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5

She loves Disney too! What a gem.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 07:04 PM
20

This would be funny if there weren't such dire implications for those kids and society as a whole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 01:36 AM
8

In this situation, you have 100% of the responsibilities and 0% authority.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 07:43 PM
4

The dumpster fire that is dating apps. Even when you're desensitized to it, it is still unbelievable that women like this exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 02:12 AM
3

I'm sure she is an boxing enthusiast who likes cars too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 04:17 PM
1

Rule 1: Blame men for everything Rule 2: Zero personal responsibility
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/20 02:59 PM
9

I want, I want, I want, I want...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 02:45 PM
3

Put it in reverse Terry!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 02:10 AM
11

So 50/50 means the man pays for everything? The mental gymnastics required to reach that conclusion is unreal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 02:40 PM
51

It really demonstrates just how depraved and misguided the culture has become. A woman engages in infidelity with multiple partners and it is her boyfriend's fault. Zero accountability for her own actions. Furthermore, what does it say about these men, who are so desperate for female validation that they would have a 4:1 orgy with a woman who is in a relationship. This is the end result of unfettered moral decay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/20 06:26 PM
7

Right? She gives no mention of repentance and putting Christ first, and continues to use derogatory terms for men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 10:42 PM
9

Some key facts that make me doubt she is an actual follower of Christ. She's on a dating app. Had sex outside marriage or newly divorced, and looking for a replacement. Uses profanity in a dating app bio. She says her kid comes first. If she was a genuine Christian, she would say "Jesus comes first in my life". I could go on, but this young lady is on the hunt for a beta bucks to exploit and it's obvious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 10:39 PM
25

Will all the real men please stand up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 01:51 PM
31

So now she's ready for all the perks of marriage and a stable man performing his traditional gender roles...how convenient.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/20 01:56 AM
2

More shaming tactics. I'm shocked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 03:23 AM
15

Very good point. What society permits, it promotes.
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 01:29 AM
12

They wage war against traditional masculinity, use the family law system to subjugate men, and then shame men who don't want to get married.
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 12:24 AM
3

If he decides to leave her, she will still get half his wealth (or more), the house, child support, and spousal support. Truly a rigged system.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 02:13 AM
24

Alright...get out the clown make-up meme.
/r/MGTOW16/08/20 03:22 AM
3

She's tired of the games too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/20 02:13 PM
29

"the happy ending I want". This woman thinks her life is a movie.
/r/MGTOW03/08/20 03:24 AM
6

The only logical choice. Good on you.
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 01:22 AM
8

Deleted Hinge the other day. I'm done with letting these brats waste my time.
/r/MGTOW08/07/20 05:38 PM
15

Her best asset is her appearance and she's trashing it with booze, drugs, tattoos, and no sleep.
/r/MGTOW06/07/20 05:24 PM
2

I'm a single mom. Here are my demands!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 08:46 PM
1

I'm shocked and offended.
/r/MGTOW30/06/20 03:02 AM
1

Delusional.
/r/MGTOW25/06/20 07:12 PM
10

Take all that time spent on social media and work out and build wealth.
/r/MGTOW24/06/20 10:27 PM
62

She broke up with him previously and they got back together.
/r/MGTOW21/06/20 02:14 AM
3

Thanks for the reminder!
/r/MGTOW18/06/20 03:13 PM
7

I'm not renewing my Amazon subscription once it expires in a couple months. Shop local. Bezos has enough wealth and power.
/r/MGTOW17/06/20 04:05 PM
4

Live frugally, don't flex on social media, and don't let people know how much wealth you have.
/r/MGTOW11/06/20 12:52 AM
31

Race and gender are immutable characteristics. People should be judged for their actions and words, not for factors such as race or gender, which are beyond our control.
/r/MGTOW08/06/20 01:56 AM
8

Ah, more signs of the impending social collapse.
/r/MGTOW31/05/20 07:43 PM
10

It's not that men "can't handle it". It's that she is a huge liability with no upside. Nice shaming tactic though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 05:39 PM
3

There are plenty of simps who have no self respect.
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 03:29 PM
3

Disgusting.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 07:20 PM
2

Dang, my house only has seven bedrooms. Oh well...
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 04:26 PM
3

Aggressive recruitment for a new beta bux.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 12:57 AM
6

Divorce rape incoming.
/r/MGTOW28/04/20 02:53 AM
2

I've saved a ton in the last month on fuel expenses.
/r/MGTOW27/04/20 10:28 PM
2

I briefly dated a woman who believed that a man asking his gf or wife to help pay the bills constituted abuse. It still makes my brain feel like pancake batter when I think about it.
/r/MGTOW24/04/20 04:21 PM
12

mUH eGGs!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/20 07:44 PM
47

It's reassuring to see that she can't use proper grammar, but has reproduced four times. How long can society sustain this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 01:02 AM
2

She couldn't fit through most doors...
/r/MGTOW16/04/20 10:11 PM
2

I'll gladly embrace her version of "failure". Didn't these broads get the memo, shaming tactics don't work anymore.
/r/MGTOW13/04/20 03:35 PM
59

This article doesn't pass the double standard smell test.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/20 08:32 PM
3

"sTRoNg aND inDePEnDEnt"
/r/MGTOW09/04/20 03:53 AM
3

Yep. Drive thru and delivery.
/r/MGTOW07/04/20 04:45 PM
3

Agreed. One positive aspect of this pandemic is that my expenses have decreased quite a bit.
/r/MGTOW06/04/20 12:46 AM
3

Imagine what 32 is gonna look like. Jk, don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/20 01:52 AM
5

Equality anyone?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/20 02:18 PM
5

When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
/r/MGTOW25/03/20 04:30 AM
4

She'll be on the hunt for a "real man" in a few years.
/r/MGTOW12/03/20 05:25 PM
13

And Dave still encourages every young man to get married and he never addresses the legal and financial risks. Smh
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 02:54 PM
10

"Men should express their feelings and problems". *Man expresses his problems "You need to man up".
/r/MGTOW03/03/20 08:47 PM
22

Man, this sugar baby trend is getting out of hand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/20 05:59 AM
1

They want the benefits or marriage, but none of those pesky responsibilities. He makes twice as much, because he's worked twice as hard to earn it. Just a thought.
/r/MGTOW27/02/20 03:37 PM
15

It's comical how feminism encourages women to act in the most entitled and narcissistic ways possible, while claiming that women are goddesses who deserve all the benefits of traditional dating customs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/20 03:57 PM
3

C'mon she needs backup dudes for validation and branch swinging.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 05:22 AM
6

Anyone else find this trend of women posting pictures of their infant children on dating app profiles disturbing? If that was my kid, I'd be beyond pissed.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 04:08 AM
5

Look at consumer debt levels. It's easy to get caught up in a lifestyle you can't afford. Live below your means, stack cash, invest wisely, and retire early.
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 04:32 AM
5

Take care of yourself. You can't enjoy retirement if you're dead.
/r/MGTOW14/02/20 04:22 AM
2

Celebrating and enabling the worst kind of behavior. What could go wrong?
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 03:40 AM
1

Yeah, she crazy.
/r/MGTOW21/01/20 06:02 PM
1

She needs to go back to 5th grade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 05:47 PM
7

It's doubtful that he is going to heed your advice. He's already demonstrated a pattern of poor decision making by prioritizing women as the most important thing in life. Maybe he'll learn the hard way when he's divorced and has two baby mamas.
/r/MGTOW02/01/20 05:22 PM
6

Don't be flexing your wealth on social media boys!
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 05:59 PM
4

Well, global diamond sales are declining. It's a sign that less men are buying an expensive rock and entering into legal contract because tingles.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 04:57 PM
3

In clown world, verifying paternity is bad. The white knight's mom sees the red flags.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 04:27 PM
31

A financially stable college student/single mom?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/19 02:33 AM
13

"keep me happy". That's not humanly possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 06:01 PM
3

He will have to learn this lesson the hard way.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:28 PM
16

She is completely self absorbed. These women don't even realize that they have discarded the unique feminine qualities that made them good partners in the past.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/19 03:39 PM
6

Without real consequences and accountability for false accusations, this will sadly continue.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 03:58 PM
2

What? You don't trust the family court system? /s
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 02:00 AM
1

Tired of those pesky games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/19 03:03 AM
3

Fool me once, shame on you.
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 02:57 AM
3

The law of unintended consequences.
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 03:15 PM
2

OMG I'm triggered
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 05:01 AM
13

We can always make more money, we can recover from illness and injury, but once time is used up it's gone forever.
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 03:20 PM
2

Will all the real men please stand up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/19 12:02 AM
1

It's discouraging to think that people like this are the ones reproducing the most.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/19 03:34 PM
64

Astute observation.
/r/MGTOW20/10/19 05:35 PM
1

True
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 04:18 PM
1

Yeah, three divorces and the wall will do that.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 03:02 AM
3

Demands that the guy must have his "shit together", because God knows she doesn't.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 02:52 AM
2

The entitlement is strong with this one.
/r/MGTOW28/09/19 08:22 PM
6

Her freelance job reminds me of all the girls from high school that sell weight loss tea and beauty products on Facebook. Yeah, that's called being unemployed.
/r/MGTOW21/09/19 06:23 PM
1

Humanity was on the brink of WW3 during the Cuban Middle Crisis in 1962. Cooler heads prevailed and the Cold War stayed cold (mostly). Just stay informed, be as prepared as you can be, and carry on with your life.
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 03:43 PM
1

"I only have guy friends".
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 03:28 PM
2

Dave has an evangelical fairytale view of marriage. His advice on debt is generally good, but he has simp qualities when it comes to women and relationships.
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 01:11 AM
13

I've seen disastrous outcomes when guys make a woman their number one priority.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 03:03 PM
2

I can't imagine being that entitled.
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 03:55 PM
1

Entitlement. A woman can behave like a total brat and can't fathom that you wouldn't want her.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:45 PM
3

Another commenter already mentioned this, but the example you gave about leaving her belongings on the curb is the "nuclear option". The punishment should fit the crime so use your best judgement. If she is habitually crossing established boundaries and openly disrespecting you then yes. However, understand that it's likely over at this point.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:10 AM
7

Rollo Tomassi advises against giving ultimatums. He describes them as an expression of powerlessness. He recommends that men demonstrate boundaries through action as opposed to explicating.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:19 AM
2

LTR's and marriages are red pill on hard mode. Men can be stone cold logic driven machines, but as soon as they get consistent sex and commit to a woman, emotional attachments can take over. It's your job to keep this is check. You carry the burden of performance, don't forget it.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:04 PM
2

If you tell her no the first time, don't change your answer. You were indecisive and too emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:50 PM
2

Better time management will help. Your purpose is the top priority, but you already know that.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 09:40 PM
1

Keep your wits about you and maintain the FWB. Watch out for STDs.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:16 PM
3

He's a lost cause OP.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 05:22 PM
1

I think emotional stability is developed by continuous exposure to situations and experiences that cause distress. Gradually, one overcomes these challenges and adapts to them. Everything in moderation though, too much distress in the short term can be overwhelming.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:48 PM
1

OP, you created a blue pilled attachment to this one. Hit the brakes. Don't give commitment to her until she has earned it and you've vetted her fully. Good luck.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:52 PM
2

Women want a package deal. They seek out men who are competent, physically attractive, and self assured.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:47 PM
3

If you're have a one on one conversation, definitely hold eye contact for most of the time. Be mindful of your body language too. Be relaxed, but confident.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 11:12 PM
0

Go to the gym.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 01:28 AM
1

Notice how she's portraying her ex as worthless and incompetent. She's gonna do the exact same to you when you two split. Never LTR a monkey brancher. You are disposable to her.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 12:21 AM
2

This. You never really know what caused her to become disinterested either. Just leave the door open and if she's wants to meet up, then great. If not, whatever.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:43 PM
17

An important aspect of having a strong sense of self is not relying on external validation and approval as the measure of your own self worth. This requires recognizing ego investments and emotional attachments formed and reinforced since childhood. Outcome independence is the state of being where you can literally "take it or leave it" in any situation, especially relationships.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:26 PM
10

She's looking for a beta provider to support her and her child after she procreated with the "bad boy". Those marriage memes are just icing on the red flag velvet cake.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 07:19 PM
14

Your LTR is going clubbing without you with another guy who she's clearly interested in. Let that digest for a moment.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:22 PM
134

Don't reward bad behavior. What you permit, you promote.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:40 AM
2

There is no "one". That's the soul mate myth.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:47 PM
2

If you treat her like a celebrity, she's gonna treat you like a fan. Your time and attention is valuable, so don't be handing it out like candy on Halloween. Be focused on your mission dude.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:58 PM
14

You're probably making this a bigger issue than it is. If she does girls night out often or frequenting bars/clubs without you that should raise your level of suspicion.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:02 PM
2

If it's multiple co-workers doing this to you then I would recommend some honest self evaluation. Be a duck. Calm on the surface. Water and mud should roll right off your back.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:46 PM
25

Apathy and poor mindset play a major role. "Why should I even try? I'm going to fail anyway." Lots of young men are stuck.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:06 PM
2

Consider starting as a correctional deputy, community service officer, or evidence tech to get a feel for the field. You'll have to complete the academy and spend at least five years on patrol before you're eligible to be a detective. Lastly, do your homework on the agencies you're applying with and go on ride alongs before signing up.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:40 PM
2

Cool comment bro. I wanted to drink that night and she offered to be the DD.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:49 PM
1

The last sentence in your comment sums it up perfectly.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:38 PM
2

I'd be more than happy to show you how to lift.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:26 AM
5

Thank you. There's a double standard when it comes to violence towards men. I have a friend who's ex smashed a coffee pot over his head and he didn't want to report it out of fear of ridicule.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:42 AM
11

You're an idiot. If a guy did what she did in a bar he'd get dragged out by a bouncer and arrested.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:09 AM
9

Dude, reread the post. If you put up with that you're a beta.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:05 AM
24

Yeah, she definitely showed her true colors right out of the gate.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:03 AM
10

Yep. Just playfully jabbing her fingers into my throat a couple of times.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:01 AM
4

I find the idea of an LTR desirable at times. However, a quick survey of couples in my social circle leads me to the conclusion that I wouldn't want to trade places with 9/10 of the guys in those relationships.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 06:35 AM
1

Seriously? You have internet access. Search for a job online. Or use public transportation to go to a local employment assistance center. Excuses.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:52 PM
1

To quote Corey Wayne, "Women like men who's feelings are unclear". Texting a plate or gf all day everyday indicates that you're not focused on your mission. Have meaningful conversation in person not over messages.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:50 AM
23

Level 10 Crazy. GTFO
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:20 PM
1

I agree with the other comments. Slow it down. I want a family someday too, but don't project your future goals on to a girl you've known one month. The introvert tendencies and lack of friends is a red flag. Women need social interaction with other women to talk and express themselves emotionally. Vet her properly over a long period of time before even considering marriage or babies.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:49 AM
3

OP, telling her to file a police report was the right thing to do. That should be the extent of your involvement in the matter. Make sure this weirdo doesn't find out where you live or work.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:25 PM
1

Check out Sean Smith's "A Tactical Guide to Women". There's a chapter on mental illness that will be a great help to you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:03 AM
1

I know broke emotionally unstable single moms who have more orbiters than I have plates. It's a strange civilization indeed.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:30 AM
1

There's more than one way to skin a cat. "Don't react" is very general advise. I didn't provide a script to follow. What I'm saying is, don't show any emotional investment or jealousy.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:41 PM
-5

I'm assuming they want a threesome with you. Go with your gut instinct though. I'd advise not getting involved with a married couple. However, she might have single female friends you could game at this bon fire so who knows...
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:37 AM
7

Don't react, it's a shit test. Even if she does hang out with another guy, it doesn't matter. Is she demonstrating by her actions that she deserves your commitment? Obviously not.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:08 AM
-4

Oh you better run run run.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:01 AM
2

Reduce alcohol if you drink regularly. I allow myself to drink once a week now. This has helped a lot with belly fat. Eat right and hit the gym.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:24 AM
4

Women who are interested in you make sure you know it. A "we'll see" response is a polite rejection 99% of the time.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:59 PM
1

Focus on the lessons learned and not the hurt. You're priority must be your mission (Career, education, fitness, finance, health, looks maxing, best version of yourself). Once you've created a new plan and pursue it, the past becomes more and more distant in your rearview.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:56 PM
1

She is a plate and nothing more, act accordingly toward her. I know you've acknowledged the mistake of asking her for commitment, but NEVER ask a woman for commitment. She must want exclusively/commitment with you and then earn it. Be very cautious with emotional investment in her and oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 04:44 PM
3

Don't kiss and tell. Or bang and tell. Shit is confidential information.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:01 AM
14

She'll use shaming tactics and call you an asshole.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:09 PM
3

Brief LTR with an emotionally unstable woman who monkey branched to me. Possible BPD, but I'm not a psychologist.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 05:55 AM
2

Donovan Sharpe has a YouTube video about setting expectations and boundaries with plates and LTRs, I found it very informative.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:36 PM
6

Wait, see if she's contacts you. In the meantime, don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:33 AM
1

Once in a while you cross paths with an insufferable cunt like this. They just want attention and to start pointless drama. Most are hard core feminists too, but that's merely a coincidence.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:12 AM
9

5 years of NC, keep that streak going.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:25 PM
1

This is what happens when you allow a cheater/rebounder into your life. OP got emotionally and ego invested in her. She never should have got past plate.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:25 PM
10

Red flag after red flag. You have severe oneitis for this girl and it's only going to get worse because you tolerate her absurd emotionally unstable behavior.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 03:45 AM
1

You should prioritize becoming the best version of yourself in your twenties not worrying about a girl in her party phase. Focus on aquiring skills, money, education, a career, and working out. She's gonna do what she wants, respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 03:24 AM
4

Overthinking it man.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:19 AM
9

No contact. Change your number if necessary and instruct all relatives and friends to block her on social media. Civil Harassment Restraining Order if it doesn't stop.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:50 PM
10

Don't ever get back into a relationship with her. Continue no contact and proceed like she doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:01 PM
9

Woah. A cautionary tale for all men.
/r/MensRights29/01/19 08:47 PM
4

Dude, if she's already bringing up these things so early on you should be very alarmed. Hit the brakes. The sex if clouding your judgement here. You need to vet her alot more and hold off on LTR talk.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:42 AM
2

Do not let her control whether you are bf/gf. That is your decision to make. She enters your frame. Those are shit tests my friend. Set an expectation now that you don't want to hear about her ex or some dude at the gym. Make it clear that she won't be texting these dudes if you're in an LTR.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:32 AM
2

Never ask her to meet up for a date more than once. At that point, she is aware of your interest and repeated attempts to meet up makes you look thirsty.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 12:10 AM
1

Treat her accordingly based on her behavior. If a girl is respectful, obedient, affectionate, and loyal she gets promoted and gains importance in your life. If she is a hoe, she gets treated like a hoe. That means very little attention and investment, definitely no status whatsoever. Treat her like you couldn't care less about her. You can't take a girl like that seriously.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:27 PM
3

Good call. If it looks like a hoe, talks like a hoe, and acts like a hoe, what is it?
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:32 PM
1

You're considering commitment with her and she's openly promoting her hypergamy on social media?
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:24 PM
11

OP, you mentioned a fear of confrontation. I'm sure this results in timidness, not being able to assert yourself, and make decisions. You gotta exposure yourself to social discomfort gradually. It may help you to get a job that involves interaction with people, problem solving, and conflict resolution. These skills will build your self confidence and you'll learn how to deal with different personality types. Also, hit the gym if you haven't started already.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:03 PM
7

Don't contact him.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:18 AM
7

Do what you want.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:51 AM
6

Don't let the presence of people who can lift more discourage you from going to a gym. Find a gym that isn't crowded or go during times when there are fewer people.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:45 AM
1

I have. He'll admit that he's behaving like a beta bitch, but then go right back to worshipping his idealized ex.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:04 PM
2

OP, read the last paragraph of this comment a thousand times till it's burned into your memory.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:25 PM
22

A solid red pilled father figure is so important in a kid's life.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:01 PM
2

Top comments are on point. Always trust your intuition.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:35 AM
2

Women break rules for alphas (submissive female) and make rules for betas (dominant female). Based on OP's post, I'd assume his uncle controls frame in the marriage/household. This results in your aunt being submissive and committed to him. Her background and the positive masculine influence from her father helped too.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:15 PM
3

Watch out for oneitis. She's your only source of sex and she knows it. Keep her in check. Fuck those shit tests. Not reacting and being stoic is great, but if she's persists tell her to knock that off.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:59 PM
4

Respect is earned on a case by case basis and there are degrees of respect. You respect the CEO of the company more than the janitor, but still should respect both. She agreed to go on a date, she continued to indicate she was still planning on going, then with 30 minutes to go texts him and says she won't be showing up. That's disrespectful. If she had cancelled that morning or several hours in advance that's one thing, but this guy was probably already dressed up and on his way. The excuse she…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:22 PM
52

Flaking on a date with 30 minutes notice shows that she doesn't respect you. I'd ignore the lame excuse and see if she contacts at a later time, but put in very little effort and investment. If you do see this chick again make it clear to her that standing you up isn't gonna fly.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 01:17 AM
1

Kids are an outcome from having a LTR with a good woman who has been properly vetted and demonstrated that she is worthy of parental investment. You gotta ditch the scarcity mindset. Obviously Tinder, prostitutes, and bars are not the best ways to meet a woman who meets the criteria. Whatever you do don't lower standards or think "she's the only option I have".
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:55 PM
1

Just why is it we can rationalize away so many red flags that are so obvious in hindsight.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:03 AM
1

Artificial social proof
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:37 PM
2

Ex added several of my buddies on fb after we broke up.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 10:02 PM
2

Condoms are available for purchase at most stores and online. You can get them for free at Planned Parenthood too.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:51 PM
26

What about the male who was inside you that got you pregnant in the first place? Is that offensive too?
/r/MensRights21/12/18 03:46 AM
3

She's trying to drag you deeper down the pit of her clinical neuroticism. BPD makes people self destructive and it's very evident in their relationships. If she doesn't take responsibility to get help and treatment, then I'd say cut her off completely. It's only gonna get worse and you may become the person she projects blame on to.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:21 PM
5

Yeah, it's nuts when you compare a non personality disorder girl with one who has the disorder. It's like night and day. The feminine imperative combined with BPD, fuck that. Luckily, they're easy to spot once you know the red flags. Sometimes it takes dating one in real life to really wake up. Good luck bro and be safe, that one sounds like a train wreck in slow motion.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:14 PM
7

The similarities are creepy. Watch how she reacts when you break up with her. I guarantee her responses will be full of personal attacks and shaming tactics. The last time I saw my ex she was really distant and made very insecure statements too. Make sure if you do have sex with her after this you use a condom. This is when she "forgets" to take her birth control.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:53 PM
15

Proceed cautiously my friend... I got to experience a two month relationship with a woman who has a personality disorder (likely BPD or variant) recently. Same behavior as your post OP. Hot and heavy in the beginning, she wanted me bad, wanted exclusively, and relationship status. I was hesitant, but slowly relented once she asked me for a relationship a few times. Her entire demeanor and outward behavior changed rapidly after this. Once I brought her around my family and friends her mask came o…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:28 PM
18

To the fellas out there who don't have kids, be careful who you breed with.
/r/MensRights20/12/18 04:52 PM
2

Maybe she had a lower interest level and just wanted you as an orbiter. Usually when girls use lines like, "I'm not really interested in dating right now", it's a soft rejection.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:23 AM
2

Do you think you pursued too hard initially? Sounds like you may have pushed her away.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:02 AM
1

In my last relationship, I ignored/rationalized so many red flags in the beginning. Won't be doing that ever again and neither should you.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:36 PM
10

Next her. There's a zero tolerance policy on disrespectful bs like this.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:07 PM
196

Shaming tactics, that's all she's got.
/r/MensRights14/12/18 07:12 AM
5

It's very common. I hate how you have to build rapport with women via messaging, but there's really no way around it on dating apps. If the conversation seems one sided or she's showing low interest I leave it and move on. Sometimes I'll ask for their Snapchat right away so there's an opportunity of further communication off of the dating app. If she's entitled and expects the guy to do all the work then run out of there like Forest Gump. Hard next.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:34 AM
2

Publications that hold men to a ridiculous double standard are effing horrible.
/r/MensRights13/12/18 11:00 PM
2

There's no issue with texting co-workers for work related business. Regarding the female friends, it's depends on the context and amount of communication. My most recent ex would try and shit test me on a regular basis by talking about her male friends. I ALWAYS made a point to show indifference when she did this. She hated the fact that I didn't react. She was used to jealous and over protective behavior from her previous bf.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:28 PM
9

Condoms and have fun. Don't fall for the "I'm on birth control, so don't worry" line.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:55 AM
9

One date can't hurt. It's not like you're going to a nightclub where there is potential to spend quite a bit of money. Get to know her a bit and look for red flags.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:53 AM
2

Nope.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:02 AM
1

My two cents: Take some time to hit the books. Get red pill books on audible or print and be a student to the material. Focus on self improvement. Are you satisfied with your current career, education, and fitness level? If you're not, it's time to strategize and set some goals. How's your emotional well being and confidence? Are you a guy women want and other guys want to be? It is a long road, but it's starts now.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:27 AM
1

What do you think you're doing wrong? At the end of the day, attraction can't be forced.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:13 AM
1

You cannot let yourself be perceived as "just another option" or a "maybe guy" for a woman. Once attraction is established, she'll make sure you know that she's interested. If she's not, then move on with self respect intact. It's preferable to pursue to little and be regarded as centered/indifferent than be seen as desperate or needy.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:09 AM
1

Truth is relative and facts that offend should be ignored. My victim complex is far more important than the burden of proof.
/r/MensRights07/12/18 09:37 PM
2

Its unlikely that she will be overt and clear with you regarding her intentions with her former fuck buddy. She will probably say "oh, we're just friends" and try to down play the interaction. Luckily we understand hypergamy and the feminine imperative to always explore her options and seek out other men when she chooses regardless of a commitment to stay exclusive during this break. Pay attention to her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:23 PM
2

So you suggested a "break" prior to discovering that she was texting this other guy. Did you both agree to remain exclusive during the break? This the normal behavior, what did you expect? It's possible that she was in contact with this dude for some time. Checking out other branches before swinging.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:10 PM
1

Dude, stop with the unicorn fantasy. Yes, she has some good traits, but at the end of the day you moved across the world to enter her frame. Did you factor in your career, family, friends, life goals, and well being in all of this? You sacrificed everything to be with her. The only way this could have worked is if she moved across the world to be with you, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:52 PM
1

Yeah, keep the chit chat to a minimum. It's good that's she's showing IOI's.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:17 AM
6

You disclosed that the relationship was a dysfunctional nightmare. Realize that you're attachment to her and your idealizations is causing you to suffer greatly. It's time to focus on your purpose and well being. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:27 AM
2

Don't worry about and move on. Did you even get her number or social media info? Abundance, abundance, and more abundance.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:34 AM
1

"No baby is getting made tonight".
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:14 AM
2

You're going to see many people you knew in high school aim low and stay low. They'll work the same low paying jobs and never aspire to achieve more. Some will change and get their act together and some won't. Also, most high school age people are still insulated from the real world. They lack maturity and life experience, no fault of their own. It'll come with time.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 09:19 PM
2

You start setting goals. There has to be a light at the end of the tunnel. Heres one: Wanting to own a home someday instead of paying rent forever or worse living with your parents well into adulthood.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:41 PM
1

Never ever loan money to your inner circle (friends, girlfriends, etc) if you want to help them give them the money as a gift with no expectation of being reimbursed.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 06:41 PM
2

I agree with these other comments. My last gf had no female friends (one of several red flags). Being able to maintain good friendships would demonstrate that a prospect has social skills.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:00 AM
1

No contact
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:55 PM
1

Feminine imperative
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:17 PM
1

No contact her.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 07:11 PM
14

At least she had the decency to not ghost you. Now, don't be an orbiter and go no contact with her.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:04 PM
4

Ghost her. Bye Felicia
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:29 PM
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