| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | Dread Level 10 | sdhs435klj24 | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 07:14 PM |
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| 2 | Dread Level 10Oh I'm aware this could be the biggest manipulation yet. If it ends now, our marriage is considered short term and I pay spousal support for a few years. If it goes on for a couple of years more, it is considered long term and all of the sudden support is indefinite. I don't think she would want to do that because of the kids but there is that potential that she is great for a couple of years and then blows shit up with huge divorce rape. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Dread Level 10All the legal divorce stuff is just more mumbo jumbo to her within a few hours. Please explain. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Dread Level 10I get that it's not self sustaining and it's on my shoulders to stay on a new and better path. It's easy to think that she has seen the light, bit she hasn't. She hasn't become someone who understands reasonable requests, or whose small transgressions can be overlooked. She'll happily go on the slippery towards being a mediocre or even bad wife again. She'll behave exactly as poorly as you let her. I know that's on me and the journey isn't over. It just seems shocking at how quickly she reversed… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Dread Level 10Compliance is temporary, attraction is earned. This is one of the key things I've been struggling with. A week ago I was 100% convinced everything was over. I was expecting her to 100% want to go through with it. I was shocked with how she acted and how quickly she changed. And the key thing I'm trying to figure out is if it's temporary. And of course I can't control her so if it is temporary, then I know and I can go down the divorce path. She has had a lot of external pressure from her friends… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Dread Level 10I've already thought a lot about the impact on kids before deciding to pull the trigger. I've spoken with child counselors, etc. Ideally I'd like them in a nice family environment. But I'd choose a divorce being happy over raising them in a shitty marriage. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Dread Level 10You got her fear emotions in top gear, so it's legitimate. How you leverage this is based on how being the Alpha fux, alpha providor, or a poser bluffing. Very helpful. You've been given a gift, she has given a hard reset, and 100% mirrors what you give her to work with. Also very helpful. Those two lines are what I was looking for. My work is by no means done but I've made good progress with SL5x5, macros dialed in, 6 pack, athletic/muscular build, upgraded wardrobe, nice grooming, much better … | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Dread Level 10Yes, I lift. Best shape of my life. SL5x5 -> 3x5 -> 5/3/1 BBB. 6 pack abs. Upgraded wardrobe. Well groomed. Daily mindfulness/meditation. More social & outgoing. Hobbies with guys and with the kids. Have gone through all of the reading materials. Finances and career in good shape. Shit tests don't phase me. I'm not into full club/bar/PUA scene due to kids but day game for catch & release. And of course setbacks along the way. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/17 07:40 PM |
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