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Living frugally is practical even if you have your shit together. It's not like you're gonna just start a business and suddenly be rich overnight. It will also HELP you get that business off the ground and keep it running mean and lean. Starting a business involves lots of financial uncertainty, possibly for many years, with low pay at the start, and no guarantees it will ever pay off. Plus, learning to live with less can help you in so many different aspects of your life. And yes, it is tiring,…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:55 PM
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Same exact thing happened to my grandfather at around the age of 75 as well. He ended up re-marrying and staying with his new wife till his passing.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:31 PM
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first girl in "dire need of losing weight"? That's gotta be a joke right? I don't think there's a country on this planet that would consider that girl in dire need of losing weight. I don't think most would even throw her in the category of chubby. She's no super model but she's pretty fit outside of a little extra lovehandle.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:15 PM
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Awesome, really appreciate the comprehensive response! Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:27 PM
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It's a known fact that women in asian countries swoon over american guys. My cousin moves between China and Thailand, teaching english, and he's swimming in girls over there. Guy looks like a rock star, full of tattoos and piercings. P.S. What do you do for online businesses to afford you that lifestyle? I'm thinking of becoming a digital nomad myself. How did you get started?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:28 PM
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Phone calls? Definitely not. Phone calls are OLD SCHOOL. Come on, this is the age of texting. Phone calls are intrusive, inconvenient, and 90% of the time a girl is gonna put it to voicemail anyways. Plus its try-hard.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:59 PM
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I always take a girl's number, then text her immediately after she puts her number in, while she's still standing there, so she has mine. I'll either text her my name and the place we met, or a small inside joke if I can swing it from the convo, or tell her to take a goofy selfie with me and send it to her right there on the spot, so she remembers whose number it is. Then she can feel to reach out if she wants, and I still have her number. The leaving of the number and telling a girl to 'text me…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:18 PM
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I'm hoping this is sarcasm. For starters, why should I care if I provide anything to anyone else? I don't owe anyone anything. You don't owe anyone anything, you owe it to yourself. Because by offering more value to others, you increase your own value. If you wanna go through life being a value leech, then be my guest. People won't enjoy your company. Or go live in the woods somewhere, completely disconnect from society. Great people are remembered for the value they have created for others in t…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:01 PM
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Well you might as well stop living if you can't provide ANYTHING of value to anyone. In life you are rewarded for the value you provide, wether it be in business, art, relationships, etc. Offering value is pretty much the only thing we have going for us in this lifetime. For friends it may be something as simple as making them laugh or keeping them company or sharing a hobby. But keep in mind that you are getting something out of the relationship too. It's symbiotic. And it's symbiotic nature gi…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:28 AM
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I posted in a guitar related subreddit, and someone felt the need to leave in comments that I've posted in TRP, attempting to derail the entire thread. Mods eventually deleted all comments related to it. Did not receive a ban. But there is definite prejudice against TRP out there.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:47 PM
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I'm just about to turn 29. I have a cool crew of friends who are all 30-34, whom I go out with week after week, parties, bars, road trips. We are all getting laid by attractive women ages 21-28 consistently. Live in a major east coast city. Took years of experience to get to this point though. I say this not to brag, but just to let you know it is possible. And its not just me, its my whole crew too. Honestly, your whole post sounds like you have some limiting beliefs that need to be overcome. I…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:26 PM
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This comes back to the notion of sexual tension. Sometimes the anticipation is more exciting than getting to sex asap, especially for the girl. Learn to enjoy the tension. The joy is in the tension not the release. Be a tease. Make her chase. Make her work for it. Sometimes being so eager to get to sex asap can really hurt your chances of getting laid. That being said, it depends on the situation. Drunk at a club at 2AM is a lot different game than inviting a girl out for drinks, or meeting her …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:08 PM
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Trying to pin down a 21 year old typical college girl is a totally fruitless endeavor. Just assume she will be banging someone else down there. This girl is not a unicorn and you really should get your one-itis in check. I wouldn't put ANY stock into a 21 year old girl, they change direction as often as the wind. They have no idea who they are or what they want at that age. Now go bang some other chick during her 5 days away.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:44 PM
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Love going to the supermarket with a girl. It's basically like a date.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:20 AM
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How did you find out that she lied?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:07 PM
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Its a fake empathy. They will shower affection/attention towards people when they are just getting to know them, as a tactic to get you to like them. The target enjoys the attention/validation and associates the positive emotions with the woman, its a way to hook people in.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 03:37 PM
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Come on spend a few extra bucks and at least upgrade to a Chipotle or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 12:33 AM
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why is chap stick not on the list? I swear half of all women in my area include chap stick on the '6 things I couldn't live without'. Where are all these transgenders??? There are none in my area.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:26 PM
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The kind of alpha who is fucking multiple women, therefore doesn't care what she does when she's not around. Someone not looking for commitment because they have options. The same girl who would fuck you silly as a FWB will dry up once you've committed to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:42 PM
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Who the hell asks for a sample of a strangers food? That is the most bizarre thing I've ever heard. Maybe its just because I'm in the northeast where people are less friendly... a scenario like that in my area would never happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:39 PM
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These are platitudes that sound nice on paper but are removed from reality. You think that enslaved peoples in early America were going to find contentment with their situation merely by looking at it from a different angle? Wether or not society is "broken" could be debated. But there is certainly room for improvement. There are some injustices and evils in this world that will never be solved through "seeking contentment" as you've put it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:42 PM
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Honesty I don't think this going to effect all that many marriages. You have to download the list from a TORRENT. How many women do you know, that have any idea what a torrent is, or how to download one? Not many. Torrents are for computer savvy people. More guys will find out about their wives, but once again not everyone knows what torrenting is.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:43 PM
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Obviously you gotta dump this girl. You also gotta choose better friends. What kind of best friend would do that shit? I would be more pissed at my best friend in this situation... Girls can be expected to cheat, but your bro is truly supposed to have your back. In any case, you get to have a fresh start! And that's kinda exciting! Take a vacation! Pick up some new hobbies! Make some new friends! Time for a total life renewal!
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:34 PM
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I think your knowledge of the current state of PUA is a little misguided. The leading school of PUA, Real Social Dynamics, focuses as much on the identity level change you speak of as they do about outer game tactics. PUA has evolved way beyond its beginnings of the Mystery Method and Ross Jeffries. PUA schools are now as focused on being the best version of yourself and self improvement as they are on how to go out in field and chat up ladies. Go look at the wide variety of articles over on RSD…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 09:22 PM
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I really don't think its reasonable to jump to any conclusions about girls in gaming off one girl's reaction the FF game announcement. Maybe she's just a girl who doesn't give a shit about final fantasy games? I've done my fare share of hardcore gaming... but I don't give two shits about a FF remake. I've never liked FF style games. Doesn't make me any less of a gamer. Give me a FPS, RTS, or MOBA any day of the week and I'll get excited. I would have been even less emotionless than that chick on…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 06:23 AM
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It's not sarcasm lol. Banging chicks raw is just asking for trouble and a bad habit to get into. I just looked it up and the military only tests for HIV, once a year.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 04:00 PM
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Ddduuuuudddeeee don't fuck chicks raw. Come on man, you're asking for trouble. I know it doesn't feel as good but it's the smart thing to do. Just looking out for you bro. If you haven't tried Trojan Bearskin condoms, they will change your life!!! Seriously. I gave a couple to my friend to bang a chick with on a Friday night, the next day he went out of his way to call me to thank me for turning him onto them. Pretty much blew him away. And this is a guy who usually goes raw dog.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:38 PM
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Personally I avoid making out in the bar or early on in the date. It kills the tension and then she's expecting sex... Will put up more LMR this way. Personally I like to keep my hands off and let the tension build until she's back at my place and I'm ready to make a move. Usually at this point they will just melt in my hands.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:59 PM
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its called pick-up ARTS, not pick-up science. For the author to claim PUAs should boil it down to a scientific method to justify its validity seems pretty silly. Just because it doesn't have a scientific method backing it up, doesn't mean it doesn't work. That would be like trying to explain why the Chili Peppers song 'Under the Bridge' makes people cry by breaking it down scientifically... which obviously could not be done. It's ARTS, its ETHEREAL, its EMOTIONAL, and often times cannot be put i…
/r/MGTOW16/06/15 03:31 PM
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This blog is very misguided as to the state of the current PUA community. The writer of this article is pretty uninformed and knows little about PUA today. I'm also confused as to why anyone would feel the need to 'debunk' game. To justify that they have no power to change their dating/sex life as it currently exists? So they can avoid taking a long hard look at themselves and admit that there could be room for self improvement? Seems to me like the author of this article wants to debunk game so…
/r/MGTOW16/06/15 03:10 PM
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There are a few possible reasons for this: Firstly, if a girl is not attracted to a guy physically, then this type of game won't take you very far at all. She may have been talking to your friend about inane topics out of boredom, enjoying the extra attention, for fun, etc. She may not have been that into him from the start. Secondly, he started out super beta in the beginnings of the convo. This can make it difficult to transition to sexual topics. The example from this post went full sexual fr…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:08 PM
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TROJAN BARESKIN CONDOMS. THEY WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. TROJAN BARESKIN CONDOMS. THEY WILL BLOW YOUR MIND. (Not as good as sex without a condom, but they are pretty damn close. You gotta be careful though and being checking to make sure they don't break. Super thin. I've broken them before. Make sure she's lubricated boys and they shouldn't tear.)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:21 PM
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Nope. He really posts this stuff. And says shit like it in his speeches too.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:52 AM
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It's really him. I've been pretty involved with RSD. He's a pretty twisted guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:51 AM
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Oh a very reputable and unbiased site... a post in 'bash the scene' from a PUA hate site. The OP isn't able to post ANY sort of proof he was an employee after being asked multiple times. And yes, RSD instructors probably do inflate their success. I would not be surprised if they tailored their vids to make it look like they are pulling. But they are all getting laid fairly consistently. After finding out myself how easy it is to get sex, I have no doubt these guys are getting laid. Probably not …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 02:29 PM
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Most fall in the 7-8 range, once in a while a super hottie. Any dude wouldn't even think twice about banging the girls I've been with. RSD doesn't even claim to have you banging hotties every night... Tyler himself has stated that most girls are cute/moderately hot and then a handful of times a year he pulls a model or a stripper. Not too shabby if you ask me. RSD is mainly to help guys who have zero success get some moderate success. How far you take it is totally up to you, how much time you p…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:02 PM
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Well, I went from total sexless shut-in to getting laid all the time, and RSD was largest school of thought I learned from. I've attended his events. I've met the guy personally. I've attended parties at Papas house. I've made friends with some of the people that work there. This guy is not just making shit up. I've experienced it first hand. If you take the time to understand what he teaches, there's alot of solid information that can actually help you improve with women. It's not easy, and its…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:16 PM
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This post is so true. The criteria in the list above are all based off of FEAR that your girl will leave you. You want to know how to maintain a relationship with any type of girl, introvert or extrovert?... YOU NEED NOT BE AFRAID THAT SHE COULD CHEAT ON YOU OR LEAVE YOU. You do this by being grounded in yourself, and adopting a 'take it or leave it' mentality towards your girl. This in turn makes her more attracted to you due to your total lack of neediness, is more alpha, grounded, centered, l…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:38 PM
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Ok well if you make a statement like "ALL women are blah blah..." when the actual number is 90%, that would make your statement untrue... Don't think making generalizations, especially one that can be interpreted many ways, is particularly constructive.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:58 PM
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Except there are extremely responsible women that do exist in society... your comment is extremely general, total ranting and just straight up misogynistic. CEOs, business owners, even good mothers who have children. Some of them are even both mothers and business owners! Look at the CEOs of GM, HP, IBM, Pepsi, Lockheed Martin, General Dynamics etc etc etc. Yes ALL women are irresponsible children (rolls eyes). Those women probably make you look like an irresponsible child.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:19 PM
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As patrice o'neal would say... 'you goofy ho!'
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:27 PM
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Was just about to write something similar to this effect. I want my girl to be attractive, it's how she handles attention from other men that is important.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:38 PM
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Brad Pitt and Leo DiCaprio have waaaayyyy more social status over The Rock and Vin Diesel. Like in a whole other league of movie stardom, A-list vs B-list.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 02:53 PM
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Well if you want to keep a girl around, Alpha fucks won't last forever. Great for spinning plates, but if you want to maintain a LTR thats not gonna work. Just sayin. I know some guys are totally content spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 11:01 PM
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In theory they are looking for both. Those men are just hard to find so most women have to go for either one or the other. The solution is to be a boss in both regards, crush it in the bedroom and your professional life. Essentially you need to become a double threat.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:24 PM
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This has got to be one of the dumbest posts I've ever read. Some of the biggest sluts I know lived at home way longer than they should have. And there's plenty of non-slutty girls who do live on their own. This is no metric by which to judge a woman's character.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:43 PM
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I slept with 2 women at 22 years old. 1 time each... so yeah.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:48 PM
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No I'm not a male model by any means but I'm not ugly either. I'm a skinny hipster guy with a cute face and good sense of style. That opener does work man, one of my current plates was opened with it. I even asked her what made her respond to it; she said that at first when she responded she was just trying to fuck with me but then she started getting into it. Like I said in my post, you will be shit tested hard at first and it's possible to "flip" girls. Girls will respond sometimes just becaus…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:47 PM
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I usually start off extremely sexual on the opener. Something like "I want to eat your pussy till you cum ;)" or another opener that I'm not going to share but gives me an extremely good response rate (even better than the pussy eating one by probably 2-3x). I quickly get into sexting immediately within the app, exchange a few lines and tell her to text me so I can send her some pics and I leave my number. I then send her a few dick pics when she texts me, get a few nudes back from her, continue…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:23 PM
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Having money is absolutely critical to maintaining a LTR. Women are attracted to security it provides. Yes, you can bang hot chicks without having any money... But they will never view you as anything more than a hot fuck. If that's your goal, then by all means don't focus on money... But if you want to keep a hot chick around then you better be able to provide. Keep in mind that a woman's ultimate male ideal is both the alpha fuck and provider in the SAME MAN. This is hard to come by today so y…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 05:43 PM
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Yes, a total failure (rolls eyes)... He's only one of the most famous philosophers to ever live on the planet and spawn countless schools of thought, and inspire people all over the world from all walks of life. This man was thinking ahead of his time. I can only hope to leave a lineage as great as Nietzsche. The dude has been immortalized into the history of society. His works will be studied for many many years to come. Who cares about money, pussy, or power if noone recognizes you after you d…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:44 PM
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Whether you choose a mechanical methodology using routines & scripts or follow natural game principles, you are still operating from this core motivation of 'taking'. The problem with this, is that if you go out with the sole intention to TAKE, and you are unsuccessful in taking, you face all the pickup symptoms such as Rejection, Blow outs, Approach Anxiety and so on. Solutions are formed to destroy anxiety, suppress it, desensitise to it, meditate through it. Yet these are only ways to negate …
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:21 AM
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I assume you're probably active on TRP. Definitely see where you are coming from. For those who have taken the red pill, to view your partner as a 'godess / sister / ally / friend' definitely puts you at a disadvantage, even if you want a LTR. You are not allies and friends, you are a man and a woman, not equals. There are different roles that must be maintained. And a man must maintain the dominant frame at all times. Relationships are not about equality. A man leads, and a woman follows. It's …
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:17 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head with the self control comment. I think men are thinking that if a girl doesn't put out early, she has self control. But that's not always the case. In the end, determining wether someone has self control (I.e. The quality men should be looking for if they want a faithful partner), will have to be determined by viewing their actions over a longer period of time.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:07 PM
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And these women who hold back their sexualities? These are the ones that end up cheating or thinking about it. They aren't going to be getting the same sex they got back in their slutty days, and end up finding it outside the relationship when they are unsatisfied with their sex lives. So I say let sluts be sluts, satisfy them with the best sex and they will have no need to wander.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:41 PM
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Yes that is true too... Women hold out sex for men they view as providers or relationship material IMO. If a girl does that to me though, I end up liking her less. And that behavior of withholding sex is the direct result of slut shaming like the talks going around on this thread. I want a girl to be a slut for me, I encourage it. I don't want her holding back her sexuality to manipulate my image of her. It doesn't stop with just the first time sex either. They will continue to hold back in the …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:25 PM
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I'm not the one who is butthurt over being played by a post wall married woman and posting for advice on asktrp. That whole post indicates your experience level. Get more girls bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:41 PM
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You keep coming back to this point... please explain what the sluts do that these "boring low partner count girls" don't. Squirters, girls who are into threesomes, crazy sex toys, ridiculous positions, sex in public places, anal sex, massive dirty talk, just filthy minded women, BDSM. Basically fucks like a porn star. WAIT. SO HERE YOU ARE TRYING TO CONVINCE US THAT THE ONLY WAY TO GO IS WITH GIRLS WHO SLEEP AROUND AND HAVE SEX BECAUSE THEY WILL SURELY HAVE THE BEST SEX BUT THEN GO ON TO HAMSTER…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:04 PM
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It's weird, I can think of two girls who are insanely hot that have low or no partner counts. I can think of plenty more girls who I know for a fact only slept with boyfriends in a relationship. Because you know the intimate details of what they are like in the bedroom right? Because they tell you their sexual histories? Right, because girls are totally open about their sexual histories with guy friends... You've probably been fed a line of crap. I have been with girls like that, and they are us…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:42 PM
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Dude, all girls do that with men who are higher SMV. You put an average non-slutty girl onto a date with brad pitt or david beckham, you can guarantee they will be spreading their legs after 3 hours. Even if she makes most guys wait. This is just in their nature, they are opportunists. Women want to fuck guys they are highly attracted to. Fast. It's the nature of the game. So you can either find a prude or find a girl who isn't that into you and makes you wait for sex.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:37 PM
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The problem is that you have no sense of entitlement. Of course girls will sleep with me right away, I'm a cool guy with good game. I deserve to get laid right away. I'd rather have that girl that submitted to me on the first date than the one that dangled sex in front of me and manipulated me into taking her out on more dates and giving away more time. The girls who do not sleep with you right away, are going to be more manipulative in my opinion. Because they know they can get you to do things…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:12 PM
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So much slut shaming going around on this forum. The bottom line is that good game works. Girls go home with guys they like, and sleep with them quickly. All normally socially well adjusted girls do this, not just slutty women. And can you blame her? Considering you're the leader and you seduced her. I don't necessarily view a girl who sleeps with me quickly as a slut. Of course she's going to sleep with me right away... I have good game, good looking, intelligent, good career for someone my age…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 02:46 PM
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Even your skills and traits are disposable. You get to a point where you are high status, and there is always someone more high status in your network. Even millionaires and extremely successful men have trouble keeping wives around, they end up monkey branching to the dude in the mansion down the street, at the office, from that gala event, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:01 AM
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I thought this was a great video. The last few videos he has put out seem to be incorporating a lot of red pill philosophies. I will agree with Tyler about making the distinction between the girl who loves to have sex and the girl who is desperate for attention. I do not want the virgin, as I love kinky sex too much. But I don't want the raging slut either. I think there is a big distinction to make between the girl who loves sex because she enjoys sex, and the girl who loves sex because she is …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:10 PM
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Except she doesn't have relationships that appear out of nowhere... otherwise she wouldn't be single and needing to go on 98 dates. She's got the princess fantasy going on in full force.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:03 PM
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98 men and not one of them good enough for a relationship? Sounds to me like she went on 98 dates with copy cat versions of the same guy. Arrogant materialistic rich guys. She seems to say that she's not impressed by those material possessions... yet she keeps going on dates with those types of guys. Maybe she should head out to Williamsburg where people focus on their poetry and drink PBR instead of gin and tonics.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:58 PM
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I think a HUGE one is to be able to assess the level of her materialism. A less materialistic girl is going to be less upkeep in the long term, less demanding, more into you for your personality and less about what you provide for her financially.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:49 PM
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This where you put your foot down, call her out on her flakiness and force her to give you an answer one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:16 AM
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Well playing as the white-knight will probably get you laid with these girls. In my situation, she was constantly talking about all the shitty things she had gone through with her ex and I was there to console her and make her feel good about herself. There's a difference between simply mentioning an ex and talking in-depth about it. But really any girl who talks extensively about an ex on a first date indicates to me that she is not over him or maybe even a drama queen. It's just plain rude in …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:19 PM
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I think the talk of exes early on in dating is often an attempt to play the victim card, harp on your sympathies and get you to white knight her. Once you feel like a white knight, you'll probably lock her down into a relationship because you get addicted to the ego boost... unless you are smart that is. Personally, I was roped into my shittiest relationship with a girl who did this before I swallowed the red pill. I would be leery of any girl who is constantly talking of her exes and playing a …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:44 AM
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I think this whole story is getting blown way outta hand here on TRP. I've seen numerous threads about this guy. It's not fascinating. It's super easy for anyone on the internet to leave a "oooh he's so hot" comment on a physically attractive guys picture. If it was a hot woman in the mug shots, you can guarantee guys would be hooting and hollering too. Just because a woman leaves a comment on a photo, doesn't mean she would actually pursue this guy in real life. It's just silly girls on the int…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:56 PM
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Looks certainly do help in attaining women. But they are not the end all be all of attraction. Status can trump looks. In the end, your looks are largely out of your control (beyond working out, dressing well, being well groomed), so it's not worth putting energy into thinking about it. You can still excel despite physical shortcomings.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 05:05 PM
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I was heavily involved in the PUA community before coming to TRP. While most schools of PUA do involve tricks and tactics, the leading schools in PUA align very much with TRP and I would say there isn't much of a difference. Real Social Dynamics, the best PUA school by leaps and bounds, focuses a lot on inner game, i.e. being the strongest version of yourself (self-improvement, finding your center, building an awesome lifestyle) in addition to focusing on the outer game of pickup (the actual act…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:56 AM
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Usually women who are less attractive from a visual standpoint, have more interesting personalities. I love fucking hot women, but to be honest, when it comes time to settle down, I would rather have a cute 7-8 who has developed her character. I haven't really noticed good looking guys with FAT or UGLY women, but sometimes I do see men who are with women 1-2 points lower on the scale.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:20 PM
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Are you in the boston area? lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 08:19 PM
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I recently spun my ex of 2 years as a plate for 4 months. Let me tell you, it was NOT worth the effort. She was CONSTANTLY trying to pressure me back into a relationship. Which I refused and kept my ground. She was even more suspicious of me since we were not official, and that resulted in even more sporadic, possessive, jealous behavior. Lots of arguing, drama, etc. NOT WORTH IT. Eventually after 4 months of stringing her along, I couldn't deal with her drama and insecurities any longer. The pl…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:50 PM
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Amazingly well written, so true about 'refusal to play the rank game'. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:19 PM
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She just responded back after 3 months?! That was when I posted that comment lol. If it's been 3 months, move along man. If this is a new chick, I would push it. Joke with her about being scared about giving a number out. "What are you afraid of? I'm not an axe murderer or some internet paedophile, I swear! ;) Anyways, texting is much easier for me than the back and forth on this site, I'm not online too often and its cumbersome. if you want to chat you know how to reach me. -[Name]"
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:22 PM
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I think you would have better luck asking ugly girls/fat girls/old women. Obviously if you ask a group of girls they are all going to say no, just to avoid looking easy to their friends. Hot girls are obviously less desperate. The more desperate the women they better your chances are at this.
/r/seduction05/08/13 08:43 PM
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Nothing is a 'sure thing' until you've slept with her. And even then she could bail. If she didn't text you back she's probably not interested or unsure. If you run into her at the bar again I would maybe just say hi in passing and continue to do your own thing. Start hitting up other girls, do your own thing, and see if she initiates contact with you. I would really block her out of your mind for the evening. Focus on trying to meet other women and have a good time on your own. If she chooses t…
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:19 PM
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Just the act of being direct in itself displays non-neediness. Because you are not afraid to show your true intentions and display your vulnerability, you are showing that you are not dependent on an outcome. Not hiding your intentions, laying it all on the table, displaying vulnerability and putting yourself in a position where she could possibly reject you, shows that you have a supreme level of confidence. The directness will only come across as needy if you are using the directness as a tool…
/r/seduction27/06/13 05:33 PM
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I agree. Been there and done that. Not the kind of people who I would want to spend any time around.
/r/seduction01/06/13 04:13 PM
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The blueprint decoded focuses alot on inner game and changing your mentality to that of an attractive guy. It's about transforming your thought processes. That said, there has been alot of development within RSD on the outer game/technique aspect that isn't covered in the blueprint. Things such as building social momentum over the course of the evening, jack-off theory, or focusing on the process. There's still a shit ton of good material in the blueprint, definitely still relevant.
/r/seduction30/05/13 06:05 PM
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When I was active on OkCupid, I would usually LEAVE MY NUMBER after her second response. On my 3rd message I would say something short in response to her along with a "you seem pretty cool, why don't you shoot me a text and we can chat more. My number is xxx-xxx-xxxx". This worked for me ALL THE TIME. Push for a text convo SOONER RATHER THAN LATER. I'm a busy guy and I don't want to deal with all the back and forth of okcupid online messages. Text me on my phone, I do this sorta thing all the ti…
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:13 PM
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This is the truth. Just get her talking about herself works wonders. Just listen to what she has to say... Respond, let her respond... Repeat.... Conversation!
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:50 AM
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She cheated on me. Lied. She threw a large knife at the wall once. She's broken things. Physically hit me. Caused me to lose many friends. Hated on two different roommates. Lost her job. Done lots of drugs, including ecstasy, coke, and snorting adderall. Moved in with me somehow. She would not have sex with me if I used a condom. I'm sure I'm missing many things, theres too much chaos to remember it all, it was some new drama every day. But I'll just state that she was a squirter... so yeah I st…
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:52 PM
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Not sticking your dick in crazy is advice I had heard a million times but decided to do it anyways. Didn't really understand the ramifications... But I'll definitely never do that again. My ex-girlfriend of the past 1.5 years fits into this category. The sex with this type of girl is freaking incredible... So it can be really easy to justify getting involved with a crazy chick. I just never knew how bad things could get. It's just one of those lessons you need to learn for yourself I guess. I ha…
/r/seduction07/05/13 05:33 PM
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Obviously a comment coming from someone who isn't an introvert. Introversion is not about feeling uncomfortable in the environment, its about being worn down by high energy environments and needing to recharge after being in those environments for long periods.
/r/seduction06/05/13 02:35 PM
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I too am an introvert, and really despise the bar/club scene. Do you think the bar/club scene is still a place where an introvert can excel? Or do you think introverts should focus more on day game, quick one-on-one isolation, quieter venues? Can you give us some of the tactics/advice that might be helpful to fellow introverts?
/r/seduction06/05/13 12:06 PM
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Dude, the first time you have sex is going to suck. It will not be memorable. There's no doubt about it. You just sound scared of the unknown. Just think about how satisfied you are going to feel after knowing that you're not a virgin. That's going to be 10x more satisfying than the sex itself. You don't have to be super attracted to them... Just a girl who is cute enough that would be fun to fool around with. Its just sex. It's no big deal. It's fun and it feels good. When your dick is in them,…
/r/seduction02/05/13 04:21 PM
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No dude, he should just do it. In order to get good at seduction, you need to adopt a mindset that sex is NO BIG DEAL. You need to be casual about sex. And how are you supposed to do that if you've never had sex before? I know that the first few women I slept with were not particularly attractive, but they were a do-able stepping stone. You need to start having sex first if you wanted to have sex with attractive girls. Being a virgin is going to fuck with his mindset, because he's going to be ou…
/r/seduction02/05/13 04:08 PM
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You say you had 2 or 3 opportunities to sleep with women and you turned them down. You should have slept with them! Get that shit over and done with man... Lose the V card and you'll feel alot more confident.
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:07 PM
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You don't need to totally cast aside your true style. Just find a happy medium. A style that will be somewhere between the mainstream yet still has that alternative flare you normally wear. I agree that a big viking he-man beard probably won't help you out too much. But you can still tap into that alternative aesthetic in the details. Maybe you wear a band t-shirt under a blazer, or you have some accessories that fit your style, i.e necklaces or rings or something. Take an acceptable wardrobe an…
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:55 PM
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Tyler Durden adressed this issue at the Hot Seat program I attended. He showed a clip where he realized while in the club that he was stifled . He was walking around the club not opening, and even acknowledges to the camera that he's being a total chode. He decides to immediately change up his plan in order to unstifle himself. His approach is to open ANYTHING that he can (he starts by going up to a chick and asking her where the bathroom is), and to minimize time between approaches (after askin…
/r/seduction20/07/12 02:52 PM
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I completely disagree. Text/IM/Online game is another tool in your seduction arsenal. If these online interactions are ruining your game, the problem is not with the medium, the problem is with YOU. I feel like this whole post is just a result of your poor online skills. Work on it, get better at it. I have had monstrous success through online/im/texting. You just haven't witnessed the power of it. Online game is your friend, not your enemy... it will help you if you are good at it.
/r/seduction13/04/12 01:53 PM
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You were playing with her tits, I think you had potential to close the deal. Sounds like you were getting some last minute resistance. Did you take your dick out? Next time I say you whip your dick out and try to pull her pants off and really go for it. Some chicks like that sorta thing. Also, chick sounds kinda crazy, so be careful.
/r/seduction12/04/12 03:47 PM
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There are two things keep me from over-analyzing texts. Both ultimately come back to being outcome independent. Firstly, I abide by the "you thought it, you sent it" principle. This entails sending a reply that is the first thing that pops into my head. It's a genuine response, because you arrive at it without thinking. It's your gut reaction response. So when you're thinking about what to send back, type the very first thing you can think of, hit send, and say to yourself "well... I thought it,…
/r/seduction05/04/12 04:09 PM
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I struggled with this for a long time. I too was one of those guys that looked 18 when I was 21, 14 when I was 18. And it really bothered me. In retrospect, I realize that it was a limiting belief that I had, and doesn't make any difference. It's something that you have no control over, so you shouldn't exert any mental energy around it. If you get your personal fashion down, it can make you look a little older. Dress sharp, dress cool, be cool, and express your personality. Some girls like cute…
/r/seduction22/03/12 07:08 PM
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I think its somewhat of a shit test. There isn't really a correct answer, because every girl is looking for different responses to that. I think the best thing is to respond honestly and be upfront about your intentions. I think she's looking for a real honest answer there. Perhaps she's trying to see if you will be flustered. I think congruence is key here. When I've been asked that question, I've answered it similarly to you. Just stated that I was having fun dating, taking things day by day a…
/r/seduction28/01/12 12:52 AM
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Turn off your social conditioning, that is poor common knowledge. I open with this all the time, and rarely get blown out. I go with 'stunning' or 'adorable', and usually its well received. If i said "smoking hot" it might not go over so well. calibration is necessary obviously, not gonna comment on the looks of a 10. I'm in the camp you can open with anything as long as you have total belief in what you are saying will work.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:39 PM
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"Hey, you guys looked like fun, I had to come meet you. I'm Alex." Sometimes I go with "I thought you guys had great style" or if its a single girl "I thought you looked stunning", instead of the "look like fun" part.
/r/seduction06/01/12 06:33 PM
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I think there's a flaw in your logic. Comments like that will generally not be met with a negative response. In fact, I think comments like that will incite arousal in the girl. This is what people are talking about when they say you need to "turn the conversation sexual." These types of remarks show that a) sex is not a big deal to you, and b) get her thinking about you as sexual guy.
/r/seduction30/12/11 01:07 AM
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I like to think I'm a pretty damn good kisser. My method would be described as slow and firm. And generally don't use any tongue unless she prompts it. I've found women really respond well to the slow firm kiss. Also, make sure you are paying attention to other parts of her body as you are kissing her. I like to massage her stomach, waist, and legs (If you are lying down or on a couch), or around her waist/lower back if you are standing. Just explore her body with your hands, gets them very turn…
/r/seduction25/12/11 05:22 PM
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Create a profile that portrays you as a unique person with some personality, throw up a few good pics. I usually throw out messages that start with "Hey, I was intrigued by your profile and wanted to shoot you a message." and then just proceed to comment like 2-3 sentences on something related to their profile and why you found it interesting. Usually try to grab a phone number after her second response.
/r/seduction24/12/11 06:06 PM
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I did the OKC thing for about 6 months when I was first getting serious about seduction. I had strong approach anxiety and being online helped me avoid that. I've Been on countless first dates, and I even dated a girl from there for about two months; a girl who messaged me nonetheless. It was a good way to get my feet into the dating world, and now my day 2 game is totally solid. I guess you could say I did things a little backward, but knowing that I had solid day 2 game made me more confident …
/r/seduction24/12/11 01:21 AM
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look man, you gotta get it into your head that looks don't really matter. I'm a skinny guy too... 130 lbs, 5foot10. It hasn't prevented me from getting with women. Some women actually like skinny guys. Start hitting the gym and you should notice instant definition in your muscles because there is no fat covering them up... it wont take long to get that toned look (think adam levine). Girls think skinny guys are cute, and that is definitely to your advantage. Take a look at fashion models these d…
/r/seduction21/12/11 01:24 AM
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not exactly sure what this rant is all about... I don't think anyone here is coming at this with malicious intent.
/r/seduction15/12/11 04:31 AM
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yeah you can often find a quiet unpopulated area that is good for a little on the spot makeout session.
/r/seduction13/12/11 12:34 AM
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Museums are pretty good for getting kino in.
/r/seduction12/12/11 09:01 PM
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There are as many AFCs online as there are in real life. Perfect your game and you will stand out both both online and offline.
/r/seduction09/12/11 05:35 AM
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haha it may sound funny, but girls do get turned on by it.
/r/seduction06/12/11 09:28 PM
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I think your problem is that you are not kissing the girls soon enough into your interactions, so when you end up in the bedroom the "seal" hasn't been broken yet, so there's an awkward tension. Kiss her at the end of date 1. Kiss her when you greet her for date 2. Kiss her throughout the date on date 2. This way when you make it to the bedroom, the make out is not awkward, because you've already been kissing. It will feel more natural. Your escalation is off. Be more aggressive before you get t…
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:43 PM
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Wygant's style is definitely more aimed toward finding a girlfriend than lays. This is definitely the 'sensitive man' seduction, yes... ...But I just want to point out that getting laid is not what seduction is all about. Everyone is in this for different things. Some want to get same night lays, some want to get girlfriends. I don't think this forum is about getting laid, it's more so about seducing the women that you want. I'd also just throw it out there that most ladies are not going to be D…
/r/seduction05/12/11 11:28 PM
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I would personally not call or text her, cut all contact. See if she contacts you. Once she doesn't hear from you for a while she will think "why hasnt he contacted me?" and perhaps reach out. If she never contacts you then its better off that way I'd say. you say yourself that you invested too much into this girl. The only solution is to back off and give her space and see if she comes back to you. She can probably sense you're too invested, and thats probably why she's losing interest. I think…
/r/seduction01/12/11 05:43 AM
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I'd rather refine my game so I'm making a great first impression when I first meet her, and it wont matter if I call or text. I've just accepted that texting is part of the game these days, its just another aspect of seduction that I will need to improve rather than avoid. I think alot of women would rather text than use the phone as well. And it can work to your advantage believe it or not. And calling doesn't avoid flakiness from my experience. I've called women and set up a date over the phon…
/r/seduction30/11/11 06:45 PM
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Outcome Independence my friend. You really need to stop caring about what she is thinking altogether. Mixed signals, no signals, it really shouldn't matter. You need to adopt the mindset that you are a sexual man who doesn't hide their sexuality. You do what you want because you are a man, and you don't care how she is going to react. If you feel like kissing her, you do it, because thats just what a man does. A man has desires, and you (a true man), are not hiding what he really wants or suppre…
/r/seduction20/10/11 05:14 AM
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going from talking to making out... you will need to create some alone time with her. Going from making out to sex... If the make out session is intensely building up you will need to initiate. If she puts the breaks on, start making out again and try to initiate again in a little bit.
/r/seduction12/10/11 03:55 AM
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For the coffee or drink date, I always plan ahead a second activity nearby that we can walk to if the date is going well. My go-to has been just walking to the park nearby, but it could be dessert, that cool thing you know in the area, etc (its got to be quick and close by). When you two leave together, you need to grab her hand and lead her to the next location. There will be a moment when you two leave coffee where she will look at you for guidance on where to go next. Just grab her hand and b…
/r/seduction12/10/11 03:21 AM
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I have found its always best to call to ask someone out for a date. Calling her displays more confidence. Plus when you call, you dont have a chance to overanalyze what you are going to say. The conversation can be much more natural. I dont think making it a command that she has to come out with you worked in your favor. Probably should have phrased the question in a more open ended manner. I find it works best when asking a girl out for the first time, to: -always have a specific event in mind …
/r/seduction18/03/11 11:42 PM
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