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Polygamy is illegal in the entire U.S.. You can't have an "islamic marriage" and have more than one wife. This post is not even appropriate in this forum as you are not divorced nor divorcing. This just sounds like you cheated on your wife, got another woman pregnant then you both beat each other up enough to have to have cops involved. Sounds pretty messed up to me and the fact that you don't even know you can't have multiple wives in the U.S. tells me a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 10:22 PM
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Dude, you are in the U.S. and what you are doing is illegal here.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 10:13 PM
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It's OK That You're Not OK by Megan Devine I found helpful for the grief from a long term (30+ years) marriage divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 03:21 AM
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Go talk to an actual attorney, there is no statue for a CIR and that is only governed by the case law (see Connell v. Francisco, 127 Wn.2d 339, 898 P.2d 831 (Wash. 1995)). If you want anything from your partner, you are going to have to take them to court and fight for it. Factor in that the only true winners in that case are going to be the lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 05:44 PM
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Don't come at me dumbass while I'm trying to help by replying to your message. Washington did have a Domestic Partner law before 2012 and if you had filed back then it would have converted to a marriage automatically with the passage of Referendum 74. Since you gave vague details like 10+ years of relationship and separated 3 years, we the readers can only assume the start date at about 13ish years ago and hence the questions about domestic partnership around 2012. Since there is no common-law m…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 05:38 PM
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Assuming you didn't actually register your domestic partnership in the state, then you are not considered married. You didn't say you were married and thus you're not getting divorced. There is no automatic partnership rights based on relationship length (no common law marriage). You are basically out of luck with the first house and will get half the equity of the second which you should sell. You will have to figure out child support based on both your incomes, assuming one of you is going to …
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 01:26 AM
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To add to that, who is a citizen of which country? Is everyone a US citizen? Is nobody a US citizen? Hard to give advise if we don't even know what country and laws would apply.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 04:13 PM
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This is not the place to be begging for money.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 03:25 PM
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It stops if she remarries no matter which box is checked. I don't know of any state where you would continue to pay (granted my legal knowledge of all the states' laws is very much lacking). If you are over the LONG period for your state that would qualify her for permanent alimony and you got her to agree to a fixed length (7 years), then definitely keep the latter box checked. Just note that the judge when reviewing the form at the final hearing will most likely bring this up and may try to co…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 02:57 PM
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You assign a value to it if you can both agree on the value or get a professional appraisal if you can't. Then that value is put in your spreadsheet of things to split up. You can keep it all usually, but the tradeoff is she is going to get something else of value in exchange whether that is a something she wants or just monetary.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 11:59 PM
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Have you gotten a paternity test for the other three kids? Could there be more paternity fraud going on like the first one? In Colorado the kids will fall off child support at age 19, assuming they are yours. And you shouldn't be giving up 85% of all retirement savings. They could be eaten by paying off all of the marital debt, but all marital debt and savings should be split 50/50. You also shouldn't be giving up any pension that you don't actually have yet. Assuming you've been in and active d…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 06:54 PM
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I'd suggest you edit your post and add in a bunch of punctuation. It really is so much of a pain to read without it, I gave up after a couple of run on sentences.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 02:54 AM
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