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The sounds people make during sex are always going to be influenced by external things (porn, TV, trying to sound "sexy," etc.). It's not necessarily "fake," as in she may not be putting a lot of conscious thought into it, but it's not a genuine biological reaction either.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:10 PM
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her terrible past literally fucking haunts me is ruining my life. it eats me alive and makes me want to kill myself. i hate her Read what you wrote. These are not the words of someone who is happy with his relationship. Forget about playing Spot-the-Slut. That's all just fantasy and speculation. What you need to address is this visceral revulsion you feel toward her. That is real, undeniable, and non-negotiable. Right or wrong, just as no one can talk a woman into being attracted to betas, likew…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:29 AM
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If her texting has become a legitimate nuisance to you (e.g. constantly buzzing while you're busy), you should be able to politely ask her to tone it down without it being a big issue. If you're worried she's gonna flip-out on you over a simple request, get ready for some serious relationship issues later on. Otherwise, just learn to ignore the texts when you don't want to talk. If she reacts adversely to that, then again, relationship issues. Buckle up.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:22 AM
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Why are you chasing a chick you actively dislike? Some of you guys are serious masochists...
/r/askTRP03/06/15 09:47 PM
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This is going to sound hilarious, but you should ~be yourself.~ You are naturally inclined to smile and joke around, and that's good because women are universally attracted to guys who are funny, charismatic, charming, etc. Be serious when the need calls but don't force yourself to adopt a demeanor that is unnatural to you. You'll never be able to keep it up, and you'll look fucking crazy oscillating between joking around and "brooding." Having a flat affect is rarely a trait that can be learned…
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:56 AM
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You don't want to hear this, but you really ought to dump this bitch. Slapping you because she's in a bad mood and then wrongfully accusing you of slapping her--as if some random incident from the past would somehow justify present actions?--is pure psycho-bitch behavior. And now she knows she can get away with it. She will do it again.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 03:34 AM
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She sounds like a baby and you are way too obsessed with your relationship with her. There is way too much to address here so all I'll say is, Do NOT ask her about that guy. You will come across like the biggest bitch on the planet if you do, and knowing about him will not benefit you in any way.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 09:25 PM
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Just say yes, you workout. Maybe make a joke about it. You don't need to say you "lift" or give any details, unless she is a fitness girl and specifically asks. Women generally aren't impressed by the details of your workout.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 06:35 PM
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Next time you want to spend time with her, text or call and act like nothing happened. Invite her like you normally would. In the future, you shouldn't flake on plans like that. That's bitch behavior. If you say you're gonna do something, do it.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:31 PM
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It's normal for sexually active adults to have lube. Hell, I knew a girl who used lube to masturbate with. Unless you have a shrimp dick, most women don't care about dick size nearly as much as we tend to think they do. Screw her properly and it's all good.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 09:34 PM
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There's no simple one-size-fits-all answer. You mostly just have to follow your gut on this one. Ask yourself what you want/need in a partner. Ask yourself what you will absolutely not tolerate. Never settle. It really is better to be alone than with someone who makes you feel resentful and stressed on a daily basis. And you don't need to ask her a series of interview questions. You get to know her like you would any other girl. If you like her, you keep seeing her. If she hits your red flags, y…
/r/askTRP10/05/15 12:01 AM
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You don't like her at all and she doesn't satisfy you sexually. Use your reasoning skills.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 07:08 PM
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Unless ballroom dancing is something you are legitimately interested in, just let it be. You lose frame by placing so much importance on her interests. You don't want to get better at things she does--she should want to get better at things you do. It is more attractive to develop your own skills.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 11:02 AM
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If you're not interested in MMF threesomes, then that's all the explanation you need. She's not doing you a favor that you need to reciprocate. You do the things you want to do, and say no to everything else.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 06:12 PM
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She could not have been more direct.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:53 PM
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"There's the door." If she were really a strong independent womyn then she would leave. But she probably won't (for now). It's time to start searching for new plates in any case. This one will only grow more persistent with this crap.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 02:30 PM
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Social interaction should be fulfilling for you. If it brings you nothing but frustration or if it feels like a chore, then step away for a while.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:22 PM
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There's nothing to "deal with." It doesn't sound like she was looking to have an argument. Change the subject and talk about something more fun.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:16 PM
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This is a textbook way to decline an ambiguous, unwanted date invitation. "Is he asking me on a date or does he just want to hang out as friends? I don't want to date him but I also don't want to offend a potential friend." Time to move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 12:31 AM
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From your description, you're the one playing games. What the fuck are you trying to "get back at her" for? You sound like a 12-year-old girl.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 01:13 AM
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Prompt her to start talking about her (lack of a) love life and tell her that men would find her more attractive without the fake blue hair. Ask her why she doesn't invest in more feminine attire.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 12:40 AM
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"It was really nice spending time with you, I mean.. I really liked just spending time chatting with you, not just the physical part, lets meet up again?" Is this a text you sent or did you say that IRL? If you haven't actually texted her, don't expect her to contact you first. If she's just ignoring your texts, then she doesn't like you and you should move on.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 10:51 PM
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It's a tough situation, but you did the right thing. It's generally not a good idea for men to involve themselves with their pre-RP infatuations. I'm guessing her supply of orbiters has dwindled lately so she's looking to you for a fix. It's easy enough for her to say, "I love you so much I'll dump my BF for you," when you two aren't even in the same town and there's no expectation that she'll follow through.
/r/askTRP13/03/14 08:29 AM
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Option 1: Ignore everything after "Sounds good to me." Don't entertain the possibility of her canceling. Instead, respond as if you're confident she'll make time to see you. cool/k/all right. See you then Option 2: Show her your time is valuable and you need to be informed in advance if she "can't" make it. cool/k/all right. Next week's busy for me too so let me know ahead of time if we need to reschedule Make back-up plans. You should always aim to do that anyway, but particularly in this case.…
/r/askTRP13/03/14 07:50 AM
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If he's single, likes women, pursues one-on-one time with you, and enjoys bonding with you on an emotional level, he's an orbiter. According to RP theory, as a woman, should one bother? Depends on whether you value the "friendship." If the dude annoys you or makes you uncomfortable, but you keep him around out of a sense of obligation (or fear of being "mean") then do yourself a favor and knock him out of orbit. Otherwise, there's no reason to end a friendship you find beneficial. If the guy isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/14 07:16 PM
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If you act like a friend, she'll treat you as one. You start escalating immediately and you don't stop until you hit a wall. Your very first interaction should involve heavy-handed flirting. When you ask her out, don't schedule an is-this-a-date-or-is-it-just-coffee date. The activity/setting and how you invite her should make it clear that your interest is more than platonic. Flirt more. Get close to her. Touch her more. Touch her more. And close. Women love to play dumb on this front. Plausibl…
/r/askTRP20/02/14 04:45 PM
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When they say you're scary, it's hyperbole. They're not afraid you're going to harm them. You probably wear a mean look on your face or you're one of those people who doesn't emote enough. Women want to be liked and accepted. If you carry yourself with hostile/unfriendly body language, they will fear judgment and rejection by you. I've seen women say this to other women too, those who suffer from Chronic Bitch Face. It's just a friendly jab that also reveals a minor insecurity.
/r/askTRP20/02/14 03:32 PM
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Why don't they like you? If their complaints are reasonable, you should probably work on that. Truth be told, I am one of the weaker students, but I'm not the absolute weakest by any means. Start by fixing this. Failure to qualify as the "absolute weakest" is not an accomplishment. If you have time to gossip on Reddit, you have time to get schoolwork done. My advice to you is to stop seeking approval from people you don't even like and stop worrying about being "alpha." Instead work on improving…
/r/askTRP26/01/14 10:05 AM
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Whatever, doesn't really bother me If you don't GAF, then why be concerned about showing you don't GAF? Don't think about trying to act a certain uncharacteristic way. That makes you look butthurt. Just act normal. You don't care. She doesn't care. On with your life. She'll probably bring it up to make some lousy excuse. Accept it and make no further attempts to pursue her.
/r/askTRP26/01/14 06:02 AM
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Literally anything. Do you eat food? Do you like to participate in recreational activities?
/r/askTRP26/01/14 03:02 AM
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If you want something out of a conversation, you have to put something into it. Talk about yourself. Offer opinions, insights, advice, etc. Joke around with her. You only have a minute or two to solidify an impression, so you need to get as much of your best self out there as quickly as you can. By asking a series of impersonal questions, you may as well be singing, "I'm boring and have nothing to contribute." It's a terrible way to be forgotten. Start simple. Get her engaged with you (i.e. smil…
/r/askTRP26/01/14 02:32 AM
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b) are doing it because it’s expected, and neither effect is conducive to a healthy mindset and individual. Listen to yourself
/r/askTRP17/01/14 10:12 PM
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What does he say to you? Unless the shit he's saying to you is seriously over-the-line, it's not worth making a public scene about. If you just engage him privately and tell him to stop, he'll probably stop.
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:06 AM
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This is insane. The same crowd that uses "neckbeard" as an insult is whining about some guy's preference for shaven women.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:15 PM
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Part of being a leader is delegating responsibilities to others who are more qualified. Unless you're planning on cooking her dinner, there's no reason for you to assume leadership here. This is her element. If that bothers you, either don't go with her to the grocery store or go off and browse and meet her when she's done. Or you could just suck it up because no one is judging you except you.
/r/askTRP30/12/13 05:20 AM
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And you can't get a woman to tell you the truth about her sexual history anyway.
/r/askTRP30/12/13 05:00 AM
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Put more effort into your appearance and don't be an ungrateful, abrasive bitch. You know all those funny, smart, dog-loving guys with good family ties you described? The ones who ask you what you need at the store, if they can cheer you up, if they can give you a foot massage, who idolize you, who're willing to give up everything for you, who make you feel like the masculine one? Just act like them.
/r/askTRP30/12/13 04:52 AM
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Get an STD test
/r/askTRP30/12/13 03:51 AM
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She isn't interested in you but refuses to tell the truth because a) she's a coward, b) she's trying to be "nice" (lol), and c) she enjoys the validation she gets from keeping you on a hook. This is a definite next. Don't try to set up another date and don't show up to any dates she tries to schedule. @Question3: You generally don't introduce your plates to each other unless you're looking to have a threesome. If you go on a date with one girl, you give her your attention until the two of you pa…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 02:35 PM
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She's exhibiting classic symptoms of being an attractive young female: she doesn't value other people's time and she doesn't respect plans. But she still wants to meet you, and since you still want to fuck her, that's all that matters. Give her the benefit of doubt on this one unless she flakes again. And always have a backup plan when you're supposed to go out with a new girl.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 01:09 PM
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I will be shocked and awed if anyone here has even the slightest clue about women's fashion. http://www.reddit.com/r/redpillwomen http://www.reddit.com/r/femalefashionadvice If you want wardrobe ideas, think of a woman close to your age whose style you like. Someone you know, a celebrity, a fictional character, whatever. Save some pictures of their outfits and bring them with you to the mall.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 09:35 AM
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You can't always rely on a girl to initiate things. Sometimes girls are infuriatingly passive, and sometimes they're really shy and timid (like the girl you're describing). You basically have to lead the entire interaction. Take off your shirt, take off hers, put her hands on you, etc. If you don't want to do that, next her and find someone who actually participates in sex. It sounds like her specific reaction was just a standard case of LMR. She was probably turned off by the verbal acknowledge…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 09:18 AM
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How did you go about escalating to sex? How did she react? From what you describe, the girl's got issues. She makes out with randoms at bars, but won't sleep with a guy she's consistently seeing, but she'll get naked and give blowjobs? She sounds like a waste of time and energy for very little reward.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 07:34 AM
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As long as you walk away in the end, you're doing just fine. You really don't owe her an explanation for turning down her friendship any more than she owes you an explanation for turning down a romantic relationship. All she needs to know is that you simply don't desire a friendship with her. End of story. Any attempt at explaining yourself is completely futile anyway. It's a rare woman who will understand/accept your reasons for walking away. Most can't empathize with rejection and feel entitle…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 05:10 AM
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You don't need women to be happy. And it appears that in your current state, women are an active detriment to your happiness. So fuck 'em. Don't let anyone pressure you into having unfulfilling relationships, whether that's society telling you to get married or the manosphere telling you to spin plates. Focus on yourself and do what you want to do. Pursue your interests... find your passions. The great thing about being a man is that fulfilling our self-interest actually makes us more attractive…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 04:40 AM
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She's just one girl. She's hot and you want to fuck her. But she doesn't want to fuck you. She chose another man over you. Accept that and let her go. Don't chase after sloppy seconds. You'll meet other girls--hotter, wittier, more interesting girls--and you'll forget your "friend" ever existed. But you'll never get a chance to develop those relationships if you don't allow yourself to say, Fuck 'er, and MOVE ON. Tell her you're busy if she wants to hang out. If she messages you, keep your repli…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 04:21 AM
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Nice. Next time she asks you out, you should tell her you have a date that night. "Maybe next week?"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 11:29 PM
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That's understandable. For that, I would listen to /u/Zackwell's advice about "trickle truth" and mindfulness about what you share and how you share it. A bit of venting here and there isn't going to put off the average person, and women do enjoy hints of vulnerability from an otherwise stoic man--it makes them feel special. As a side note, it may be that these friends of yours who "do not really get into 'emotional' talk" also crave someone they can vent to, but don't say anything for the same …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:42 AM
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I just want to spill this stuff thats been weighing on me for so long but dont want to kill the attraction. You may benefit from keeping a journal. Sometimes the urge to just spill your guts is overwhelming. I imagine it was pretty cathartic for you to write all of this up. Whenever you feel that urge, just unload it into your journal. No one will ever see it. No one will ever judge you. But you'll probably feel much better.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 05:13 AM
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"Current SO"? You said in another post that she's your fuck buddy and that neither of you want "bf and gf." You also said you've only been seeing her for a month. A little consistency would be nice.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 07:21 AM
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When you first entered the relationship, was she fit and healthy? Or has she always been this way?
/r/askTRP16/12/13 07:55 AM
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I 100% would not date her There's the answer you need--never forget that. Your brain is playing with you. The lust is certainly real, but the rest is just Mother Nature trying to trick you into raising her kids. There are plenty of girls out there. Plenty of personalities to "kinda" like. Nothing special about this one.
/r/askTRP16/12/13 04:25 AM
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Always remind yourself that there is nothing shameful about your sexuality. It's completely natural to feel attraction toward the women around you, and acting on that attraction is not predatory or adversarial in any way. Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of shit.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:58 PM
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Sounds like she feels insecure and wants validation from you. Why? God knows. There could be any reason. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it becomes a recurring problem. Just know, if you rush to soothe her fears every time, she'll just keep coming back for more. Next time she brings this up, dismiss it with a joke. Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 08:04 AM
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You might as well give it a shot, if it's what you want. Ask her when she wants to visit (specific dates), then ask her what hotel she'll be staying at. Don't let her mooch anything off you--no free rides, no free food, no free bed. Pick an evening when you'd otherwise be sitting at home bored and let her come over. Ask her to pick up a bottle or a 12-pack or whatever you like to drink on her way to your place. Make sure she finds her way back to the hotel when you're done.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 07:16 AM
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