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| 8 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Echoing other comments - Be honest from the start. It’s also a good idea to let someone know about your intent before you sleep with them. Dating someone for weeks/ months indicates a serious interest. It’s okay to change your mind but how you’re approaching this could easily be mistaken for intentionally misleading someone. I wouldn’t follow any advice about treating women like crap, objectifying them, or in general engaging in douchebag behavior if you eventually want a LTR/Marriage. You don’t… | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | when meeting a woman physically, should you be seated facing each other or side to sideSo I have been in situations where I was meeting a guy for the first time, and they decided to sit right next to me. This made me feel so nervous and uncomfortable that it never went to a second date. It makes conversation super awkward, and women especially need to feel safe and comfortable on a first date. Side by side is too close and there is a huge chance of being touched uncomfortably or simply bumping your head into each other by mistake. Don’t be a weirdo and sit across from each other t… | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | How to stop fantasizing about a woman?Make your life more interesting than the fantasy. Also, not sure “cycling girls” is the best way to work through your issues. It’s pretty toxic advice and sounds like the quickest way to get STDs and emotionally damage both parties. Fantasizing about the perfect relationship also means that you probably want genuine connection with someone. So figure out what someones traits are in that fantasy, what does your personality feel like and then work to cultivate them in yourself and find someone wit… | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 12:47 AM |
| 39 | A few standards any guy should haveWell then. If someone feels validated from having random guys/girls swipe right on them then I am afraid they have bigger issues than that. It’s also pretentious to think that men don’t use dating apps for free validation as well. Ultimately, a vast majority of people men and women take dating apps lightly. They are either testing the waters or on the fence about actually talking/meeting up with someone from an app. Some who are using to seriously date someone, get burned because they get used f… | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Is there a simple way to not view women as better than you? I can't help it no matter how hard I try.Have you considered that your fuck boy personality and toxic views are the reason for women walking out and feeling insecure about themselves? Women can sense that shit and most women I know are not looking to aggravate a guy (especially with views like yourself) they don’t know that well or are alone with on a date. They are always going to make a reasonable but calm excuse true or not to get out of a situation they are not comfortable in to maintain their sense of safety. Also, you listed out … | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Is there a simple way to not view women as better than you? I can't help it no matter how hard I try.Not sure if this anxiety comes from just seeing someone beautiful or spending time with them? I am sure if you actually spend time with someone like that you’ll find out very quickly how human we all are despite our looks. It’s easy to be intimidated from a distance. Find a way to expose yourself to more people you find beautiful whether its through friendship or romantically, and see if that helps your anxiety. Although, i would say that putting someone down or picking on their negative traits … | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Any tips on strengthening bonds and avoiding disrespect?Deliberately withholding affection is a form of manipulation, and could lead to emotionally abusive behavior very quickly. So no you shouldn’t try to be less emotional and ignore people just to keep them hooked to you. Instead, try and understand what healthy relationship and attraction look likes. Respect is earned, and maintained through consistent thoughtful action, integrity, and kindness. Also, you can never fully understand what goes on between two people fr the outside. Chances are that s… | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 12:50 AM |
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