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You know this information now, so I would continue with it in mind. There's no saying that he's going to follow in his father's footsteps, and unless he's set off any indicator to you that he is in a similar nature before, I wouldn't assume anything from him. If in the future he does anything that makes you think back to this, combine the information and politely end the relationship with him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 10:47 PM
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Guess what, if I had 50 million dollars and the will too, I would also not choose monogamy. Woman aren't that much different from men in that regard. There's always another fruit I want to try. That's not the point of a relationship. A relationship is not built on 100% sex. The concept is literally about committing to one person for many reasons, including and not including sex. Ask yourself as a man, do you want to have a relationship or do you want sex? I don't care if you want to casually dat…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 12:10 AM
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I agree it's a normal human reaction, but there's many other alternatives available. Talking it through with your partner, sex therapy, separating or taking time to discover yourselves and come back to the relationship with new lenses, ect. Cheating is not a valuable solution. You quote not wanting to break up families with children. So that means the children have to witness their father going behind their mother's back because there were some issues he didn't try to work out with her first? An…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah sorry about that, I realize you were addressing someone else!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 05:56 PM
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If youre a man that's not getting his needs met, what gives you the right to cheat instead of just breaking up with your girlfriend and finding someone who satisfies you better? "Preserve a good relationship". So you're going to do that by breaking the foundation of your relationship and your girlfriend's trust? Just break up, smh.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 05:47 PM
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Lol yes, everyone can cheat. This is a woman mostly focused on relationships with men and my comment is adjusted to the main audience.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 05:44 PM
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Okay but woman are looking to be in a loving relationship, not be a sex doll, thank you very much. Also "post nut clarity" is literally just a concept made to absolve men from responsibility for their actions. "I'm sorry I made a bad decision but I was horny."Women get horny too, grow up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 05:43 PM
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This is a broad statement, I get where you're going with this, but it's a little more complex then women being "brainwashed" into not being mothers or wives. There's a lot of layers to this, firstly that a woman doesn't need to have children or marriage to be feminine or a woman. Not every woman would be good at marriage or raising children, a good percentage would suck at it. Saying they're any less women puts an unnecessary and unfair burden onto women who would be better off serving their chu…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 02:33 PM
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Not really, even the most beautiful or "sexy" women in media get cheated on. You don't have to be into everything he's into. Just do your best to make the things you both enjoy as wonderful as you can. Be enthusiastic, take care of yourself so you're not exhausted and sex doesn't become a chore. Sex is important because it builds a place of intimacy and love for the both of you. Physical pleasure is only a small aspect of it. You do not need to indulge in the thousands of kinks out there to have…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 09:00 PM
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Men will cheat if they want to cheat. Doesn't matter how much sex you have, how beautiful you are, or how good of a girlfriend/wife you are. It is not on you, all you can do is pick men with good values and hope that your trust in them pays off in the long term. If they cheat then you do not entertain them for another second.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/22 08:28 PM
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Absolutely this. Let him take the initiative though or hell criticize you for trying to "change" him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/22 04:58 PM
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The use of the word "intimidating" when talking about a feminine and fashionable aesthetic sounds like hes insecure. Unfortunately some men will feel intimidated when they see their girlfriends putting more effort into their appearance then them. Instead of trying to take better care if himself, it looks like hes trying to bring you down to his level. Fashion can be a huge factor in how we feel about ourselves and I wouldn't suggest giving that up to please him. Maybe have a conversation on why …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/22 04:54 PM
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I live in Canada and have managed up to -10 weather with fleece-lined stockings and dresses/skirts! Invest in a high-quality pair of stockings and some cute winter boots to match and you'll be set.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 12:12 AM
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Soulmates can be anyone, with any kind of relationship and you have an infinite number of them. Friends, families, lovers, etc. I think people are confusing it with the concept of "twinflames" which simply put is only one other person who's literally made of your same soul essence. I don't really believe in it, at least I didn't until I had a very intense dream surrounding this idea. That being said I think if we're talking about "soul" energy, this person can be literally anywhere in the univer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:15 AM
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Thank you girl :) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:29 PM
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Exactly, winner mindset all the way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:29 PM
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It's very trashy in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:54 PM
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I am serious about a relationship which is exactly why I'll ask for more time! ;) I see myself saying more "We have something good, let's not ruin it by rushing into the future. Time will tell our potential". (I'm a bit theatrical when I explain ideas which I find men really like, I can say serious things without seeming too harsh or crictal)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:52 PM
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Mhm, I haven't been on this many dates in a while so I completely forgot about love bombing! I'll keep a good eye out. He's not my perfect idea of a man yet, he's just a /good/ man. Which definitely opens the floor to see if that changes. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:47 PM
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Idk why but this made me think, "Time to make a list and check it twice!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:45 PM
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Very true, I'll keep this in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:44 PM
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Of course, I'm definitely keeping my roster going and keeping an eye out on the other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:41 PM
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I will do this, thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:38 PM
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This is all really good advice. And honestly, I'm not sure how to answer the first question because I'm usually not pleased with the 1st date in most cases and let men go. Or I've been in situations where the behavior already changes after the first date, and there's no second even if it was planned. I'm absolutely not bringing that conversation to the table, this question is coming from that I feel he might ask soon and I'm not sure how to answer. I enjoy him but I'm definitely going to take mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:58 AM
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That's true, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:47 AM
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I mentioned I've known him since high school so it's a bit different for this case specifically. He was my prom date, and I've met his family + extensive family. We had time with no contact because of university but since we're graduating soon we're reconnecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:36 AM
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I love this! Thank you for your advice, you've helped me to calm my mind to a slower pace :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:31 AM
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How many dates would be good in your opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:16 AM
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Of course, you make a valid point. So far he actually does which is quite refreshing but I'll look more closely on not comparing him to other men in relation to how he makes me feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:09 AM
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Might be more of a connection thing. If the government or whoever has access to those forms knows that you are a sex worker then it just takes a future job one connection away from ruining your reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:53 PM
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The account is still up for me? Is this only in a certain country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:48 PM
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Exactly what I've been working on this month! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:20 PM
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Another thing is that she HAS put herself in the masculine role. Shes 1. The bread winner & 2. Spoils him She's the masculine and dominant of this relationship and her boyfriend is reaping the rewards of femininity. So she needs to ask herself if that's what she wants for herself OR if she confusing not being able to accept care/gifts as her being masculine. But most likely he's not supporting her in a feminine way either so.. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:13 PM
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I saw a Insta video of a beautiful women showing off her 300+ pound boyfriend who hands her the cold beans out of a can he's eating, and the comments were mostly along of the lines of "NGL he's kind of cute though"???? It's absolute brainwashing, I worry for young women growing up on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:55 AM
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I'm very proud of you and it's great to hear you're moving forward with excitement and positivity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:19 AM
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It's great to hear you've move on to something much better for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:18 AM
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Here to say the same, you can never really replace psychical touch. But redirecting the energy can be helpful, so putting more time and care into your personal hygiene, workouts, dressing, sleeping. While also appreciating hugs, handholding, and time spent with friends (I'd still keep this to just female or NB friends). For example I decided to start taking longer times to brush and maintain my hair while being careful, and it's the best it's looked in years. Sexual energy is power, and that pow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:06 PM
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I also went through the experience of realizing my dad was very much a LVM. It sucks, and I have no respect for him, but I find comfort in knowing I'm my own person and his actions don't represent me in any way. Build your life in a way that best suits you, and If you ever wanna distance yourself from him I'm telling you that's completely fine. I hope you find lots of value in yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:27 PM
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Piggybacking off of this post to ask my own question because I find it interesting: As a young member, I'm going into Design for Landscaping, possibly doing more school to become an Architect. What kind of men does this occupation attract if any of you have had experience?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:59 AM
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You're not shallow, you're just high value. You have standards and a lot of men don't reach those standards, and that's for the better. Keep up the high standards and once you find a man that does turn you on it'll all be worth it. Think of yourself as a goddess, would a goddess be attracted to the common man? Probably not, and there's a reason for that c;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:41 PM
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Do you really want and desire to build a relationship with this man? I think were all coming from a place here that the only way you're vetting a man is if hes presenting himself in your life in a way that completely benefits and interests you far more then your regular day to day. If you're feeling that you could drop contact with him and continue living your life just the same why put in the effort? Value your peace of mind more then the idea of the company of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:31 PM
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I'm still a student myself, and while I'm really financially independent, I have no interest in dating right now for this exact reason. All of my male friends are either broke students, already have debt, not good with money, and the guys who are doing school for good careers are repeatedly stingy with their money from what I seen. Because of this I always seem them making excuses for not wanting to go after HVW (Too much work, not enough time, only cares about money, ect) but will drop everyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:21 PM
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Healthy Relationships are not the same as romantic relationships even though they can and should go hand in hand. I've seen too many friends fall into the values that their main goal in life is to have "the one". That's all fine and dandy, but what I've seen is that they really mean: Giving their whole reason of happiness on one person for the rest of their lives. They won't let themselves be happy if it's not with that one particular person, because they just don't want to cultivate self worth.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:08 PM
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If you ever have the chance I think that's a great Idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:34 PM
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Literally, there are so many horror stories out there, makes my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:16 PM
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Glad to see others feel the same! 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:15 PM
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Mhm definitely agree, I think for me it's that I actually DO want a child, but withholding from pregnancy's is my personal protest towards today's actions affecting our home and the people in it. I won't let a man convince me of different values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:15 PM
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I went through it and while I aligned in some ways I still think birth and pregnancy's are beautiful moments in life. My issue is more about the political climate and destruction of our home, not at the process of birth or a child itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:13 PM
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Wanna get a farm together and raise beautiful adopted children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:03 PM
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Preach sister, time for us to start seeing our reproductive power as power to shape the future world we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:02 PM
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Too many kids are born into poverty, and abusive homes :c No matter how well we do as an individual or as a society it doesn't matter if our childern are not being given a safe and beautiful home life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:47 AM
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Exactly!! Completely agree on this point. This is why governments push so hard to restrict choices on our own bodies. Because they know full well that our right over our body is the most powerful thing there is. We control whether the human population continues or not, and in that way we are so much closer to god. Just look at Japanese women, the working conditions are so terrible there that there's so many men that can't ever be a good suitor. So they refuse to have children, even though the go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:46 AM
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Oh yeah I'd do this but more in a natural/farm life setting where kids can help through emotional troubles by connecting with nature and learning life skills on how to take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:20 AM
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Exactly, that's how I feel too. Another perk with adoption is that if I end up with a child that's older I could potentially wait till my late thirties to adopt. I don't need to stress about loosing fertility and can set up my resources perfectly before jumping into parenthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:53 AM
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No he's been pretty HV but he admits to taking a long process of getting there and evaluating himself and low value traits he used to have. Not every man will stay LV forever but you should never date a LVM hoping he'll change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:59 PM
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Came out in his new book, he went over how he'd research different author's/researchers that women were interested in to have something to talk to them about. The way he worded it was cringey but he did start off by saying he was embarrassed by the way he acted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:16 PM
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Have to agree with the comments, just because he has a certain standard or attraction doesn't mean he's homophobic. This is coming from a queer women btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:45 PM
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I feel like a HVM would not even consider bringing up the idea of a threesome or feel that looking at other women is acceptable if I were to bring up my sexuality. And if he does? Well that's not a HVM in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:42 PM
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Found out from a guy who was interested in me that my exact natural appearance is a type of wanted kink called "Snow White" 🙄 So small body, Dark hair, pale skin, and pink/red lips. Definitely made me very suspicious of most men, wondering if they're fetishizing me just because I have certain combination of traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:57 PM
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It's how the game is written, it'll subtly put more emphasis on the characters that will die that round.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:00 PM
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I've read this book to and I absolutely recommend it. Best level-up book for women. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:10 PM
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If you ever need a confidence boost just listen to Hozier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:27 PM
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That's great to hear that it went well, and it's great you love her so much. Giving her more space to see herself and how she acts will most likely lead to the change of behavior both you and her want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:09 AM
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Ah, well in that case if he's asking you out for just Coffee then he's already set his intentions with you. If you're looking for commitment then he really should be taking you on more well thought out dates. If you think for whatever reason he's just clueless then set the boundary of "If you want to see things go further with me I expect a higher quality date.". If he gets fussy at that then you have your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:13 PM
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She might be toxic but her love life seems to be chaotic. Helping her out and giving her genuine advice when she acts for it is one thing but she's calling you 3-4 times a week? The issue isn't your quality of advice or her not taking it, she's obviously has no insecurity in herself and is trying to fill it with a man. As much as you have good intentions that's her road to change and there's not much you can do. I'm not you obviously, but if I was in your position I would limit the phone calls t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:48 PM
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This is usually why you'd do a vetting phone call prior to a date first. Prior to any contact is the best time to ask what their intentions are. If they say anything other then "A long term relationship" or "A wife, partner for life" then they aren't interested in the long term and you're wasting your time. A man will make it clear when his intentions are to get married. You're not needy by bringing it up, and if a man thinks it's needy then he's not the right fit for you anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:42 PM
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Yeah you're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:04 PM
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I think it's more of a disclaimer so that people actually give her a chance to listen instead of immediately going to "YOURE ANTI PORN, FUCK YOU!!" I don't blame her for making the disclaimer and honestly she doesn't sound as if she enjoy or gives credit to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:59 PM
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I actually struggled with the idea of brutal honesty for a bit until I saw a quote that went something along the lines of: "Brutal honesty is just cruelty"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:49 PM
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The way she communicates and the words/phrases she uses is completely targeted towards a male audience. As an LGBTQ woman, she gives off weird vibes, from not empathizing with women being allowed to be in control of what psychical affection they're comfortable with, to commitment issues when you're dating? Especially that last part, you're DATING to find someone for the long term. So why are you bashing this women for being clear with her intentions? As a Bi women you should be much more conside…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:31 AM
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That's great to hear! I wanted to add that I'm barely patient with men, I feel like I can see where most conversation are going from the beginning but this strategy really helps give me more power in that sense. Usually when I don't take the time to consider what I'm about to say or do I go into any interaction with a full 100% of myself, and when this is an argument or disagreeance with a man they always will take that chance to turn that energy back at you and make you the "bad" guy. When I al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:14 PM
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Self protection especially from violence targeted towards women can definitely be exhausted. For me personally I'm not resentful as it is more saddening for me to think that as a community of women there are so many extra steps in our daily lives to the most simplest of things. Though my portion on pausing, and "It's not what you say but how you say it" is something I use throughout all aspects of my life. If has become particularly useful in terms of dealing with Misogyny but I don't see it as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:30 PM
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Honestly I think we need to start looking at age gaps a bit more thoroughly. This bigger instances always happen with a post where the age different is big and the women is younger. I know 4 years might not seem a lot to some but she's probably still in school or fresh out of school while he's been in the work force for a while. It's different stages of life, and if he feels he can be disrespectful to someone that much younger then him then it's already gonna get so much worse imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:13 PM
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Notice how soft and serene his voice sounds? I can very easily imagine how he'd sound in an intimate moment. There's definitely a correlation here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:47 PM
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Reminder: No matter the guy, (or women even) if you're having sex as a women you pee afterwards EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. ​ Such a small thing to do but can save you so much headache in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:34 PM
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Myers Briggs is not a self reflection, it's how society views you on a first impression. Socionics goes much deeper into Myers Briggs and shows more directly who that person is, what they want and need, and how YOU will work in a relationship with them. If you're using this stuff to determine relationships go with Socionics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:35 PM
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Got me smiling the whole video, what a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:30 PM
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You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:53 PM
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Dated in Toronto, lots of LVM in HVM clothing. Men are very focus on work, can be good depending if they have an idea of where they want to be in 5 years, or it's not a Soundcloud rapper. If they can't tell you where they wanna go career wise but all their time is in studies or work, they're just not developed and will usually disappoint. Lots of men focus on getting big money because they have absolutely nothing else to show for. Go to date is going out to eat, tons of nice places for cheap, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:29 PM
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This!! How am I alone when I go out with friends, family, and co-workers regularly? My life is filled with beautiful people, but apparently that doesn't matter because none of these relationships involve my vagina??? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:31 PM
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This is how I'm reading it exactly, 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:00 AM
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That's so sad, poor her. What away to embarrass someone in front of all of their friends and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:02 AM
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Sagittarius women are the definition of "I love men, but I don't need a man. It's like dessert."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:41 AM
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There comes a point in every women's life where you realize just how angry you are, you're so angry and you just don't know why. It's definitely what you've listed out, and are the unfair positions you've been put in and are continuously put in. Men and the way they treat you will never get better. But that doesn't mean this is all suffering with no reward. I'm currently doing therapy for this at this point in my life, I found myself to be too "abrasive" and would somehow get my male friends def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:58 PM
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Honestly tho, "visual creatures" but their appearance, home, and car space are all unkempt and unattractive. Biggest myth in the world, women are visual creatures and that's a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:22 PM
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So what you're saying is you have the brainpower of a 3 year old, good to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:52 PM
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I love this comment, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:53 AM
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That's amazing! If you ever feel like you're in a tough place, remember we all got your back and are cheering you on. Can't wait for you to be making a post in the future where you're treating yourself and are financially stable. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:51 PM
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A plate?????? PAPER. PLATE??? I'm so confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:49 PM
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Queen energy right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:43 PM
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As is most women's sadly, lack of financial independence in women is the main reason domestic abuse exist. A lot of women just don't have the money to leave at the first sign of abuse. Your career and wealth should be #1, I believe in you girl. Carry that abundance mindset and go for whatever goals you have, you can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:36 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:32 PM
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I'm curious, when you say looking on point = less attention for beta's, how can you accomplish that? A big insecurity of mine is while I take great care of myself, and call myself averagely attractive, I get a lot of attention from very LVM. I don't engage with them or even bother, but I worry that the people I attract reflect who I am. I feel like my attitude is on point too, (though I always take the time to improve all areas of my life when I can) so is attention from LVM a reflection of your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:22 PM
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And if you bring up pegging they think it's absolutely disgusting but will ask for anal the next night, lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:11 PM
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I didn't realize that gay relationships and gay sex were legalized at different times or considered different issues, so thank you for helping me understand that. My intention is not to erase that part of history, and I also understand that gay sex, will have different dynamics than hetro-orientated sex. I think what I might have not made clear is not lumping in gay couples using sex-toys in the same area of BDSM and extreme kinks that are now trying to passed off as vanilla and "should be use i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:09 PM
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Definietly, FDS comes down to "Women come first" and I can always stand behind that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:02 PM
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Absolutely, I'm anti-capitalist as well but I'm also well aware that all of modern say issues stem down to financial security first and for most, and being career oriented is just the smarter option if I want to make any kind of change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:00 PM
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I mean, this why you don't accept a proposal without a ring. That was the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:35 PM
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Completely agree on the Pride thing, the LGBTQ community fought for the right to love their partners, and society puts them in the lens that love = sex and just sex. Being LGBTQ doesn't mean you automatically belong to a unique subsection of sex, and straight men piggybacking on this as an accuse for anyone to step out of their sexual comforts is wrong in a whole other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:20 PM
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Mhm I definitely agree with what you're saying. Feminism in itself and what it stands for it good, and the intention will always be good, but there comes a point where critical thinking comes into play. We can't just accept whatever movement or advice comes our way because it's labeled as "good" for us. Reproductive rights, creating your own income, and choosing who and when you marry will always strengthen women and our goals. One night stands, Polygamy, and overly worrying about men's emotiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:14 PM
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Be careful with men who could earn more then 40k+ but settle for it anyways. I know women who earn more then 100K+ but have husbands who are 40k earners. There are so many resources pointing towards this but men who earn less will always come to resent their wives. Men WANT to earn more, they're told they'll earn more, they want to spoil their spouses, and when they have a women who out earns them it makes them feel small. And in men's nature, instead of bettering themselves, they instead will d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:08 PM
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Exactly, while I'm a bit more left leaning, with FDS the more "conservative" tone we have is far more beneficial in the dating world then libertarian /empowerment/ of women which really just pushes women to do even more then what's already expected of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:48 PM
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I love her <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:59 AM
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Of course!! We're all different shapes and sizes, get gotta find the right dick to match! It is a pretty good conversation to be had,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:57 PM
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Oof, we've said it a million times, and I'll say it again. How is bothering you with a message like this "going his own way"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:53 PM
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Damn, you sound gorgeous and in charge! Love to hear about women like you, definitely inspiration material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:15 PM
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If men can compare every breast size, every curve of every butt, height, weight, I can do the same. And I'll sure as hell definitely find a penis that suits me. I'm tiny but my g spot is pretty deep within me. Having a huge girth is terrifying to me but I can definitely do with a long reaching penis. Long strokes are amazing but being stretch out is uncomfortable as all hell. The look of balls can be important too, I once saw a guy with balls that didn't have any SHAPE other then being one huge …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:11 PM
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What that immediately reads to me is, "I don't have motivation for ambition to have the better things in life that I desire, so I expect you to come down to my level to make me feel better." I actually feel pity, this man seems to not have good self worth and is trying to reflect it onto your shiny self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:04 PM
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Lolololol, "how dare a women know her own worth?? Let me fix this right now!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:53 PM
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So should she "settle" for someone who doesn't match her worth because..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:47 AM
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Even if you didn't want or expect it, you DESERVE something nice for your birthday. A well thought out gift should be an expectation for your birthday honestly. You're celebrating your life, if he wants you, that should be more then enough reason to go all out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:32 PM
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As everyone has said, it's okay. Firstly forgive yourself. You're not a bad person, you're not tainted, this feeling of shame or guilt doesn't have to be your future. You're probably an amazing women who's running the course of life. It's hard, and I'm sorry you've had this hardship, but I think because you're opening up about this you can definitely heal. I don't know if anyone has mention this yet but maybe consider therapy. Of course this comes down if you can afford it but there's a lot of f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:35 PM
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Best thing to take away from this is that privileged can be what your family is leaving you in terms of financial assets. Most male friends I know will have houses, assets, trust funds, savings, and other finical means left to them by their parents. Women need to be honest to themselves, is your family leaving you these same things, or are you funding your own tuition, buying your own cars, buying your first home without a family down payment? Are you coming from a single mother household where …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:40 PM
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This could honestly work guys, hear her out,,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:49 AM
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Looking like a whole kinder egg surprise and he's talking about shape? Jesus, as if the racism wasn't already an ugly look on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:45 AM
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What these hobbies have in common is that they're "leisure" at best, your leisure time should take no more then an hour or 2 a day while a good amount of your time-off should be spent on "lifestyle" hobbies. Skills that can be exercised and generally impact at least one of the following: Mind, Body, Social, Talent/skills. Alot of men with these traits just don't see themselves as a human that needs to continuously grow and expand. They've become complacent to the work/leisure lifestyle which lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:27 PM
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It's literally in male nature to provide and "peacock" with your chosen spouse. How can you feel proud of your masculinity to literally have your women do YOUR job? And then men preach that women "emasculate" them. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:16 PM
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See comments like this with follow up after years of dating is cute and appreciated! Can't understand why guys think comments like this after 2 seconds of meeting will ever land them a relationship 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:13 PM
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Just say you're looking for a fuck buddy and not a relationship and move on, pfft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:10 PM
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Honestly though! When I first saw this circulating media, I thought to myself no way. But so many comments from females preaching "don't judge their financial situation.".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:28 PM
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This is why you'll have very low luck finding a HVM if they've never lived on their own and especially with their mother. If he's in his mid-twenties and still with his mother you absolutely can't vet him as a HVM because he's never had to take care of himself in a domestic way. Don't ever take a chance on this. Until he's on his own for hopefully a good amount of years and you can vet his living place, he'll just see you as a mother + benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:24 PM
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It's so amazing to see the amount of work being done by women for women, the amount of respect I have for this sub and the work being done is so high. Welcome news subs, you're greatly appreciated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:03 PM
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Thank you for the long reply! I ended up going cold turkey anyways and it's been surprisingly easy and beneficial. I only thought it'd be hard because I use to tend to any simple sexual need right in the moment when I had them. That need has disappeared and has left my mind more clear and less regretful of shitty porn consumption. I'm not sure yet what would arouse me now but once I get to exploring that I really don't see a need for porn to fill in the blanks anymore. Thanks again!
/r/askFDS01/09/20 02:08 PM
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This one ^ I've stopped both porn and masturbating since this post without any setbacks and realized that I had trained my body that I'd response to it at any slight sense of arousal. Having stopped not only is there an added clarity to my mind which I didn't have before, but decreased the need to do it at all. I haven't started again without the use of porn but I've replaced it with physical excise. I'm really skinny and fit so it's more for the emotional benefit but it's definitely more satisf…
/r/askFDS01/09/20 02:04 PM
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