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| 3 | Knowing a woman's sexual history is the most important thingDisagree because asking about it or trying to investigate too much never goes well. I used to think that it was necessary to know but now I see that it’s not. All an alpha male should care about is from the point you start getting with her and going forward. Nothing of the past should you use against. If she respects and treats you right, then all good... the moment she disrespects or does you wrong, you walk away like you should. But has nothing to do with the past and everything to do with her… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exThat’s a good thing, yep, you were wrong. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exWell there you go, calling it blue pill when it’s simply natural for some people and maybe doesn’t work for others. I’m telling you this is where red pill falls short. I’ve spent a lot of time here and teaching it to myself. A lot of it is useful but it’s not 100% correct all the time. Keeping a female friend in hopes they’ll eventually sleep with you or help you get laid would be blue pill. Simply having genuine friendships regardless of the gender isn’t blue pill; it’s just real life. My opini… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI’m sorry that’s your experience. I respectfully disagree. I’ve had and still have a few genuine female friends and they’ve never made me feel like their emotional tampon. We just enjoy being friendly and occasionally doing fun things. They support my goals and plans and I do theirs. Very healthy friendships. I’m really not sure why a guy wouldn’t be able to hold any female friends at all. If you expect them to help you get laid you’re just using them. That’s not a friendship. Real friendships a… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exOk so serious question... the thing is I hardly did any of the actual escalating; I’m telling the truth in saying I’m not the typical orbiter. Orbiters are mainly the guys giving her attention and compliments because they seek validation. That’s not me. We’ve hung out and were friendly but distant. Why would it be bad for me to just stay friends with her from a distance like that? Friends are good. Unlike what people seem to think here, in my social circles, guys and girls can be and are just fr… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I fuck her silly (like most of them want) when only the bitches make me wanna do this to them?I just have to respectfully point out where you basically say lift and diet and wallah, girls will be all over you. I’ve lifted hard for years now and have a great body and it gets almost no attention from women. Girls are out here getting railed by out of shape lazy boys. Overweight, skinny, everything but built and ripped. I still struggle to see why “just lift and be alpha” is given out as blanket advice. I have definitely rubbed some girls the wrong way by being a dick and an asshole sometim… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYeah. That’s something I’m still constantly trying to improve. My personality is pretty good, my intelligence and awareness is high but honestly that doesn’t often make up for having average facial looks. At least not yet. Girls hook up with guys with better facial genes who are shit in most other categories. So unfortunately I see no way to overcome having average looks. Never going to make girls swoon like crazy I don’t think. And it’s not like I’m gonna go backwards with my personality and ac… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI’m not maneuvering to try to get you to say she secretly likes me. I’m legitimately just discussing all these things here and appreciate you willing to engage respectfully now. Seriously I do. Zoom out from red pill for a second. You did admit that yes she does recognize my high value in life and the social hierarchy. That means something, separately from sexual life. It’s good and meaningful to be a high quality person. But I don’t understand why me being “too good” would be an auto DQ for sex… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exSo like I said I don’t care about the outcome with this one as much as you may think. She’s just a new girl I met and was seeing how things went. But I’m telling you, in this case, she doesn’t think she’s better than me. Our current social group, the way it is, I’m near the top of the competence hierarchy and I’m a masculine guy. Most of the other guys she knows are autistic or messy or going nowhere with their lives. I know it sounds bad but sometimes the truth just has to be said. This girl is… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exGreat. But most of those things you mentioned we have no control to decide. Height, skin tone, face shape, hair. All luck of the draw. And there are plenty of good looking short guys who have high quality girlfriends and girl interest, so let’s not pretend height has to be super tall. As long as you’re larger than the girl that’s enough. Anything about him that we can also put into practice to our success? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exTrust me too... I’m intelligent enough not to go down the hole with a girl like this. I promise you that’s not what I’m doing here. I’m simply trying to learn and understand as much as possible about these situations. Most guys don’t even know what red pill is. So if you’re trying to scare me when I already know all about it... not sure exactly why. I mentioned a few things about this girl that I was hoping you’d touch on. Specifically how she told me that I’m “way up...here” with my temperament… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exSo I’m gonna touch on these things you said here that I actually agree with. First, this girl is likely to settle for beta orbiters because she’s a mess of mental health troubles and a history of self harm and family mistreatment. She’s 25 just like me and has never had an LTR that worked out well from the looks of it. She’s very broken and can’t handle a proper relationship. I can tell she has tried to get with high value attractive men but they leave because they see the trouble. It’s not that… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exWill def be doing that, no big deal | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exHey serious question. Can you explain the traits of Jason Mamoa that apparently make him extremely attractive? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exBecause some people like to say a lot of bullshit out of their ass knowing nothing about the lives of the posters. It’s pathetic. This sub has become more focused on just hate and putting down instead of actually discussing things like normal people. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my ex....how someone can escalate and lead on and then kick away after things go well. Her using the excuse that she knows my ex and that’s the reason why has to be a bunch of bull. She barely knows her. And she wouldn’t have escalated if she had that principle from the beginning of knowing me. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exIt’s not all lies there because it happens in real life. I’m not at all banking on that here; I’m just saying, it DOES happen. Girls change what they want all. The. Time. Also, stop putting down simply doing fun things with people platonically. There’s nothing wrong with that. So many men here take red pill to autistic levels that they can’t even have normal relationships with human beings. It’s sickening. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exVery accurate for you | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exComment aged well | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYou’re not an orbiter if you cut off contact once a girl basically admits she was just playing you. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exGood one. Complete inability to recognize that life is shades of gray right there. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exThanks for telling us you didn’t actually read anything without telling us that you didn’t actually read anything. 2 short paragraphs are about one person. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Why is being polite mistaken with being a loser?No I said keep being that way. Stop thinking what people think. You are doing the right thing. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:00 PM |
| -1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exAgain, you ignore details. She initiated and escalated first. You don’t do that unless you have some initial interest. She decided to make the “rule” on a whim, last night. That was what threw me off and that you ignored for so long. Again, there’s no oneitis. But I can’t mention the other two girls I’m hooking up with because you wouldn’t believe me anyway and would make up more bullshit. I’m not wasting my time. I don’t allow myself to be used. I haven’t spoken to her since. I know orbiters; a… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Why is being polite mistaken with being a loser?Yes but my point is when you make it high then you should be kind and generous to others. You don’t have to achieve the fame of The Rock. If you are a successful and confident alpha male you SHOULD be generous and polite to others. Not because you need validation, but because it’s the alpha thing to do, no matter who you are. Positive energy is valuable. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI’m not an orbiter because I don’t allow myself to be. People do not make rules for me. Said this already. You missed the point entirely again. Keep doubling down. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:36 PM |
| -17 | Why is being polite mistaken with being a loser?No it doesn’t. You misunderstood everything. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 35 | Why is being polite mistaken with being a loser?They’re not looking down on you. They’re just not used to people being openly polite and kind. I do this too. The man who does it the best is The Rock. His personality is humble, generous, and kind. Be like him in that way and don’t worry about what people think of it. Most of the time they’re just caught off guard because a lot of people aren’t like that. They are rude because they are unhappy and dgaf to their own detriment. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exlol finally there’s something that makes sense. And no, I’m good bro. 2 years ago I got the help I needed to turn my life around and glad I did. Asking a question on here to keep learning is not creepy. You’re an insanely weird dude respectfully. Stop talking bullshit out of your ass. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI don’t care about any particular outcome as much as you think. Whatever keeps me at peace. She’s a cool person who I’d appreciate as a friend. I just dislike how sometimes red pill guys look down on having platonic friendships with girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYou’re misguided to question my “spectrum” for simply trying to learn about situations so that I can handle them to the best of my ability. That’s what winners do, you know. Thanks but again you ignored the part about her doing the initiating and escalating. Then I’m the bad guy for asking why she sends this 180 message in the middle of the night after our time together went great? I didn’t respond yet. I’m not obsessed; trying to understand how people think is not bad. And nah, it’s definitely … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exSo can guys and girls be friends then and be happy leaving it at that? Why does it have to be a bad thing? I see nothing wrong with a guy and girl being genuine friends as long as neither is using the other wrongly. Right. Well I’m just saying, after the past week of her initiating physical contact and intimacy, for her to send that was a total 180. That’s why I posted this. She’s the one who did the initiating and then started to escalate with me. You don’t do that unless you feel a connection.… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:11 PM |
| -2 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exPushing deeper is how you learn. Not blindly listening to everything that comes into your ears. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exMy simple questioning isn’t a reasonable reaction? Trying to learn isn’t reasonable? I think it’s possible you may not have understood exactly what I’m asking here. This girl used the fact that I once dated her acquaintance as the reason for not wanting to take things further, AFTER initiating and escalating with me and showing she was interested. How does that make any sense? I’m just saying that the fact a guy once dated an acquaintance shouldn’t be a disqualifier. Friends date each other’s fr… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI did | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exOk, now listen to my response respectfully. Some of you simply get things wrong sometimes. It’s ok. I’m not too focused on this girl. I’m not gonna talk about my whole life here; this post was about a specific situation. Stop using that to claim oneitis. I’ve been talking to multiple girls at a time for a while now. I hook up sometimes and am doing great right now. But none of that has anything to do with what I asked here. Please stop trying to dictate people’s lives and respond to the situatio… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:46 PM |
| -1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exWell then if you’re going to insist all situations are like this, then you’re implying not to even act like a girl exists unless you’re fucking her. And that would mean you can’t even have friends who are girls. I never said she’s required to date me because I’ve gotten her out of her rut and made her feel good. But respectfully you didn’t answer my most important question: why just because she knows my ex would that be a reason to have no interest in me? Especially when she’s not even close to … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:40 PM |
| -4 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exI do. Doesn't mean you can't still try to understand individual people. I guess red pill is the wrong place to ask about that because you assume every poster here just wants to get laid all the time above all else. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exLmao dude I don't need a therapist. My social skills are very good. I don't have problems like that. I'm genuine, stoic, and calm...if that doesn't gel well with girls who have mental health struggles and high neuroticism, then so be it. I'm not going back to my old self. I'm far better now. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exLOL nope. Been there, done that. I've had it before and know what it's like. No oneitis here. Just a question about a situation. Look, I'd respect you way more if you made a real effort to understand the situation and have a real discussion rather than spit out the repeated "oneitis, move on" bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exAre you confused? I wrote 2 short paragraphs about the past 2 weeks we hung out. The first part was about another girl, if I wasn't clear. And this girl actually literally texted me a bunch of paragraphs about me. She wrote me a novel. Again, I am not an orbiter. I don't allow myself to be an orbiter. I do understand this all now, it doesn't matter if you think so or not. This girl has orbiter men. I'm not one of them. I got her up and out of her house and doing fun shit for 2 weeks. Then out of… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:14 PM |
| -2 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYou're only an orbiter if you allow yourself to be an orbiter. She has orbiters...guys who send her caring little messages as she lays at home dealing with her mental health. I do not do that; I'm not an orbiter. I live a high active lifestyle and was getting her up and having some fun for once. That text was so sudden. That may be her intent, but I don't let myself be an orbiter for anyone. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:11 PM |
| -3 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exJust go away man, not everyone thinks like you do | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:09 PM |
| -3 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exDude, stop taking red pill to autistic levels. Stop uttering terms like oneitis. I just asked a damn question about a situation, I'm bullshitting absolutely nothing. If you don't want to give real answers from a legit perspective do not fucking comment. Most girls are "fucked up in the head" to some degree. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:05 PM |
| -6 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exWe've known each other 2 weeks. Despite the BS this community holds up as the only way to do things, different people move at different paces and not everyone has to fuck the first week of knowing someone for a relationship to be possible. That was the next step, things have been great, no issues at all and then out of nowhere I get that text. She's not out getting railed. I can see on snapchat she's at home all the time laying there and watching TV. She doesn't do much and she's easily hurt. So… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:00 PM |
| -1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exCan you elaborate? This means nothing on its own. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exNo, I have deliberately made sure not to become an orbiter. She has her orbiters...guys who message her all the time, friendly, nice, talk to her on facebook, etc. I do none of that. We've been going out together and doing fun stuff and I keep it casual and fun because I have a very active life. I'm not one of her orbiters; she came onto me. This is different. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Hanging with girl for first time in a LONG time...what are expectations of me?Thanks for your explanation, it really helped. First hang out was good. We went mini golfing and then to the driving range since I play real golf competitively. I tried not to dominate the conversation but just lead and be fun while letting her feel free and comfortable to be herself. She said she had a great time and wants to do more and at night under the lights. Haha Thanks for the great advice you gave me | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Hanging with girl for first time in a LONG time...what are expectations of me?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Hanging with girl for first time in a LONG time...what are expectations of me?Thank you. Will just have fun and casually get to know her more. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | One benefit of social media that is sometimes forgottenPublic for sure. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Are women very basic or is it just that it seems so to me?Yes they just are. That’s a distinction from female to male. Coworker is in his 40s, was married to a girl then got divorced then dated another girl for many years, just told me he can’t recall ever having a single truly rational and deep conversation with either one of them. It’s not all bad; he’s still friends with them both, but deep complex conversation is really for the boys. There are women who can talk that way, they do exist, but with social media and mindless retardation like tik tok an… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl to do something with you, is it better to say “we should” or “you should”?Awesome thanks | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | One benefit of social media that is sometimes forgottenIt is relevant, that’s the truth. You don’t need to have a ton though; a few hundred is totally normal. Totally normal and attractive guys that I went to high school and college with, we have 300-1000 followers. In that range is good. You don’t want to fake being popular though. Just be genuine and grow your network through genuine connections, if possible. You don’t need to show off your pages; just have them there and only show them to people if they’re interested. As a normal guy you can get … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl to do something with you, is it better to say “we should” or “you should”?In favor of what kind of wording then? Don’t want to come across as too forceful like the girl has no choice (bad, we live in bs allegations culture). | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | When you ask a girl to do something with you, is it better to say “we should” or “you should”?Strength is learning how to communicate in the best and most effective ways and understanding how interactions affect others and their reactions. Not giving a fuck is the easy, lazy way and might be sufficient in the short term but it’s a failed strategy for long term success. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | One benefit of social media that is sometimes forgottenSometimes is but that’s not exactly what I meant haha. I meant you can also find other high quality guys on social media with similar hobbies, become friends, do things together and in turn meet more people including women. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?It doesn’t matter in this context if it’s failing. I agree it is. But if you shut yourself off from what everyone else is doing, you lose. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?I want her to feel suffering. Not be validated by more likes and follows for doing literally nothing. She abandoned me, betrayed me and made up a bunch of lies. She deserves to feel pain like I did. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?My ex loves showing off on Instagram. She never used to care when I dated her. Now she all about that social media glam and likes | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?Yeah that was kind of the original topic at hand | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:27 AM |
| -7 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?You sound like you think you know better, but you may be out of touch with the youngest generation. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?I think more the latter. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:50 AM |
| -2 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?It kinda does. In my observation. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?You’re right. Doesn’t help when I see my ex doing things like connecting with a bunch of social media influencers/digital media marketing “girls” to gain more social media clout. She was very introverted when she was with me. Now she’s all about that social media validation and attention, and she’s bragging about it. Shit is annoying as hell. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:49 AM |
| -6 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?The majority of your followers are likely to be people you’ve met and know in person; not randos on the internet. Especially if you have your page on private. So, yes. Social success and number of followers are related. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:44 AM |
| -3 | How do some men have so many Instagram followers for being regular dudes?Knew it was coming. Well, I’ll give you a genuine reason why: because social success can be important in life, if you decide it brings with it things that make you feel more fulfilled. But regardless, different people care about different things. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Why do high value women date betas?Because women want what’s best for them in the moment. If the beta is a provider and gives her things she desires without her having to do anything, she could stay or keep going back. I know many girls like this. They are selfish and want certain things like gifts, money, a way out of a bad situation, security, etc. They can never love a beta though the way a man can love his mother. And that’s why allowing yourself to be a beta is an absolute sin. And by beta, to be clear as always, I mean some… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Why do high value women date betas?So much wrong with this. 1. Men who don’t take good care of themselves are ultimately unattractive to propagate their genes. 2. He fucks low value women who also don’t give a fuck. Poor situations all around. No purpose in it other than busting nuts. Not a good situation for creating purpose or building a family or community. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?I’ve been though a lot of pain. My ex needs some pain to feel the type of things I felt after she abandoned me. The only things I ever expect are human decency and kindness and compassion; I argue that’s not too much to ask for. So when someone falls way short of that, it’s wrong. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?I know I don’t deserve anything by default, but we do deserve things based on what we do with our lives. Being good men, doing good for the family, the community, etc are admirable values and deserve someone who admires those things specifically. There are women who are intelligent enough to understand and live this way. Women who admire their husbands for their character, strength, work, and contributions. I know you’re just telling the truth (about most women) but the way you ended that makes … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Fat chicks with attitude??Have to make up for their inadequacy somehow. Make excuses for not being in shape and project arrogance, that’s easy for them. Just ignore. Or interact humbly and just make light of the situation. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?True. Sometimes just walking away and not talking can beat explaining and rationalizing to someone who doesn’t want to do their part in getting the logic down. But there are also times when it is natural and correct (and healthy) to speak logically and rationally about things in life. In limitation. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 6 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Definitely the external validation. And actually, as I improved myself and became higher value, being ignored entirely changed into being resented and disliked (by low value people who are just jealous of what I have going for me). So then I had to mentally deal with the idea of knowing some people actively dislike me because of the vibe I project. But knowing I’m doing really well helped put me at ease with that. Who cares if low value people dislike you because you’re doing well? It’s because … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 28 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?I don’t believe in avoiding deering. Being rational and being able to logically explain things is a key to living a high quality life of success and value. If a girl can’t handle a little truth and rationale, you shouldn’t want to be with her anyway. They’ll ruin your life. This is one red pill “teaching” I disagree with. Be logical, be truthful, explain. Not to retardation levels, but to a normal degree. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?They don’t love you because you’re a special guy you just fit her needs right now. Thanks for this reminder. This is really the truth that I've had so much trouble accepting because it is so selfish and can be cold-hearted. My breakup with my last ex was horrible; sure I made mistakes but in the end she ruined a lot of me, she threw me under the bus when I was already down, I did things for her that she never did for me. She never apologized for any of the trashy things she did and never tried t… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?So on that point what qualities do you think get you into this top 20%? or top 5%, whatever you want to focus on? And we're talking about SMV I assume, but part of my point was also the idea of a competence hierarchy. There are plenty of attractive, fit, alpha guys with dead end jobs and no money, smoking and drinking, no real skills, and never making any progress in life. We could call them "alpha" and they'll pull girls, but they aren't competent in anything. I'm focusing more on the competenc… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Well I'm trying not to assume that. Perhaps they do crave them and it's the guys steering clear of those girls. That probably explains more of the cases. But I'm willing to bet some cases there's just too much lifestyle disconnect for the girl to be interested in the guy at all. Again, girls want a guy to spend lots of time with them and make them feel good. If the guy is so busy/successful/high value that the girl literally feels inferior and insecure, that isn't going to be a good thing either… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Right. I'm talking about a lot of young girls though who aren't getting ready to "settle." 18-22 year olds, dating very average, messy guys...you could call them "alpha" maybe but in terms of the competence hierarchy I talked about in the post, they are average to below-average. No money, slack off their jobs, drive a highly modified sports car they somehow got a loan for, etc. These average girls go for these types of guys when there are clearly higher value guys around who are highly educated … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Yeah. I don’t want to be that guy. But then girls try to make me feel like shit for having no long term partner, as if the problem is that I’m a low quality person and no one wants me. No... there are definitely girls who have wanted me, but I could never allow myself to stoop down to their level. I’ve seen guys ruin themselves doing that. I refuse to let it happen to me. I almost did with my last relationship. I’m cool with being very selective and waiting out for a high quality girl to actuall… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Right. Hypergamy definitely is real, but I guess what I’m saying I’ve observed is that it breaks down at a certain point. Many girls cannot connect with guys who are too high in certain traits or status, especially if you make the girl feel badly about her lifestyle. Because more than anything else, most average girls need validation and praise for no reason other than just existing. If you, as a high quality man, do not give them that free attention and validation, they aren’t gonna like you. A… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:59 AM |
| 0 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?THIS. Exactly what I’m talking about. You have your shit together as a male, you’ve got at least good looks, you’re healthy and fit, you are assertive, you have an orderly life...and you try to hit up average/lower tier girls and they aren’t interested at all. I know I sound terrible right now but it’s true; their intelligence/rationality is so low, they have no attraction to us, or are too intimidated, whatever. They want normal guys who make them feel good and excited, not winners who make the… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Thanks for the reply. This makes sense. Would seem to explain why I’ve gotten less attention from girls who are a mess as I’ve gotten my life together and risen in the hierarchy lately. The thing about these highly neurotic “5s” with messy, low quality lives though is that they seem to project as if they’re higher quality; they seem to project as if they’re 8s. They act all “bad bitch” and stuff like that while they’re making no progress in life and have no real skills. But are you saying in rea… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Observation: average girls are most often with average guys, not higher quality guys... true or not?Ok. That explains the cases where the top 20% guy is taken or not even willing to entertain interest, but not the cases where the lower quality girl isn’t even sexually interested in a top 20% guy who is available and good looking. I think the fact of too much intellectual and lifestyle disconnect seems to be the biggest explaining factor there. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Need straightforward plan for escalationYou’re literally insane 😂 | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Need straightforward plan for escalationYou’re psychotic. I didn’t hide anything in my post. The details of the girls are unnecessary to the topic, you don’t need to know details; this was a general question of advice. You’re nuts. You can stop replying now. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Need straightforward plan for escalationIt’s because you’re taking “red pill” too rigidly to the point of retardation. People meet and hookup at work all the time. There are tons of jobs that aren’t big corporate places with HR departments, and even still, there are mutual relationships where nothing bad happens. My first two girlfriends I literally met at local jobs and we’d fuck in the parking lot. Never any issues. These types of jobs are where your coworkers become your friends and friends can become more. I understand where you’r… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Need straightforward plan for escalationCringe. Not everyone has a huge social life, bro. Most people know other people from work, school, and common activities... that’s it. And I will argue every day that it’s better to have relationships with girls you know than try to meet randos who may or may not have anything in common with you. It’s not only work; it’s other common stuff too. So believe what you want but that’s reality. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Need straightforward plan for escalationThank you | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Need straightforward plan for escalationI should’ve been clearer; I need direction on even earlier escalation. Like, I have numbers and good interaction when we’re around each other, like good genuine connection. But literally with covid still here there’s not much going on in my town. People aren’t out doing anything, and my mom is forced to work from home until summer so she never leaves the house and I still live here until I join the military later this year. So I can’t just bring girls over and fuck. I need ideas for what to talk… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Approaching at the gym. Your experiences recently?Nope not at all. The most jacked alpha guys in my gym get zero attention from the girls there. It's usually the more modestly-in-shape, attractive guys who get the looks. I get the looks and stares all the time. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Why no interest from females on social media?Yeah I think you might be right on this. No, I’m not going to post just to attract a certain demographic attention. I’m just genuinely wondering why no girls like my stuff anymore. Back in college and high school I’d get plenty likes from them, now I get almost none. But the bros always come in strong lol | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why no interest from females on social media?Incorrect, my Instagram is genuinely a mix of stuff I genuinely enjoy. It’s not to get laid haha. I’ve been laid plenty. I’m really just asking why fewer and fewer people are liking posts lately compared to years past. I think it really just might be a decrease in social media use in general among my age group. Even girls post way less now. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Why no interest from females on social media?I’m actually not; my feed is a mix of different things. I’m no gym bro posting all body stuff... and those guys get more female likes than me, too... I’m actually modest and have an interesting feed but lately, interaction is way down. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Why no interest from females on social media?lol I don’t purse my lips for a camera. My feed is a mix of different interests and activities. The douchebag gym guys who post all workout shit get more female likes than me. That’s not me. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Short bros, how to not let height affect my happiness?Stop giving a fuck. Literally doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. Build your best body, proceed with confidence. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Are girls with lots of guy friends a red flag ?Yes | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Should I be friends with guys who don’t have their shit together?Remain friends and try to help direct them onto a better path whenever possible. Being flawed isn’t a reason to not be friends. But if they become such bad influences that there is nothing good about the relationship, that’s where you pull the plug. Otherwise, remain friends and try to influence them positively. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 2 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?So there’s an update. We had a big talk about what happened and my boss downplayed what happened a ton. She keeps saying “oh they’re just really good friends” (her son and my acquaintance’s girlfriend) and that since she didn’t see the videos, she wishes she would have. I explained that although the videos were short, the girl was all up in his chest, very intoxicated, and that I thought that was most likely disrespectful to her boyfriend who did not even know she would be going to the bar and w… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Psychedelics?Can I just walk out into nature and get them? Lol | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Psychedelics?Eastern USA, suburban/rural area | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 06:09 AM |
| 1 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?She plays that role jokingly, but at the core that’s not her. I’ve had deep conversations with her about life. She’ll act like a cougar jokingly but it’s for fun inside work. I’ve seen the deeper side of her, she has hated how her son brings girls over the house and she walks down the hall and the girls are standing or laying naked and don’t give a fuck as they awkwardly say hi to her. lol | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 01:20 AM |
| 27 | Does anyone else refuse to lower their standards to bang chicks they aren’t attracted to?Yes No sex with fat people (obesity is horrible) No sex with anyone you don’t find attractive or don’t care about at all. This is the way. Your friends give in to impulsive pleasure beyond reason. Get on your purpose and when sex comes along genuinely that’s great. There’s no good reason to force it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Damn, how do you cope with the realization that love isnt real?No problem. And don’t let people make you feel bad when they criticize you for doing good things; they are jealous and lazy and reject the idea of the competence hierarchy. Do what you know to be lasting and meaningful. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 32 | Damn, how do you cope with the realization that love isnt real?It does suck. Best thought process I've found is to simply treat yourself like a God, love yourself (and not that crappy share facebook memes about loving yourself bullshit...I mean actually take care of your fucking mind and body and fuck everyone who doesn't subscribe to that). Find meaning in something deeper, something higher than sexual/romantic relationships. You look around and see plenty of people together who are miserable people living shit lives. You need to create true satisfaction b… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Ltr has gotten crazier since we started datingI’m very sorry man. She’s a mess. She’s entering that sad, reckless, aimless phase. She’ll insist she’s happy, and convince herself she’s thriving, but deep inside there is shit going on there. Like others said, she wants to be in a tribe, she wants to be wild, receive validation for her body, etc. Current culture will influence her to go further down that chaotic path. I have gone through the same exact thing with an ex. Never thought she’d give into the typical shit of modern culture; thought … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?The thing is, my boss loves me. She hates how her son is a male slut, she talks about it all the time. I’m a polar opposite; I’ve been in a few committed relationships and I’m far more mentally mature than her son is at the same age. Her son gets smashed at the bar 4 nights a week and is a lazy bum. She is always hitting on me (she’s in her 50s) and sits down to talk to me at length about how much she admires my character and mental strength and focused lifestyle and straight up says she wishes … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Crazy thing is he is our boss’s son! Our boss is female btw. She knows her son just fucks a bunch of girls, but he’s always out so she doesn’t know who he’s always with, and he probably doesn’t tell her he’s with this girl from work because she’s clearly in a committed LTR with a guy who’s away and if his mom realized how much he was hanging out with this girl she’d be upset on both a business and personal level. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 10:27 AM |
| 3 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Not exactly, no. In shape, sure. Good weight. She’s in the military reserve so she’s gotta stay in respectable shape and she’s got a decent body. But her face, she’s just a 5. So pretty crazy. Yeah we’re all idiots once but I’m glad I changed for myself. I’m at the point with maturity now where I never let my dick do the deciding. I know this is trp but I’m at a spiritual plane in my life now where I will not tolerate any trashy behavior at all from my partner; I expect full respect and seriousn… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 09:05 AM |
| 2 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Yup. I used to think so innocently too just a few years ago, I thought I had a unicorn and great girl who truly loved my soul and wouldn't disrespect me socially like that. A girl who I thought was with me on my journey to achieve my best in life. Then she started hanging around bad influences, being trashy, and cut me out when I denounced her trashy behavior. I was only telling the truth, that much of society wants to tolerate these days. Getting drunk and partying with other guys who I don't k… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Exactly. And she proceeded to put it on her own story too, so her boyfriend will see unless she deletes it before he wakes up in the morning. I can't wait to see how this plays out. He should absolutely not tolerate that; I surely wouldn't as it's totally disrespectful to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 2 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?I tried myself. Tried really hard. Worked for a while because my ex was shy, reserved, a loner when we dated. But if you have these girls who are trashy and sloppy and disrespectful to the relationship, yep, long distance is stupid. Worse yet, my acquaintace, her boyfriend, lets her fly out to see him at college every two weeks (because she doesn't go to college or have a nice home). I really think he just doesn't understand he's getting played yet. He's a young guy, eventually he will learn lik… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 08:21 AM |
| 3 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Update: The girl proceeded to post even more insane video clips to her story than even the male coworker did! I can't believe it. Never saw anything this much until now. The guy posted a quick video of him and friends and the girl dancing together, and she was brushing up against him, and I thought that was bad. Then later the girl posts tons of videos on her story, her continuously bumping into him, taking shots, crazy behavior. On her *public* story. So there's no way her boyfriend, my acquain… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 07:51 AM |
| 2 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?Yeah I’m totally with you. I just wondered if I was going too far or overthinking. I kinda just can’t believe some people put up with this behavior, or don’t do enough to find out about it. If I was a girl in a committed relationship I wouldn’t want my guy doing this much either; it goes both ways. It’s pretty disrespectful to me. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | A girlfriend going out to bars/clubs with male coworkers who boyfriend doesn’t know... acceptable or not?I apologize haha | /r/askTRP | 07/03/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I don't have that kind of intelligence. I have a B.S. and that was about all I can handle for now. Math is not something I have ever enjoyed or done super well with. If I could go back to school again I would do something in psychology or biology. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?You are listening to people here who have it wrong, that's why you're depressed and unhappy. Spinning plates and not committing will never fully satisfy you. So you should stop that approach (all the respect to those who are OK doing that, but it's not for everyone), and focus on being humble and genuine and building yourself into exactly who you want to be. At some point one woman will come along and be everything you want. Stop making your mental health be dependent on girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Thanks for taking the time to write this. I read it all and there's a lot of good points in here. Something I will say is that yeah, lately, I've actually learned to make friends with people who may not be that similar to me, but who I can have something in common with, and leave it at that. For example, one guy I work with, I used to not like at all. He can be a real asshole and he basically lives in the projects, and he's kinda not very smart. But we both invest and play around with stocks, an… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I feel better about it now, yeah. I'm learning how to appreciate connections more with other people for whatever they are, even the ones that aren't very deep. And at the end of the day, I can be the God of my own life and have my mind set on a higher purpose, even if we can't describe exactly what that is. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I think you have a great point here. I don't believe in a specific "God" of the universe; I do believe there is a higher plane of something that we can't understand yet, maybe never. However, you reminded me that I am basically the God of my own life. And we are each the God of our own lives. And maybe that's all that needs to matter. Be your own God. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Thank you, this is really the solution I think | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Yep I think this really is the simplest way to say this at the end of the day. Since I posted this, the past 2 days, I've focused on simply being super productive for my OWN good and my OWN satisfaction, and not looking to be validated by other people for going to the gym or being productive, and I actually felt way better. Just the last two days, changing that mindset. So thank you guys. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Well if you don’t create a set of ideas that are “good” and you don’t live with a certain aim in mind, you’re a nihilist. Which you’re free to be if you want, but I’ve been through all that philosophical debate and chose to live by a more meaningful perspective to me. If you haven’t read 12 Rules for Life, that’s pretty much what I mean. I decided that taking on responsibility and bearing a certain burden is good for me, my family, and the society around me. What’s the one thing that “truly” mat… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?I don’t follow attractive girls online unless they’re known for something else (athletes, leaders, etc.) or I know them personally. That’s a difference. I have the willpower to not do that because not only is it disrespectful to your current partner but it’s also just a waste of time. It’s not too much to expect a woman to do the same. If she’s following a bunch of eboys who are only famous because of their looks, she’s fantasizing about them, which is disrespectful to you, her boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Makes sense. I just don’t understand how, then, so many people can not care about “growing.” Content with stagnation...are they really? Obese bodies, alcohol and drug use, watching anime online, mindlessly scrolling on Facebook...how long can they put up with that and not desire better? For many, their whole lives it seems... | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?It’s not totally wrong. A majority of single girls would get with the low IQ hot pool boy before an intelligent and successful guy with average looks. Sure, not all, but a majority. It’s nature, and there’s nothing you can do about it. Just look, even my last girlfriend was following a bunch of those hot eboys on TikTok. Girls drool over that and it’s 100% looks, they’ll never meet these guys or share anything in life except fantasizing about being impregnated by a hot looking alpha male. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Yeah I’ve definitely struggled with this a little at times. I’ve gotten better at just enjoying others in the moment, as long as it doesn’t set me back or hurt me negatively in terms of my own goals. Will keep trying to open up more. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?Yeah that’s true... although I’ve always felt that there’s something less than satisfying about a girl sleeping with you for mainly those reasons (status, money). She’s doing it for what you have, not who you are. Just my opinion though. So status should be for your own fulfillment more than anything else. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?Not sure if I’m quite there yet but definitely in the top 20% and let me just be honest: I think status has very little to do with whether a female lets you insert your penis into her body. I’m more and more convinced the “status” thing is something red pill gets wrong. Girls would rather choose the low IQ pool boy with naturally great genes many times, and there is NOTHING you can do about it. No amount of money, gym work, intelligence, achievement, or status will make her truly desire you in a… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Is it not natural to want to feel that you belong? Respectfully I’m going to come from the other direction. Why does it matter what you achieve if nobody cares? Why does it matter how strong you are if you’re all alone? Humans aren’t solitary polar bears. It seems more natural that we desire validation and social belonging. I think red pill doesn’t always approach this idea the best. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I do believe that sex is a necessity, but I’ve already felt the lessening of satisfaction from it. Like a new car. Feels amazing at first but as the years go it loses excitement and value and you begin to search for new and better. I don’t see an ultimate goal with sex, unless you want to say the goal is to have sex with as many human beings as possible, but that’s going down a dark path and I don’t want to turn psychopathic like that. Sex is necessary but not sufficient, at this point in my lif… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Yeah that’s great and no, let me be careful to explain that I don’t consider you and your wife to fit this description of people who aren’t “driven enough.” You are driven for what matters to you. You have responsibility where you need to have it. You care for your kids, right? You don’t neglect them. You aren’t slobs or people with zero belonging. You have a place, and you take it seriously to the degree you need to. That’s admirable. I want that one day too, but very few people around me right… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?The thing is, I actually agree with pretty much the entire Sith way of thinking, as you look around and it is truth. But I still have myself asking “why?” Why, exactly, would this be the meaning to life? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?You’re not inherently wrong. Similarities to the Sith for sure haha. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Hell no. I’m not bragging about doing well; I’m saying I’m not happy doing well. Money is good in that it allows me to do things I want, but it doesn’t guarantee satisfaction in its own. I don’t care about being a millionaire; I only care about having enough to care for myself and what I care about. Why would I want to retire at 35? I’d die of boredom. I’d rather work until I physically can’t any longer. Contribute to something. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?So does that mean it’s not worth it to pursue it, though? I’d like to contribute to the expansion of humans to planets beyond Earth. I think that would feel meaningful, and it’s only biological in the sense that we expand our genes, but it takes physical and mental work to make that happen through space travel, for example. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Yeah it’s not that I’m criticizing middle aged adults for not working harder; I meant more people my own age and younger. And then there’s plenty of people who made things unnecessarily difficult for themselves. Overusing drugs and alcohol and having children before being financially secure the most common. Overall just doing the bare minimum plus making decisions that place restrictions on yourself. My age group does this so much that I feel isolated and alone not living that way and valuing ot… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?So, if life really isn’t as remarkable as we think when we’re young, should I still pursue my best self and a higher purpose? Or just aim for social validation if that means neglecting my best wellbeing and potential? My intuition obviously tells me to still pursue what I believe to be the best, but I need to see or feel something that’s going to fully convince me it’s worth it. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I think the best way to look at this here is to say yeah, appreciate the journey more and enjoy little things... but that doesn’t mean settle for average or less than what you know you should pursue. It seems difficult to figure out true satisfaction in pursuing better, but my intuition tells me it’s still the right thing to do. If I started neglecting myself and just not caring about pursuing higher purpose, I’d feel even worse. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Thanks for this awesome response. Will definitely try to think like this. You know what I think I could benefit from? A ride or die woman who is highly driven just like me, so I have someone to love and someone to love me back. You see these couples sometimes. They have total trust in each other even at the expense of everyone else if necessary. They’ll go anywhere and do anything together. Most normal people consider them arrogant or psychopathic. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?👍 | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I will definitely try doing this. Thanks. I just think the biggest hurdle is believing in myself that what I pursue WILL bring me satisfaction. I don’t want to put so much effort in over a long period of time and then be disappointed and unhappy or come to a conclusion that I spent life pursuing the wrong things. The people around me right now don’t make me feel like my drive to pursue the “top” is worth it. They’re all happier than me. If I can convince myself that my pursuit of a higher being … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Is that the answer though? I feel like seeking “higher purpose” will isolate me from most people even more. The funny thing is, I used to be very introverted as a kid and loved being alone, but now I’m more extroverted and want to be around other people...but people who share my mindset and lifestyle. I guess I just haven’t found it yet. The 1% in terms of status all left their former lives behind, I guess. They might still talk to their childhood connections occasionally but their daily lives a… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?This makes sense. But my pushback is: humans naturally crave a feeling of belonging and love. It would be more unnatural to not care at all about these things. If you were the only one in the world doing certain things, and you felt like you didn’t bond or connect with others, would you feel satisfied? I’m questioning myself because I’m battling over whether it’s better to do what’s right and good or to do what will make me feel loved and connected to other humans. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 7 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Yeah good stuff right here in these two responses. Kinda makes me feel sad for others unfortunately... imagine what the world could be if everyone pursued their fullest capabilities. But anyway, can’t focus too much on others. I’ll try to accept and love them as human life, especially if they are good people, but at the same time keep climbing as high as I can myself. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 06:02 AM |
| 15 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?That makes sense. I think this questioning has been in the works for the last 2 years or so, maybe because I’ve been doing good things but look around my current environment and feel isolated because even most of my acquaintances aren’t living the same way, yet seem to be far happier. They’re fine being typical and not pursuing their best selves, and I am not. I guess I need to keep trusting what I want and not be afraid to embark on new opportunities and journeys. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 05:18 AM |
| 7 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?I guess so. It’s just gotten very hard to find belonging, if you want to call it that. I have been pursuing what I believe to be fulfilling and good, but I haven’t yet really felt the satisfaction in that. I think you’re right; eventually if I find my proper place, doing whatever I decide is my purpose, I’ll feel good and the peer group I have now will just be a memory along the way. I guess I just have to keep pushing through and trusting life will become more fulfilling ahead.... thanks 👍 | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 05:06 AM |
| 4 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?Why aren’t others people’s lives my concern? This is what I think red pill gets wrong. I think that wanting others to achieve their fullest potential and bond with them in that journey as a good thing, not bad. I’m respected and appreciated by others. They come to me, enjoy my personality and what I have. The issue is in the other direction; more that I don’t feel connected to many others. People poke fun at the fact that I work out 6 days a week and have a good body. They poke fun at the fact t… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | My sexuality is confusing and complicates my life...how much of an issue is this?Yeah, for a while I wanted to deny it but I know it isn't going away. That said, thank you for that comment. I may be a bit bisexual, attracted to some guys but still interested in sex and relationships with girls, so it's whatever. I'll stop trying to label myself and just live life and embrace what I'm attracted to. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 4 | My sexuality is confusing and complicates my life...how much of an issue is this?You're right, that's the best way to say it. Will just not make it an issue. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | My sexuality is confusing and complicates my life...how much of an issue is this?Haha awesome post. It's crazy, hearing those songs when I was younger I didn't even realize they were a bit creepy in today's culture. Especially Christine Sixteen. My Dad used to play KISS all the time, and I just liked the song, not knowing what it was about when I was a kid haha. Thanks for the awesome comment and helping me understand more that there's nothing uniquely wrong with me, I just may be a little bisexual. Whatever, no problem. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Psychedelics?I'm not too sensitive to mental changes, but I'll take it slow for sure. Just have to get access to them. Where I live, there's really nothing, and the streets without knowing exactly where things are coming from is not at all for me. So it looks like dark web is my only real access | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Can a girl's perception of you change and if so how and how long?Knew it was coming. I have, man...I've been with other girls since. I just want to know if it happens sometimes and if so what is the catalyst. It would be way more fun to get with her as the guy I am now vs. the guy I was 2-3 years ago when we were actually together. Things were not that great then; that's my entire point. So there was so much room to improve and I used that well on myself. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on what kind of sexual life to pursuePretty much. However the reason I don't feel normal is I've always felt more socially isolated than I want to be now. I've always been a little more mature, more serious, afraid to try new things, and keep to myself. Self-conscious and nervous about not being comfortable getting close with others if I disagree with their lifestyles. I don't really hang out with people outside of forced environments. I get jealous of people who seem to have a lot of fun in healthy social circles. I have to figure… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on what kind of sexual life to pursueYep. Can't lie, I've never been comfortable without a hat on because of the hair situation and how bad I think it looks. It looks even worse completely shaved, so I need to decide whether to have a transplant or what. I know I need to start going places without a hat but I'm gonna have to work up to that slowly. I'm 5'6". Also unfortunate, but I'm not insecure about that because plenty of short guys are fine and most girls around me are shorter than me so that's no issue to me. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on what kind of sexual life to pursueYeah, thanks for the reminder to kind of stop comparing myself to others or sulking about feeling that I'm missing out. And yeah, I know so much of women's attraction is mental. Girls were into me before I even started lifting and looking better, really. Then I went through some low times, personality kind of suffered, etc. Trying to build it back up and make it better than ever but will have to take on a new life adventure/environment to meet people. And yes I guess girls do want to join our fu… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Need advice on what kind of sexual life to pursueThat's what prevents me from having tried it yet: the risk of sexual side effects. Still, they seem rare, and millions of men take it. I also took Accutane when they told me it could give me IBS or make me suicidal, and I had none of those scary side effects ever. So it's a hard decision. I'd much rather not alter the amount of testosterone/DHT in my body, but my genes already suck to the point where I'm unhappy (balding, bad skin, out of control body hair) so idk. The head hair thing is the big… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Need advice on what kind of sexual life to pursueHahah; all the time now. Just started taking off this year, wild hairs everywhere. I'm thinking about taking finasteride/dutasteride to try to both recover some head hair and decrease body hair, but am undecided about that yet. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 10 | Red pillers who moved out of home in there late 20's how has this affected your sex life?We don't do this here. We help people continue on their red pill journey making improvements, no matter what the timeline. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 09:57 PM |
| 16 | Red pillers who moved out of home in there late 20's how has this affected your sex life?We don't do this here. We encourage people to keep going and making improvements on their red pill journey. Everyone's timeline is different and that's OK. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewI honestly read this as "revenge body" at first. And actually there's way more work i can do there so imma do that for sure. Thanks for the accidental reminder lol | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 12:17 AM |
| 3 | How do you introduce FWB to parents when you're living at homeI would just cringe at the idea that my mom is in the house probably thinking about and wondering what we're doing, especially with a boring parent and a quiet house. To each their own, but I don't think I'd be able to do that to my Mom lol | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewI have gotten through some of the sidebar but honestly it's just making me more and more angry and disappointed with life. Even books like 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson, which I read last year, while opening my eyes up and helping me fix some issues in my life, also just seemed to make me resentful and angry at life and other people for being so shitty. Ignorance is bliss i guess. Sometimes I wish I could just be stupid and ignorant of reality. The pain of being "awake" is often too much … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewNo, two coworkers who I'm close with and a separate friend who i used to be closer with but not anymore. As for her new guy, I've met him a few times. Don't know much about him, correct... just saying I feel bad for him because guaranteed he doesn't know what I know. And sure, I will forever be angry at her, because she demanded love and commitment and once i invested in that she pulled the rug out from under our shoes and wrecked a bunch of shit. I'm not one to just let shit be wrecked and say … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewBecause she did shitty stuff to people I care about. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:51 PM |
| -1 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewWhatever dude. It's not about who's mad and who can pretend they have the power. It's about right and wrong really. I'm not saying I'm planning anything, I just can't see how to move forward and act like all this stuff never happened. The only way to really do that is to have a lobotomy so... | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 11:50 PM |
| -1 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewLol don't be fucking ridiculous. No killing in the making here. I believe in at most equal revenge; someone does you or someone you care about wrong; you return the hurt in the most similar way possible. It's a little nuts how sometimes the consensus here is to always just ignore and forget like it doesn't matter. It does matter; things matter, and a person who can't say that is basically a nihilist. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating women for their nature?Perhaps. But I don't mean that casual sex itself is evil, more that it is a contributor to evil. Meaning over time and in increasing practice it does harm to good things we've built and ends up creating a new image that is evil. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Her new bf doesn't know the fucked up stuff she's done; I wish so badly he knewOf course I'm still hurt, not for myself personally but for the whole situation and others she hurt too. I happen to be somewhat close to the other girl whose relationship she wrecked. And it still comes up in conversation among friends/coworkers. And it matters. I truly don't believe in just ignoring when people screw you over or screw over people you care about. I believe in the best and most ultimate revenge, however I can find that. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?I sent you my instagram in message. Please check and offer brutal criticism when you have a minute. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating women for their nature?The good: family values, sexual sacredness and carefulness, gender roles, socioeconomic structure The evil we're creating: casual sex, birth control, unlimited abortion, rising % of children born out of wedlock, the destruction of the family, increasing wealth inequality, etc... | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating women for their nature?It's not about me or what I think. It's about what is tried, proven, and shown to work and be cause for good. Get into the biblical series by Jordan Peterson, even if you aren't religious (I'm certainly not). There are things that have shown to contribute to good and there are things that have shown to contribute to pain and destruction and evil. That's what I'm basing this perspective on, as any rational person should. Not just my own organic opinions. The fact that humanity destroys things tha… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop hating women for their nature?Nonsense here. Women do manipulate men, even if they don't realize that they do. Men might allow that to happen, but if is more often than not women doing the manipulating. Most men don't grow into adulthood embracing a natural red pill view of life. They find a girl, fall for her, truly actually love her, and it's the girl doing the manipulating and inflicting the pain in the end. My story and many others. I have never, ever wanted to manipulate women into fucking me. I fell into two LTRs that … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Political views... how to deal with backlash?I studied a lot of politics in my college education. I'm a very political person. It's part of my being. So unfortunately that can't go for me lol. Being a writer on political topics may be a future career for me. I've produced good work already and professors always told me I'd be great at it. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Who the hell are the guys who subscribe to OnlyFans?Disgusting guys who have totally given up hope to make something good of their lives. Overweight, depressed, no real jobs, no real purpose, can't get laid, no passion, no healthy hobbies, etc. Let's also question: Who are the girls who make OnlyFans content? Average to low-value girls low in intelligence (just enough to understand how to run an account) who have no real interests or passions in life and resort to sex work to feel appreciated and valued...and who are OK with loser incels and disg… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Political views... how to deal with backlash?Almost everything that isn't Leftist is now seen as "racist" or bigoted so it's very difficult to have any genuine conversation about anything anymore, unfortunately. You're right, can't do anything about people who are set on shutting you down and silencing you. Just keep going with your life. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Political views... how to deal with backlash?Good word of advice. Yeah, I'm always open to talking to anyone about anything and letting them speak about what they believe. I don't cut people out or unfriend them just because of an opinion they hold or express. But others are doing this to me. Will try not to get offended by it and simply stick to empirical data and facts and otherwise stay calm and low-key about it all. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Political views... how to deal with backlash?Yeah, I'll admit I'm very argumentative and set on proving why I think I'm right and others wrong. I'm quite disagreeable, which can be a good trait (higher pay, more respect in the long run) but can also mean I get into never ending conflict and argument with people, and end up just getting too heated and upset with others. Have to learn to just NGAF and not engage in argument more often I guess. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Yeah. I just love to win, love to be competitive about everything, and I'll admit I believe in "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth." If someone does you wrong I believe in doing them wrong in return before letting everything go. There's no such thing as natural karma. You've got to deliver proper justice because no one else will. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?I get all of what you said except she still talks to a fat depressed guy who I heard she tried to hook up with in the past but never got to. She still chats with him over me, a past depressed guy who has a jacked body and is higher value in almost every way. It's just dumb sometimes man. Fuck girls like this. Really just trash | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 11:54 PM |
| -1 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?True. I never lived the vibrant social life that natural alphas have. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Thanks for the great comment. Yeah, and I think there is simply some intellectual disconnect that can't be overcome sometimes too, at least for actual dating. I mean, I spend my time reading and doing things involving science, the latest news, technology, working out, thinking about complex concepts, etc. And this girl and others spend their time playing "pou" games on their phones and sharing astrology memes on facebook. There's just a massive disconnect in what our brains think about to the po… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 0 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?Alright yeah makes sense, thanks. I keep forgetting about all the shit tests. I do let people joke around about it with me already so I'm getting there slowly. Like, a female coworker was talking with me and our manager about how my snapchat gym pics are "getting around" and people are talking about them. I just made humor of the whole thing (it's a very unserious, fun job environment anyway so it works like that). Will just embrace it and keep working hard to increase my SMV. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 0 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?So so far though I haven't had success hooking up with girls because people have started to view me as a fuckboy who is a huge flirt (true, I am) and who likes to post gym pics on snapchat. So girls that I actually want to fuck do not give me any attention; they gravitate to more naturally attractive pretty boys and I don't have a nice face like that. And I don't mean girls who way hotter than me. I'm probably a 6-7 and there are 5-6s I'd like to fuck who don't even show any interest in me. I on… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:14 PM |
| -1 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?Trying to figure out how to live life properly and what I need to change or do differently to be like other guys who are more naturally successful with women. It appears the answer may to just act like a dumber man. Women like dumb guys a lot of times. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:10 PM |
| -1 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?So how can I look at more blue pilled guys who are in relationships seriously ever again? Now I just look at them and think "lol you don't understand what I know" and "your girl is in full control and the second you don't please her the right way anymore she's going to jump on another cock." I almost kind of feel bad for guys who apparently are oblivious to this. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Can you really see it in her face when a girl's been around a lot?What I just can't wrap my head around is how a girl can totally dump someone and not care about anything with them at all anymore, after we spent deep time and connection together, family, etc. Is it really as simple as females chase the best dick and if they decide they're tired of you, they don't even care about you as a person anymore? What happened to care in the world? Why is there so little care? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 05:57 PM |
| -2 | How to trust the alpha, plate game vs. pursuing a truly loyal person?Because the most successful guys with women aren't reading those books and spending ridiculous amounts of time thinking about all this. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?I can't help it, that's who I am and I'm also 4 years older. I am an extremely analytical person, which has served me well for work and interest purposes. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?But the whole teaching here is to increase your value usually, so that's what I'm saying. And I'm trying to figure out how to stop losing to other guys by not stooping down to their level. Aka change my personality but not the actual position I'm in. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?So girl in question may have fucked a handful of stoicistic rock solid alphas but is now in a 5 month relationship with a blue pill nice guy who is away at a different college and likes to post simp quotes with pictures of her on his insta. Are you telling me they are guaranteed to break up because she will not settle for a blue pilled nice guy? They're both 20. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Not worried about any LTR anymore. Now just trying to put my sex game to more use since I spent the past two years depressed with oneitis. So I'm not worried about getting dumped as I'm not gonna enter any committed relationship. But I assume the same holds true for hooking up... just be an asshole who doesn't care about anything. Yeah, sounds good for getting with certain girls but honestly that's not the character I'd want to have as a man so... | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 07:51 AM |
| 0 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?I'm only whining here. I don't whine in everyday life. This is one of the biggest problems I'm noticing. Sometimes you simply have to state facts: I am an intelligent, more intellectual type guy who also has decent looks and high in trait conscientiousness. Yet uneducated guys who don't ever hit the gym are winning over guys like me quite often. Again, I wouldn't trade me for a tall lanky guy with a high school diploma ever. If girls wanna get with those guys, fuck it, they're just not gonna be … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?I stand by exactly what I said and would be a fool not to. Think what you want but that's the truth and your doubts are wrong. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 07:09 AM |
| -1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?None of the other guys she hangs around have any mission or future. Half of them still live in their mom's basement and get fired from minimum wage jobs every other month. Having a mission and purpose doesn't always mean you're chosen over others by lower class girls. So there's way more to it. This girl used to chastise me for being too much of a dick. And the way to win more at red pill is to be even more of a dick (don't care at all, don't be a good guy, etc.)??? This is still one of the hard… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 07:07 AM |
| 0 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Yeah best comment so far. I see quite a bit of it too, especially with girls from working class/poorer socioeconomic backgrounds. And if she's into drinking and drugs and stuff like that then it's way easier for her to go with guys who also do that on the same level than a guy way above who has his life together responsibly. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:13 AM |
| 0 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Dumb comment dude. What's the definition of "better"? Better face? Better body? Better personality? Better lifestyle? You're not nearly specific enough. I wouldn't trade who I am for any of the other guys she's fucked. Why would I give up my higher status for lower socioeconomic potential just for one pussy? Ridiculous The girl in the op absolutely does find me attractive, and I'm way more attractive now overall than when we fooled around in the past. But now I have a dominant, loud personality … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:10 AM |
| -1 | Are some girls just too immature/unintelligent to select "up" the hierarchy correctly?Not true because all my life until recently I thought too LOW of myself. Always felt sorry for myself, always made excuses, always took blame for things I did nothing wrong on, etc. I've had my friends and my one ex literally tell me to stop being so hard on myself, forgive myself for any past errors, and start believing in myself, so that's exactly what I've done. The things I listed i don't go around bragging about. I never talk about that stuff. It's just facts. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Starting to stand up for myself to interesting resultsPeople hold resentment and jealousy towards those they feel intimated by or who are better than them. You are starting to be better than a lot of people. They're not going to like that. You are doing the right thing exactly. Be the best version of yourself you can be, and those who don't support and love that aren't your real friends. It can be more lonely as you rise up. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYes. So on the financial independence thing... unfortunately I did college wrong and went $100,000 into student debt total, combo of federal and private. I don't see how I can afford my own place now, so it looks like joining the military is my only rational option for being able to pay back that debt over the next 5-10 years. You're right that you think i still have a high school mentality but I attribute this to the fact that I never had social fun. I've never had a good social life, I never r… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tLol I'm just so depressed about my social life right now. I was an awkward loner in high school so never even talked to girls there, and I completely wasted my college years bc I never lived in the dorms and only ended up talking to a couple girls and a couple guys in all my classes. I have zero social life lol. It's a real shame because I'm very confident and cool and alpha now, but I have nowhere to put it to use. I so wish I could go back and do college over and live in the dorms. Next step..… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why aren't guys vetting the friends, family, and life of girls they start dating?Didn't discover her slutty friends until after we had already started fucking and fell for each other. I took her virginity. She was the quiet introvert of her small group of friends. I thought she would turn out to be different (better) than her slutty, snobby friends. I was wrong in the long term. She fully embraced who she is now. It just hurts to see that she's gotten with at least 10 other guys plus a new LTR now. Bc she's in full control, she's heartless, she doesn't deserve the validation… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't guys vetting the friends, family, and life of girls they start dating?Yeah I just can't believe so many guys are so trusting and committed to girls they just started dating without knowing their real lives. But, that was kind of me 3 years ago before I discovered the reality of all this, so I guess it makes sense to a degree. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tTrue, at the end of the day, at least I'm blessed. Just have to put it to more use. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tDude my ex will probably get pregnant before 25. She always bugged me about having kids when I was with her when she was 18. I forced her to agree with me that no, no kids until mid to late 20s after having an established adulthood. But she would still joke about getting pregnant now and laugh about it, basically bragging about being irresponsible. And she still jokes about it on tiktok, deeming herself "most likely to get pregnant before marriage." This kind of talk scared me. I really hope she… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tBut I still contest the notion of what an alpha is because some young girls are sleeping with loser alphas... who are literally toothpicks, aren't going to move out of their parents house for a long time, and so nothing of value besides drink and play video games. If some of those guys give an "alpha" guy, then I get it, but that can't last long at all. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tThanks for this. Gives me some confidence that I'm not just fucked up. I may still be beta inside because I'm still going through anger and jealousy, but I am strong and dominant and a leader around others. Sometimes maybe in the wrong way; sometimes I may seem arrogant or cocky. But I'm ok with that. I'd rather be that than be a mediocre nice guy with his head down afraid of any conflict and blindly trusting of others and girls especially. Ex is with a beta now def. He's more facially attractiv… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:53 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYup. I sadly spent 3 years of caring about this person, the last nearly two of which I have humiliated and hurt myself because I'm just a laughing stock to her since I simped so hard. I tried to save her but she chose a different life. Lol. I will block her on everything for now and then maybe undo it down the road when I'm feeling much better about my life so that maybe she'll be jealous and sad that she treated a hard working and successful guy like me so badly and threw me away. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:43 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tNah she fucked two guys who are brothers. And is still close friends with one of them, and works with the other. Shit is so awkward and weird af, at least to a more traditional perspective guy like me. I'm not still blue pill, I'm in the anger and disgusted phase of red pill. Because I also feel like I'm being seen as abusive and misogynist for slut shaming. Let's reserve blue pill for those who are truly still oblivious to the true nature of most females. Thanks for the advice though, you're ri… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tSome would argue that hoe behavior is biologically natural and that it was conservative, traditional society that kept women in check because it was the best outcome for children, families, and therefore society. And that now many of those traditional values are being dismantled which is allowing the true biological nature of women to come out. With the birth control pill and unlimited abortion, sex is not any real risk the way it used to be. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tI am trying but I moved back to my hometown to basically nothing. Could rail two fatties right now who are always hitting on me but don't think that would do anything for my self esteem if I could even get it up for em. I have no life here anymore. I unrealistically dreamed of being with my ex and going off somewhere else. Now I'm gonna have to do it alone. Probably joining the military next year. At the very least it will give me a busy and active life so anything like that is better than my li… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:59 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYes, this exactly. I graduated this year but for a few reasons had to move back home with my Mom during the pandemic. I don't have hardly any friends here from high school, and I'm not yet using my degree for anything. The few hobbies I have a have to do alone or not at all bc of the lack of social life. But the thing that's so hard to wrap my head around is how other people seem to be living it up while not doing those things. Philosophy book? Hah, this girl would never do that and part of the … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYep, so damn true in my experience as well. Either they're fat and get zero dick, or they're decent in attractivenes and hoe around. It's a damn shame but I guess it's not entirely their fault bc the parental upbringing plays a big role. I can't wait to be a father one day because I know I'm going to be strong and wise and fully embrace my purpose there. I just don't know anymore if I'll ever get that chance because high quality girls are so difficult to find now. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tHow about young girls who have Trump supporter parents but live very crappy, low income lives? Not actually having conservative values but more just being angry at things. That's basically what my ex is. Broken family too. I wanted to "rescue" her, like the movies. Sadly I found out she pretty much belongs in the streets. She's taking community college classes but never does any of her work seriously. She won't accomplish much on her own because she's too childish and reckless which is why she's… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYup I know you're right. She went from being a calm, kind, sweet, serious girl when she dated me to being an extremely bitchy, entitled, snobby, reckless girl who treats everything as a joke and nothing seriously. A switch flipped in the wrong direction there around the time she joined the military reserve and started hanging around a ton of guys. And it wasn't even like i failed physically! I've always been athletic and I'm lucky to have a big **** that she loved, sex was great. She just decide… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 3 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYeah but they may work out long term, she may conceive with him (she has always made fun of the fact that she wants to have kids before marriage, which scared me). Then what. They could end up really great and happy which would piss me off because that could've been me, or she could end up making a mess of her life with relationships which would also piss me off and hurt me because she'll always be someone I really did love. I know that the only way to get myself straight is to kill her from my … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 11:48 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tWhen we were having heightened conflict in the relationship partly due to me hiding some depression but also due to some stupid things on her part, she chastised me for "not opening up" enough. She demanded I be more open and honest about everything. Then when I was, she ended up dumping me and fucking several other guys and not working through the tough with me. It's been humiliating. There are some women who seem to be doing a good job encouraging men to be more open about difficulties and see… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tI sure do. But still butthurt at the new guy which is actually her second somewhat ltr. Butthurt that they seem happy bc that was supposed to be me. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 10:55 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tIt's just very difficult to regain confidence when a girl makes you feel like everything was your fault, called you abusive when you never were, asked for more commitment and then dumped and ghosted you when you actually became stronger. She fucked up my mind so much, and thinks she's hot shit. And she was in my mind, but I got played in the end apparently. And I feel like if I talk like this it just makes me look butthurt. I feel I need someone to literally drag me somewhere new and start a new… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tIt's a cancer. It's disgusting. I truly feel that way after experiencing it firsthand. But what I'm struggling so much with now is what kind of guy to become and how to feel happy. Can I talk about it honestly and still have girls into me? Doesn't seem so. Makes me look butthurt even though it's all true. There are different types of guys at the end of the day in my observation: red pill alphas who succeed sexually without committing, blue pillers who may get into relationships without really un… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 0 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYes I know how she is because I know her probably better than almost anyone even though we can't talk anymore. We spent so many times together including tons of sex. I don't think other "nice guys" have as much sex as we did together. This newest guy gives off total bluepill vibes so she's most likely just using him for attention like she basically used me in the end. And correct, I don't currently have other options. I invested so much effort and thought into her, and returned home after gradua… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYeah I'd bet a lot he's blue pill for sure. He's very nice and non-dangerous just as I was years ago. And this girl is probably loving the attention she's getting knowing that she's been around and is in full control of the situation. She loves that she broke me mentally. She had no care in the world for my actual life. It just angers me that her new relationship may work out, because she doesn't deserve it in my mind after much of her reckless and hurtful behavior. And the poor guy... doesn't k… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tYeah and I know it's bad but I can't help be angry and jealous that she's in a new somewhat serious relationship and bragging about it to people. I really would like to understand if the guy (who is away at college) knows red pill and knows how she is and just doesn't care, or whether he is basically me 2 years ago when I was blue pill and oblivious. Basically I'm trying to figure out whether at age 24 I am more mature than them (they are 20) or whether they're the immature and oblivious ones wh… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how girls can be like this and some guys not know/care. I really don'tI already simped so hard for her for a year after we broke up (she at one point wanted to get back together but when I wanted to talk about past things and what she'd been up to she got mad), so because I simped so hard and literally poured my heart out for her because I dreamed of spending my life with her, there's no way she'll ever speak to me again about a "relationship" or smoothing over our nasty breakup. I would like to believe that one day maybe she'd fuck me again, because I know how sh… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 08:08 PM |
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