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1

You remind me a lot of myself when I was maybe 17. Too many (nearly all) of my "friends" were potheads and I wasn't in the most positive place with my life. Work on improving yourself and you'll find that your life gets better in every way imaginable. Best of luck to you.
/r/seduction10/07/11 07:55 PM
1

I'm just overreactive with advertising.
/r/seduction10/07/11 06:14 PM
1

It's not 'covering up' anything, it helps you hone your craft.
/r/seduction30/05/11 01:24 PM
21

Just wear the deodorant. It doesn't "help you in the game", it makes you an adult with hygiene.
/r/seduction26/05/11 12:57 AM
2

Gotta love the awkward moment at 0:48 when he dropped "porno star"
/r/seduction26/05/11 12:52 AM
7

No, there's quite a few douches here.
/r/seduction17/05/11 10:27 AM
2

I just like to differentiate between the terms "seduction" and "attraction".
/r/seduction21/04/11 01:57 AM
1

I think that there is a lot of specific information here that you apply individually and eventually come to a more general realization of how everything works. For example, it doesn't do much good to just say "be yourself and enjoy yourself". However, it does help to say "next time you're out with a girl, ask her to play a game, etc." Eventually these specific pieces of advice form one large philosophy that everyone can somehow interpret. Also, I don't want to be a douche, but I really have to g…
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:13 PM
3

Honestly, I hate the term "seducing" women. It's like tricking them.
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:12 PM
1

You may feel more comfortable going out solo in the Northern countries if you don't share the language as well. It's interesting, because for me in America (English being my main language), I can find it awkward as well to go out solo, but when I was living in Spain I found it much easier.. probably because of the culture there (mostly going out in Madrid and Toledo where I lived), but also because of that simple slight language barrier. I felt much more comfortable because I was speaking a diff…
/r/seduction02/04/11 07:36 PM
1

Any interracial sex is better. I'm a white guy and I think the best sex is always with girls of other races. Might be some primitive thing, like you feel that you're spreading your seed around the globe.
/r/seduction02/02/11 04:44 AM
-1

I don't know why you're being downvoted, it's the truth. Perhaps these people have never seen Louie. There's a scene where he politely begs a teenager to not beat him up in front of his date.
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:31 AM
0

Why not bring it up for discussion. A lot of guys in this field like to delude themselves that it's all about your personality, etc, but show me some pictures of a physically ugly guy who hot chicks are falling over.
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:01 AM
4

I'm curious, how physically attractive do you consider yourself?
/r/seduction29/01/11 09:03 AM
1

Haha I love all this stuff about him shooting some girl in the face. I'd heard of the man before, and read up on his "method", but this shooting a girl in the face stuff is news to me.
/r/seduction26/01/11 07:15 AM
3

Well, it's not your fault. It's inevitable that when a community gets so good it gets worse and worse, plenty of people here on reddit have observed and discussed this. Great idea on the location-based seddits, though. There's definitely a large future in that!
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:49 AM
1

Just created, this will be great.
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:42 AM
1

This is crazy, I'm moving to Austin in six days and literally everywhere I look on the Internet I'm seeing tons of stuff about Austin. Maybe it's that Baader-Meinhoff phenomenon, but I'm definitely down for it - front paged that subreddit for sure. EDIT: Didn't front page it, because it wasn't created. Now it is :D
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:37 AM
3

Yes, we're finally at critical mass to have some of the better known mPUAs (master PUAs) visit our seduction forum. I'm giving it about 4 months until this subreddit turns to complete shit.
/r/seduction24/01/11 04:35 AM
2

I think this is the real crux of it here. Just a form of cognitive dissonance.
/r/seduction22/01/11 08:59 AM
1

Oh, St. Petersburg, that explains everything. I hear it's not uncommon to see 10-year-olds smoking cigarettes there?
/r/seduction22/01/11 12:15 AM
2

What stores sell alcohol after closing time?
/r/seduction21/01/11 07:49 PM
4

Pick yourself up, boy. It's not "the one who got away", it's "out of the 80,000 ones, just one who got away". There are thousands of women in the world who you would have chemistry with. Stop moping about this one and find the others!
/r/seduction18/01/11 04:52 AM
1

First off, don't be "pissed you didn't get any tonight". Stop attaching so much importance to sex. Secondly, you're overplaying the dominance card. She kept trying to arrange for another time to meet, so work with her on that. "I clearly said tonight" - fuck that's painful to read. You tried way too hard to get her over that night. Instead of hammering the "it's my way do it now do it do it" mentality, go for a "this is what's happening, if it doesn't work out then it's your loss" approach. You'…
/r/seduction15/01/11 07:50 AM
1

Next time, just upvote instead of saying 'this'.
/r/seduction15/01/11 04:44 AM
1

I'm curious, how did you incorporate kino into this?
/r/seduction14/01/11 10:23 PM
3

Tim is great. The guy on the left represented what I call "toilet pickup", where he peacocks and does magic tricks and his end goal is basically to just fuck a bunch of girls. But Tim represents the more natural man, who focuses on his self-improvement above all else. Plus, that part about outsourcing your dating was nice, I'll have to give that a try sometime. EDIT: Yes, I know who the the guy is. I was speaking strictly from my impressions of the video.
/r/seduction13/01/11 06:30 PM
6

Yeah, I hear you. I busted a gut yesterday reading a field report about some guy bringing a girl to his apartment and popping in a video of him sky diving. Cringe-worthy but effective, take it as a sign of you advancing in pickup.
/r/seduction13/01/11 06:27 PM
1

No offense taken, this is just my sense of humor. When I read your story, it played out quickly in my mind, and this part reminded me of a textbook PUA ("okay, now I will demonstrate higher value!"). I'm sure that in real life it played out smoothly.
/r/seduction13/01/11 06:22 AM
1

so we end up watching a video of one of my sky dives. Haha I lost it here.
/r/seduction12/01/11 08:00 PM
1

Gee MaysonNSS, I just love how you post these helpful posts. It's like you would never plan on posting links to your blog to eventually make money off of us. It's good to see that you actually care for us!
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:58 PM
1

You wish.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:57 AM
2

What do you mean by "negative pre-selection"? Being pre-selected simply means that girls see other girls interested in you and realize that you have your choice in women, not the other way around. She realizes that you're alpha and that she will have to pursue you and earn the right to sleep with you, because you could easily sleep with any other woman. It'll be interesting to read the responses to your other questions, because these delve from self-improvement seduction to some pretty deep soci…
/r/seduction10/01/11 08:02 AM
6

Haha I was going to downvote you because of the OP's success, but I'll admit when I read the part about his friend shouting out to him, "like a boss!" I pictured the friend as some nerdy-ass motherfucker.
/r/seduction10/01/11 03:36 AM
2

So want to go back to my place and uh... watch a movie?
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:29 AM
1

Yeah, that's the fast-track to attraction.
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:11 AM
2

WOW. This is perfect. I'm moving to Austin in about 3 weeks and don't know anybody there. This is like a gift from god, cannot upvote enough. Many thanks! EDIT: Seriously, I'm going to go through your history and upvote everything you've ever written.
/r/seduction08/01/11 12:05 AM
1

This "stacking" sounds like some bullshit unnecessary term. Internalize everything you learn until you become the man.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:34 AM
1

Get off stage. Keep my head high, try to maintain confidence. I go back to where I was, and neither set I had left even looks at me after that. It was pretty damned devastating. Haha oh god man that sounds painful. To truly improve we all have to make mistakes.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:28 AM
1

Haha I want to upvote your joke but fear that this will cause asianplayboy to win.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:14 AM
1

Take his advice on having 5 go-to questions locked in your mind that you can bounce around. It's scripted but it's a start.
/r/seduction05/01/11 07:08 AM
2

Rule #1: If you have to ask advice about a certain girl, you won't be able to get her. It's too late, move on. Read the advice posted in this subreddit.
/r/seduction05/01/11 06:52 AM
0

Honestly, I don't think this would work nearly as well on guys. Personally, if a woman did this to me I wouldn't take it in stride and just move on to the next lady. With that being said, some light-hearted banter is always good and fun. I'm sure this somehow relates to the basic social standards that men pursue women, and not vice versa.
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:17 PM
4

You guys, the marketing on Reddit is a serious problem. The more we put up with it, the worse the community will become until Reddit is synonymous with shit, just like Digg has become. Here's more info and pics of the "asian playboy" I think everybody needs to understand that these people are here to make money off of you. Take it from me and from other people; we are not trying to profit from you so you can be confident that we're telling you the truth. Asian Playboy and other marketers are her…
/r/seduction04/01/11 12:56 AM
2

It's a word of warning. Seddit is currently sliding quickly down the slopes to being completely shitty. I'm not typically an alarmist person either; this is a legitimate problem.
/r/seduction04/01/11 12:49 AM
2

Ouch man. Is this real?
/r/seduction04/01/11 12:42 AM
1

Video is not working. Can somebody post a mirror?
/r/seduction03/01/11 03:47 AM
4

I think you actually knew the definition and were trolling, but then when he responded, you felt bad so you thanked him to continue the act so that he wouldn't feel bad.
/r/seduction03/01/11 03:38 AM
1

Bullllshiiiit. If you were speaking the truth, I challenge you to not link to your blog in the future, and simply post all the contents here. I await your response.
/r/seduction31/12/10 03:29 AM
-5

Generic advice from a self-promoter. Shameless and pathetic.
/r/seduction30/12/10 07:54 PM
1

I wasn't referring to anything about the article. I'm referring to the fact that the OP is using Reddit as a giant billboard for his blog. I couldn't care less about white women being rejected by asian men.
/r/seduction29/12/10 05:38 PM
10

AFC habits come back out. This is a problem most people are stuck with for a while. They can dominate a scene, but then on day 2 they're back to their old AFC self. In the future, before you meet her get some energy pumping, jump up and down a couple times, get your blood pumping and it will be much easier to build attraction.
/r/seduction27/12/10 10:35 PM
3

Rule #1: If you have to ask how to get a certain girl, you won't be able to get her.
/r/seduction27/12/10 10:30 PM
1

I know it's looked down on in the community, but if you're here at the last minute and worried about tonight, then drink up. Get drunk (not wasted) and it will be a lot easier. Walk around a lot, and go to many new places. If you stay in one spot for 30 minutes not talking to anyone, you'll be put in a giant slump and it will destroy your night.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:26 PM
2

Nice, easy story. Too many reports here are about destroying a club and making out on the dance floor. Shows that there are many aspects to the game.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:16 PM
4

Excellent subreddit. Two essential pieces of advice: Don't ever sell out. Don't let it get diluted with pointless shit.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:11 PM
1

The one single important thing I want to add is: SPAM. It's getting more prevalent, and it's up to us sedditors to put an end to it. If you see a submission linking to "www.magichookupmethods.com" and the OP's username is "magichookupmethods", downvote the shit out of it, and downvote the shit out of anything submitted in the past by that person. These people may be giving "good advice", but the end goal of ALL of them is to get a list of email addresses and sell you a product. I know this becau…
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:08 PM
1

I think OP was just referring to the fact that this guy is thinking with his penis. It's good to have your penis motivate you to fuck girls, but in this case this guy's penis controls his entire being, having sex with anything that moves.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:02 PM
5

In that case, weed him out, but not even slowly. Stop calling him immediately. If he tells you he wants to hang out make up excuses. Hang out less and less. Keep in mind that every woman (and most men) will judge you based on your friend's behavior. If you go out with him and associate with him, it will really hurt you socially.
/r/seduction26/12/10 08:00 PM
2

But how is he supposed to AMOG the AFC without DHVing? Maybe throw out some IOIs and LJBF the guy, and Neg the HB9. GL & HF.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:38 PM
1

I don't even need to click to know what that - oh yeah, yup your username confirms it.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:36 PM
2

Do NOT get her a gift in preparation of her stopping by. Appreciate her gift and as someone else here said, if it's nice tell her you'll take her out to dinner or something sometime. But honestly it sounds like her "gift" is going to be her pinning you to the mattress.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:34 PM
1

Good advice. Make yourself laugh as well, when you tell the story replay it in your head as the most balls-out hilarious version. When you truly find it funny yourself, others almost automatically will.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:33 PM
1

What do you mean by spinning plates?
/r/seduction24/12/10 08:12 AM
6

turtle2hare used "bullshit call-out". It's extremely effective.
/r/seduction24/12/10 08:10 AM
3

Really what. And how is this funny?
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:56 AM
8

This is misleading to the girl. Hang out with her once a week, change the subject when she brings it up? What the fuck. Tell her straight up what your expectations are if she asks. Don't "pretend" that she has a chance with you, it will all just make her feel like shit in the end. People call me a dick but it's stuff like this that defines the real douchebags.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:33 AM
1

Californication should be required viewing for everyone in seddit.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:28 AM
1

You're just making that one GIANT transition that every one of us has to, that goes from trying to be, to actually being. I'm sure you've heard the term "fake it til you make it" on here a lot. Well, it's true. Keep doing this stuff again and again and pretty soon you'll internalize it and truly become confident.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:27 AM
0

not very motivated about the gym You want to learn how to get women but can't be motivated to go to the gym? Ask yourself how badly you want this. There are plenty of clubs that are 18+ unless you live in a small town. It sounds like the people at this Jr. College are not for you. Either turn it up to 11 or GTFO out of there, my $.02
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:24 AM
1

Literally. When he's in the middle of talking to you in front of a group of people, yell out to someone across the room and walk over and welcome them and start talking to them. It only needs to be done once.
/r/seduction23/12/10 08:05 PM
1

We'll tell you what happened, when you tell us if his actions made you more or less attracted to you.
/r/seduction23/12/10 07:40 AM
1

"I was negging the shit out of this girl and I didn't hook up with her, what am I doing wrong?" Hahaha oh god. Yeah, there are plenty of forums, google "seduction forum" and I'm sure you'll find 5 good ones on the first page.
/r/seduction23/12/10 07:00 AM
2

I definitely need to keep the "just have a friendly fucking conversation like a normal person" principle in mind to avoid the "I need to seduce her" mindset which makes me freak out. This is a key element. Once you can do this one thing, so many other better things will fall into place. She can sense that you're not there to fuck her, and she'll feel more comfortable and attracted to her. You won't freak yourself out, so you'll be able to talk more calmly and confidently. It will be easier to ap…
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:58 AM
1

What do you mean by "street game"? I usually break it down to "day game" (one-on-one, deeper getting to know you stuff) and "night game" (balls to the walls, have fun go crazy and hook up)
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:54 AM
3

TL;DR: OP is in high school and has oneitis. Story of everyone's life. I don't want to bust on your balls because you remind me so much of how I was. You're in high school and the odds that you'll end up in a LTR with this girl are slim. It's good that you're reading and analyzing this shit, it'll eventually become subconscious. Just be cool with her, don't overanalyze each process and tell yourself "okay, now I must execute Neg 42 to maintain my frame". Analyze this when you're at your house an…
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:51 AM
1

We text up words of 3500 texts a month Whaaaaaaaaaaat??
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:44 AM
1

HATERS GONNA HATE. Ignore the negative feedback. You wrote the answer right there yourself, "fake it til you make it". It can be hard to wait until you "make it", but that's just the truth of it. There's no magic pill solution, and if there was, then every guy would be doing it and you wouldn't be special.
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:40 AM
1

Move with the beat of the music, and slowly work your way through the crowd getting close with girls until you find one that attaches to you.
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:38 AM
1

Haha his accent is so great "Okay so you do dees...okay good, yeah just side to side, okay? Yeah, and like the girl now is really hot"
/r/seduction23/12/10 06:37 AM
0

You should get some mental health. I'm not saying you have a disorder, but a therapist will be able to help you get your head straight.
/r/seduction23/12/10 03:29 AM
2

Texting a friend and asking her what to do? For fuck's sake, man up. All I see on this page are 3 pages of whining that you didn't get the girl you wanted (wait, still want). I don't want to sound like a dick because you seem like a cool guy, but this is how you need to be talked to. You're a fucking pussy. Next time don't give a shit about the girl because she's not that hot anyways. Do whatever the fuck you want and pretend that everyone else there is super ugly.
/r/seduction23/12/10 02:09 AM
7

Come on you guys, how was this shameless self-promotion upvoted? How about showing a video of you actually going up and talking to girls instead of heavily breathing into a microphone over a slideshow of models.
/r/seduction23/12/10 01:58 AM
1

"Okay, so you conned me all the way to bed just so you could drop this on me? Well have a good night!" You had the right approach but this response was way too overboard. Right here you're officially letting her know that you came all this way just to sleep with her. Instead, you should have given her one last push of making out etc, then said "don't worry about it" and pulled away/turned the lights on, etc.
/r/seduction21/12/10 02:27 AM
0

Everybody should downvote this shit. Reddit is slowly being taken over by shameless self-promotion and it's up to us users to stop it. Not to mention it's a fucking terrible article.
/r/seduction19/12/10 11:20 PM
1

Everybody should downvote this shit. Reddit is slowly being taken over by shameless self-promotion and it's up to us users to stop it. Not to mention it's a fucking terrible article.
/r/seduction19/12/10 11:20 PM
1

Ah yes, the dichotomy of pickup. The good side vs. the dark side. Well, the point of it is that it works very well at attracting women. It may seem that these guys are all douches, but when you get into it you'll see that while many guys may neg women, some of them do it in a (relatively) positive way, almost playfully. And others do it in a very douchey way, these guys are true douches. Sweet jesus am I tired.
/r/seduction18/12/10 07:30 AM
5

Ah, I see you didn't "see what I did there". Negging is when you give someone backhanded praise. Like a condescending compliment. It's meant to be delivered in a positive light, so that the girl doesn't think that you're intentionally "insulting" her. For example, if a girl's hair is kind of messy, say "I like your dress, it flows so nicely with your hair". Or, in your case, "It's so great that you ask questions, it's how you learn when you're a newbie amateur" ;)
/r/seduction18/12/10 03:04 AM
1

See what I did there?
/r/seduction18/12/10 02:56 AM
4

Ahh...only in seddit will you come across the words "Ideal response would be her... calling you a jerk/smacking you"
/r/seduction18/12/10 12:22 AM
1

In generally it's a good thing because it shows that she's interested, but this example you gave here might just be a girl taking a shit on you. If your frame was a strong one, she was just testing you, but if you were "tagging on" in the group and not the alpha, then she may have definitely just been blatantly disrespecting and putting you down.
/r/seduction17/12/10 09:42 PM
7

It's so great that you ask questions, it's how you learn when you're a newbie amateur.
/r/seduction17/12/10 09:38 PM
2

Sometimes when a guy makes a girl cry, she is more attracted to him because he is able to stir her emotions like that. It's fucked up but true. Keep in mind that because you clearly disapprove of this guy's actions, you will naturally be biased to interpret their body language as being unattracted to him.
/r/seduction13/12/10 06:00 AM
3

Yeah, it's shitty, but just like being a Sith it's important to embrace the full power of the dark side of the force.
/r/seduction13/12/10 05:28 AM
-1

Before you post something, ask yourself, "will people regret spending their time reading this comment?" EDIT: Downvoted? IMHO this is important advice that everyone should keep in mind.
/r/seduction13/12/10 05:26 AM
0

You can analyze the shit out of this video, but nothing will change the fact that his actions were attractive to these girls.
/r/seduction13/12/10 05:25 AM
3

Oh, sorry! So sorry!
/r/seduction13/12/10 05:21 AM
4

It took me waaay too long to figure out that you're a lesbian.
/r/seduction11/12/10 07:04 PM
-10

But bro...it was for a chick
/r/seduction11/12/10 06:32 PM
5

Haha I love how he writes out pages about seducing a 9, making out and spending the night with her, is well written, and then you manage to cut it all down in 5 seconds. Upvoted.
/r/seduction11/12/10 06:32 PM
2

The "misogynist" card is played by...prudes...twat...radical feminists. There are really only two kinds of PUA: assholes who are out to get laid no matter the cost, and guys who are looking to improve their personality and social interactions to become a more attractive person.
/r/seduction30/11/10 05:27 PM
2

Great post man, so much good information here. This post should almost be included as a primer for anyone new to Seddit. Saved.
/r/seduction30/11/10 05:23 PM
5

Also, most people there are there for just one reason: to work out. Socializing with strangers takes you so much out of your vibe.
/r/seduction26/11/10 06:10 AM
1

Touché
/r/seduction26/11/10 03:45 AM
2

Smile at them openly and make a come-hither gesture. I just can't see this working very well.
/r/seduction25/11/10 10:51 PM
4

First class, yo what a spaz, drinking apple juice out of a champagne glass. Man, is this how people in Bel Air live like? This might be alright! Rare extended intro FTW
/r/seduction25/11/10 10:27 PM
1

Thanks for the explanation, but cock or not you can't deny that these girls are attracted to him here because of his dominant frame.
/r/seduction24/11/10 09:10 PM
1

Downvoted? Seriously?
/r/seduction24/11/10 06:58 AM
2

Chillax, bra.
/r/seduction20/11/10 07:26 AM
5

Leave the fleshlight on the counter.
/r/seduction20/11/10 02:42 AM
2

Easy, bro.
/r/seduction20/11/10 02:41 AM
1

He obviously realizes there's some value to it OP: How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it? I'm going to assume you're trolling.
/r/seduction16/11/10 02:36 AM
1

I think it's definitely important to look at the concept of negging and why it's important, not necessarily learn how to use it. It's important because the overall concept of maintaining an image of higher value is important. And as for facebook, I wouldn't dance around too much there. Keep it short and simple. Save the cocky for real life, but don't overdo it and be a dick.
/r/seduction16/11/10 01:53 AM
2

and you realized that you would benefit greatly from playing hockey What I'm saying is that the OP doesn't realize whether or not playing hockey would benefit him.
/r/seduction16/11/10 12:21 AM
1

It will still work on 7's and 8's, you just have to be a bit more careful in your wording, don't make it as harsh.
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:51 PM
4

You've got the entire paradigm wrong. It's not about getting a girl "addicted" to your compliments until she "owes" you sex. And it's not aimed towards girls with low self-esteem. It's meant for girls of higher value (9's and 10's) to show them that you remain unfazed and composed in their presence.
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:49 PM
2

Yeah man these people who are trying to profit off Reddit fucking piss me off. Look at all of this guy's submissions, he's just using Reddit for his own gain. "Best, Rob Judge" Go fuck a duck, rob. I'm downvoting anything you'll ever submit.
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:46 PM
5

If you think something is a weak point, why would you avoid doing it? Because, as he stated, he doesn't know how important the skill is. For example, I suck at playing hockey, but it doesn't mean I'm going to practice. However, if I sucked at chewing and swallowing my food, I would definitely want to get on improving it.
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:40 PM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/seduction15/11/10 06:23 PM
1

She was gazing pretty damn dreamily at him throughout that whole video.
/r/seduction10/11/10 05:32 PM
1

No man, there's a huge difference between peacocking and dressing nicely. Peacocking is fucking ridiculous, standing out just because you're dressed so wildly differently than everyone else. Dressing nicely makes you stand out because it automatically makes you appear of higher status.
/r/seduction09/11/10 06:06 AM
1

You either have it or you don't. When you "fake it", you're really just giving yourself confidence.
/r/seduction09/11/10 06:05 AM
3

There's more than one approach.
/r/seduction09/11/10 06:04 AM
2

Ouch man, sorry but that was a bit painful to read. Less exclamation marks and shorter messages. It's sad because you seem like a nice guy and unfortunately that nice shit doesn't cut it. But hey, big learning experience!
/r/seduction07/11/10 06:45 AM
1

Definitely texting. I can confidently talk to girls, but for some reason if I call and get a voicemail I'm at a slight loss for words and it gets exponentially more awkward the longer I leave the voicemail.
/r/seduction03/11/10 03:05 AM
2

Haha oh god that was painful to watch.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:08 AM
1

Bro, I game HB2s all the time.
/r/seduction14/09/10 05:20 AM
5

what?
/r/seduction14/09/10 05:11 AM
3

Nice work man. I know what you mean about faking it til you make it. It's all about how you carry yourself and how you talk. What really got me going was saying stuff SUPER LOUD. Also, positioning yourself physically like you are in a confrontation with somebody helps a ton (sounds dickish; don't actually 'confront' them but in your mind if you tell yourself that this person just talked shit about you, it gives you much more confident body language)
/r/seduction14/09/10 02:37 AM
2

It sounds like you might have some more deep-seeded problems then. Anytime you're hating on everyone and everything, whether you're drunk or not, you should evaluate how you present yourself and interact with other people, and how their reactions influence your behavior. Changing your inner game is very important, and the necessary step to succeed in soooo many social situations.
/r/seduction04/09/10 06:03 AM
5

clique
/r/seduction04/09/10 06:01 AM
2

Get you laid.
/r/seduction01/09/10 02:25 AM
1

Bro, I game HB3's all the time.
/r/seduction01/09/10 02:24 AM
1

Ironically, that's Law 28.
/r/seduction24/08/10 10:55 PM
1

It's simple: you need to get over this girl. This is just oneitis, don't post into relationship advice because they'll tell you everything you need to do to try to "save" your relationship with this girl. Forget about her. If that is impossible for you to do, you need to tell her the truth. Tell her that you cannot see her anymore because you like her as more than a friend and that if it's not going to work out it kills you to just be friends. And move on with your life mate! Tons of guys go thr…
/r/seduction24/08/10 02:52 AM
2

I can tell you are :)
/r/seduction24/08/10 02:50 AM
1

Ha! Ha! Not! Funny! I! Actually! Do! And! I! Will! Get! Fired! If! I! Ever! Stop! This!
/r/seduction22/08/10 07:06 PM
28

Every sentence! Ends with an exclamation! How fun!
/r/seduction22/08/10 06:17 AM
2

pro tip: one good conversation to get into is: why men are better than women. Anyone have any experience with this one? Sounds interesting
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:21 PM
2

HB3?
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:20 PM
1

Considering the fact that this girl was "posh", I doubt this would work well. Tasteless.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:19 PM
1

Do make fun of what she does, don't make fun of who she is or what she looks like. A lot of good advice here. Should be top comment.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:18 PM
2

I agree. Save the "showing up late" for parties and large events, not for keeping a girl by herself tapping her fingers.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:16 PM
1

This is the exact same for me. Even though I dumped her, when she started dating who was my close friend and roommate at the time, it was fucking rough. I can imagine it's even worse if it happens to a girl.
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:10 PM
1

Bro, I say give her the beans
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:08 PM
2

It's not actually about being good at dancing, but just being confident with your body and having a good time. I don't consider myself a superb dancer, but at clubs all the time I just get into "the zone" where I'm moving my body and having a good time and taking up a lot of space and ignoring girls, and then I turn around 10 girls are staring and thinking "I want that". On the dance floor, it's essential to not go up to girls and try to "join" their dance, but to start something big and energet…
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:05 PM
2

The way I see it, there were two possible routes to take there, and what you did was kind of take the middle road between the two. You could either have kept dancing and completely ignored him (making sure that his insult didn't screw up your inner game), or confronted him and in a loud voice ask him "ahh, it's okay buddy, not everybody can dance. Let me teach you how" In the end though, girls walk away all the time. No big deal man!
/r/seduction21/08/10 08:02 PM
2

I want to hear about the other 47 Laws.
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:46 PM
1

Smile and say "no, sorry." If she presses the point, just calmly repeat yourself, and tell her that you don't hold purses.
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:44 PM
7

I don't want to sound like a dick but I had a pretty hard time following your story, I'll assume it's because you're european. ("he said that doing his job is the priority, then having fun, and I just told him "so, what's up" to piss even more the lonely guy" ???) It sounds like you've definitely discovered how to pull your balls out and be alpha, but it's a bit forced. The fact that you were actively trying to put yourself a step above this guy means that you may not have actually been more alp…
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:48 PM
1

I posted a comment about this here already, but: TL;DR: Don't throw the 'date proposal' at her in a semi-joking cocky/funny manner. Look her in the eyes and tell her what you want. Save the fun for when you're on your date.
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:35 PM
5

Don't ask her out in a cocky/funny way, because then you're being indirect. It may come across as you being slightly nervous, because you can't just look her in the eyes and plainly tell her "I want to take you out to dinner". If you ask her out in a strong, direct manner, she'll be naturally inclined to follow you, but if you throw it out there as a half-joke, she'll be less certain about going out with you. The Game isn't about "tricking" women into liking you, it's about developing a confiden…
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:33 PM
1

The oldest woman was 23 years old. I have a more youthful appearance, I think if I'm going to go for a 40 year old I'll wait maybe 5 years.
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:03 PM
1

Ah, I see. Also, I think in many circumstances it may be easier to approach foreigners / people are more receptive to foreigners. (sometimes)
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:43 AM
1

As an American guy (with Swedish ancestry) I believe that Swedes in general are a bit more "reserved". However, have you ever thought that perhaps they are "hard to approach" because you yourself are reserved (being a Swede)?
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:36 AM
1

Haha you'll probably bomb. But that's okay! Remember the experience because it will be fun no matter how it turns out.
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:32 AM
1

Holy shit that sounds awesome. Best of luck. I hope to not see you on here again :)
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:29 AM
1

No, there's nothing wrong with it. I just find older women a bit...spent/gross? I'm only 21 though, for perspective. If she was attractive, I'd go for it, I just have this stereotype of women in their 40s.
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:23 AM
1

Haha I read up on that NathanPUA guy choking a student. Funny shit, especially after googling him and finding out he's nobody and is only famous now for the choking incident.
/r/seduction20/08/10 04:34 AM
1

It sounds like you're fairly new to the pick-up community. You need to be physical with her in real life for her to feel strong attraction towards you. So when you do meet her, be physical with her and maintain strong eye contact (but don't be creepy). Don't whine or be submissive to her. When you meet up, have a leading frame, have something planned out. Don't just ask her "soo..what do you wanna do?" and wait for her to react. Bring her places. Keep in mind, you may likely fuck this up, and th…
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:42 AM
5

Wrinkled ass.
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:23 AM
1

The face value of "role play getting married" sounds creepy, but it can be a fun game to play with girls.
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:20 AM
6

"Hey Daaaan?? My computer thing is all broken, can you fffiiixxx iittt?? <3 <3"
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:16 AM
4

You'd be surprised how effective meeting girls in your classes is. Seriously, game that shit up. Speak loudly to girls in class so that people in your vicinity all look at you when you're talking (so long as it's before/after class starts, etc. Don't be the interrupting douche). Your description of "quietly confident" is actually "true" confidence. Unfortunately in our society we apply the term "confidence" to simply mean social confidence. Psychiatrist? Come on man, YOU ARE THE SHIT. Now go out…
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:13 AM
2

"No wait, stop! Don't go! Let me ask you where you're from! I neeed yooouuu!"
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:07 AM
1

best pair of silicone titties Is that a thing?
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:05 AM
1

Are your cats are making too much noise at night?
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:04 AM
1

If I see her again today im going all or nothing Much easier typed than done. Get out there and practice practice practice. Recite "nothing to lose" in your head. And do it.
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:03 AM
2

1..2..3..4..Yep, they're all shit. Except with the possibility of (if you have already gamed her and gotten her comfortable) pulling off the little-weight part of #4.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:59 AM
1

Ahh...shower sex
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:57 AM
1

No activity with a girl is "bad". Worst-case scenario, he spends time with this girl and brushes up his game, gains confidence and experience for future activities.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:53 AM
1

What, do you have no sense of style?
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:51 AM
1

Pick her up and carry her back to your place.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:50 AM
0

Dressed for the gods! Casual club nights, just dark jeans with a solid H&M button-down shirt, with a ring on each middle finger. If I'm going to really kill it, a monotone dress shirt with a slim polyester vest & tie. Peacoat over it all. My God, Fedora? Why not. It's amazing what dressing up in nice clothes does to you. It is an automatic DHV that people consistently respond to, and this automatically puts you into the right mindset: that you are the shit. I'd recommend checking out /r/malefash…
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:41 AM
1

Haha upvotes for the blatant honesty.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:37 AM
3

Doing 90% of the talking is bad, even right away.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:32 AM
1

Don't lean in, just maintain your dominant frame, and in a loud voice say "Sorry it's loud in here, you need to speak up."
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:31 AM
0

Hahahaha oh god I'm laughing out loud
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:27 AM
1

I think he's not referring to the physical attractiveness of the woman, but perhaps of the concept of gaming single mothers who are looking for something more stable than just a casual hookup. Which I assume he assumed you are looking for. My 2 cents.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:26 AM
2

Haha you feel used for sex? Jesus dude, I try to be as objective as possible, but this sounds like you contacted her and knew before even talking to her that she was single and needing a fuck, possibly somewhat emotional. Single moms are not exactly "looking for casual sex". You sent her a poem that made her cry, and managed to fuck her. Ehh... I think I'll be able to judge you better when I here what happens in the weeks after this. Downvotes be damned.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:23 AM
1

It seems like you have a really negative viewpoint on this, mate. To say that "most marriages are fucked up" is kind of sad, I wish you the best in being able to happily be satisfied with your wife someday (should you choose to marry and have kids)
/r/seduction20/08/10 01:51 AM
2

Sounds fucking easy. Just got to convince myself there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/seduction20/08/10 01:18 AM
2

I had not heard of the technique of picking a word and coming up with an opener around it. Just going through some theoretical situations in my mind, it sounds like a great idea. I'll have to give it a shot, upboats for the advice!
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:26 AM
2

Nice job man. A lot of people in the community think it's all about "banging hot chicks, brah" but when you study this stuff you can really learn to command your presence and voice in front of a group. Having complete control over your body and feeling 100% comfortable. I'm sure you don't need to be told what a great feeling that confidence brings :)
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:23 AM
1

Hahaha that was the funniest shit to read.
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:51 AM
2

DUDES A TROLL
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:51 AM
1

This is the best advice. Importantly, be sure to switch subjects/tangents IMMEDIATELY to convey that her insult didn't affect you in the slightest. The longer you wait, the longer the silence is, and the more it seems that her insult affected you. Also, change your attention to somebody else. Do not give her any attention for some time after the insult. Assuming, of course, that the insult took place face-to-face and not on FB. (by the way...insulting someone over FB? Probably not the type of co…
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:00 AM
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