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Thank god they don’t make a fraction of what I do now. Nor am I as interested in that line of work as I am with what I do right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:21 PM
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I don’t know her but if I was a model recruiter I wouldn’t hire her just on looks alone. If I had my own clothing line and wanted people to model my clothes I also wouldn’t hire her as she is not objectively pretty enough for that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:06 PM
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For who? Weird bodies? The metal gymnastics is soo funny sometimes. I guess by definition she is as she could’ve taken pictures modelling something so she’s technically a model. It’s like a guy making 40k calling himself wealthy because he compares himself to people in the country side in 3rd world countries with no running water and electricity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:00 PM
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Her looks don’t match the demands she’s making. It’s as if a very average or even below average guy (in all facets) who’s socially awkward is saying that he wants a model who’s a virgin but is great as sex who’s happy to be his polygamous with him. She honestly looks like she’s believing what people on the internet are saying (sprinkle sprinkle) whilst choosing to ignore what she sees in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:56 PM
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Interesting, from what I understand going 50/50 is only a dealbreaker if the woman isn’t feeling the guy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:18 PM
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Would you fuck a guy after splitting the bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:38 AM
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Your out here but not easy to find depending on OPs location. Living in a super expensive city whilst the country is going through a living crisis made finding child free dink women allot easier to find. The trick is finding someone your attracted to and get along with who wants what you want. You managed to do it though so evidently it’s not impossible lol but nonetheless close to impossible sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:18 AM
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I don’t mind not being a single moms priority but why do these single moms think they should be a childless guys priority. Being monogamous to a woman who has other priorities then you is essentially settling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:31 PM
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Even financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:58 AM
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Idk 🤷🏽‍♂️you are what you allow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:33 PM
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Hence why he’s happy. Whilst at best OPs mom would be content.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:07 PM
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Better yourself as much as you can like you’ve described in your post and try to be social (join mixed activities) and befriend as many women as you can platonically and make sure your instagram is on point. Instagram is lowkey the biggest dating app of all of them. Having a woman co-sign on your character is the biggest green flag. Also be very selective in giving your commitment. Almost like they have to earn it. Just because she showed interest in you and you might have slept with her a coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:30 PM
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A starving man would be happy with burned toast. Don’t mean it’s better then a prime stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:03 PM
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I feel that’s what the older generation of stepdads didn’t understand, or pretend to not understand to cope, in admitting that they are the beta bux by being that stepdad. Especially if they don’t get their own child out of raising a next man’s linage. The Steve Harvey’s of the world saying dumb shit like I’m the dad that stepped up, but millennial and younger hear I’m that guy that payed more (marriage and commitment then they guys that got her when she was childless) to get less then what thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:43 PM
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They wanna rebrand themselves so that they can leverage 🐱for more then what they used to do. They wanna justify charging the next man more then the last 30 guys before him. It’s a cope, only idiots entertain born again virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:59 AM
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Nah she’s pretty average but with hookup culture and dating apps, average men are no longer good enough for average women until they get about 35+ and then it slowly balances out again. This offcourse is my personal observation of what I’ve seen happening around me. Successful 35+ year old women who kept in shape and take professional care of themselves tend to go for slightly younger guys maybe late 20s or early 30s guys. Successful 35+ year old guys who kept in shape pretty much become pseudo …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:35 PM
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What’s the level of attractiveness and success of those guys and are they offering commitment. Most adult entertainers marry guys who work in that industry and it’s not the male actors they marry it’s the fat camera guy with neckbeard, heavy breath and fat ankles or that creepy 50 year old director. I’m not shocked men want to fuck them since they made a career of sexual using themselves but are they offering to claim those women publicly infront of friend and family. And if they are what type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:27 PM
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Yea I believe you. If your life is in order and you don’t need anyone, your less lily to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:24 PM
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Chances are they don’t want to come across as needy and therefore get cut off or they know there is no future so they just enjoy the ride. Don’t be surprised if you yourself are on rotation for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:43 PM
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That depends though on the level of baggage. If she got kids the level of men that offer commitment is decrease somewhat. Or if she’s a retired adult entertainer, the level of guys who offer commitment will decrease as well. What women ask for from men is different then what men usually ask from women. One wants sex the other wants commitment. There are plenty of beautiful single moms out here who struggle to lock down the type of guy they are most attracted to physically so they will lower thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:24 PM
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I think one of my female friends said it best, most women want a retired fuckboy with minimal baggage. The more she’s into him the more she’ll tolerate some of that baggage (ie maybe some kids from previous relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:51 PM
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Pretty much. The only losers in polyamory are the husbands. The side guy pretty much got a fuck buddy with some emotional responsibility here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:55 PM
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Only if we don’t end up living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:28 PM
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Long term commitment (marriage) is a fools errand. Most married women settle and manny married women I know still go outside after marriage. This is because of no fault divorce and the west shaming women shaming itself. Therefore if there is no legal or social repercussion, it makes marriage less of a commitment and more of a entrapment. Given how women only give commitment free sex to guys who are the upper percentile, average guys and below average guys will have to commit ( marriage/ stepdad)…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:07 AM
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When I was 19-25 years old. Most of my hookups and casual sex was with women over 30. Women over 30 can always get dick from younger guys. Some even prefer younger guys. Imo it only looks weird when a 33F tries to have a relationship with a 23M.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:02 PM
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Don’t feel too bad. I’ve given up on love and happy family and the Disney dream a long time ago. Now I play the game to win. No commitment and only invest time and money into things that benefit me. When I was younger I thought being selfish makes women like you more was bullshit but after living like that for a few years I’ve had way more women interested in me until they accept that relationships/labels are out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:22 PM
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Don’t have kids and dont plan to commit to those who do anyway but everything else you’ve said has not been my experience as a 28M in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:28 PM
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How many women want 50/50 though? In my experience they want a man to pay all the bills or the bulk of the bills and share house duties 50/50. If you ask for 50/50 on bills you get shamed and have your masculinity questioned. You also don’t get to have boundaries as a guy since she’s paying as well. I personally don’t care about a woman’s income as I don’t see it ever benefit me. Im expected to have enough for me and if I want to pursue a relationship I am expected to provide the lifestyle she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:49 AM
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Because it doesn’t benefit them. The minute she out earns him or thinks she can do better he will be served divorce papers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:02 AM
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You posted it 38 days ago. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:01 PM
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Check OPs profile. It’s every stereotype of nurses out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:51 AM
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Bruh 🤦🏽‍♂️you cheated on your boyfriend with no intention or respect to even tell him and try to manipulate him into being a cuck. Why not just be single and outside, why use your boyfriend if you got no respect for his boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:10 AM
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😂😂😂 what in the lesser of 2 evils is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:54 AM
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Cause you had the luxury until it lost its sparkle or became regular and then back to orgasms because that’s where happiness ultimately is, plus if your boyfriend wasn’t at least ambitious and on his way to his own success he wouldn’t be more then a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:08 PM
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Ngl I have similar views and I’m nearly 28 myself. Perfect scenario would be DINk lifestyle and freezings sperm and egg for when you’d want kids and then surrogacy. Never understood people wanting kids early especially with todays medical advances and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:02 AM
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Those guys are usually old rich losers who never had any on the come up and now tryna get the 20something girls 15 years or so later. No guy that I know respects sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:46 PM
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That don’t matter initially. They don’t get to show their junk without a woman being interested in seeing it. To get her to want to see it she would have to want to hookup or be attracted. 5’6 guy would struggle getting their foot in the door while 6’5 guy would be spoiled for choice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:43 AM
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It’s all fun and games until you like someone who will not be able to satisfy you regardless of communication. Like for example, you need 8 inches to orgasm from pov and they are only packing 5. Wouldn’t you rather find out you aren’t sexually compatible before you start caring about their lives, hobbies, dreams etc so that you can move on quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:37 PM
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If you live in the west, personally I don’t think your culture matters that much since ethnic/cultural mixing happens quite allot. Even by preering your account, me and you share similar culture and opinions about said culture/religion but if you’ve grown up in the west like I have, you’d know that how you live at home with family and how you move outside in society are different things. As for having bad experiences from casual sex, it’s unfortunate but I don’t think people are owed understandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:34 PM
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But that’s justified though. Because that does happen allot of times as well. I think context matters in general. If she’s pushing for commitment (engagement) within 2 years that would be a red flag for me personally. But for guys who never had the intentions of commitment, they will find any excuse not to commit anyway regardless of how patients the woman is. Guys who had their fun and had their experiences don’t mind commitment as they know what type of relationship they want to commit to. Guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:23 PM
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I don’t know about that I think it’s circumstantial. As a 27m who was at university in London during the infancy of the sexual revolution, it had opened my eyes to how active women are. Not just textbook h*es, even everyday woman who have the give off the girl next door vibe we’re very much active. Guys in general take longer to become attractive to women then vice versa. That’s why when women are ready to settle down and have outgrown their hookup phase they find many guys in their age group ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:19 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend staying with someone over 3 years with no commitment (engagement) after the age of 25. That’s what I tell every woman in my life both family and friends. Men who wait until their 40s to settle down, usually end up having to settle and be step daddies or risk settling down with someone significantly younger then them and risk them feeling fomo or outgrowing them within 5 to 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:59 PM
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Then I’d understand your pov even if it’s a tad narrow minded but I can’t really blame you given what I read on this sub from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:56 PM
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But aren’t you worried about connecting with someone deeply etc and then finally make that step and the sex doesn’t live up to expectation. Wouldn’t the fallout from that hurt more then testing out a potential before feelings are involved. Offcourse there has to be some level of familiarity there but wouldn’t it be better to know before getting yourself too invested emotionally and then it not work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:53 PM
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Most guys if attracted to you will assume you’ve had casual sex before. So you can tell a guys I don’t have hookups with anyone and he will see it as “I don’t have hookups with anyone ANYMORE” as in you’ve had your fun and now looking for that beta. Also personally the only way a woman is in the casual sex box for me is if her reputation in my circle or my life in general isn’t one I’d attach my self to. Meaning that if people in my life view her as a slut then it would be very hard for me perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:46 PM
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That’s because there isn’t a shortage of shortsighted knobheads who can’t say no to lowhanging fruit. It’s literally their loss at the end of the day. You can tell allot of a man by the woman he curves (for causal sex) And there isn’t a shortage of mid woman who think they’re the shit and try to bag out of their league. Sex isn’t a great measure for women to gage a man’s love or investment as many men will sleep below their league every now and again just to buss a quick nut. So some woman will …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:41 PM
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Have you ever had casual sex if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:37 PM
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I can’t speak for all men obviously but personally my longest and most significant LTR started as fwb and developed into more. Now if I’m seeing someone who’s insisting on waiting. I’d give it a go for good faith but I will also see other people because I’m not depriving my self and neglect my needs because someone “fount their value” or whatever. It’s ok to wait but you might miss out the if he does end up feeling a connection with someone else whilst getting to know you simultaneously. Also I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:36 PM
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Are you attracted to most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:29 PM
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If he feels your not worth loosing for them ho*s out here then he will settle. It’s just that we live in a time where many women feel like 10s and the whole table etc and underestimate how replaceable they are. If you really want him to commit. Become someone worth committing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:29 PM
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Your projecting whether he will commit or not. Also would you want to commit to someone who cares about your bodycount? Also you unless you’ve agreed to exclusivity, always assume they are Ewing other people. It saves you from getting overly attached and eventually heartbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:26 PM
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*insecure men don’t like body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:18 PM
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Allot of guys yearn for the whole best friend soul mate type of relationship despite what you read on this sub lol. Making a man settle down wouldn’t be with sex. It would be with everything outside of sex. If you add enough value to his life outside of sex, casual sex with others wouldn’t be worth loosing you. But since everyone is replaceable nowadays and no one (from both sides) is willing to invest both emotionally and/or financially. You see allot of situationships and fwb happening. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:18 PM
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It sounds like you both met at the perfect time. From what you wrote I wouldn’t think your husband would’ve even been interested in the old you had he met her before you’ve matured.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:12 PM
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I think the hoops only apply to first time sex. Once you’ve agreed to have sex for the first time, it’s on the man imo to make it good so that the woman would want more. If a woman is treated different men differently it’s most likely because of primal attraction. That’s why allot of men get a red flag when women say “no hookups” he will think to himself no hookups with me. It’s kinda like guys who say I don’t want to get married. Allot of women add “to you” at the end of that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:11 PM
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Only accept dates form guys they are sexually attracted to and wouldn’t mind having casual sex with. And then use all their qualities she has outside of sex to get the man to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:03 PM
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Yea I just read this thread and Ngl I see both sides here. You explained how women can grow and change their attitudes towards sex and validation and find their value etc and I agree to some extend but at the same time looking from a man’s pov it does sting a little bit. If a woman tells me she doesn’t have sex until marriage or until commitment etc it would raise a red flag for me personally. This is because men are expected to do the changing and the courting and spend time and money etc and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:59 PM
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I believe you. I think allot of people on this sub go to extremes. I do also see how some women make rules for some and break them for others. And from a man’s POV if your expected to jump through hoops others before you didn’t, you’d feel less then. You’d feel settled for as opposed to having them trying to lock you down and satisfy you to where you wouldn’t need to look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:48 PM
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I think he means you treated your “10/10Alpha Chad like a beta meal ticket” by not giving it up before commitment. Basically he had to commit to get it while they assume men before him didn’t. Hence why if you treated him like this he isn’t the alpha your claim he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:40 PM
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*anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:28 PM
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You can’t get divorced if you never get married. Just ride it out until you get that ultimatum and then tell her to go find her husband and you move on to the next one. If you want to get married, marry someone who has as much to loose as you do monetarily should you get divorced. Men saying that they don’t care about how much money a woman makes are behind the times. Nowadays with marriage laws, a woman’s income and how much she has should be high on a guys list.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:15 PM
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Most times fwb is a woman being fuckzoned (opposite of friendzone) by a guy she secretly wants to date and have a relationship with, especially if the sex between them is good. It doesn’t always start like that but if the guy is giving her consistent orgasms she will catch feeling more times then not. Especially if the friend part is also being attended to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:40 AM
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They usually go back to the best and least problematic dick they got on stand by and if they don’t then they got toys to keep them entertained until they find someone they like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:02 PM
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This can be for a number of reasons. Stress can cause libido to plummet in both men and women. Financial stress or parental stress can cause that as well as resentment. Poor communication allows misunderstandings to fester and the disconnect makes it hard for a woman to want to have sex with her husband if she silently resents him. Also because of hookup culture, men are divided into 3 groups. Group 1 are men she desires. The guys who she’s attracted to. Those guys happen to attract many other w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:25 AM
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They do it for attention, specifically from men there into. I mean plastic surgery and BBLs. I don’t mean makeup. That to me is a mix of wanting to look good to feel confident as well as societal pressure to not look natural, as for some reason natural looking woman (no makeup) are looked at like there sick or something. Having said that, I’ve never seen a lesbian with a BBL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:45 PM
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I don’t mind getting to know her but I don’t know about putting all my eggs in that basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:42 PM
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I wouldn’t be exclusive with someone I haven’t slept with on a consistent basis. I don’t mind the testing and even encourage it but I wouldn’t commit to someone before getting to know them on all levels intimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:36 PM
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Does she expect monogamy while getting to know me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:30 PM
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Depends on what circles she’s in. It could range from virgin to 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:52 PM
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Their is a big difference in dating someone and getting exclusivity after a few months and a wife of 10 years. There are many men in dead bedrooms and they have needs. I understand not everyone is willing to break up a family to get their sexual needs met, hence why they cheat (that goes for both men and women btw). Cheating is obviously bad, not debating that. But the idea that only men care about good quality sex is just not true. Are there men who are selfish and or a shit lay, 100%. Those gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:45 PM
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The difference between a relationship and a very good friendship is the sex. Abby is sleeping with her fwb but would pursue a relationship with that guy had he offered that to her. Most times fwb dynamic is the girl liking the guy and is willing to sleep with them to convince him to like her back (or convince herself a fwb dynamic is enough), the same way a guy liking a girl and staying in the friendzone hoping one day she will want more. A fwb is a guy friendzoning a girl which is what is done …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:32 PM
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She’s within her right to do that but I don’t think many guys would to stay with someone they had to court and jump through hoops to be with only to find out what they worked hard for to get was given to another guy who didn’t need to do what the boyfriend did in the courting phase. The guy will nearly always feel settled for. It’s the whole AF/BB thing. This is why many guys today do not put effort into dating and push for sex early on because in their head if there not fucking her someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:12 PM
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Wrong, they would rather wife up a ugly low ncount and cheat on her with the ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:41 AM
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That sounds like a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:25 PM
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How about you answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:10 PM
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What do they get from a Ltr that they couldn’t get from a friend? Also and more importantly, is what they get worth the effort they are expected to put in to be in a Ltr?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:51 PM
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Sometimes I honestly think they just listen to argue and not to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:46 PM
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Obviously no one is forced, I’m saying this is one of the reasons why many men do not want anything serious. You see it allot in TikTok where women in their 30s are complaining by about men calling them boys and how there playing games and what not. Guys who outgrow the hookup phase might crave a relationship and guys who couldn’t participate in hookup culture will either resent women or settle being the boyfriend material guy and try to find fulfillment in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:42 PM
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Well they are. Your asked to put in way more effort in a relationship vs something casual. If it was casual, I don’t have to pretend to care about your mother cancer treatment or what latest feminist book you’ve read. But in a relationship I’m expected to invest to some degree in your life like that. And given that your wife engaged ina casual relationships before they got with you, your essentially doing more then what a fuckboy had to do to be with her. Hookup culture made boyfriend and husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:22 PM
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100% I got my BA i architecture and my masters in property management. I’ve bought a apartment in 2018 from inheritance money I had saved up and got a mortgage for a house I bought last year. The plan is to refurbish and sell/rent. Rinse and repeat until I own multiple properties and can work less then 30hpw and not drop in standard of living. I knew before I got my BA that being a 9 to 5 architect is not for me as the money wouldn’t be worth the amount of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:22 PM
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For a childless man who got his shit together to decides to date a woman with children, imo he’s actively settling. Having children will complicate things in the initial dating period (honeymoon period). Lack of availability or spontaneity. Responsibility for child you have no rights to. Making someone your priority knowing you’ll never be theirs. You can be attracted to a woman or person with children but personally I would try to check my feelings at the door and have fun with her but I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:47 PM
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And publishing books
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:52 PM
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Architect. You have to work multiple jobs in the world of architecture/design to live a upper middle class lifestyle. Or you do it long enough to win some prestigious awards or get published. Most of my lecturers and tutors at university were architects who taught part time. If you manage to start your own studio and get good reviews on your work and continue getting projects then yea it’s very lucrative but I haven’t seen that happen to anyone under 40. For the amount of work they have to do, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:28 PM
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Both sides of the extreme is a red flag. I wouldn’t want to be with some never been touched religious woman because I’m not religious myself, at least not to a degree where I find purity culture important or valuable. I think a woman like that is also a risk in a longterm marriage/partnership. You don’t want to be with someone that has FOMO. Before you know it your 2 kids and a mortgage deep and she feels like she missed out on her bar hopping years. Your better off being with someone who has ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:52 PM
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If my grandma had wheels, she’d be a bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:35 AM
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So as she’s in her 30s she wants you to jump through hoops (marriage/commitments) that other didn’t need to jump through when she was younger? Who’s getting the better deal here, you or her fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:37 PM
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How you gonna change your height big man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:42 AM
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Make Kevin hart money and have Kevin hart charisma/humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:25 AM
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Invest that money on world class trainers and nutritionist and change your body over 24 months for long term sustainable weight maintenance. Invest more money on skin care (see a dermatologist) and spend some money on therapy to help you love your on skin and get comfortable in your own. If you have the money, I’d say it’s best to invest it into yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:40 PM
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Until there in their early 30s and ask if you see yourself ever getting married on the first date to filter out guys. Or when they set up an ultimatum to get proposed to like I expect a proposal within 3 years type of thing. Everyone knows it’s not mandatory but that doesn’t mean that it comes with no consequences. Men who get married imo fall in 3 categories. 1 religious. Pretty much self explanatory 2 to keep sexual access. Some guys know they have to commit to get some. Highest form of commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:43 AM
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Because most women don’t marry the guys they love. The marry the guy who’s “good enough” and was willing to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:29 AM
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100% agree. Married women do the most to impress so that they keep getting validated. Whereas when I was in a relationship I felt like I had to earn sex and most times it was subpar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:24 AM
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Hookup culture has made being a husband something suckers will do. It’s something men do who are happy being settled for. A man is better off being fwb or a affair partner then being someone’s husband. Your literally paying more for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:18 AM
2

The company you keep says allot about a person. Especially the impression they give to those who don’t know then on a personal level yet. Reputation is imo important, and many people will assume birds of the same feather flock together. It’s ok to outgrow your friends. Have a conversation with her about her life chooses and voice your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 09:09 AM
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By the time your his age, his eye sight will be bad enough where he won’t tell the difference lol. All jokes aside. Over time, as he ages, he will value familiarity over lust. The age gap is a bit too much imo but it’s your life at the end of the day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 10:39 PM
1

Yea I can imagine, part of having experience is knowing the cluster fuck that’s out there. Makes me appreciate my gf way more. Experience imo is important for growth. As long as the person you date deals with their trauma in a healthy manner. People have different thresholds to what they find acceptable, but I think either sides of the extreme are toxic and unhealthy. I wouldn’t feel comfortable dating a famous pornstar or a never touched a man inexperienced woman alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:25 PM
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Honestly getting a virgin is imo riskier long term then getting with an experienced woman/retired ho3. I wouldn’t want to commit longterm (marriage starting a family etc) with someone who never got to scratch that itch and explore and find out what they liked. Add to that the shit sex, I would imagine a very low n count or virgin is more likely to cheat or end things to see if the grass is greener then a woman who spun the block and knows when she has something good and recognizes how important …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:50 PM
3

So you can only ask in June lol. Other months you gotta stop being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:03 PM
4

That’s why a person should never settle with someone who’s not fulfilling their fantasies and desires. If my SO is satisfying me to my liking, I couldn’t give less of a shit about what she did with her ex. It has to go both ways obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:50 AM
1

High earning doesn’t make you high value imo. Was Lewis high value because he got payed? High value imo is pure attraction. There are countless woman who spend their best years with bums and bad boys thinking they can change them. They put up with soo much shit from those guys because of attraction. From cheating to minimum effort in courting. That to me is high value, can you be soo shit and lazy and women still want you, you’ve got some inherent value, which may just be lust btw. Chances are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:24 AM
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Husbands tend to be the men women settle for when their fwb doesn’t commit to them in and around 30. Nothing redeemable about being a husband in 2022. It’s a sign of being settled for. As for the cow, do you know where that phrase comes from? As for balding men, that’s tough but I can’t relate to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 12:06 AM
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Tbh hookup culture made being a husband become something lame. Men better of being fwb then buying the whole cow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:38 PM
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Will needs to bite the bullet and just file and pay the alimony. She has embarrassed him enough. Got him smacking people across the face now and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:14 PM
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Hooked up with many hairdressers, most weren’t single. Same thing with nurses. As for the other 2 the nature of the job (travel) makes dating not something I would pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:21 PM
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Nurse or hairdresser as well Air hostesses and military. Sex workers (OF) I tend to cap of as not soo serious and anyone really who’s job takes over their personality and becomes their whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:59 PM
2

Yes I think it’s both parties responsibility to keep their partner satisfied (with limits obviously) but I can’t really blame someone for cheating when they are sexually deprived by their partner. Obviously the easy answer would be to leave and find someone else but with marriage kids and finances etc, it’s not always easy. Both parties should hold their partner to a standard so that they can both be satisfied (relatively speaking). That includes hygiene, maintaining weight, performance (many gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:34 PM
2

Yes cryopreservation is something all guys should consider imo. Freeze your swimmers. They have a good shelve life (up to 50 years). And then get snipped. That way a man can decide when and with whom they would have children. Personally I don’t feel comfortable having someone else decide wether I become a parent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:11 PM
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This is why protecting your seed is on you the guy. Once you give it to the woman it’s her body her choice. Wanting to opt out of fatherhood should in theory be the possible in a just and fair system. But the government knows that someone has to foot the bill and they rather take it from you then put a even larger burden on the welfare system. Wear a condom and have some cholula on deck and if your feeling cheeky play some drake in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:47 PM
2

Yea they love them for sex. Not relationships. You just said to that guy he isn’t a woman so he doesn’t know what they want. Now your tuna tell us guys want “experienced women”, for relationships? Don’t know if your tryna convince him or yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:14 AM
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Yea most men aren’t willing to jump through extra hoops other guys didn’t need to go through. It’s insulting. This whole born again virgin and “knowing your worth” or changing whatever women want to call it honestly comes across as BS. If you got heartbroken by 1 to many fuckboys. Don’t now make a guy court you for god knows how long. Teat him as well as you treated the fuckboy, just reserve those things for men that want you. What I see happening is women (not all obviously) tend to make the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:08 AM
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Not necessarily they might be enough to bed chad but not hot enough to keep chad (marriage) It’s also why hookup culture has 6s believe they are 10s and “know their worth”🙄🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:51 PM
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When I was in college I wasn’t taken seriously by girls my age so I started messing with women over 35 and had way more luck with them. The idea that only older men seek younger counterparts is not true. It’s just that women know to keep a low profile. If a guy in his mid to late 30s can pull a women in her early 20s and not by being her sugar daddy but be genuinely desired, chances are he’s also wanted by women his age as well. A desired man like that would usually chose a women with his maturi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:23 AM
1

Netherlands?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 01:36 PM
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26M lost mine at 17 with a girl from my summer job. We hooked up after work for about 2 months. Haven’t seen her since that summer ended. I did lie to her and tell her I already lost it because I thought if I told her I was a virgin she wouldn’t sleep with me lol. She was the same age as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:11 AM
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Bro she won’t do anal with you even if she did with her ex lol get over it. This whole post feels like a gotcha question. If your unsatisfied, regardless of your SO’a past relationships, leave. This goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:44 AM
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Facts. If your not sexually satisfied, leave regardless if she did that with her ex or in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:11 AM
4

It’s stupid not to get a prenup. The person you marry isn’t the person you divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:56 PM
2

What would happen if you married someone in Barcelona and then moved to another region and then divorced? Which laws would apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:54 PM
4

Don’t give a shit about chad. If I’m unsatisfied, I’m not depriving myself for anyone and it would be a deal breaker regardless if she did them with chad or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:00 PM
1

You can go halves on the date so the guys never get to make you “feel” like you owe them something even if you don’t. And they can’t say I’m wasting resources (which is real) as everyone is equally invested initially. You might enjoy a coffee date but many women feel entitled to be wined and dined on the first date and mask it behind “knowing their worth”. If you really want to get to know someone and have them know you, meet them half way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:58 AM
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Yes and no. I’d say yes for the reason of scratching that itch of what’s out there before committing. Look at all those highschool sweethearts who got married right after graduation. By the time they are 30 most will probably have divorced. One of the 2 would probably have cheated along the way. This is because people change and grow and learn through experiences. Having casual experience for a women is slightly different as there are pregnancy risks attached to sex as well. If a women is carefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:07 AM
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Try a Amish girl then. Everyone else will probably have a past. Honestly instead of trying to avoid it, expose yourself to it. Get some casual experiences under your belt to where should you match with someone your interested in, her past will not be a thing your that uncomfortable with. Get some ons and fwbs while you mature emotionally and when your ready for a committed relationship, you’ll enjoy that far more because 1) you’ll have more experience, you can explore what you like and figure ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:14 PM
5

It’s the same as people changing when they get rich. She was humble when she was fat but when she lost the weight, she didn’t need to wear that mask anymore and her true personality came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:12 PM
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I dont think so. There was a study on women getting surgery to reduce their weight and a crazy stat like close to 80% after file for divorce once they become the pretty girl they dreamed of becoming. So much so that doctors are now screening female patients with a psychiatrist and putting couples in therapy to help avoid that from happening. I mean when they go from the fat girl at the party who has to be pleasant and funny to get some attention, to the hot girl who has options and can reject gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:18 PM
3

Male 26 London UK Finishing Masters in architecture this year With GF for 3.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:53 PM
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Yea nowadays it’s low-key a insult to be husband material. It’s looked at as the guy who picks up the tab after she had her non commitment fun, while holding you responsible for her happiness. In a nutshell to be a husband is low-key to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:46 AM
14

Yea they’ll fuck them but think twice about bringing them back home to meet their family over the holidays. Everyone has a purpose, some are a guilty pleasure and some are a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:42 AM
1

Yea if you think the risk is worth the reward, then by all means I hope your right and wish you luck and happiness in your marriage, wholeheartedly. I jut personally don’t think it’s necessary to take that risk for symbolic reasons or titles. I plan to love my partner until she breaks my heart and leaves me or does something where there is no coming back from and force the relationship to end without taking that unnecessary liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:32 AM
3

Generational wealth to me will not only give your kids shoes they will never feel they can fill but also alienate them from the rest of society. When you wrote generational wealth I thought about those oil rich families in the gulf who’s children have gold chromed cars and such. They tend to be far removed from reality and sometimes indulge in some sinister activities. They tend to have too much time and money on their hands and don’t know what to do with it. There is nothing normal about owning…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:28 AM
2

In the west? How many millionaires or billionaires are still with their first wife. The majority either file at some point or get served. Marriage nowadays is treated like any other relationship and generational wealth IMO is one of the dumbest things to aspire to. No offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:45 AM
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Wouldn’t it be the opposite. Instead when married you really have to watch out because you have now allowed someone to get in a space where they can hurt you legally? Your banking on your husband having your best interest at heart and that in itself is a gamble. People change and relationships end, at the end of the day the person you marry isn’t the person you divorce. Marriage honestly sounds like a regular relationship but with admin, where should you want to end that relationship you will ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:35 AM
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Access to his hard earned money and a incentive to gain something should the relationship end. A modern day marriage will basically hold the higher earner in the relationship at a legal liability and reward the lesser earner should the relationship end. Add to that no fault divorce and is created a rigged contract without conditions that have to be upheld and can broken at anytime fo any reason. Add to that presumed paternity, the welfare system is playing hot potato with women’s choices with wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:25 AM
1

Never hate the game, it will make you bitter and resentful. Learn to play and win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:14 AM
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Since most women want a man on their level or higher and one of the main components in that regard is income and to some education , in the future women will either settle or learn to share the minority of men they all compete for. In a funny way modern day feminism will lead to modern day polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:04 AM
5

She’s projecting what she feels she missed out on maybe
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 03:44 PM
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You’ll be surprised at how many simps and weak men are being forged today And you’ll be more surprised at how many women are willing to settle as they approach late 30s to early 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:04 PM
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