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| -2 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?And do chick stuff with chicks around. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:51 AM |
| 0 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Weird projection because this actually is the reality for women. You just described every western woman’s life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Teenage girls aren’t screen addicted? Lol. Lmao even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:19 AM |
| 0 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Obesity epidemic coincides with women deeming cooking unfeminst and feeding their kids fast food | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Yes but in todays dating culture, sex precedes intimacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:08 AM |
| -4 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Make loneliness is direct result of women invading male spaces. The workplace, bars, country clubs, places of worship, the military are all examples of places that used to be male social avenues now completely dominated by women and/or feminine culture. It’s practically illegal for 3+ men to spend time together without female oversight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillThis checks out. Drug dealers have nothing to lose. Drug users are impulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:48 PM |
| – | Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pillSpot on. This is what all advice for men dating boils down to. It’s a woman’s world so do whatever women want regardless of your own sense of self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on “the wall” and beyondDouble alimony. What’s the downside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on “the wall” and beyondBiology is fake news | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on “the wall” and beyondThis used to be the agreement. Her best 10 years in exchange for the rest of his life. With no divorce, this was universally upheld. Now neither party are holding up their end of the agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is a extended time escort service scheme.There’s two ways to get goods or services: either pay for it or know somebody who can hook it up for free. Think about getting into a club. You can pay a cover charge or you can know a guy to wave you in. Most transactions can get discounted or free if you know the right guy. You just have to maintain a friendship with that guy and probably pay him back later. Sex is no different. Obviously you can pay for it. Alternatively you can get a girlfriend which is like a buddy who hooks you up with sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as wellSteph Curry is #1… right now. What happens when he retires? No income. The key is to time the divorce right at his peak so the alimony is based on that income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?Someone equally disposable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Who told men that being nice will get them laid?Everyone. Nice guys are easy to control. The default advice to men is be nice so nobody has to worry about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:25 AM |
| 11 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?Too many people. Everybody is disposable and fungible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsI’ve noticed this too. It’s the latest iteration of “men are obsolete”. Women believe men should be seen not heard. Men should have no agency no opinions and no affect on the world around them. All that is women stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:43 AM |
| 11 | CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriendsOPs entire point is that they are not flashy. They let her be the star. It’s a women’s world and she found a guy who knows it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Men are shamed far more for being single for life than womenSocial control is simple. Government controls media. Media controls women. Women control their husbands and children. Adult single men are not controlled by the hivemind and are therefore a threat to the hivemind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:30 AM |
| 5 | The consensus here is that unless a man is an absolute specimen he can expect to get dropped for simply looking at a lady the wrong way - but the reality doesn’t line upExactly. In dating and marriage/divorce statistics, the power dynamics of the relationship is always ignored. Data is presented as a binary, because that’s easiest to measure. However while ordinary guys may be in a relationship, both he and his wife are very aware of how each would fare if they divorced. So he just accepts a lower status and not head of household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomTaxation is state mandated simping. Hiring quotas for women is legally mandated simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomYes the market determines the price. Simps cause Hoeflation and it affects all of us by either putting us in a bidding war or forcing us to pass on every girl with an inflated sense of worth. So your decision to walk away from the deal isn’t made in a vacuum. It’s based on every other guy’s actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 05:29 AM |
| 7 | Dating for men is a race to the bottom“I’m indifferent to what other people think a house is worth. I think this house is worth only 100k and that’s the offer I made to buy it. I’m indifferent to everyone else that bids 500k+ to buy this house. I just do me.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomIt’s a market place. Everyone’s actions and desires affects everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomI’d argue the higher tiers as well. Big daddy government provides a social outlet via your political affiliation and a higher purpose/ value system via your political beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomWhere does the money come from to hire these professionals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomYa men should just provide construction labor without forcing me to suffer the indignity of treating them like human beings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successUmm you must not have a television or social media or a job. Women are, in fact, the most perfect things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successYes spot on. These masculine traits provide women with the most utility while requiring the least amount of emotional labor. “Improving personality” is by her metric for her benefit, not yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successIf you’re only going on long runs to get better at running marathons, you’re not improving yourself at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successIt’s vague and nonsensical because there’s no metric for personality. It basically says to be better with women you need to be better with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingAll the worlds a stage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardMen asked what men think. Never women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:32 AM |
| 31 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutMen are still competing with the fantasy of a 10, even if he’s rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:16 AM |
| 25 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"Almost. It’s like telling a poor person you gotta buy stock because the key to being rich is passive income. Takes money to make money. Takes friends to make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyIronically the best relationship I ever had was at my heaviest. I think it weeds out shallow people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:31 AM |
| 0 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyExact same as me. It’s a sliding scale. Each 10 pounds you gain is another date needed to close. 10 lbs overweight means you bring her home that night. 50 lbs overweight means you need 5 dates to get her to come over. This made me so cynical. I’m the exact same guy in the stuff that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyDetails? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallyBad math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winHe’s serious. Restaurants are a giant orgy. The perfect concoction of low ambition/stakes, boredom, late nights, familiarity, and a social workplace as it’s a service industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:20 PM |
| 2 | I am convinced that many women treat men like kings to entice them into marriage and then expect them to be different after marriage and kids50% divorce rate. Many of the remaining married men are miserable, ball busted to oblivion, “cheaper to keep her” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?“Take care of ourselves” lol. Name something you do “taking care of yourself” that isn’t simply paying a man to do it for you. How much of your food, clothing, housing, etc is by your own hand vs a man doing it for you? You get money in exchange for nothing and you use that money to enslave working class men. (That’s probably a bigger flex for feminism than “independence” tbh) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:40 PM |
| 2 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Find me a man in his 40s who says he’s glad he’s married. He doesn’t exist. Im sure life is good for single women. Zero responsibilities while indulging in pure consumerism funded by make work jobs or riding the alimony pony | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 7 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?It’s a woman’s world out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:29 PM |
| -1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?She gets the benefits of being in a relationship without putting in any emotional labor. Once you get past the lying and lack of morals, it’s pure upside. Machiavellian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:16 PM |
| 3 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?A guy with 5 girlfriends puts in zero work in any of them. That’s the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how it's always AI girlfriends in the news? Why not AI boyfriends?Only for the last couple decades. And only in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.“No matter how hot she is, some guy out there is tired of her shit.” When a coomer cooms he no longer cares enough to pursue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.It was never men around the world validating her at literally the speed of light | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.Choose one of the other 5%. You just need 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | This video proves what a lot of guys complain about is real.She knows it but she doesn’t let herself believe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Ever notice how it's always AI girlfriends in the news? Why not AI boyfriends?Any man who is employed is forced to validate his female coworkers or he will no longer be employed. All women who are employed have pseudo-boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Ever notice how it's always AI girlfriends in the news? Why not AI boyfriends?Public school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:13 PM |
| 0 | As a woman why should I get married?Don’t move the goalposts. And yes it is a deal. If I hired a cook, a nanny, and a chef, it wouldn’t cost me half my salary. And each professional would do a better job than the amateur. And if I fired each professional, I wouldn’t be compelled by the government to continue paying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:57 PM |
| 7 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?That she accepts my offer for small talk and I have to stand there like a doofus for an indiscriminate amount of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?Every woman with any social media (single or married) is engaged in OLD. That’s what social media is. Advertising yourself to suitors. A girl getting DMs from Drake after posting bikini pics is not gonna get coffee with the guy from her spin class, boomer You didn’t even address my question. What are you giving your wife that isn’t a click away? You probably just made yourself so inconsequential in your marriage that she’s indifferent to your presence and there’s no point in removing you from th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:25 PM |
| 0 | As a woman why should I get married?There absolutely is money involved wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?I love that she says lucrative field but not lucrative job. Like a receptionist at a private equity firm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:51 PM |
| 0 | As a woman why should I get married?Free lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?Correct. First get the grammable wedding pics. Next wait patiently for him to hit his peak earnings. Finally file for divorce and reap the financial benefits of marriage without having to provide your end of the marriage. Girlboss ftw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?Unfathomly based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?You’re right about money. Everyone has essentially unlimited access to it, whether through make work jobs or unlimited debt financing. I’m sure your make work job contributes nothing to society, except it gives you spending money to buy all the meaningless stuff you mentioned in your first paragraph which justifies other people’s jobs. And whatever you want that you can’t afford, you can just swipe a credit card. Regarding your child rearing philosophy, it’s true that a mother needs to take the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?Commercials and TV shows constantly reinforce the buffoon dad archetype. She’s talking about her “friends” but almost certainly including Homer Simpson, Hal from Malcom in the middle, and basically every commercial in the last 10 years targeted towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?23 years ago there was no social media. Imagine if you were at a college party in 1999 and you were chatting up this girl when suddenly a carrier pigeon flys through the window and brings her a message from NSync that Justin Timberlake wants to hook up with her. You gonna just man up as a 20 year old and convince her to hook up with you instead? That’s what young men are up against today with social media and an interconnected world. You’re competing against billionaires and celebrities for hook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection.I think your use of “government” is turning a lot of people off, including me. Arranged marriages were the norm for generations. It’s more of a social thing than a government thing. I agree with most of your OP otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection.There was never a time with recluses at all. People lived in multi generational homes. These multi generational homes formed tight knit religious communities. These religious communities formed nations. Now we have none of these things. Just self-obsessed urbanites living under a singular world government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?It’s more like: if you’re the first bullet only, you will get you a few dates, but she won’t pursue it further because there’s always the possibility shell meet a guy just like you, but better looking. If you’re the second bullet only, you’ll get nsa sex for nothing, but won’t let it turn into a relationship or possibly try to make it work and it’ll break her heart. So yes your first bullet point is a detractor for something casual but not a relationship. Your second bullet point will at least g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:53 AM |
| 3 | “Women” are bad at marriage.One theory I have is that the boomers were artificially selected for liberal tendencies as the conservative boomers died in nam and the hippies stayed and had millennials. So whether nature or nurture, millennials seem to be more left leaning. We’ll see if your theory holds that the blue haireds are bred out of gen alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?Yes but the leaders are getting more powerful by the same mechanism that’s destroying society at large. I’d rather be captain of the titanic than shovel coal in a ship that didn’t sink. We all die anyway. Might as well have a moment in the sun before you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceSounds like depression You said yourself he can cook but chose not to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorce“You can do anything to her but bore her” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceUh oh someone is buffoondad-pilled. Im sure he could learn how to cook if he had to. Your entire list of your moms contributions is just mundane tasks that are the most easily handed off to someone else. I guarantee your dad had friends back in the day and your mom hated them all and WANTS to monopolize his entire social life. In general it seems like your mom wants to monopolize his world so he’s dependent and easy to control. If she was really unhappy with this arrangement, she could easily as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 14 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.That’s a good explanation of the increase in risk. Here’s the removal of incentive: it used to be if you successfully approach a girl and get her number, you’d call her and ask her out and she’d probably say yes. Now getting the number means nothing. It’s either an easy way to end the convo and she’s figuring she can ghost you later. She’s got 500 pending notifications of unread texts, unopened snaps, and IG DM requests. You’re just another. Or she’s curious what you’ll text her later and she pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Men can't have more sex if they don't approach women. Over 50% of single men have not approached a woman in the past year.You don’t know! It’s a total stranger. Can’t make any assumptions on its behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Anyone ever feel like modern dating is more trouble than it’s worth?Married men are delusional because of their selective memory of being single and because they are in a relationship, they visualize being single as always having a woman around, like they do now. Combine the two and they think they’re super desirable and every night they’ll rotate a new woman, but only if he wants. Monogamy is better for society as a whole. That’s why one of literally only 10 commandments condemns adultery. No successful society has ever had hookup culture, including the one we’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:54 PM |
| 6 | CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men.It’s anarchocapitalist because divorce and social media means the market is perfectly efficient. Only recently could a married woman’s trip to the beach mean that a Saudi prince would offer her 50k to be his portapotty after seeing her IG post. Fidelity in marriage means nothing and there’s no geographic or social barriers to dating. However the market is skewed because the man’s role as provider is usurped by the government. This guys post is a good summary https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:28 PM |
| – | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Every conflict? What about farm land or natural resources? Men need food and shelter first and foremost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityThis is true for women too. Be in shape and smile. Automatic 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV : Men and women both try and shame each other in order to discourage them from pursuing their own sexual interestsYes because the ultimate outcome of any argument within the marriage is compromise or dissolution of the marriage. In the event of divorce, one party will inherently fare better than the other. Therefore that party has less to gain from compromise than the other and therefore usually wins the argument. So trends in the dating market, have direct impact on the relative standing of each party WITHIN the marriage, despite the fact that marriage is supposed to be the mutual agreement to leave the da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.Surviving hunter gatherer societies today did not face the threat of invasion by other tribes like the ones of yesterday. An invading army will not see the women of the conquered as more than breeding stock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.Men hate fakeness more than any hair color preference. Don’t dye your hair. Especially for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Helen of Troy is not the source of every war. Men interact with men far more than women. Conflicts naturally arise. The drive for technology is equally rooted in curiosity as it is in killing other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??Most women will readily admit they fuck guys they don’t see a future with, while making guys they like wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??“Before sex drive”. Freud would like a word with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Would Men's Drive for Achievement and Success be the same without women ??I wouldn’t say that the source of men’s passion for life is women. You ever see a group of men dug a hole at the beach together. Men like doing shit, especially together. If anything MEN are the source of motivation for men. I will say that too much easy success with women will sap a man’s motivation. This is the “peaked in high school” meme. You got too many natural attributes that young women flock to, why make time for anything else during your formative years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menBuying fully into any philosophy vs being a free spirit or seeing gray in every situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him.Where would Rome be without the popes? At the end of the day the buck stops somewhere and somebody outright wins the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:58 AM |
| 0 | It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him.Is that good for society? Make divorce so insufferable that the risk calculation of marriage makes it an irrational endeavor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him.What do you call it when the man is so disincentivized to divorce that it’s practically not an option? I think OP is trying to say that we didn’t correct a “50s style” patriarchal family unit, we merely flipped it to a matriarchal one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:52 AM |
| 4 | CMV : Men and women both try and shame each other in order to discourage them from pursuing their own sexual interestsAll true points. I’m speaking more of the dating market informs decisions within marriage because both parties know that if differences in the marriage are irreconcilable, then both parties re-enter the dating market. So if women have the upper hand in the dating market, they have the upper hand in marriage, even though the marriage is intended to be insulated from the dating market. So shifts in the dating market as a whole affect the power play in marriage, just as an individual SMV affects po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Risk of poverty is higher for women after divorce and separation.And it’s correlation not causation. Women enticed by the quick buck of divorce have impulse control problems and piss away money on frivolous things and can’t properly budget their alimony payments?? You don’t say! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeThis is great advice, for fun dating and serial monogamy. Eventually the illusion will be shattered by eventually revealing who you are. A the longer you wait to put yourself out there, the harder the illusion shatters. I don’t see how this kind of behavior leads to long term intimacy when the interaction is BS from the get go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeRight. You attract what you put out there. If you’re not serious, then no one you pick up will be either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Objectlivly speaking feminist women have hard time accepting the reality of the dating marketWhat this guy is saying is that in the eyes of women, crazy IS male beauty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 11:22 PM |
| 12 | CMV : Men and women both try and shame each other in order to discourage them from pursuing their own sexual interestsBecause we live in a society and the behaviors of others directly affects our own, especially in the context of dating. You can try to go against the current and pair up with someone also going against the current, but then the current is still a factor Example. You hate hookup culture and marry someone who also hates hookup culture but hookup culture is always available to you, married or not. Both of you know that Ashley Madison is waiting for you, even if you don’t want it, it’s what will hap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 10:05 PM |
| 27 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?Men are lonely but female relationships don’t fix even half of it. Almost all traditional male spaces and male societal imperatives are gone or no longer exclusive to males. Boys used to be apprentices for their fathers, work alongside him through adolescence, then take over the trade and have sons whom they apprentice. It such a ubiquitous practice that most surnames are professions Men used to get together at male only pubs and private clubs. Men would serve in the military together under othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Are men really struggling to get sex/relationships in real life?By definition yes “Pairing up” is two people but the assertion is people are less in pairs nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Are we in a Gender Cold War?I just ate a big breakfast so there’s no such thing as world hunger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:38 PM |
| 0 | General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activityThey lie to themselves first. Then they don’t know the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Dating can be harder for women than menExactly right on number 1. Being born with good looks is an indicator of good genes whereas being a gym rat is bad genes and takes time away from her. Similarly “new money” is much less attractive than the familial pedigree and ease of “old money” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Dating can be harder for women than menLiterally muh bootstraps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 02:10 AM |
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