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This was my x. She thought she had me wrapped around her finger when in reality I was gradually losing interest due to the frustration she was putting me through. Eventually I grew tired of waiting for her to stop being so controlling and I left her. She was so surprised and cried.
/r/seduction02/12/15 05:03 PM
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on the front page right now is a quote almost identical to my last comment FYI lmao
/r/seduction01/12/15 01:21 AM
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No insight. This is a particularly stupid one. Move on. If you wish, you can tell her that she is rude, inconsiderate, and tell her how she made you feel. You can tell her that you hope some day she grows up. Whatever you feel like telling her. Don't insult her with vulgar language, but you have every right to speak to her sternly. If it were me I would probably send her an analogy with a hint of sarcasm along with a good, firm, closure.
/r/seduction01/12/15 12:31 AM
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Yeah she's stupid.
/r/seduction30/11/15 10:59 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/seduction30/11/15 07:39 PM
3

If you got blocked it's over dude. You have to control your emotions. Sometimes all she wants is a one night stand.
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:44 PM
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"I get a crush very easily" Rejection won't hurt if you aren't emotionally invested. Stop allowing yourself to "crush" on girls. Rejection should only sting for a moment. Remember, if someone cannot see your worth it does not effect your value.
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:36 PM
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It's all about seduction.
/r/seduction24/11/15 04:48 AM
1

Keep up the good work brother.
/r/seduction24/11/15 04:42 AM
1

This is good stuff brother. I think a lot of guys here are chasing that 100% success rate. It's never going to happen. Very good analogy with poker as well. IMHO, the chase is the most exilerating part of courtship and if you already know the outcome then it takes away from the excitement.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:30 PM
2

If you guys hook up then she will get even more jealous when you bring other girls over. She may even sabotage.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:13 PM
1

Yes this is a good idea. You can also ask the gentleman about the status on the female. Ask him if she's single or something.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:01 PM
9

If you guys have hung out so often and you haven't gotten a kiss yet you should just stop talking to her for a while and try to focus on something else.
/r/seduction18/11/15 05:58 PM
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Doesn't hurt to try. No I haven't tried these. If I found myself in op's circumstance this is how I would respond.
/r/seduction18/11/15 02:00 PM
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Trust me that's not how she's thinking. She's probably thinking, "wow why didn't he talk to me? Do I have a zit or something? Am I fat?" She's already dismissed the entire event, but she may recall it when you guys meet again. You can say something like, "I wanted to sit next to you last time but by the time I realized there was an attractive girl on my bus I had already walked past the seat." anyway just figure out something clever to say. if you can't figure anything out, just say "Hey!" and n…
/r/seduction18/11/15 01:24 AM
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"I didn't see any other girls in here."
/r/seduction18/11/15 01:19 AM
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another one, "Hey let's hang out Tuesday or Wednesday next week!" her: "OOh I'm actually walking my dog both those days." you: "Alright lemme see your planner then I'll find a place to pencil myself in."
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:48 AM
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Get out of the small town.
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:29 AM
3

Break it off with her.
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:27 AM
3

9 years is a long time to be together. Who broke it off with who?
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:25 AM
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Just go walk up to them and say the first thing that comes to your mind. You will probably get rejected. That's good. If you think of every rejection as a step in the right direction it shouldn't bother you. If you are worried about your reputation on campus then go across town to another university and practice there until you are semi-sure you won't fuck it up.
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:19 AM
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If you have the will power you can try this: Cut yourself off from booze and fapping for 21 days. Your natural sex drive should give you the courage to approach women. When your body realizes it's not getting any more booze anytime soon great things can happen. I've cut myself off from booze a few times in the past and currently I'm on day 2 of 21 of no booze. Not because I'm scared to approach women sober, but because I've been abusing alcohol lately instead of doing HW, going to the gym, clean…
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:16 AM
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"Hey we don't ever get a chance to talk. Why don't we meet up after school today?"
/r/seduction18/11/15 12:03 AM
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"It's too bad your schedule is so booked that we'll never find ourselves together outside this godforsaken shit show of a work place." PS)do you have her #
/r/seduction17/11/15 11:58 PM
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You should smile big next time and go talk to her/sit next to her. Ask her what her favorite class is (hopefully she doesn't start talking about her uber hot male teacher). Ask if she's oldest/youngest of siblings. Things like that.
/r/seduction17/11/15 11:53 PM
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Try to remember something you guys enjoyed talking about when in person and reference that. If you're really good you can make it sound dirty without coming on to her.
/r/seduction17/11/15 11:46 PM
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I'm not trying to get anywhere here. I'm trying to toughen this little guy up. Because he's obviously been hiding behind a computer screen way too often if he's intimidated by a facebook request. He needs to know what it looks like to others when he tells them that he is intimidated by a facebook request. Otherwise he will never know the gravity of the situation.
/r/seduction17/11/15 09:31 PM
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Sometimes we need a little tough love. I've been very grateful in the past for people who have spoken to me with a very similar tone. Please downvote me.
/r/seduction17/11/15 09:27 PM
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He needs to grow some balls. If he's intimidated by a fb friend request there's some issues. I was a chode at one time. I've come a long way.
/r/seduction17/11/15 05:20 PM
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I was actually feeling sarcastic as I typed that because op is such a chode. That's probably why I said omg lol.
/r/seduction17/11/15 04:47 PM
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"Omg Hey ______, it was so cool running into you the other day. We should catch up!" Send that as a fb msg. It's not creepy. Then if she says yes you can say, "Perfect, what's your phone number?" Edit: fixed quotation marks and took out omg. Thanks /u/trigg
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:14 PM
1

You can do it yourself. Procure those honeys
/r/seduction17/11/15 02:12 PM
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I just got out of a relationship too. I feel like I got sloppy with my outer game during the course of the relationship. I feel ya bro, getting things back on track.
/r/seduction16/11/15 05:20 PM
1

bro. you're either a closet homosexual or severely insecure. You've got some deep seeded issues and you need to stop lying about things. Start being 100% honest.
/r/seduction15/11/15 05:22 PM
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yup
/r/seduction15/11/15 05:20 PM
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In those situations 9 times out of 10 they are out to flirt and that's it. They don't want someone new in their life to talk to / text / date. They want to be promiscuous for one night. Instead of getting their number at the end of the night you could ask them back to your place to "meet your dog" or some other excuse like that.
/r/seduction15/11/15 05:15 PM
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My friend, there seems to be something bothering you. I don't think you should give up on pickup.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3ri2h9/today_i_hit_rock_bottom_seduction_will_not_save/
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:35 AM
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You don't need to practice at the bar. You can practice at work, school, even at home with your own family. Seduction doesn't need to lead to sex. You can become better friends with someone using the same techniques. I hate to be cliche but I'm just going to say it. "All I hear are excuses." You do have time and you should always be developing yourself. I'm not saying to put down the books, but I am saying that you should "take it with a grain of salt." Look at organized religion. They take ever…
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:19 AM
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way to go dude! Small victories lead to larger ones.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:11 AM
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I flew solo last night. Got to second base on the dance floor with a girl but in the end she decided not to come home with me after her "friend" took her to the bathroom at last call. Anyway, I have gone out solo a few dozen times throughout my life and I usually have a blast. Tonight I'm going out with my buddy who I haven't hung out with in 10 years lol! Good luck, I'm excited to hear about your night.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:02 AM
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Digress.
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:36 AM
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First please clarify because there are two very different answers depending on the case. Case 1: You are average height male approaching unusually tall female Case 2: You are below average height male approaching average height female whom is taller than you
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:30 AM
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Sorry I'm not familiar with that material. IMHO, the best way to learn is field experience. I read magic bullets and skipped like 2 chapters. I watched some youtube videos on simple pickup's channel and learned a few things. The vast majority of what I learned came from field experience and one thing that I learned about the books and the material taught by someone else is that it must be "taken with a grain of salt." Remember, the guys that come up with this material started somewhere. They are…
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:26 AM
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I just ended a two year relationship. I did six years in the Navy and though I lost my v when I was much younger, I had very little sex and I often feel that I missed out on everything too. Now I'm 27 and I'm in college with these 18 yr old kids and frankly have had little to no success talking to girls that age. There is a huge age gap. I'm sure there are a few girls willing to venture out to date an older guy but right now I'm not focused on finding a girl that age. You are 28. You need to acc…
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:19 AM
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I usually stick to bars / coffee shops. I've actually never used Tinder.
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:12 AM
1

Try taking dancing lessons. Swing dancing and salsa are really fun. It's exercise. It's fun. It will literally place girls in your arms. It will teach you how to touch a woman. It will force you to become more comfortable around them. Plus there's usually way more girls than guys at these things.
/r/seduction15/11/15 02:04 AM
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Yup this guy's right. If she's not blowing you off then you can try, "hey are you free Mon,Tues, or Thurs, next week? I'd like to take you out to dinner." or something like that. If she replies ambiguously Do Not accept that answer. Probe further. Example: You: Mon Tues Thurs? Her: Monday and Tuesday I'm busy. Thursday might work. You: what do you mean " might" work? Do you have pending plans? Her: haha not really. I'll get back to you You: okay can you let me know tomorrow? Her: Sure! Tomorrow …
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:57 AM
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If by shallow you mean not getting with a girl because she has a big nose or you're annoyed at something trivial like how she uses her bra as a cell phone holster (deal breaker for me) then Yes, it's fine to be shallow. Never settle. But it's usually wrong to be rude. You can be shallow, but don't offend her. Please let her maintain her dignity. Women can be very vulnerable creatures when it comes to rejection and/or insecurities. edit: just realized that you linked an article and that you weren…
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:41 AM
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"...you of something to lose." I'm pretty sure that's a typo. Nonetheless very inspirational.
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:34 AM
1

A friend of mine idolizes rj. He says it works. Try not to think of it as a "trick" that you might "get caught" performing. It's so much more than that. It's an inward and outward journey and it should be enjoyable for both parties. If you feel that you are going to get "caught" then you're probably not being honest with yourself or with her.
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:30 AM
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I'm confused AF bro. I think you need to figure out what you want then ask for advice on how to get there. Be honest with her, ask her out. Honestly it's usually not worth starting a relationship if you know it will be long distance. If I were in your shoes I would tell her that you are seriously considering moving very soon and that you're not interested in anything long-term but that you enjoy your chats with her and you'd like to take her out to get to know her better.
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:25 AM
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Chode alert
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:21 AM
2

Yes, also if girls see that you're able to make friends with random guys you don't know then they can gather that you're a sociable person and could potentially become more attracted to you.
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:20 AM
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Have you made it to first base?
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:11 AM
1

Yes, just because OP had successful social interactions and gained strong interest in women at the bar/party doesn't mean he's mastered the art. That's literally just the first step and IMHO one of the easier ones.
/r/seduction15/11/15 01:10 AM
1

This. Girls generally love taking about themselves
/r/seduction15/11/15 12:43 AM
1

Well said, just last night a girl and I were at third base and she went to go search her apartment for a condom. When she came back with one we talked and both of us were super horny and made out some more but decided we weren't going to have sex that night. I'm happy with the turnout and we'll make it happen next time
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:23 AM
1

That's good to hear! Great job. I struggle with my smile too. It takes courage to broadcast your obvious imperfections and girls respect that.
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:19 AM
1

I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:16 AM
1

If she's not responding I hate to say it.... But that ship has probably sailed. You can try waiting a week then texting her, "young lady, all this silence is going to drive me into the arms of another woman," but if she hasn't gotten back to you she may have lost interest. You're shot was probably that first night. Maybe she was looking to hook up and you missed it. Maybe she hooked up with someone else. Good news brother: there's plenty more out there and this is an experience you can learn fro…
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:14 AM
1

It sounds like you're on the right path if relationship is what you're going for. Here are some tips: Girls have multiple sides to them. There's the party girl (who you hooked up with), sports girl, sister, daughter, student, employee, angry bitch, passionate lover. (Not all inclusive or exclusive) If you want to maintain interest I would suggest hanging out again in a completely different scenario so that you can show her another side of you, and, more importantly, so you can discover a new sid…
/r/seduction14/11/15 12:07 AM
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That's cool man. I'm glad that worked for you. Be wary of this scenario. I'm sure it works sometimes but my x used to complain when people try to talk to her as she runs. It's hard for her to control her breathing
/r/seduction13/11/15 11:59 PM
3

Yes, power through, but don't show any reaction to her breaking eye contact. There are a number of things you can do to get it back. You can change the subject. Ask her a question. I have a few questions I save for times like these that I can pull out of my pocket at any given moment. If you are having trouble of thinking about something interesting to ask first ask yourself: what is something that I am looking for in a woman that is not obvious? Ex] Do you cook? Do you like long walks on the be…
/r/seduction13/11/15 11:52 PM
1

Omg yes.
/r/seduction13/11/15 11:44 PM
2

Exactly. In hind sight they may appear trivial because you can't quantify a change in your mindset. OP: The fact that you realized that you were holding yourself back and conquered that fear is a feat in and of itself. Although there is always a new lesson to be learned, taking any of those lessons for granted can lead to forgetting / slipping up in the future.
/r/seduction13/11/15 11:40 PM
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