scorof5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Scenario; first date, no connection.	Outer Game	scorof5	/r/seduction	02/11/20 12:06 AM
1	Sifting through the "next" pile.	Outer Game	scorof5	/r/seduction	01/11/20 12:07 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Evening fellas. Does complementing show weakness? I knew a guy, a girl asked him to be her personal trainer and during a session told him she loved the smell of his sweat. He was telling me about it the next day, completely baffled.	/r/seduction	01/01/21 11:51 PM
1	How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test? I'm really bad with shit-tests in general. Height is one I get a lot- I'm 5'10", which I know is not huge but on the tall side, but I'm still really insecure about it for some reason. Have never yet found a good response. I get the "player" one a lot too; I normally act puzzled and (obviously jokingly) pretend I'm a virgin. Seems to work. If anyone has any tips I'd love to hear them.	/r/seduction	01/01/21 11:47 PM
2	Am i being friendzoned? This needs to be in r/askseddit. Seduction is more for general stuff.	/r/seduction	29/12/20 02:08 AM
1	Scenario; first date, no connection. You might have misunderstood; this isn't things getting boring, this is me deciding that I'm not interested in anything deep with the girl.	/r/seduction	10/11/20 12:10 PM
1	I really can't stand negging You can absolutely do without it. But it works wonders if you get a good one.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 11:43 PM
1	I really can't stand negging Not a problem. One good example. You walk up to your desk at work in the morning and sit down heavily. Your colleague, whom you know fairly well but not especially so (probably wouldn't swear around him, neither would you make any special effort to say more than hi), glances up and says, without any particular expression on his (could also be female, his gender doesn't matter and neither does yours) face, "You look tired. Did you get enough sleep last night?" What's your reaction? He's not compl…	/r/seduction	02/11/20 11:41 PM
3	I really can't stand negging Ah, you're talking about negging immediately on approach. Understood. No, I've never done that. 1 it always seems really obvious what you're trying to do, and therefore fake. 2 (building on 1) it goes back to that bit about looking for a neg; if you're looking for someone whom you can walk up to and criticise, you're just a jerk. Negging is the concept of "not being afraid of criticising someone", not "seeking out opportunities to do so." 3 it doesn't convey that you're interested. What's so imp…	/r/seduction	02/11/20 11:20 PM
1	I really can't stand negging Women often aren't as clear as you might think lol. I use them, and they work. My guess would be that they signal that you don't put up with bs without addressing it and you're not afraid of stepping into tension, therefore you're high value, yadda yadda. No, it's not necessarily completely logical, but neither are women. (all humans are feeling creatures that think, but like to believe that they are thinking creatures that feel. Your prefrontal cortex (the logical bit of your brain) doesn't hav…	/r/seduction	02/11/20 10:55 PM
1	I really can't stand negging I just said. The point is not to get angry about it or anything. You just move on to the next thing. I wasn't talking about dominance or anything, I just meant would you go on at a puppy if it got fixated on a cat or something? No, you'd just correct it, and then ignore the issue, continuing your walk. You're not being cruel to it, you're just letting it know that there's some kind of problem.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 10:40 PM
3	I really can't stand negging You've missed the point. The point is you're not angry about it or anything. You just move on, it's not a big deal.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 10:33 PM
1	I really can't stand negging Be wary of examples, because it will make you look for opportunities to use them. However, things like "your make-up is smudged" are generally pretty good. It's very situational and best used very sparsely (otherwise you're a jerk). In a whole first week of interacting with someone I might use 2 or 3 at most.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 08:33 PM
1	Dating post mortems. Have you ever asked a girl what went wrong? Lol, I misread that and thought you meant dating people after they'd died.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 08:19 PM
-4	I really can't stand negging All the comments I've read so far have misguided notions on what negging actually is. Negging is not insulting someone. You aren't trying to make them feel bad. Avoid things they might be insecure about, like weight or looks etc. Negging is not teasing. Negging is serious but not really important, more like an observation. It's signalling that you don't put up with bs without addressing it; you are of high value. Think of it like correcting a dog. You're not being mean, you're just letting them …	/r/seduction	02/11/20 08:14 PM
1	Scenario; first date, no connection. It was a mistake putting that last line in (A way to phrase "look, you're a great person, but we would just never work together. Let's go back to mine anyway," but not as absurd?) as perhaps you latched onto that as a template. It was only meant to be humorous. What I meant was more of the "how you talk to her and treat her."	/r/seduction	02/11/20 01:47 AM
3	Is anyone still practicing seduction during this pandemic? If you're reasonably cautious, you don't have to worry much about chlamydia.	/r/seduction	31/10/20 01:07 PM
2	What does being vulnerable mean ? I think you've misunderstood. Being vulnerable doesn't mean being "broke" or "alone" or in a "hole." Being vulnerable is allowing people to see your flaws, normally more like insecurities. It makes you human, makes people relate to you and shows that you're comfortable around them. With hardships in life, you kind of have to show that you're dealing with them and they don't get you down.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 01:20 PM