYeah cause feminism, racial equality... didn't work? They're hard and long struggles. I haven't seen mass men marches, boycotts... You don't see it, so you cant say it doesn't work. People are not trying. Theres a lot of hardships with making a social movement for men more challenging. Some external. Some internal. I grew up in apartheid south africa. Imagine being taught in school your race was inferior. The whole society enforces it. By that comparison mens social movement is easy. There's ple… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women now writing guides to gold-digging. Open hypergamy is here.Its not just women. I read an article talking how women lie more. The professor used words like because they're nicer and more sophisticated. So just lie and scheme is the message as violence is outlawed | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/16 09:24 PM |
| 4 | When Doubts AriseThis is truth. Listen to the gut. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Women's low self worth is the reason they are the way they areI think that is pretty true. People with low self worth have the greatest entitlement because... well how else are they to get what they really want. Is it exclusive to women? No. If you look at highly patriarchal spoiled societies, you will see a lot of this behavior in men. The only exception being that even in these cases, the men generally are held in check society to continue to provide. I grew up Muslim and you do see this behavior a lot. Really entitlement and spoiled men who would be not… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | A part of my hypothesis as to why women (especially attractive ones) are narcisstic & insecure. Thoughts?An actual bigger problem is that is has little to do with a women being attractive. If one was to extrapolate from your analysis, one might think, then a better woman is one who is less attractive. This was actually one of my biggest mistakes in understanding. Regardless of how attractive a woman is, she is narcissistic and insecure. You might notice that unattractive woman don't humble themselves. In their heads, they actually think there is something wrong with the hottest guy not wanting them… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Joe the Reluctant AlphaI think this impacts a lot of people raised in religion. It did me as well. Its pretty much the same story, if i dont give a crap im very good with women. But for a wife i have this desire for a woman with values. Ltrs always left me wanting more. In the end , i go married before trp. Things make a lot more sense now even with the wife. Not caring is harder in marrriage, but its a good feeling knowing how they think of u. Yeah yeah... Dont get married. I get the advice. Its just not my position. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Woman screams and lies she's being raped when cop tries to look in her purseWomen have no need for truth. Morality doesn't just float and enter your soul. It is learned. As a guy, if I lied as a kid or broke my word, I would face some real consequences. You learn about dominance and power and yes... the truth has meaning. Women really don't have that consequence. They're generally free to lie. It gets them what they want. The average woman is like that sociopathic guy who lies all the time. That snake of guy everyone knows to be wary of. Could socialization change this?… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 05:08 PM |
| 9 | A theory on why women say they want the Nice GuyI really think the answer is much simpler. They want a 'nice' guy in addition to all the masculine traits that TRP would call 'alpha'. The problem is that combination is so hard to find it is stupid. They want a leader, decisive, stoic, high-status man... who is also nice, romantic, emotional with them... But if given the choice between: An alpha who is not nice A beta who is nice They choose the alpha. We men have a similar thing. We want a rational, smart woman... in addition to her being femi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Exploiting the Victimhood SocietyYou seem to have missed the first line | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | AWALT: Nigerian girl saved from Boko Haram still misses the time she had with her militant husbandwhy is my ass not attractive? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Exploiting the Victimhood SocietyMost of the big political theories have a lot of truth to them as their basis. The issues come in what do you do you do about it. The problem with marxism is 2 fold. You still have people in charge... now they have a lot of power. Income distribution was a big problem in the Soviet Union. Theoretically, your political system does not 'exploit' people. But without people to 'exploit' it's hard to get things done. So any guesses on which citizens of the Soviet union got sent to work the mines in S… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 12:16 AM |
| 8 | [LTR] Women would rather share alpha than be with a faithful loserAnd this is really the harddest part of the pill to swallow. I've spent most of my life with 'male virtues'. I extended those to women and would be left upset. I've stopped doing that. So the likely hood of me getting screwed over in that respect is low. But the question is of taking that next step and actually getting a better situation. Of actively going against my 'male virtues' when dealing with women. Like not caring about fairness, honesty, and treating her as a disposable commodity. I kno… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Brazilian Crysis. Women are almost 70% on Brazilian Carnival. So what?"Our women, gentlemen, they don’t give a single fuck about anything." And this sadly is the biggest thing we need to let go of. Judging by your last sentence, I think you have. They're not your women. It's not your country. You're holding onto a 'social deal' that no longer exists. As are many of us, even in other countries. Skimp as much as you can on your taxes, live for yourself, and see where the world goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 10:22 AM |
| 15 | The Myth of Female RationalityThis purely theory, but I was reading on the differences between male and female brains. The male brain tends to be more focused. If working on a problem, the 'problem solving' part of the brain shows activity. The female brain tends to have more connections between areas of the brain. If working on a problem, more parts of the brain show activity. I've seen some ridiculously smart women in my life. I don't think there's some gap in a women's 'rational' part of the brain. Give a smart woman a ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Feminism and Cultural Marxism invading Linux Expos where Meritocracy is inherently recognizedAh political talk. Marxism, capitalism... whatever system ultimately boils down to power. And those in power tend to abuse the rest. Men, women... whoever. Marxism in theory sounds good. In reality it boils down to a group of people telling other people what they should do, how much they should do, and how much they should be compensated for it. The reason academics tend to like communism is they think they'll continue to be academics toiling around in offices doing jobs they pretty much like to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 10:21 PM |
| 25 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.I hear this one. I remember this one youtube video that put it really well. I couldn't find it, but here's a related one on topic :P https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pYtKCQIM4I Women are actors. They've been acting since they were kids. Everything is a show. It's rational. Why would you act in any way that does not get you what you want? They like being looked at well. They like gobbing down pizza. They can do it. Do it. Keep orbiters around for help and backup. Do it. Fuck a guy for fun. Do it.… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 04:00 PM |
| 29 | Female dating advisor shares why women can't find a Good Guy.I just find it interesting. There is nothing wrong with women finding bad boys attractive. Most guys turn heads over slutty club girls. The difference of course is in knowing what is attractive to you and what you want out of life and what you can get. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Last Night I Got 3 Women Arrested For Groping And Assault.they will learn. You have to use the tools at your disposal. Women aren't stupid. I had a ex yell and push me, yelling at me to 'hit her'. I didn't take the bait. But I couldn't let that slide. I called the cops. She never again even approached that level of anger. No one wants to be arrested or dragged out or get involved with the police. They will think twice the next time. At least around this gentleman. They probably won't learn it in general. That is to say, they'll still try shit with othe… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.Definitely this. It wouldn't be so bad if you keep yourself around 'soft' people. But when you import huge numbers of outsiders and expect them to be as soft, your society if fucked. Its not just with rape. Its with paying taxes, theft, war, violence... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Women are con artistsyep. I learned this as well. Women lie, but they also tell the truth if you're willing to listen. As I reflect on every situation I've been angry because a woman lied, the reality is they always left signs. I chose to ignore to them. There might be some real psychopathic women who lie just to screw you over, but the girls I've met, always leave signs. I almost think on purpose. They can't admit what they are to themselves or to you, so they leave hints. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Don't discount the 40 plus women, they can be good for you.women are good people in two age brackets. When you can see them as young and sweet. They haven't been ruined by sleeping around. Maybe they even still have the fantasy of finding mr right. Once they have been tamed by humility. They can become reasonably fun people once they get out of their entitled post-wall stage. Once they accept they're not going to get it all and they aren't entitled to a good man. They do get humility. If you want a rough age range. Women are good before 25 and after 40. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 09:47 PM |
| 22 | Read how a mother "trains" her 6yr old son how to treat women. 1.000.000 FB Users liked it...I grew up without much of a father, so I got this too. Not to the same extent, but the degree to which I was taught to treat a woman well is just sickening now in retrospect. The main problem is never did my parents teach me what to expect from a woman. Seriously... nothing. That is the sick part. Even a son is just expected to serve woman. He has no value except in that regard. Once you understand what they think of you, you whole mindset and relationship changes. In a way, she could end up rai… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why the Beta fails at Manipulation (Game)The Beta doesn't fail at manipulation. The Beta doesn't even try to manipulate or game and that is the problem. Let me give an analogy. The Beta thinks the sexual market place is like modern commerce. The prices are fixed. There's no haggling. The government makes sure there's truth in advertising and product quality is decent. You go to the store and pay what the sign says. In reality, the sexual marketplace is like street market in ancient Egypt. You have to know how to haggle to get the best … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Toxic truth: girls fuck Chads then settle down with you, but it's not their fault!A lot of people are 'at fault', but the only at fault that you should care about is your own, because that's all you can control. If nothing else, the path of a woman who AF, BB as it were is just natural. Don't we all want to go for the best, try before we buy... We all have things we reserve for our youth. While I still love a good drink, the heavy drinking nights with friends are fading and less fun. There's nothing wrong with a girl that does that. Where it becomes wrong is when they lie/man… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:30 PM |
| 35 | Corpse FeedersAt the core of all this is cognitive dissonance and our ability to believe in stories. Men and women have it. Many say we wouldn't have society without it. Women just need this ability to a far greater level than men. Just as we all have muscle, but men have a greater need for it. As a result we naturally have more of it. Historically, it would be hard for a women who was loyal and factual to survive to reproduce. But a women who could forget her loyalties and invent a story would live and repro… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Grandfather dropping some RP truthsWell it depends on your view of marriage. A long time ago men had lots of wives and concubines. Marriage was mainly about status. A long time ago, it was common for men and teen age boys to have an odd sexual mentor style relationship. Traditional marriage as we know it was more egalitarian. Every man gets one woman. And every woman gets more attention. Men provide. Women take care of the home, kids, husbands comfort. In each of those cases, your takeaway is different. You can't get the same thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 01:22 AM |
| 11 | The decline of South Africa post Apartheid and parallels in western societyI was born in South African and left during Apartheid. We were not black or white, so we had it okay. Apartheid was there, but we could live okay middle class lives. Yes, the progressive mind state is there in SA and it has collapsed much of the system. Electricity is a big one where huge swaths of the population get 'free' electricity and funding of the system is starved. The result is constant brown outs and decay. Given jobs and contracts to black people is also a huge problem as these are gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Tashfeen Malik from the red pill perspectiveso you obviously have little to no connection to Islam or Asian culture. I have literally had friends from university who went on vacation and come back married to a girl they never met. It's just very common. And they'd hardly be considered traditional or backwards. Just regular moderate Canadian Muslims. Or they go online and it's again just expected to get married. They often don't even know the person. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Tashfeen Malik from the red pill perspectiveMy father-in-law is Muslim and is fairly traditional. He basically said this. Normally, it's the husband who is more aggressive and wants to do crazy things. Then he comes home and the wife calms his down. Saying don't do this or that crazy thing. But here, the woman was the crazy one, so two crazies are going to do something crazy. And for anyone who thinks Islam is a 'male' religion. Just live in it for a bit. As I did. Sure you can be an ass-hole male and get away with a lot. But you can also… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | My Brother, the Beta (FR)Well no, he could have done better. But in the end, it was my life and my responsibility to read into it and query further. My point was, he never warned me of any other girl before. So even though he wasn't like 'Hey man, that bitch is seriously BPD and psycho and you should never date her. She's done X, Y, Z before', I should have picked up on that and queried more instead of just assuming he was just being petty about things. He had divided loyalties at that point. Me versus his childhood fri… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 03:10 PM |
| 4 | My Brother, the Beta (FR)On the contrary, a good set of male friends will warn you. I made a mistake once of not listening once. I went to university with a friend of mine. Pretty solid guy. He had this one girl friend of his since childhood. Unbenounced to me, he forbid her from seeing me. She was always flirting, but it always kind of stopped there. Anyways, after uni, the girl hooks up with me. My friend hears about it and he simply says to me. Just be careful man. I'm thinking no big deal. I'm thinking he doesn't wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Classic from Mike Cernovich. Stop passing shit-tests. Start punishing, instead.A lot of women have lacked consequences their whole life. This girl had it in her head that men should never hit a woman. She could act however she wanted, and men could never hit her. Probably in her family that's how it worked. Her brother could never hit her. Her ex-bf could never hit her. She could have all the anger management issues she had, but it was WRONG for a man to fight back. Anyways, we got into one day, and I'm trying to leave. She blocks the door way. Normally, if it was another … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Men must prove a woman said Yes under tough new rape lawsThere's an app for that! Before you fuck a girl, it records the date/time/location with a video of the girl saying yes. She doesn't do that, don't fuck her. Beyond that. Learn to use call girls or masturbation or toys. Adapt or die. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Female Head of Diversity and Inclusion disregards International Mens Day because it is for menWhen youre at work and theres corporate politics, you have to play that game. You dont get to opt out like a knight and say you will only work with honest honorable people. A lot of men would say playing women is not the way of men. But if the sexual market place is what it is. Thats the game. Play it | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Female Head of Diversity and Inclusion disregards International Mens Day because it is for menAnd we wonder why feminists have so much power. If someone brings a gun to a fight, you have to get a gun too. They have the courts, lawd, hr depts... You have to use those. Now do it smartly. No hate. Youre a victim... It took women decades of fighting. It wont be instantaneous. Ideally more powerful take up this fight, but thats the irony. They dont care. Whereas powerful women do care. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it considered good to be "culturally tolerant"?As an immigrant, I find defining culture to be the main divisive point. Urban people are most likely to talk about tolerance, diversity... really see culture at a very surface level. Different food, language, dance, dress, ceremonies In a way, the urban people especially see it as a form of entertainment. You'd be surprised at the number of people who view this as the extent of culture. And quite frankly if you oppose someone just on these aspects of culture, you are an idiot and a bigot. But th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I realized I am the biggest blue pill beta"I later learn that she has causal flings with this guy who makes no effort at all. This makes me angry, and I just cut contact." This is the moment you realize that women are assholes. I like to phrase it like that, because it is typically used against men. They will use whoever they want for the purposes they want without thinking of what the other side wants/feels. Alpha guys are 'assholes'. Women are 'assholes'. Beta men try and not be assholes. I have a little theory I've come to. Women are… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What is a positive, masculine spin on "vulnerability"?There is a time and a place for everything. Appear vulnerable in front of the wrong people and it is taken a weakness that they can exploit or it lowers your status. Becoming hysteric from a vulnerability is also a problem. It doesn't serve a productive purpose and should be discouraged. Just the other night I was at a bar with some coworkers/friends. I guess you could call it vulnerable conversation. He mentioned his really shitty relationship with his dad. He can't even be in the same room. We… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Women are 3/4 of Muslim converts in the west because they want a Muslim man & are "re-embracing... rigid gender demarcation", at an increasing rateYes they do. Even if they don't 'actually convert', they will fake convert and if the girl has good ties with her family, it will be Muslim environment. Yes, they are the most supplicating beta shit ever. Throw in the victimhood of poor Muslim girl trapped by her family... and guys do doit. But you will see less British men convert to Islam than British woman outside the marriage angle. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 19 | Women are 3/4 of Muslim converts in the west because they want a Muslim man & are "re-embracing... rigid gender demarcation", at an increasing rateAs someone who was raised Muslim, it is very appealing. Mainly for the belonging. Women get sisterhood. Men get brotherhood. It's especially bad in the UK. Less to do with TRP, but just in general, the Western world stopped being proud of its culture. Kids in British schools aren't taught to be British. And so of course many seek identity in whatever comes their way. Commercialism or Islam. Generally women are more religious than men. They need to belong to something more than men. They need rul… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 09:37 PM |
| 10 | Raising a generation of pussies and betas [Yale University speech SJW protestors]It doesn't happen to everyone, otherwise we'd all be conservative. There are a lot of factors at play. The main theme being: are you allowed to grow up? As the public sector grows, so too does not having to grow up. You can live a sheltered life throughout school. Then sheltered at university. Then sheltered at a government job. Then you don't grow up because your job depends on all leftist ideology. Countless others will not be able to get that government job. In other times, they'd grow up in … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Anatomy of the Alpha WidowPerhaps it was my religious upbringing, or perhaps the immigrant mind set, but valuing pleasure was always something I took to heart. The first time I caught myself drifting was in eating out. I quickly realized I wasn't getting much out of it. So I dropped eating out to once a week. Sit down meals, I try to keep even more special. I think most people, me included get 'addicted' to something. Masturbation, sex, drugs, alcohol... Few things turn me off more than a person who needs that high. Be i… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 01:22 AM |
| 13 | He’s Such a Jerk, But I Love HimI was watch Seinfeld the last night and they had fun with this too. The one where George pees in the gym shower. Jerry: "So Elain, you're interested in this guy you met at the gym" Elaine: "He ignores me. He dismisses me. I respect that" A lot of women know they're not all that. They really do. So they respect a man who can see it. It's sick and twisted. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Woman doesn't understand why her white boyfriend has a problem with the fact all her exes are black.There's only a few cases where I think dating within a particular cultural group is respectable. The main one being to maintain your cultural community. But aside from that, why only date a particular race. Once you leave your own cultural group, it's all the same in the end. So the obvious question is why did this women only date black guys? To top it off, she says they the were 'not thugs FOR THE MOST PART'. Which means at best, they were thuggy. If I dated a black girl who was a doctor, well … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Man doesn't like his gf constantly bring up his ex. Gets told he's being 'controlling'.Words have meaning. And here's the thing. The man is being controlling. He doesn't want her to do something she wants to do. He is trying to control her behavior. But a really big part of any relationship is controlling. Do something for my birthday. Come with me for this event. Clean the dishes. Put the toilet seat up. Do this chore. Take care of me when I'm sick. ... Or heck the biggest control mechanism ever. Don't have sex with other women. Modern women have really invented this mental dialo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Modern women are totally fucked.I'm there with you. I think you can definitely focus on and protect yourself, but it is hard at time looking at the modern woman as much as the modern man. You can see sometimes the shell of what could have been a great wife. It's just their mindset is so beyond entitled. I knew for example a strong independent woman from an Asian background. But her condition was that a man not forbid her to work. So she sees plenty of decent guys. Some want her not to work at all. Some say she can work, but sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 05:34 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to emotions, don't expect women to be consistent or non-hypocritical. Everything is based on how they feel.Everyone is emotional. People just have different ways of dealing with it. For example, I'm very task resilient. The world could be collapsing in my head and my heart crumbling, but I'll still be able to function. A lot of men will simply internalize it, say fuck the world, and try to keep functioning. A women might dump her problems on the world, but maybe it at least gets addressed. They have that luxury I guess :) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:35 AM |
| 13 | Has being in or not being in a relationship affected your views of women or the inherent differences between men/women?Married here. My views on women haven't changed that much. But I understand them a lot more. Not just from my wife, but also her friends/family. Honestly, I was always one to value the wisdom of the past. But I just didn't realize the degree to which it is so valid. Just the other night, my wife's friend is over. 31 years old. Really nice, sheltered girl. Pretty sure still a virgin. She met some guy but is terribly afraid to move overseas to be with him. She is comfortable with her life with fri… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | 29 year old woman hurt her boyfriend cares about her high partner count. Gets told her sleeping with 17 men makes her 'average'.If there's one thing I've learned about it is that a lot of them tend to speak up mainly for the opposite. For example. A hot girl generally won't walk around saying I'm hot and you're not. It's self-evident she is hot. Watch what a girl is promoting and you will probably find what she is ashamed about. The latest one I realized was a couple sisters who talk at length about money does not mean class. Yet, I spent some time with them and realize they have money, but very little class. They're not… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Female friend while walking through the campus of a technical university: "Wow, men here are actually handsome."lol yeop. Seen this pattern myself. Women complains about men having huge ego... she apparently has a huge ego. Women says money can't buy class. Well guess who has money, but no class? ... In a way it makes sense now. Women don't generally go out of their way to simply offend/critisize someone. So why would they voice such a criticism except to deflect from themselves? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy-ism" is NOT being a nice guy. It is an inappropriate over-reliance on empathy as a manipulative strategy, or forcing a relationship based on imposed obligations. People grow to loathe you for it.There's a lot here. First, the part I agree with is that 'nice people' tend to gather some anger towards them as people are herded into a relationship and obligations they don't even want. In my world, this is made real by the 'Indian Auntie'. I'm sure each community has their own. People who try to overly nice and do things for people and in exchange of course, they expect people to do things for them. Come to their events. Come to their house... I used to feel it was nice to go along. But the … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 10:49 PM |
| 0 | The Feminization of boys is almost complete.Oh God, I realized just how bad it was last week at work. I work with a bunch of Indian contractors in IT at work. We were just talking and got into the topic of multiple wives. It happens back in India, not that common. But still there. We're keeping it work-safe. So nothing vulgar or anything. This young Asian guy comes in. He is literally appalled at our casual discussion. Multiple wives demean women. You need to value her. I'm Western. This is how we view marriage. I'm pretty calm. I just sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 12:00 AM |
| 5 | The happiness and shame gameI thought about this for a few seconds. It really does make sense from a women's perspective. A happy man is a man not concerned with the social hierarchy. In the social hierarchy you are either confident and prideful (preferred), or shamed/struggling trying to grab your piece of the pie. From an evolutionary perspective, the happy man is probably a bit of an outsider. Even a moody/ashamed man is probably attached to some group. He is probably low on the ladder, but at least he is part of a grou… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Beginning to hate womenYou're not screwed. Look, you don't have to be an asshole. Let's analyze this here. You're with a girl who was with an asshole, but maybe he brought her tingles. You feel in order to win, you must become that asshole, which you don't want to be. Well, here's a better option. Don't be with a girl... who was with an asshole. Does that exclude a lot of girls? Absolutely. If you're a beta, you have to really protect yourself when it comes to women. Find a 'good' girl without a crazy past. That's whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Man wonders why his 'experienced', 32 year old wife, won't perform sexually like she did with previous boyfriends.The one beta thing guys refuse to understand is that women will do the minimal necessary to keep the man in the life. I mentioned this in another thread, but basically beta men think that women are 'like them'. Work together. In reality most women are exploitative, like the alpha males. Most beta men develop an aversion or strategies to defend themselves from alpha male exploitation. But they see women like them. Their partner. Their love... So they are confused and drop their guard. The women d… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a woman is a slut or not?There is no real 'moral' society. I come from a Muslim background as well and I've thought these struggles as well. I saw all the problems of the Muslim society when I lived in one. Lots of drugs/sluts as well, but you can be completely oblivious to it. I don't think either society is ideal. I'd rather live in the West than back home though. Really, the problem with the West is men's education about women. Something I'm seeing more and more men come to terms with. Heck, I'm even seeing Western w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 12:21 AM |
| 12 | What is the role of the modern man as we progress in the 21st century? flair:'mgtow'Here's the problem. Did you ever ask yourself what the role of women is in the 21st century? I remember reading the 'End of Man' (Hana Rosin) and yes she basically goes through the same thing. We don't need men to do as much work anymore. But here's a point that she never even explores. It's a point you don't even consider worth mentioning. What is the role of women in the future? Can you as a man cook, clean, take care of children...? My guess would be most modern men can do all these things. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Women want to enslave you.It might be an 'alpha' religion in theory. As are most religions in theory. The problem is that religion exists within the context culture. Women's rights are global these days. There are very few societies where it does not permeate. The result is that Islam, like most religions today, is more Beta. The men typically maintain their masculine duties (fighting, dying, working, providing...) But the women have basically removed their feminine duties. Duty for sex, obedience to husband, restriction… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Women want to enslave you.Here's the issue as I see it. Society is made up of: 'Alpha' men who seek to dominate other men. 'Good/Beta men' who want to do honest work, raise a family Women who seek to enslave others These are the general categories. Depending on the law/culture, it is really the relationship of 2-3 that defines society. If you're in like Saudi Arabia where a man's right is asserted, then society is seen as misogynistic. Disobeying your male guardian is a crime. If you're in America where a woman's right i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Growing up with a single, feminist mother.there's no victim mentality. But to glorify shitty parenting is pretty shitty. To suggest these kids are raised by good parents and just end up doing shitty things is just plain ignorant. If the kids are messed up on mass... you can bet the parents are messed up on mass. You can bet this mother was messed up. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Growing up with a single, feminist mother.yeah, I think it's really sad when black mothers are cheered for being abusive. I never understood this. I remember when the Fergusson riots happened, there was some mother who was seen yelling and grabbing and hitting her son for being in the wrong area that became a youtube thing. She was cheered by the media and politicians. It's messed up because you know they'd never cheer a white kid being beat like that. Much less what goes on at home in private. But the mantra is all about these 'bad bla… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Growing up with a single, feminist mother.Heck it doesn't need to be a single mother. I grew up with both parents. My dad was a good man (never abused her or anything), but just not very successful and kind of weak. My mom was very successful career wise (in the public sector) It wasn't until my late 20s that I realized just how much of a feminist my mother was. We grew up constantly being told how to be a good man. Things like 'you'd make a great father. Treat your wife well. Be nice..' Not exactly completely bad advice were it balance… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 03:41 PM |
| 3 | On Women and the Male Rape FallacyI almost have some weird fun with this. I was seeing this girl and she mentioned that non-consent was rape. So we got into it a bit and she specified that like drunken sex is rape because there's no consent. So it marital sex if the woman does not feel like it. Now, my definition of rape was always basically if the person being raped is forced against their will (person held down, drugged...) So, next time we went out, had some drinks. We're all ready for some good old drunken sex. and I'm like.… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Should a man ever trust a woman he's romantically interested in?You can never trust a woman as you would a man. Trust and loyalty are male concepts. I listened to some podcast once that gave an interesting biological reason for this. Back in the day, it was just common for tribes to war against each other. When they did, they would often kill/enslave the opposing men. And take the women as concubines, new wives... In order for women to survive in this environment, they had to learn to quickly change loyalties. Be nice to the new tribe, new king, new husband.… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.well you are being jealous. I'm pretty sure that's the definition fo jealousy. "inclined to or troubled by suspicions or fears of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims: " http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/jealous But what the hell is wrong with being jealous. This is the biggest game women have played on men. Taking perfectly normal, proportional emotions and responses and shaming men. If they ever call you jealous, insecure... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.What a good cousin. It really is fascinating dynamics. On the one hand, and the way the cousin presented it, it is that she will never really be able to appreciate you. I'll give a female example. I was once seeing this partially religious girl who had a relatively conservative background. She thought giving a blowjob was something amazing she did. Mentally, I knew where she came from, that's something. But I had never dated a girl who didn't give blowjobs. So it was just the baseline for me. In… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | It disgusts me how lazy housewives are.yep. It's pretty much all religions today. I come from a Muslim background. Trust me... Islam in the West is the biggest enslaver of men. They take on all the responsibility of men in Islam... and then try and include women's rights. So you get a lot of lazy house wives, men focused on masculinity while expecting nothing of woman but to take care of them... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:44 PM |
| 3 | It disgusts me how lazy housewives are.Fuck, you could explicitly tell her of the sacrifices (been there myself) and she still doesn't think of anything of it, because that's just something you're willing to do for her... because she's a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:38 PM |
| 1 | It disgusts me how lazy housewives are.Yeah, I actually thought of this long before TRP or The Red Pill. I wanted a girl that works. Not like a career high salary woman. But just some one with a job (40-60k). I just didn't see the household being all that much to do. I've cooked/cleaned for myself. It's barely an hour or two per day of pretty relaxing work. I also didn't picture myself as the kind of guy who would be able to actually make use of a housewife. Like demand a great dinner, super clean house, nicely ironed shirts... She n… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:24 PM |
| 3 | ScienceMag: Women associate money with love, men link it to freedomIt's not just about the house and kids. Honestly, if most women thought like this, it would still be okay. Just look at the girls in high value professions (lawyers, doctors, accountants...). Many just spend their money because they really don't think they have to be responsible and independent. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | ScienceMag: Women associate money with love, men link it to freedomI think this is the key. The mentalities behind it really do matter a lot. If a guy is just down on his luck or the economy is shit, a lot of woman will still stick by him. In the same way that if a woman is sick or something and gets fat, a lot of men will stick by her. But if it boils down to the man or woman just being lazy, spoiled, irresponsible... then it is another thing. It is why you have to be very careful with a girl's looks. A lot of woman are simply pretty on average and as long as … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | ScienceMag: Women associate money with love, men link it to freedomIt's not that people are confused. It's that people who are not AlphaBucks, don't really need a lot of money if they choose not to be Beta Bucks. So why bother with it? It kind of goes like this. Alpha Bucks > Alpha > Beta > Beta Bucks Being Beta is better than Beta Bucks because as Beta Bucks you're wasting your time getting money. Probably as a regular worker bee, even if you're a well paid one. Worst still if you're providing for a woman with your beta bucks. Everyone always starts off with w… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/15 05:02 PM |
| 6 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.If we're talking society in general, talking points are pretty much all that matter to 90% of people. If girls received conservative education and they only had tribal association knowledge, it would work towards that agenda. Sleeping around would be shamed, family would be emphasized... In the end of it all, identity based philosophy is a lot more powerful and important than anything in depth. As the OP said, even if they're stupid and its nothing more than topical knowledge, it shapes their en… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Why the woman with a n=1 count may be most dangerous LTR of allYou just have to figure the person out. That's all it is with LTR. Now you can certainly have red flags that would prompt you for more investigation or even outright cause you to run, but there's just so much context you need to look at. You need to look at what they did, why they did it, what their thought process was. For example, a girl who is an n=1 with a long term boyfriend (5+ years) shows the following qualities that need to be investigated. Pros -seems to be able to maintain a long term… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why the woman with a n=1 count may be most dangerous LTR of allthe other side of this is the a girl who valued her virginity to be a n=1 girl now won't let it end as that would mean an end to her value thinking of virginity. So they do tend to let it drag on. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone from Ontario Canada watch Katherine Young on TVO's The Agenda tonight?https://www.youtube.com/user/AgendaStevePaikin/videos lol, every other episode aside from part 2. Quite the coverup TVO. Quite the coverup. I sent an email query. We should all do the same. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/15 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Did anyone from Ontario Canada watch Katherine Young on TVO's The Agenda tonight?man, why is part 2 not on the TVO website yet :P Is it just a delay or are they so embarrassed at their hosts performance :P | /r/MensRights | 14/08/15 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else disgusted that insurance companies can openly discriminate based on gender?Here's the thing. The response is always that statistically men have more accidents than women. That might be true. It probably is. But here's the thing, you can't use stats for so many other things. You can't use stats for race. Can you charge black drivers more than white drivers? In my home province, they banned the use of the credit score as a measure. This one seems more reasonable as a criteria for discrimination as it is not something you are born with, but the choices you make. Yet, they… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/15 05:11 AM |
| – | Did anyone from Ontario Canada watch Katherine Young on TVO's The Agenda tonight?yeah, I watched it. Man, you know we have a problem when a calm female university professor just mentioning that men have some issues brings the host to defensive anger. Lol. I say it is time to fight for men's reproductive rights. Bring on the artificial womb and funding for surrogacy :) It's still kind of surprising this point was not mentioned. Women thought nothing of depriving men of their identity as bread winners, fathers... So why do women expect some special protection around their iden… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Roosh in Toronto. Did he really say rape should be legal?never mind. Found my answer. http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-stop-rape He basically does propose it. I get his general points, but this is just retarded. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truths"For young women the problem in navigating sexuality and relationships is still gender inequality, Young women complain that young men still have the power to decide when something is going to be serious and when something is not—they can go, ‘She’s girlfriend material, she’s hookup material.’ … There is still a pervasive double standard. " Oh boy would I love to see this mindset elsewhere. Only women get to decide to keep a baby or not. This is a clear double standard. A man should be able to h… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Your attitude is who you are. Everything else, you are just borrowing.It depends what your feelings are. Why is it that you think feelings automatically lead a blue pill man to marriage? Let me pose another situation. As a man, I feel like having sex with multiple women. It is actually the 'thinking/values' part of me that would hold me to marriage. Believe it or not, the vast majority of blue pill men are not following their feelings. They want to think about higher values and morality and justice and being nice... No one is going to advocate blindly following yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Girls want to be degraded and dominated by a high-value man. (Case in point: AskWomen)That's just cold man. Obviously if a guy refuses to listen, that is one thing. I can honestly say, I grew up with almost no male influences. Life has been one big giant learning curve for me. What I would have given for someone to just let me know some shit, so I wouldn't have had to unlearn everything and then learn everything new again. Either by example, or by just telling me. So I talk to guys properly about what I have learned. If it reaches them great. If not... all good too. But you'd be … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Girls want to be degraded and dominated by a high-value man. (Case in point: AskWomen)I don't know about this. It's obviously impossible to get inside someone's head. But I've heard women say the truth under their breath too many times. Which makes me think they are absolutely conscious of it all. I recall my first girl friend way back when. I was having issues with her talking to other guys. I talked to her about it, said I wasn't comfortable... Figured I'd dump her if she didn't change. Then one day, she says in a soft voice... "you know, you can tell me not to talk to them". I… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Its beyond this now. I was watching daytime tv when working from home one day. They had some guest relationship and the audience asking questions. This one 25 year old girl was struggling to tell her bf that she is a virgin. It was embarrassing for her. Even the crowd and the expert were like its okay to be a virgin... I was mindblown I have no idea what girls in their teens today are being taught by pop culture and the education system. Its an upside down world. Who knows if a good girl even ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 11:08 PM |
| 4 | My mom is an entitled bitchThis times 1000. It is so messed up to say, but those words are pretty spot on. It is especially your mother, because that's the person you're least likely to think to protect yourself against. Even a good women behaves like an ass-hole if they were judged by man standards. What can you do about it. Well you don't need to introduce your dad to it. Just be alpha yourself... with your mother. Take care of your own needs. My mother is educated, earns like 2x my dad... and when I stopped abiding her… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Don't forget that it's not a numbers game. It's about qualityPhrasing this is always very important. For example. Do women prefer assholes over nice guys? That is not the right question. It really isn't. Despite the often dual nature of the question that is generally posed. Ideally, they'd love an assertive, powerful, driven man who is also soft, kind, giving... The problem is that combination is so rare. Given the choice between Assertive, powerful, driven asshole soft, kind, giving, beta bitch Most women suck it up and choose 1 and then spend their life… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 10:07 PM |
| 10 | Disney Pixar's Inside Out literally showcases and details hypergamyI watched the movie, and its pretty damn good. As I often say here, the issue is not women's hypergamy or anything of the like. Yeah, the Brazilian helicopter pilot is no doubt sexually attractive or enticing. But the mom made a choice for family life with the boring working husband. If anything she is a good model for the vast majority of women who do not have the privilege of marrying their hot dream exciting AND providing husband. What's missing is of course the husband's point of view. This … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 05:21 PM |
| 18 | Woman is thinking of making her husband a 'list of chores' before he gets a blowjob.lol, it's kind of perverted how many women are groomed to think of sex as a reward they give men. My first run in with this was with a girl I was dating who one day got into a fit because I wouldn't pick her up, drive back to my place, have sex with her, drive her back home, then back to my place. I said, you have a car, it just makes sense for you to drive yourself. I didn't know much about TRP at that point, but it just made no sense for me to do this. I'm having sex. You're having sex. We bot… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Calling a young woman out on her lies...any point?It really doesn't matter. The best you can do is have a women admit they do this sometimes. That's the best I've been able to do. This is why it is important to: 1. Ensure she respects you to make decisions 2. Knows her weakness, and doesn't put up a front for it. Consider the following. I know I have a weakness with say home decor. In the end, I tend to heed my wife's descretion on it. Unless it costs a shit load of money/effort, and I admit it's pretty good. It's not like when she suggests a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:57 PM |
| 4 | How DARE you attack the man who slept with your wife!?!?Well it depends. Yes, be mad at your girl, but you should also know that it is a sign of disrespect for a man to think he can get away with having sex with your girl. Look, if the man had no idea she was with you, oh yeah, of course. I would really try not to have anything against the guy. But if he does. Let's say he is a known person. A family friend, an associate, a person who should know your status with her. That's a big show of disrespect and you should throw him down a few. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:30 PM |
| 2 | How DARE you attack the man who slept with your wife!?!?The really fucked up part is many women don't even see it as lying. I'm still trying to figure out how conscious it is. But the only way to get the truth about a women is to get another women to somehow tell you the truth about her. I once got pretty upset at my mother because she was denying actual events that took place. Not interpretation or anything. My gf at the time was like, that's normal. Her mother does that too. They will freely admit how easily women lie. But of course... never them. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:27 PM |
| 14 | "A woman's best trick in maneuvering herself under the man's protective wing, however, is her intellectual inferiority."As someone from an Islamic background, I tend to see interesting parallels between men and women. I see plenty of 'patriarchy' and really entitled men. You guys think you know entitled women, I think that's merely because you haven't lived or are not around a culture of entitled men. Guys will leech off a woman and have secret second families just because they know the girl won't divorce them because it looks bad on her. Even in terms of family, as it is traditional that the guy gets most of the… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:14 PM |
| 17 | HuffPost reveals the truth: Women want to be treated like prostitutes in bed.It is sadly the sick joke and confusing as shit for men, but it is what it is. It doesn't matter if it is sex, life choices... this is the rule. You as the man need to act, and she can blame you for any downside... and here's the biggy... there's a downside for pretty much any choice. She wants to be ravished, and then if she feels used, she wants to be able to blame you. As I said, everything has a downside, and she wants to blame you for it, even though some action is needed to be taken. If ki… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Status and Money; Men and Women at the top of the heap live differently that the rest of us. There's a lesson for the RedPill life in here for all.What the hell is the point of worrying about hyper-gamy? People here throw around almost like a bad word. I really am puzzled by it. What is hypergamy, but getting the best? As a guy, don't you want the best girl too? Heck, don't a lot of women worry about a guy trading up as well? She is worried her husband could find someone better as well. That's true of a lot of women as well. It's really only in the western world with the laws/culture stacked against men that women can even contemplate not … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 08:27 PM |
| 3 | "Early men and women were equal, say scientists" -- The GuardianThis doesn't seem absurd at all and is not at odds with TRP. There's probably some base genetic differences. But how we are raised seems to be a bigger factor. Consider men. Our genes would provide us with more muscle, aggression... but here we are in 2015... lots of weak submissive men. In hunter/gather society, women would have be much tougher. They'd have to be on the move as well. They'd probably have to hunt and gather as well. They'd probably have to learn to defend as well. They might ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 08:12 PM |
| -1 | Increased Death Threats for TJ Sotomayor, a well known critic of Feminism in the Black Community - And the obstacles facing Blacks who speak out against Feminists in their Community Today.Yeop. I had this thought a while ago based on some experiences. I still don't know whether things are nature or nurture... but as far as the 'big problems' people talk about women here, I'm thinking a lot of it is nurture. The 'black community' as you show is the example. I always knew it was a victim complex community, but it didn't hit me how hard this was until a made a comment to a friend of mine. It didn't hit me how much it resembles what is called here as 'female' behavior. He is a good b… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 11:09 AM |
| 5 | If You Have a Toxic Mother Read This.. (Mother's Day Rant)I'll also take issue with this. It's more that fathers in general are already maligned in society. Everyone knows about dead beat dads, lazy bum husbands... It's just a shocker to society that think of shitty mothers. Never is this more pronounced that in 'black america'. Everyone talks about absentee fathers, crappy black men... Here's what they will never talk about. These women are choosing to mate with these men. Abortion/birth control is available today. All these black men had a mother. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | "Surprise victimhood" as a tool of feminine powerI don't know if the reason is practicing, but the general thrust makes sense. Women constantly try to play the victim over other women Men constantly try and assert power over other men. As a kid, I used to hate the man games. I really did. It didn't really click for me that this is all some grand posturing for position in life. To put it laughingly... why can't we all just get along. Eventually I learned it puts you in a bad spot and to fight back / play the game. I still think it is stupid, bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Arab culture has a problem with MGTOW (and redpill to some extent) - Warning: LONG postI totally resonate with this. Just seeing how these 'mothers' 'care' about their son kind of cemented the RP understanding of the world for me. It's not just the women you date, it's your own mother. It's the last disillusionment so to speak. As a man, you're on your own to handle your shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Arab culture has a problem with MGTOW (and redpill to some extent) - Warning: LONG postI've said it here before. For all the 'external' machismo of traditional cultures, they are in the modern day, the most beta. I come from an Indian background. But the issue is the same. Arab/Indian/Muslim... whatever, to be a part of that community is to be in service to women in the modern day. Women/community maintain all the benefits of being a women, and they threw out a lot of what made it hard on her. So you have for example, a lot of women who expect to be supported by their husbands. Wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.There's nothing wrong with it per se. All women are about status. The issue with finance women is their status is among their finance circle and that comes with great cost. Finance guys probably suffer under a lot of this too. They just get used to expensive meals, expensive shows, 'bad' activities like too much drinking, gambling... I'm like you, an engineer and I look at this lifestyle, and I can play it for work, but I really want no part of it. I'll go out drinking with these guys maybe once… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.Oddly, I think finance has been good for me as well. I'm a software engineer and had previously mainly worked for tech companies. My friend recruited me to the bank. My first 'revelation 'was just dealing with contractors. Oddly in finance being a contractor is a better deal. In tech, its the opposite. They don't do any work without it being of benefit to them. Sounds shocking I know, but that's not the tech industry. The next one was just seeing people move. I went out to a corporate bank night… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What happened to women? What is causing (or caused) the downfall of respectful and classy ladies? What will happen in the future?Sure, I agree with that. But you asked what happened to women? That was the question. The answer is they have not been trained and the laws only increase the entitlement. That women might have more of a base entitlement than a man is fine. Maybe a cat has more entitlement than a dog. In a perfect world, maybe we could dwell about that. But you can certainly train a cat or a dog to be a half decent contributing being. If your cat/dog is ripping up the furniture, biting people, taking people's foo… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 02:33 PM |
| 6 | What happened to women? What is causing (or caused) the downfall of respectful and classy ladies? What will happen in the future?It's called entitlement. It happens to men, women, dogs, cats, whatever... If you don't train a person to be decent, most of them won't. Now feminism removed any sort of training of woman and gave them a shit tonne of benefits. Let me paint you a picture. Imagine today we got menism (?) which removed alimony/divorce payments to the wife, the children stayed with the husband, if you got a girl pregnant it was up to you if you wanted to take responsibility for it, if you cheated it was not 'wrong'… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Lesbians Claim “Mental Rape” After Christian Family Wouldn’t Bake Them CakeJust remember this when people dismiss the slippery slope argument. The slippery slope has just been proven very slippery. Every time issues like this come up, I like to reflect on a few years before. I remember a few years back people saying stuff like this would never happen. I certainly wasn't around when rape laws were drafted, but I'm sure we're all familiar today with that slippery slope where drunken sex can now be called rape if the girl didn't think she gave her CONSCIOUS consent. Guess… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Justifications for honor and personal codes.What fuels your 'moral' behavior differs vastly from person to person. Maybe you get it from religion/God. Others get it from ethics, philosophy, wisdom... TRP is actually pretty telling of this. Why should a girl not have fun and screw as many guys as she wants? The answer you get from religious girls (Muslim community) is that it is a sin. For many it stops there. That is probably why many girls from religious communities are so screwed up if they deviate a little, they deviate a lot. Well gue… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 05:19 PM |
| 2 | 16 Things You Should Know Before Dating a Woman Who Has Her Shit TogetherTime for a mini rant. Maybe it's morning and this resonated with me, but here it goes. There's this show called Scandal. For whatever reason, quite a few women in my life watch this show. It's not a bad show as far as shows go, but there at times I am literally repelled by this show. The main reason being everyone in the show gives a self-righteous speech every 5 minutes. It's like they lost the art of dialogue. It wouldn't be so bad except their speeches have so little bearing on reality. This … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 01:07 PM |
| 0 | There's no limit to how badly a woman will treat a beta. My best friend is the prize heifer of betas.This is really key. For both men and women, but probably moreso for me, there is a real knowledge deficit about women. Knowledge can be corrected. Some people can be taught, others need experience. But in the end, they will learn. Then there's people with severe mental/emotional | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it a stupid idea to look for a unicorn?Well what is wrong with the mosques? Well you have it right there with your friend. She is so exploitive, she knows she can fool around, and then find a Indian Muslim to marry and have kids. Why would she marry this Indian Muslim? 1. He is a better fit for her family... 2. Because he probably has some religious duty to 'support her' I grew up Muslim, and experiences will vary, but this is my experience in the West. Either the mosque is just old school and no one really bothers to pay any attenti… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Is it a stupid idea to look for a unicorn?Hey I'm like you. I really don't see women as a prize. All I'd need is one plate if I were to go that way. But like a lot of people, you want something that doesn't exist. Unconditional love/support is an illusion. Now this doesn't mean, everyone just walks away the second something goes wrong. But never think it is unconditional. There are plenty of women who wouldn't walk away the second you lost your job or something. But many would if you saw you weren't doing something. It's the same with w… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 09:00 PM |
| 18 | Men Just Don't Trust Women -- And It's A Huge Problem [HuffPo male hamster comes close to RP truth]It really is a change in mindset. I for one had an heightened view of my mother. In the end, she is another women you cannot simply believe her word in that trustful sense. A key word phrase I use in my head is simply this. You need to handle the women in your life. And I don't mean that in any kind of malicious/sneaky/playing them kind of way. I just can't think of another word to describe how you have to deal with the vast majority of the women in yout life. Once you understand, you have to ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/15 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Woman on r/deadbedrooms is completely turned off by her beta husband, thinks he's a pervert for wanting sex.Some women actually get it. That little thing for duties and responsibilities. A lot of married guys get up and go to a job they hate everyday to provide for their family. They do it for their family. Sexuality is no different. If your spouse wants sex. You do it reasonably often. You work for family. You take care of the kids for the family. You do household things for the family. You sexually satisfy each other for the family. The most dangerous ideology you can get from a women is 'I don't fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Cutting out negative people from your life no matter how "close" you are or whatever "ties" bind you.Like all things, it can be both. Family bonds, like religion can be used for RP and by everyone else who wants to use it for their own gain. I come from an Eastern culture, and it is a lot more facade than real. This is not to say there are not strong families. There are, but it is not this strong blood kinship thing that people imagine. People are cast out all the time. Leaders change all the time. People take advantage/abandon each other all the time. People cheat each other on family matters,… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 05:13 PM |
| 8 | In the West, Women themselves ultimately will have to lead the charge in denouncing Feminism, (no Matter What Men do) in order for the best possible society with harmonious gender relations to emerge.Feminists will fight feminism when they have male children. There's been a few of them. Even if you read the book 'the end of man' (Hanna Rosin), controversial title, but she too has a son. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | IdealismLet me give you an example. I was at my in-laws the other day and my wife's sister was talking about her husband. She's a pretty religious girl. Pretty sure she was a virgin when she married, but not really charming. One thing I'll grant her is that she is pretty honest about how opportunistic she is. She still probably hamsters a lot of stuff. She has said on a few occassion in front of her religious husband that she wanted a man as a monkey to drag around and support her. In this conversation … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:30 PM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesAbsolutely, this is the best advice. What do you do at this point. Like, that old political saying, the people get the government they deserve, men get the women they deserve and vice versa. This guy didn't do the right investigation on his women. Oh, you can say she played him. In reality, there were no doubt signs during the relationship that should have raised his awareness. This is no picnic for her either. It's not a nice thing to know that your past totally destroys any hope of a decent fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Women only reproduce with the top X% of men: it's an OLD ruleI don't know how you think this wouldn't happen in the old days. Thousands of years ago, force and power were dominant in getting you what you wanted. Genghis khan wasn't a farmer. He was a powerful man and reproduced like a mad man on all his conquered people. Kings, sultans... typically had harems of women and slaves and concubines. More likely that your rich farmer, it would be a warlord who became ruler of the land who had 17 females and numerous concubines. He had an army to enforce his pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | AWALT. For me, it's the toughest part of TRP to swallow. I believe I either misunderstand it, or am overthinking it, and it's preventing me from enjoying my relationships with women.Think of the AWALT the same way you would tell your daughter about having guys as friends (AGALT? :P). Assume all her guy friends want to have sex with her. Is it possible one of her guy friends is just a nice guy who treats her just as a guy friend? Sure, possibly. What it should do is CHANGE YOUR DEFAULT understanding. Meet a girl the first time. Assume RP truths about the situation. Maybe in time, you dig deeper and find out she is a quality exception. Good for you. As to cheating? Most girls… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 11:01 PM |
| 7 | Manipulative women will award you for being weak.This is actually a key point. We've all seen women use charm to get what they want. I can pretty much guarantee anyone who has been in the working world has seen women use charm to get things done. Charm actually works quite well for a lot of women. They get what they want and 90% of men kinda feel half good doing it in that semi flirtatious kind of way. It's not like we're blind to it. We know its all fake. I know I'm not the best. I know you touch my shoulder just to get to do stuff. But hey, … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | For the newbies: Why women criticize the gaming industry as being sexist yet have no issues with Hip Hop, 50 Shades of Grey, etc.I'd say a big part of it is attention. Men who play games even if they involve big boobed women, are not focusing their life on women. And so they inject themselves and demand that if you're not at least trying to be with a woman, then you must view them as equals and heroes and be polite. Hip hop / 50 shades of grey... objectifies women as something to be wanted. Even if it is just something hot to fuck. So they complain, but still like it because their focus is still on getting women. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Girls just want to have funyeah definitely. This is entirely possible. It might not even be that bad. IF you're a man and want a kid, adopt or a surrogate. The other day I saw in the paper about a gay man who wanted a kid and went to an Indian surrogate. Maybe marriage is dead and we all just have our own kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 11:15 PM |
| 20 | Girls just want to have funWell it actually is a good question. As the Middle East is teaching some people right now, democracy means nothing if you don't change the mind set of the people. If all democracy means is me Sunni, you Shia, me vote Sunni, you vote Shia. Life not good. We go war... well that democracy is pretty meaningless. Or in the case of some people... me want money, government give me money, I get money. It's the same with voting. Women got the right to vote BEFORE having to do anything or change their min… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?just in case there is a misunderstanding, i didn't imply never getting valentines gifts or anything like that. But I don't owe it to her so she can be entertained or look good in front of her work people. Its natural. If you are enjoying the person you're with, you would want to do things with them and for them. If not, you won't. Maintain the relationship of course and tend to it, but do it for the relationship, not because you owe her any kind of princess treatment. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 11:27 PM |
| 22 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?I really think people want too much from a relationship. People expect way too much out of it. How much you put in or get out of it is really up to you. Even the way you speak about it. It involves you doing things you don't want to do or entertain her. Well here's something... don't do those things. Don't spend money on her just because she wants to. Let me give you an example. I at times like to show a girl a good time or go out. I remember the first girl I dated, I felt good taking her out. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel women use sexuality to gain an advantage in every aspect of their life?The wording of the question is very important. Note it says are you aroused by 'cheating/having an affair'. I'm not aroused by the act of cheating. Fck, I think its a betrayal of morality. I think most men view it that way. Call it honor, morality, values, whatever... This is separate from being aroused by 'fucking a different woman', which I agree would be like 95% of men. Women for whatever reason are probably turned on by the idea of cheating just for the erotica of it and that it is forbidde… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | "Nice guy" since becoming assertiveThis is maybe true of some guys, but certainly not all asshole. I get called an asshole often times, but I do like doing things every now and then. I'm a human. I don't see it as playing anyone if I sometimes have a nice thing to say or do. But the reality in the big picture... is yes... by their definition, I am an asshole. But I agree with that part that the being nice part can make them feel special. I'm just not one to care that much about women to be nice to get them into bed. They're just … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:39 PM |
| 11 | Women will shame high SMV men who refuse to commit. Women believe they deserve those resources.Women will shame for pretty much anything. So it is to be expected in the sexual realm against men, but really is i just a specific case of the general mode of operation for women. It their most basic functioning. The male equivalent would be if we just acted blindly on our raw ability and emotions... we'd just end up in physical dominance being the mode of operation... and historically... let's face it, that is how men operated. Women however, continue to operate in their base value of shame. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:19 PM |
| 9 | Article states Intelligent Women are single because RP Men want a woman who isn’t ever going to let her career come before making dinner and pleasing them first.The problem is really that 'intelligent' women are still women who don't know what they want and what they can get. I know a lot of guys and they all know what they can reasonably get. If you don't have a good job or something amazing about you, you don't feel entitled to the most amazing girl in the world. You actually think you need to earn that woman. These women do not ever thinks of the family, their husband, their children... nothing... everything should just revolve around what they want.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Women make bad friends. And even women know it.yeah. This is really one of those definition things. It's actually one of the reason I think women like to say they can have male friends. Because in our talk, what they really mean is male acquaintance, because generally, what they would describe as friendship is really an acquaintance. I hear them speak at work. Oh I work with so and so, we're friends... I've gotten into a few more interesting talks with them and its like, oh I know he might like me, but I know when not to drink around or be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Observations from IndiaYeop, fully agree. I commented on this a few time. Asian guys in general come from a heavy RP culture. But they are not RP as in run your life. Just RP as in responsibility. Take care of your family, get a good job... Now you mix in feminism, and you get Asians as the biggest BPs around. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Women and the Art of Lyingoh I hope you didn't take it as you fucked as her cheating. No I meant, your reaction to her cheating as in trying to checkup on her is fcking up or perhaps not detecting things earlier. Her cheating... totally her fckup. Your reaction to it... fckup. Your ability to read people before hand... needs work. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women and the Art of Lyingyeop lol. I now detect my brain going that way and I stop myself right there. But I had to go through it I suppose. It was just mind blowing dealing with a literal crazy person in a complete distortion of reality. Granted, your ex might not be crazy to that level, but it still makes no sense to you. You just have to accept that all women are like that just to lesser degrees. They won't make sense to your mind. You cannot be in their head. You can only see what they do and act accordingly. I know… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Women and the Art of LyingCrazy can make you crazy. A while back I dated what I've come to know as a BPD girl (borderline personality). It was a girl I knew passively from school. Anyways, the summer was up and I ended it with her. Then she just went nuts. And that made me a little nuts trying to get her to not be crazy. I didn't want her back, but she was doing some really messed up stuff and as I knew her from school, I just wanted her to act normal. We had common friends and they were concerned as well. She literally … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Do sheltered girls overestimate SMV more?One aspect is obviously true. The social surroundings do matter. If her whole social circle is nerds... and you are just a little 'cooler' then yes, you will have a higher SMV to her. Also if she's just used to shy guys and you show a bit of initiative and power, its going to wow her. Every woman is going to be wowed by some 'beta' behavior if you even want to call it that. Who doesn't want expensive gifts? the problem is does she expect it of you? Eventually, she might. She probably sees it as … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 09:10 PM |
| 4 | What is the evolutionary benefit of women maintaining the 'I'm always right, I do no wrong' attitude?It absolutely is. Others have commented on the evolution of it and it is pretty true. But I'll put in a few points. Women rarely have any concept of virtue or laws as universal. Everything is always context to feed that I'm always right. You will notice this. Here's one I ran into recently. For example, women will decry any man who is generally stronger than a women using that strength even as an unsaid threat against a woman. A woman can say whatever she wants and he can't use his strength agai… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 05:35 PM |
| 16 | Discussion: Do you think conservative and "old-fashioned" cultures got it right? If so, what changed?It really depends. but let's not idealize the past nor religion, nor tradition. I see this often here, and I sometimes shake my head at this desiring of the past as somehow women changed. Women have not changed. I come from a heavily orthodox islamic background. I hope I don't need to specify the role of women in orthodox Islam. Just last night on Facebook someone had that classic prophet's last sermon where it says something about racial enlightment as the only thing that matter is race. In the… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Whores & DaughtersThe problem is depending on your religion, it can be really hard to be that contradictory. I come from a pretty orthodox Islamic background. I also happen to be pretty traditional in the sense, of work, family, life of substance is the best... The problem is, I have left my religion and it is beyond my character to simply stroll around talking about my religion knowing it is a lie. Perhaps it is more with Islam in the sense that I'd be telling my kids that the Koran is the way of life God ordain… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Why shouldn't women be hypergamous?No one is saying women shouldn't be hypergamous. There is nothing wrong with hypergamy... you want the best thing for yourself. Doesn't sound bad all. The problem comes with the social realities around this. Men/boys are not educated that this is what women do leading to a false perception of their hypergamous nature. This is in contrast to women/girls who are pretty much always taught men and out for sex. Women themselves don't recognize their nature and this puts them in compromising positions… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Aren't MOST women basic bitches, though?Worrying about people being hypocritical is a waste of time. Worrying about women being hypocritical is an even bigger waste of time. The idea that women are empathetic boggles my mind. They might be more sympathetic, but definitely not empathetic. Simple point. My wife was on vacation with me during this past holiday break. So she goes one day to her parents. Her mom asks her why she's not dressed up. We're both off, so she should be dressed up to look nice for me. Her dad picks it up from the … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Are the vast majority of girls capable of being bisexual?I don't know about more inclined to. I don't think it is any secret that the Greeks and Romans used to be sexual with men. I'm not going to say percentage wise, but I'd say purely biologically, sex with the same gender is probably something a significant percentage could engage in. Maybe today it is easier for women. Or maybe it is that women kind start off small (kissing, touching...) whereas a guy might be more interested in the actual act. I'm not sure, but history is pretty full of it for bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why there are so many questions about every possible situation here. And a question.sure. Have expectations of yourself and others. Don't be afraid of losing/offending someone Always ask yourself what is in it for me. Don't be a self-sacrificing oaf. So say you get a text from some girl. Really what is the big picture guideline? Just go through the list: 1. Does the text violate any expectations? Is it rude, violent... Then don't validate it. 2. Are you afraid that what you respond/don't respond will cause the other person to lose. Who cares. Plenty of other people in the world… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 03:30 PM |
| 4 | The kind of frame to adopt when a girl starts being physically aggressive?You have to adopt the kind of frame that you actually have. Choosing a tactic like amused mastery while a girl is going physically crazy, is probably not going to be very effective and you probably know it. You can see it is only making her more crazy and more aggressive. Just like all people, there are different ways of dealing with them. I remember the first time I saw my wife go a little crazy physically. My normal frame, if she was a guy, would be that I don't really lose control, but I'll b… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Let's stop the "Any South Asian/Indian/Pakistani/whatever" posts.yep. I see it all the time. And the worst this is Indian girls raised in this environment come armed and equipped. They have to deal with TRP father/grandfathers. They are equipped with the manipulative skills to deal with these kinds of people. yet, the guys are simply taught they must be different. They are battle ready with nuclear bombs so to speak. So you basically have women given the the training to deal with the most alpha of men. They are extremely skilled at extreme manipulation and em… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Let's stop the "Any South Asian/Indian/Pakistani/whatever" posts.What is with the Let's STOP posts? You see these every few days. This is a website for communication. Give them advice or heck even call them a whiny bitch... The rest of your post is pretty good. I know this is not men's rights or whatever, but this is one of those rare areas where men come to spout their issues. Call them a whiny pussy if you want, but let's stop the 'stop the X posts'. And no, that is not being hypocritical before anyone tries to get smart And yes, Indian/Asian guys have it p… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 06:27 PM |
| 8 | Get To The Top 20%. Lurkers and New RP Men, Your Beta Qualities Are Officially Worthless To Today's Women"You have a choice to make. If you didn't have an incentive to get to the top 20% by now gentlemen, I don't know what will give you that drive." Well that is the thing. I don't think the men who have no drive or motivation and spend their time with mindless entertainment don't know that. They know there is not much to live for. That is generally why MGTOW. But it certainly is rational and better to mindlessly waste your days, than work hard for little benefit or for the benefit of a woman who ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Stop trying to change societyI have nothing against people for giving up and just living their life. I really don't. Heck, people often accuse me of it. In the sense that I am not trying to change my religion and I've given up on it and just moved on. I can see the social value in transforming it and I know there are people doing it, it is just not for me. I don't have the time of day. I can't deal with that level of lying. I'm not that skilled nor that manipulative. But I certainly wouldn't hate on someone who is trying to… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Stop trying to change societyI understand all this, but this defeatist talk is sickening, especially when it comes from people who sit around talking about being ALPHA. I don't know if this is some kind of first world problem, because I don't understand it. Sure, don't care about society at all. You will in the end be far worse off. Have you ever lived in a collapsed society? You have to give a shit. You have to talk about morality. Every other group doesn't stop moralizing and preaching. You want surrender to them? As an e… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 02:51 PM |
| 3 | It's not the red pill truths that upset the masses as much as the socially unskilled ways they are presentedyou need both. Without the words, that 45 year old with a multiple plates can be positioned in people's mind as exploitative... That's how people are. If actions only spoke, we wouldn't be as we are in the society now would we? When there's another narrative going on, you have to talk about it or people will conveniently choose easy narratives. Doesn't matter what it is. That's life. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 09:50 PM |
| 3 | It's not the red pill truths that upset the masses as much as the socially unskilled ways they are presentedIf there's one thing men should have learned is just how incremental and generational these kinds of changes are. If you don't talk about it, the discourse in her head, and then in her talks to her friends, and politics, and family... is not likely to change. Just think how the current generation of men and women were led into this current state just willy nilly accepting the narrative. Only now when men are just assumed to be nothing more than violent rapists is there even a push back against t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 08:34 PM |
| 2 | It's not the red pill truths that upset the masses as much as the socially unskilled ways they are presentedDefinitely. You need to phrase things correctly. You might not get them to change their view, but most will at least take it in. For example, careerish women approaching the wall. How do you explain this concept to them? Well you could frame it as is often the case here making them out to be some kind of malicious entitled nut jobs. Or, you pose some questions to actually grasp the world view. So, I normally go alone the following: You knew you wanted a career right? So you studied hard in schoo… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Islam and TRPPlease stop. I'm an Ex-Muslim and found TRP. Irony of ironies. There is a lot of wisdom in old older cultures. Pretty much every older culture says what Islam says. Heck, white liberal society would have said basically the same stuff 100 years ago. Yes, the family unit is good thing... But that has little to do with Islam. Pretty much true of most cultures/religions on Earth. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 05:50 AM |
| 11 | TRP: Can South Asian men have a lot of success in the US? What needs to happen?I'm a South Asian male. Race has very little to do with success. What most people mean by this is South Asian males on mass have values/attitudes that are simply not attractive to women. This is not the case with all, but as a general rule to the ones complaining here. I know for example where i live, Punjabi guys aren't really complaining. But say Tamils/South Indians to complain. Here are some of the problems. Most South Asian guys are mammas boys. They can be the most ruthless businessman, bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 07:28 PM |
| 1 | The opposite of a red flag? What makes you think a woman is worth your time?The only green flag you need is to have your own standards and not excuse her because she is a woman. Does she conduct herself with respect? Is she genuinely kind Does she accept limits on her self to avoid screwed up situations. Does she like to cook? Does she view a relationship/life plan with the same seriousness as others would investing in their education... Does she understand the concept of duty? Knows who she is Doesn't seek validation from the world ... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Age in a Partner27 and 20 is perfectly fine. When people talk about older women being more mature, it really is bullshit. By 20, your overall personality is basically there. Like interesting conversation? At 20, the girl can make interesting conversation? Whatever you look for in a girl in terms of personality, it will be there. Same with men. Those kinds of personality traits can be refined, but they're there. You see how you see good traits in your 20 year old (sweet, look after you, respectful...). That's he… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 01:33 AM |
| 2 | How to find out a girls real sexual history.Why do you want her to confess? You will never believe what the truth is anyways even if she tells you. Here are the truths you know: 1. She turns into a slut when drunk 2. Her friend is a slut 3. She was outgoing in uni (lots of time to be drunk) 4. She is not a virgin You've already established in your head that she is a slut. Do you plan on marrying this slut? That's really your only choice right now. If not, then who cares. Have fun with her in the limited capacity of your relationship. If y… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/14 06:02 PM |
| 17 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?Like a lot of this, I really don't think it as as 'malicious' as the wording implies. I sometimes have to remind my wife of the male mind. She thinks I'm gross, but I just say that is how I am... how all men are. Every woman I have seen since I was 12, I have imagined having sex with them. Well not everyone, but let's say 90%. My mind is pretty fucked up like that. So we have developed pretty good self-control as it relates to raw sexual impulse. I'm just not out there raping, cheating on every … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Women's hypocrisy when it comes to their looks.A lot of this is more about extreme social conditioning. Kind of like how guys are taught to say things like they value equality, value a working career woman, not care about a woman's look... Everyone naturally takes pride in their best assets. Hot guys know they're hot and will use it. So will hot girls. Smart girls do it. Smart guys do it. Assertive guys do it. Assertive girls do it. But somewhere along the line, the cultural norm tells people their assets are actually 'bad'. Now granted, one… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | CNN attempts to drum up outrage about a university president who dares to tell female students the truth. That many rape claims are nothing more than morning after regret.I agree, but that was not his tone, which is very important for a public speaker of an institution. That was my point. I know what people are complaining about here, and I fully agree. All I said was that this guy showed poor judgment in his comments. Suppose I go to a bar and I'm a bit tipsy and I just get into some funny verbal stuff with some guy even a little pushing. I don't think it is going to amount to much. But he escalates it and next thing you know, I'm being punched and kicked and st… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 04:08 PM |
| -1 | CNN attempts to drum up outrage about a university president who dares to tell female students the truth. That many rape claims are nothing more than morning after regret.Watch the video. This guy is pretty clueless to be speaking like that. It does call out women as liars and to do that at public event is pretty socially retarded. Truth be told, you can't really say they were 'lying' unless you have video evidence of the entire thing. What can be said: It is hard to do justice in these kinds of cases. Consent is vague; depends on each person's mindstate. Why place blame on man when both are drunk. Must adhere to principle of innocent until proven guilty. Alcohol… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 01:07 AM |
| 2 | I struggle to see the point of female friends you aren't sleeping withMen and women can't really be 'friends'. It's common knowledge and its pretty empirical. http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/ But there is a difference between a friend and an acquaintance or associate or other kinds of relationships. You can't live in this world and not interact with 50% of it. Woman are in your family. They are at your work. They selling you stuff. They might be into the same activities you are... Yes, there is not point in being friend… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | What Beta tendencies, if any, do you still struggle with?I'm torn between treating woman as little children, or holding them up to a real standard and not wanting anything to do with them. I still tend to go into treat them like children, which gives them a pass in many ways. Probably a bit of beta thinking. But it is about the only way I could get past certain things. Not just with romantic woman. But even with my mother. The only way her actions made sense was if I treated her as a silly selfish child. Actually makes being around them much easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | In their own words: dating "the millenial woman" is like dating a manYeop. I've always been traditional in that sense. But I'm not wise enough to predict the future. Maybe single parents, not married people, day care centers... can raise kids. We might not collapse. Maybe we have enough automation and are efficient enough to cover our material needs without crazy work. In a sense, we might be rich enough to do without the family unit. I mentioned this example to my wife one day when talking about ghetto communities. Poor people can't afford to make as many mistak… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 05:39 PM |
| 3 | In their own words: dating "the millenial woman" is like dating a manThe challenging part really gets to me. I remember one of my wife's friends is a project manager. Reasonably stressful job. She got married. We had dinner with her a couple time. I remember one of our conversations, she's like, i just come home after work and want my husband to take care of me. Yes, that is what it is like for men at work. I'm out there in the world fighting for positions/money all bloody day. Nobody (men or women) wants to come home to do battle. That is the fundamental problem… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Don't be fooled by the new non feminists!Why would it matter if she gave birth to you? She might care for you, but that does not make her an ally. At least not in the same way a guy would be an ally to another guy (shared goals, unified vision...) She has her own agenda and her own needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 04:34 PM |
| 7 | The Price for Obtaining Women is too HighThey don't act in such irrational ways. It appears irrational because you want them to think like a man and want the same things like a man. You want her to be future goal oriented. For example, women like company. She will therefore do what she can to get that company. It might be sucking off random guys. It might be throwing money at them. It might be letting an asshole totally have his way with her. Yes, this might ruin her future prospects for the other thing she wants (family/kids). But is … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 03:59 PM |
| 3 | The Price for Obtaining Women is too HighThis is absolutely true. The easy answers are right there. Women are selfish Women want everything. Women want company and want to be wanted. It's nothing complex. You just have to accept it for what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 03:48 PM |
| 17 | Marriage means tending to a woman's perceptionsI really don't get this kind of comment. Hypergamy is a thing, but women aren't out there screwing everything that moves her one level up. You reconcile marriage with TRP by find a women who actually believes in marriage. Marriage is NOT: for fun for company for the festival for social status ... Marriage is to raise a family unit with kids. Find a woman with such beliefs and she won't be flinging up the hypergamy ladder on a whim, assuming you are a half decent person. Now, granted in modern da… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Marriage means tending to a woman's perceptionsYeop, married and found TRP later. No kids though and none she be entertained until we have a solid relationship. You don't need to do BP stuff to be married. You're entering any relationship and there are things you do to keep it up. I have male friends and there are things I do for them (go to their weddings, hang with them on their birthday, help em out when I can...) BP is not valuing yourself, putting her on a pedestal, sacrificing, not being respected, living in fear... Decent (not trash) … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Nobility and HypergamyYou can have emotions. The key is in how you express them. Yes, you don't want to appear weak. But that doesn't mean you don't acknowledge or talk about how you are hurt/vulnerable... For example as a non-controversial example, there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that you are nervous or anxious giving a speech (vulnerable). But you go ahead and make the speech anyways because that is what you have to do (NOT weakness). In my view, showing your vulnerabilities is part of being direct and ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Stupid whore fucks her way through college, marries a virgin indian man while hiding her sexual history. Her husband finds her sex tapes. And boom goes the dynamite(xpost - /r/twoxchromosomes)Definitely and that is even more surprising is the complete and utter lack of gratitude. This girls knows that if who shes is gets out, her entire life is ruined. Parents will disown her. Friends will distance them. In India, she might even have been killed. She probably thought she had no hope of finding a guy even through her parents who would be okay with her past. In comes mr nice guy. He basically solves all her problems. Takes her from nothing to a decent Indian family. And she can't even … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 01:02 AM |
| 20 | Stupid whore fucks her way through college, marries a virgin indian man while hiding her sexual history. Her husband finds her sex tapes. And boom goes the dynamite(xpost - /r/twoxchromosomes)yes, hundreds of examples, but here's the thing, and I know all too well being from the Indian community. I have a lot of sympathy for these girls. I really do. It is pretty shit being raised by super strict parents and then going out unprepared in the world. HOWEVER, and this is a big HOWEVER, that doesn't and shouldn't change how you as a man should act towards it or how honest she should be. A lot of girls will do a lot of things for guys for attention. Heck, I know a lot of these guys. India… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Never marry/date asian girls as an Asian guy videoWomen use shame to get you to do what they want. That is it period. They shame their men so their men act in their interests. Or at least they try to. It rarely works, but sometimes they can find a sucker. It's probably more easily visible in the black community. Shaming a man to get a job... But it's there for the Asians too. They will say their men aren't exciting or are too demanding... mainly because they don't want to live traditionally or do the normal family responsibility, even though, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Asian dude, 28, is the first Asian boyfriend for an Asian girl, 28. "You're racist / looking at this wrong"It is actually rather funny. I'm Indian... so similar experience to Asians. The gender dynamics can be so extreme, yet people so inexperienced. You will have your very RP asian guys who have good control of their life and situation. But you will also have extremely BP asian guys who TEND to take on a lot of responsibility and RP family structure, because it is highly expected of them. Yet, they're also extremely BP because of a lack of gender experience/education. There is typically an almost ov… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Comedian Michael Che Attacked for Suggesting That Maybe Getting Called Beautiful Isn't the Worst Act of Harassment - Handles it like a proI watched the video after all the drama. This is what I noticed. Most of the guys were just trying to chat her up. "Hey beautiful..." Things I would consider nothing but complementary and pretty not intrusive. There were definitely a few that were a bit more annoying/creepy in terms following her. That all said,it really is the neighborhood she is walking in. I live in a major city (Not New York) and don't see that much unless you're in the club district. What's funny is my wife is super 'anti-r… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 02:17 AM |
| 22 | Girl uses BetaBus, guy that calls her out is the assholeThis has probably been mentioned before, but if you're not being called an asshole, sexist... then you're probably completely servile. I'm hardly an alpha. But I have begun thinking and acting taking my own needs into consideration. My wife's friends think I'm 'sexist'. My wife tends to accept my position as 'fair' when she talks to them... so not too much of a worry there. Really, it is 'sexist' to believe if a woman hits you, you have the right to hit back (not that I would, legally it's stupi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Female marriage counselor drops RP truth, gets downvoted to oblivion.Indeed. Just as feminism took decades to get to where it is at, you'd be pretty irrational to think men are going to suddenly change in one generation. Let's say you're not a alpha male but in a LTR with a women and you go see this therapist. She works on you a bit. Your wife maybe learns not to keep challenging you and let you be a man. You relationship improves and life is better for both of you. Now maybe you do a better job of teaching your kids something of being a man and how to deal with … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The only people who can be saved by TRP are people who are already on the verge...Either can be saved. I think I see the core difference. Billy: sees that life sucks, but just accepts it anyways as... Barry: sees that life sucks, but doesn't think he has the ability to do anything. I think people are tempted to say, Barry can be taught how to act. He wants to tell his boss NO to work weekends, but can't. Whereas Billy's problem is that he has accepted a shitty life. But in reality there is little difference between the two except that Billy chooses not to get riled up. It's a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 07:59 PM |
| 2 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleTrue. But like I said key is her engaging k in the first place leading to the emotional affair. If I hang out with a girl for hours talking emotional things, I know the connection and cheating will come, so I dont do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 03:59 PM |
| 3 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleFor some reason, I feel like just deconstructing this article. Belief in the soulmate. There is no such thing as a soulmate. You just find someone compatible with the best traits possible. Why do women want to call this thing a soulmate? Well because it MUST be special. So this forms the basis of the issue. By thinking this soulmate is 'special', it implies many things in her head. We'll get to that later. Spending hours talking to man 'K' well this is very inappropriate behavior. You see this g… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 01:24 PM |
| 9 | Respect is earnedYeop fully agree. And this is not just with men. Many women do value things like religion or family structure. It is these women who recognize the long term value in actions and resist the Cinnabon so to speak. The hard part today is it is only religion that MAY help a women restrain herself because she is doing it for a greater value. Women today would have a hard time restraining themselves for a 'man' because they owe men nothing, but God is a different story. It is ONLY these women who deser… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Respect is earnedThere's a lot here in terms of earning respect, which is absolutely true. The guy got dumped the minute she spent all night talking to another man. That is all true. But the overall message is a little silly. There's always going to be someone better for her... and of course for you. Putting this all on yourself to be the most respected man out there that no woman would never dare cheat on. Well dare I say, that's a lot of effort to put into someone you can't even trust to act decently. Talk abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 07:56 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend says no to everything I want to try in bedYou do not ask. You do not convince. You simply do. Of course, if she says no or really looks agitated, then stop. Half the problem is getting the women in the 'mood'. Convincing them doesn't put them in the 'mood'. Asking for things doesn't put them in the 'mood. Now here's the perverse part that will screw with your brain. My wife used to be all about the expansive definition of rape. That is to say unless a girl gives full sober consent, it could be rape. This was news to me, because well, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Denial of sex by spouse is cruelty: Supreme Court of IndiaIf you read the article, this is much more a case of divorce and alimony than anything about sex; although sex was the biggest issue as far as I could tell. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Damned if you do, damned if you don't. UMich now considers withholding sex to be DV. How much do you want to bet that only applies to men withholding?You know what the greatest form of control is? Controlling who you can be intimate with. Controlling who you can have sexual relations with. Controlling who you can be emotional with. These restrictions pale in comparison to controlling finances or denying sex. All these major forms of control are for marriage / LTR. I think we should just say that marriage/LTR is a form of abuse. EDIT: I should say, that last line is sarcastic. It is just that any relationship is going to have conditions or lim… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/14 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Most American women are not attractive or feminineAll the details aside, here's the issue. Men like women and women like Men. If I wanted a man as a wife, maybe I'd have been homosexual or just grabbed a friend as a roommate. I don't like saying women need to step up their game, because it is not specific enough. You see there is trashy women who don't work and are fat. Yes, that is useless and it is the height of pointlessness. Where the real battle lies is in the working women. In her head, she works, therefore she is stepping up her game. In… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 03:47 PM |
| 5 | TRP made me not want to have anything to do with relationships.I tend to use 'asshole' in quotes, because being an 'asshole' is actually not 'bad'. It just means going for what you want. Being an asshole, does not mean lying to a girl, leading her on... There are other words for that. What you will find is simply being direct and not submissive will get you called an asshole. For example, going out with a girl when you both want to have fun, never promising commitment, and just enjoying your time with her will make you an asshole. You don't want commitment … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/14 12:31 AM |
| 4 | TRP made me not want to have anything to do with relationships.well that is sadly what it is. Trust me as a recently married man, this is all you will see in life. It is exhausting. Even when things are going good, the whole thing is just damn exhausting. Have relationships. It is fun. Just never commit to a woman. Holding frame against men is hard enough. This in my view is the test. Are you a man who can hold your own against another man? I'm not talking physical violence here. Just if you and another man have a dispute, can you hold your position and not… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/14 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [Book] No Man's Land By Jack Donavan- " The invention of the birth control pill, combined with the rise of feminism, the industrial/information economy and the welfare state had produced a ''single-mother system. '' "You can't do anything completely in life. But you drop out to the best possible :P | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Norwegian psychologist claims to have a decent description of the modern man (Translated with Google translate)In theory, it is not a bad adjustment as long as it is a choice. A career focussed woman can do that and a homely man can do his thing. There are a few basic problems with this. It is hard for a career woman to accept a homely man. She wants a man who is 'greater' than her. Well as others have said, this leads to a very unsatisfying life. Anyone who works full time (men or women) knows how hard it is to come home and then be expected to entertain or do chores. This is even more so for career ori… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 05:08 PM |
| 16 | [Book] No Man's Land By Jack Donavan- " The invention of the birth control pill, combined with the rise of feminism, the industrial/information economy and the welfare state had produced a ''single-mother system. '' "Yeah, which is all fine and dandy. All you need to do is recognize the system that exists. So men, just drop out of supporting that system. Do for you and have fun and enjoy. Get political if you want to and try and change that system. But while that system exists, just forget about your 'traditional' role of 'manning up' and 'providing' and being 'responsible for others' If you don't see the welfare state collapsing... then just fight for your own welfare. Fight for paternity leave :P Fight for… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 03:42 PM |
| 31 | Hypergamy in Action: "How do I break up with an old boyfriend whom I have dated for 4 years, for a new, better guy I've known for 1 year?"There's nothing wrong with a pro/con list. We all do it. I think the PUA hits it on the head. It's that she views the guy as money and a face. Nothing on values, history, personality... She actual displays a complete lack of values by wanting a guy who keeps hitting on her while she is in a committed relationship with a guy she actually likes. This is by in large what you are to most women. Or an accessory to her life, like a handbag. Someone to trot around. The equivalent of a 'trophy' wife. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/14 03:22 PM |
| 52 | Yes, men do leave the marketit does come as a shock to women, but believe it or not, people don't do things with little or no benefit to them. Women naturally assume men should want them. But it's just not worth it. Career women = no real benefit. You go to work, then have to work even harder at home, and you both 'feel' entitled to be 'taken care of'. house wife = not much respect In both cases, it is expected for you as the man to do all kinds of stuff you don't really like to do be it dance class, playing tag along with… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Connecting the pathological fear of husbands having power with the peter pan manboy syndrome.This rings too true and even the comments. All you need to ask a man is what do you gain. That simple question given some thought is enough either put men off marriage or to just get out of society. Just drop the fear. If you are gaining nothing, what do you have to lose by going for what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | College doesn't turn good girls into sluts. It allows sluts to quit acting like good girls and be who they really are.I'm not going to debate if college changes people. If you're not changing throughout your life, you aren't exactly living. However, being exposed to different situations will have an impact on you and create bigger changes. Are you saying war wouldn't change you? Of course it would. Does it bring out the real you, whatever that is? I have no idea. That's some philosophical question about what is the real person. I'm generally of the view that you are a product of your experiences and inner value… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 04:46 PM |
| 10 | "And no one wants the nice guy because just like a slut, he gives his love to anyone who will take it"I've talked to people about this. Here's what I think is happening. Women do want a nice guy. But nice is not at the top of their criteria. They want someone who will lead, set boundaries, make decisions, fuck her hard, joke with them, take away the stress, make her feel wanted, knows what he wants in life, takes steps to get where he wants. Now if they can can get all that and the guy is nice on top of it all... amazing. But if you're nice and lack the rest, well that's not even a starting poin… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men go into teaching? Fear of "The Accusation"I'm Canadian, so I don't know too much about common core. Yet, things from the states do tend to end up here as well :P I don't have a problem with standardized testing as a concept. I do however have a problem if it is used to measure how effective the school/teacher is and I do have a problem if the curriculum is tied to standardized testing. Here's where reality hits the fan. I get assigned to teach grade 9 math. Whatever fantasy world the bureaucrats are in, I get my 25 students. They come i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 08:33 PM |
| 16 | Why don’t more men go into teaching? Fear of "The Accusation"I'm an engineer, but went back to school and am a qualified teacher. Here's the issues: A very dominant female atmosphere so full of fear. I get it, bad things happen. But my god are these school so full of fear. Every little thing is taken as some kid is about to commit suicide. And you fear not reporting things in case one of the other female teachers reports it. You can't run your classroom. I want to teach. But you can't. So many rules and regulations and excuses. It's again an atmosphere of… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 3 | [FR] TRP works, but it cost me my LTRYou made a few basic mistakes that I was guilty of as well. You engaged in a debate for the sake of it. You were not in a position to make your own claim. women judge you by your actions, not your words. My wife for example, came home talking about this same story about how it is unfair to the guy. 2 years ago, would she have said that? I doubt it. It was all never hit a woman... women are weaker so even if they hit... you should never hit back. That's how the women are in my family... One day, … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Obama says "A real man doesn't hit a woman".who said i was talking about his SMV. SMV is not the only issue in entire world, nor this thread. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Obama says "A real man doesn't hit a woman".He was also raised without much of a father. Pretty sure he has some issues in that respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Everyone who swallows TRP always says this.What does a woman or commitment do for you? That is really the question every male should ask. I say it because it really is the basis of everything. If you want to raise your SMV, you need to ask this question because you want a good female to take advantage of your high value. If you go MGTOW, then again, this question is that women aren't really worth the effort as they don't do much for you. As to you young red pillers :P Maybe I'm getting old, but when I talk to younger kids, I just don't s… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/14 04:15 PM |
| 4 | AlfaFux,BetaBux: Indian woman wonders why she can't get tingles for a "great guy" who has an Ivy League degree and treats her better than her ex-boyfriends.It depends. If you're in the same group or people or community, word does tend to get around; at least on the fringes. So you have to know and be able to talk to people openly. You might get small parts of the story here. Or you can act relaxed about it and they might tell you some details. You can then multiply it by a few and get the real story. This is my general approach. Most will tell you about the boyfriend they had for years... that magically doesn't work out. Or of course look for direc… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 06:13 PM |
| 5 | AlfaFux,BetaBux: Indian woman wonders why she can't get tingles for a "great guy" who has an Ivy League degree and treats her better than her ex-boyfriends.Just stay away from Indian girls. Especially the 'educated' ones. Plenty of posts about this before. They're generally pretty slutty and because most of their past relationships are 'secret', they tend to be very shitty. Other girls might eventually have a friend or family that talks some sense into em. But generally not Indian girls. So they generally spend their youth getting fcked by any guy of any quality. The number of these girls who appear externally amazing (Doctors, lawyers...) but have… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/14 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminists want a world where they have all the options, all the timeyeop, I agree. Whatever genetic or natural tendencies there are tend to pale in comparison to how we are raised. Even with physical strength, a women who dedicates herself to working out and strength training will beat your average man any day of the week who does not strength train. Culture matters a lot more for the average person than any innate ability. Yes, on the extremes, the innate differences might come through, but those are for the few. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 04:01 PM |
| 6 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.lol. sure buddy. Remind me to never get in the car with you. apparently seeing what is ahead of you is perverted. Last time I saw a tree on the road, it was dangerous. But this time... let's just wait and see what happens when I hit it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 09:39 PM |
| 4 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.right... I suppose historical evidence of how these laws play out should have no bearing... I think 50 years ago, they'd have said it would never be the case that two people engaging in drunken sex could be rape... but here we are... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:33 PM |
| 3 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.I don't know. I'm in Canada and last I checked, it is vague. I think in Quebec, surrogacy contracts are pretty much null and void. It might be better in the states. Do you know of any good clinics that do this? I'm like seriously considering it if it is doable. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.heh. if only this were possible. Problem is: The legal system is complex and doesn't really recognize surrogacy even if it is done by a lawyer. The last thing I want is to sign up for surrogacy and then have some woman come after me for child support. Somehow, I doubt society will ever give men this right. The best you could hope for is probably adoption. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:09 PM |
| 3 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.emotional abuse is anything that hurts your feelings and I don't say that sarcastically. Physical abuse hurts you physically. Emotional abuse hurts your feelings. There really is not other definition. It's just the degree that matters :P | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 3 | "New law to imprison 'bullying' partners: Theresa May set to unveil plans to create domestic abuse offence that would carry maximum five year sentence." - They won't even have to cry rape to ruin a man's life any more.It is not hyperbole. Have you seen what rape laws have become in colleges? This is not an issue for the law. At best it is an issue for social workers, educating people, have outreach centers for such people. And the solution is maybe counseling or advising her to divorce him. And if she is financially dependent on him, then by well... maybe she is getting something out of the deal. Maybe the solution is for her to leave him and depend on the government? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 59 | Feminists want a world where they have all the options, all the timeI've said it before and I'll say it again, modern feminism (not just the extreme kind... the mainstream kind) does to men what actual misogynistic societies do to women. The only real difference is that in those traditional misogynistic cultures, at least the men worked and the women didn't have do; so she gained something. I come from an Indian/Muslim background, so I am reasonably familiar with the other side. A world where men have all the options all the time. A world where it is just common… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 05:39 PM |
| 3 | A Good Wife Versus A Bad WifeThis is the funny part. it all depends on where you are starting from. There was a time the best of men would take dozens of wives, and have harems of concubines. Today, it is expected that a man commit himself to one woman. I'm not going to take a moral position on either of these two points just for the sake of this argument. The question is what does a man gain from this monogamy? You seem to think this guys article is a man's wet dream. Perhaps it is in this day and age. But consider a 'regu… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to tell your girl to lose some weightI few things I've learned. Make sure you understand that there is nothing wrong with you wanting her to look good. Looks are just another trait you're looking for. It is part of what makes someone themselves. Someone smart, funny, hard working... being in good shape is another quality. And it is something you to work at and put effort in. Why are you qualifying it with not wanting her to feel you're not attracted to her. If you became a bum and stopped working and didn't even try to get a job, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Who pays on a date?It depends is the best answer. It really depends on the girl as well. For me, it is more important that the girl give according to her ability. So for example, I dated a girl who worked in a daycare when I was younger. She didn't make a whole lot compared to me. So, I didn't mind paying more often than not. What she had though, she had no issue spending on me. But when I've dated girls who make enough money, well then its generally 50/50 for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.yeah, I hear that. It's a funny thing. They get told to guard their virginity and relationships since birth, therefore it must be of great value. Therefore, the guy who gets it has to earn it! Which is really not that bad if the whole world worked like that. The problem comes If they've already lost their virginity or been in relationships, they don't comprehend that it pretty much loses all value. It has no resale value. Most woman are not like that, so it again loses its values. But like I sai… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.Yeah, it is a gamble. I know a few friends who got girls from back home. It can work out right. Some are really nice. Other's had secret boyfriends and were just as sneakily western as the ones here. Basically you cannot tell anything. It is a huge risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 12:59 AM |
| 20 | Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.it's not that complicated. unless they're really traditional, most are treated as princesses by their families and expect as much no matter. This means. Heavy entitlement. As 'traditional' indian culture requires a pretty submissive wife, most more modern indian women actually develop a hard edge to anything resembling pleasing their husband, especially if they're educated. This means bitchiness. As Indian culture is still heavy on community... most still wish to remain 'like good girls' to thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Men thrive on competition, women do better without ityeah, but like I said, that is not a problem. If we give people material needs so they're okay off, and they start competing on who has the best car or status symbol... Or at work, maybe competition is about status or prestige. It is not about getting rid of competition, but about deciding what we compete over. We don't compete generally over the number of warriors we have slain, or slaves we have, or land we have conquered... this stuff is pretty variable. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men thrive on competition, women do better without ityes, and the same would probably be said of men in a world dominated by stereotyped 'female' values. There are probably a lot of men who would do extremely well in cooperative, less competitive environments. Just look at all the men in academia :P It's simply a question of what the dominant values are. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Men thrive on competition, women do better without itPeople are naturally competitive when things are scarce. Are you competitive with the oxygen you breath? No, you don't care about it because you have enough of it and so does everyone else (barring environmental disaster). It is also human nature to be cooperative. Yes, it is human nature to be competitive in somethings. If you cannot be competitive at work, maybe things become about selfies, dress styles, likes on facebook/reddit and other superfluous things or high status symbols. If removing … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Men thrive on competition, women do better without itThis is a greater political point that is often missed. I'm going to talk philosophically here a bit and take the opposing view for a second. Many here would say, we have 'equality' of opportunity. Yet, they don't want equality. They want an easier life or someone else to do the work... Here's the greater political point. I doubt most feminist would articulate it, but I'll do it. Why is competition or meritocracy taken as a given value in society? Those are 'patriarchal' values. Why not egalitar… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 09:40 PM |
| 12 | The Redefinition of Marriage.yeah. It's bad because many men still grow up thinking they should behave according to the definition of the contract. I was the kind of dimwit who would meet a girl's parents as a matter of respect so they know who she is dating. Now I wonder why i did that. The girl did not demand it of the other guys she dated or fucked. Yet, I still did it. It did me more harm than good, generally complicating my life. It's a mismatch of rules, contracts, and expectations, and yeah for men, just opt out. I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 12:48 AM |
| 22 | Reminder: Most people (including family) don't want you to swallow TRPYeah, this was the biggest revelation that ever hit me. Your mother at the end of the day is a woman. Sounds radical eh :P shit tests, manipulation, status, shaming... all there. Most women will always phrase it as they're doing something for you, but they're as selfish as the ásshole' guy who just pumps and dumps. Looking at my mother now is very different. As a kid, you don't think there's anything wrong with your mother being fat. But now I see it much differently. My mother always had time f… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't "intimidated" by a sluts "sexual experience." They're disgusted.There's a chris rock joke. A man sees his friend has a really nice girl. He says to himself. That's nice. I really want a girl LIKE that. A woman sees a friend who has a nice guy. She says to herself. I really want him. Women want what other women have. It's rational in its own way as if lots of people want something, it must be good. He must have worked really hard and be really skilled. Men want something of their own. Rational again in its own way. That's why the ''double standard'' exists. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy. If women want a guy who's basically better in every way, then what's in it for him?yeop. I agree. My main point was it is about educating men. Many western men don't think they deserve a feminine woman. They think it is somehow wrong to want that. Heck, many women think it is wrong for themselves to be that. The title of the article is telling. It asks "what's in it for him" But then blames it on women. Hey... men should worry about what is in it for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy. If women want a guy who's basically better in every way, then what's in it for him?There really is only one difference between men and women in this regard. Many men think they don't deserve the best girl they can get, so they don't even try. They will generally aim for a woman at their level or lower. Afterall, they think what could I offer a girl that is better than me? Most women think they deserve the best guy they can get and so they will pursue them and don't really pay attention to how she benefits the guy. That is afterall, his concern to worry about him. Maybe you wou… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Hanging out with Muslim ImmigrantsKindof, except Muslim women aren't exactly pure. Even the prostitues in Arabia wear hijab. Most of the Muslim men delude themselves into thinking their girls are pure. Like I said, having grown up in the community, both in the West and back home, you tend to see it all. At best, they know how to act and lie :P It's an active conversation in the minds of most girls whether or not to tell their guys of their past. If the guys knew about hypergamy, they'd know that their girls are hardly pure :P Ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Hanging out with Muslim ImmigrantsI always have a love-hate relationship with TRP and how many here have a love of Islam. I'm an ex-Muslim, so maybe I have a deeper exposure to the culture, but women in Islam are oppressed and the guys are as entitled as the most ardent feminist. There are men who expect to be obeyed as it is their Islamic right even though they don't work or do anything useful. They're not leaders or rational or anything like that. They're bums. no different from whales who expect to get a good man. Yes, male b… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Getting over the anger phaseSometimes you just gotta get over it in time and ACTION. One of my friends from high school married pretty soon after college. He married his high school love. Anyways, they got divorced in about a year. After that, for a few years, he literally was just screwing girls. He literally approached this one girl in our group we all wanted to get with and asked her for casual sex. I mean like literally, he said, we should just fuck. Before marriage, he would never do that. He got called an asshole by … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 11:36 PM |
| 7 | 96% of women are liars, honestA guy at work once asked me if I'm honest. I said I am. Which is pretty true and I'm known as pretty honest person. He then said, you know the right answer is 'I'm honest as long as I can afford it" And it is true. I would lie if my life was in danger. I'm not talking about casual social white lies here. I'm talking real lies. What you really have to understand is that people value different things. Women really value things like their reputation or social cohesion much more then men. So in thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I think I learned this from you guys. Married life field report with a cool storyBeing of Indian-Muslim heritage, I really had to be careful with this one. In our religion/culture, this is the expected arrangement. The men takes care of the household, and what the women earns, she gets to spend it on whatever she wants. It is her money. understand this is taken as a Islamic right. You literally have to hear the cases I hear when I attend weddings and stuff. Grown woman who are doctors or lawyers refusing to pay for household expenses because it is their right not to. Now don… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Personal Observation: Women despise children that aren't their own.I really haven't noticed this myself. In fact, I think women tend to be far less caring of a guy who has kids with a previous woman. In fact, I'd say men care much more about this than women. It would be really hard for me to be with a woman with kids. That said, I have heard this concern a lot by women who have married/dated guys with kids. They prefer the kids be older. I'm going to assume this is because younger kids would be competing for their man's attention or need more care. It's not so … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Women are Incapable of Change.Yes, I wouldn't argue with that. Most men get into things the same way. Except that this does cause unneeded tension as people try and push to define themselves, and hence, oppose someone else, even though they really don't care about it. It would be like a big societal push to get guys to care about the color of the walls of their home. It would probably cause more issues on average. Women are free to change shape, but like I said, tell that to some modern woman and they will think you are insu… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Women are Incapable of Change.The issue comes into play when modern women believe they have to define themselves. Look, it's great if you have interests and a way of life. More power to you. But it is the push by society to define yourself by these things, which to some people isn't what they're into. I'm not an artist. I feel no pressure to 'get art' or 'define myself by an artform'. Why do people feel the need to then define themselves as X as if it gives them an identity. If you're happy just being happy and living your l… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Gentlemen! What are your thoughts on kids ?I think you have to treat children differently as they age. From a scientific viewpoint, your child has the mental capacity of a dog when they're like 2-3 years old. For those who obsess over links: http://www.livescience.com/5613-dogs-smart-2-year-kids.html Do you think you can reason with your dog or a toddler? I hope you say no. Because they're not adults nor are they that developed yet. There might be a very good reason to use physical discipline with a child of 2-3 years old. It is how you … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else's sexuality take a hit when they swallowed the pill?Yeop. I don't get excited just by a woman being a woman. I do see the child. This is going to sound cliche, but what you need is a partner. Someone that you can build with. When I get excited now, it is about that thought. If they're not on the same page as you on what you want to build, move on. This will probably require more relationship investment on your part on topics that have little to do with just being hot. It is a discussion on family, morals, femininity, complementing your ying with … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Another way to think about "beta"A lot of the alpha-beta dichotomy comes from the current understanding of the word alpha-male. The dominant, type 1 personality, who is successful. Now of course we all can't be the alpha male. Mathematically, 95.12% of men will never be alpha males in that sense. There's also a misunderstanding of 'settling'. On the surface, there's nothing wrong with trying to grab at every branch and eventually falling to one you can grab. Who wouldn't want the best for themselves. If I could grab that top br… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Another angle on why not to ask women questionsThis is the most critical piece of information. I am also a highly rational and upfront person. Heck, men used to puzzle me enough. I knew people would lie, but I would often associate it with being consequence based. With women, I was well aware of what I wanted and I would try and make sure a women filled those issues. I would ask upfront questions, and they would answer. I would feel betrayed if they 'lied'. I used lie in quotes there because of course, I am seeking information to make a bett… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 03:50 PM |
| 11 | Feminist gets tired of ultimate beta boyfriend and feels guilty for desiring alphasYeah could be a troll, but could not. But these things are believable. Its ramadan now. My wife is muslim. Im exmuslim. We just went to the dentist and I went to grab some food. She says to me Do you think the dentist breaks ur fast because liquids, blood, water are swallowed. these are real islamic questions. I just say its silly. Ur intention is to fast. Some minor stuff isnt breaking it. Then she tells me. She just wanted to eat and I ruined it for her by not playing along with her excuse. Sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many young women today proud of being fatties? We should encourage fat shaming.Because being good to your partner is now considered 'bad'. I've seen guys proud of how little they give to their girl and how much she gives him. She buys him gifts, she comes to his house for sex... Why is this something to be proud of? Because he is getting a good deal and not having to work for it. Now you see the same thing with women. They are proud of being fatties because being skinny is seen as 'giving' something to a man. And that is not good... so they are proud of being fat, so as to… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/14 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Woman finds out her boyfriend has been browsing TRP. Hamstering ensues.My wife hates that I read TRP. At one point, she said "I think TRP is affecting our relationship To which I said... "I was pretty resentful about things before. If anything things are better now. So don't blame some website for issues that existed well before" Honestly, I've been reading TRP for a while. I tend to ignore the PUA posts, as I don't really care for it. But the rest is simply as true as it's going to get. Men, don't excuse behavior just because she is a woman. Men, go for the best g… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/14 08:55 PM |
| 12 | Maintaining integrity by enforcing your own personal boundariesYeop. This is really the core of what I have learned from TRP. I tend to know what I want and am pretty clear about it, but I'd get pulled into other things via social momentum. This tends to devalue myself and which I know is disrespecting myself and only leads to resentment. My number one priority right now is changing this about myself. I'm finding it amusing just watching how people reach to this. I wish I had found it sooner. For example, I'm an Ex-Muslim. While I know I don't believe, I us… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | An interesting thing that's happened to me since swallowing the red pill: I stopped idealizing my motherYep. It was very gradual for me. I grew up overseas, but moved to the West fairly young. Back home, my dad was the primary bread winner. When we came here (safety reasons), his degrees were not recognized. He always worked, but in the working class range. My mother, as a professional, earned most of the money. Anyways, growing up here, we always had a very negative impression of my dad. My mother never missed a change to paint him a 'crazy, petty, loser'. Every little thing he did, was criticize… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why women can't resist bad boysalso just a few points. I think you could have women providing their own fun and bringing guys along. First a few key problems. 1. Women don't actually like guys like that. My wife's friend is a professional. She had a boyfriend like that in high school/uni, who followed her around. She wanted someone with more 'ambition'. 2. Many guys can and do have a problem with being led, especially for things they don't want to do. So women don't like the guys they could lead and have tag along. The men th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why women can't resist bad boysIt might be genetic It might be cultural I dont really know the answer as to the source But as of this point in history, it is largely true independent of the source. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Why women can't resist bad boysWell the problem is the generally, this is a key difference between men and women. Men are okay doing their thing. Women need to part of something/someone. Why do women like bad boys. Because they can be a part of someone's exciting life. Eventually that becomes boring on unsatisfying. Now they need to be a part of something else. Family. So they find a 'nice guy' who can provide that. When you understand the core differences between men and women, it all makes sense. It's not wrong for woman no… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/14 03:59 PM |
| 10 | What is the female equivalent of TRP? What true statement precedes 'AMALT'?Here's the funny part. There has always been an avenue for females to be taught and talk about men. If I read your question right, you're asking if there's a female TRP equivalent where woman discover the truth about men. There isn't really an explicit TRP for women. Women have always been taught about the 'bad' side of men. How they're just out for sex, love young women, want a submissive wife... If they have a father, he'll tell them to be careful of men. If they have a single mother, she'll t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Slapping a Women - When you hear that phrase, do you cringe? Should you? Intellectually explore it through a RP frame.That is true, but again some nuance. With men, there is always the stated or unstated respect. If a line is crossed, most men are aware that a whipping might be coming their way. The same is not true of women today. They operate under the assumption there is no threat of violence whatsoever. Like yourself, I'm not a person who is quick to use violence. But I would have no issue slapping a child if they pulled a tantrum or disrespected everyone. The obvious question then becomes... what to do whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/14 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between the Red Pill and the PUA community?I would say. TRP is a way of seeing of the world that clarifies gender PUA is ONE of the ways to live based on seeing the world in a TRP way. MGTOW would be another. TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE and HIGH EXPECTATIONS might be another. ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 05:22 PM |
| 14 | Feminism: The Never-Ending Battle Within WomenThis is partly true. But there's a little nuance. They are also at war with society to change it so that they can be 'equal' to men without their weakness stopping them. Let me give you an example. Women are more socially careful about not offending someone in general. So they might for example have trouble demanding a raise or taking charge and ruthlessly climbing that corporate ladder. So, they will fight to change the law so their pay is not influenced by demand and climbing that corporate la… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How do males with no male father figure become masculine?That is a very good question. Here's my 2 cents. Let's face, most men throughout history have not been the 'alpha-male' people advocate here. There have always been intellectuals. What I see in your post in actually a lot of what 'women' think makes up a man. Tattoos, aggressiveness, competitive, guns... Being a man is not about bring a burly oaf. As a side note, I think this is also why population without good father figures, like African American population, have males who want to be more masc… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/14 09:18 PM |
| 6 | The Wall...The Wall...The Wall...You know, I hear women say this all the time. "18-20 y/o, seriously they're as mentally stimulating as a fucking cheese wheel The thing is, older women aren't any more mentally stimulating. Someone is either intellectually stimulating or they're not. I'm a bit of an intellectual, and I was so, when I was 20. I imagine that girl who is intellectually stimulating at 30, would also have been so at 20. I've met plenty of very intellectual interns at 20 in y field of work. That girl who was a ditz at… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 03:03 PM |
| 2 | The Wall...The Wall...The Wall..."The sad part, unfortunately, is wishing my wife just KNEW the gem (in my opinion) I am for her and she would go out of her way to want me. " Yeah, this is probably the hardest for men to understand. Me included. A fat guy with no job doesn't think he can just land a hot girl. He knows he will have to work for it. The same is not true of women. They will create excuses. He should appreciate my inner beauty! Men are shallow! I'm a nice person! I'm not a slut! My ex-bf was an ahole!... Now what ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 3 | EVERY man must always follow The RuleThis is absolutely true. Always keep in mind. You are not there to sacrifice for her. I know it is almost ingrained in us as men, but while that sacrificial nature is a good trait when dealing with other men, it is not good when dealing with women. If you say you'll fight with your friend side by side, you and your friend both know, that implies that he should be willing to fight by you. Women are just not like this. So men, have some self-respect. And make sure you get more respect than simply … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | 'Omega man' kills 6 and commits suicideYeah for sure. I'll draw a parallel example. I'm an ex-Muslim, and there are also groups about that as well. Now granted, when you leave Islam, you have a fair amount of angst about your life and people in it and the religion itself. It is a time you feel you have been lied to your entire life, and you feel ridiculous for having bought into it for so long. Compound this with the family and cultural implications of being an Ex-Muslim and it is a drastic time. So, no doubt a lot of that comes out … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/14 11:17 PM |
| 0 | American Women are Incapable of Feeding Themselves ResponsiblyI really think, the only real point is that most people are losers who need leadership. Men might be fat, but they feel bad about it and are not proud of it. Women however, will think they have values by not being in good shape. They will claim like they care about personality, intellect... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 08:08 PM |
| 17 | A woman will not only act solely for her own benefit, she will attempt to tell you she did it for yours.Yeop. This one times 1000. I think underlying reason is that being selfish is a 'bad' trait. Women never want to see themselves as selfish, even though they are by in large. They can't just ask you to do something for them. They either Try to convince you it is for your own good Try to appeal to some greater value, so you are wrong for not acting that way. It can never be that she just wants you to act that way because that is the CONDITION of being with her. And this goes back to being selfish.… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Women and "love"I agree, but I think it's more to do with advertising. That is to say, woman's love is portrayed as stronger and kinder and special... when in reality it is anything but. Then, males are portrayed as unloving and undevoted oafs just out for sex... when the reality is much different. This duality of expectations is the real problem. I don't know if men love more or truer. But we can definitely say that the love woman espouse and society propagates is simply not and leads to a truer understanding … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/14 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Anger at failing to maintain frameI hear you 100%. Consider yourself fortunate to have learned things like this before marriage... unlike yours truly. I went through a bit of an angry stage, but like yourself, I am livid at myself for my own failure for not knowing and not trusting my instincts. First and foremost, women are not monsters. But you do need an accurate picture of who they are and how they operate. See, women tend not to have this problem. Their preconceptions of men are generally all negative (we're selfish, superf… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/14 03:40 AM |
| 9 | Be kind, hardworking, and your partner's first love? Not good enough apparently.My wife's friend is going through this too. She's Indian, got married young. Popped out 3 kids. Is now separated from her husband. She drinks too much. Wants to party for all the time her girl friends were partying, wants some excitement... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Find Someone Who Wants To Build With YouOn that contrary. The key to a good woman, be it in financial matters or anything else, is that she recognizes she needs structure and is willing to accept it. There are a lot of woman like this. Case in my point. My dentist is a woman. She was telling me this story of how when she first graduated and was making some decent cash, she went on a bit of spending spree. Dining at fancy restaurants, trips... Her dad found out and told her this is not how she should be living. She needs to save some m… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 08:08 PM |
| 6 | ravison et al. find that testosterone levels declined in Massachusetts men by approximately 1.2% per year from the late 1980s through 2004Oddly... http://www.cbc.ca/news/technology/testosterone-leads-to-fairness-not-aggression-researchers-1.796578 Testosterone is socially associated with aggressiveness, but it may really be more inclined towards status and fairness. Two arguably more socially useful values. Perhaps this is why women rarely think of fairness. They need testosterone to do that :P | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Former slut is worried that her high partner count (20+) will turn off her boyfriend. Commenters in r/AskWomen yell "You go girl!!" and encourage her to lie about her number.Yeah, as always, the issue is that men do not learn how to deal with women. Man wants an answer - were you a slut? He wants to know this to determine if she is worth being with. If she says yes or her history says yes, he very well might leave her. A woman who is a slut getting asked that question knows he might not take it well and break up with her. However, she believes this is silly as he loves her as is and wants to be with her. Why would she let a fact or history get in the way of a good t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/14 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The strains of applying RP behaviour after being Beta for so long.ay man. I don't know but my first year of marriage was rough in that sense. But I am at your point where I stopped caring. We have no kids and divorce isn't that bad an option if she's not on the same team as me. Ignore, don't validate, don't tolerate shit, don't take her orders... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 06:22 PM |
| 3 | The strains of applying RP behaviour after being Beta for so long.Tell me about it. I would never classify myself as BP. But I had an oddtime with things and I was clearly not RedPill. I operated for a long time under the following: I am subordinate to nobody I try not to impose myself on others and I don't like to be imposed on Women are equal to men in every way. You just have to find the right one (Education, good hearted...) Treat a woman right and she will treat you right You can appeal to a woman's logic But as you said, women are not rational creatures.… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to share this little story about my ex and I.One might postulate that men are from mars and women are from venus... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to share this little story about my ex and I.Putting an end to her crazy arguing is the most important thing. I used to just argue and perhaps get quiet. One night she literally started pushing and being physical. I stopped her, and being to walk out the door. She threw herself against the door to stop me. Now here I had a few choices. I could be physical, but I wasn't about to take that risk. I'm a 6 foot well built Indian guy and she has a thing about guys hitting girls and I live in Canada. By thing I mean, I don't know how she'd react … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 02:41 PM |
| 8 | Several things that might be Holding you backIt is about bettering yourself in all respects. Some more than other of course to the best of your ability and you won't know that limit until you're pushed. If you're an intellectual (like myself), then you probably need to focus a bit on the physical. Don't marginalize it because it's not your strength. You might never be the hulk, but you can get in pretty darn good shape. Similarly, someone else might not be Einstein, but they shouldn't marginalize intellect or think reading heavy material i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Never Commit to a Women Who Can't Take CriticismIm in the same spot as you. Smart wife (in terms of work) But life... its the same thing. Can't take criticism well. She'll invent entire belief systems just to make it seem like she is doing what she is doing because she is moral instead of because of anything bad (lazy, not a priority, can't do it well...) That quote really resonated with me as well. Its just such an AH-HA moment. I've started to understand. You don't use logic to convince them, because it's fruitless. State it to be clear so … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Never Commit to a Women Who Can't Take Criticism" The wit of most women rather strengthens their folly than their reason." -Francois Duc De La Rochefoucauld | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/14 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Forbes Article- Don’t Marry Career Womeneven then, it's not likely. I think a key thing is not that men are 'intimidated' with a women who makes her own money. This is the reason many career women give. It's just that she is really not much use for a guy. As you say, most career women are going to be even more demanding on her husband to do more and raise status as women are more status and lifestyle oriented. There is literally no benefit for a successful man to marry a career woman. This is not to say you can't find exception... a w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 09:41 PM |
| 11 | Forbes Article- Don’t Marry Career WomenIt's just hilarious to see her 'reasons'. You'll note her reasons are not reasons TO marry a career woman. She offers little benefit to a man and she knows it. What she talks about are excuses for the deficiencies marrying a career woman will have. Which is all fine and dandy, but not a reason TO marry a career woman. Let me even try to help her out. The reasons TO marry a career woman: Extra financial security Less stress on you the husband to provide for the family She won't get bored being th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Post-wall woman wonders why her boyfriend is upset that she slept with dozens of alphas before meeting him. Commenters assure her that he's probably just a immature baby, and that she shouldn't have even told him about her past.Yeah, I'll post here. Really there are a few themes that run through a guy's mind when this comes up. Part of it is probably insecurity, but it also follows valid concerns. You're not as fun, but now I value stability and raising a family. I'm pretty sure a girl would feel odd about a guy saying you're not very pretty or sexy like all the girls I had lots of fun with in the past, but now I value you as a homebody who will cook and raise kids. That she gave more to her exes for less. I'm from an … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Well that girl took me out of the Denial phase, feeling stuck in the Anger phase nowI went through an angry phase post marriage. It lasted a few months, before I began taking in my own life. So consider yourself lucky you're going through it while still not attached. Trust me when I say it is much harder to do this stuff while in a marriage. I have basically resorted to, I'm changing and leading the life I create. If she doesn't like it, well, we'll deal with it then. heck, to this day, I get mad at myself. But all you can do is move forward. What you need is to build yourself.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/14 06:47 PM |
| 3 | After having a little think, I've discovered Relationships to me are pointless Right Now.It depends on what you want and what you can get. If your goal is pussy, then by all means don't get married or even get into a LTR. There is plenty of that to go around these days without any consequence. If your goal is to raise a good family, there are girls out there. Not all good girls are bitchy. Not all girls who had a relationship are sluts. Live you relationship with confidence and direction. This is the absolute key. Set expectations, don't spoil her, treat her like a woman not a girl,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 07:52 PM |
| 5 | What is the Female Form of Funny?largely because definitions are often not tied to their meaning. Empathy is tied to feeling. Women feel more. Men empathize more. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Bossy women arguing religion or politics with men can be so painfulThe biggest issue you're likely to face here is a woman who thinks if you don't respect her 'opinion' then you are doing it because you don't respect her as a woman... and thus she has to be bossy because 'only bossy bitchy women' get respect... :P This is generally far from the truth. Most men... generally respect a decent point of view. For example, my wife is an awesome puzzle solver. If I'm gaming and she's there and there's some puzzle, I love getting her help because she's really good at i… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 03:26 PM |
| 23 | Eight Signs She Is In Lovewell every romantic love is conditional. That's just life. However, it is probably more accurate to say: Men love the qualities of a woman (who they are) Women love the feeling of being loved and status | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Was anyone here a male feminist or anything or anything of the sort before taking the pill?Hmmm. It's hard to tell. I was probably a person of gender-equality. That is to say I believed that a man could be just as loving/caring as a woman and a woman could just as work talented/logical as a man. It all depended on the person, their tendencies, their upbringing, values... So I would do stupid things in my youth like thinking I could be rational/logical with most women. I was always let down. Eventually, I learned the small truths in life. Learned to deal with the emotion of women. The … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Don't discuss the Red Pill with women.I have to disagree. Yes, implement it. But yes, talk about it. Be proud of talking about it. I know I am. Now, you can't really talk about it as a way of advantage over women. Yeah, you will come across as a repugnant brute, because well... that is what you are at that point. No different than a feminist who just sees men as workers/servants. But if you speak of red pill ideas with strength/fairness/freedom/choice... than I see nothing wrong with it and you can and should discuss it openly. How … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:59 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill and IslamAlmost any traditional culture/religion is going to be TRP. Islam is perhaps the most visible because it appears ingrained and the laws so fixed. But it too is changing. There are believe it or not, Islamic feminists. They will keep the idea that a man must support a woman. But they toss out the idea that she has to obey him. It's almost TBP at that point. You would not believe how strong a trend this is in Islamic communities. (I'm culturally Muslim). I would not touch one of these girls with a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:53 PM |
| 0 | There are lies, damn lies, and then this list of lies.It's not really a lie. There are amazing women who do everything and things are one sided in a sense. You'd be amazed to be with one of these gems. I know a few lucky guys who got a well-educated working woman who is still very feminine and does most of the house work. It's rare, but these are typically first generation Indians. I'm Indian. Not all of them of course, some get entitled... others get lazy... others think doing anything feminine is degrading... but some really are gems. They are tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Men Are Dropping Out Because Their Women Are Becoming Too FatThere's truth to what the author says, but I am going to take a big issue with the BECAUSE women are fat. What it really reads like is men are sitting around with no ambition or playing video games because there are no hot women out there to attract. That's just silly. I can think of a whole host of reasons Finding a good job is hard lack of male role models and leadership life is decently comfortable, so why work so hard socialism degrades the need to work so hard automation ... All of these ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 06:34 PM |
| 1 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.yeah, I agree. I got the sense that you can only rely on yourself as the whole. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 08:35 PM |
| 5 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.Karen Straughan has some really good videos on this. The main point being that men need to prove they are useful to be valuable. Women feel they are valuable just because they exist. Let us basically treat that as the starting point. So we know why we all think the way we do. A fat woman is still going to think she's valuable just because she exists. A fat man is going to think he is useless. She also says that as men need to prove their worth, we are always competing with other men and so we do… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Asians/Indian Men be Warned.Yeop I agree fully. I was never a religion is unequivocally bad kind of person. I think culture and norms and rules have their uses, and religion fills a lot of that. I'm just an oddball who values truth and science way too much to really believe in it. Truth be told though, had my religion been less demanding, I might have still identified with it; at least on the cultural level. But being raised so orthodox, once I find out it wasn't true, out the window it goes. As to the source, I'm not sure… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/14 04:28 PM |
| 16 | Asians/Indian Men be Warned.I get what you're saying, but most of it is on us (I'm Indian as well). Honestly, the girls aren't that different from the other girls with the exception of the insane entitlement where as you say they Want the freedom of Western girls What to be treated like little Indian princesses. If you get rid of that, that, they really are not that different from other girls you'll meet. If not, then yeah, they're probably the worst kind of woman to date. You just have to hold your line. Don't let them pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/14 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Vancouver Feminist promotes morbid obesity and "fat acceptance" Guess what "she" looks like?That is all very true. The problem occurs when you can't even see the 'other side' or any semblance of fairness in your ideology. That is really what feminism is about. It is such an extreme selfish philosophy it boggles my mind. I come from a Muslim background (though not Muslim anymore) and yes, it bothers me just how anti-women it is... but my god... at least there is some thought to benefits for all. Women don't have to work. Husbands are supposed to provide... There is some ounce of thought… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Vancouver Feminist promotes morbid obesity and "fat acceptance" Guess what "she" looks like?The issue really gets to the core of female entitlement. Essentially... they deserve to be 'loved' and 'appreciated' and 'accepted' as is. Something is wrong? Either fat, lazy, not working... it doesn't matter. She must still be loved and appreciated as is. If she chooses to address the issue, then it is her decision. But you must still love and everything else her the same. What really annoys me is the effort. If there is something wrong with you and you are trying to address it (eating less, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 04:30 PM |
| 25 | Girl truthfully answers the question, "Why do some girls say they want a nice guy, but ignore them and lay down for jerks?" Gets met with indirect condescension and hostility.Yeop. I'll be the first to admit I bought into a lot of the equality stuff. I'm also a guy who actually likes to talk and is a bit academic. I was never into showing off my wealth, even though I make a good living. I was never about being the alpha male. And what's more... the more experienced I became, the more I felt being me. So my life has been a great learning curve. So, a lot of women do think of me as a 'nice' guy. And to a large extent, they perceived right.What they generally missed wer… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 07:41 PM |
| 3 | "Women Are Transient Creatures Of The Moment [A "Must Read" For All Men]"yeop. Married guy here. I got pretty frustrated at first how my wife would... how shall I put it... not put truth at the forefront. But I've come to accept that is just who she is. Your average woman in that regard. I'm hardly an alpha, but I'm not a push over. When we were dating, she would talk about equality and what not. So I gave it to her. We do 50/50 with most things. I don't treat her like a princess. Granted, she cooks and I'll do dirty and heavy work. She complained a fair bit while we… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Why women love assholes (an alternate view)This is perhaps the best answer I've read and apt because it compares both sides. Like others say, women want confident and assertive men. The 'shallow' first appearance like feature that men give to show they have these features are things that some might consider them assholes. In the same way, men want sexual good looking women. The 'shallow' first appearance like feature that women give to show men they have these features are things that some might consider them to be sluts. In truth, the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/14 07:09 PM |
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