scotty_doesntknow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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12	Making this thread to prove male shallowness: What physical features you have no control over has a man criticized on you before? “You’re using lip gloss, huh? Don’t you think a woman your age should wear lipstick, instead?” By “woman my age” ...I was 27 at the time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 11:32 PM
33	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 True, but (as much as I can remember, at least) he was always supportive and loving to her. And didn’t press her to build his career for him - he was already working and developing his career and networks when she found him, and she made the choice to help make him famous. I’m sure it didn’t hurt that she was willing to help his career, but it wasn’t the crux of their relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 08:33 PM
26	15 daughter notices her dad is a LVM, encourages Mom to leave him...dad finds out and blows up at daughter I never understand the Stay Together For The Kids argument (probably because I refused to). What’s better to model for your kids - that it’s ok to leave a relationship where you are treated badly and aren’t respected? Or that you should put up with disrespect and infidelity with a plastered-on smile because your partner is essentially using your kids as hostages? “Well I know you’d be happier without my BS, but think of little Sam and Jane...you leaving due to my wandering penis would just DEVAS…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:30 PM
86	15 daughter notices her dad is a LVM, encourages Mom to leave him...dad finds out and blows up at daughter I was pretty grossed out by the commenters chiding her for having an opinion because “you can’t understand an adult marriage.” Seems like she understands just fine, and doesn’t want to buy in to the same keep-the-marriage-at-all-costs brainwashing that dad was hoping to leverage to keep mom in permanent pick-me limbo. Also additional shout out to all the women responding with “well my husband cheated and it devastated me but we Worked On Our Marriage and he’s DIFFERENT now I swear and we’re sooo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 07:08 PM
128	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 Steve suuuuuuucked, though. At least in the movie where (spoiler) he cheats on her and then basically blames her for it. And Miranda, the high powered take no shit lawyer, finds herself sponge bathing Steve’s mom in Brooklyn where previously she was doing things on her own terms in the borough she preferred. Also Harry is good but team Smith Jared all the way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 05:14 PM
49	Where to Meet Wealthy Men Read “the Millionaire Next Door.” Outside of “Pretty Woman” daydreams, wealthy men are not all hanging out at the Veuve Cliquot Polo Classic. They’re out buying off-lease Toyotas. A wealthy man is much more likely to be someone who saves his wealth and spends modestly. Hanging out at luxury gyms early in the morning sounds like advice for meeting Patrick Bateman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 02:27 PM
6	Bunch of LVM men complaining about paying for a woman’s meal I honestly think men use it as an excuse to justify not paying, to see if the woman will scramble to prove she’s not one of those evil manipulative foodie ladies that are apparently legion and out there preying on helpless men for free chicken Caesar salads. I mean, I’ve had men offer to take me to really nice places in hopes it’ll give them a chance to shoot their shot...but if I accept, that’s not a “foodie call.” It’s just a date where he’s basically hoping to bribe me into giving him a chanc…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 10:01 PM
4	Don't date a man who lives with his lesbian ex-wife Is it possible to send the link to the full thing? I have someone I maybe need to send this to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 08:52 PM
32	Bunch of LVM men complaining about paying for a woman’s meal So do you personally do this? Because I see this “foodie call” assertion everywhere as if it’s common, but have literally never met a woman who says she personally has lined up dates solely for the purpose of free food. 99% of women would much rather not go through the hassle of dating just to score a $12.99 entree.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 04:24 PM
7	How to vet a guy during a date? Psychological tricks? Very small but simple test...yawn, and see if he has a “contagious” yawn. Psychopaths, on average, do not experience contagious yawns like other people do. Lack of a contagious yawn does NOT mean he’s a psychopath, to be clear...but it’s a data point you can consider when evaluating a person overall: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-online-secrets/201508/why-psychopaths-are-immune-contagious-yawning (For male lurkers - this is also true for female psychopaths) Other small tests - ina…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/20 05:50 AM
4	Being a "bonus mom" My ex has one of these too! I’m so grateful for her even though I’m sure her life is hell living with him. He literally stalked her like prey a little while after we broke up and I refused to take him back, because she’s a lovely and competent woman with low self esteem. She’s amazing to my kid even as my kids actual dad ignores him unless it’s for a posed “best dad ever” insta post. Let’s pour one out for the pickmeishas out there doing the lord’s work (and hope they wise up once kiddos are col…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 01:48 AM