scarletsprightly Archive

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1	Where have all the good men gone? Men also generally can’t provide what they did in the past. You can’t run a household with the same standard of living on one income. Household and child related duties still have to happen. Women are “bossing” out of necessity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 04:14 AM
2	Where have all the good men gone? So are everyone’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 04:13 AM
7	Where have all the good men gone? Hell.. what’s happening in the US via repeal of Roe V Wade	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 04:12 AM
11	Where have all the good men gone? We did as children. I saw my mom as a stay at home mom. She worked her ass off. She didn’t have any decision making power. When she wanted something and my dad didn’t agree, she was veto’d and told she didn’t earn the money, she doesn’t get a say. She never had time off. Never had help. Her job was 24/7 365. If anything was needed related to the home, it was understood we go to her and not my dad. In high school when my dad didn’t find her attractive anymore. He kicked her out of the house. Luck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 04:11 AM
1	CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider. One of us 👏🏻🎊	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 09:07 AM
1	CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider. To be fair….. being pretty is very expensive. Nails are expensive. Outfits are expensive. Hair is expensive. Being fit is time consuming and potentially expensive. Even if all a guy wants is pretty, a woman has to figure out how to finance that before she can find and attract a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 08:54 AM
21	CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider. And in todays world they usually need a job of their own. Most jobs don’t pay enough to have a reasonable lifestyle on one persons income. Being pretty is very expensive. Children can also be very expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 08:50 AM
2	Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage? Poor women were always working in some Capacity. Middle class and wealthier Women started working because companies weren’t paying men enough to provide an adequate lifestyle for families so they wanted to have extra spending money to make life more comfortable. Companies got wise and cut pay across the board. Now families need 2 incomes to make ends meet. Not every woman just woke up and wanted to go to a job. We all still have the home work and child care at home. We’re tired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/23 09:25 AM
3	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY Some of my best friends are electrical engineers, data scientists, construction managers, and software engineers. I’m a banker (not at a branch). If you don’t know any women doing technical things (finance, tech, construction, engineering, agriculture/ food science, medical (not just nursing)) you either live under a rock, or need to level up the women in your life. Your statement might have been more accurate in 1960.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 04:34 PM
1	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? Nope!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 06:37 AM
1	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? That seems irrelevant but the US. Where are you going with this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:59 AM
3	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? Lol your circle of straight women must be vastly different than mine. Anecdotal evidence from a small sample size is a pretty weak basis. You can’t just generalize all straight women and assume they all feel the same way just for an inequivalent analogy’s sake…. I mean I guess you’re trying to. It just doesn’t hold well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:54 AM
2	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? Lol how would you know how women feel about that? You’re not a straight woman. If you aren’t comparing apples to apples, how do you know your comparison has any merit or value at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:47 AM
6	There is a strong expectation of equality bias in this sub I agree with you that men and women are not equal blank slates. Men and women are different. However, I would point out that the differences are “on average” there are still some boys who innately like dolls (think rescue hero, power ranger, etc) and there are some girls who like wheeled toys and building blocks (I know I did.) There are absolutely differences on average, but there’s still quite a bit of overlap. There are a good number of people who don’t fit the “on average” most of the time f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/22 04:03 PM
2	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? I assume you mean circumcision?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:11 PM
2	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Most American women also do worse to their cervix via IUD (plus they deal with brain chemistry imbalances, it’s not 100% effective, it contributes to cancer, and you have to get it redone every so often)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:48 PM
5	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? There is a difference between getting pregnant, and carrying the pregnancy to term. Men have everything to do with getting pregnant and should be responsible for that. Men have nothing to do with carrying a pregnancy to term, so they should have no say in abortion or if that pregnancy gets carried to term and a human is created.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:45 PM
6	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Expand on your point about litigation. Not sure I’m following. I don’t want to say a vasectomy is a total afterthought… obviously I wouldn’t force it on anyone. I do think terms of risk vs reward it’s a pretty efficient option if a couple is sure they don’t want kids. Even if there was a guy out there that was 100% positive he didn’t want kids but wanted to sleep around I think it’s a great option. He wouldn’t deal with a woman trying to lock him down with a pregnancy scare and it’s a 1x and don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 07:02 PM
7	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? It’s still a shared responsibility. A woman couldn’t get pregnant without the man. She wouldn’t be faced with the choice to be pregnant or not if not for that man. However….. Just because a woman gets pregnant, doesn’t mean she’s obligated stay pregnant. Unlike many pro-choice people, I believe life begins at conception. A woman isn’t legally required to allow the child to use her body without her consent. If someone needed a kidney or was going to die, do you HAVE to give them your kidney, no. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:53 PM
9	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? I think if the man wants sex, he should be aware of the health consequences of birth control for the woman he’s having sex with. It seems unethical to reap the benefits of sex and not be a responsible party when it comes to the risk (in terms of each partners health, and the consequential baby if it happens.) Given there are several birth control options for both men and women I think the couple should try to minimize health consequences for both people as much as possible in accordance with the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:41 PM
2	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? This 🙌🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:27 PM
7	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Idk… we convinced women en masse it was necessary to have a painful, invasive procedure in the name of not having kids. It’s called getting an IUD. They’re invasive (literally go into your cervix). Worst pain I’ve had in my life. Most doctors don’t offer pain killers. they’re still not 100% effective. They still fuck with your hormones a bit too on the day to day. At least with a vasectomy it’s 1 and done and doesn’t mess with your brain chemistry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:25 PM
0	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Or not having sex, but yeah haha 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:19 PM
7	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Most female birth control really messes with brain chemistry and several forms are known to cause cancer. Birth control is not equivalent to taking a Tylenol and it’s not 100% effective. Birth control can also be expensive (unless you go to planned parenthood or have great insurance) Kids or lack thereof….. are a shared choice and shared responsibility between a man and a woman. It’s not like only a woman has a kid. The sperm has to come from somewhere. The woman’s body just is the incubator. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:16 PM
6	What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy? Takes two to tango. It’s a shared responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 06:06 PM
1	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux It was a joke lol. I’m a banker and I use that phrase all the time in a corporate setting. Some of my closest friends are consultants. We joke about the cringe work phrases we use all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:30 PM
2	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux “Postmortum discussion”…. Are you a consultant or a banker lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 01:04 AM
3	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. takes out a personal loan, gets plastic surgery buys a wardrobe pulls a full “pretty woman” transformation catches man pays off personal loan	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 08:36 PM
1	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. It’s an “investment” ya gotta look the part to play it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 08:35 PM
3	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. Me neither. Just something worth pointing out 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 08:03 PM
5	since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex. Idk, you can buy a nose job/ other things to have a pretty face. Like anything else, money helps. Most people aren’t ugly, they’re just poor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 06:24 PM
1	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin It only is a negative experience if she’s looking for something more than just sex.. which she usually is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:07 PM
2	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin Lol who hurt you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:06 PM
4	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin Because men lie… they purposefully pretend to care about you to get laid. They know that in order to get laid, they usually have to convince the woman she has a chance at something. They do what they need to do to get what we want. When everyone pretends to like you as a person, sometimes it’s tough to discern the bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:05 PM
1	Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male? Completely fair! As a “believer”, I mostly rely on the gospels and take almost everything else with a grain of salt. Agreed. Jesus never said anything about women. His actions showed he had friends who were women and he stood up for women in need. He also didn’t seem to get along with religious people. Ironic. I’ve always been really skeptical of Paul’s epistles. They really don’t line up with Jesus’s teachings and actions, or those of the rest of the early church (and yet they’re most of the Ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 04:38 PM
2	Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male? The New Testament def does… 1st Timothy has a LOT to say. But if you accept the Bible is a collection of letters from the early church, and not the actual words of God… and if you just look at Jesus’s actions on earth and treatment of women, you get a TOTALLY different understanding of the role of woman than what traditional Christianity presents. I’m a follower of the teachings of Jesus Christ, but don’t identify with a lot of the modern church.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 10:02 PM
1	Generational differences in hotness standards Hinge is a godsend. Dating sucks, but def had the best experience with hinge (comparing to bumble, league, coffee meets bagel, etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 04:01 AM
2	Generational differences in hotness standards Haha I moved to Seattle proper in Jan of 2019 and knew no one. It was a mess trying to find friends, but was able to break in by EOY. (And then Covid happened lol) My fiancé is from greater Seattle (east side) and went to UW. He knows EVERYONE it’s insane. I swear seattle proper is like a giant small town with some transplants mixed in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 12:41 AM
3	Generational differences in hotness standards Yeah but once you find your friends/ group, seattle is amazing! In Florida everyone is “friendly”. In LA people are generally “friendly” but it’s more surface level / harder to make deeper level connections with substance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 07:12 PM
1	Generational differences in hotness standards It’s also SO spread out. There aren’t a ton of jobs, it’s largely a retirement and vacation area. There isn’t much of a life night/ bar scene outside of the FGCU college bars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 07:09 PM
2	Generational differences in hotness standards Lol no, there are tons of Suburbs that are hours from the closest city. Example being Fort Myers, Fl. 3.5 hours one way to Miami. 3 hours one way to Tampa. Kinda a dead zone. It’s not exactly day trip material to go on a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 06:17 PM
5	Generational differences in hotness standards Seattle is super closed off and people don’t mingle for the most part. It’s cultural. When I lived in FL and in Los Angeles, there was more interaction/ mingling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 06:13 PM
1	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Men are no longer 100% responsible to financially provide. The family doesn’t starve if the male fails. Previous generations of men put in tons of effort, just different effort. They dressed better, worked longer harder hours, worked out more physically. Sure they had dinner made for them when they got home… sure they didn’t have housework. They had more work at their jobs. They had wives who constantly nagged because those wives didn’t have agency or power of their own to do anything. They had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 09:43 PM
2	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? Yeah bud… 1.) sweeping generalization that isn’t backed up 2.) no. More of this country lives in population centers (cities, which are generally more liberal) so more families there, even if they are potentially smaller as you assert. 3.) if the kids reject their families values, they aren’t still conservative. Having conservative parents doesn’t make you a default conservative I like your confidence and optimism tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:52 PM
1	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? No, just a more flexible workplace for both men and women that allows both parents to take the time they need to adequately care for children without risking getting fired. Kids vs working shouldn’t be a dichotomy and doesn’t have to be. You don’t need UBI if we can change the culture of work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:48 PM
1	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? Heart disease and Cirrhosis are big issues. Just because there are other issues, doesn’t mean maternal healthcare is not an issue. It’s still very relevant and problematic. The risk of dying is still something that causes women to decide to not have additional children. All of these healthcare issues in a developed country are disgraceful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:45 PM
4	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? I am a conservative person that does not like Donald Trump. He makes a mockery of family. He makes a mockery of Christianity and treats it like a photo opp tool. He doesn’t respect due process. He separated families at the border and created a humanitarian crisis through mismanagement that we’ll have to go for. He short term decreased taxes for families, but those decreases wear off in 3 years and long term taxes (5 year and beyond) on the middle class and the self employed are higher. He increa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:40 PM
3	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? It would also be ok if both parents jobs were flexible or what we currently consider part time. Having two working adults helps lessen the impact if one looses their job. It diversifies the skills and perspectives the children see. It balances power within the relationship. There are a lot of benefits of having two working adults within a household, as long as the jobs are flexible and leave time for family and parenting. When parents have vastly different roles, both tend to suffer from “grass …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 05:29 PM
14	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? The maternal death rate is high in the US, esp compared to other “developed nations.” It’s even higher with women of color, the uninsured, etc. on a relative basis it’s disgraceful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:18 AM
22	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? They mean White people lol 😂. Buying into the Elon Musk narrative	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:16 AM
5	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? A WONDERFUL reference thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:16 AM
10	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? This is anecdotal. There is a general housing shortage as well. Housing starts from 2009 to 2019 we’re well below 2002 levels (which looks about average between 1980 and 2022) Developers have drastically underproduced to drive up prices and margins. Call it the Nintendo strategy. But yes developers typically build more unaffordable units and there is a severe shortage of housing affordable to the average American relative to average household income. Housing Data Published by the Federal Reserve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:13 AM
13	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? Many men ask their spouse not to have kids and encourage them to stay on birth control. Family planning is a family decision. Both partners need to be on board.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:06 AM
17	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? The last Conservative party (Trump Conservatism) is a populist, not a traditional conservative. He’s not evangelical. He’s not biblical. He’s not pro family or anti divorce. There’s a reason he clashed with McCain, the Bush Family, and Mitt Romney. Totally different platform and beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:04 AM
7	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? What about the liberal parents? Most people living in major cities and metro areas, even as parents tend to be blue. Suburban and rural folks tend to lean more conservative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:02 AM
20	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? The workplace itself isn’t a problem. When women have income, they have choices. They can leave dangerous situations and create better lives and outcomes for themselves and their children (and have more children…) Both men and women need jobs that are flexible enough to accommodate taking care for a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 03:58 AM
–	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? In the past, women made significantly less and weren’t able to take care of themselves. Women traded good looks and the ability to have kids and take care of them, for a man whose job it is to protect them physically and provide for them financially. Men today provide less financially on a relative basis, and are less physical so they don’t offer the protection women look for. Therefore, women have less need for a man today than they used to. Todays men aren’t adding anything the things women ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 07:48 PM
4	If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action? Or become Mormon… 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 06:51 PM