scarlet_feather Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Personal handshake tip when meeting a lady for 1st time. Female here. I agree with baianobranco. It's not something to get offended about really, especially when you've just met. But it could come off wrong to say, a businesswoman or something. It would depend on context and delivery.	/r/seduction	18/06/12 08:02 PM
2	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... I know this. I defend this place from other redditors all the time. It's just kind of disheartening to realize that all the feel-good confidence boosting stuff on here can be considered less helpful than a worldview that girls need to be validated all the time and it can be extorted to get sex.	/r/seduction	16/04/12 05:07 PM
3	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... It's not that i don't understand. It's just I think that's kind of an unpleasant way of looking at it, even if it is true.	/r/seduction	16/04/12 02:14 PM
1	Women Have Changed Considerably in the last 10-20 years. An Older Player's Perspective... They didn't get validated by useless chodes daily on FB or POF/OKC. They got validated by getting fucked well by me. This is where seddit loses me sometimes.	/r/seduction	16/04/12 05:26 AM
2	Sorry guys, I'm stepping down as mod. Reddit is being held hostage by virtual thugs What do you think of the phrase a humanist first and a feminist second?	/r/MensRights	10/03/12 07:09 PM
3	Sorry guys, I'm stepping down as mod. Reddit is being held hostage by virtual thugs I'm a girl and feminist and can confirm this. Feminism shouldn't be seen as elevating women above men, and yet so much of it is seen that way thanks to crazies who think one group has to rule another.	/r/MensRights	10/03/12 05:32 AM
4	To the women who lurk here and want to be approached I'm a girl who is the opposite of Public Stranger. I come on pretty strong, so I like guys who approach me to come on strong too. I almost kind of want it to be a power struggle? But not in a bad way, more like a challenge/joking sort of way. I tend to give people a lot of shit and I need someone to give it back to me, while not taking it too seriously. I'd like to add this is not due to insecurity like OP's story implied, but is just my personality.	/r/seduction	07/03/12 07:37 PM
1	Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females? I don't really worry about my imaginary internet points so much. I do wish they'd leave a response though. Exchange of ideas, reddiquette, and all that. But thanks :)	/r/seduction	07/03/12 04:29 AM
7	Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females? I'm a tall girl. Not massively tall but a little taller than most men I know by an inch or two and definitely taller than my lady friends. I get hit on just as much, if not more than my shorter, equally attractive friends. Therefore, I'm not "desperate" or of "lesser value." Those on the thread claiming it makes us(me) pickier are right. Although I tend to make choices based more on chemistry and how intellectually interesting I find an individual, I undeniably reject men below a certain height …	/r/seduction	07/03/12 01:53 AM
11	Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females? "Tall girls are desperate" Uh. No. Guys shorter than me hit on me all the time. I pretty much have my pick of men and my height doesn't seem to play into it at all for them. I am more likely to choose a taller man though, because it fits better with my ideal man.	/r/seduction	07/03/12 01:45 AM
0	So I just got banned from r/ShitRedditSays for having the nerve to say we shouldn't generalize all of r/seduction has emotional insecure men who have rapey tendencies I was going with overreactive, or dramatic, but without seeing an actual example, I can't tell you what side I'm on.	/r/seduction	10/01/12 04:17 AM
2	So I just got banned from r/ShitRedditSays for having the nerve to say we shouldn't generalize all of r/seduction has emotional insecure men who have rapey tendencies Woman here. It's not being a woman that makes them like that.	/r/seduction	09/01/12 10:46 PM
0	Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days? Then don't bother?It's not my problem. I was merely suggesting that OP and others wishing to approach girls wearing headphones may be pleasantly received.	/r/seduction	11/11/11 02:08 AM
0	Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days? I wouldn't mind talking to people, and I would be flattered if someone wanted to talk to me, but I'm not going to go out of my way to talk with others in my daily life and therefore I amuse myself with music during mundane tasks.	/r/seduction	11/11/11 01:45 AM
4	Anyone Else Notice this about Girls in Public these Days? Girl here. When I wear headphones across campus, it's because I'm shy and it gives me something to do with my hands. I would take them out if someone talked with me. Just talk to us!	/r/seduction	01/11/11 07:19 PM
2	I'm starting to get the problem where girls want to fuck me but they don't want to date me. Am I doing something wrong? If you want to make yourself more dateable, I think you have to be willing to possibly take a little bit of a fall. If you are doing a lot of work in making girls attracted to you, then you be alienating them just a bit, like, putting them in "game mode" or letting them regress to a typical flirting response. But personally, I think to make a girl more interested in dating you, you have to back down a bit. Either you are not being light-hearted fun enough, or you aren't being romantic enough.	/r/seduction	19/09/11 06:25 PM
1	[FR] Fake dancing will get you far I am super self conscious about my dancing, so any guy who does anything but ask me to dance will be shot down.	/r/seduction	09/05/11 05:22 AM
2	The Date [Follow up from 'The Pool Party' - 15 minute #close] I'm always curious when I read these and people say things like, My kind of spot. I didn't care if it was something she'd like, to be honest. Out of curiosity, what if you get there and she's uncomfortable, out of her element, not her scene, etc.? Do you leave? Or does it just enhance your superiority/confidence/value?	/r/seduction	23/04/11 10:53 PM
4	What to do in the seconds after you're denied a kiss? PLEASE do this!	/r/seduction	14/04/11 07:27 PM
1	It's your attitude that matters. I hope sober you still understands this in the morning.	/r/seduction	05/04/11 04:15 AM
0	Asking, and Why It's Ignorant Yup. Personal favorite is to get closer and closeras I'm talking, until our lips are almost brushing, then say something quiet and super flirtatious, so our lips brush "unexpectedly."	/r/seduction	04/04/11 09:11 PM
8	Asking, and Why It's Ignorant You come in really close for the kiss, and hold, inches away, waiting for her to close the distance and kiss you. Really, I think it's instinctual to want to kiss someone when their face is close to yours.	/r/seduction	04/04/11 06:42 PM
24	Asking, and Why It's Ignorant Girl here. (Am I allowed here?) That whole Hitch 90/10 thing totally works. Flirtatious, and you're still in control. Bonus points if you pull back multiple times just as I lean in. Then I will jump you.	/r/seduction	04/04/11 06:24 PM
2	Spot the Fake Smile. Test how good at reading body language. T-shirts?	/r/seduction	26/03/11 06:47 PM
2	When technology eventually allows for it, should a man get the right to choose? 100% for this.	/r/MensRights	09/02/11 08:07 PM
2	Did the "I stopped taking birth control and woops I'm preggers" thread scare you? Here's how my bf knows for certain that I'm on birth control. It depends on what birth control you're taking, whether you take two if you miss or not.	/r/MensRights	08/02/11 07:09 PM
-2	Ontario has a website called "Good Parents Pay", as a way to out "deadbeat dads" who are late on child support. Pretty sure if the guy wasn't making enough money to support himself, they wouldn't be chasing him for child support. Also. If they knew where these guys were, they wouldn't have to look for them- meaning these dads are also not visiting their kids. Good parents give a fuck about their kids. That means putting their children's needs before your own. That means paying your child support.	/r/MensRights	04/02/11 05:15 PM