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We get along as friends. The relationship fell apart mainly because of me not handling situations properly (drunken captain to the core), causing boundaries to be crossed. Finances are an issue as I can afford to move out. But she can’t. So there are timeframes set. The car is to be turned over by summertime. Given enough time to adjust then the apartment will be turned over. With all honesty, she isn’t going to make it, finding her own and moving out. My kids would suffer more than anyone else.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 06:32 PM
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Dude I’m dealing with the same ILYBNILWY. You’re in a better spot than me to walk as, you have no kids involved. So you loose nothing by leaving. Trust me when I say, there is no turning this around. Sticking around will only make you worst. Forget about her, move on and find someone else.
/r/askMRP23/03/22 05:16 PM
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If her apt application doesn’t come thru by the end of the year when the lease for the current apt is up. I’m signing it over to her and moving to my brother’s house.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 10:32 AM
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OYS 7 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, Recently ended LTR of 15 yrs, still living together for now: 2 kids together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, MMSLP, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, Horns OYS posts, Day Bang, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:23 AM
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OYS 6 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, MMSLP, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, Horns OYS posts, Day Bang, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 11:24 AM
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I don’t get how I didn’t own that it was my decision to let her stay. But yes, you are correct, as I have my own shit to work on & fix.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 11:53 PM
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Ok I see. So my frame of mind should be and always be that of #1. Where as #2 is giving her the reigns and me being in her frame
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 06:57 PM
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Yes. Until she can afford her own place or find one she can afford.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 06:25 PM
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Oh trust me. If she could leave right now she would. But she has a chunk of debt and is literally living pay check to pay check. If she even had a parent’s house to go back to, I would have sent her off on her way. But that isn’t the case. I put her out, it’s either the streets or a shelter. Never mind her, why would I do that to my kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:39 PM
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She does. But I don’t get your point of the question?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 02:00 PM
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Her finances
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 11:55 AM
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OYS 5 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, MMSLP, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, Horns OYS posts, Day Bang, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 08:20 PM
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Tell me about it! I have the same issue. Had the baby run in on us the other day. I could swear I had locked the door
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 12:13 AM
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Maybe you guys misread, but the puppy is dead.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 10:41 PM
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You damn right. I should take notes as she is better at handling shit tests than me. Smh
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 10:40 PM
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I sense your sarcasm in all of your replies. Maybe i should have put in there that I know her words are just BS, as in there is truly a hidden motive. She wants me to end the relationship because she is already talking to someone else
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 10:37 PM
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Nah I get what your saying. I do know that she is talking to someone else and I know her lil fake main event is only a cover up. That’s why the relationship is done, I don’t care anymore. She cooks, cleans for me and takes care of the kids. If I put her out, the kids go with her as well. She isn’t financially stable to get her own place. Right now I work too much to say I’ll have consistent weekend custody, so that’s why I’ll let her stay for now. if she gets her own place later down the road, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 10:33 PM
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Well I guess you can have 50 cents for this one, because the relationship is over. I’m just not kicking her out of the apt.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 06:36 PM
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Nah not married. Just stick around cuz I don’t want to leave the kids
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 02:38 PM
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u/threekindsoflucky u/impatientzen Indeed. Don’t worry, I totally get it. It’s over, I don’t need you guys to tell me (but do appreciate the feedback), there’s someone else, the writing is all over the wall. I’m just keeping a journal here, taking notes and learning so I can move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 02:37 PM
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OYS 4 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, MMSLP, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, Horns OYS posts, Day Bang, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 09:44 AM
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Why are you worried about this if it’s only temporary? How long have you been in the LTR?
/r/askMRP25/02/22 05:31 PM
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u/da_snowleopard In that case, what exactly is a strong man. How does a strong man act, personality wise? This is subjective to the reality you live in. Generally a strong man would be someone who has strength mentally & physically correct? If someone can talk shit to you and ruffle your feathers, getting you upset easily & out of character, evoking a reaction, then you are weak mentally. To me this also what frame is. If you have a fragile body with no muscles, can’t lift anything heavy, then y…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 06:10 PM
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No i didnt get anything. She said she would have gotten something that friday when she got paid, but i wasn’t holding my breathe on it. And good thing i didnt lol. I also didn’t get anything for christmas. Normally she’s the one into gifting on little occasions like vday but we’ve been sticking to a strict financial budget in order to reach certain financial goals. No body owes you anything. If your giving more than what you get, then thats your fault. Nuke that nice guy mindset. Look into the b…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 12:17 AM
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I love the role plays! I’ve done a few already, dirty talking to her as a dirty slut/whore, throwing on a MFF porn and talking about how I’m the actor getting blown by 2 girls, even did the blind fold where I left her in the room, sprayed a diff perfume in a shirt, rentered and thru the shirt on the bed next to her and then put a suction cup dildo on the wall, made her grab it as if it was someone else that came in the room. Then I’ll act like I caught her giving a hand job and cave maned her fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 10:26 PM
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I forgot it’s retard Tuesday. I don’t see no correlation to your MIL attractiveness being an exception to anything you mentioned. Once again you’re focusing on shit you have no control over. Go read the sidebar, maybe you’ll learn a thing or 2
/r/askMRP22/02/22 08:43 PM
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Dude, men take action & control of their own life. Not moan & groan, crying about things they have no control over. I can relate to you as me & my MIL never started off on a good note. Not to mention her new BF & I are like oil & water. It was only in the past year that me & her actually started building a relationship (mind you I been with her daughter for the past 15 yrs) & then I went and fucked it all up. Actually I didn’t fuck it up completely but it’s back to that point that where I just s…
/r/askMRP22/02/22 07:55 PM
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Get ready for the sore nuts lol. I got my vasectomy a year ago, it wasn’t as bad as I was thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 07:32 PM
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Only thing beta about buying a card & flowers then having your sons give it to her would be if you was expecting something in return out of it, aka covert contract. Other than that, I would say good shit on being a good dad, taking the lead in showing your boys how to add romance to a relationship. I did the same for v-day as well. I normally never get my LTR anything but this year, my oldest had a bunch of chocolate that was given out at school. So I had him pick out one of those stuffed teddie…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 07:29 PM
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It def was a win for her because she was trying to piss me off all day and it wasn’t working. So she pulled the last card that she knew would get me. That’s why I wouldn’t kiss her when she asked for it, then I would be double rewarding shitty behavior. This kind of test doesn’t come from her often but isn’t the first time she has done it. Last time she was being rude about my father coming over to visit the kids. I reacted just how you said, subtly and calmly put her in her place. After she ask…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 06:25 PM
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I assumed she already ate considering she been out all day and the kids were fed. I texted her around 10pm while I was at work asking what was for dinner. At the end of the day she is a grown adult who could have said bring her something to eat, if I’m buying food. But she didn’t so I only bought food for myself. Considering I didn’t get home til after 1 am, I also thought she would be asleep when I got home. So no not any war gaming.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 04:12 PM
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What app are you using?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 12:34 PM
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OYS 3 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, MMSLP, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, Horns OYS posts, Day Bang, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 12:16 PM
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If you 2 don’t have any kids together, then what is holding you back from leaving? If she isn’t bringing any value to your table, then what is the point of keeping her around? I know most people come to askMRP looking for shortcut answers, and we can give you all the advice we can, but the truth is, you need to do the proper reading to understand why you should make xyz decisions and how to handle them as well as the aftermath. I recommend, the book “when I say no, I feel guilty” “the book of po…
/r/askMRP19/02/22 02:18 PM
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Ok I’ll put him away for now lol
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 10:22 PM
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Who are you and where did you come from? That sure as hell was alot of writing just to pat yourself on the back. Never mind that your account is still pretty new. But the real question is, have you really read and internalized all that you say you have?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 12:52 AM
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Im glad you caught onto that. She placed you into her frame as her cross dressing bitch and you walked right into it. You said you want to practice being more dominant. A dominant man takes action. So it would be dominant to tell your wife “here is your outfit for the evening, put it on, im going to shower real quick.” She shit tests you, respond would be to STFU “ok” Still go take your shower, goto the gym or watever else non butt hurt activity you would go ahead and done
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/22 03:11 AM
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Retard tuesdays?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/22 12:04 AM
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You were thrown a shit test. I guess you tried to AA but should have just STFU. Did she ever wear it? There’s a saying round here. Be attractive, not unattractive. Your response, do you think that was attractive or unattractive?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:32 PM
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Clarify something for me, you’re wife asks you, how would “your” legs look in the lingerie, and you reply by stating “your” legs will look good. And she agreed? What was the point of your response?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 10:49 PM
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You are 100% correct. In the past i was a male whore. she knows it, she’s seen pictures and heard stories. I fell into the trap of her betatizing me, eliminating all the groupies and making her the center of my life. Which is why i said that i need to get out of falling into that trap of entering her frame. If i actually put the effort into it, go out and game, i can score. But as of lately, i haven’t had much of a social life. Right now my LTR is way too comfortable, thats why i said i need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 06:09 PM
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Well technically it wasn’t any overt flirting on my part. There was a live DJ playing music so it was a bit difficult to hear. I was ordering my apps and the waiter couldn’t hear me well, so she put her hand on my shoulder and leaned in, i joked sarcastically that she was too close and have to maintain 6 ft distance as per covid regulations, we both laughed and after she was leaving the waiter gave me a look with a smirk and i smirked and looked her in the eyes, i guess the tension hit her cuz s…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 02:37 PM
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OYS 2 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, Book of Pook, few different body language books, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, started with TRP & learned about MR…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 12:38 PM
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Dude you seriously need to read the book “a practical guide to female psychology” It’s basic biology that women get pissy & bitchy at a point in their cycle. It is also a fact that women will stir up drama on purpose. Considering this is always taking place right before ovulation, it sounds like your woman needs a dominant man who will give her a proper dick down when she does this shit, and you’re not fulfilling those needs. Instead you’re syncing your ovulation cycle with hers. Get rid of your…
/r/askMRP12/02/22 03:45 PM
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Exactly why it is best to tell the full story and not leave any details out. Your initial post made it seem as if your wife was doing you a favor. Now you clarify it as she was not fulfilling her commitment as agreed. In this case, i take back my original comment. But still doesn’t change the fact that you are in her frame.
/r/askMRP12/02/22 03:41 PM
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Have you done any reading at all?
/r/askMRP11/02/22 10:47 PM
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I’m wondering why his wife is suggesting to clean his desk in the first place. u/jobj17 is a sloppy fuck and his wife was offering to help clean his mess. Part of OYS is making sure you keep your workspace clean yourself. I agree with u/red-sfpplus. You could had used that opportunity to do some escalation. If that was my wife, I would have told her to make sure she put something sexy on. Fuck the rest of the dudes, they can drool over how lucky I am to have a hot ass wife cleaning my desk and w…
/r/askMRP11/02/22 09:40 PM
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Indeed. Already read that book, maybe a refresher is necessary to internalize more concepts like fogging, as there were moments when some shitty comfort tests were thrown at me and I could have handled them better through STFU and advanced fogging. At the current stage it really is about me maintaining frame, STFU and handling the shit tests properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 03:45 PM
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Not exactly that but close to that extent. I’ll msg you separately as it’s not something I want to talk about publicly
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 03:28 PM
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OYS 1 36 5’ 10” 185 lbs 18% BF, LTR for 15 yrs, living together the past 9. 2 sons together 8 & 2. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, SGM, Practicle Guide to Female Psychology, RStone youtube, sidebar Mission: to live a successful & happy life where I am providing good leadership & being the right example at home in regards to raising my sons to become strong independent men. Why am I here: I’ve been a lurker for many years, started with TRP & learned about MRP. have done tons of reading, started to internal…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 12:32 PM
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she has a lot of control over your emotions. Sounds like you’re in her frame
/r/askMRP03/02/22 12:03 PM
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You’re not paying attention to what i really said here. I never said fuck her, i said spank her. Assert your dominance by punishing her for crossing a boundary. Be a man with a spine, because right now she is walking all over you. If there is no punishment, then there is no reason to respect a boundary. Removing affection & attention is one way to deal with it, but it isn’t going to work in every situation, so you deal with the situation how you choose & see fit. STFU doesn’t mean you pout and g…
/r/askMRP30/01/22 08:58 PM
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why are you here if you aren't going to read & internalize any of the info that is provided by the community? you have already been called out for posting from multiple accounts and seeking a short cut to answers. THERE IS NO SHORTCUT, MRP can be a very long road for some if they don't put in the required work, and it seems you are one of those. you did STFU but then got butthurt because you didn't get your way. then after your wife throws in the white flag of submission you deny her of your mas…
/r/askMRP30/01/22 06:50 PM
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Sounds like your hamster is spinning more than hers. You need a stronger frame
/r/askMRP24/01/22 04:24 PM
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I sense a lot of BS & hamstering in this post.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 10:07 PM
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When it comes to game, i like to take it back to basics of the PUA days and break it down, calibrate & polarize accordingly. We have, day game, night game, social circle game, etc. Social circle game being the easiest as you have many advantages are ready in the air such as rapport, value, status, it’s just a matter of building the attraction & sealing the deal. Night game i would say is the second to easiest as women are more receptive to men approaching them and gaming. It could be as simple a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/21 06:09 PM
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