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Here's the point. Let's say 1% of every woman you meet is someone you would be 'interested' in. If you approach 10 women a day, then every 10 days you should turn up one you like. If you only approach 10 women a month, it's going to take you almost an entire year to find a good prospect.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 01:17 AM
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I get the hamster, it's just always frustrating to have it demonstrated so overtly. It's like their statements start to trigger my own cognitive dissonance even though I'm not proposing the original thought. My brain screams the logic is terrible, that makes no sense! But I can't rationalize that away, the only way I can get rid of it is to destroy the conflicting viewpoint. But in this case, the viewpoint is literally ingrained, genetically, into them and then that is just further reinforced by…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:15 PM
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Fair enough man, I just think that we have a common vocabulary for a reason and people should use it. It's one of the reasons I get really tired of all abbreviations and colloquialisms used here. It's not that I don't understand them or know what they mean, it just makes conversation more tiresome and difficult unnecessarily. Just because some or most people might know the terms doesn't mean that all people will know the terms.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:01 PM
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Well, in a strange way, the shaming of your youth drove you to search for answers. So, in that way you have sought to improve yourself when you were shamed, it just took a while to get there. :)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:51 PM
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Why does a lion hunt? Because it's hungry. If a lion is about to eat you, asking it why is rather pointless, no? It's like asking why strawberries taste good to me. I didn't make a decision to like strawberries. My genetics wired me in such a way that taste buds on my tongue send signals of pleasure and enjoyment to my brain when I'm eating that strawberry. Recognizing the patterns so you can act accordingly is all that really matters. The 'why' is rather irrelevant, at least in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:39 PM
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Hey look, you can drop Tomassi's name again and again and again as if I don't know who he is or haven't read his book. I've already answered in regards so nice trolling here. I don't care how many times you say it. Dread is an important piece of the puzzle but the idea you suggest that men don't communicate is a strawman and is harmful. Nowhere have I said go beg your wife for some starfish, quit pretending like I did. Communication can be both verbal and non-verbal moron. Sometimes, for some fo…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:04 PM
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They think that way because they are women... why do you think like you do? We are, for the most part, genetically wired to think certain ways or at least in certain patterns.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 11:50 AM
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Most men, especially for casual sex partners (ONS, whatever) like the brother is getting, would gladly trade a few (all?) points on the personality scale to upgrade the physical rating. You might have a point if the dude was trying to find a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:37 AM
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The funny thing is that woman always assign value judgments to the men they meet, they just won't admit it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:30 AM
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Sure, I get the whole ask the fish part, that's pretty easy to pick out. But if another woman is incapable of deciding whether or not to sleep with a man (as is implied by the statement that the brother doesn't know the women want sex, even though those women are having sex with him), that implies that no woman is capable of deciding to sleep with a man. I know women can rationalize pretty much anything but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around that one.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 05:27 AM
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There is a ton of striving for validation in /r/trp. Good or bad, but there is a lot of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 04:37 AM
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So, your married couple friends are allowed to have fun. But single dad is not?
/r/askTRP08/06/14 04:23 AM
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I think you're really minsconstruing things here. What he said was, "The question about when and where is due to that my daughter lives with me during the week and I am not bringing girls back to my house during the week." This clearly implies that he has his daughter 'during the week'. Further, he states, "So my only time to bring women home is on Fridays or Saturdays when I have the house to myself." Seems pretty clear that he has custody of his daughter m-f at some point. Certainly one night …
/r/askTRP08/06/14 04:08 AM
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Man, not away. Like to one of his daughters friends houses for the night. A sleepover. I'm not talking about putting her on a plane and shipping her across the country.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 03:46 AM
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BTW, it was the rich people that raped the poor girls. Not the poor people that raped the rich girls. Your entire post seems to have that backwards, especially when you start talking about poor people not valuing life and committing more crime. Again, it was the RICH people raping the POOR girls. Got it? You're ignorant colors are really shining through boss.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:44 AM
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I don't remember the last bus gang-rape / murder in the US. Since that stuff happens in America, could you tell me? Sure, bad stuff happens everywhere. That doesn't mean everywhere is equally bad. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2645231/Teen-Indian-girls-raped-murdered-left-hanging-mango-tree-pictured.html I'm not even gonna bother arguing the caste system with you. Here's an article that makes it easy for anyone reading this post if they actually want to know the truth to find it. TLDR:…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:32 AM
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I replied the to whole racist accusation below. In short, it's just complete bullshit. I don't know what else to call someone that hangs teenage girls from trees after raping them except savage. There were multiple stories very recently of woman being gang-raped on buses by packs of men. Savage. Do you need more links? They aren't hard to find. After those girls were hung from the tree, the police department had to arrest their own officers for failing to conduct an investigation. I would have c…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:14 AM
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Maybe, I don't think so. Was what I said nice, no. It was true though. People that hang girls from trees are savages. It's well known that police departments all over that country don't investigate these crimes, often because they are committed by the upper-class onto the lower-classes. We ARE NOT talking about some fake rape at a university. We're talking about teenage girls that were hung from a tree after being raped and the police had to arrest members of their own department because they di…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 02:56 AM
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Best part. So, sister tells brother what he is doing is shitty. Brother says no, girls want this. Internet girls say : "How does he know this is what women want? Has he asked them? Read things written from their perspective? Done research? You are a woman and this is not what you (or probably your friends) want. Has he made that connection?" So, what does this mean? A woman is saying that another woman is incapable of deciding whether or not to sleep with someone. Is not the fact these girls are…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 02:34 AM
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Well, the other dude chewed the shit out of me for not being clear. I didn't mean be upfront and honest in your communication. I meant to be honest and upfront with yourself about what you want and pursuing it.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:45 AM
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I've literally never talked to someone as tiresome and vapid as you on here before. Are you trolling me? I might not have posted here till the other day but I've been on this sub reading since it started. Do I need to say that again for you because that's the second time I've said that. You keep fucking telling me about verbal communication and I didn't say a fucking word about talking to her you dumb shit. I never once said anything about how the fucker needs to talk. I SAID FUCKING NOTHING ABO…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:43 AM
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You're incredible. You're either stupid or a troll so I'm done. Your posts are literally surrounded by other people saying the exact same thing as me. Oh god you're a fucking suit. I understand now, getting shit on in the past can make you really jaded. I didn't comment on his porn or anything else dude. Why are you even talking to me about that? I specifically commented that ignoring your wife for a week is some passive aggressive bitch shit... and it is! It doesn't matter how many names you dr…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 01:00 AM
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You shouldn't have jumped in if you didn't know what was going on. OP is Indian. OP made comment that India is turning into a feminist pardise. I called OP out on obvious bullshit. OP shot back at me smartass response. That's when legion decided to jump with white-knighting and then you showed up out of nowhere and started talking. So when, legion started to give me shit for criticizing the rape and murder of women, I thought that was a bit off, wouldn't you? Checking his post revealed all kinda…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:35 PM
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One thing you should do is stop using language like 'total depressed fat ass'. Saying things like that infects your thinking and brings it down which just crushes your confidence even more. Of course, you still need to lose the weight to really change that mentality but just don't beat yourself man. Take positive action towards losing the weight and don't waste any time thinking about the negative stuff.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 10:40 PM
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How old is your daughter? You're acting like it is impossible for you to find some place to send her. Does she not have friends in the area she can have a sleepover with or something like that? I get not wanting women coming over with your daughter there but you're giving up too easily. Find something fun and safe to send your daughter to do once a week or once every other week and then you'll have that free day for more flexibility if that's what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 10:35 PM
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Man, I actually started to write you a real response, then I realized there's nothing of substance for me to respond to. Where were you before you were here? What a stupid fucking question. I've been on reddit since it was nothing but programming articles and I've been reading /r/trp here since the fucking sub opened. Meanwhile, you're on what a throwaway account hiding that you participate here, or is it just that your account is less than a year old. So, who isn't from here? If you had checked…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:31 PM
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I don't think 'I want to murder your family' is funny. You might reasonably disagree of course.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:56 PM
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That's an interesting and valid point. I think my aversion to video cameras is more a personal thing than any reflection on your situation. I have a little bit of that paranoia myself but I tend to point mine at big brother.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:46 PM
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Gotta love the default attitude that women just assume they can make up accusations have them stick. Probably because they can. EDIT: I just noticed, did anyone else? The boyfriend was also a child pornographer. That women has good taste and intellect.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:26 PM
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Thanks for the response. I kinda figured there were trust issues from the past but we can all agree it doesn't hurt to careful.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:22 PM
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I disagree. You're either alpha or you're not. Your behavior can have shades of both and I definitely don't think alpha = 100% success, but when society looks at you, they only see one or the other.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:05 PM
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Yes, her son was 'abused' by a loud noise.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:53 PM
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I agree the frame is key. But OP didn't phrase things like you did. He said, "In fact, I have been ignoring her in the past week because of this and some things she said.". Ignoring for a week is not ending a discussion on your terms. =) I take your point though the frame is the key difference.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:45 PM
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Be careful, I got called a child and a hamster down below for suggesting that India had a rape problem and wasn't a feminist paradise as razor would like you all to believe.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:28 PM
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I get it, you all are hypersensitive to rape because of the culture in the United States, specifically the rate of false rape claims and the assumption of guilt. That's fine. If what RedPill means to you and we_are_legion is that anyone critical of rape is a hamster and a child is comical. I'm not a sad, pathetic 18 y.o. that can't get a chick to look at him to save his life. You all trying to play on insecurity that doesn't exist really doesn't bother me. That's more of an issue for you and Leg…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:17 PM
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Lol, no you are absolutely right dude. I think that was supposed to be a response to another thread... not sure how it got here... I probably just fucked it up when I was posting. I'll delete it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:54 PM
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I'm babbling. Are you sure you want to go there? It'll take 5 seconds to go back to your post history and pull out quotes of fascination with asian virgins. You specifically told someone that one of the perks in South-East, where you live is large availability of young asian virgins. Is that what /r/trp means to you? Is what all this self-improvement stuff is about? Living the 'good-life' and fucking all those young virgins. I called an Indian poster out for claiming that his country, that can't…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:09 PM
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I'm not an official 'red piller', I just enjoy the conversation but alpha and beta are the same as you might think of them in terms of pack animals in nature. The 'alpha dog' being the top male, the dominant one. The 'beta dogs' being the submissive ones. The alpha eats first, decides where the pack is going to hunt, mates with the best females etc. The beta dogs eat the leftovers, don't get to mate much if at all, and are submissive to the whims of the alpha. The people here would refer to your…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 03:09 PM
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My other response to this asshat was a lot better. He was running his mouth about how great India was and shitting on the USA so I thought I'd return the favor. You can find it in the same thread here.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:53 PM
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No, you're an idiotic meat-head. The police certainly would have cared about the video when you were dragged off to jail for assault moron. Nice troll though.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:49 PM
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You don't make any sense. If she's free to go at any time but doesn't want to, why are recording everything that happens 24/7? That sounds more to me like you just scared her into sticking around with you. Which, it is called dread game after all, so fine. But yeah, you kinda seem like a paranoid dick. I see other people talking about lovingly and respectfully guiding their relationship as the captain. And here you are spouting off like some sort of crazed militia member. Anyway, you seem to be …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:46 PM
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Just my opinion man, I'm not in your situation so I don't know. You need to apply what you know as best you can to it. If your current course is working, then I'm not gonna argue with ya. =)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:23 PM
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His OP, "Civilization has always been temporary" is a nonsense statement as written. You are correct. The sentence, as written, is clearly referring to civilization as a whole and not specific civilizations that have come and gone. It should either be, "Civilizations have always been temporary" meaning specific populations or empires like the mayans or romans have come and gone. Or, it should be, "Civilization is temporary" which, of course, would refer to civilization as a whole being temporary…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:23 PM
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/r/TwoXChromosomes is that way bro ------>
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:51 AM
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Aww man, the hits just keep on coming. Obvious troll is obvious. The white knight is strong in this one everybody. Here's a post you just made this morning, bashing on men and saying we're at fault. You're a joke. "I am not one to scream for political correctness but this isn't a gender specific issue. Agreed. Redpill has so many good points and helpful advice, but it massively makes men out to be good and women to be bad, as if sex is the only thing separating us. Loads of men treat those who a…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:48 AM
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Good troll! I quoted your own words. And you went and got a random pic off the internet as if it has anything to do with me. You did get me to respond one last time though, so I hope you enjoy that cause you obviously have some deep insecurities. Again, hating on me for speaking truth to you, just confirms your beta as fuck. Or maybe this is the day you finally stop being a shit and grow up. Why are you proud of being a beta4life? Tell us. Please, everyone is DYING to hear more about your almost…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:42 AM
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Oh, now the little beta fuck that was bragging about high school shit wants to talk about age and education. What's the matter? Are you upset that I told you truth. Do you have ANY IDEA how pathetic a an adult female has to be to want to fuck young boys? A woman can go anywhere and get laid, but she's gonna choose a 'geeky, disobedient' child to be attracted to huh? What kind of woman would want to fuck a geeky, disobedient child? The entire point of /r/trp is that women don't want weak-ass, bet…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:28 AM
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No, you just about made my point for me. When you say 'But I didn't want to hang around slutty girls even before I met my SO or had any committed relationships going at all bc I wasn't comfortable doing or being around that type of atmosphere.' What I hear is: "I didn't want any potential mates to think I'm a slut." Hence, slut-shaming. You look down on all those 'slutty' girls you're 'better' than because they are de-valuing the very thing you were tying to catch your SO with. Slut-shaming is a…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:26 AM
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Thank you for saying this. Some nutjob in this thread actually started talking about the 'mexicanization' of america.... as if we weren't all immigrants to this country. Or are we as people posting / reading at /r/trp actually going to allow this jingoistic / racist bullshit to represent us? Fine, we all have issues with societies over-reaction to feminism. That doesn't mean you all get to start hating on minorities just for the fuck of it. A mexican that wants to come here, work hard, and impro…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 10:13 AM
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You win this battle by clearly demonstrating you are more valuable than her. Talking to her will most likely do nothing as she knows the corporate structure is set up to defend her, specifically from your ability to interact with her as equal. That's the big lie about 'equality' is that it really isn't equality, it's special treatment for women. If she were a man, you could just confront him directly and resolve the situation. Confronting a female is quite likely to get you labeled as a woman-ha…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:47 AM
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Isn't that great. In absence of the need to develop actual inter-personal skills, the female reverts back to her base instincts and searches for males by shit-testing all of them in sight.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:40 AM
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There is no such thing as almost alpha. That is a really stupid thing to say. Attractive, high-value, alpha males ARE NEVER referred to as creeps. You're either a beta or an alpha. A top or a bottom. A winner or a loser. 2nd place is just the first loser. Who cares what 3rd place is? What the almost alpha? He's almost attractive. He's almost confident. He's almost desired by women. What a joke. The only thing you've witnessed is a bunch of sheep dressed up like wolves. That might work until the …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:24 AM
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Ehh, it's not important. We're arguing semantics at this point. Yes, you should expect to fail sometimes because you will. But your attitude is that you're going to fail all or most of the time. That's the difference I'm getting at. Besides, I don't agree that confident, skilled men should expect failure.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:05 AM
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Do NOT expect failure. That is weak, beta, defeatist bullshit. Expect success while realizing that failure is a possibility. Expect and Accept are two different words. Notice that I used the word accept, and you said the work expect. If you don't know the difference, go look up the definitions and reflect upon that for a little bit. EDIT: To go back to my baseball analogy. The player accepts that he will not get a hit sometimes. He does expect to not get a hit.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:00 AM
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Part of learning any new skill is to accept that you WILL fail before you master it.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:52 AM
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Didn't see your other thread, sorry. We all strike out. The best hitters in baseball get a hit maybe 3-4 times out of 10. That doesn't mean their swing is wrong (it could be though) or that they aren't skilled, it just means it's hard to hit a baseball sometimes. And when they get into a hitting slump, they don't go 'I'm such a shit player, I'll never get a hit'. Nah they go back to practice and get better. They work at improving. They go back to the batting cage and start taking extra practice.…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:45 AM
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If I went to the bathroom, and a guy was sitting next to the girl when I came out, I would have done one of two things. 1) Confront him. Go over there and stake your claim to the seat next to her. 2) Ignore her and go pursue another girl. She made it pretty clear what she thinks of you by allowing him to take your spot. And you made it clear to her what your status by not confronting him or moving on to another girl. EDIT: Also, get out of your own head. That's some feminine shit to sit there ov…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:31 AM
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I'm sure you ignorance is unintentional so let me take a second to educate you. Any Indian person you have ever met outside of India is one of the elite and wealthy. Let me know when you actually get over there and see that 80% of the population is living in the middle ages. Have you ever been there? I wouldn't suggest it unless like you the smell of shit and piss running down the street.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:22 AM
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Yeah might want to take your mouth off that republican cock for a second. The actual people in charge of congress are the corporations that have bought our country... and BOTH parties are complicit in selling us out.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:14 AM
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It's a programming thing. Dead give away for someone that writes code. The '!' is negation, so '!=' means 'does not equal' or 'is not equal to'.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:59 AM
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Everything about you screams beta. The second another guy enters the picture you immediately back down. This is a clear signal you're low-value. And then you give up your seat so your competition can sit right next to the girl you're pursuing. That was your moment to make a stand and communicate your status to her. You failed miserably. Learn from that. It's painfully obvious from your post how little self-confidence you have. "We start talking about a show and then we get back into the group co…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:51 AM
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You missed my point. It's not about womanizing. Alphas have females that want them constantly orbiting, that's just how it is. It doesn't matter how many sluts are shamed, alphas will always have females available if they want to take advantage of it. Look at the professional athlete for instance. An attractive, wealthy, high-status male will always have women that want to sleep him. There's no point in slut-shaming a woman sleeping with an alpha like that because the reality is, they all WANT t…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:25 AM
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Low-value women sleep with low-value men, is that a surprise to anyone? Slut-shaming is definitely a real thing, can't deny that. But that slut shaming is directed mainly at women from other women. I was specifically addressing your point that alpha males can be controlled by females. I simply don't think that's the case, otherwise, what are we doing here? Virtue is a feminized, beta word. What virtue does the woman fucking alphas on the side while her beta pays for the house actually have? The …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:54 AM
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The strong acknowledge they are lacking and seek to improve when they are shamed. The weak take that shaming and use it to confirm what everyone already knows about them.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:00 AM
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If a man's self-value is tied up in the opinions of females, that's a explicit confirmation of his beta status. Men do not compete with women, they compete with other men.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:54 AM
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You have this backwards. It is impossible for a woman to control a true alpha male. The true alpha male will ALWAYS have other females orbiting waiting for their chance. Woman WANT to have sex with alpha males. The control of supply is not to keep the woman from fucking an alpha, it's to control the supply of sex with beta males, to reserve her sexual currency for when she finds an alpha. Women use sex to control beta men.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:49 AM
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I think you're projecting your own wariness or fear of being labeled as the 'creep'. "Creep" is just another way of saying 'beta'. The creep is the beta male PMing every poster on reddit that he can confirm is female. The creep is the beta running around trying to trick women into sex by being their 'friends'. The 'creep' is that nice beta dude failing the hot girls shit test by holding her purse while she's off rubbing her ass on another dude. Sure, some of it can be written off as the term bei…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 03:52 AM
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Exactly. I'm sure your man enjoyed it too. =)
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 10:10 PM
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Awww man, I feel like you wrote that at me dude. My last relationship ending fucked with my head and I said all that lame shit. I did this and this and this and I was there for you and I helped with this and remember that time you felt bad and I was there for you and I always supported you... Barf man. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:11 AM
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I'm not sure how other men feel, but I once dated a girl that would hop in the shower with me and scrub my back. I loved that shit. I'm kinda tall and she knew it was tough for me to reach certain spots. There was also a really sexy, feminine quality vibe to it in that she was both helping me get clean but also making me feel good. So maybe try that, but bring a piping hot towel with you. =)
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:18 AM
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There are definitely mutual issues on both sides.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 12:34 AM
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I've tried the porn angle. She doesn't think he is. Browser history is clean but we all know how easy that is to do. It is definitely not a recent development. Perhaps it was not clear but they moved in together 3.5 years ago and have sexual issues ever since. That's the exact opposite of a recent issue. Personally, I just think the wedding getting closer brought my friend to reality and she realized she didn't want her marriage to be like her relationship is.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 09:17 PM
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I know he's had previous, sporatic, physical ED issues. I don't think the physical issues are still occurring, but I guess they could be and he's just hiding it from her by not engaging in sex.... From what she has told me though, she doesn't think the ED is the root of the issue, just a symptom.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:28 PM
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I agree, words without action are meaningless.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:26 PM
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Thanks for the response. She's reading these if you care to flesh that out a bit.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:24 PM
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Thanks man, good points. I agree on the more likely to admit a lack of sex drive than that he is gay. She's told me they've had 'the talk' multiple times at this point. He usually responds with "I don't know", "I'm sorry", and "I'll try". If he's unwilling to come clean and talk about it, I don't think she can force him. They do have a doctor visit scheduled for him (just a physical...) and I know she is willing to go to counseling if he shows some initiative and set it up. Perhaps he'd be more …
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:21 PM
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I find it ironic (and a bit funny) you said "LOVED" her boobs. My friend's best feature physically would probably be her chest. Not sure if her fiance has the same love for them your sister's did. I will ask.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 08:15 PM
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I cross-posted the OP to /r/dbr, /r/asktrp, and others.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 08:08 PM
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From what I know, there have been both physical and anxiety based performance issues in the past. I think, from what she's told me, that his equipment is functioning these days. She's told me she does not think the ED issues are the root cause but just a symptom.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 08:07 PM
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I think this is a great point that I have brought up with her. Even if, in the lead up to the wedding, he changes his behavior, isn't previous lack of quantifiable action a good indicator of his future behavior? So, he shows some interest for a few months before the wedding, marries her, and then she's stuck right back in a dbr.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 07:53 PM
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Well, for her.... gay and asexual mean the same thing. She gotta move on. Neither of those possibilities is really something he can 'fix'.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 07:47 PM
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Thanks for the follow up gg_s. I totally agree.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 07:41 PM
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Yeah I cross-posted this OP to /r/rpw as well. I've gotten some great responses from them. I'll point my friend in that direction, thanks.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 07:36 PM
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From what I know, she is ready, willing, and able. I've suggested the suck him-off and jump idea but one of the issues is that she wants HIM to be a man and do some hunting.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 07:25 PM
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Thanks for the response. Clever name too HD. =)
/r/askTRP05/06/14 07:23 PM
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More like operating on yourself while being too scared to look. =) Thanks again for the different perspective and discussion. If you have anything else to add, please do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 07:15 AM
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I got ya. From what I know, he has agreed to have a physical done in the near future. If there are any issues hopefully they'll be found as medical issues seem an easier fix than some of the other possibilities.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 06:58 AM
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I knew what you meant. =) I assume she knew mommy was meant in that context as well but I can't be sure. Sorry for not being clear. I'll ask and she what see says about that area specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 06:38 AM
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I will specifically refer her to your post in the morning and ask for a response. I think you make some good points and I don't know enough of their situation to give you accurate, specific answers to those points you raised.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 06:33 AM
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My two most likely theories right now are: emotional / sexual issues stemming from late age of first sexual experience bros at the gym So we're on the same page here.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 06:31 AM
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Well, technically, I'm actually a man more familiar with reddit doing a chick friend of mine a solid. So, she wrote the substance of the post, but technically, it was posted by a man if that makes a difference to you. =) Since the situation involves a man as well as a woman, would you care to ignore her behavior and comment on his specifically? I'd be interested in at least hearing your thoughts on that side.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 06:29 AM
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Interesting. I must say this is an angle that I had not considered at all. Thank you! We discussed it briefly and added this to list of possible explanations. My friend seemed a bit put off at the idea of 'mommying' her fiance.... which I can understand.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 06:23 AM
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This is exactly what I told her. No man breathing without medical issues would go that long without rubbing one out right? She dismissed it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 04:38 AM
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I cross-posted this to /r/deadbedrooms ( as well as /r/sex, /r/relationships, /r/asktrp, etc ,etc) and for some reason I have gotten the least amount of responses from them. Not sure if it's just a numbers issue compared to the other subreddits, but I've even gotten more responses to this post here at /r/rpw. Thanks for your post, I'll make sure to pass it along to her. It's not something I've personally dealt with so it's hard for me to know what advice to give. I'm hoping the wide variety of r…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 03:55 AM
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Amen. I agree and told her as much. Thanks again for your response. A little dose of reality will be good I think.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:24 AM
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Hey. To clear up a few things: I cross-posted this to /r/sex, /r/relationships, /r/redpillwomen, /r/asktrp etc etc. I honestly wanted to get her as wide a variety of opinions as possible. She's mad at your first post. I told her it wasn't my job to defend her and she could do so herself if she wanted. =) Specifically, about your calling her low-value. I don't think she is low-value personally, but more that she thinks she is. But you are right, I am not 100% impartial as she is a friend which is…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:00 AM
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Hey Meta: In regards to, "So, continue losing weight and becoming as physically attractive as you can and learn some girl game.". My friend asked me, "What does that one guy mean when he says learn the girl game?". I don't want to put words in your mouth, so would you mind responding to her question? A link I can direct her to would work just fine. Thanks.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:42 AM
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I suggested that she be more aggressive and initiate. However, and I think justifiably, she feels like she already has to initiate most of the time. That makes her feel as though he's not attracted and doesn't want to have sex with her... which might be the case. Simply put, she wants him to be a man and be aggressive and come on to her. Not all the time but my understanding is that basically if she doesn't come on to him they aren't having sex for months on end. I don't think there's anything w…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:28 AM
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Don't worry about going there, I already have. Closeted gay man is high on my list of possible explanations. I hope she takes it seriously, maybe the topic will come up if they make it to therapy. However, I'm fairly certain she will not come out and ask him if he is and I doubt he would admit it if he were.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:08 AM
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Thanks for the response. Glad things are going well for you, hopefully your words will be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 01:38 AM
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I think I get what you're saying, her giving him the freedom and acceptance to 'spread his man legs' so to speak? I'll pass your words, thanks again for taking the time to respond.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 01:28 AM
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Thanks for the blunt response. I think it is what's needed here. I've said pretty much what you listed to her but those are all tough things to think / accept. EDIT: I'm pretty sure she is his first and only serious relationship. He was a virgin when they met. Princess syndrome imo way up on that pedestal.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 01:26 AM
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She has told me he works out, I'm not sure how regularly. I'd say they are both slightly overweight, not fat or obese but I honestly don't have exact measurements here. As far as I know, no limiting religious beliefs. He was a virgin when they met which is honestly what I think the issue stems from (princess syndrome) and he would have been about ~26. So, not the latest but still that's pretty late in life for a male to lose his virginity. I don't think she is a nag. I've told her that talking t…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 01:25 AM
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Oh man, you called me out now. She's reading these. She is slightly (maybe a bit more than slightly) overweight. Not ugly and definitely not unattractive. 5-7 depending on how strictly you judge. Her lack of self-esteem / confidence is definitely an issue. I have no doubt she would have already left the guy if not for personal reasons of her own that I won't go into. Not my place. She is reading these threads and can respond if she wants.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 01:11 AM
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Setting aside that you and I both agree it's his ultimate responsibility... What would the environment 'where he can feel comfortable exploring being more alpha' look like? Do you have a resource I can point her to. I'm not studied on trp, I'm just an amateur here trying to help out a friend. =)
/r/askTRP05/06/14 12:41 AM
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Yes, she and I have discussed that possibility. I don't want to reveal any details that might be identifying but let's just say he cried when she brought up the sex / intimacy issue the first time. I think he is at best, emotionally fragile. She's afraid to even bring up certain subjects or discuss things in certain ways because of his fragility. I'm just lost really, I don't know how to tell a guy to be more of a guy. I don't think she is willing to ask the 'are you gay' question, and if the gu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 12:37 AM
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Yeah, that's why I find this situation so hard to give advice on, I'm not a female. In my mind, the issue is with the male here. Is it possible for a female to prod her beta man into more alpha behaviors or is that a self-defeating concept? I guess the conclusion then is if he doesn't wish to improve, he's a beta and happy with that?
/r/askTRP05/06/14 12:07 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I think it will be helpful.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 11:48 PM
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For sure, she definitely wants some more 'man' from him. Thanks for the suggestions and response.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 11:36 PM
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