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| 2 | [FR] Eye contact progress story, but unsure where to go from here | schro_dinger | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 06:00 AM | |
| 1 | Is changing the location of a first date the day before a bad idea? | schro_dinger | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 05:09 AM | |
| 0 | Pre-emptive flake prevention? | schro_dinger | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 04:38 AM |
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| 1 | [FR] Eye contact progress story, but unsure where to go from hereI know this is a little late, but thanks!! Are you the Nick Sparks? If so, I want to say your talks are amazing and are truly what jumpstarted my love life when I found them this summer. Since then I've had some degree of success, but I've been having trouble developing more lasting connections with girls. I'm almost always the one initiating any contact between us, and I've been ghosted out after several first dates. I find it somewhat hard to assess when the girl is truly enjoying the interact… | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 02:43 AM |
| 7 | What the best cure for "oneitis"?This is the standard advice here. Of course if you've been in an exclusive LTR you're going to have some trouble afterwards. The only way to always avoid oneitis is to date multiple women. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Women Reacting To Direct Compliments [VIDEO]Well the good news is that being a scruffy, fedora'd neckbeard is something that can be changed. Also, given that all of the women in this video seem to be British as well, I doubt they're hypnotized by his accent... Not that being good looking doesn't help, but the situation is not nearly as fatalistic as you make it sound. | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Daygame on trains? Who agrees with thisI agree with the overall jist of it. However I do think he's way too worried about what other people will think if they see you approach. The truth is, none of those strangers give a damn about you or the girl you're talking to. And even if they did, that's their problem. Chances are you'll never see them again, ever. FWIW I'm American and have approached girls on the subway in my city. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 05:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I smile to girls?In order to get better at eye contact I've been consciously trying to make eye contact with every single person I pass throughout the day. If our eyes do meet I actually find it quite natural to give the person a polite no-teeth smile no matter who they are. The last few days I've even worked up to saying "hello". You never know what's going to happen. A few days ago I got on the subway and sat across from a cute girl. Made eye contact, smiled, she smiled back. I got up, sat down closer to her, … | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got my friend laid..... but wow, I am bad at this - HalloweenI feel like I've had similar experiences lately... I don't get it. I seem to be able to draw some initial attraction but getting them to stick around is the biggest issue I have. I feel like there's this delicate balance you need to strike when escalating that I just can't get right. If I escalate too fast I seem needy/desperate and if I escalate too slow they lose interest. I feel like every time I start an interaction with a girl I am building a house of cards - one wrong step and the whole th… | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Try eye gazing to fight your approach anxiety. infield footageActually yes. Nick Sparks suggests making a conscious effort to make eye contact with every single person you pass by throughout the day, so that's what I do. Field report: 60% of the time the other person doesn't even look, so no eye contact is made. For the other 40% of the time, as soon as eye contact is made I give a polite, confident smile. Half of those people will immediately look away after the first nanosecond of eye contact, but most of the rest smile back. Unfortunately I have not yet… | /r/seduction | 22/10/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle?I think the best advice is simply: talk to everyone. I had a similar experience as you at University but have had decent success so far post-college. It helps living in a major metropolitan area where going out is easy, but I've also been putting some serious work toward converting myself from an introvert to an extrovert. Rather than dreading small-talk I embrace it. I am that person who will try to learn your life story, hopes, dreams, and passions, 5 minutes after randomly meeting you on the … | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Tried to set up coffee date with girl in my class, she insisted on doing it with friends.Honestly if she's mentioned multiple times she's never had a boyfriend that might not only explain her hesitations, but it could also be a major hint that she's interested. I mean, she is straight up telling you she's single... In any case I would never turn down a chance to meet a group of cool new people and have fun. One of the biggest obstacles before the first date is the possibility of flaking, but if her friends will be there she's definitely going to show up. Think of them as an asset ra… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Tried to set up coffee date with girl in my class, she insisted on doing it with friends.I have no idea why most of the answers in here are so defeatist, but if I were you I would just go and have a good time. Seriously, she agreed to spend time with you when she could have just as easily said she's busy. How is this a bad thing? At worst you're going to get introduced to a bunch of cool new friends and potential love interests. At best, she's just a little timid, and after you proceed to demonstrate what an awesome person you are in front of all her friends she'll warm up to a 1-on… | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 07:11 PM |
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