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schow007/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 08:09 PM
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exactly!! plus the human brain wasn’t made to be social on such a large macro scale, so i feel like the rise of large blanket good/evil ideologies in this time reflect that we are both aware and yet not acknowledging that our social circle is so large and so we have the ability understand that we don’t know so many people because of how many people there are to be known that we know of now (7 billion world population) but, we know more people and interact more frequently so we believe that the s…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 09:06 PM
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thank you! i think there is hope too. this might be tmi but i had a weird ass childhood and it caught up to me in my early 20s so i was forced to be more introspective and come to terms with the fact that everyone around me is just human and flawed. i can see how like anyone can see any type of empowerment whether it’s feminism or TRP as helpful but both kinda demonize the other while glorifying the people they’re meant to serve and like, at least with feminism it actively hurts the movement to …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/21 10:19 PM
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he’s actually read that/is reading it. he insists on having a male therapist (which i 100% agree with, i refuse to see a male therapist cause it’s harder for me to open up to one) i’m trying to do exactly what you’re saying on that front and he’s really chill about talking about that actually. this is why i posted originally, it’s really a weird space. like i absolutely agree that there’s a place for good masculinity. not toxic. like i said i’m from an immigrant community so being a daughter in …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/21 09:30 PM
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honestly, deeply considering this. i feel like at this point i can’t be involved in this situation unless he comes to me going “yo i realize i was not seeing things straight and i can’t even imagine thinking those things anymore” but even that feels like a no. ugh. i hate walking away when i have such deep feelings.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:36 AM
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i don’t love comparing one groups struggle to another, as a tactic but i def feel where you’re coming from. and i have wanted to bring this up in this way before. i feel like the damage is the monolithic thinking. like you saw the traditional culture thing where i feel like i had to pick and choose from feminism that i saw cause the pussy riot stuff is like, wild sometimes, fun for sure but like a lot when you’re used to “women must hold up the honor of your family”
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:35 AM
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i really want this to progress. i honestly wouldn’t be worried about this at all if i didn’t want it to progress. he hasn’t been this way all the time and he’s never brought these ideas to me in a way that made me feel like he thought of me this way (i know naive but i felt like we had reached understanding and he saw me for who i am) so we’ve been talking about a future and i wasn’t so worried but now i’m seeing the other stuff seep in. literally i was miserable on valentine’s day and i know it…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 12:47 AM
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he’s very “these emotional arguments are so draining i lose so much productivity” and like it all goes on me that i’m draining him when he has so much to do. but i’m not the one who is unwilling to listen and work it out.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:29 PM
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he trumped me with that. he’s very “if you don’t like it i’m not saying you have to deal with it, you’re free to go” ok now seeing this all set out together i feel like there is almost no way out of this situation with him. he’s going down a path and he doesn’t want anyone to question it cause he’s convinced he’s right.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:28 PM
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oh lord help. ok so i’ll look into this type of thing like the techniques and stuff. i don’t know how i would present them to him in a way that won’t set him off. he did tell me when he first got into this that the way he was thinking was changing and i probably won’t like him after. which yes i feel like supports like just leave and cut your losses, but i’m seeing this affect the people around him too and i feel like if i’m a responsible partner i should be there to help him and say “hey i see …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:27 PM
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not dating other people now. he was before, i was talking to some but had stopped cause i wasn’t feeling good in the hookup space and i didn’t really get any enjoyment from the open situation. i think you’re right he’s trying to make sense of it
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:24 PM
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an attractive option....hmmmm
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:29 PM
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like i said we had an argument, he said something i misunderstood, and an argument came from that. i grew up around a lot of yelling and a really hard home life (my dad terrorized me tbh) and i do try to keep things as civil as i can when i get upset. i told him i had done so much for him this week basically and that helping me with this thing was not a lot to ask, didn’t say it as well as i should have i admit, but he saw that as me throwing it in his face. he also said really bad things to me …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:25 PM
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we weren’t exclusive. and i think the chasing women and also his own feelings of helplessness in dealing with his trauma were not helping. i’ve been trying to make things between us better, i’m learning to set boundaries better and try to not get so overwhelmed by misunderstandings. i think it was a combo of feeling unfulfilled with dating around a lot and his trauma/being raised by a single mom that like took him into red pill territory instead. does that seem like it could lead to this kind of…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:12 PM
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i haven’t seen much of this in his rhetoric thankfully. he’s mainly really angry about the state of society and his community as a whole. and he doesn’t want to participate in that part of it, but thank you. this is a really important heads up to keep in the back of my mind if i decide to try and get him out of this situation. i wanna say, i feel like i want to help the situation because he’s been a good partner even through the red pill stuff. like, he’s been caring and he means a lot to me. we…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:53 PM
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yes you’re also right! so, this is one of the things when we study population and culture, many of the issues coming up with polygamy were because a lack of men meant that the people who would normally be marrying those men had no access to resources. because usually in these cultures at these times it was really hard for women to access wealth or resources unless through a man. so it’s usually both together that either one side or the other can be more prevalently shown, but two sides of the sa…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:43 PM
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right?! like it’s unpleasant. and i have a lot of friends and family who married because they didn’t think life was more than that and like, feminism helped me feel like ok i can just be my own person, i don’t have to be one way or another i can be myself and feel empowered to explore what i want to explore for myself, and for him to fight me on that specifically like my belief that i’m a full person who has the ability to be whatever resonates with me, is the problem. it’s so dismissive.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:31 PM
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the wild thing is that sexual double standard you’re talking about is something i’ve seen all my life. my family is all immigrants and women are expected to be virgins when we marry but men it doesn’t matter, so like, this is gonna sound horrible, but i’m very used to that line of thinking. i absolutely understand that the red pill evolutionary theory is absolutely bat shit- i’m a trained social scientist- and like, if we look it that way then the model for a caveman type relationship (using red…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 09:08 PM
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i’ve been considering this a lot. he backpedaled on dumping me on saturday (feb 13) saying he wanted space to figure his shit out. which i mean cool i guess, but still you’re right it’s not good. i really am worried he’s gonna like continue this kind of shit and keep me wrapped up in it. we’re both in therapy tho. i mean life is hard and it has helped us but he’s been a mess. it’s hard he’s great but like one wrong move and it’s like all this ire.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 08:49 PM
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