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I always approach them in a respectful manner and check if they’re comfortable during the interaction. They always reassure me that it’s ok and I may continue regardless of whether or not they reject me in the end. I can read body language. So I don’t see what the problem is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:33 PM
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Look I’m going to boil it down to this: I got no matches on OLD except for one very rude woman I don’t like clubs anymore and the atmosphere is somewhat hostile as it’s already an environment where many guys are just approaching women. Women have their guard up and where I’m from they’re reluctant to want to meet their future suitor in a nightclub. I’ve asked to be introduced to an attractive friend (that I saw through a status). It did not work out with two different women. I was still consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:00 PM
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‘Because you don’t have any.’ That statement alone tells me you just want to prove a point and win this discussion. You have no interest in what works or what doesn’t work for men. With a few exceptions you can’t just say my social groups are ‘bad.’ People are often times more complex than that. I’ve noticed this is a tactic people use to dismiss your experiences. If men point out a set of pattern that a lot of women have you just insult the type of women that the man associates with. They say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:13 AM
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They’re less likely to go out with you because they’re afraid to mess up group dynamics should things go wrong. An heir of familiarity also creeps in that makes these dynamics more akin to brother/sister relationships. There is the occasional female friend that falls for you but it doesn’t mean the attraction will be mutual. Furthermore like I pointed out when you severely limit your options when you only date within your friend or social group. That’s unless of course you have like tons of frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:20 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:50 PM
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Those have actually been the most resistant. I’m actually starting to get the idea that there are as many if not more women who don’t like dating men in their social groups or circles as those that do. Coworkers are a big no. Friend of a friend depends. If she’s friends with a guy friend of yours then she usually has a lingering crush on him or friendzones you like she friendzoned him. If she’s a friend of a female friend then she’s likely to friendzone you just because her friend did. It also l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:47 PM
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I’m legitimately laughing here u/Smoogs2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:04 PM
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Women hate being approached in clubs (unless you’re Chad). Too much competition. You’re more likely to find success in day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:30 PM
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It depends how you look. Some men are legit 2/10. Dressing well & being in shape takes them up to 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:47 PM
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It’s not about whose the best. It’s about who has the hardest time dating INTRA-RACIALLY (NOT INTER-RACIALLY) and what factors into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:17 AM
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Do white men not need more resources than black men to stand out to their own women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:16 AM
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Intra-racially not inter-racially
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:15 AM
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So black men have the easiest time dating balls women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:14 AM
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Thank you!!!!!! People keep answering inter racially and I even edited my description to emphasize this. By the way black women do fetishise white men (a lot).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:14 AM
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No. I said interracially as in within your one race.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:13 AM
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So factoring in all of that what race would you say has the easiest time dating people of their own race and which race has the toughest time?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:12 AM
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‘Intra-racially’
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:55 AM
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I said intra-racially. I didn’t ask about dating out of your race. The only time you answered the question was when you spoke about Latin women. So the only reason women flake or ghost on men is because of their personality? lol I never talked about about someone flaking on you because of your race. I meant are women of a certain race more likely to flake for whatever reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:54 AM
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Firstly regardless of biological differences your race often times provides you with a unique experience of the world either due to culture or the types of people you might interact with. Secondly I specified intra-racially as in a white man dating a white woman or asian man dating an asian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:48 AM
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Just an opinion. It doesn’t have to be fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:43 AM
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Being hit on by gay guys means nothing. I’m ugly and they’re always hitting on me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:19 AM
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I’ve dealt with these type of women. You just have to be emotionally detached and ruthless which is seems most men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:04 AM
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u/MrsDegree.He brought up race
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:55 AM
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This is why I can’t take this shit seriously. I’d like to see an actual average/below average guy say this delusional nonsense. You’re above average and well dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:52 AM
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Loool. Thank goodness I don’t have to put up with such nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:15 PM
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Hehe. They always talk big before I actually show up.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:36 PM
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I will give you an upvote just for the maturity with which you brought a different perspective.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:35 PM
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What you finna get into? I’ll pull up tomorrow even
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:21 PM
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Ah. Within 5 hours of me and 2 hours of the crew. Me and my boys will be there. Edit: I hope you not lying mate. You better not be taking the piss. From your post history it seems like you live in Cali.I’ll be there next summer and I got some guys who’ll do you in.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:51 PM
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Send location
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:26 PM
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Scenario 1 is a win. You go out like a man. Chances are they had no weapons. They were probably relying on numbers.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:22 PM
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Blue pilled
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:20 PM
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Don’t ever be caught lacking
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:11 AM
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So the bouncer should be a man for you?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:05 AM
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I probably come from places much more dangerous than where you’re from. Still no excuse for being a coward. It doesn’t mean get into physical altercations with everyone. Avoid them if you can but not be a wimp.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:05 AM
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So you would let some guys disrespect your girl in front of you? What if someone slapped her ass?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:00 AM
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lol
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:59 AM
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Comments
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:59 AM
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They probably were. Continue being a coward.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:59 AM
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It’s part of being a man and even female attraction.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:26 AM
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Don’t go looking trouble and jumping into every fight. You won’t win every situation but people here walk away from even the slightest hint of danger.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:26 AM
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I can agree with this. I was just sick and tired of the people who rationalize it as if they could send the antagonist to the after life if they so chose but were too good to get their hands dirty. The truth is that they’re cowards.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:23 AM
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I never said don’t give it up. Some situations you will not win but don’t go out like a bitch. Read the story again.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:21 AM
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I said if they have weapons then walk away but don’t be a bitch about it.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:20 AM
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Stand up for yourself at least. Guys here walk away with their tail between their legs. If that’s just an issue then take a boxing class. The other guy is usually untrained as well.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:20 AM
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Just say you’re scared. Those are all possibilities but ya’ll exaggerate the chances. I’m sure if someone half your size approached your girl, grabbed her by the pussy and challenged you to a one on one fight with no weapons and no police charges afterwards you’d still back out.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:18 AM
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Like I said be cautious but people here are so risk avoidant when it comes to even the faintest hint that things might get physical. This is in contrast to what being a man is about. It’s all evo psych this and that until it’s time to actually fight. People here act like they can’t even stand to scuff their shoes or mess up their make up.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:15 AM
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I never said rush into it but people like to rationalise the fact that they’re just afraid to get their ass kicked. They pretend as if they’re doing their instigator a favor by not engaging when in fact they’re just scared shitless. I’m not a badass but the men I have around me implore me to not be a coward in contrast to what I read on this sub. If you can deescalate then do so but don’t be a lil bitch. u/gbizzle2
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:13 AM
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Just fake it bro. Even if you have no muscle or can’t fight still confront them. Bullies usually back down the moment they see some serious resistance. Even if they did beat you up you would live with the pride and confidence that you stood up for yourself in spite of the bad odds. That goes a long way in life.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:33 AM
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Such pussy answers in here. I wouldn’t be the first to escalate but I wouldn’t tolerate that kind of disrespect. It’s better to be beaten up for standing up for yourself than to be a coward. Those guys picked on you because they saw that you had weak body language. If you had gone crazy and wanted to fight them there’s a huge chance they would have backed off. This whole thing about them having knifes or guns is just speculation. If they pulled out weapons then I would say to get the hell out of…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:02 AM
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THANK YOU!!! but some sex starved lame ass simp is about to tell you about how women control access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:01 PM
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You can date 20 year olds but that’s besides the point. My suggestion is to just give up. Spend most of your time sleeping and watching porn. I wouldn’t even waste energy trying since there’s really no point and you’re too far behind.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:02 AM
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Yeah bro. I hate to say it but you’ve got some serious mental issues. Fucking 50 women is not going to help you. I don’t know who did what to you as a child or how you were raised but you’d be in a better position seeking out a good psychologist or mentor who will kick your ass. This level of negativity is above my pay grade. If you don’t focus on yourself you’re going to regret not having stated earlier when you do reach 30. Your biological clock is the last thing you have to worry about but th…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:29 PM
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You’ve got a lot of work to do. Stop focusing on other people. The fact that you have access to internet and are literate already places you in an advantageous position in the grand context of things. I’m not saying this to belittle your struggle but being appreciative of context can help you cope better and be happier. Don’t try to force things with people. Just chat to them with no expectation. Stop expecting yourself to be perfect. You’re struggling to forge deep bonds because you’re trying t…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:33 PM
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You’re right you’ll never be Chad but you’ll be in a much better place. What I mean by sort themselves out is not that women will flock to you. I meant you would have achieved some level of inner peace that even ‘Chad’ strives towards. You missed out on crucial social development etc. So what? Go out there and talk to people (not just women). Most men (yes even those who have been dealing with women for a long time) are actually very clueless. They have lots of experience but their blue pill len…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:50 PM
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You said it yourself. You’re compensating. I’ve never understood the fascination with sleeping with a certain number of women. I would understand if you said you want to give yourself the best chance of getting laid with the type of women that you want but you want to reach a specific number. You’re trying to fill some void which probably won’t go away even once you reach 50 lays. You’ll just feel miserable, shitty and constantly craving more. You’re also exposing yourself to more STDs that even…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:51 AM
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This post is beta af. Even if you achieve your goal get ready for all the STDs you’re going to be exposed to. You need a psychologist bro.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:35 AM
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Using redpill to achieve blue pill goals
/r/askTRP27/03/21 07:55 AM
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I don’t date. I fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:45 AM
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Thing is you automatically assume the two qualities are inversely proportional. In my experience it’s been almost evenly distributed. In fact I’ve found hat the good women also tend to be very attractive (naturally and from taking care of themselves). They are hard to get because every guy they’re friendly to makes a move on them. The women who I meet who are aren’t attractive tend to be overweight or have poor hygiene. I had this conversation with a friend recently. She’s extremely nice and I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:32 AM
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Problem is men are desperate and go on who gives them a chance. Women who might be of good character etc disqualify a lot of men whereas the women who might not be good for the man in particular are the ones who are at least giving him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 09:58 AM
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Bro there’s nothing wrong with showing emotion but you have to ask yourself why you so desperately want to show emotion in front of her? It’s probably because something is lacking in your life. You want her to validate your emotions. Why? You feel the way you do. It’s not like she can help you with your emotions anyways. Do you want to marry her one day? If not then why are you tripping? Have fun. If you need to cry go elsewhere. Even in a serious ltr I’m not saying don’t show some emotion but t…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:36 AM
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You’ve described r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:05 PM
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