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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Ten Lessons from a Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse		scooterdust	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 06:26 PM

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2	Man gets his child taken away due to Utah laws and tumblerina accusses him of throwing a "public tantrum" of it. Someone should ask her how she would feel if she was the child..I mean is it too late for someone to adopt her?	/r/MensRights	03/06/16 09:13 PM
1	It finally happened! I've been banned from /r/feminism for this post. I guess feminists don't like it when somebody points out that their movement has a long history of advocating against giving support to male victims of DV. Mistakes happen. It's all good! Solidarity!	/r/MensRights	02/07/14 06:29 PM
1	It finally happened! I've been banned from /r/feminism for this post. I guess feminists don't like it when somebody points out that their movement has a long history of advocating against giving support to male victims of DV. Glad I could help. Cheers!	/r/MensRights	02/07/14 06:23 PM
1	It finally happened! I've been banned from /r/feminism for this post. I guess feminists don't like it when somebody points out that their movement has a long history of advocating against giving support to male victims of DV. Also, feminisms is another DIFFERENT subreddit. I think you added an extra S.	/r/MensRights	02/07/14 06:21 PM
1	It finally happened! I've been banned from /r/feminism for this post. I guess feminists don't like it when somebody points out that their movement has a long history of advocating against giving support to male victims of DV. I just wanted to make sure because your first sentence is feminists, not feminism. Are you possible an approved poster for /r/feminists? Just to make sure, your first link goes here: /r/feminists and that is coming up as a private subreddit. The OP refers to /r/feminism which is not private. Feminists and Feminism are apparently 2 DIFFERENT subreddits. I don't mean to offend in any way and I apologize in advance if it seems that way.	/r/MensRights	02/07/14 06:17 PM
1	It finally happened! I've been banned from /r/feminism for this post. I guess feminists don't like it when somebody points out that their movement has a long history of advocating against giving support to male victims of DV. Did you possibly mean to link /r/feminism? I ask because the subreddit you link to is apparently private and /r/Feminism is not.	/r/MensRights	02/07/14 06:12 PM
1	Ten Lessons from a Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse and that is what shocked me the most. So much name calling, opinion shaming, and psychoanalysis (said I was self-loathing for what I said previously). Brian Banks was a subject brought up (and I was dubbed "callous" for saying that his time in the NFL after finally being cleared was something he could be happy about). I'd even go as far as to compare this guy to the behavior of extremists like Chanty Binx, someone hiding behind a cause and doing more damage to it then any other group ever could.…	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 10:43 PM
1	Ten Lessons from a Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse The person I'm arguing with is someone who claims to be an extremist MRA. I know he doesn't represent MRA's as a whole, but he actually attempted to shame me for thinking that male victims may attempt to feel better about themselves at some point. I realize I wasn't too clear on what I meant by unpopular. I was referring to this extremist's opinion. I apologize for the confusion. I do appreciate your two cents, typhonblue.	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 09:32 PM
2	Ten Lessons from a Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse I came across this and figured it was worth at least a discussion. I've been entangled in an argument with an extremist about the right for a victim to want to break free of the victim mentality. They believe that victims should always remember they are victims, and they'll never have the power to draw strength from trauma and move forward with their lives, while I argue that any victim has the right to not feel like a victim anymore when they decide they are ready to move forward. I understand …	/r/MensRights	06/05/14 06:38 PM
1	NYT - Does 'Sperm Donor' mean Dad? The last sentence of the first paragraph really hits the nail on the head. That hindsight could imply that both Jason Patric and Danielle Schreiber were comfortable enough with each other to go through with this, and it could also be implied that she was absolutely fine with him being a father until they weren't together anymore. There are so many circumstances to take into account here that it will surely become an even longer, arduous, drawn out legal dogfight. Honestly, we do not know much ab…	/r/MensRights	03/05/14 06:43 PM
8	NYT - Does 'Sperm Donor' mean Dad? It looks like he had notarized and signed proof of his intent to claim his parental rights. Doesn't that make it a legally binding document? If so, extenuating circumstances apply. She won't be able to prove that he is undeserving of his parental rights. It looks like denying his parental rights became her intention after finding this loophole, not from the very beginning. If the relationship history is demonstrated to not have gone through conflict where denying his parental rights is the appro…	/r/MensRights	03/05/14 03:46 PM
2	falsely accused Search out your local Legal Aid office if paying a lawyer isn't an option. Someone please correct me if I am wrong, but would a lawyer be able to issue a subpoena for the daughter's medical history? Assuming the OP's daughter is a minor, would OP be able to ask for those records anyway or does he have to be the custodial parent? Or am I just giving false hope because doctor-patient confidentiality trumps any sort of subpoena? Being able to do this though might vary from state to state though. Ed…	/r/MensRights	03/05/14 03:23 PM
1	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. No problem pointing it out. I would have done the same thing. Glad we've reached an understanding.	/r/MensRights	02/05/14 03:42 AM
1	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. Keep in mind though that you replied to me and went gave me attention for this. Think about that. What debate? How is this "wrong?" This isn't about right or wrong. This isn't about solving anything. It's satire. I was kidding around in that previous post (note the superscript). I'm not on some sort of crusade. You're taking this way too seriously if you actually think that I have a mission to "stop" Coagulate's trolling. I'm certainly not a child (not that it matters but I'm 30 in August), and …	/r/MensRights	02/05/14 03:29 AM
-1	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. and yours is the shortest...so we cover both ends of the rainbow here. Practically makes us brothers (or at least some sort of weird cousin)	/r/MensRights	01/05/14 03:09 PM
-1	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. So you're basically saying that trolls should be ignored, and we shouldn't call them out? So you think trolls can hijack threads and they should be allowed to get away with their dickery but the few of us users who call them out on said dickery are the problem? Infringing on a troll chaser's rights huh? Not in my country buddy-boy!<sup>totallykiddingjustplayingaround</sup> Then again you're the one who attempted to call us out about unproductive comments, so technically your comments about our u…	/r/MensRights	01/05/14 05:38 AM
2	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. Yeah it seems that way.	/r/MensRights	29/04/14 08:25 PM
12	It is never ok to publicly shame children, especially for things they haven't done...unless they're boys. Still trolling Coagulate? If you aren't trolling here, please explain what you mean by "it's not like it is going to affect the males?"	/r/MensRights	29/04/14 08:17 PM