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sculptedmermaid/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 03:54 AM
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I think she makes the men feel sexy and can keep up with them mentally and intellectually. That’s something a younger woman can’t offer.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/25 06:06 PM
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I would be at the very least very cautious and worried.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 12:23 AM
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I think it’s really jumping the gun to call this a relationship after three dates and get involved in his fathers funeral arrangements. Inappropriate at best.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 01:53 AM
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Exactly my point. It’s a really bad idea to make the assumption she’s in a relationship with him and just waiting for him to come back. That’s not what he is doing. It’s sort of delusional but it’s women’s nature to do this. I’m just giving red pill advice here!
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 01:51 AM
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You’re not in a relationship with him. You’re not waiting for him. You should date other people.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 06:22 PM
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As long as he keeps paying your bills and being in your life you’ll have no space for another man. Believe him when he tells you he’s not ready for a relationship and you’re not going to get what you want from him. You can keep on being FWB, playing house with him and pretending you don’t want a commitment but you do and you’ll frustrate yourself and him trying to force him into something he can’t do right now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 06:51 PM
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There can only be one king in the castle. He’s not looking for another king he’s looking for his queen. I think you are underselling what you have to offer as a woman. It sounds like both of you feel like you won the lottery by meeting each other.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 03:37 PM
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It’s not a lot of money depending on where you live and your lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 09:46 AM
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You might be right.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 12:15 AM
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I think you may have a responsibility to let him know that before you’ve reached the cliff and divorce him. Edit also I think your feelings here are totally valid and understandable I don’t know why everyone is giving you a hard time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:46 PM
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Different men are motivated by different things. To me it sounds like he hasn’t changed who he always was but that you sacrificed a whole lot more than you wanted to. Hence the resentment. The reckoning may be between you and yourself. Does it feel like you’re still sacrificing too much? Do you want to?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:27 PM
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I have a coworker who was in your shoes. His partners ex wife was deeply unwell and took her own life. She married him and they had more children and they genuinely look like a happy family. Life can be tragic and unpredictable sometimes. He already hasn’t been in contact with her so while it’s shocking I think he has done a lot of the grieving already. Don’t treat him like he’s going to fall apart as horrible and shocking as it feels he probably saw this coming in some way.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 05:36 PM
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You have to wonder if your mom is bringing out that behavior in your dad. Constant criticism is abusive as you experienced and it is emasculating and will bring out the worst in a man. Here he went and tried his best and she tore him down. It’s honestly heartbreaking. Imagine the kind of man he’d be if she gave me that respect, admiration and appreciation. Women do this all the time and then complain about men’s behavior toward them when they’re the ones causing it. Being in his shoes why would …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/21 02:59 AM
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Kids complicate everything. If he's divorced with no kids it's fine IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 08:54 PM
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There is more to consider than you can imagine. You have to schedule a weekend getaway around his custody. His ex wife is always in the picture and has power to threaten to take the kids away or make his life very hard (some ex wives are amicable just want you to consider the worst case scenario). When you marry a man usually his finances belong to you but that is not the case. His kids may inherit him and not you. I know a woman who was widowed and the man left the house she lived in with him t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 04:12 AM
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No because you’ll never be number one and you’ll always be financially indebted to someone else. You can’t move if you want to, all decisions you make have to consider his previous life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 02:27 AM
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Along with other great advice here I would really stop checking all her social media and talking about her. She is trying to stay relevant and you're giving her attention. Visualize her getting smaller and disappearing rather than building her up and how glamorous she is in your mind. Give this man your trust unless he shows you otherwise and it's a good feeling to feel your partner trusts you. Keep being yourself because he obviously chose you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 12:10 AM
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If a group of people are a monolith you can objectify and manipulate them
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 03:46 PM
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What’s interesting to me is your assumption that you can and should change him. He’s been himself from day one: wanting threesomes, thirsty for other women. I understand your heart got involved when your body got involved (that’s how it works for women) but your head seems to remain uninvolved. Use your head dear. There’s no reason to make this man wrong. He’s been himself from day one you’re the one who needs to understand that he’s not going to change. I don’t believe it’s even fair to expect …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/21 01:19 PM
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Is there a woman in your life that can help you with this stuff while making you feel good about yourself? A friend, family member or maybe even paying a stylist. It sounds like when he’s the one giving fashion advise you feel like you are failing as a woman. I don’t think it’s healthy for you or the relationship to do something that hurts.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 04:34 PM
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Women are not a monolith. Neither are men.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 03:52 AM
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I think what you’re scared of currently is your own relationship anxiety and you’re trying to guard against getting hurt. Both of you played games and played it cool in the courtship /friendship period. I suggest stop playing games by withholding band hoping for a reaction. It’s been two weeks you don’t actually know yet what she’s like in a relationship. She may have pulled away to get some space to clear her head rather than talk daily which is perfectly fine. The worst thing you can do is cro…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 05:29 PM
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The most important part is to have good skin. Apply a light moisturizer, and a tinted moisturizer with sunscreen. Over that add a drop of concealer wherever you need it and really blend it in dabbing it on. Apply a light blush with a blush brush to the apples of your cheeks. Pay someone to do a lash lift and tint and you won’t need mascara. Some people need to pencil in their eyebrows and some don’t. Use a light self tanner if you look pale and lifeless. Make sure your lips aren’t dry apply flex…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 04:35 PM
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It sounds like your problems are psychological. Don’t get hung up on your rating and how others are perceiving your appearance. You meet friendly women but don’t go through with becoming friends which says to me something is lacking socially for you and that’s the problem. Work through all those voices that say you’re a failure etc and work on loving yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 02:23 PM
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You are not earning a ring. You are loving one another, caring for each other, making one another happy and deciding to share your lives together. You also have to have needs and boundaries. Your partner might love for you to do all the house chores but you can also set limits on what you can't or won't do. He is earning you in his life and seeing if he can make you happy. A man wants to know if he can make a woman happy and your ideas sound sort of miserable. The fact that you keep repeating ho…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 11:21 PM
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It just sounds like you're performing, think you're being evaluated and interviewed for the role of wife. It just sounds a bit immature sorry to say that. You are moving together not to keep his home but because your intimacy an commitment has grown and you want to share your lives together. Is he stressing about how he is going to perform being a future husband now that you are interviewing him? No that is silly and performative.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 11:17 PM
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How about consider the paid help to do the dirty work and you do the pretty work. Anything that's labor or feels dirty or like you don't enjoy doing but making the home pretty, nice, prepared. Maybe housekeeper or cleaning person is a better word than maid. You are entering a relationship and something about the way you talk about sounds like servitude. Consider the act of him brining you flowers for example and you cooking him a meal to be the same. A gift not an obligation or a failing. It sou…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 10:59 PM
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If he has that kind of money and you work full time he should also have a maid. Up until now he's been taking care of himself somehow. I think your mentality that you "owe" him because the house is his and he earns a lot is not a good mentality going into this. You sound a lot like you don't value yourself just for being you. You are what you bring to the table, not being a homemaker. He is looking for a woman in his life not a maid. Taking care of him, and the home is a lovely thing but it's no…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 08:57 PM
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What about asking your guy friend to help you like setting the two of you up on a blind date or how about texting him that way your friend can help you with what you want to say and you can get over the nerves part. I think telling him he makes you nervous can be endearing and cute. I know social situations can be difficult for you try asking this guy friend to role play a date situation with you. Good luck you got this!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/21 12:46 PM
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It’s going to have to happen outside of work and with alcohol involved. Find a way to casually see each other outside of work and don’t be pushy she already knows the tension is there if she wants it to escalate she’ll make it clear.
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:03 AM
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I can see you read that but I did not actually imply that. Calm down. Unless it makes you feel better to call strangers on the internet names in which case go at it dumbidiotfucklol
/r/seduction06/05/21 10:05 PM
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I was pointing out the hypocrisy of the post. Neither men nor women in their 30s are bad. There are many reasons people of either gender would be single.
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:02 PM
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I don’t think anything is wrong with single men or women at any age. What are you even talking about.
/r/seduction06/05/21 11:15 AM
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Some of us have been busy getting graduate degrees and careers. And is the same true for the single men in their 30s?
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:04 AM
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Be careful with drinking. College has terrible norms for alcohol and binge drinking and sexual assault is prevalent. Don’t get yourself into position where this could happen to you. Be safe. Focus on your grades and get the most out of your classes, hobbies and interests. A lot of people this age are entitled and self centered try to grow yourself out of this and gain some self responsibility and maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 04:03 AM
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Ask yourself: what do I need a man for? And start making a list for yourself. Little things like killing a bug and carrying heavy boxes count as well as big things. Learn to be more receptive and less self sufficient allowing him to provide things for you. Then verbally appreciate what he provides you with. If those men left for this reason they didn’t feel you had room for them and this is emotionally the case. Many of us learned to be self sufficient as children because we couldn’t rely on our…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/21 10:07 PM
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Wow that article
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 03:32 PM
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Classic rock
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 06:42 PM
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Every good department store such as Bloomingdales or Nordstroms, Ann Taylor, LOFT, Anthropologie have beautiful feminine clothes. Perhaps you are going to the wrong stores.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 08:39 PM
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It sounds like you want a partner not a “captain” who is headstrong and doesn’t consider your input
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/21 11:55 AM
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Really? I thought probably you were sharing from her work. You’re in for a treat you will love her!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 04:48 AM
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This is so great. I agree wholeheartedly they just want to make us happy and they love a woman they can “win” with. Really reminds me of Alison Armstrong’s work if you’re familiar with her.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/21 04:44 AM
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I heard somewhere that if he uses the word “b*tch” he’s abusive (the kind that doesn’t change) also I’ve noticed that while people do change they tend to do it in new relationships because the old one they trigger each other into the same cycle.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/21 03:59 AM
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