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What else are you going to convert it to? Yards?
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:16 PM
1

I think the only women you’re going to find at the bank are old ladies who don’t know how to do online banking…
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:12 PM
3

The bank?!
/r/seduction10/09/21 04:50 PM
6

Women fear men who are inauthentic. We don’t feel safe with them.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:06 PM
1

their primordial instincts associate alpha with modern “beta.” Interesting. Can you explain what you mean by this?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:10 PM
1

Sounds like she’s counter-gaming you (and quite effectively, at that).
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:58 PM
4

Have you tried acting really needy? Maybe that will drive her away...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 02:39 PM
4

wtf. They have enough money between them to hire an entire army of people to wait on them hand and foot. There’s got to be something more to this story. Maybe she just wants him home so she can keep an eye on his every move or something like that.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 02:37 PM
1

A lot of girls are just really talkative though? Like, they are that way with everyone. Or do you mean talkative in a flirtatious way?
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:29 PM
2

I knew one guy who could consistently pull this off. It took looks + height + status (doctor in a small town) + lifting + decent (but not spectacular) game
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:57 PM
1

What did she say? How did she act after you said it?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:09 AM
1

I mean, he’d probably be unsatisfied with the sex life in a marriage with kids regardless of who he married.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:27 AM
1

Ok. Are they happy (as happy as anyone can be in a marriage with kids, I mean) though?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:21 AM
2

Are they still together?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:19 AM
1

Those are good rules except I don’t understand the email thing or the airplane thing.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:27 PM
1

Are you a wolf?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:57 PM
1

If you feel weird talking to a therapist, you can find some good therapy workbooks (CBT or DBT) for anxiety, depression, PTSD, etc. on amazon. Mind Over Mood is a classic.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:32 PM
1

PSA: Don’t get in the tub super drunk tho. You could pass out and drown.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:17 PM
1

Also talk about the future! Talk about your goals, dreams, aspirations, etc.
/r/seduction28/02/20 12:22 PM
6

lol sexual Calvinist. A+ description of blackpill. Edit: you’re going to confuse a lot of these virgins with your suggestion that they embrace a “nonbinary” identity construct. 😉
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 04:06 PM
1

Sure. Just pointing out that there is an (unarticulated) element of utility to some of the moral posturing we see here.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 04:04 PM
1

Cheating, in practice though, needs a bit more analysis. I believe it happens because the other partner is inept to fulfill the sexual tingles in the cheater. It’s a common reason, but people can and do cheat on partners that they are highly attracted to, for various other reasons: resentment, seeking validation, attachment issues, maladaptive coping mechanisms, shame, poor impulse control/judgment in general, etc. That's why LTR and married game are so much more difficult. When you exposure wit…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:56 PM
1

Most people are not capable of deceiving others while still feeling good about themselves. Eventually, this leads to a vicious cycle of shame, poor self-worth, and maladaptive coping mechanisms. This, in turn, severely impedes the process of self-actualization, which is the very essence and ultimate goal of TRP mindset.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:27 PM
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I think it also depends on your niche. When the kinky, counter-culture type of guy bluntly say this type of stuff, girls perceive him as sexually liberated or “alternative” (i.e., different, cool, interesting). A super straight edge guy needs to have higher SMV to pull it off, because it doesn’t play into his niche.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 03:20 PM
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Per your theory, nuns, female prisoners, etc. don’t masturbate?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 11:45 PM
1

What reason did the judge give for splitting the proceeds of the sale of the matrimonial home 85/15?? Also, what % of her legal bills do you have to pay? Can you pay that in instalments?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 10:33 PM
1

Why were you so annoyed by her behaviour? Did her lack of enthusiasm make you feel rejected? Did you feel deceived (she used sex as an excuse to come over, when what she really wanted was to spend time with you)? Are you afraid she’s losing sexual interest in you? Something obviously upset you enough to make you overreact in the moment. Try to figure out what it was.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 01:47 AM
2

Then why are you posting it all over Snapchat? Sounds like you’re chasing some validation of your own...
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:46 PM
1

What do you mean when you say they want to make your an orbiter? Like, they want to keep hanging out but stop having sex?? Can give a few examples of how your plates have “broken” in the past?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:40 PM
2

lol at texting “I died sorry.”
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:30 PM
2

You’ll only be taken on a roller coaster ride if you let yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:29 PM
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A good woman might stick with a man through (external) adversity, but never through (internal) weakness.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 01:53 PM
1

lol, that's so pathetic. What's your emoji, though?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:54 AM
1

I’m confused. How do you even know the song lyrics are about you?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 12:39 AM
0

Did you literally tell her to “get down and suck it”??
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:34 AM
3

You consider shit tests and pushing for commitment to be masculine traits?? Sounds like you are confusing “masculine” with “unnecessary drama”.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:31 AM
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I do. I learned most of my counter-game from reverse-engineering what I learned on TRP and applying it to men. 🙃
/r/TheRedPill04/01/20 12:21 AM
1

This sounds like a weird sexual fantasy. Straight girls don’t go down on their female friends...
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:49 PM
1

It’s different in high school, though, because everyone is so young. Most girls are virgins and legitimately not ready to have sex with anyone. Girls don’t have the confidence or communication skills to assert their sexual boundaries and guys don’t have the experience and social skills to pick up on a girl’s subtle, non-verbal cues that indicate true discomfort. Add underage drinking into the mix and it’s a recipe for (even unintentional) sexual coercion. That’s why the “enthusiastic consent” me…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 11:33 PM
1

Non-submissive cuckquean here. For me it’s about voyeurism and the vicarious sexual validation of watching another girl beg for my man’s dick. Kinda like the inverse to hot-wifing, I guess? Definitely would not eat cum (or anything) out of another girl’s snatch, though. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. Just sayin’ 🤷‍♀️ making assumptions about what draws someone to a particular kink can get real awkward if you totally miss the mark (been there, done that)...
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:44 PM
1

Scientific inquiry historically predates Christianity.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:02 PM
1

Omg I had no idea this was even a thing. And how do you even tell the difference between a fake alpha stare down and a true homoerotic come on? Does the latter end with a smile?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:37 PM
2

It’s way simpler than you’re making this out to be. She wants kids. You told her you don’t want kids. She’s almost 30 and her bio clock is running out. She made a rational decision: she chose kids over you. Everything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:14 PM
1

It’s not just SMV. SMV is only loosely correlated to T. I’m...very sexually assertive, so even a high SMV man who is not sexually aggressive will often be put off by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:07 AM
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This has been my experience. I’m a very feminine-appearing woman with a masculine personality and cognitive style (but with feminine wiles). Think of the classic femme fatale archetype. Most low-T, beta men are turned off, uncomfortable, or even outright repulsed by me. I only seem to attract confident, energetic, super rational, high-T, athletic men that are very secure in themselves. A man like this is able to tolerate more masculinity in a woman, because he is so extreme himself that the masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:31 AM
2

What about a plain extroverted party girl??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:37 AM
2

And who is Carol’s friend, Early Bird??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 08:35 AM
1

I meant the other cheeks. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:21 AM
1

Can you smell a woman’s scent on a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:25 AM
2

I heard to beware of girls who aren't ticklish. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:22 AM
8

TIL I’m an alpha slut at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:20 AM
1

I’m so confused. Do you mean, like, skilled at blow jobs...? Or zero reluctance to anal...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:18 AM
3

Swearing? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:15 AM
3

What about pinching your cheeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:13 AM
1

A gentle massage...and THEN a shag? Or a gentle massage INSTEAD OF a shag?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:12 AM
2

Why do you think I’m evil? That’s a...bizarre take on my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:09 AM
2

Which teacher hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:50 PM
1

I think they got rid of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:47 PM
1

I chose the 300-series course (bioinformatics) from a list to meet degree requirements before I even knew who was teaching it. It was actually a really good class and I got an A+ in it. So I took the second half (400-series) the following year. The prof later wrote me a reference letter. I have no regrets, except for the creepy eval I left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:07 PM
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STEM chick here. I struggled initially, but it’s because I was shy, socially awkward, and didn’t know how to make eye contact with men (that look, look away, look back thing that women do). My flirtation style was (and still is) very verbal and cerebral. That’s good for OLD and intimate conversation on a date, but it doesn’t invite approaches from men. I also have a bad habit of accidentally frowning and furrowing my brow (resting bitch face) when I’m lost in thought, which is basically whenever…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:53 PM
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I don’t love you anymore / I can’t see a future with you / You’re not the right person for me. Followed by: there is nothing specific you did or didn’t do that made me come to this conclusion, and there is nothing you can say or do to change my mind. Even if the relationship was perfect and we got along all the time, I still wouldn’t be happy, because we’re just not right for each other. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and I can’t be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:43 PM
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Are they cohabitating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:38 PM
2

He decided yes, we should take a break [...] Fast forward to September, he finds out I was with another guy because, well... obviously, and doesn't want to continue the relationship. Uh, what? Was he shit testing you? Or was he just jealous that you got some over the summer and he didn’t??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:37 PM
3

Work on a handmade card for your BF. Multiple pages with stick figure drawings of the two of you and the history of your RL in sappy verses. If he doesn’t like it, you can just blame it on the pain meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:49 PM
3

When I was in university I took a 400-series class (there were only ~30 of us) with a prof who was a total silver fox. I was 20 years old and he was in his 50s? At the end, we all had to do anonymous evals of his teaching (to submit to the tenure board or something). Mine praised his teaching (it was legit a great course), then went on to say that I had difficulty paying attention in class because he was so hot and I kept getting distracted by my sexual fantasies of him. At the time I hoped he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:43 PM
1

Did he actually give her the letters!?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:36 PM
1

Tell us more about this law student! How old was she? How did she meet the football player and the musician? Was her dad a lawyer? Knew a musician’s girlfriend who had a habit of taking off her clothes in public. They were in a very open/swinger type relationship. She once came into the bar when I was working and her boyfriend was on the road and loudly stated “Where are all the black guys, I’m horny” Was her BF also black?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:32 PM
1

still has young gentlemen callers for massage services Tell us more!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:25 PM
1

Why was she called Big Cheryl?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:22 AM
2

I definitely experienced hypersexuality after I was sexually harassed by my boss. And I wasn’t even raped! I had this drive to reclaim my sexuality. Started wearing red lipstick everywhere, flirting with everyone, got interested in MFM, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:20 AM
2

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 11:15 AM
2

Would she orgasm with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:17 PM
1

IF?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:58 PM
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Listen, I’m an actual #metoo activist IRL (the hardcore kind that lobbies politicians and sues institutions to change laws), and even I think your post is ridiculously hyperbolic and not remotely helpful to making progress on these issues. People like you just make my job harder. It’s like how the “war on drugs” alarmist propaganda simply backfired because kids were too smart to buy into that bullshit. The prevalence of groping on public transportation is highly dependent on where you live. It i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:16 PM
1

Hey at least it’s not the number “8”!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:08 PM
2

Do you feel you would be settling for the “heavier girl” simply because you’re desperate to get laid? Or do you actually find her attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:06 PM
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The “fat acceptance” movement is about boosting self-esteem and combating fat shaming, bullying and discrimination (e.g. in employment, services, and availability of clothing). It’s not about forcing men to date fat women. It’s about making it socially unacceptable for men (and women) to make demeaning jokes and comments about a fat woman’s weight (“honk honk” or “take a look at that fat bitch’s rolls”). Men are free to reject fat women, just do so respectfully. Btw, fat men suffer the same bull…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 03:01 PM
2

Stimulants are non-optimal appetite suppressants, since they typically result in rebound hunger. They are also habit forming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:50 PM
3

I went to Super High Achieving Nerd High School. I estimate 90%+ of my graduating class (including me) were virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:47 PM
2

Good luck! Anyone ever take any appetite suppressants? I think the following are good ones to try: Topiramate GLP-1 agonists even if you're not diabetic Metformin if you're pre-diabetic SGLT2 inhibitors if you're diabetic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:45 PM
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I mainly did OLD. I “approached” by messaging guys first (idk if that really counts as an approach though). I also posted personals on Craigslist (this was 10 years ago, okay!) and answered personals on CL as well. I didn’t filter for men who would be interested in career women. I didn’t need to. I mentioned my career in my profile (tying it to my overall interest in science), and guys who were turned off by that simply didn’t engage with me. Instead, I filtered for guys who were LTR-minded, had…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:32 PM
1

I have so many questions: - “sexually aggressive” - were they upset that you weren’t initiating? Or also the sex not being rough enough? - did you enjoy the feeling of receiving your own “masculine energy” from behind? (btw, is that the new PPD slang for dick?) - did the weed further lower your testosterone? Or did it help you get hard? - have you tried ecstasy? - why didn’t you take exogenous testosterone after your accident? Fertility concerns? Did you try Clomid? - did you ever think about sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:35 PM
2

We fuck for his cardiovascular health.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:15 AM
1

Nah, you can’t go as hard and fast in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:33 AM
1

I already did this in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:32 AM
1

My dating strategy: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ctys7c/men_are_getting_woke_about_datingwhat_happens_next/exrsgua/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app I focused on men up to 5 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:35 AM
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Btw, missionary to me = him kneeling. I don’t even understand how guys fuck in traditional missionary. There just isn’t enough leverage when he’s lying on top of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:22 AM
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It’s the combination. Dating changed rapidly, and due to poor parenting, these young men never learned how to be resourceful and adapt to a rapid change in environment or expectations. Think of WW2 — an entire generation of men was able to cope with perhaps the most rapid and drastic of changes possible. They were able to go from life on the farm, small town, or big city, to storming Normandy after a few months of training. They had the resiliency to cope with that change. Can you imagine these …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:10 AM
1

Also...what’s wrong with vidya games? I always found people (men and women) who waste lots of time on passive entertainment (TV, board games, video games, etc) to be very unattractive. I grew up with an intense work ethic and I have the drive to actively produce things, not just passively consume them. And then I dated a guy who became addicted to WOW and started turning me down for sex to play. That’s just solidified my distaste for video games into a visceral disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:03 AM
1

When my first GF dumped my niceguy ass (ironically she thought I was a player) How the hell did THAT happen??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:58 AM
3

I would not be near as successful or fit if not for the drive to impress women. This is so difficult for me to relate to as a woman. I am, of course, motivated to look good in order to impress men. I’m also very ambitious in my education and career, but the motivation for that was always purely intrinsically driven, since I know that it doesn’t make me more attractive to men. It must suck to not have much intrinsic career ambition, but feel pressured to be successful anyway simply to attract a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:56 AM
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Absolutely. There are two things that dry up my pussy faster than a Shamwow, no matter how hot a guy is: (1) finding out he lives with his parents; (2) finding out he plays video games. That knowledge turns even the hottest Chad into the most sexless omega in my mind. I can’t help it. It’s simply instinctual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:49 AM
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I would not fuck a guy who lives with his parents. It’s a complete sexual turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:46 AM
0

I think this learned helplessness is becoming more prevalent due to poor parenting and lack of discipline. They’re never had to work for anything as kids, so when they know how to cope when jobs and pussy aren’t handed to them on a silver platter by mom and dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:35 AM
2

Parents that never taught them the tools to cope with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:30 AM
1

What’s the point of that, though? Might as well be on my back with him upright between my knees. That’s my go to position, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:26 AM
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I can never make this position work for me. I think the guy needs to have a really long dick and an upward curve for it to feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:44 PM
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That was not his concern. He had been with me when my sex drive was high, so the abrupt change just made him feel weird about initiating. Since he knew it was caused by the birth control pill and I had already stopped taking it, he felt he should just wait it out. I told him there was no point in both of us suffering while my hormones returned to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:43 PM
1

In public, so that all of PPD can see what a filthy little sub slut you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cs4qor/weekly_community_chat_megathread_18_august_2019/exgvs2i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:45 PM
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My SO liked the ad. He works in sales & advertising. He was hella amused by the irony of all the anti-SJW types getting triggered AF over a TV ad. He’s only ever shaved with a straight razor, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:33 PM
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I’m a switch, and kink shaming is actually my favourite thing to do as a domme!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:24 PM
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I’m too lazy for pegging. I feel like I’d need to start working out again to do it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:23 PM
1

Did you try out my suggestion, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:22 PM
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lol it’s not my fault white girls drink and tan so much. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:21 PM
2

How does disassociating sex from love prevent pair bonding? Oxytocin is released primarily due to cuddling. If you cuddle post sex, you get the oxytocin kick. If you choose not to cuddle post sex, there is less of an oxytocin kick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:17 PM
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I don't do that -- all my ex's are brunette, fat, and crazy. :( LOL. You’re sticking your dick in the wrong kind of crazy. Have you never heard of the crazy/hot scale??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:13 PM
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What are your thoughts on swinging?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:11 PM
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I have a lawyer. He just wasn’t allowed at the meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:40 PM
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His lawyer regularly loses to self-represented plaintiffs. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:36 PM
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Yeah, his advice works best for building a harem of single moms with self-esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:36 PM
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He realized I’m going to win in court because his lawyer is a fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:34 PM
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I was on Yasmin. The progestin in that, Drospirenone, was specifically formulated for it’s extreme anti-androgenic activity. They used to put teen girls and young women on that BC pill for acne. I suppose the thinking was: “women don’t need testosterone; a clear face is more important than her sex drive, energy level, mood, and assertiveness.” It makes sense — if you believe that the ideal feminine woman is docile and asexual (the Madonna), then she really is better off with no testosterone. By …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:31 PM
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TRP sub is mostly just a bunch of men with insecure attachment styles pretending to be Dark Triad on the internet as a method to cope with their fears of abandonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:40 AM
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Lol, wut? I'll wait for it when women sleep with loser men. Weird take on empathy, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:33 AM
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I'm about to go psychologically terrorize my employer in front of an audience. Wish me luck!! Edit: I made him cry. So...success?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:29 AM
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And yes, I have had some success, following basic rules....see women once per week, I actually like Blackdragon (mostly because he’s sex positive and anti-monogamy), but that whole “once per week” rule is where he loses me. That shit only works for strict FBs. No quality woman is going to keep dating a guy she sees only once per week, no matter how Alpha 2.0 he is. She’ll quickly lose patience and move on (and no, she won’t come back). So BD’s system of “dating” a woman once a week for months on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:08 AM
1

I don’t understand. Can’t you have sexual and romantic relationships with women without “seeking validation” from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:04 AM
1

So what’s your verdict?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:55 AM
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There were times I would purposefully try to stay as still as possible, like those Buckingham Palace guards. And if I failed, he’d yell: “Aha! You moved!” “No I didn’t!” “YES YOU DID. I SAW YOUR ARM TWITCH!” “THAT WAS JUST AN INVOLUNTARY TIC. IT DOESN’T COUNT.” I mean, I think we were able to have a sense of humor about it, because we both knew it was temporary and simply a side effect of the birth control pill. I had stopped taking it, but it took months for my sex drive to fully rebound. Edit:…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:45 AM
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Back when I lost my sex drive on the birth control pill, and I was starfishing a lot, I would explicitly joke about it. Like, I would literally spread myself across the bed like a giant starfish and yell “Alright! Time to stick it in. Let’s make some starfish babies! But you better make it quick — wouldn’t want to get me accidentally aroused.” We’d end up laughing our way through it. Other times, I’d run up to him enthusiastically and say, “I think I might be horny. I’m not sure, because it’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:14 AM
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ENTP here, so I can’t even argue with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:53 AM
1

Choosing compassion. Just because you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:22 AM
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Of all the interpretations of MGTOW, there is only a single, universal qualifying factor: You do not seek women for validation. Is this necessarily a red pill thing? Like, isn't that just a maturity thing (admittedly quite rare)? Can't you be blue pill and MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:18 AM
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Yeah, I think some TRP guys are very emotionally reactive. They ruminate and get over heartbreak slower than others. If you're a guy who bounces back quickly, you don't really need TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:10 AM
1

Shit, is PPD really all NTs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:04 AM
1

Can't you typically tell by the sex talk how good she's going to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:03 AM
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https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/05/19/article-1388674-0C2303AE00000578-615_634x652.jpg http://ll-media.tmz.com/2011/05/18/0518-maria-mildred-dates-bn4.jpg http://ego.globo.com/Gente/foto/0,,48547809-EXH,00.jpg http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/05/26/article-1391260-0C49138600000578-893_634x592.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:01 AM
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Maybe she was just afraid of STIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:54 AM
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If female sexuality is reactive, isn't the only way to turn them on by taking a risk and sexually harassing them? Why are you calling this "sexual harassment?" Are you sending unsolicited dick pics? Are you texting them sexually demeaning negs? Are you angrily berating them for ghosting you? Are you hitting on your employees? If none of the above, it's not "sexual harassment" -- it's simply an unsuccessful approach. Should I just keep doing what I'm doing until something sticks or try something …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:50 AM
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no woman ever spits on your dick before sucking I do. It's a good deep throating trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:38 AM
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Considering that women's sexuality is reactive, even with the starfish, you have a good chance of her getting turned on once you start. I just realized that this happens with men, too. I want sex, he's tired from work and not up for it. He offers to get me off through oral instead. I happily take him up on the offer. Of course, the smell and taste of pussy always gets him rock hard, without fail. And before I know it, oral has turned into the pounding of my life. I ask him, "Hey, didn't you say …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:31 AM
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sorry, didn't realize this was a CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:29 AM
1

This is the how activist operate by moving the Overton window. Yep. As an activist, I do this deliberately. It allows the other activists to appear reasonable and finally get taken seriously, instead of just screaming into the void as before. The institutions are like "hey, maybe we should actually try negotiating with these people we've always just ignored, because the alternative is Screenmagnet, and that bitch is cray-cray."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:50 PM
1

Thank you. I'm sad that nobody wanted to play along. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:39 PM
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It's a shit test. A shit test that OP just failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:37 PM
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No. But it made it much easier for my coworkers to openly support me when I reported. “Believing women” became the socially acceptable thing to do, so they were less afraid of retribution from our employer simply for standing by me. One of our supervisors at work was calling me a liar to a male friend of mine. My friend felt comfortable telling that person: “actually, I believe her.” This male friend later told me that he wouldn’t have had the courage to openly stand by me like that if it hadn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:12 PM
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IME, no. See my comment on this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cvdm2a/q4w_in_the_postmetoo_era_do_you_genuinely_believe/ey479hh/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:05 PM
1

What’s your age? And what’s the age of the girls you think are disqualifying you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:00 PM
3

Does Atlas think that women should stop reading, too? Or is that just for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:14 PM
2

Yeah, white girls hit the wall first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:09 PM
6

You sound like a very good father. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:01 PM
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You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. Siri, how do I propagate my genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:59 PM
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I would like him to have goals and priorities in life other than women. Ideally, I would like for some of his goals to involve making the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:55 PM
3

Did you know you're allowed to continue jerking off even after you get a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:52 PM
2

You like fucking the old ones, especially? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:24 PM
1

I saw a couple’s counsellor with an SO years ago for pre-marriage counselling. Actually, I was hesitant, but he insisted. She was excellent and he really liked her. We only saw her a few times together because he quickly figured out that he was projecting his unresolved issues with his NPD mother onto me. So he ended up doing a year of individual therapy with the “marriage counsellor” and it fixed almost all the problems in our relationship. The counsellor gave him the permission he needed to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:19 PM
1

I love muscles and tattoos! It’s more their facial expressions and frosted hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:29 PM
2

Do you know for sure that this understanding (and the wife’s boyfriend) actually exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:28 PM
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Lost my V-card at age 18 in my dorm room. Late blooming, high-SMV virgin Jock (martial arts) Compsci major Average popularity? He was an introvert and didn’t party, but he ran some clubs on campus. No car Upper middle class family, more wealthy than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:27 PM
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So you and your wife were able to move past the resentment? That’s impressive! I’m generally not a fan of marriage counsellors, although I do think that Emotion Focused Therapy can be helpful for dealing with festering resentment. Also, I think a lot of married couples would benefit from doing MDMA together!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:22 PM
0

I look for healthy, productive ways to sublimate my feminist rage. I could probably charge for this, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:14 PM
2

You win the Chad taxonomy olympics! Although I think Chadis lupus would be the most scientifically accurate term...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:11 PM
1

I’m not turned off if a guy is actually bi, as long as he “presents” straight. Some of those guys have a gay twink aesthetic that is not physically attractive to me. Whether they are gay or gay for pay or never seen another dick in their life is irrelevant. It’s literally their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:08 PM
1

Most guys I know watch lots of random weird porn simply out of curiosity, though. Like, stuff that doesn’t even turn them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:07 PM
3

Chanine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:45 AM
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No. This is an example of plain stupidity, not toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:40 AM
2

Average or bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:31 AM
2

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:28 AM
3

Thankfully, I confided in my SO from the very start. He checked in with me constantly, brainstormed strategies with me to keep me safe, helped me document everything, came with me to work functions (that’s why he was present for some of it), etc. I don’t think I could have survived it without his support. To go through it completely alone would have been too much to bear. He understood better than my mom did (she was all “why did you do this? why didn’t you do that?”) I never doubted that my SO …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:19 AM
2

Most people, in general, have really boring sex. Like, they don’t even do missionary right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:08 AM
2

Good shoes Quad & Hamstring stretches Knee brace Voltaren gel Tylenol/Advil If none of the above help, see a doctor for knee injections.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 04:06 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:55 AM
2

Yes, and I’m glad I trained myself out of it. Super annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:45 AM
5

Interesting Birds & the Bees talk you had with your pops, there!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:44 AM
5

I watch some hardcore porn that I would never want to actually try out in real life (e.g. gang bangs, DP, female orgasm denial).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:40 AM
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LOL. Just for that, I checked out the site. Haven’t watched any vids yet, but some of the guys look a bit gay in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:35 AM
2

NH is the last state I would associate with the porn industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:28 AM
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What are you talking about. I would totally get into a vehicle called the Bang Bus with two strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:26 AM
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I’m a feminist who loves being dominated, but I suffer no cognitive dissonance over it. I do, however, suffer intense shame over my super secret MAGA Femdom fantasy: “Grab my pussy, you limp-dick MAGA cuck!” (He would reply “Yes, Mistress Feminazi!” Except he can’t speak around the red hat stuffed in his mouth...)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:23 AM
1

I was good in bed from my very first time. I have porn, erotica, sex manuals, and a very active imagination to thank for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:13 AM
2

I think the problem with MRP is that by the time guys find it, it’s too late. There is so much mutual resentment and mistrust in the marriage that it’s impossible to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:03 AM
1

lol how much money do you think victims get if we win in court? Most of us barely even recover our costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:50 AM
2

JBP is like the worst parts of TRP combined with the worst parts of the TBP. He’s the inverse of purple...which makes him The Yellow Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:43 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cvdm2a/q4w_in_the_postmetoo_era_do_you_genuinely_believe/ey455uu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:33 AM
2

Of course. Are women who enjoy rough sex really THAT rare??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:31 AM
1

Let’s build on the lock and key analogy! What do the following represent? Key without any teeth (incel) Keys that can be copied easily and keys that can’t (beta vs alpha) Master key (apex alpha poacher/Chad) Lock picker (PUA) Locksmith scammer (JMULV) Combination lock (shit testing HB9) Electronic combination lock (gold digger) A lock that sticks, so you need to jiggle the key a bit at the end (LMR) Lock cutter (rapist) A lock with a lost key that can never be opened again (alpha widow) Broken k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:29 AM
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That’s the part that really confuses me. They think that a woman who has had 20 ONS and no other sex has a “looser” vagina than a woman who has had sex 1000 times with her donkey dick boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:03 AM
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I genuinely love getting jack-hammered. I’m told this is uncommon. I exclusively date athletic men because they need to be fit enough to fuck me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:59 AM
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That’s whack. This guy sounds legit unbalanced. I wish the #metoo movement would talk more about the impact that sexual harassment has on the partners and families of victims. My SO lost 30 lbs because he was so anxious about what my boss was doing to me every day at work that he couldn’t bring himself to eat. My boss sexually harassed me in front of my SO, and the feeling of helplessness really fucked with him, too. And financially, it can be devastating on a family, especially when there are k…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:53 AM
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Actually, I did find him attractive. He was totally my type (physically), and looked eerily similar to my SO (in front of whom he harassed me).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:46 AM
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some guys have always been disinclined to approach women, and now they just have an excuse. Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:43 AM
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lol yeah. Even coworkers who know that I filed a sexual harassment complaint against my boss still hit on me and ask me out. I assumed I would become radioactive as soon as word got out, but fortunately that wasn’t the case!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:42 AM
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My super creepy boss who sexually harassed me is a classically handsome, tall white man with a thin, beautiful trophy wife (who allegedly won’t touch his adulterous ass). He’s still creepy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:29 AM
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Rich white women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:27 AM
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Oh no. This was not the case at all. He was just an entitled douche from a well-connected family. He straight up told me that he could get away with anything and that even if I complained, at most he would just get a slap on the wrist. I even have it on tape. Unfortunately for me, he was right — my employer spent over 100k to cover it up. Unfortunately for him, the cover up failed spectacularly, and I live in a one-party consent jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:14 AM
3

How the fuck did she get involved with this loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:57 AM
3

I could never date a married guy. Like, beyond the ethical issues I have with it, I could never put myself through that shit. How do women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:56 AM
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Yes. White feminism is the scourge of the Earth. White women have personally caused me far more problems than men have. It was white women who broke the law to cover up my (white male) boss’s sexual harassment. Most white men I know have been very supportive of me; almost all of the white women I know simply exploited the situation to kick me down and climb over my corpse, trading on their faux-feminism along the way. I fucking hate white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:51 AM
1

Me? A man hater? Far from it! I genuinely adore men. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:44 AM
3

Delusional how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:37 AM
1

So you’d rather jerk off to the 48 Laws of Power than fuck girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:36 AM
1

Gigachad is living rent-free in your mind. He doesn’t need to cuck you — you’ve cucked yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:35 AM
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This has not been my experience in the least. My boss sexually harassed me right in the thick of the #metoo stuff (post-Weinstein). I even talked about Weinstein with coworkers when he was in ear shot, as a sort of covert warning for him to leave me alone. Didn’t put him off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:21 PM
5

though knowing gorilla tactics would help them enormously I prefer bonobo tactics. What pill is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:18 PM
4

I always thought of RP/PUA as more Gen X than Boomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:15 PM
1

Ha, no. Since when does HR stand up to authority?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:12 PM
1

Why? I didn’t let myself be poached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:10 PM
2

I’d fuck a lot more of them if I wouldn’t be slut shamed for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:09 PM
1

Need a full pedigree chart to assess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:07 PM
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Oh god. I was helping a close male friend with his Tinder game. I took photos, re-wrote his profile, read through his prior chat logs, and even helped him in real time with openers and replies. My advice worked — after months of failure, he landed a GF within a couple weeks. But at one point, he asked to see my chat logs with my matches to scope out the competition in town. I was hesitant, but eventually gave in. And he was crestfallen to see how physically attractive they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 09:03 PM
1

Yeah. I’m very dominant at work (perhaps because I have to be), but I don’t have the patience to micro manage people at all. Friends and work peers (male and female) tend to naturally cater to me, even though I’m not a Queen Bee type at all. I think they look to me as a protector, since I’m the only one who can successfully stand up to malignant authority. They come to me with their issues, and I escalate it on their behalf, putting myself in the line of fire while keeping them anonymous. I work…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:51 PM
2

Well she obviously thinks you’re ripe for a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:41 PM
2

I wonder if short women who have short brothers and fathers place more value on really tall men. Since height is a polygenic trait, they need as many tall genes as they can get in one man to balance out their own short genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:39 PM
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This is what my mom always taught me: “All men look at themselves in the mirror and see Brad Pitt. So you might as well pick the one who actually looks like Brad Pitt. Or better yet, become a lesbian.” I like dick way too much to go lesbian, so I only followed half her advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:35 PM
2

Awkward. Are you treating her like one? Maintaining boundaries, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:32 PM
1

Not sure. I had a would-be poacher who wanted to LTR me. He commented that I was clearly able to keep a man satisfied long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:28 PM
1

If you never, ever want her to initiate sex with you again, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:16 PM
1

I think Catherine the Great had a male harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:15 PM
2

Idk, I’ve never been successfully poached. Poaching from betas is easy. Poaching from alphas is not. But alphas like to poach from alphas, not from betas. It’s a type of pre-selection that works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:13 PM
2

Does she know she’s a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:09 PM
13

Guys who mostly have ONS are rarely good in bed. A guy needs regular sex partners (LTRs or FWBs) to get good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:06 PM
2

Alphas LOVE to poach from other alphas. It’s the ultimate high for them. There have been men who started chasing me purely for this reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:02 PM
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That’s cause literally every man on Earth is dying to fuck us, so we’re still being selective if we pick a different one every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 05:00 PM
1

Drill sergeant type yells don’t work on me. I get scared and shut down. He has a way of casually coaxing me to do stuff while I’m distracted in my thoughts, so I don’t even notice what I’m doing or what I’ve agreed to. My mom jokes that he’s the only person in the world who has ever been able to tell me what to do. To the point that when she needs me to do something, she tells him, instead of me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:52 PM
2

You don’t think there is equality in this arrangement? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:47 PM
1

I just don’t put my physical needs first. I’m one of those head in the clouds types that sees eating as a distraction from my Deep Thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:42 PM
1

He doesn’t mind. And with multiple lawsuits on my plate, I’m making way more decisions than he is. Also, my job involves much higher stakes decisions than his job does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 04:39 PM
1

I worry about that sometimes. But I can adult really well when it comes to the important shit (like navigating the health care system and making medical decisions for my future husband with Parkinson’s) and his adulting throughout the years will ensure that we have enough savings and medical/disability insurance to pay for his nursing care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:37 PM
2

Why would you even stay with someone who regularly makes stupid decisions? I don’t mind if my man makes a stupid decision, as long as he fixes it and learns from it. Nobody’s perfect, and who’s to say that my way would have worked out better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:27 PM
1

I like men who lead in relationships. I make enough decisions at work, last thing I want to do is make decisions at home, too. Examples: - He decides where we live (i.e. he found all our apartments). - He takes charge of the finances. - He takes charge of my safety. He bought reflector strips and attached them to my backpack so I can cross the street safely at night. He bought a panic whistle and stuck it in my purse. He signed us up for self-defence classes and practices with me. He set up Find…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 12:19 PM
2

Super weird take on ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:18 AM
1

No. I think men’s obsession about n-counts is almost all about ego and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:09 AM
2

STIs. Safer to stick with the same partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:08 AM
1

Women with integrity do exist. Some of them happen to be sluts, since having integrity has nothing to do with sociosexual orientation. And women without integrity will fuck a man over whether or not they are sluts. Both sluts and non-sluts branch swing, they just do it for different reasons. And the prude with n-count of 1 who lacks integrity still screws her husband over in the divorce, even if she doesn’t leave him for another man. In TRP-speak: AWALT. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:35 AM
4

Un-chill stoners are the worst kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:25 AM
1

It could also mean that she has self-control, but doesn’t see anything wrong with casual sex while she’s single. So her self-control is irrelevant in that situation. But she may believe that cheating is wrong and feel intense loyalty to her husband (with whom she is pair-bonded). So she exerts self-control while she’s in a monogamous LTR, but sees no reason to exert it when she’s single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:19 AM
1

How did you get through work? Did you have to take time off?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:36 AM
2

Just because someone has a positive attitude toward casual sex doesn’t mean they are willing to cheat on their partner. Sluts can have self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:33 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:31 AM
3

I am able to completely compartmentalize sex from how I feel about my partner. So even when I’m really angry at my partner, feeling unloved or resentful about the relationship, I still want to have sex with him every day. I just don’t want to kiss or cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:30 AM
1

When I’m really horny, I have spontaneous orgasms in Pilates class (legs together, blood flowing, friction, etc). It’s super embarrassing and not fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:26 AM
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No. I’ve thought about this and researched it quite a bit, and I’m confident that I’m simply an outlier. When I was on the birth control pill, my testosterone took an abrupt nose dive off of a cliff, and I experienced for the first time the typical reactive female libido. The difference was so night and day that I felt like I’d been chemically castrated. Went off the pill, and my sex drive came roaring back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:20 AM
4

Some of us do. I got into and stayed in a relationship for months with a man I didn’t find attractive, didn’t like, didn’t respect, and was embarrassed to be seen with, simply for easy access to daily sex. I can promise you that I felt the opposite of sexy while having sex with him. He was basically like a living fucking machine that I had to force myself to talk to once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:15 AM
5

I was so horny as a teen that I had spontaneous orgasms while doing sit ups in gym class and while raking leaves in the backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:10 AM
2

Is this the same thing as a work husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:03 AM
1

He caters to my sexual needs more than I cater to his, tbh. I have a favourite tease game for weekday morning sex: he gets to choose between (1) no sex (wait until after work) or (2) sex until I orgasm, but he’s not allowed. He almost always chooses the second option, spends all day at work in a state of acute sexual frustration, and then tackles me to the bed as soon he walks through the door. I’d feel guilty, but who am I to deny a man his choice?😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:00 AM
2

Who is the driver and who is the car in this analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:22 PM
2

No! It’s not a chore at all. Far from it. I’m a high libido woman with a very playful sexuality. I think about sex all day, anyway, so this attitude comes very naturally to me. Keeps me from wanting to cheat, as well. But even back when I was on the birth control pill (completely killed my libido, had to stop taking it), I still behaved this way (teasing, flirting) simply out of habit and starfished for him when I wasn’t in the mood. The starfishing sucked, of course, but it was better than the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:17 PM
3

I’m actually not worried about cheating (I would prefer an open relationship, tbh). That’s not why I do it. I just love seeing my man as enthralled with me as he was when we first started dating. It keeps him in a state of near-constant sex-dazed, euphoric NRE, even years later. As a result, he treats me better, is more affectionate, flirtatious, sexual, romantic, cuddly, etc which keeps the NRE going for me, as well. I don’t have to nag him to do stuff, because he’s so distracted by our ongoing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:01 PM
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Why would she ever stop? A woman who behaves this way enjoys the masculine devotion that it inspires in her husband. Much more potent than the validation she gets from her gross beta orbiters. Only thing that would make me stop is if he let himself go, physically. But a man who is sexually obsessed with his girl is motivated to hit the gym, so that’s rarely an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:21 PM
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Technical manuals are for beta cucks. Real men don’t need to read a manual to understand how something works. They figure it out on their own, using their superior logic and visual-spatial reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:32 PM
1

Could just be a symmetry thing. Large breasts aesthetically balance out wide hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 01:09 PM
5

Stop it, you’re making me blush! Atlas is the Queen Eternal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:58 PM
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You need to have lots of enthusiastic sex with him. More importantly, you need to tease him sexually in between the sex. Spend all day flirting with him, teasing him with lingering touches, kisses, naughty whispers in his ear...and then when he’s about to lose his mind that’s when you fuck him. When I’m in an LTR, I make sure that my man is perpetually in one of three states: (1) dying to fuck me; (2) boneless and satiated from just having fucked me; (3) asleep because he’s exhausted from all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 12:34 PM
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For me, a sex life that is mutually satisfying on a consistent basis is necessary, but not sufficient, for a functional romantic relationship. Since sexuality is a large part of my identity, I need a man who similarly prioritizes his own sexuality. I need to feel secure that he will continue to prioritize sexual intimacy regardless of external circumstances (life stressors, rough patch in the relationship, etc). If a man had minimal (or inconsistent) interest in partnered sex, I would have diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:06 PM
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Because a person’s n-count depends on so many different factors. The number itself is much less important than the context, the consequences (STIs), and the reasons for it. Honestly, if we had a vaccine or a cure for herpes, I legit would not care about anyone’s n-count (mine or others). Fear of herpes is the only reason that I have actively kept my own n-count low and the only reason that I am hesitant about having sex with men who have high n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:51 PM
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Why? Ten years ago, when I stumbled upon TRP, they were advising that women should spend their pre-wall years looking for a husband instead of riding the cock carousel. I simply followed their advice. Not sure why I’m being downvoted for this...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:42 PM
2

Compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:25 PM
1

No, I’m a whistle blower engaged in litigation, asshole. (Related to public corruption, in case you’re wondering).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:21 PM
2

Also you are a liberal, a feminist, and a slut. You are not as "non-conformist" as you think. I am literally devoting 100% of my time and effort right now to dismantling authority. I’m so non-conformist that I’m regularly accused of anarchism by other liberal activists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:10 PM
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Men ask about n-count way before that. Also, if a girl develops a reputation as a slut, she’s at risk from men she’s never even met before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:05 PM
2

I know the measurements of my hand. Ergo, I can use my hand to indirectly measure a guy’s dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:04 PM
3

Apparently only men are allowed to employ logical dating strategies...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:59 PM
1

Do we have some kind of monk epidemic? Yes, according to MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:55 PM
2

Women do not accumulate new sexual partners at a constant rate throughout their life span.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:52 PM
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There is also the safety issue. Most men who sexually assault or harass women are more likely to target women that they perceive as “sluts”, for a multitude of reasons (“she’s asking for it” “what’s another cock to her” “she’s a slut, no one will believe her anyway” “she’s got low self-esteem, so she’s an easy target” “sluts deserve to be put in their place” etc). So an honest answer can literally put a woman at risk of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:45 PM
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Yes. I’m a very liberal, sex-positive, sexually assertive woman. I grew up in a liberal, atheist household. I have spent most of my life in a liberal, feminist bubble. I have always been a non-conformist and generally don’t give a shit what others think of me. I have almost no hang ups when it comes to sex. But even I still struggle with the societal programming. I can’t even imagine how much worse it is for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:40 PM
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Even when I tell guys my real n-count, they almost never believe me. It turns into some kind of cross-examination until he gets the whole timeline of my sexual and dating history out of me. I've started inflating my n-count just to escape the inevitable interrogation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:34 PM
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You only hear from the validation-seeking ones, not the quiet ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:53 PM
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Men say that they expect sex on the first date. These same men say they wouldn’t LTR a girl who puts out on the first date. As long as this continues, it is completely logical for women to lie about their sexual history. Tell me again that women aren’t logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:42 PM
5

Guy on the right is older, would do well with a different demographic. Like blind women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:58 AM
1

This post just made me realize that Titanic is the ultimate TRP movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:41 AM
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Everything gets fucked once incels enter the picture...except for women, that is. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:20 AM
2

You dated Persephone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:13 AM
1

Which muscles do men use the most for fucking? Abs, hip flexors, hip extensors, anything else...?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:05 AM
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First, go lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:44 AM
1

"no YOU'RE the incel!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:35 AM
1

^ this guy understands natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:33 AM
1

This is my attitude exactly. I give freely, on my own terms, without expecting anything in return. Sometimes people surprise me, but it feels good even if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:29 AM
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One interesting aspect of this stuff going mainstream is that women are coming across it on the internet, too. If women are smart, they will start to develop some true counter-game of their own (not the pathetic shit that passes as "girl game" on the RPW sub). I first encountered TRP/PUA stuff 10 years ago, when I was OLD. After getting over the initial "wtf dating is hopeless if men really think of me this way" phase, I accepted it, then reverse-engineered it to suit my life goals. At the time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 01:16 AM
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Men were doing this even 10 years ago, when I first got into OLD. Engineering technologists calling themselves engineers. Pre-meds calling themselves doctors. Pre-law calling themselves lawyers. Telemarketers calling themselves sales reps. Bank tellers calling themselves i-bankers. It was rare to find a guy in his 20s who DIDN'T lie about his job and education online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:57 AM
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You don't know any single women who work a full time job?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:51 AM
2

Fuck me, you’re saying all these years of practice have been for nothing??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:03 AM
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It's not fun. That's why we have to drink while we do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:49 PM
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better than the rest of the subs on this topic ("screaming into the void as one").
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:46 PM
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lol why do you think I exclusively date athletic men? It's less about how they look and more about how they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:43 PM
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Exactly. You just proved my point. I have a single digit n-count, yet you still perceive me as a slut who can't say no to dick and is therefore easy and prone to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:39 PM
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He looks like an orthopedic surgeon. Listen, I'm no fan of MDs, but that's just not true. Gym dude is clearly a programmer who spends all his time either at the gym or inside his cubicle testing code by himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:31 PM
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Who cares? He's not boyfriend material, anyway. Changing careers to something lucrative won't make him any better at fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:27 PM
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No woman would ever expect (or even ask) the guy on the left to buy her anything. She would stop at the corner store on the way to his fuckpad to buy him a pack of menthols with the last of her tip money, even though she can't stand men who smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:24 PM
3

What cruel irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:20 PM
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I wonder if there is an undercurrent of jealousy to that sentiment, on a subconscious level. They can't stand him, but they don't even know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:16 PM
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A lot of men would have more masculine faces if they lowered their body fat percentage. But instead, they're always "bulking" and never "cutting." Guys: you can't call it your "bulking" phase if you're perpetually stuck in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:14 PM
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If the guy on the right got come contact lenses and a new haircut face I'd give it to him. I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:10 PM
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Left guy is too busy fucking girls to hang out with men. He has no male friends, only female fwbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:08 PM
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If he ever becomes cool, what girls consider cool will change overnight simply so that the sexual marketplace regains equilibrium.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:04 PM
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Guy on the right might as well get INCEL tattooed on his forehead, cause he's going to his grave without ever touching a pussy. He just has that incel look about him. Guy on the left fucks. He fucks so much he doesn't have time to go to the gym. He fucks so much that he doesn't have time to shower or brush his hair in between fucking, and I don't even care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:59 PM
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Jacked dude might get a lot more ONS on tinder. From gay men trying to catfish him, maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:40 PM
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fracking and heroin OxyContin parts of the rust belt Come on, keep up with the times! Heroin was so 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:39 PM
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Interesting. I completely agree. Left has a close to ideal face for a man. Right looks like a roided-up baby to me. But wouldn't TRP science say that the left guy's face isn't "square" enough to be mathematically masculine or some such shit? Or have I completely misunderstood the science of masculine facial proportions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:36 PM
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because he dgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:30 PM
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money can drop panties but it won't make them wet. This is by far the best thing I have ever read on here (not just PPD, but on the whole of reddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:20 PM
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Wide in the cock, as well. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:17 PM
1

I'm continuously amazed by all the TRP-ers who get this backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:14 PM
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If you find yourself in an argument with somebody, it's too late. You've already lost the chance to win them over to your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:12 PM
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The discrepancy lies in the fact that many women don't care to get to know and or understand men because they simply don't have to. idk, my understanding of men has definitely helped me to identify, avoid and protect myself from the violent ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:06 PM
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Who doesn't like a challenge? Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:04 PM
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I've gotten a lot more negative about men coming here In what ways? Anything surprise you about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:03 PM
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TRP accuses TBP of being naive, but it's really the other way around. TBP doesn't get what all the fuss is about, since they were never really "plugged in" to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:02 PM
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lol I didn't even realize you were a misogynist until you pointed it out. So I definitely wouldn't pick that up in real life. My Misogyny Radar must be broken; I should ask the feminists for a refund.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:59 PM
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I disagree: I find this sub to be very healing. Everyone seems to get along with each other and people actually try to understand each other and reach common ground. It's really nice! I'm new here and generally a positive, optimistic (though realistic) type of person, but I already feel much more positive and accepting of TRP than before I joined. But to answer your question: all of the above. Except that I don't think confronting harsh realities necessarily makes people cynical. Depends on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:57 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:46 PM
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My n-count is in the single digits and I don’t have any difficulty pair-bonding (8 year monogamous LTR under my belt). I’m not bitter and I’ve had very few bad experiences with men, apart from being sexually harassed by my boss. Even in spite of the hell I’ve been through with that, I actually have a much more positive view of men than most women I know (both online and IRL). I’m just a very positive person in general, though. Men who want a woman like me aren’t that rare, but my standards for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:37 PM
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The type of sex is different. Most men don’t want to have only (or even mostly) transactional sex. They would rather have less sex with fewer or lower value women, as long as it’s non-transactional sex. Women know this: that’s why they dress up transactional sex as other things (Girl-Friend Experience, Sugar Baby, Green Card Marriage) to help beta men suspend their disbelief to the point that they can enjoy the sex. Pretty Woman is a male fantasy, not a female one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:11 PM
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1 and 2 have the same knowledge. Whether a man is 1 or 2 is based on what he DOES not what he thinks or what he SAYS he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:00 PM
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That is the definition of Beta Bucks. Beta Bucks falls below Alpha Fucks in the sexual hierarchy, because Beta Bucks’s sexual strategy is transactional (sex for money/social status). That is a beta sexual strategy. Alphas, by definition, do not rely on beta sexual strategies to mate. That’s what makes them alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:57 PM
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Alpha Bucks > Alpha Fucks > Beta Bucks >>> Beta No Bucks-No Fucks Most rich men are Beta Bucks, not Alpha Bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:41 PM
2

Empathy is not a thing? Affective empathy or cognitive empathy? Mirror neurons???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:25 PM
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There are posts on TRP that literally go step by step through “how to make eye contact with a woman” and “how to smirk at a woman.” Some of these guys need written instructions on how and when to exhibit facial expressions. That’s where they are starting from...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:22 PM
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There are two types of TRP-ers: 1. The ones who accept their new understanding of sexual dynamics and use that knowledge to optimize their mating strategy in a way that aligns with their personal goals. They strive to adapt to the world as it is (happy PUAs or laissez-faire trad cons). 2. The ones who ruminate in bitterness and cope with their lack of success by complaining, moralizing, judging, and punishing feminists, “sluts” and “soy boys” for how the world works. They don’t want to adapt, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:13 PM
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Feminism brought about the sexual revolution. It made it acceptable for women like me (high libido, kinky, sex-positive) to stop repressing our sexual desires and to have sex largely without repercussions (birth control). It also made it possible for women like me to support ourselves (and even thrive) financially and to live non-traditional lives (no marriage/kids). Men who want a woman like me are rare and conversely, women who are like me are rare as well. But for a man who is specifically lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I’m part of that 15% as well. Most men want a woman who has spontaneous sexual arousal, but only for him, and on his timetable. They don’t even appreciate how inherently contradictory that is!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:43 PM
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Pre-drinking with the girls while doing your makeup and dancing to the black eyed peas in your underwear. I remember girls in university who were already so drunk by 10 pm that I had to do their liquid eyeliner for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:47 PM
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I’ve never been a party girl and I’m lazy about getting dressed up. So in the rare instances that I’ve put in the effort to actually go out and meet men, sex was definitely the goal and I was disappointed when it didn’t happen. But party girls who regularly go clubbing or bar hopping with their posse? Their goal is not sex, its male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:43 PM
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It’s even more ridiculous than that. I’m a 30 year old, kinky, high libido woman with a single digit n-count (due to long LTRs). And these types of men STILL think I’m damaged goods. They want a consistently high libido woman with a completely reactive sex drive. They don’t get that women who remain consistently high libido after the first few years of an LTR tend to be sexually assertive (not dominant in bed, but assertive about getting sex) as opposed to sexually reactive. But a sexually asser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:36 PM
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She was either lying or black out drunk (literally didn’t remember anything past a certain hour). Most likely lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:30 PM
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No. It’s not harder. We don’t mix up different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:28 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:25 PM
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It’s the opposite. If you hook up with a guy only once, it’s easier to remember. If you have sex with guys hundreds of times, it all blurs together. That’s how memory works for everything. Not just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:48 PM
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If we have sex repeatedly with the same guy, then yes it all blurs together. But a hook up we only had sex with once? We remember. We don’t blur together sexual experiences across different guys. Men aren’t that interchangeable! I still remember casual hook ups from a decade ago at least well enough to remember which sex acts were involved. I may not remember the date or even his name. But I remember if he stuck it in, how big it was, and how good the sex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:43 PM
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Or we pretend to like it because it turns him on, so he gets really into it and starts calling us a cumslut, which then really does turn us on (the name, not the cum itself)... -ahem- But yeah, I love watching him cum...into a towel. Nothing worse than the slow drip drip of a guy’s liquefying cum the next day while you’re running around at work. Doesn’t matter how much you bear down to try to squeeze it out. You never manage to get it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:26 PM
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Recap, please? I’m new here, so I’m out of the loop... 🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:20 PM
1

Me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:19 PM
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Empathy threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:16 PM
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Idk, I suck balls, and guys are always (pleasantly) surprised by it. I think knowing your way around a set of balls is widely considered a true-slut tell, since it signals a certain level of confidence on the woman’s part. Like with my first BF, I wouldn’t even touch his balls because I was too afraid to hurt him. 10 years later, I know balls so well that I suck them, fondle them, slap them, etc. Even in my sleep. I know what most guys can withstand, so I’m confident I won’t (accidentally) hurt …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:15 PM
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A lot of these men confide in me about their dead bedrooms. In all cases, their wives were never high libido to begin with. They were low libido women who never initiated, but were receptive. Once kids were in the picture, they stopped being receptive, because they didn’t need to be. Their dumbass husbands didn’t realize their wives were always low libido women simply being receptive to their advances until they got what they wanted (marriage + kids). I don’t feel much sympathy, either, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:33 PM
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High libido. I have a masculine sex drive (intrinsic, not reactive).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:21 PM
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because I assume a lot of people find like random body parts and fuck feet that are no longer attached to the body Are you a secret fan of the vajankle (NSFW)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:15 AM
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Sure, but I have a different threshold for what I consider victimization. I go out of my way (in concrete, self-sacrificing ways) to help both men and women who are victimized in the workplace (sexually or otherwise). I have helped men who were harassed and then wrongfully dismissed when they reported it, men who were injured at work, and men who were falsely accused and defamed by their employer. But I don’t have much energy left over to get fired up over the marital problems of complete strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:04 AM
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Right. That’s why I wouldn’t commit long term to an older guy. The further away he is from the wall, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:44 AM
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Most men I know over 30 are dealing with some combination of: dead bedrooms, mistresses pushing for commitment, getting caught cheating on their wives, divorce, and co-parenting kids who hate them for cheating. If anything, older men have more problems when it comes to women!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:08 AM
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Wow. PPD skews really young, doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:56 AM
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I would have casual sex with a man who is 10-25 years older than me (provided he is attractive, has a hard body, and can keep up with me in the bedroom) but it’s very unlikely that I would be interested in an LTR with him. He may still look good and fuck good now, but I don’t want to be trapped in a marriage with a 65 year old man when I’m only 40!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:54 AM
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I was sexually victimized by my boss and I wasn’t even allowed to take time off work to cope with it. My employer told me that he hoped I was strong enough not to let my performance suffer. Women aren’t given any leeway for their trauma. No victims of any kind are ever given any leeway for anything. The world is cruel and people are either evil or simply indifferent to the suffering that they cause. Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:48 AM
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Women do not care about the size of a man’s load. I’m surprised you would even think this. Good aim is a plus, though! I hate getting it in my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:31 AM
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I care about the size of his dick, not the size of his balls. So unless the size is so abnormal that I’m medically concerned about him, it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:28 PM
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I think it’s just being reported more. In the past, if a male student had sex with a female teacher, it wouldn’t even be recognized as abuse. Even if the student told his parents (very unlikely until recently), it likely wouldn’t be taken seriously at all. Also, sexual abuse IN GENERAL (regardless of gender) is being reported more often (metoo effect). When I was in high school, there were three male teachers who had affairs with female students. There was a scandal each time, but the teachers w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:55 PM
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These are all true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:35 PM
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That’s super weird. Maybe they took objection to the word “mutilation”? I think elective circumcision of kids should be outlawed, but I wouldn’t use the word “mutilated” because it body shames people who are circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:32 PM
1

Shit, you’re right! But I find parsley tastes very “sharp.” Maybe that’s what she means by spicy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:16 PM
1

I wouldn’t go on a date with a man if I couldn’t see myself ever having sex with him. Like, he needs to be attractive enough that I’d sleep with him as long as he doesn’t do anything to fuck up the sale, so to speak (e.g. Milosevic fanboy).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:15 PM
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I think they look weird, but I actually really like playing with them or even just holding or cupping them during cuddles and sleep. I don’t care about size, as long as it’s within the normal range. Shaved is nice, but hair isn’t a big deal (focus on plucking any hairs on the shaft). They are an acquired taste, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:10 PM
1

Better than soapy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:06 PM
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No. I don’t care how a man treated his previous partners (unless he was violent). Every relationship is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 09:02 PM
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She can’t REMEMBER what sex acts she engaged in?? That is not remotely normal. Either she’s lying to you or she was black out drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:53 PM
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No, it’s usually that crazy BPD nympho chick who was super kinky and down for anything. Hotness is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:51 PM
1

Well, if you do an empirical study correctly, you’re collecting data from a representative sample, so that the results can be generalized to the population that you sampled from. A simple aggregate of anecdotal data is a qualitative study. That’s basically what TRP is,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 04:44 PM
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Yep. You get it. You are objectively high value. More importantly, your GF considered you high value when you met, which is why she chose you. So as long as you maintain your high value, and make sure she doesn’t outpace you significantly in self-improvement, you will keep her hypergamy in check. Then you just have to make sure that you don’t neglect her or betray her. There is always the possibility that she will randomly fall in love with someone and actually act on it (cheat and/or branch swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:20 PM
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Men LIKE a compliant woman, but over time they treat her as lower value. Because they can. And eventually, they start to believe that she is low value, because she puts up with. Most people treat each other as poorly as they can get away with. It’s human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:04 PM
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Even women who don’t like giving blow jobs can be hyper competitive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 02:30 PM
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Yeah. She probably felt kink-shamed. Like she assumed that you bailed because of the BDSM stuff. Why did you forget about the first girl just because you found the second one? Couldn’t you date them both and decide who you like more?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:51 PM
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I’m confused about the second girl. So, you went on one date, and there was zero communication from her to you or from you to her until 2.5 months later? It was just a date? Did you at least kiss? Did you tell her at the end of the date that you wanted to see her again, but just never followed up with her to make plans? Even still, it’s not really ghosting if she’s just upset that you didn’t ask her out again. Ghosting would be if she texted you after the date to say that she had a good time and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 03:38 AM
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Depends if you’re likely to run into them again, or not. The whole point of ghosting is to avoid awkwardness. That’s why it’s so common with OLD — you will never see that person again unless you want to. You can safety ghost people you met IRL at a club or bar or on the street. But if it’s an acquaintance (classmate, dorm mate, regular at your gym, etc) then ghosting is more awkward than the alternative, so it makes no sense. I have seen people switch tutorial groups, or duck and run to avoid pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 02:30 AM
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Personally, I don’t think it counts as ghosting unless you’ve had sex. At the very least, you need to have gone out on an actual date, in person, and tentatively arranged a follow up. Kids these days talk about how they were ghosted by a match on Tinder or some shit like that, and it turns out that they never even communicated outside the app. That is not ghosting; it’s simply good time management.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 02:00 AM
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I don’t go to clubs, but I hear that every girl clique has that one fat girl on a mission to cock block, so each night there is a different wingman designated to take one for the team. Can’t you just put this guy on eternal Fat Girl duty, so that the rest of you can get with her hot friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:51 AM
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That's what an in-person date is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:29 AM
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AWALT = Enough of the attractive women in your dating pool are like that to a great enough extent that it is reasonable to expect the same of your precious unicorn and to plan accordingly. The corollary to AWALT is: most men are not special enough to attract a unicorn and keep her from turning into a broodmare, but all men think that they are (AMALT).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:27 AM
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How much do you really need to say about yourself that you need more than 3 sentences? Keep it short and sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:05 AM
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She understood that you were asking her out, and she politely changed the subject hoping you would get the hint. She's not interested. What if I'm wrong? Now let's say she didn't understand your intentions and thought that you just wanted to hang out as friends. Well, she's not even interested in that much. That's worse, not better. So either way, she is definitely not into you. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:03 AM
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How long?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:51 AM
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I'm not sure if it's a love letter to Atlas or a love letter to Isabel Briggs Myers, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:49 AM
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You would rather be trapped in a marriage with a Catholic woman who hates your guts and won't fuck you? Knowing that the only reason she stays with you is because she's afraid to burn in hell for all eternity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:30 AM
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Tinder has profiles. Some people even read them!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:18 AM
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Would not bang. Yes. I was on the rebound, horny, and he was a safe option. I told him I was self-conscious, turned off the lights, and asked him to fuck me from behind. No regrets, but would not repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:08 AM
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When a guy won't commit to her, a girl assumes the problem is with him. When a girl won't commit to a guy, he wonders what's wrong with him. Men take it more personally because it's so rare for a woman to have sex with a man, but withhold her commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:57 PM
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This is a good attitude to have. There are men on here who can’t even plate a girl without first going through the mental exercise of graphing her marriageability as a function of her age-adjusted N-count. How can a man who is that neurotic about sex ever chill out enough to maintain an erection with a girl he’s only just met??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:38 PM
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Harassment. We have laws to address it, but in practice they typically cause enormous harm for people on all sides, while yielding little to no benefit for the victim, the organization, or society at large. The lawyers do quite well for themselves, though! DM me for more details if interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:15 PM
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brb, googling foreign synonyms for “daddy” to try out tonight...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:04 PM
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I used to think so, but my experience has taught me otherwise. Unfortunately, the feminists I know would rather tweet about dumb shit like mansplaining in meetings and “manels” at conferences, than deal with the hard stuff, like targeted harassment and the lengths that lawyers will go to in order to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:00 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I don’t get why feminists are so concerned with the subjective power dynamics in their sexual & romantic life, when there are men who wield actual, objective power over us (boss, professor, landlord, police officer, etc) who can do so much more harm when they exploit that power and get away with it (as routinely happens). I’m too busy trying to survive the workplace as a woman to spare any real thought to gender roles in my personal life. I don’t need a pre-negotiated set of bound…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:59 PM
1

People need boxes to understand how to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:04 PM
7

Lena Dunham is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:50 PM
0

For like, a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:45 PM
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These guys love the idea of being used for sex; they are thrilled at the idea of women seeing them as a walking dildo. They don't even care if they want a relationship from the woman, because getting sex is either all they wanted anyway, or good enough even without a relationship. Sure, this is what men say, at least initially. And they may even believe it, because they’ve never been confronted with that situation before. But my experience has repeatedly told me otherwise. Fuckboys love to dish …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:34 PM
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Yeah, it works way better on the girl in your office who gets off on pretending she’s your secretary, because she doesn’t actually have to field your calls all damn day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:15 PM
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I love being called “good girl” and “good little girl” in bed, but “daddy” is still a bit much for me. Also, is it a turn off (for men) to do the daddy/good girl thing in bed with a guy who actually has kids? Like, are dads weirded out by calling a woman their “good little girl” during sex? I’ve always wondered about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:07 PM
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Yeah. I’m continuously surprised how much nail polish makes a difference. I don’t think they even consciously pay attention to it, but they perceive you as more attractive, somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:01 PM
2

I knew a Skyler. He was a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:59 AM
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Men almost never compliment my looks in real life. Even men who are interested enough to pursue me stick to non-superficial compliments. The ones I hear most often are: “interesting”, “smart”, and “fun/easy to talk to.” Compliments like pretty, beautiful, hot, etc are much more common online. I think the kind of men who have the confidence to approach women in real life tend to communicate their attraction either through actions (openly leering with a smile, kino, physical escalation) or through…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:54 AM
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More like they’re afraid to even approach beautiful women, let alone compliment them. Becky learned her lesson back in high school, when that bitch Stacey invited her to sit with the popular girls at lunch, only to laugh in her face in front of the whole cafeteria. Not all Stacies were Mean Girls, but every Becky remembers one who was!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:28 AM
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I know I’m doing well when I’m getting IOIs in my scrubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:42 AM
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When I’m at my most attractive, people who have only just met me automatically assume that I have a rich boyfriend/husband. Particularly older men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:37 AM
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Ugh, I hate sapiosexuals. They’re always wanting me to talk smart to them to get them in the mood. I’m so tired of men objectifying me for my brain. I’m a whole person just like they are!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:26 AM
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Just make sure she doesn’t assert copyright on the pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:19 AM
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Tell her that you don’t understand why men make such a big deal about blow jobs; you’ve never even been able to cum that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:04 AM
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Good advice, but for the wrong kind of job. He’s seeking a blow job, not a rim job!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:00 AM
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Why do Stacies have more realistic views on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:11 AM
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Siri, what is TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:55 AM
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lol if that’s the case, then I must have hit the wall at the age of 20...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:51 AM
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The man’s or the woman’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:38 AM
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I have seen newly divorced, high SMV men (i.e. the new “eligible bachelor” in town) being treated like radioactive waste by quality women as soon as it gets out that the marriage ended as a result of his infidelity. No woman wants to marry a known cheater — it lowers her status. All the other women will think she’s gullible and pathetic, and will either pity her, call her a gender traitor, or take bets on how long before he cheats on her like he cheated on his first wife. Women have a lot of sym…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:35 AM
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Preselection and social proofing works on both men and women. Men want a woman on their arm who all the other men are lusting after — it gives him bragging rights (even if he doesn’t cash it in) and raises his social status. It’s an ego thing. But they want a woman who is highly desired by other men but who is extremely selective, nonetheless (i.e. not a slut). Because that means he must really be special if this super hot babe is only willing to spread her legs for him and for no one else. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:14 AM
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When a man cheats, he sees you as one of many worthy gene receptacles. Oh stop it, you sweet talker; you’re making me swoon!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 03:01 AM
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IME, cheaters tend to become friends with each other. So there likely are entire social circles of married men who hit the bars together to pick up women. Similarly, there are entire social circles of married women who go on a girl’s vacation to the Dominican in search of young hunks. It makes sense that cheaters end up in the same social circles — they are shunned by non-cheaters and so they stick with others like them who will keep their secrets and won’t judge them. Non-cheaters in the social…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:57 AM
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Oh god, this is going to be the plot of the Reddit movie, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:36 AM
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Appropriate user name!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:06 PM
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If she’s stone faced and avoiding eye contact, it could be intentional (bitch shield).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:53 PM
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Your penis sounds like a smart guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:20 PM
2

What about push-pull, though? Isn’t that covert?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:14 PM
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I don’t have revenge fantasies. I was simply relating a funny anecdote to illustrate a point. Hot Tub Guy is not living rent free in my head. I wouldn’t have even remembered him if it weren’t for this thread. I thought we were just having a bit of a fun back and forth here, but I guess I misread the situation. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:11 PM
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This was when I had first arrived at the house and I asked him, “hey, have you seen the host of the party around anywhere?” “He went upstairs,” he replied. “I’m sure he’ll be back down any minute. In the meantime, have you see his hot tub? Did you know I sold it to him? Come on, I’ll show it to you...” I think he assumed that I was just another one of the party girls trying desperately to catch Host’s eye. That’s why he pretended they were buddies. It never occurred to him that I would figure ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:53 PM
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Except he took it too far and told me that he’d sold the host of the party (a very popular, high SMV guy) the hot tub that he was showing me. He pretended they were buddies. I think he was working the whole preselection angle by positioning himself as part of the host’s crew. Unfortunately for him, he didn’t know that I was, in fact, dating the host. Later that night, the host pointed to Hot Tub Guy and complained to me: “I don’t know why this weirdo keeps trying to talk to me like we’re best fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:35 PM
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lol I was like, good for you, she took it really well!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:19 PM
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I prefer to score the opposite sex using a statistically validated five-point Likert scale. This human being is sexually attractive. Strongly disagree Disagree Neither agree or disagree Agree Strongly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:18 PM
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There have definitely been times when I didn’t realize that a low SMV guy was hitting on me, simply because I wasn’t paying close attention to was he was saying. I remember one time at a house party, a guy told me that he was a hot tub salesman and started showing me the hot tub, pointing out all the jets and stuff. Later, I found out from someone else that he wasn’t actually a hot tub salesman. That was just a rehearsed routine that he does as an opener. At the time, I legitimately took him at …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:09 PM
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You told her that you want an open relationship? Or just that it’s normal for a man to fantasize about women he meets?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:00 PM
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Here is my litmus test for the UC guys: if he wasn’t a doctor, lawyer, wealthy, or from the same family, would you still want to fuck him? Would you want to fuck him if you couldn’t tell anyone about it, ever? If the answer is no, then he’s not Dr. AF. He’s Dr. BB. You’re fucking him for the prestige and the social status. Not for the tingles. I can count on one hand the number of doctors I’ve met who are genuinely Dr. AF. And I’ve met a lot of doctors. Same with lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:40 PM
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In principle, I have no issue with it. For an LTR, I would evaluate it on a case by case basis: - which PEDs now and in the past? - what are his levels? - any side effects? what is he doing to monitor for these, and what is his plan to deal with them if they arise? - how is the rest of his health? - does he have a family history of heart disease? - what are his goals? why is he doing it? - is he realistic and balanced in his approach? Is he able to keep it within moderation or is he developing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:34 PM
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Like most girls, I have weird hang ups about pooping. Even a decade later, I still hate it when he forgets to close the bathroom door and I can hear him take a dump. He’ll come back to find me hiding morosely underneath the covers, and he can tell just by the look on my face that I heard him going number two again. I’ve warned him that if he keeps pooping within earshot, I’m eventually going to fall out of love with him over it, but he doesn’t seem too concerned about that. He’s convinced that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:57 AM
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Yes. I’m not worried these guys will rape me (we’re old friends; I trust them). I manage their expectations to avoid wasting their time, prevent awkward misunderstandings (that can ruin friendships), and be respectful to my SO (I almost always have one) and his SO (if he has one). I just think it’s a kind and respectful way to go about things with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:15 AM
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To clarify: I’ve only dated other liberal atheist types like me. So my dating pool selects for men who are less likely to judge a woman negatively for having sex on the first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:11 AM
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You’re welcome. I honesty didn’t fully understand how traumatic this stuff was until I was in that situation myself. Prior to that, I always told myself I wouldn’t fight back unless the guy was clearly a serial killer. But now I truly understand how someone can come out of something like rape physically unharmed but psychologically dead inside — potentially forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:48 PM
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Sexual blackmail is traumatic for the same reason you said: someone using the threat of something sexual to exert power and control over your destiny. With respect to spousal rape: personally, I have never turned down my partner for PIV. Even if I didn’t want to have sex. So it’s hard to imagine a situation involving PIV that I would personally consider spousal rape. However, I hate anal and I’m very clear about this boundary. So if my partner put anything in my butt without my explicit verbal p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:42 PM
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Dental dams exist solely to make us feel guilty about not using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:18 PM
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Are you telling me a man would still have sex with a woman if she started talking to him about herpes??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:16 PM
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We don't even have to watch the whole movie! Just the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:12 PM
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You should edit your post to include some example scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:08 PM
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non-trad = non-traditional (I don't want kids and I'm in no rush to marry; I'm open to sexual non-monogamy). HL = High Libido PPW = Purple Pill Woman soft-feminist = My feminist activism is restricted to ensuring that laws intended to protect women (mainly at school, in the workplace, and from sexual violence) are fully enforced. I want to be treated exactly the same as men in my professional life, but I seek masculine/feminine polarity in my relationships. Feminists these days seem to focus a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:05 PM
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I once went home with a Chad on the first date. He was the most attractive man I had ever seen up close and we really hit it off at the bar. When he got home, he excused himself to the bathroom. I waited for him on the couch, which was positioned in such a way that the bathroom door was visible. He left the bathroom door open a crack (by accident) and I clearly heard him take a dump. I briefly considered leaving, but forced myself to compartmentalize and ended up having sex with him that night, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:52 PM
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He was. I wasn't. Unfortunately for him, I know my history. It was super awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:45 PM
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I agree, but in the workplace, you can't always choose not to be alone with men. Like when your boss keeps inviting you into his office at the end of the day to discuss a project. You can try to come up with excuses and keep the conversation on track, but you can't just refuse or get up and leave. Not if you want to keep your job, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:43 PM
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I occasionally meet up one on one for lunch with old friends from high school or university if they are in town (or vice versa) just to catch up. My friend groups from high school and university are so scattered since everyone moved all over the place for work, so in practice it's next to impossible to arrange group meet ups. In all these cases, one or both of us was always in a committed LTR. Still, I was careful not to flirt, and I let him know beforehand that I had to go back to work after lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:37 PM
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I am none of those things (except a freak in bed) and I’ve never been a party girl (I can count the number of times I’ve gone out to a club or bar on one hand), so maybe they just give me a pass. I also actively screen out trad cons and religious guys, so I’m sure that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:46 PM
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Personally, I only go home with a man I’m on a date with because I intend to have sex with him. Almost always this leads to sex, and even if we never see each other again, I have no regrets. HOWEVER, there has been the odd time when I have gone home with a man, fully intending to have sex with him, but once we’re back at his place, he says or does something unexpected that destroys all the comfort & rapport we’ve built or completely destroys my attraction to him. When something goes badly wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:42 PM
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No. I just have a male-type sex drive, which is admittedly pretty rare among women. It’s hormonal for me. I know this because when I went on the birth control pill, my sex drive dropped markedly and became almost completely reactive (like the typical woman’s). I stopped even thinking about sex with men other than my partner. When I stopped taking the pill (at his request), I returned to my male-type sex drive. Studies show that the birth control pill increases levels of sex hormone binding globu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:01 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:50 PM
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Read my reply to another user in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cs0v7b/would_most_men_rape_if_they_could_get_away_with_it/excqd53/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:48 PM
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Imagining myself as the woman in this scenario, even if the man who was forced to rape me at gun point was a hideous stranger, I would prefer he rape me than get shot. Of course murder is worse than rape. Even on a solipsistic level, watching him die would be more traumatic than getting raped by him. Hell, in that scenario, I would consider the guy holding the gun to be my rapist (by proxy) and the man penetrating me to be a victim just like me. Now, if we are speaking about a more typical rape …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:36 PM
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Plating means ongoing casual sex, typically for months, while actively withholding commitment and exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:26 PM
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Not weird; solipsistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:14 PM
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Because eventually, every man meets a cow he likes so much that he simply must own her. He calls her the Unicorn Cow, because he loves the sound of her moo as much he loves the taste of her milk. He tells all the men at the market that his Unicorn Cow is different than every other cow he’s every milked, and he doesn’t understand why they can’t see how special she is. He buys the Unicorn Cow and isn’t seen at the market again — until her milk goes sour and her incessant moo-ing starts to irritate…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:11 PM
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This is my experience with high caliber men. But also IME, high caliber men don’t care about an LTR prospect’s n-count (they don’t even ask) and they aren’t put off at all if she has sex with him on the first date. They assume that, whatever her n-count is, it’s lower than his (usually accurate) and that if she’s having sex with him early on, it’s because he’s so high value, not because she’s easy. Women having first date sex with him is simply the norm, so it doesn’t even occur to him to judge …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:50 PM
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Not necessarily. Many women cheat for attention and validation from men who have an equivalent SMV to their partner. Especially if they feel neglected by him or feel he’s not as invested as they are in the relationship. This is the main way that alphas get cheated on by their wives or GFs (she cheats with another alpha or with a high beta). This is not driven by hypergamy; it’s driven by insecurity. Even branch swinging can be motivated by the need for a safety net (securing a temporary rebound …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:35 PM
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Why did she steal your clothes? Like, what’s the point? Even designer clothes aren’t really worth consigning, and it’s not like she could wear them herself. She sounds like a particularly dumb thief.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:19 PM
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He’s one of those “my dick is it’s own reward” types. Sometimes the dick really is it’s own reward, but not as often as we all would like... 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:17 PM
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Pretty sure that u/PrideInIndividuality is a man. That’s why he can’t comprehend why women would ever choose to remain celibate when they have such easy access to casual sex. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:14 PM
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The vast majority of women can, but aren’t willing to, have indiscriminate sex with randoms simply to break a dry spell. Unattractive women can get casual sex with unattractive men whenever they want, casual sex with attractive men often enough, and LTRs with unattractive men with some time & effort. Attractive women can get casual sex with attractive men whenever they want, LTRs with unattractive men whenever they want, and LTRs with attractive men with some time & effort (depending on personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:09 PM
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What do you mean by number 1? Girls instigate dangerous fights with men who approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:38 PM
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Yeah, I’m speaking of millennials. Gen-X men aren’t like that, IME. Not sure if Gen Z are better or worse than millennials; I have little contact with them. My younger brother (Gen Z) does just fine for himself with girls (and has since high school), even though he’s short and a bit chubby. But he’s confident and charismatic like me, and much more social than I ever was, so he’s popular and near the top of every social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:36 PM
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I would say most (but not all) casual sex is at least partly about power. We enjoy seducing new partners because it validates our sexual power over the opposite sex. But I think most LTR sex is mainly about pair bonding or about getting your sexual needs met (and exploring them, if you’re kinky) with someone who is familiar and safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:28 PM
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Yes. And quite understandably, many people across the political spectrum were alarmed by the idea of someone like that wielding presidential power. Because someone who behaves as though he’s above even basic social norms is more likely to behave as though he’s above all norms (including legal & ethical ones).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:21 PM
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Yeah. TBP at its best is just Purple Pillers doing amused mastery, and the stemlord contingent of Red Pill not getting it since they haven’t yet mastered irony, while the socially savvy Red Pillers stay on the sidelines, trying to hide their smiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:05 PM
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Nah, women on the internet just don’t hang out on Reddit because they’re too busy reading and writing erotic fanfic. Men use the internet to talk about real life; women use the internet to escape it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:53 PM
1

Like MRAs, blue pillers are simply reactivists, not activists. 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:47 PM
1

There is, but it sure as hell doesn’t run through nihilism!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:44 PM
0

Nah, I’m like a 7, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:24 PM
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Yeah but most men only talk that way with their buddies, not with men they barely even know. Trump and Billy Bush were not friends. I don’t think they had even met before that day. That’s what makes it weird. There is a fraction of men who posture and talk shit like that with every man they meet, but other men find it super annoying & uncomfortable and think those men are total douche bags.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:20 PM
0

Histrionic is not the same thing as charismatic. A histrionic person comes off as out of control, shallow, and lacking composure. Charismatic people project a deep intensity that remains fully under their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:09 PM
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Yeah, I’m convinced charisma is the main reason that I’m as successful with men as I am. Men seem to hang onto my every word. Like, even years later they will quote back something that I said to them off the cuff. In general, I make a very strong impression on people (usually a good one, but some people fixate on me in a negative way and then go out of their way to actively ruin my life). I’m starting to teach myself charm (charisma comes naturally to me, but charm definitely does not), and it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:03 PM
4

So she was sexually assertive but simultaneously projected submissiveness? Can you give an example of how a woman might do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:55 PM
4

Game. Even the most seasoned player will drop (most of) his game when he’s serious about a girl. He will dial back the player shit so fast that everyone around him gets whiplash. He will openly and confidently pursue her with such single-minded purpose that a future with him just starts to feel inevitable to her. He’ll still be alpha (lead, escalate, hold frame), but all that push-pull game that he does with plates goes right out the window. His frame becomes “you are my unicorn and you will pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:51 PM
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The last one is why I shit test. I consciously shit test for safety. Always have, before I even knew that it was called a shit test. If a man reacts badly to a verbal shit test, he probably won’t take it well if I tell him he can’t put it in my butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:37 PM
4

Of course a man feels threatened & heart broken if his wife falls in love with another man, even if she never acts on it. Especially if he perceives the other man to be superior to him in some way. And most women hate getting cheated on (even just NSA), because it wounds their pride. Even if he’s discreet about it. That’s why many wives don’t ask questions. They don’t want to know. But in principle, I agree with you. Alphas generally don’t give a shit if their girl is using her beta orbiters as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 02:30 PM
1

Why would I commit to a guy before I’ve even had a chance to sample the goods? Sexual compatibility is critically important to me. I don’t want to invest in a guy, agree to be his GF, only to have to dump him after we fuck. Not only is that a waste of time (for both of us), it’s unnecessarily cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:24 PM
4

lol what. I’ve only ever been in LTRs with men who have lots of sexual options. They demanded exclusivity with me so that I wouldn’t fuck around on them. Men only want an open relationship if it’s one-sided. Even a high SMV man will happily give up casual sex to lock down an attractive, high quality woman, as long as she keeps him sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:19 PM
51

Purity fetish and Madonna-Whore Complex. Men watch a lot of really hardcore porn, even if they only want vanilla sex in real life. Most men don’t like anal all that much, but still want it at least once for ego reasons. Even the most stoic and kind man can still completely lose his shit and become violent (or close to it) from sexual jealousy. Men don’t like sex nearly as much if they can’t brag about it. Men often have sex for validation. A surprising number of young men would rather sit at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:51 AM
3

What do you mean by plate school?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:34 AM
4

Yup. Story of my (dating) life. And in all 3 cases, they were the ones pushing for LTR, within just weeks of meeting me. (I was hesitant due to player vibes and/or reputation). They pursued me with a non-needy but openly passionate intensity. Very little to no game playing and I never had to guess how they felt about me. It was obvious — to EVERYONE. And they gave zero fucks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 11:57 PM
0

Hey guys, I found natural Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 08:27 PM
3

If the mode is 1 or 2 and the mean is 7, then the median is going to be less than 7, not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 07:18 PM
1

I have a degree in evolutionary genetics. Men say stupid shit to me on dates ALL THE TIME. They read a couple articles on evo psych or game theory and think they understand all of human behaviour now, but they don’t even understand how genes work beyond Mendel and his pea plants. Why would I bother fact checking them? I’m not their teacher. I just change the subject. There is no joy in debating someone on a topic they know nothing about. It’s just tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 04:49 PM
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IME with men of a high enough SMV to be able to get casual sex, these men separate attractive women into two categories: LTR material and casual sex/plate material. They approach and treat these women differently, and even look for them in different contexts. If they are going out to the bar to pick up, they are looking for plates, not LTR prospects. If they want an LTR, they look to their social circles, work, and OLD for serious prospects. And they don’t plate a girl that they think could be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 04:22 PM
1

Many acquaintance rapists (the vast majority of rapists) do, in fact, rape to punish women who reject them (or women they assume will reject them). Most rapists are not psychopaths; they are impulsive men who have difficulty coping with negative emotions (anger, rejection, jealousy. emasculation, humiliation). They rape to exert power over women that they perceive to have wronged them (rejection and/or betrayal). Those other crimes you mentioned are much less common than rape, unless you live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 03:01 PM
2

I only ever have long and complex thoughts about guys I’m making eyes at! Maybe that’s why they don’t approach: I look like I’m solving differential equations in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 02:25 PM
1

He does look like a thief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 01:27 PM
2

The femcels aren’t afraid of Chad because they know that one of 3 things will happen: 1. Chad won’t even notice her. 2. Even if Chad notices her, he likely won’t approach her, isolate her, or try to touch her. He may even actively avoid all of the above. 3. If Chad is desperate enough to fuck her, she won’t want to turn him down, anyway. Femcels aren’t afraid of getting raped by Chads because they know it’s extremely unlikely that they will be in the position where they are rejecting Chad’s adva…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:29 PM
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I’m just as vigilant around good looking men. This could be because I was sexually harassed at work by a Chadington III type, though. He pretended to be the perfect family man, but behind closed doors the mask came right off. He actually got off on living a double life, I think. He was the most predatory man I’ve ever personally interacted with. Also, I think lots of women have the spectre of Ted Bundy in the back of their mind when a clean cut, good looking man approaches them out of the blue a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:05 PM
1

Same with toy cars, legos, etc. Kids toys these days are so high tech. Instead of flying kites they are flying remote controlled drones!! I miss my Barbies and my Transformers (I liked my girl toys and my boy toys equally).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 09:07 PM
1

What are white crows?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:35 PM
4

I’m too afraid to express my femininity at work, because it draws unwanted sexual attention from male supervisors. In addition to wearing a (fake) wedding band, I consciously appear and behave more masculine at work to signal that I’m not receptive to advances and that I’m not easy prey. I’d rather that my male boss thinks I’m a frigid bitch instead of viewing me as a sexual or romantic prospect. If you are young, attractive, and exude feminine sweetness at work, there will be older male supervi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:27 PM
3

What about Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle? And Princess Diana, before them, of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:51 PM
1

Sorry, to clarify: the men I’ve been with can get hard again after 8-12 hours, but they typically can’t ejaculate more than once per 24 hours (not day after day, anyway). On weekends, a guy might fuck me multiple times per day, but most of those sessions result in me reaching orgasm, but not him. I don’t mind because it keeps him revved up for me all day and he doesn’t mind because all the build up makes the eventual orgasm so much more intense for him! However, this kind of all day tease & deni…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:44 PM
1

Can you give me an example scenario for your last paragraph? I don’t think I’ve noticed this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:07 PM
1

Alpha Fucks is the hit man. Beta Bucks hires the hit man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 07:04 PM
1

Seriously. I’m a size queen, and even I’m good with anything greater than 5.5” length & 4.5” circumference as long as he has good stamina.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:47 PM
2

Sounds like he’s just a really attractive man who has no idea how to physically escalate. There are quite a lot of them out there. Some of them are even great at pick up, but don’t know how to keep escalating once they’ve got you at their place. Really attractive men can get away with this for years, because there are enough women like me out there who are wiling to take matters into our own hands to make the first time sex actually happen. They’re much more comfortable taking the lead after the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:03 PM
2

I have. But it didn’t necessarily indicate intense sexual desire. I was just horny and the guy was too inexperienced and/or chickenshit to take the lead and physically escalate, so I had to take matters into my own hands. Happens a lot with younger guys, even the Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:55 PM
2

Most men I’ve been with had long enough refractory periods that they were unable to keep up with such a pace over the long term. And I’m talking athletic men, here. They’d pound me until they dropped, though, so maybe they just needed a little extra time to recover?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:47 PM
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Can confirm. Have fucked Chads hoping for spontaneous orgasms. Alas, Chad still has to put in the same work to make me come as Beta Billy does. Sexual desire doesn’t automatically translate into orgasms; there are still multiple steps in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:39 PM
1

Yeah, whenever I’m spending time with my partner, I’m always either touching, asking to see, or talking about his junk. He jokes that his penis is like a third wheel in the relationship. I retort that, actually, he’s the third wheel! Sometimes his penis and I get along better than he and I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:33 PM
1

What does “dtf” look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:28 PM
1

Yeah, if I still have energy to fuck after a 30 hour call shift, there’s no excuse for writing off sex during the work week. Sounds like an excuse to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:27 PM
2

Isn’t most anal in an LTR duty anal? I hate anal (very painful for me...and I’m a sexual masochist), so duty anal is the only kind of anal I’m even capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:24 PM
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For us (admittedly rare) high libido women, though, even initiating daily is not necessarily a sign of interest... I initiated sex daily with my WOW-addicted Man-Child ex-bf, who I didn’t respect as either a man or a person, until the day I finally dumped his thoroughly mediocre ass. I wasn’t even physically attracted to him. But I had needs and he had an 8 inch dick to fulfill them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:21 PM
1

What do you mean by treating your sexual life with her like you were FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:50 PM
1

raises hand I get wet for the preppy douche face. This guy has definitely got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:16 PM
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His face is symmetrical, but I agree, it does nothing for me otherwise. Not sure if it’s just his race, or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:57 AM
1

It’s a bit difficult to rate without heights and full body shots. First guy looks short and scrawny so I’ll say 4? If he’s tall, I’ll give him a 5 and if he lifts on top of that, he gets a 6. Second guy is an 8 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:54 AM
1

I don’t stop fighting. Maybe acceptance is the wrong word? When I’m in a dangerous situation, I become sort of detached from my emotions (so I can keep calm and think rationally despite my fear). I realize I’m in mortal danger, time slows down, I become hyper aware of my surroundings, and my mind automatically starts running through escape scenarios and assessing the relative risks and likelihood of success for each. I’m truly terrified, but at the same time my fear feels really...distant. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:37 AM
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Yes. I’m a very assertive woman, and I don’t often feel like prey. But in situations where I suddenly realize I am being hunted (and it doesn’t necessarily have to be by strangers in a deserted street) it’s similar to how you described, and it’s absolutely terrifying. You’re scanning your environment, trying to come up with an escape plan (and a back up escape plan in case the first one fails), while at the same time this fatalistic inevitability starts to set in and you begin to accept the real…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:11 AM
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Yes. The combination of superior upper body strength (including grip strength) and superior reach means that almost any man can physically overpower any untrained woman. Men’s faster reaction time and comfort with physical aggression also give untrained men an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:04 AM
0

Weirdly ironic coming from Louis CK...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:52 AM
1

Suddenly changing gears from “dead” to “alive” has got to result in some psychological whiplash, though. Can’t you just have a couple of drinks like the rest of us mortals and permanently join the ranks of the living? Alternatively, try “undead” next time. Evokes the same existential nihilism, but with a dash of sexy vampire that will set you up to vibe well with the Twilight-obsessed Stacey of your immortal fever dreams!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:49 AM
1

omg this poor grandma. What is the German word that describes the way this grandma dies a little bit inside every time she calls her beloved little incel grandson Chad with a straight face?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:40 AM
2

Isn’t WASP Chad just...Chad? Although I do love Chaddington III.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:35 AM
2

I’m not sure that’s 100% true. If you spend hours a day fapping to redheads, you’ll probably become (at least slightly) more attracted to redheads. There is an element of behavioural conditioning involved in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:24 AM
1

But they can control their introverted stemlord tendencies!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:11 AM
1

Pretty sure the femcels would disagree with you on that last bit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:08 AM
1

Don’t approach women you work with. Gaming women in the workplace is advanced level shit that is best left to experienced alphas who are highly skilled at reading body language and calibrating accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 03:06 AM
1

What kind of women are these?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:55 AM
3

This is a very insightful point. Chad is always Chad, but he is only the alpha (top dog) of his own hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:43 AM
1

When you say “how are they magically less picky irl” do you mean for casual sex? Like at a bar or club?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:23 AM
1

Not sure that pretending you’re dead puts you in the best frame for opening a girl with some spontaneous lively banter...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:03 AM
1

To be fair, a trip to the barber takes 15 mins. A hair appointment for a woman can take hours. Even a dye job is way more time and labour intensive for a woman (long hair; highlights) than a man (typically neither).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:49 AM
1

I agree with this. Men who are built like a V look athletic as long as they have low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:20 AM
1

I'm always suspicious of women who have time to go to the salon. A hair cut every 3 months is reasonable. But there are women who go once a month to touch up their roots and their eyelash extensions, and then on top of that they go every week for their gel manicure, snatch wax, and spray tan. It's the equivalent of a part-time job, except that you lose money rather than earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:15 AM
1

How chubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:06 AM
1

Are you saying that ugly people are incapable of pair bonding with each other??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:01 AM
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Selection bias. 90% of the girls you've "been with" were the girls who were attractive and popular enough to have sex in high school. The girls who were invisible then are probably still invisible to you now. The other 10% were late bloomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:59 PM
2

I was not prepared for this bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:53 PM
2

ah, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:43 PM
2

But that’s exactly what I was talking about. Lots of men hide their kinks and fetishes from their partner! They’re afraid we won’t understand and that we’ll judge them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:49 PM
1

It was cervical cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:40 PM
4

Video games count as a serious topic??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:38 PM
1

I don’t even like to hold a sleeping infant in my arms. You know that “new baby” smell women rave about all the time? I hate that smell. I’m starting to find well behaved toddlers sort of cute. I don’t want to play with them, but I like to watch them from afar, sometimes. And I don’t mind school age kids as long as they’re not whiny brats or depraved hooligans. Why does it feel so natural to baby talk with a puppy (any puppy!) but not with an actual baby?? Am I broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:10 PM
3

I’m 30. But I kept all my emo writing from high school. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:58 PM
1

Spending time around mothers & newborns makes me want to run out get my tubes tied, though. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:02 PM
1

Thanks! Sadly it seems that I lost some readers with my first sentence (see the other reply). Apparently the dreaded f-word (which I mentioned only for context, since this is PPD, after all) is an even greater sin than stating that all men have the capacity to rape children and murder women. Peak Reddit. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:23 AM
1

Trick with the string is too leave it long. Over time, it soften up and curls around the cervix. If you cut the strings short, they just poke you directly in the tip. What do you mean by “its as if you are fertile?” To clarify, I have the progesterone IUD, so I do notice some hormonal changes down below.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 03:05 AM
1

TIL there is a thing called “baby instagram” and now I’m horrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:59 AM
2

don’t ask your priest about anal unless you’re fully prepared for the answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:55 AM
2

LOL I do those things but I have an IUD. Win/win!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:51 AM
1

When did your wife’s baby fever start? And did it just suddenly strike her out of the blue? I’m 30, my SO wants kids, but I’m still repulsed by the smell of a human infant (even a clean one). How can I contract this baby fever?? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:47 AM
1

Maybe you have better aim when you’re not under pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:40 AM
1

If she was just baby crazy, why would she even bother asking about your cases? Wouldn’t she stop asking about your job as soon as she confirmed that you’re a lawyer, and move onto a different line of questioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:35 AM
1

I want to know what it’s like to date a baby crazy BPD woman. They must exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:32 AM
2

Lots of non baby-crazed women are obsessed with reforming fuckboys too, though. That’s just because they’re dickmatized, not because they’re baby crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:27 AM
1

What kind of sex do women want and have when they are baby crazy? Do they avoid rough or kinky sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:22 AM
1

How did they managed to get divorced before kids were even in the picture??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:20 AM
1

Paradoxically, I have met men who feel uncomfortable sexually harassing women they perceive as naive/vulnerable, but comfortable doing the same to women they perceive as experienced/assertive. I think it’s related to the Madonna/Whore complex. Men want to act entitled & creepy without feeling like they’re a creep preying on vulnerable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:15 AM
1

Difficult lying? Or difficulty lying convincingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:10 AM
3

Men are only straightforward about the socially acceptable things that turn them on. Good luck getting a man to admit to anything that he perceives as weak, irrational, petty, emasculating, embarrassing, or even just weird. Men take all that shit with them to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:08 AM
1

Make the urologist a hot older woman and you’ve got the start of a plot for a MILF porno...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:42 AM
3

Ah well. You win some; you lose some. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:39 AM
3

Women select for men who are both dominant (aggressive) AND exhibit self-control (safe). TRP correctly understands that women use shit tests to weed out submissive men. But the part TRP misses is that we also use shit tests to weed out men who have poor emotional control and out of control egos. Because an aggressive man who reacts with anger to a verbal shit test isn’t safe to go home with. The more physically intimidating (large, muscular), dominant (escalates sexually), cocky (entitled attitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:12 AM
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Different woman here. I believe that most men do not have the capacity for violence toward women. And yet, I absolutely rely on my ability to read male body language in order to identity dangerous men in social situations and in the workplace, because rapists don’t wear name tags. And if I sense that I’m being targeted by such a man, I continuously scan my environment, actively manage my physical space, start formulating an escape strategy, and use my communication skills to calmly de-escalate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:34 AM
3

Yes, please elaborate. I’m intensely curious about this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:14 AM
1

With your imaginary mistress, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 12:02 AM
2

A few clarifying questions! 1. What do mean by “hits all the three point shots”? 2. I’m assuming your math is based on a SAHM scenario? How does it change if she continues to earn an income after kids are in the picture and/or she brings wealth into the marriage? 3. What about a marriage or LTR without any kids (let’s say neither partner wants them or let’s say the man has grown kids with his ex-wife but his new girl doesn’t want any kids of her own)? 4. Is a “pleasing orientation” the same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:21 PM
2

Wig??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:51 PM
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I’m a feminist-leaning 30 year old woman who has experience dating alphas and high betas. Most of the posts above don’t resonate with me at all. I have a much more positive view of men than most women seem to have. Probably because I’ve had very few negative interactions with men, despite dating around quite a bit. But I do still have a few AMALTs of my own to share with you guys: The male ego is universal. Some men are just better at hiding it. But deep down inside, every man wants to brag to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:47 PM
2

Don’t worry, the heat from the oven denatures all the proteins, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:11 PM
1

Virtues in order? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:13 PM
2

No. People with integrity are routinely driven out of corrupt organizations. Dealing with the corruption also causes emotional burnout.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:08 PM
2

FWIW, I’m with you on this. My profession has a mandatory reporting obligation, but I’m extremely hesitant to call CPS, because I worry about the abuses in the system. And I’ve definitely come across some very sanctimonious (and practically sociopathic) social workers. They gravitate to jobs within the field that give them the power to separate kids from their parents. The social workers who choose to work with adults and the elderly tend to be genuinely good people, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:06 PM
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lol at 15 I hated my parents, the whole world, and life itself. I wore a toque everywhere (even in class), scowled angrily at everyone who dared talk to me, and wrote really emo poetry that my poor English teacher actually had to grade (Mr Roberts, I’m so sorry you had to read all those pages of Iambic Pentameter about how I cut myself to sublimate my existential dread. Truly, you deserved better.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:54 PM
2

We’ve all heard of the “starfish” analogy for transactional sex, but how does a woman act in bed when she’s having sex for validation? How do you tell the difference between a woman acting like a porn star for your validation versus a horny woman who truly wants to get pounded by your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:36 PM
1

“Stop giving so many fucks and you might get a few.” OMG. This needs to be the banner on every TRP sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:32 PM
1

Sex with alphas is transactional too, in your world?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:30 PM
3

You prefer your women well done instead of medium rare? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:27 PM
1

I have had sexual partners describe me as looking/smelling like “ripe fruit” and “ripe and ready to take all this cum” while eating me out and fucking me. I felt like they were plowing me to get me ready for harvest! Very primal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:23 PM
1

Yes. I’m guessing that the man who is watching porn such as this is either imagining his own GF in the porn star’s place, or pretending that the porn star is pregnant with his seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:10 PM
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LOL I know. I was dating a guy with a teenage daughter, and one day I pulled up an old photo of myself to show him how hot I used to be at 19. He visibly cringed, looked away, and said “sorry, too close to my daughter’s age” and it totally killed the mood. I was surprised, since he was clearly into younger women (I was in my mid 20s). Just...not that young, I guess. Although maybe if he’d seen just the photo without knowing that the girl pictured in it was 19, it wouldn’t have triggered his disg…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:01 PM
3

Lots of men are turned on by pregnant women. If a man is having sex with a woman he is in love with, he may fantasize about impregnating her, even if he doesn’t want kids. It’s a fairly common male fantasy (especially if he has high testosterone), but men don’t typically admit to it, because they think it’s weird or wrong to sexualize pregnant women in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:56 PM
4

Some dominant men are only interested in dominating a (feminine) woman that they see as their intellectual equal. They get off on the challenge, and they also don’t feel like they are taking advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:49 PM
6

Teenage girls also remind men of their own teenage daughters, which is an INSTANT libido killer!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:47 PM
4

Upthread, you said: “A woman only needs to contribute childbearing, sex and companionship, unless she wants to be married to a weak feminist soyboy and his cats.” I’m way better at both sex and companionship now, at age 30, than I was at 15... As for childbearing: you trust a 15 year old to take care of a newborn by herself?? Teenagers also have higher rates of complications during pregnancy and childbirth vs. women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:45 PM
1

I’m a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:04 PM
1

Cold sores are almost always HSV-1. They can absolutely be transmitted by kissing or by oral sex! Half of newly diagnosed genital herpes cases are HSV-1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:30 AM
1

That’s exactly it, though. They have a blind spot when it comes to their own emotional vulnerability, because it’s so rare for them to succumb to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:21 PM
1

But he craved being in a relationship with a woman he could share both emotional and sexual intimacy with...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:19 PM
1

Thank you for your insight! Did you realize at the time that this was a coping mechanism? Or did you buy into your own BS?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:11 PM
1

One of the most emotionally volatile men I ever dated was a mathematician!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:09 PM
1

Men crave romance from the women they love. But their idea of romance is different. They don’t want their GF to buy them flowers and propose marriage. They want her to dress up for him, greet him like an excited puppy as soon as he walks through the door after a long day at work, gaze adoringly into his eyes like he’s her whole world, whisper sappy things in his ear, spoon him while gently scratching his scalp all over, massage his calves when he goes overboard on leg day at the gym, surprise hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:01 PM
1

Men are much more cautious about who they talk to about their inner thoughts & feelings, which is a necessary step for establishing a true, reciprocal emotional connection with a woman (and thus, falling in love with her). They are far less “emotionally slutty” than women. That’s why they are more selective with who they give their heart to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:48 PM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:44 PM
1

Womanizing and embezzling are on completely different levels of “wicked” behaviour, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:43 PM
1

They don’t have to be, but a lot of them are. That’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:41 PM
1

And what? Leave his kids and his practice behind?? Made more sense for him to try to win over a woman who was new to town and knew nothing of his reputation...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:37 PM
1

You’re 21. He was in his late 40s, divorced with kids, and tired of empty sex. Even high SMV alphas crave emotional intimacy. They’re just less likely to settle, because they can spin plates for sexual gratification while taking their time to look for a woman who meets their high standards for LTR material. The problem he ran into is that his reputation as a cheater limited his options to club sluts and provider hunters, neither of which he considered LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:24 PM
0

For herpes, condoms are fairly effective at reducing male to female transmission, but not female to male transmission. And what about oral sex? Kissing? That’s why I don’t engage in kissing or oral sex with casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:13 PM
1

How so? What if he’s surrounded by women who are willing to sleep with him, but rarely comes into contact with what he considers a “quality” woman? Or what if he’s got a reputation in town as a notorious philanderer, so quality women stay away from him? (I was chased hard for an LTR once by a very high SMV man in a small-ish town, whose wife had recently left him because he cheated on her in a very public fashion. Quality women in town steered well clear of him, but I was new to town so I hadn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:21 PM
1

lol where are you meeting these girls? Bible camp?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:11 PM
1

Are we talking a bit of spontaneous ass slapping in the heat of intercourse? Or a ritualized spanking session where you make her keep count and thank you for each strike?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:40 AM
2

She could just be afraid of herpes. Some girls don’t kiss PUA types because of that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 12:27 AM
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I’ve done both. I definitely feel more dominant being in control of a man’s orgasm, than I do by simply pegging him (mostly just feels like a shit ton of work...) Can’t speak for which scenario makes a man feel more submissive, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:20 PM
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Hair pulling is actually one of those super polarizing things. Like nipple clamps. Some women love the sensation, others hate it. I think it’s got a lot to do with nerve endings, tbh. Both my nipples and scalp are wayyyy too sensitive for this stuff. Hurts it a BAD way. But I like to have my cervix pounded and my clit spanked. That hurts in a GOOD way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:10 PM
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A lot of femdom is centred around the male orgasm, though: tease & denial, edging, ruined orgasm, forced orgasm, prostate milking, etc... Even cuckolding often involves chastity and orgasm denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:06 PM
1

Most of those guys are not being chased down by hot women IRL, though. I’m specifically talking about high value men who also act aloof. Not all high value men act aloof, of course (but many do, at least for some period of time in their lives). And most guys who act aloof aren’t high value. It’s the combination of abundance + aloofness that makes for an “aloof alpha”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:26 PM
1

What about women, like me, who didn’t start dating until their late teens, though! Didn’t become practical until my mid to late 20s...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:09 PM
1

Ok, but what about the armpit fat?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:35 PM
2

Fair enough. I’m always forgetting to smile. It has caused me huge problems in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:26 PM
1

Thanks. Just looked up ANS. At my lowest weight I look like that except my boobs aren’t nearly as perky, my midsection is softer (my waist nips in at the sides like hers does, but if you look at my profile side-on, my belly isn’t flat like hers), and my upper arms are chubbier. I get that men prefer hourglass over skinny. But there are lots of women with hourglass figures who are look more fit than me (trimmer midsection) and have perkier breasts. That’s my competition. And since I’m only 5’3, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:24 PM
1

I agree the facial changes are a big factor for me. Losing the “baby fat” makes my eyes look larger and really brings out my cheekbones and jaw line. When I’m thin, my face looks more refined and classically feminine (think Old Hollywood). Add 20 lbs and I’m more “cute” than “beautiful” — pleasant & soft facial features and full lips, but not the kind of face that photographs well. On the waist thing — I get so confused about this. Most guys say they don’t care about a bit of softness in the bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:58 PM
1

When I’m at my lowest weight I have an hourglass figure, a trim waist (not quite flat, but close), and a thinner face (more defined features, so my face becomes prettier). Add 20 lbs to that, and I’m still an hourglass, but my midsection isn’t as tight, and my face is rounder and therefore isn’t as pretty. I get far more male attention when I look like the former vs the latter. But my shape remains hourglass. So obviously, some men must prefer a thinner hourglass vs a fatter hourglass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:39 PM
1

So then how come I get so much more male attention (looks and cold approaches) when I’m a thin hourglass versus a plump hourglass??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:22 PM
1

But they do, for a girl that they perceive as sufficiently “different.” I think they are so used to remaining aloof around women, that when they start to fall for a girl, it takes them by such surprise that they stop thinking rationally. Since they view themselves as immune to becoming carried away by love, when they begin to fall in love, they rationalize the lack of emotional control they feel by convincing themselves that the woman in question must be the One True Love they’ve been waiting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:18 PM
1

Huh? Just because women are trying to lock them down doesn’t mean they are willing to be locked down...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:00 PM
1

Don’t most people prefer to cry in private??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:49 PM
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Because every woman they meet is trying to lock them down into a relationship. It goes to their head a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:47 PM
1

A true NAWALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:46 PM
2

YIKES.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:35 AM
1

Does she clean up after herself when she spills her emotions all over you? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:34 AM
1

“I’m only dating her to fuck her.” I’m curious — who were you saying this to? And why? Did you realize it was a pretence at the time? And was it convincing? Do you think people generally believed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:31 AM
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Thin hourglass is the ideal shape. My weight fluctuates up and down about 20 lbs (same hourglass shape, just with extra padding). When I’m at the low end, I get checked out and hit on a lot more by men. When I’m at the higher end, I don’t get nearly as much male attention. But strangely, the extra 20 lbs doesn’t seem to deter men from pursuing me as an LTR prospect. I’ve noticed no difference in the quality of these men, either. I think what’s happening is that with the extra 20 lbs, I don’t aut…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:20 AM
1

Yes, although I’m on leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:59 AM
2

Remaining cool-headed in a life-and-death situation (able to think logically and not freeze) is a very separate thing from generally remaining in control of one’s emotions (in stressful but non life-threatening conditions). The two are not necessarily correlated in any given individual. Fear is really more of a physiological response, as opposed to a higher-order cognitive function (what we think of as emotions).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:38 AM
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Same. My PMS is basically 3 days of me needing 10+ hours of sleep and being completely immune to coffee. Extreme fatigue, but no change in mood. Still totally sucks, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 05:30 AM
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Wait. Are you saying that women are more expressive in PUBLIC than they are in private??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:40 AM
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Potentially. Each situation is unique, and the facts & evidence must be analyzed within the full context. Workplace harassment (especially sexual harassment) is very complex and nuanced stuff and needs to be systematically deconstructed on a case by case basis. Rights of the complainant (accuser), respondent (accused), witnesse(s), family members, the institution, other workers, the union (if there is one), taxpayers, and the public as a whole, must all be carefully balanced against each other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:48 AM
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I’m confused. In this example, is it your boss who is asking you for $5? Or a coworker? If it’s your boss, the power differential means it is reasonable to expect retaliation. (I have actually been in this situation before...my female boss asked to take me and my husband out for dinner, promised she would pay, then at the end she said she forgot her credit card at home. She asked us to pay for her and promised she would pay me back later. Of course, she never did, and I was too scared to ever as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:24 AM
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Do you think she did this in a...premeditated, Machiavellian way? Or more on a subconscious level? People who are highly empathetic & charismatic can (to some extent) do this without fully realizing it. They just sort of...get enmeshed in the other person’s heightened emotions. Sociopaths do the same thing, but the intent is vastly different, and with sociopaths the love is never genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:12 AM
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Really? I think it’s the opposite!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:04 AM
1

I am actually remarkably stoic and composed compared to the average woman (through years of deliberate practice, mind you). But if something bad happens while I’m sleep deprived? It’s like my eyes just start leaking involuntarily. The only times I ever burst into tears at work are between 3 am to 6 am, when I’m on call (i.e. have been working for at least 18 hours straight...). Wonder if it’s got something to do with cortisol or disruption of circadian rhythm or something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:03 AM
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Yeah, I am like this, and I think it’s because I experience such a high degree of anticipatory anxiety (about everything in life) that I can’t bring myself to end a relationship (even if I’m completely miserable) without some sort of an emotional safety net in place, first (see my thoughts above about anticipatory anxiety in men vs women). I’m afraid I’ll completely fall apart emotionally, even though the reality is never as bad as I expect it to be. The fear of the pain is way worse than the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:53 PM
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This is for sure me. I also think women experience a lot of anticipatory anxiety about break ups (and in general about everything). Men don’t seem to experience much anticipatory anxiety, especially about stuff that happens to them (vs stuff they do). For example, a man might be nervous in advance of asking a woman out, but he won’t experience anticipatory separation anxiety about being apart from his wife for a week during a business trip. Whereas the hardest part for me would be the few days l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:49 PM
2

Yikes! Did she bamboozle you with some killer unicorn game?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:21 PM
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Yeah, I’m that reasonably attractive (but not super hot) unicorn, so I know what you mean. I’m still a little surprised when guys pick me over the hotties. I have a nice face and an hourglass figure, but I’ve never had a flat stomach or thigh gap — not even at my lowest weight. I’m not even athletic, and yet I still seem to attract the fitness buffs (guys who do MMA, powerlifting, triathlons etc.). I think it helps that I have a physiologically high sex drive, since athletic men need an LTR part…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:18 PM
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And everybody assumes that alphas are immune to this loneliness, but they’re not at all. Abundance of casual sex is not the same as abundance of LTR material. And the more alpha the guy, the higher his standards are for LTR material. When these guys think they’ve finally found a unicorn, they fall hard and fast, and never get over her. They also don’t have much experience with rejection or heart break, and consequently, they don’t have the tools to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 08:55 PM
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IME, in teens/early twenties, women are more emotional than men. But as they go through life, it seems to reverse. I think once women have their heart broken once or twice, they become very pragmatic about relationships (but try to hide it). Men become more cautious as well, but are less successful at it. They protect themselves by spinning plates, etc. But they get tired of that after a few years. And the years of loneliness just makes them more vulnerable to falling hard for the first girl the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:59 PM
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Yeah. Quid pro quo in the workplace is rarely so explicit stated. The person in power uses vague threats and intimidation to maintain plausible deniability (speaking from experience, here). Really the only thing that matters is this — is the person in power in a position to retaliate if they choose to? And if so, what kind of recourse can the subordinate realistically expect? How much transparency and accountability is there in the organization? Are performance metrics objective? Can the subordi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:35 PM
1

You realize that anyone, at anytime, can be subjected to sexual blackmail? Not just to protect themselves, but to protect their loved ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:25 PM
1

But how is a woman supposed to know in advance whether or not there will be retaliation if she refuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:16 PM
1

You send him a thank you card. Like, a formal one, on scented stationary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:34 PM
1

Getting unicorn widowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:33 PM
1

Guys always offer to be the big spoon, but can’t hide the disappointment in their eyes when you take them up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:31 PM
1

Do they have ADHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:29 PM
1

Ask him to send you one from Vixen Creations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:25 PM
1

Showing vulnerability is not a sign of weakness...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:21 PM
1

What do you mean by “too good in bed”? Explain!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:19 PM
1

She doesn’t hate other women. Other women hate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:19 PM
1

wtf?? Seal is totally hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:18 PM
1

Anything worth keeping?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 04:06 PM
2

I ended up getting engaged to my placeholder guy. So I guess there’s always hope for the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:57 PM
2

Does he keep her mugshot in his locker? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:55 PM
1

Prole! I learned a new word today!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:07 AM
2

lol I love placeholder guys! Sleep with Mr. Right Now, so that you can take your time looking for Mr. Right, instead of jumping into an LTR with Mr. Almost Right out of desperation & loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:03 AM
5

Do you think cops that are adrenaline junkies are bored by low-drama women? Like, they need a crazy chick to compete with the excitement of the job?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:58 AM
1

Even if they’re not arrogant, they still suffer from the doctor-bubble warping their entire world view. And that’s in place by the end of med school, so the speciality doesn’t matter. But yeah, specialists are worse than GPs, but I actually think it’s because they work out of the (intensely hierarchical and insular) hospital, which keeps them indoctrinated within the hive mind of medicine. GPs at least work out in the real world (unless they are hospitalists) and are consequently more in touch w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:56 AM
2

Do you think cops pick high-drama partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:36 AM
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I would expand that beyond surgeons to include ALL doctors. Agree with lawyers & engineers. Add finance to the list. Sales reps and teachers are good Boyfriend Material, IME. Extroverted, fun, socially adept, self-starters (job requires above-average time management, initiative, and organization), superior communication skills, adept at diffusing conflict, decent hours and work/life balance, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:34 AM
2

I have a high sex drive, so I won’t get into an LTR with a guy unless we see each other at least 3x a week, consistently. Otherwise, wtf is even the point? Also, I would need to be able to spend at least one full weekend day with him (on average). And no, I don’t give a shit what he does when I’m not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:20 AM
3

FWIW, I am increasingly seeing younger professional women settling down with blue-collar guys. Like, doctors marrying miners who didn’t go to college, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:30 AM
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Yes, absolutely. A lot of women are extremely picky about career & education. They won’t date “down” in socioeconomic status. I used to be like this, but grew out of this mindset in my late 20s. Now, it’s mostly the following that disqualify a man from LTR potential (but fine for fwb): any hint of a Madonna/Whore complex; wants a traditional wife irresponsible with money; terrible time management; poor judgment workaholic, travels a lot, unpredictable schedule, or has hobbies or other commitment…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:17 AM
1

If you want it to be, bro-bae. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:39 AM
3

lol. IDGI either. I own a sex shop, so I have personal experience with almost every sex toy on the market, including fucking machines. Still prefer the real thing. (Don’t tell my customers, though!)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:38 PM
1

Incest bae!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:16 PM
5

100000x this. I would take a man over a literal fucking machine, even. Any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:15 PM
2

Was she always like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:09 PM
1

As of 2018, 40% of business on the U.S. are owned by women. Just saying. https://about.americanexpress.com/press-release/research-insights/number-women-owned-businesses-increased-nearly-3000-1972-according
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:13 PM
1

Uh, this is a false equivalence. Women feel worse (or the same, if they’re lucky) on birth control pills, not better.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:02 PM
1

The 24/7 master/slave types tend to be the least attractive. There are some hot nurse subs active in the scene. They tend to be more into masochism as opposed to subservience, though. Hot kinky people tend to steer clear of the hardcore BDSM scene.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:57 PM
2

Could he have a rare sexual fetish and he’s just happy to have a girl who is into the same thing, or at least willing to indulge his fetish? Or they’ve been together since high school and/or weathered some sort of mutual (external) hardship together that actually brought them closer as a couple? Trust, loyalty, and a positive shared history can overcome a lack of sexual attraction for some people. And maybe he gets a little on the side, discreetly.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:39 PM
1

Dude, chill. I specifically said the opposite: that it's difficult for a woman to keep a high value man coming back, over and over again, even as a fuck buddy. High value men ghost women (post-sex, whereas high value women ghost men pre-sex) at the drop of a hat, because their abundance is so astronomically high. Give him the merest hint of drama, and he will drop you for another plate in a heartbeat. The difference between a woman getting plated by a guy, and plating guys is that in the former …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 11:40 PM
1

It is actually pretty difficult for a woman to maintain multiple simultaneous casual sexual relationships with men (who are a comparable looks match to her), on her own terms. This is because men tend to ghost women after first (or sometimes second) time sex. If she comes off as too clingy, he will ghost her. OTOH, if she signals that she wants NSA only, he will get turned off by her 'masculine' sexual vibe and ghost her. A woman who wants to 'plate' men (i.e. consistent, casual sex for months a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:24 PM
1

Lots of us secretly audio record. Some of us eventually sue. Then we spend the next 5 years and 100k fighting it out in court. Regardless, our lives are ruined because some asshole doctors couldn’t check their egos.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:25 AM
1

Being professionally undermined (false comments on evaluations, being falsely accused of harassment or scapegoated for medical errors by senior doctors) False reports of patient care incidents to licensing bodies Outright threats against his career and reputation; blackmail Baseless rumours that he is violent or a terrorist due to his race or religion Baseless rumours that he is mentally unstable or mentally ill and a danger to himself and others Sexually humiliating him in front of other people…
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:55 AM
2

I didn’t say I work in a sex shop. I said that I own a sex shop. I don’t work in it; my staff do.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 06:00 AM
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Nah, the men get harassed (sexually and otherwise) and threatened into silence, too. Doctors are equal opportunity assholes who will harass literally anybody they have power over, and hospitals will break laws to cover for them.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:46 AM
1

Enjoy what? Being sexually harassed at work and then threatened into silence about it?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:57 AM
1

Trump is incredibly reactive, though. He’s the opposite of stoic, and he embodies chaos. Stoic is...Mueller, Mitch McConnell, Mark Warner (senate intelligence committee), Mike Pence, John Kelly, etc. Those guys. U.S. presidents and presidential candidates are rarely super stoic, because the electorate (sadly) interprets that as boring, and stoic candidates get less media coverage. The most stoic one in the past 50 years is probably Obama, actually, and he was still fairly flashy in his style. Ma…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:22 PM
1

Cuff her ankles above her head or ear her out in a sex swing. As long as she feels immobilized, she will feel she is submitting her pussy to your tongue. If you want to kick it up a notch, edge her, make her beg for your permission to cum, tell her she’s not allowed to cum until you tell her, and then force so many orgasms out of her that she begs you to stop. Add a ball gag for a twist.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:57 PM
2

As does sexual harassment!
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:58 PM
2

Except that hospitals do not give a shit about sexual harassment. It’s so pervasive that it’s treated as just part of the job. And if something really egregious happens (like rape), they cover it up and fire the person who reported in order to intimidate everyone else into silence. Hospital HR is not like regular HR in an office.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 05:50 PM
1

Ok, that’s legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:40 PM
1

How long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:08 AM
1

It won’t work as well, no. But any guy angling for a ONS needs to establish some level of comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:11 PM
1

Not entirely. Most women will turn down casual sex even with the hottest Chad if he gives off a pump and dump vibe. Comfort Chad knows this. That’s why he’s Comfort Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:15 PM
1

Yes. That’s the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:12 PM
1

Maybe “fuckflaps” then? One flap makes me think of a cat flap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:28 PM
1

I’ve stopped seeing attractive guys because they were bad in bed. No amount of attraction can make up for premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, or a tiny dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:26 PM
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My answer is close, but slightly different from yours. Women want to have casual sex with Comfort Chad. A close cousin of Regular Chad, Comfort Chad is adept at making a woman feel like he’s Chad only on the surface. Comfort Chad signals that although he COULD be out having casual sex with hot girls, he’s “not that kinda guy.” But he feels such a passionate spark and emotional connection with her, that he just has to have her right now. But don’t worry, it’s not casual sex, even though they just…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:12 PM
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Wouldn’t “fuckslit” be more accurate, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:43 PM
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You seriously think that “not creepy” is sufficient for a man to achieve a “great personality”?? “Great personality” for men requires a careful balance of witty banter, playful sexuality, unwavering comfort, and a hint of unpredictability. No easy feat! But Jason Momoa can get by with mostly keeping his mouth shut. Women will excuse his lack of engagement by labelling him as the “strong, silent type.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:13 PM
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I know tons of younger lesbian couples. You are correct except for one thing: they own TONS of dildos. The couples I know with the largest sex toy collections are young lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:04 PM
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FWIW, I agree with you. I don’t think getting jizzed in enhances sex for a woman unless she’s got a cum fetish or is actively trying to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:01 PM
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Lmao no. Men like Jason Momoa need to just show up and not be creepy in order to get laid. They don’t need money, and they need an average personality, at best. I’ve been on first dates with guys like that, and the entire time I’m thinking, “please don’t start running your mouth because I really want to fuck you tonight.” A guy like Jason Momoa needs to say/do something truly heinous to lose a lay. Anything less, and women will give him a pass (at least temporarily).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:58 PM
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No, most women who have higher n counts rack up the numbers unintentionally, because they keep sleeping with men who won’t commit to them. But that’s not their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:51 PM
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What does “20 jd” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:49 PM
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What type of person? (I agree with you, I’m just curious to know if your answer matches mine!)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:48 PM
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Ha. Since she’s an accountant, you can rest assured that she knows it, too! ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:47 PM
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Some girls do this. Others (like me) feel erased by the dogma that women don’t enjoy sex for the sake of sex. We’re just trying to point out that highly sexual women DO exist. I mainly do this so that other women like me don’t feel like they are shameful freaks of nature. I remember feeling this way as a young woman with a high a sex drive, and hearing from women who were like me helped me get past it and accept myself and my sexual nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:44 PM
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What on earth is a fuckflap?? I’ve never heard this term before, and I thought I had pretty much heard it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:39 PM
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Only 15% of heterosexual married couples have sex less once a week or less? And 18% of men ages 18-24 claim they haven’t masturbated in the past year? Uh....I’m going to call bullshit on this study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:38 PM
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It’s not that different from men. Men fantasize about sex all the time — is that also “all in their own head”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:23 PM
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I have no problem with MGTOW, provided they are not trying to restrict my freedoms. E.g. I have a problem with tradcon MGTOWs who want to restrict my access to birth control, or who slut shame me in the workplace. But my problem with them stems from their efforts to impose their tradcon way of life on me (or penalize me for refusing to follow it), not from their private choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:22 PM
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Women typically do not get aroused by still photos. We get aroused by sexual ACTIONS (this is why girls are way more into erotic GIFs than erotic photos). This can be either in the form of written erotica or porn. The problem is that most porn features ugly men and/or showcases acts in a way that is primary geared toward a male viewer. Also, women tend to be more verbal, in general. So it makes sense that we would be more interested than men in reading and writing erotica. Finally, there is a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:15 PM
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Yeah. Men who are very turned on by making women come typically have more difficulty achieving orgasm themselves. My husband tells me this is because he gets so lost in the overall sensory experience of my reactions (my smell, the sounds I’m making, etc) that it actually distracts him from the feeling in his dick and his own orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:07 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:01 PM
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Are you suggesting that alpha males don’t need to be good in bed in order to keep a woman interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:58 PM
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I think the point is that there is far greater variability (on a population level) in female sexual desire/response than there is for men. This makes sense, as women with a wide range of sexual function (i.e. unopposed testosterone activity) can be equally reproductively successful, whereas this is not the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:54 PM
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Women with high enough sex drives (like me) do need to have regular orgasms in order to focus (or get to sleep). At my baseline, I need, at minimum, an orgasm every ~3 days and intercourse every ~7 days, or I feel like I’m going to jump out of my own skin. And if something gets me really turned on in the middle of the day, I need to come in order to resume focus on any other task.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:46 PM
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I agree with this. Men have so much to think about during sex. Even just stayed hard without coming to early is a feat in itself. We women don’t need to learn to exert control over our own arousal and orgasm as a pre-condition of pleasing our partner. My experience with strap ons has also given me enormous appreciation for the athleticism involved in thrusting. I think women don’t appreciate the amount of effort (mental and physical) that men have to put into sex to please their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:38 PM
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No. Women don’t validate each other for having sex with men with big dicks. It’s the opposite - they slut shame each other for that. I actually believe one of the reasons that younger women, in particular, publicly insist that they don’t like big dicks is because they want to implicitly signal that their pussy is “too tight” for that. It’s seen as low status to be “loose” enough to “need” a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:57 PM
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Doubtful you even have the capacity to hurt my feelings. But feel free to DM me if you’re too scared to comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:40 PM
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If all I wanted was validation, I wouldn’t care how big his dick is or how hard and long he fucks me. I also certainly wouldn’t have stayed with my unattractive ex (the one with the monster dick), since that was actually the OPPOSITE of validation for me (I was embarrassed to be seen with him)! Almost everyone gets off, in some degree, at least occasionally, from the validation of seducing a very hot or high value person. Men as much as women — that’s why men brag to their buddies about their se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:38 PM
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1 & 2 - make me wet 3 - no. anxiety prevents me from fully relaxing during sex, which I need in order to achieve maximum arousal (wet pussy). also, I’ve never been with a guy who payed my bills. 4 - love being demeaned DURING sex, but I’m not enough of a sexual masochist to get turned on by cruelty. certainly there are women who are more submissive/masochistic than me who might be. 5 - no. I am susceptible to social proof (so it turns me on to know that other women want my man), but I am turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:28 PM
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lol no I’m not. I’m one of the few women who actually enjoys casual sex. I have an open marriage simply for the sake of variety. And the swingers scene is full of self-identified cocksluts like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:11 PM
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Tell me more about what makes my pussy wet. Clearly I’ve just deluded myself into believing I love dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:04 PM
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I’m a sex-obsessed size queen. Most women I’ve met aren’t as obsessed with dick as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:02 PM
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lol my appreciation is far from passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:00 PM
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I stayed in an awful relationship with an unattractive man I could barely stand for EIGHT MONTHS, simply because he had an 8 inch dick. I absolutely despised him, but god did I enjoy the hell out of his dick every day until the last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:51 AM
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I have been fucked by an industry-grade fucking machine, with a magic wand on my clit. One of the most intense orgasms of my life. I still prefer real dick, and I can’t even cum from intercourse without simultaneous clit stim. I don’t fantasize about getting fucked by machines. I fantasize about getting fucked by men. Sex is about more than just the physical sensation on my clit in the lead up to and during orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:34 AM
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Because it IS a performance. And it’s fucking magnificent to behold. As a heterosexual woman, I have a visceral appreciation for the athleticism of a man’s role in intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:24 AM
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I’m one of those women who almost never orgasms from intercourse alone. But this does not in any way inhibit my enjoyment of intercourse! It’s no hardship at all for me to reach a hand down and rub my clit during the act. I have an intrinsically high sex drive (initiate intercourse at least every other day, consistently for the past decade) and orgasm between 1-3 times around a penis during the average sex session. I prefer orgasming during intercourse (with the additional help of my hand) to or…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:13 AM
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Uh, what? If he’s not literally dripping in sweat and unable to move afterward, then he didn’t fuck me hard enough. Intercourse is an opportunity to showcase an athletic man at his peak level of physical performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:57 AM
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Also, beta husbands often become resentful of their wives, but instead of asserting their needs directly, they just withhold attention/affection in a passive aggressive manner. Whereas alphas are often at their most attentive and loving at the beginning of a relationship, when they are trying to win over a new woman — especially if they are trying to win her away from another man. They pull off the perfect mix of alpha/beta traits to convince a woman to cheat and/or leave their husband. But it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:52 PM
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You can cheat for a reason and still be a shitty person. The two are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:44 PM
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"She won't let them grow if you're too indifferent." This definitely rings true for me.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:32 PM
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Yes, I agree. When you're trapped in a shitty relationship, your standards drop, because almost anyone is a step up from your current shitty partner who isn't sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 02:23 AM
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It's a misguided attempt at revisionist history for the purpose of identifying plus size role models for young women. What we should be doing is taking the focus off of image and placing it on health and fitness. Instead, we are telling young women it's okay to be fat, because men will still desire them. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:40 PM
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TRP is about recognizing how men and women operate in society in the present for the purpose of elevating your sexual strategy. Feminism is about trying to change how men and women operative in society in the future for the purpose of minimizing discrimination in all facets of life. TRP is a realistic view of the present world for the purpose of getting laid. Feminism is an idealistic view of the future world for the purpose of getting fair treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:37 PM
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From my own anecdotal experience, if you: 1. Choose the right men; 2. Communicate your desires; 3. Expect orgasms; then you will likely have very fulfilling casual sex with men. Also, don't be afraid to put a stop to the proceedings and bail if he's just not doing it for you. I don't understand women who feel obligated to keep going through a bad sex session until it's over. Cut your losses and GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:24 PM
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There are some feminists who believe that there would be fewer trans people (or rather, fewer trans people with gender identity issues significant enough to seek transition) if we lived in a society without gender roles. When gender roles are such a big part of society, it makes sense that they become a more important facet of someone's identity, and that any discordance between one's sex and gender identity is therefore amplified. I recognize that there are physical and neurological differences…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 04:17 PM
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What I think is counterproductive is men who date women with little sexual experience, and then complain that she has a low sex drive. I mean, don't they realize that there is at least some correlation between partner count and sex drive? This is also related to that weird TRP myth that a very alpha guy can turn an asexual woman into a sex freak. Maybe temporarily in some cases, but if the intrinsic sex drive isn't there, it simply won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 03:58 PM
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Participating in sex without an orgasm makes me angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 03:50 PM
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I consider myself a pro-pornography and pro-sex work feminist. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong or anti-feminist about men buying sex from women, provided we live in an egalitarian society. Since (in my opinion) we do not live in an egalitarian society yet, I am cognizant of the way that that the pornography and sex work industries in their current incarnations particularly can often exacerbate sexism in our culture. Some feminists who think similarly, believe that we should susp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 11:41 PM
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I would have to leave him. We have discussed many gender issues at length in the past, so if he was secretly espousing TRP views, it would mean that he had been lying to me about his beliefs for the past 7 years, and pretending to be someone that he is not. Deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 12:12 AM
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I apply the concept of 'informed consent' when I am selling. Ideally, I want the customer to make a buying decision once they are fully informed of all options, and to make the decision free of coercion or pressure. I do bend the rules in the situation where a customer walks in and straight up asks for a particular product by name, without asking any questions. In that case, I just go ahead and ring it up. But I'm also very choosy about the products that I carry, and when customers special order…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 12:08 AM
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I might fuck them, if I was desperate enough, but only in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 11:54 PM
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As a business owner, there are some sales techniques that I refuse to employ because they are unethical. And it's not just about ensuring repeat business, or good word of mouth. At the end of the day, I want my customers to get a fair deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:08 PM
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I like that I can be freer in how I express myself and my gender identity. I think if I was a man I would find it difficult to be held to such a narrow standard of what it means to be a man, like having my sexuality questioned if I support gay rights, or having my manhood questioned if I show fear or cry. There are also fewer societal expectations on me in terms of how to live my life or what role to adopt in my relationships. I am seen as a worth while human being whether I am the breadwinner o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:03 PM
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I would get to have biological children without needing to be pregnant. That's pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:26 PM
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I will be taking my husband's last name, because my last name is long, hyphenated, hard to spell/pronounce, and outs me as a member of an ethnic minority. My husband's last name is the perfect generic last name. I'm a feminist, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:25 PM
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Even if there is no sex involved (highly unlikely), you still have to invest social and emotional energy into men you likely find repulsive. You also have to put effort into your physical appearance. And it's not exactly a secure paycheque.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 08:22 PM
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There is a difference between 'hate fucking' and rough, dominant sex. I have done both. You have correctly identified that the key to pulling either off is adopting the right mind set and attitude. Rough, dominant sex is about asserting physical control over her while simultaneously signalling loss of control over yourself. It is about communicating 'you make me so hot that I can't control my base instinct to throw you down and fuck you the way I want/need.' It is about exhibiting your unrestrai…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 02:30 AM
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Online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 01:48 AM
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Ok, noted. Sorry. Will stop posting in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:25 PM
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I would be a white male doctor from an upper middle class family. Married to a good looking white pharma sales rep from an upper middle class family. i.e. Privilege Personified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:11 PM
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It's one giant Cock Carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:33 PM
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Personally, I prefer to call men frigid when they deny me sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:30 PM
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omg, I use to sneak downstairs and watch Oz, and later, Queer as Folk. And then sneak upstairs and masturbate to porn on my laptop. The crazy thing is I got caught watching Oz on the TV downstairs, but never got caught watching hardcore porn on my laptop. How ass backwards is that??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:23 PM
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I remember downloading porn on Napster when I was, like, 12. I was reading erotica even before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:11 PM
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I have attended 3 different universities in 3 cities and never heard of a single gangbang. I have had two FFM threesomes and a fair number of casual hookups, so I'm no blushing virgin. I even dated a guy in the most notorious frat on campus. Tons of coke...no gangbangs. I'm from Canada though. Maybe you have to be in an American frat to get in on some gangbang cock. To my knowledge, the only group sex that goes on in my town is between old married swingers couples. And in that case, your wife is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:08 PM
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What's your point. I pay taxes too. I don't get to be in a magical lower tax bracket because I have a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:52 PM
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Absolutely. But it is exponentially more sexy in motion. But yeah, almost everything about a man's body turns me on...his back, his stomach, his chest, his shoulders, his feet, his forearms, his sides, his cock in his hand as he strokes it...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:30 PM
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That hair is stuck in the 90s. Yeah, I'd fuck him. He's got a nice face and bangin' bod. What the Fedora. Definitely not. He looks like he's covering up a gut with all those hats, and also I am suspicious of men who wear fedoras. Angry. But would fuck your shit up in bed. Also, nice body and I like tattoos. I bet the sex would be crazy. Is he even legal? Also, he needs to wash his hair. Would not bang. Is that a dash cam? From the little I can see, yeah I'd fuck him. He's got a nice built, nice …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 03:56 PM
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I tried that with friends/classmates in college, and it only seemed to freak the guys out. I actually got some bizarre/scary overreactions (one guy called me on the phone and ranted at me incoherently for 'upsetting the balance' until I started crying...). I had much better luck being direct with guys I met through online dating.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:44 PM
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No. Women are sexually aroused by (consensual) rough sex, and by the knowledge that a man is physically able to defend himself (and her). They do not enjoy violence directed at themselves. That's absurd. Similarly, no woman enjoys being treated like shit. They put up with it to keep a man, when they think they can't do better. Either because he is Hot/Rich/Good in Bed, or because she has shitty self-esteem (typically as a result of being treated poorly in previous relationships). No woman turned…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:39 PM
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So what do you call the girl who gets off the cock carousel, marries her 'Alpha,' but is still a feminist (and was one all along)? Ok, your model has a nice symmetry to it. It reads well. But it's far too simplistic. You forget the other common outcome: Nice Guy, after landing Hot Girl, starts to become complacent and stops trying to impress her. Meanwhile, he also becomes delusional about his looks and his value on the dating market ('since I'm currently with an 8, I must be an 8 myself!'). So,…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 01:42 PM
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Can confirm. We see so many patients who play this game. It's not original at all, and makes you seem even more like a drug seeker.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:34 PM
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Hmnn...you could try to get her parents to convince her to abort by basically becoming a controlling asshole who is stalking her and not letting her abort. Then they will be scared for her, and want her to abort to let her be free of you. Just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:17 AM
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Not all female games are benign. For example, "Let's You and Him Fight," http://www.ericberne.com/games-people-play/lets-you-and-him-fight/
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:12 AM
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Eh, I think you misunderstood me. When I'm scantily clad, I definitely don't want to be ignored. I enjoy catcalls and comments. What I don't enjoy (and have gotten in the past) is rude comments from men to cover my tits up. One guy even tried to cover them up for me, until his friends apologetically pulled him away! In that case, yeah, he should have just looked somewhere else if he was so bothered by them.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:09 AM
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Yes, of course the rules of any Game are based on the standards of the society in question. They differ between cultures and time periods. Behaving according to outdated social norms is still going to confuse the shit out of people, and violates the rules of the Game. If anyone, for any reason, feels that participating in any Game is detrimental, the best course of action is to simply not participate in it. So, when the woman walks by in the short skirt...just ignore her. Hell, I can think of ma…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:00 AM
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I wish! If that were the case, there wouldn't be any work left to be done! I think what you meant to ask me is: "should men and women be treated equally." Yes, I think they should be treated equally in the legal and professional spheres. With respect to the personal sphere, I think adults can make their own decisions, and that once we have achieved full parity in the legal and professional spheres, choices in the personal sphere will become freer. With respect to myself, in the personal sphere, …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:52 AM
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This is what I tell men all the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 01:15 AM
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I don't think this was mentioned -- find out who in her life thinks she should abort (a parent, a friend), and enlist their help to convince her. If she has any goals or dreams, try to encourage her to pursue them, and point out how having a kid will hinder those goals. Also, see if you can find any unhappy single mothers in her acquaintance and get them to talk to her about their shitty dating life/stretch marks/horrible birth stories/whiny brats. If you have a family friend who has a kid with …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:54 AM
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It's absurd how little education we get on this in med school. You basically have to teach it to yourself. That being said, if I do manage to teach it to myself, I don't think I would have a problem prescribing T for recreational purposes, even.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:35 AM
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I've read "Games People Play," and it's a great book. But a few niggles. First of all, while games are dishonest, they are not inherently 'bad'. Many games are benign. Benign games also allow us to navigate social situations by falling back on known, predictable patterns, which is comforting to us, and allows us to avoid using our brainpower on mundane interactions. For example, that whole exchange you do with you coworker every Monday about how your respective weekends went? That's a Game - a b…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:21 AM
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I have a theory, and I am too lazy to see if it is at all substantiated. I think that when men orgasm, there is a greater release of oxytocin and prolactin than in women, accounting for the man's classic refractory period, and also my anecdotal observation that masturbation seems to completely satiate a man's sex drive for a certain length of time. The length of time is variable, but the key here is that the satiation is enough to allow the man to go about his business. This is not so for women,…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:59 PM
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I read The Red Queen many years ago, but I don't remember that part. I'll have to re-read, as it's not immediately obvious to me how intelligence is sexually selected. I mean -- wasn't intelligence selected for because of the advantage of language? Or are we saying that the intelligence was there long before language came about? Also, wasn't there some theory about how blonde hair/blue eyes was sexually selected for in Northern European populations?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:44 PM
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The guys broke up the relationship. I was miserable, but not willing to break up because I was addicted to the sex. However, I was definitely not loyal. Like, if another guy had shown interest in me, I would have ended the relationship without a second thought. But of course, when you're in a relationship, other guys tend not to approach you! Fat Husband Material doesn't pass the screen, which is why the marriage ends up sexless. Now, I think this is a horrible thing to do to a person -- enter i…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:37 PM
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I don't have, like, a memorized list of 10 exact questions that I always ask word for word. But there are some basic things I want to know about a guy before I sleep with him, and I try to suss it out through conversation. My main objective is to make sure that the guy is normal, not a liar, safe to sleep with (i.e. won't push my boundaries in bed), single, and mature. Now, I do ask about what he does for a living and what he studied and where he went to school. Not because I particularly care. …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:23 PM
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Thinking back on the guys I have had casual sex with, one thing they all had in common is that they were sexually forward and brought out my naughty side without making me feel slutty for behaving that way. They made it acceptable to dirty talk in public with a guy I had just met. Not only that...they made it fun. And they made it seem like it was something they didn't do all the time with just any girl. They made it seem like we had a connection, even if it was just for one night. That's game. …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:54 PM
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Ah ok. In that case: be good looking and approach women a lot. It's not rocket science. Edit: But my understanding of TRP is that many men are disheartened because they feel that their wives have settled for them, after banging their way through a series of good-looking asshole losers in their 20s. Which is often true, lbr.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 05:39 PM
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And the acronyms! I feel like I need a glossary just to get through a post on here.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:05 PM
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I know what you are talking about -- the women who are with the asshole's who mooch off of them (and everyone else). It may seem counter-intuitive at first glance, but as I covered in my comment, these women are actually settling for these men, because the men offer them something they want (typically it is really good sex/a big dick and the attention of an attractive man). Add to that an emotionally abusive dynamic, insecurity issues, personality disorders, etc. and it explains why women stay w…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 04:00 PM
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You're going about it the wrong way. Ranking those traits by importance is meaningless, since those traits themselves are both subjective and a continuous range. Instead, it is more practical to rank them based on the order that they are used to eliminate potential partners. Within the first 5-10 seconds of seeing a man (basically the time it takes me to check him out head to toe), I eliminate him if he does not meet my Looks criteria. Looks is always first because it is the quickest and most im…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:37 PM
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Although there are great examples of such arbitrary traits selected for in other species, I can't really think of any in humans. Can you?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:12 PM
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My point is that it goes beyond just safety. A woman doesn't just want to be safe. She wants to prosper. And for that she needs a competent mate. That is why women find ambition and initiative attractive in men. They want a man who can not only keep their family safe, but also elevate their position in society.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:10 PM
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Minimum requirements (or deal breakers) for most women are: Lean body, decent face, sexually adequate, self-sufficient (financial and also able to manage his own life), self-controlled, sexually dominant/socially assertive, at least as competent in work and life as she is, goal-oriented with follow through. If a man doesn't have the above qualities a woman generally is unable to respect him and/or find him sexually attractive. She may settle with him anyway either because: he has something she w…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:27 PM
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Charm is basically the ability to make a woman feel desired and special in a sincere and believable way while at the same time giving the impression that you yourself are sought after and that if she doesn't impress you, you might switch your attention to some other girl instead.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:16 PM
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Actually I don't think it's safety/protection so much as competence in general that women look for.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:00 PM
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Oh my god. The world must be ending because the day has finally come where I agree wholeheartedly with a post on TRP. Bless my little feminist heart, this guy finally fucking gets it. Edit: I also never thought I would give someone Reddit Gold, but what do you know.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 01:18 PM
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