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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Patterns in communicationI am sure the perfect partner for you is out there who will figure out just the right way to communicate or, more likely, just accepts imbalance and handles it internally without bursting. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Patterns in communicationAgain, I dont believe you're reading what I'm writing. I held both sides accountable. But clearly not ready to explore multiple ways to tackle issues. Good luck and I so hope you find a good space to show up for your relationships in the future as well as someone doing so for you. Otherwise, I fear this will be a persistent problem you'll face repeatedly. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Patterns in communicationSeems there's a great deal of wilfull decisions to hold onto a narrative and not actually absorb whats being said in these comments. Good luck and I pray that changes for those here before dating again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Patterns in communicationTouche on the latter point I didnt realise where this post popped. But Im glad it did. Again I believe you missed what I was saying in my comment previously. If someone expresses themself about the effect of the others behavior...and then that person continues to exhibit that same behavior repeatedly...that is not nagging. Example - i work remotely from home. My ex husband repeatedly would disrespect my job and space within my office by constantly interrupting me on meetings. I spoke to him abou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Patterns in communicationOf course the men are chiming in with praise to this analogy.... I would note that most women will express their needs nicely and clearly and after doing this repeatedly and their spouse/significant other continues to conduct themselves the same way, this results in a pattern like what you describe. I would stress however that this take is basically exonerating men for their behavior and placing complete blame on women. This isnt healthy or accurate and ultimately, these views spread to other me… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 08:11 PM |
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