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You should keep her wanting more right now. You can be sweet if that’s your character but don’t act pathetic over some girl that you had a one day encounter with. It’s good to be sweet and to show her positive emotions, but also have clear boundaries and be willing to still tease to keep the push-pull going.
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:54 AM
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Different people in this subreddit have different goals. I tend to look for more long term relationships as do many others here, but there are plenty who are looking for one night stands. The goal is to have a community where we can learn the best way to achieve our individual goals with women in the most effective way possible.
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:51 AM
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Fool around with her long enough to give yourself blue balls and leave before you can finish. Repeat this until you develop enough negative reinforcement that your develop erectile dysfunction because your body fears the pain. In all seriousness, some good techniques include flexing your thighs to move the blood flow away from your dick or to wear breathable clothes that minimize the friction in your pants. Other than that, just think about baseball or something lol
/r/seduction29/05/19 01:38 AM
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Engage the entire group but be sure to single her out in terms of verbal game. If you can win over the group, then any orbiters or cockblocking friends will be the ones perceived as being weird, not you. For groups of 2, it’s helpful to have a wingman so the second girl doesn’t feel left out or abandoned. For groups of three or more, it can actually be easier to go solo if you know what you’re doing because then you don’t have to worry about your wingman screwing up and you looking bad by associ…
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:09 AM
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I think the only dangerous thing for this is that it could turn away plenty of guys who want to learn for the first time. Many people involved in this scene use throwaway accounts so that they’re comfortable sharing their insecurities and personal lives. I think there should be a way to keep this open vibe for the sub while still filtering spam.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:38 PM
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Treat it as a positive and act accordingly. However, beyond eye contact you need to be looking for compliance in your interactions. Is she agreeing with you when you make statements about her? Is she being responsive to suggestions to do things with you? Is she comfortable if you move closer or touch her (appropriately)? If the answers to those are yes, then those are much better indicators that you need to escalate than good eye contact alone
/r/seduction19/03/19 01:33 AM
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I actually just got into using whitening strips and I’d say they’re definitely worth it if you have the time and patience for it. You have to leave them for half an hour after you brush and you obviously can’t eat or drink anything during that time which is annoying combined with the fact that it takes about a week to notice a difference, but you will notice your teeth getting whiter by using them. If your teeth stain easily like mine, it’s definitely worth checking out
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:43 AM
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I don’t know your particular financial situation or what you’d potentially be giving up for the immersion program so I can’t tell you for certain, but I will say that having someone coach you in person (especially since that someone is Todd Valentine) will be incredibly valuable for you if you really want to improve your game. With that being said, there’s still nothing wrong with learning the principles and applying them through trial and error for free. It’ll probably take much longer to impro…
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:17 PM
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Todd is a legend in his own right and you’d probably benefit from learning from him, but don’t do any immersion type programs unless you can absolutely afford it (don’t go into debt for it either, it’s not worth it). Unless you definitely can spend the money, you’d probably be better off learning from the material both him and many others have available for free.
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:00 PM
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Add “I’ll take what I can get” to this list. That’s a huge one that I’ve been spending a lot of effort to cut out of my conversations personally.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:24 PM
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Indirect as in not showing that much interest right off the bat. Text openers are generally much more challenging anyway because you can’t use your body language/tone/social obligations to your advantage the same way that you can in person. I’d recommend starting off in person and using the phone only as a means of arranging plans and getting her out on a date.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:08 PM
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Yeah you probably should’ve included that. If you’re doing anything over text when you haven’t initiated in person, you need to be going WAY more indirect than that
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:58 PM
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It depends on your tone of voice and HOW you said it. It’s obviously not creepy to notice someone, but your approach needs to display confidence and value or else you risk coming across as creepy. If you did all of those things and she still called it “creepy”, count your losses and move on since there’s really nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:51 PM
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She wants to maintain a friendship with you by the sounds of it
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:49 PM
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I think you’re absolutely right. The biggest stumbling block for beginners is simply going out and starting. This is not at all meant to be an excuse for not going out and practicing. Thanks for that clarification
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:00 PM
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Absolutely not. Social anxiety hits everyone to some degree (even the so called “naturals”). Try making baby steps to help build your confidence over the course of a set period of time such as two weeks or a month. Even if you only start by saying “hi” to all of your coworkers when you come across them and slowly move up to making polite conversation with your barista and eventually complementing strangers, it’s a good method. Just be sure that you actually make these steps and have goals that a…
/r/seduction19/02/19 02:45 PM
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First don’t assume that you’re competing with your friends. That communicates and reinforces a mindset of scarcity and neediness, both of which will hurt you in the long run. Try playfully teasing the people already in your life to get a gauge of what tones of voice/attitudes work. This will give you a sense of what works and what doesn’t without any romantic/sexual expectations. Also, be sure to escalate verbally or physically (if you’re a complete newbie you might want to do your homework on t…
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:40 PM
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Use this to your advantage. Your packed schedule will make you considerably less available when you DO make the time to meet women which gives you an easy reason to schedule dates on your terms which is an attractive quality. You obviously shouldn’t use all of your free time dedicated to pickup, but the time that you do allow will be more valuable to yourself and others because of it.
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:19 PM
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There really isn’t a one size fits all answer for this but you need to understand that the opposite of neediness should be abundance. You could try anything from leaning into your hobbies to taking up a new skill or even diving into religious/philosophical questions. Essentially do whatever truly excites you and make a habit of making calculated steps outside of your comfort zone to do whatever you want. A huge portion of game is communicating abundance and excitement in your life and it’s way e…
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:28 PM
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