| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Lock Up This TikTok Star! Zoe LaVerne (19) Dating Connor (13) Is An ABUSRD Double Standard!The world is the way it is today because of men. Look to yourselves for your issues instead of blaming some nondescript entity like the “justice system”, which was formed by men anyways. Encourage your fellow men to stop saying things like, “that’d be a dream come for true for 13 year old me”, “I’d be proud of him if I was his dad”, etc. when sick shit like this happens to boys. Men have had the power to make any societal changes they have wanted since the beginning of mankind. This sub is a fuc… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Lock Up This TikTok Star! Zoe LaVerne (19) Dating Connor (13) Is An ABUSRD Double Standard!How? stop getting so emotional lol | /r/MensRights | 02/12/20 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Lock Up This TikTok Star! Zoe LaVerne (19) Dating Connor (13) Is An ABUSRD Double Standard!Ironically, it’s men’s fault that the justice system doesn’t take assault against minors who are male seriously. | /r/MensRights | 02/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 5 | For only $40 he can promise to never marry you!!This was an interesting read. Thank you for the history lesson- I never thought of how the value and purpose of jewelry have changed overtime. I too would prefer to be proposed to with a brand new Porsche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Stop Talking To Men Who Flirt With YouI remember telling this guy to straight up stop flirting with me because I’m not interested. The idiot responded with, “I like them feisty and argumentative ;)”. Like don’t me fucking laugh dude. Silence really is the only way to get them to fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 18 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...this isn’t helpful at all but I just tried out the filter and I’m f*cking dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 20 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.in a convo with a male, whether platonic or not, I reply with , “I don’t get it” to their dumb, depraved “jokes”. It’s amusing to observe them getting embarrassed as they explain it. I love that men claim women aren’t funny when their humor is the type of shit I was spewing as a 7th grader. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | 🙅🏻♀️Cool story ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 21 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkJesus ducking Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 14 | I needed FDS ten years agoPersonally, I think I needed to go through those shitty years to really be able appreciate and internalize FDS principles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Strategy UpgradeI’m 21 and was on the path described in the 1st part - I feel you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 162 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfI was a healer pickmeisha 💀. I recall one evening when I had homework to do and instead was on the phone listening to this pissbaby whine about his ex and how she broke his heart 🤢 for 2 hours 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 16 | Go build me a table!They want us to take on traditionally man and woman responsibilities/ roles AND treat them like they are the man, protect their egos, minimize ourselves, etc. on top of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:52 AM |
| 44 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.Going a lil off track here: An LVM entanglement of mine would always compliment my qualities BUT he would add, “you’re not like other girls”. That rubbed me the wrong way but I ignored the red flag with the reasoning that he was still a great guy bc he gives me amazing compliments so he must really appreciate and see me as an individual. NOPE! If he says something along those lines, it’s a giveaway that he doesn’t respect women and he definitely doesn’t respect you either no matter what complime… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 29 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Yeah sending nudes will get his attention but the attention he’s gonna give you will be extremely fleeting and meaningless at best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 57 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.In high school, I knew a guy who had a visually unappealing face with bad hair and teeth but every other girl in my school couldn’t help having a huge crush on him (me included) because he was extremely charismatic, confident, book smart, athletic, and kind to everyone. He went to an ivy after graduating. Probably the most attractive person I’ve met to this day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 15 | I knew this guy in high school so I accepted his friend request. Saw this one day.Yes, and also, sharing overly-personal info like that on social media is an indicator of poor self-awareness and emotional intelligence from what I’ve experienced | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?Felt all of this. Deleted all my male contacts too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 27 | Ladies, for the love of God, please don’t move far away from your loved ones just to be closer to your husband’s family.I’m Indian (grew up in the u.s) and this sounds similar to what traditionally happens in my culture- the woman moves in with her husband and HIS family after marriage bc she now “belongs” to his family and she’s expected to be flexible and willing to adjust to the changes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 9 | Should I reach out to him eventually?I think you’re in the wrong sub...anyways, absolutely do not reach out to him. Reading his texts was such a turnoff. If he wanted to be with you, he would be right now, and it really is just that simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 4 | As if someone asked men: which one needs a lift because it’s saggy, an enlargement because it’s small, to be hairfree because it’s not hygienic and maybe even smelly, to be altered because it’s uneven?? And which direction will PROJECTION point?!!!! And how is this not cultural GASLIGHTING???it is so sick. I lot of times these young girls claim they’re getting a boob job bc, “it’s just something I have always wanted!”...🤔 I wonder why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Never say a man is a HVM until you vet him properly.Last guy I was seeing presented as HVM when I first met him, 1 week later he’s texting me, “I’m bored” multiple times while I’m at work, telling me about the time he shat himself, that he flicks his boogers against his office wall, abt his anger toward overly positive people. like not only is that SO off putting but why the fuck are you telling me this shit? Do you not see me as someone worth impressing or is busy/ has a life? God, why does this world allow men to grow up to be this pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 30 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”I cannot believe this is even a real situation someone is experiencing. I hope she 1) takes legal action and 2) dumps this piece of shit. This hurts to read. It seems most males cannot see women as actual people with complicated pasts, thoughts, and emotions- we are just extensions of themselves or their property. Even the ones who try to convince themselves otherwise or cover it up can’t help revealing how they really view you once you “cross” some line of their’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Put yourself first.I’ve always done this because I felt the only value I could provide to anyone—friend, fling, boyf—was to be their emotional dumpster, but that has never made anyone stay. I’ve been working on this issue with others by straight up saying, “I don’t want to listen to you talk about this right now” or something along those lines. If it’s someone I’m not that close to, I’ll just sorta tune them out and give a generic response. This has become easier as I practice truly seeing the value I have that is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 15 | I’m quitting birth control.Always viewed starting birth control as one of the “milestones” of being a woman. I’m 21 and was considering starting in a few months but after reading your post and these comments, I’m seeing it as an option. I don’t need bc for anything besides sex, and I take enough medication impacting my mood as it is so I think I’ll pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 8 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?This is NOT a safe space for men so fuck outta here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | If m*n talk too much about their problems, don’t replyI do the exact same thing lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Omg 🙃 LVMWhat is running through dudes’ heads when they write things out like this expecting someone to respond, and who tf are the women responding to them, if any even are?? Like how can you lack this much self-awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 6 | LVM drowning in expectations.Omg 😆 a month ago, I was “seeing” a guy who made unfunny, gross, sometimes v offensive (rape) jokes, smelled terrible, never cleaned his place and when I told my roommate about it she said, “okay but he’s really nice though. If a guy’s kind to you none of that other stuff should matter”. Although, she wasn’t a pickme, just very naive and sheltered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 13 | Doing nice things for a man won’t make him love you. On the contrary: the more he does for you, the more invested he feels, and the more in control you feel in the dynamic. You’re better off investing your effort into yourself to maximize your value & confidence.Yes. that was the first time I had experienced a dude’s lack of empathy personally and it disturbed me. Now, I almost expect it from them. I remember being in therapy in tears (not just for this, but for depression) and saying, “I don’t understand how guys can change how they feel about you so quickly, if they even felt anything at all” and my therapist (also a woman) just quietly said, “yep” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 24 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️I wouldn’t mind as long as he wasn’t proposing to me with that. I like to make cute handmade embroidery things for my loved ones. However, there was absolutely no need to turn a craft project into a man/ woman/ “gold digger”/ love issue and starting a “debate” on twitter in an attempt to shame women into lowering their standards. This person made a ring out of recyclable material- Ok very cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 20 | Doing nice things for a man won’t make him love you. On the contrary: the more he does for you, the more invested he feels, and the more in control you feel in the dynamic. You’re better off investing your effort into yourself to maximize your value & confidence.a few years ago, I drove 2 hours to a dude’s (who was lovebombing me and begging me to come and meet his friends) school and back to “hang out”, and he suddenly became cold and avoidant the next day. I panicked at the thought of losing this piece of shit and texted him paragraphs (yes cringe but I was 18). He called me a psycho and blocked me on everything. Then proceeded to keep coming back into my life for 2 more years and cause even more damage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 19 | LVM drowning in expectations.Some women think the ultimate goal should be to just lock a man down, any man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 30 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?Not to be dramatic, but when I was a teen, all I wanted was to be deeply in love with someone who felt the same about me. My idealism and naïveté made me an easy target for LVM and manipulators. A number of shitty experiences have made me guarded and stoic, but I still tear up a bit for younger me when I watch certain movies or hear certain songs. I’m very glad that dating is no longer a major part of my life or has a strong influence on my emotions or self-image tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 54 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Yeah I’m a college student and seeing a room like this wouldn’t be out of the norm for me. It would prob negatively influence my perception of that person tho, not gonna lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 46 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?I’m not surprised that 99% of the comments are women saying they’d love it, men complaining about women’s standards being too high, and both of these groups coming together to bash any women who criticized the post/ said they’d leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:56 AM |
| 11 | Tried to have an open conversation about our relationship 😬 yikesBlock. I’ve been here. He will deal with every argument you’ll have together in the future by “filtering out” anything he doesn’t wanna hear. And that’s gonna fuck you up. Just reading this stresses me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 12 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!Thank you, you too <3 and yes, I’ve seen that pattern too. I can’t speak for ASD, but ADHD isn’t only about being disorganized or not sitting still- for me, it’s mainly about having a hard time regulating my emotions, being very sensitive to perceived or potential rejection, and having an overactive imagination that creates over-idealistic visions and hopes that aren’t based on anything substantial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 17 | Woman finds out husband raped his cousin when she was 13 and continued affair throughout their entire marriage. Just when I think I’ve seen it all, men manage to sink to new levels of depravity.what the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 29 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!I was very depressed and lonely in high school- undiagnosed adhd, anxiety, and major depression, and probably other issues that still “go under the radar” to this day. I relate to this a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 7 | ...anyways,less about the message itself and more so that he sent me that at 12am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 8 | ...anyways,Just unmatched lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:21 PM |
| 47 | ...anyways,This. Also, not that tinder is useful for anything substantial, but I was more irritated that he had the audacity to send me a message at midnight for an impromptu hookup, like he hadn’t even considered I was a person with my own life or he just didn’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:08 PM |
| 41 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!This. I just say, “no” and stop responding from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:00 AM |
| 15 | Bonus points for the colourful languageYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 61 | Bonus points for the colourful language“Absolutely gorgeous but so riddled w insecurities and ‘machismo’ that he turned sour in my arms”. God, did we date the same guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:56 AM |
| 13 | Instead of holding rapists/harassers accountable, he mocks women for trying to protect themselves. A true POSI couldn’t even watch the vid the whole way. I know it’s fake but it nearly triggered my fight or flight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Pick-piphany time: ‘tHeRe iS soMeThInG wE cAn Do’ whips out dickThis. In my experience, if the kissing is bad, the rest is going to be bad too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why am I still hurting over thisIs it bad that I do this as well...I have a pic with an old fling (he is covered) on my tinder bc I look really good in it. Not that I use tinder for anything real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:34 AM |
| 9 | The bar is in hell 🖤I’m 21 and got blackout drunk for the first time a few weeks ago. I didn’t even drink much- I suspect the alcohol had a bad reaction with my medication. I haven’t drank since. It’s also common to drink until blackout drunk in college | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:31 AM |
| 4 | The most audacious part of this is that they continuously use the term “partner” instead of “bangmaid” 🤮My brother does this and my parents just accept it—,”he’s just like that” 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 09:22 AM |
| 76 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymoreI deleted my reddit for my mental health and nearly got played twice in the 3 week time span I wasn’t on fds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 9 | I finally did it. I broke it off with him.I block right after so they don’t even get the chance to have the satisfaction of having the last word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?I’m a Scorpio who most often gets involved with men who happen to be Libras. I have to say Libra men are the worst! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Guy from OLD gets angry because I didn’t have sex with him after 2 weeks and 4 dates of knowing him.Absolutely delusional. I can’t believe I would’ve fallen for this a year ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedReading this made me feel so angry for you. Notice how most men ruin any space they occupy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 6 | I’m sure he took care to avoid victimizing BLACK women, right!? John Legend & Chrissy Teigan were involved tooBeen knew. Don’t say anything, tho- you’ll get cancelled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 4 | When you block someone it’s as if you slam the door and lock it.I unblocked after I had gotten over him and then when he came back a week ago, I caved and gave him a chance. Luckily I recognized he was pulling the same exact bs as when we were together, so I cut that off before anything happened. Just keep him blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:44 PM |
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