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| 6 | If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material"Ok then get ripped, be passionate, be stylish. If that's really what TRP advocates then I don't know why it's so controversial, that's what 99% of people will tell you. I bring up that relationships will help you because it will give you more understanding of what makes women tick, and what makes them more and less attracted to a guy. Spamming "game" tactics is the easiest way to either get labeled a creep or score with mentally ill women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 0 | If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material"Does everyone deserve all the sex they want, when they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:09 PM |
| -8 | If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material"I understand why someone would be upset at not being "hook-up material". There are certain men who can easily get hookups and other men who can't. Noone wants to have fewer options and be seen as less attractive, I get that. However the issue is that so many guys on here are so bent up over not being considered in the "apex" of deserving to be fucked fast that they shoot themselves in the foot. No amount of complaining is going to make women see you as more attractive. Even the mentality of "I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 0 | If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material"We're on /r/wateriswetdebate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men put more emotional labor into relationships than womenWhen the number of men seeking out professional therapy and working on their mental health is equal to women, then I'll believe it. That presumes that the proportion of men who need psychological help is equal to that proportion in women, and that every woman in therapy actually needs to be in therapy When it becomes common place for men to use their words to articulate exactly how they're feeling and identify their emotions instead expressing every bad feeling as anger, then I'll believe it. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?Obviously ugly and disfigured men get married and have children. Do you believe that every one of their wives/girlfriends finds them unattractive despite fucking him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?Your point makes a lot of sense. Would you say that there's a difference in men you consider "boyfriend material" and "one-night stand" material, if you even have a distinction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?I've heard this binary analogy before and it makes sense. However I'd say there are different levels of "green". There's low green, where a woman won't pursue you actively but as long as you don't do anything wrong she will want to fuck if you show explicit interest. There's mid green, where she pursues you actively and feels that you're a real catch. She may be coy but overall is very excited at the prospect of getting with you. Then there's high green, where you can basically do and say anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Describe someone you initially found physically unattractive, who over time became sexually attractive to you. What did he do that made you attracted to him?What percentage of men in your general social group would you consider physically attractive? Do the traits you find physically attractive overlap with most other women, or are there things you like that you'd wager other women wouldn't like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Women find normie guys boring, let's just be outright honestThe ideal mate for a woman is a perfect normie who is also a tall, 10/10 stud. Physical attractiveness determines whether or not a woman prefers a guy's character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it moral to have hook-up, one night stands but withhold sex from guys which are relationship material.Morals are a cultural invention. One culture may find premarital sex immoral, another may not. I don't know whether or not that behavior is immortal, but what I do know is that these women withhold the full truth of their sexual behaviors because the men who would optimally benefit them financially would not do so if they know the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Have Unrealistic Standards?Because a woman interacts with far more attractive men than average men because attractive men tend to be more extraverted, sexually promiscuous, and received well in mixed social groups. They could easily hook up with these guys, but what makes their standards "unrealistic" is that in a LTR coupling scenario where there is an average 1 man per 1 women, women are faced with a very strange game of musical chairs, where they find that the men they are physically equivalent to, percentile-wise, are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipif a girl is in a relationship with you, there's a 95% chance she desires you for real. She wouldn't be with you otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menThe common retort is that women don't appreciate casual sex as much as men do, so the advantage they have is not all that valuable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipI'm sure if she knew he bullied you she wouldn't find him attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipSo basically the issue is violent men and a woman's attraction to that violence being a bad thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipHe may care sometimes, but he accepts it because in most LTRs, he is getting consistent sex and his girl really does cherish him. It's not some dire countdown until she leaves him because she's longing for another guy the whole time. That's a product of insecurity, and more rare than most guys think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipIt was taken down because there's a 1 post per 12 hour limit on this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menThe average pornstar is more sexually attractive than the average woman. Just the fact that most popular pornstars are a healthy weight puts them far above the average woman in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menexplain then how you induced your conclusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menwhat evidence do you have of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier mentalk to the women on /r/loveafterporn then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menNot all women are the same ones saying either thing. It's usually one group and another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menYou could make the same argument in the other direction. You could say porn use is worse because it creates a sense of variety literally impossible in real life, and porn use happens during the relationship, not prior to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menIf women could be replaced virtually so easily then why do men still "struggle" to find relationships nowadays. It seems that it should be super easy then for any guy to get in a relationship with a woman since the demand is lowered artificially due to porn addicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 30 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menI checked the top posts on that subreddit and the biggest complaints seem to be on quantity and quality, namely that men watching porn are visually interfacing with more and hotter women than their partner. Here are a few posts I just saw a Tiktok of a girl upset and it says “I look nothing like the girls in the pictures and videos he likes”. 69.6k likes and 1600 comments from girls who can relate. So sad. Complaining about not matching up to the physical standard. Very similar to arguments rega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menwhat about amateur porn. Would that be "safe" for most guys to watch to keep their expectations abated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menNo fap is distinct from no porn, right? Would they be ok with guys masturbating without watching porn? Most no-fappers tend to be weird health nuts who think that "semen retention" preserves their masculine energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menWhat are the better arguments for both issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menSo the fault is at people who exalt attractive people and feed their ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't care that they're not their girlfriend's "first choice", they're just happy to have sex and companionshipyea sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:29 PM |
| 7 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menED could just as easily be caused by waning testosterone levels in the west (likely caused by plastic/chemical exposure) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Women who complain about men watching porn have the same argument as men complaining about average women fucking top-tier menIt's not that they're the "same thing", it's that the arguments used against them follow similar lines, namely that access to sexual dopamine rushes make individuals less satisfied with normal, average sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notSo you're basically saying that any woman who is not willing to sleep with a man based on looks alone considers him below average? That indicates that most women consider the guy you're with (citing your 60% figure) as below average? Actually I agree with you. Women do consider the guy they're likely in an LTR with ugly. That's why there are so many dead bedroom-type relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckI'm not overthinking, just reasserting my main point. To be attractive as a guy you need a strong-ish jawline, which most men don't have, and the fact that attractive hollywood stars are much more likely to have a strong jawline than average men is evidence of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notYour points still don't address the fact that men appraised women fairly, with a normal distribution centered in the middle with equal peaks, and women had a significantly skewed distribution. Why would men be more nuanced than women on the app? Are men not also more opportunistic on dating apps than in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckYou said that Gosling and Reynolds have "normal" jawlines. They don't have perfect square jaws but have tall chins and mandibles roughly as wide as their faces. They're not perfect but certainly not "normal" if you consider normal as middle-of-the-road 50th percentile. An actual average, "normal" jawline would be someone like Miles Teller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Are the qualities required to attract a person the same ones needed to be successful in a relationship?AF/BB. What makes a man's genes succesful in a competitive world do not coincide with the traits best fit for a LTR or raising a child. That's why women privatize hook-ups and socialize relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notWell it's at least an actual study, rather than the famous anecdotal "I know a 5'2" balding guy with no chin who bangs supermodels every weekend" we often hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckYou must have very high standards for jawlines if those are what you consider "normal". Or maybe I only associate with ugly mouthbreathers and the average guy really does have a hollywood-level jawline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notJGL is unironically what women consider "average". Remember that they consider 80% of men as below average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30So you're saying that 30 year old women only go for the top 5% of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckSouth Korea is a rare example, but I agree with you there it's a primarily women phenomenon. Funny thing is I think that shaving off the jaw makes most women look worse if there wasn't a severe deformity beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or lucklook at some of the before/afters on /r/jawsurgery and /r/plasticsurgery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckA lot of jaw surgery is necessary due to breathing issues, bite problems, etc. The less risky stuff (like fillers or implants) is less functionally important but still confers an aesthetic benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckYou're definitely correct that superficial things aren't the be-all-end-all, but they're very important, and ignoring them is close to delusion. Even women going for "kind guys" would prefer a 5'10", pleasant faced guy with normal teeth over a 5'7", ugly guy with bad teeth if they had the same personality. It may not be easy to say but it's the truth, and for men who haven't had luck in dating, ignore it at your own peril. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckDo you really think the fact that basically every male celebrity considered handsome, and every male model having a strong jaw is just a coincidence? There have been numerous studies correlating jaw size with sexual success. Don't know why you think it's an *ncel thing when a strong jaw has been a mainstay of male attractiveness for thousands of years and repeated in literature, film, tv, and popular culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckIf men knew how much their looks affected them they'd make up 99% of all plastic surgeries. I also guarantee you (I don't have the stats) that men make up a sizable majority of people undergoing leg lengthening surgery. I do agree however that there are a lot of risks involved in a woman's desire to have a successful life on her terms, rather than cashing in on the "default" allotted for most women, namely pump/dump with higher value men and long-term relationships with mediocre men. To get long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 3 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThen pick from among those who show attraction towards you. there are a lot of men who never have that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckEven if regular people don't there are still the 10% into freaks who outnumber the 1% of freaks, basically giving you a default 1:10 favorable ratio in the dating/sex market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThere are two things you're missing. Firstly, no woman appraises her partner's SMV alone. She is built up by the esteem and agreement of the women in her friend group. They will give a response to her pick between "Yo go girl get that chad dick!" (paraphrasing), and "ugh what do you see in that ugly loser?". Even if a girl sees an average guy as super hot, she will know where he really stands by the mediocre appraisal of her friends, and thus feel less into him (due to the psychological impact o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckYou succeeded because of the power of JBW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckJust 1 trait alone won't make or break you. You could have a big nose but be tall, wide framed, square-jawed, charming, etc. The big nose trait alone would have 0 relevance. I assume those aren't all true for you but I'd wager you have a good assortment of physical traits that make up for your big nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckWomen can lose weight, get breast/ass implants, facial surgery, do makeup, hair, etc. There are a million things a woman can do to improve their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or lucknot jaw surgery if I'm not mistaken. I think more men would have facial surgery if society was more honest about the impact of their looks. Women have surgery so often because they are accurately appraised on the importance of their looks with respect to their social, sexual value. 90% are deluded and think they're above average anyway so they'd never make the big first step of admitting there is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckthat's why I say it's luck, not a guarantee. Yes 99% will be sausage fests but there's always the small chance of a serendipitous encounter with a perfectly compatible woman. Those matches do exist but sometimes it takes years to get it, if you're willing to put up with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 9 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or lucknecrosis, loss of sensation, poor aesthetic outcomes, bone loss, breathing issues, etc. They're not big risks but they do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 0 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckyou had number 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckAny woman, or almost any, that finds out you had leg lengthening surgery would feel very differently about you. Not to mention the classic prejudices against men and cosmetic surgery. Then don't tell them you had surgery Acting aggressive isn't attractive to most women, it's just disgusting and scarry. Some like masculine bullies, not random betas pretending to be aggressive. Aggression is correlated with number of sexual partners Steroids will cut your life span, definitely not worth. They won'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 9 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckgo to social events and talk to people, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckle social circle doesn't work for relationships in 2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 7 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckNo human being is hard-wired to be sexually attracted to anyone for their personality alone. Become very good friends with, sure, but the criteria for very good friends and frequent genital contact are very different for 99.99% of human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckYes, but I think it should be noted here because in the world of sex and relationships, people are more prone to magical thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckIf by east you mean south-East Asia then you're right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThat's true, let's just say the more luck, work, and risk you leverage, the more overall options you have. Whether or not you have high or low standards, more options is always better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 5 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckThat's why I think men should put themselves in more positions where they have an opportunity to be lucky. There's no guarantee you'll meet a semi-perfect match on any given day, but give yourself more "any given days", and your overall chances increase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:40 AM |
| 24 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckBeing born as a woman is a built in sort of "luck" for many metrics of success in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | A guy doesn't have to be handsome to be sexually attractiveBeing handsome and tall are the "golden snitch" of being sexually attractive. The points they score you are so much higher than any other factor that they don't really matter comparatively, though personality, style, status, etc do have some effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemyeah, but getting water an food isn't gonna make you happy. It's part of the equation, the hierarchy of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemobviously you're not gonna be happy if you get no water and food. And there is a strong association between it and happiness, have u ever seen a commercial for any kind of food? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Predict the future of the "average man"suffering and suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemThat's obviously not true. Gay men are attracted to other men despite there being no conditioning whatsoever in most societies for their sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:58 AM |
| 0 | Pedestalization of females occurs when the male suffers from low self esteemmost married men aren't getting the sex they want. Also men prefer varied sex, over sex with one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:56 AM |
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