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CMVsdwdqw65/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:27 AM
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Perhaps it’s de ja vu because many different people observe and experience the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:35 AM
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I’m afraid I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:52 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:19 PM
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Idk what to tell ya then because that’s my answer. More than a few times per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:17 PM
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Been there done that already. I didn’t get any satisfaction for it because unfortunately I don’t have the same mind that a sociopath does. I don’t get some sick enjoyment out of manipulating people like sociopaths do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:15 PM
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Pretty sure it’s more than a few times per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:14 PM
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We’ve already been seeing it with the pandemic. This society is up for grabs for the sociopaths, and it has become increasingly unbearable to live in as a person who isn’t a sociopath. People keep rewarding the worst of people in our society, and as a result of this more and more people are choosing to isolate themselves and not participate in society or socializing with others. I feel impacts everything, not just dating. A lot of people don’t want to go back to the office for example and want w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:56 PM
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It’s the opposite. It’s the bad guys who get the most sex. You see the same thing in politics and business, the sociopaths rise to the top and succeed while the good people who look out for all the stakeholders and not just themselves get pushed out. The truth is being a good person or a bad person isn’t that important in life. Being a person of substance isn’t important either. What’s really important is having attractive traits like being tall, fit, charismatic, having social status, etc. Bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:49 PM
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My friends who are huge misogynists, constantly talking shit about women do well with them. Whereas my good/decent friends always struggled with women and were lucky when they found one. I think a lot of women are self destructive and masochistic, like it’s a part of their sexuality to fuck men who hate and abuse them. While simultaneously these women look down on and are condescending towards men who respect the, as human beings. Humans really aren’t that much more evolved compared to other ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:38 PM
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Yup welcome to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:33 PM
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I like how you don’t even deny the point being made. There’s no incentive being a good dude these days lmao that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:28 PM
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1/3 of young men are having no sex. A very large percentage of men are having sex only a few times a year. I’m sorry but the math doesn’t seem to agree with you. If by “most” we mean more than 50 percent, then it is in fact the case that more than 50 percent of young men are having little to no sex at all. To say that is “no issues with dating” is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:26 PM
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You love arguing for the sake of arguing don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:22 PM
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Lmao how true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:04 PM
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I’m fascinated by people who diminish the significance sex and relationships have on people’s mental health and overall quality of life. If people go without their basic emotional needs met (such as sex and relationships) it’s going to cause damage to them psychologically. Idk why people just brush this off and pretend sex and relationships aren’t important to people’s mental health, when any shred of common sense would tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:58 PM
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Perhaps I’m wrong but I wonder if parents are to blame for this learned helplessness. I’ve had to fight hard against my own mother to get her to respect my boundaries and allow me to solve my own problems. I’m 30 years old and I still have to regularly tell my own mother to stop trying to help, get involved, and fix my problems. That I’m capable of handling my own issues and she should worry about herself and my dad. I’m an independent minded person who likes doing his own thing, so when people …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:44 PM
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I agree with your post to an extent but from my perspective you’re only offering half of the story. I agree that many guys are resentful for not being dateable/attractive to women when they were younger (and women are more attractive when younger). However this is the part where 99% of the time people acknowledge this statement and then move on as if this is all one could say about this phenomena. They don’t ask a follow up question, which at least from my perspective is where a lot of the resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:18 AM
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Why not just do house work like a normal adult wtf? I don’t understand people who don’t do housework, can’t cook, can’t take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:25 AM
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Ya that’s pretty much high functioning autism in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:08 PM
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Large age gap relationships are common whether people like it or not. Men like young women, people can get butt hurt about that and try to police people but that’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:06 PM
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More young women are in relationships than young men. In other words, a fairly large percentage of young women date older men. It’s really common for a 20 something year old woman to be dating a man in his 30s and possibly even early 40s as well for example. I’m not just making this up, unfortunately I don’t recall the source but I found a place that had gathered statistics on relationships based on age and relationship status. A higher percentage of young women are in relationships than young m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:05 PM
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You’re ignoring high functioning autism which is becoming more common. High functioning autism is a person with an average or above intellectual capacity but has autism still. “Are you saying autistics don’t hurt people?” They certainly have a lower probability of hurting people than sociopaths who rape and beat women, yes absolutely. They’re less likely too, note the phrase “less likely” and “lower probability.” No group of people is free of violent individuals in that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:36 AM
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Wait what, really? That stat about prisoners having more kids is true? That’s so fucked if that’s true. That is so backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:34 AM
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Why is dating autistic nerds worse than dating sociopaths who beat and rape women? Just curious because autistic nerds who are kind people have a difficult time attracting any woman at all. However sociopaths who beat and rape women have never had difficulties attracting women. Abusive men attracting women is a cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:04 AM
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A higher percent of young women are in relationships than young men, a higher percentage of young men go for casual encounters than young women, and also sex is more frequent when you’re in a monogamous relationship than when you are prowling for casual encounters with multiple people. As a result of these facts the results of the graphs are unsurprising. Notice how there’s more men than women who report having more than 1 sexual partner in a given year. However there’s more women than men who r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:58 PM
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Life experience, I’ve seen this pattern consistently with my own eyes my entire life. I’ve also seen “the good guys” win occasionally but that’s rare. It’s far more common for the sociopath to win over the girl and then it’s just a matter of waiting before she inevitably gets hurt, breaks up with him, and starts the cycle again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:21 PM
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Ahh I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:42 PM
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Alcohol doesn’t make me horny, it just makes me wanna fight or sleep. Weed on the other hand makes me horny and wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:15 PM
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80 percent of women are pretty looking? As a straight guy I totally disagree, the percentage is far lower. I do agree there are more attractive women than men though, because tons of men dress like shit, don’t groom themselves, and don’t even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:25 AM
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I’m a straight guy and it’s a total mystery to me how people can fuck/have sex with someone they don’t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:24 AM
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Lmao this is so very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:21 AM
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Relationship advice gives 1 piece of advice on almost everything “break up!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:14 AM
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Sounds like sunk cost fallacy. Also 7 to 8 months isn’t very long anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:13 AM
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I agree with what this guy says. With maturity comes the realization that you should put your own needs and priorities above everyone else’s and above what society tells you you ought to prioritize. OP if your girlfriends past bothers you then it bothers you and that’s just how you feel. People can try to make super rational philosophical arguments to convince you otherwise, try to use social shaming to coerce you to change, but at the end of the day if you feel a way then that’s how you feel. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:09 AM
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Meh I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had people believe I was saying or implying something I wasn’t. I have zero respect for people who pretend they can read other peoples minds and then double down and get all offended when you try to correct them and gaslight you by saying you’re being hostile when in fact all you’re trying to do is clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:45 AM
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In my experience it is precisely the dark side that women are attracted to. I’ve literally never attracted a woman in my life by treating her well. Every single woman I’ve attracted in my life without exception has been done by either treating her poorly or being very aloof/indifferent towards her. I’ve seen the same pattern all my life by observing other people. All of my friends who are kind/stable men had difficulties getting even 1 woman to pay attention to them and give them the time of day…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:37 AM
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I get exhausted by how much people attempt to read other people’s minds. Seriously don’t you all ever wonder if your attempt at “reading” other people is actually just you projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:31 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:27 AM
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Nah I get what you mean. Back when I used to date I also had to do the “dancing monkey” routine of being a constant source of entertainment for the woman nonstop. It is indeed exhausting, lonely, and depressing. I’ve heard men who are married say they have to put on the dancing monkey routine for their wife 24/7 and how they feel like they’re losing their sanity because of it. Unless you’re like a complete sociopath being a man is just a miserable experience when it comes to women to be honest. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:07 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone here complain about women who choose to not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:00 AM
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When you go out people know what you write online? No offense but this is an incredibly stupid comment that I hear so often and it’s just mind numbingly stupid. How people behave irl isn’t the same as how they do online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:54 AM
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Are they attacking them or just saying they’re unattractive? I’ve noticed a lot of the time that men having any standards at all is “an attack” or some how “misogynist” to a lot of people. I myself don’t find single mothers or older women appealing. Does that make me “soulless” by having this preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:45 AM
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TLDR
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:42 AM
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If “having a lot of fun” means living, then isn’t everyone having a lot of fun? Sorry just confused what you mean by that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:37 AM
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Reddit is weird in general lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:35 AM
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What’s a bangmaid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:34 AM
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Pink pill doesn’t seem selfish at all, it’s seems really logical and correct. Like so accurate it’s amazing to me it’s not just called ‘common sense.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:47 AM
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Women could avoid being abused if they just weren’t attracted to dark triad/sociopathic traits. There would be fewer predators and abusive men in the world if there weren’t so many women rewarding that behavior from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:40 AM
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Pink pill sounds pretty accurate to me and I’m a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:33 AM
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“Dancing monkey” It’s sad to me how relatable this is. Yes the dancing monkey…boy do I resent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 AM
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The pandemic has sort of put me in a haze of being disinterested in everything. I also am much more distant with people too. Even people close to me have noticed I don’t reach out and talk as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:55 AM
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Women treat good men awfully and sociopaths like kings. Women’s moral compasses are so backwards it’s amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:10 AM
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What’s wrong with saying ‘and some women”? Isn’t it true that some women having dating problems? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:56 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:01 AM
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It’s amazing how modern people do not see the value in basic empathy/compassion anymore. This sub is toxic asf, people are so rude to each other and treat each other like robots. Like…why does there need to be some “solution”? Maybe just try and be a decent human being and have some empathy for a problem tons of men (and some women) face? Maybe the simple exercise of actually listening and sincerely taking in what they say, having a different perspective and life experience you do and learning f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:56 AM
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This has been my experience as well and I also suspect the same is true with most men which is why men often don’t open up in relationships because they know the women will lose attraction and respect in them if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:04 AM
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Anything loses its value when the supply of it is increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:39 AM
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What movie are you talking about? Sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:55 PM
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Well you know what they say, if a tree falls down and you didn’t hear it then the tree didn’t actually fall down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:16 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:10 AM
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I doubt most people who didn’t go to college work at McDonald’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:03 PM
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Education makes you a better beta buxx lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:54 PM
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I think it’s not normal if it is said explicitly. If it is said through behavior though in an implicit way, then yes I think that is the norm between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:38 PM
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I think toxic and/or abusive relationships at some varying degree is normal though. Healthy relationships are the abnormal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:23 PM
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You keep saying “should” though, as if wanting something to be true or thinking something is “correct” actually makes it true. But that isn’t the world we live in of course. Some people are excluded by others much/most/all of their lives, just the way it is. As a guy this scenario has happened to me many times when I’m in a group social setting, I’ll say something to someone and right in front of me that person will turn to someone else in the group and ask them what I said, or they will just co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:12 PM
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“Better than no interaction though” Disagree. If I’m being treated like a utility I’m gonna ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:52 PM
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I’m a guy and this has happened to me my whole life Some people just get excluded and are losers 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:37 PM
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Abuse? Just sounds like life to me. This dynamic is normal between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:12 PM
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Wtf are you drunk or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:01 PM
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I wasn’t referring to that. Rather I was referring to short guys being bullied by their peers and all the studies that show short men are discriminated against in the work force via lower pay and less likely to be in leadership positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:47 PM
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I think a lot of poindexters are figuring out this con because of the internet and are opting out of long term relationships/marriages entirely. I think you see this most prevalently in the black American community. I heard a statistic that over 50 percent of middle class black men (so black men actually pulling decent income and have financial stability) are single and childless. Whereas 10 percent or so of black men are fathering 80 percent of the black children and over 70 percent of black ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:01 PM
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So what? Why are you shaming the guy for having feelings? Maybe the guy has been bullied and discriminated against his entire life, lives in a society that is hostile to men expressing emotions, so his emotional outlet is posting anonymously on Reddit? Fuck off with the toxic masculinity bullshit, shaming men for being emotional is gross. Also before “haha short guy” I’m 5’9 but okay good job being immature dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:50 PM
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Short men are bullied and dismissed their entire lives and then people gaslight them for having Napoleon Complex. No one ever seems to have the empathy, compassion, sympathy or morality to wonder just WHY short men may be sensitive about their height. It can’t possibly be because they’re discriminated against enormously by society and it’s also a for, of discrimination that is acceptable and not even acknowledged. Also before I get accused of being an angry short guy, I’m 5’9 so statistically I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:48 PM
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Short men are also heavily discriminated in the workplace as well. Studies show once men get shorter than 5’6 their ability to make a good income drops like a rock. Short men have bad genes, it sucks but it is what it is. Nature is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:41 PM
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What people say and what people do are two different things. Take a look at the kind of politicians people say they want versus the kind of people who actually get elected. What people say doesn’t hold that much weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:38 PM
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Men don’t want to be married just because they have a lot of assets, a nice house, and a large bank account. Men want to be loved for who they are as a person. It’s the same with women, they don’t want to be married just for their looks, they want to be loved for who they are as a person. This is why IMO one of the saddest truths of being a man is that the so called “LVM” (Low Value Men as FDS refers to them) who is both financially poor and abusive but can still attract a lot of women get to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:22 PM
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Why though? My lack of having friends doesn’t bother me. There are a lot of things I don’t like about my life, but a lack of friends isn’t one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:02 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:30 AM
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Some people like myself are neurodivergent (fuck spelling this word) and genuinely have no interest or desire to have friends. I had friends when I was younger, but by my mid 20s I had lost all my friends and ever since I’ve had literally zero interest or desire to have friends. All I want is sex and that’s it. I have no interest in having friends or building relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:27 AM
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The older I get the more I realize how little I know about anything and how drastically different peoples experiences, values, and lives really are. I think empathy is a skill, and it’s a very difficult skill to learn that most people are very poor at (including women, I think the vast majority of people just suck at empathy in general including myself). Most of us are stuck in our own heads, view the world from our own perspectives and life experiences, and it’s extremely difficult to go outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:22 AM
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As a man let me just say I do agree and sympathize with what you’re saying and what unattractive women have to go through. I suspect being an unattractive woman and experiencing life as an unattractive woman is deeply alienating and lonely as well, because everything mainstream culture says is “normal” and “universal” for women’s lives is something unattractive women don’t experience and can’t relate to. I think unattractive women (as well as if they are overweight even if they have a pretty fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:28 AM
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Damn you bought your house before I was even born 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:41 PM
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All forms of socializing have been on the decline over the past 10 years. It’s not just dating and sex, it’s everything. If you look at the amount of close friends the younger generations have compared to older you see each newer generation has fewer and fewer friends. I forgot the numbers exactly, but when you ask Gen Z and millennials how many friends they have 30 percent say 0. If you ask them how many close friends who know them very well do they have, the number is 50 percent. Even before t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:11 PM
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This has matched my personal experience. I’ve had a lot more success dating when I treated a woman poorly, with indifference, with low effort versus just treating them like a normal human being with a baseline level of respect and manners I normally give people. In fact I’ve had a mind blowing realization that not once in my entire life have I ever attracted a woman by being kind to her and putting in effort. All the relationships, hook ups, FWBs I’ve ever had I’ve gotten by treating them poorly…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:02 PM
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Not to mention STDs is a big reason why being sexually exclusive is a good thing. Some STDs stay with you permanently which sucks really bad and makes a hookup/one night stand totally not worth it no matter how good the sex/how hot the person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:30 PM
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Ghosting can also be due to procrastination and a lack of a desire to talk to the person. I’ve done it to someone before, I just found the texting conversations with them to be boring so I kept saying “okay I’ll respond to her later” then later on “okay I’ll respond to her later” and of course I’d end up just not messaging her back and ghosting her. Had nothing to do with me finding a better option, rather it was I found better things to do than to talk to her. Talking to her was just boring, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:17 PM
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I think porn has a lot to do with the incel situation as well. Porn makes it way easier for guys to just give up finding a girlfriend/dating/sex and just masturbate. It’s definitely not ideal, but porn is an easy substitute compared to the nightmare of dating and constant rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:11 PM
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Some people don’t have the brains to code or the patience. I’ve tried coding but man….you have to be a patient and diligent fucker to do it without getting annoyed. Constant debugging, constantly searching for answers on stackexchange and people often write really shitty answers, it gets annoying and exhausting quickly. Not only do you have to have a certain level of intelligence to code that quite frankly not everyone has, but you also have to be a patient and diligent person who won’t get frus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:07 PM
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I think the whole super macho tough guy let’s blow everything up style of the Republican Party appeals to people with anger problems. The Democrat style is more well thought out, mellow, the details matter and that doesn’t appeal to overly emotional and impulsive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:00 PM
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I’ve never understood this line of reasoning. The reasoning essentially being “Yes women have a much larger pool to pick from, the problem is they have to weed through the pool of crap to find the few gems.” In essence, the underlying message is that somehow quantity and quality have no correlation which to me just defies common sense and basic statistics/probability. If you have a larger pool to choose from, you also have a higher probability of finding good gems from that pool. Conversely the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:52 PM
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To have kids. That’s pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:44 PM
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I legitimately would prefer killing myself before ever having to be a parent. That’s not even hyperbole. Being responsible for a kid is literally my worst nightmare. I’d rather live my entire life being all alone, poor, in a crappy apartment than having to be a parent. At least there’s freedom and free time when you’re alone. I think it has to do with my personality. Being alone and independent can be lonely sometimes, but it’s feeling I’m used to by now at my age. However being stuck with someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:41 PM
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That’s been my personal experience. I have curly hair and when I grow it long enough all of the negative comments I get are from men. I remember last year I was walking home and a guy literally shouted from his car “cut your damn hair!” I laughed and it didn’t bother me, but you get the point. A random guy felt like it was necessary to shout his opinion to another complete stranger about cutting his hair because it’s “too long” according to him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/22 02:18 AM
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To be fair 10 years is still a long time in prison.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 01:13 AM
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Or they could be telling the truth. That’s the tragedy of liars and how liars poison the well for everyone. Some people really are victims of abuse and truly are victims. However the people who lie about it ruin it for the real victims because it creates an environment in which as a bystander you don’t know who to believe anymore. It’s the same thing with “hate crimes.” There have been so many so called “hate crimes” that have been proven to be false after the fact that I am inherently skeptical…
/r/MensRights29/11/21 01:09 AM
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LOL First time I’ve ever posted on this subreddit. Let’s see if I get banned from some subreddits.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 03:45 AM
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Fair point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:31 PM
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He didn’t say you said any of these things. He’s saying that’s what the domestic violence statistics say and explaining why he doesn’t believe them. I personally don’t trust domestic violence statistics either. My reasons can be boiled down to that male victims just aren’t taken seriously (so a lot of male victims never talk about it with anyone, in fact men may be conditioned to believe they can’t be victims of domestic violence even when they actively are victims of it) so any statistics on ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:05 PM
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This is purely anecdotal but could women initiating more divorce be due to women generally being more flaky than men are? As I said, just my personal experience but I’ve been flaked out on by women far far more than men. Anytime I make plans with a woman I already go into it with a higher than 50 percent chance that she’ll cancel the plans at the last minute “oh sorry I can’t go something came up blah blah blah.” Whereas if I make plans with a man I’m more confident he’ll actually stick with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:54 PM
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I think carrot cake is disingenuous. Like who the hell makes a cake out of a vegetable wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:24 PM
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I’ve been water fasting for the past 24 hours. I see this thread and now I can’t stop thinking about eating cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:39 PM
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Purge week has turned this place into a war zone 😂 All the threads and posts, people are taking full opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:34 PM
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Lmao I haven’t been here all week. Saw how toxic all the threads were and was like “the fuck is going on here” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:31 PM
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I like goats so I think I’d like you copilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 10:31 AM
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Your comment makes me go “eww” Icky person you are. Go have fun dating the blockheaded dumb fuck with an IQ of 2, sounds like he’d fit your wonderful personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:15 PM
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Women treat fuck boys better than their own boyfriends. Women are truly insane and have very cold/calculating hearts. It’s men who have hearts of gold, not women. How many women pick jobs that involve risking your own life to save others? How many men? Yeah exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:51 PM
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He was the richest person on the planet back when TSLA stock reached its peak in January 2021. I suspect either Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk will become the first trillionaire. Elon Musk single handedly has pushed the entire car industry to realize EVs are the future and can be widely successful in the car market (Tesla is the most valuable car company in the world), he also created and runs SpaceX, and now also have Neurolink too. Why would you not want to date Elon Musk? He’s a genius and a fascina…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:48 PM
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On Amazon type in “Mizon Original Skin Energy, Collagen 100” It’s the purple one. It’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:36 PM
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I’d easily prefer being alone. I’m autistic though so I think that is probably a large factor. I genuinely prefer being alone a lot and focusing on my hobbies instead (politics, stock market, cooking, working out, fashion and grooming, gardening, traveling before the pandemic lol). In general I like myself and dislike most people/find them boring and shallow/have cookie cutter personalities and interests (I like weirdos, they’re more interesting lol). Also I’m a picky person in general due to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:27 PM
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Is he autistic? Some of us autistics have a problem with filtering and we struggle with this binary of either not opening up enough or opening up way too fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:12 PM
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As a high functioning autistic as far as I’m concerned all of you NTs are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:09 PM
1

Lmao I was just browsing fightporn yesterday 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:08 PM
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Idk if this would help but I used to have dark circles under my eyes (it’s genetic and runs in the family). Over the years I tried all sorts of products which never really left me satisfied with the results, used to wear concealer which does work but didn’t like how I would have to put it on every time I went out. Then one day I was reading about how South Koreans are really into skin products and to treat dark circles they use collagen. I bought Collagen eye drops on Amazon and holy cow my dark…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:51 PM
1

I agree, salt and vinegar Lays are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:43 PM
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“Cuntwaffle” 🤣 I like your username
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:42 PM
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This was the worst experience I had but it wasn’t an isolated experience either. I’ve experienced similar things with the same pattern throughout my youth. I think that is what did the most damage. Yes this incident was the worst but it wasn’t an isolated one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:07 AM
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I think you’re giving good advice and I appreciate your sympathy, I really do. It’s surprising to me how much this post of mine has blown up, I didn’t know it would gain so much attention (maybe a lot of guys can relate, which is really sad and says something about our society and that this isn’t an isolated experience that I had). I also know I have a very warped view with dating and women now because of these experiences (I’ve had more than just the one I explained here but this one was the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:10 AM
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Wow I learned something today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:41 AM
1

Wtf is a mechanical dildo? Does it come with blue tooth and 5G connectivity too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 10:17 AM
1

True. I was naive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:37 PM
1

That’s not actually true. Initially our relationship grew from mutual interest since we both started as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:36 PM
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I won’t disagree with you on that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:58 AM
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It’s a good question and I do think you make a perfectly valid point but I think the honest answer to that is no he wasn’t more attractive to me and I’ll give you a few points why The guy was 5’4 whereas I’m 5’9 I personally believe I have a more attractive face than he did I had a car, had money (savings so I could pay for dates easily), had a job whereas he didn’t have a car and was poor because he did drug dealing and spent all his money on alcohol He was fat, I was not Now of course you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:53 AM
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2 years living with the person or just 2 years dating? Because IMO you should absolutely not even consider marrying someone until you’ve actually lived with them for a long period of time. Long enough to see their flaws, see how they react when things go wrong in their lives. A lot of people are wonderful until something goes wrong and then they fall apart or change into an entirely different person and sometimes much less pleasant person. My brother had this problem, he dated a woman for a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:34 AM
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Thank you for existing, I wish more were like you. Also the world would be a better place as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:59 AM
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People say they want honest politicians but vote for the same dishonest ones over and over again. People say they want level headed mentally stable partners but seek after unstable ones over and over again. People (okay I’m being PC here, women) say they want to date decent men (I understand that doesn’t mean they want to be put on a pedestal, just treated with respect supposedly) and yet date the bottom of the barrel over and over again. Toxic masculinity is supposedly bad and yet women contrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:39 AM
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I’m sorry it hits home. I wish it didn’t, unfortunately this is way too common. I had no idea my post would blow up like this and I’m getting multiple men sending direct messages to me with very very similar stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:26 AM
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Wtf? He got back with her? What a moron. Well I guess he’s crazy uncle for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:03 AM
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“Human centipede of poor decision makers” lmao that’s pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:58 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:58 PM
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You don’t seem to realize how common this is though. Also when this happened to me I was in my party phase and had a large group of friends who I’d party with every weekend. We’d drink, smoke weed, play sports with each other, go on vacations with each other. I wasn’t at all some nerdy boring nice guy who just worked and played video games. The thing was I just wasn’t an outright abusive pile of shit. I think women are hesitant to acknowledge just how many toxic women there really are who contri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:55 PM
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It’s not insanity when you’ve experienced it over and over and over and over again year after year after year in your life. Tons of guys experience the same thing. A lot of women just don’t want to acknowledge they have significant problems too just like men do. It’s hypocritical and a derelict of responsibility on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:44 PM
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When I was this age I was in my party phase. Very spontaneous and social, would go party with my friends every weekend. I wasn’t some boring nerd who just studied, worked, and played games. So I don’t think I fitted the “boring nice guy” stereotype. I just wasn’t an abusive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:42 PM
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Kinda disappointing but idk how surprised I am that only about 1 or 2 women actually responded to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:38 PM
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This is what confuses me with your post. I didn’t pedestalize her, I never saw her as a “goddess.” That’s ridiculous and I have no idea what I said in my post that makes you think that. I treated her decently like I do with anybody who I’m close to. I just wasn’t an outright abusive douche to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:31 PM
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Sorry bro I have no advice besides sympathy. People are fucking nuts, I have no advice or solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:05 PM
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I can tell it has fucked up my entire view of women, dating, romance in a very profound way. I believe it’s the reason why I feel uncomfortable and avoid women who flirt/show interest in me and instead I prefer the company of escorts/sex workers. I know how looney this sounds to people but I feel like I can only be affectionate and show kindness to sex workers, whereas with a regular woman I can’t be affectionate and kind to them because there’s a very deep bodily/lizard brain reaction I have of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:00 PM
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I didn’t get the impression of that dichotomy at all from the OPs framing. It came across to me he was just comparing two different kinds of guys and how they’re treated in relationships. It didn’t come across to me at all that he was saying guys only fall in one of those two categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:31 PM
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The only woman I’ve ever truly loved dumped me to get back with her ex who raped her and would hit her (before dating me). She was also willing to do a lot more sexual stuff with him than with me even though he was a drug dealing high school dropout and I actually treated her decently. I’ve had a lot of bad experiences in life (who hasn’t by a certain age) but that fucked up my self esteem and mental health more than anything ever has. Since that happened I’ve been incapable of feeling close to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:27 PM
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What are they typically jealous of and why are they shallow? Not attacking/arguing by the way, genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:18 PM
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“Dating apps are basically the hyperbolic time chamber training potentiator for hypergamy.” Hypergamy went super Saiyan yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:02 AM
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I agree with the OP. People by and large lack self awareness and I’m not excluding myself from this statement either. It’s why I don’t put a lot of weight on how people describe themselves when I first meet them. Their actions will tell you the truth and whether it actually matches with what they say or not. The pandemic has exposed the insanity of humanity more than I could have ever imagined too. People are even dumber and less self aware than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 08:40 AM
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Cool bro, I’m going to Thailand myself and can because I have a very healthy financial situation. Sorry about your engagement not working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:27 PM
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If you’re a wealthy;p/nerdy dude who women aren’t attracted to anyways. It makes a lot of sense to just pay for the young hottie temporarily. Better than dating a woman closer to your age/less attractive who pretends to be attracted to you but really likes you only for the stability and money you bring. She’ll probably divorce you eventually anyways out of boredom so what’s the point? When I was young my mom would tell me how awful old rich guys were who used their money to date younger hot girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:15 PM
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As a high functioning autistic man as far as I’m concerned all of you normies man or woman are insanely emotional and irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:04 PM
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Sounds like women straight out of FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:25 PM
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Lmao literally just yesterday I was put in a situation like this. I was at a gas station and this woman who obviously had something wrong with her (homeless, mental illness, idk but you can just tell) was being really rude and aggressive towards the cashier for no reason. Eventually she starts threatening the cashier with physical violence and asking him to fight. This woman is short and fat whereas the dude cashier was this very large and tall man. The argument between the two kept escalating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:17 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:10 PM
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“How is a hobby your personality” Autistics be like…..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:53 PM
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Many people do a lot of hook ups as an experimental phase to find what they like in a partner. Then after that they do LTR’s. But what about the large percentage of men and smaller but still important to acknowledge size of women that can’t do this hook up phase. They never get to experiment and find what they like (inb4 “I didn’t hook up and I knew what I like” yeah so? People are different) . They’re just expected by society to have a foundation of confidence and knowledge based on nothing. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:10 AM
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Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:14 PM
3

I’ve seen this before lmao poor schmuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:58 AM
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Lmao of course it’s his attitude, it always is 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:43 PM
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The other day someone posted a study from the UK that found over 50 percent of men ages 18-24 are sexless. That’s alarming, I had no idea it was that high. Women are destroying the fabric of society. Maybe those unhinged comments about unchecked hypergamy destroying societies actually have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:40 PM
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So you have your ex husband in your dating picture......... My comment needs no explanation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 07:23 AM
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You should watch the video. I’m not saying she’s a bad person. But seriously watch the video and her expectations are just ridiculous. Like she wants a 6 foot or taller man. It would be one thing if she were 5’9 or 5”10 saying that, but she’s disable and super short. It’s just ridiculous and yes I will mock people like her for having laughably ridiculous standards that make no sense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 07:21 AM
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Think you have to go to the 3rd world for that now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 11:10 PM
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Oh ya I’ve seen this before. He’s a better catch than her and she still doesn’t think he’s good enough lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 11:06 PM
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Seems accurate to me which is why I don’t want kids either. Honestly I’m surprised people still want kids 😂 f that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:58 PM
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I’m confused. How is she a single mom if she never dated? Or did she have a kid between the blog post then being 35 and 38 now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 11:45 AM
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Lmfao that awkward moment when you’re a trust fund guy.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:59 PM
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Ahh yes the classic “who hurt you” response. I’ve been told that so many times about things I haven’t even been hurt by/experienced. I’ve also been accused many times by women of being hostile when I literally felt no hostility/aggression at all. Funny thing is when I say this women will respond with that I am lying or must have been hostile without realizing it (thanks for disregarding my actual feelings and pretending you know me better than I do). The “who hurt you” thing again highlights the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:08 PM
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If what you’re saying about Michigan is actually true that’s straight up a human rights/civil rights violation on men. It’s a completely legal way for women to literally steal from men. Even if the child isn’t their own and they can prove it, it doesn’t matter if that’s what the mom put on the birth certificate when the child was born? That is theft and fraud period end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:36 PM
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I don’t think all women would react in the way I described. Every woman who cheats and possibly has a kid that isn’t the husbands/boyfriend/partner isn’t going to react in a stereotypical way. Rather what I meant is that I wouldn’t be surprised if there were plenty of women out there with kids who may/may not be their partners and they kind of just block that fact out of their mind/kind of just assume/base on faith that their kid has dads genes even if deep down in the back of her mind there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:10 PM
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It’s interesting. A few months ago I read an article on WaPost about paternity tests. I asked in the comments section why paternity tests weren’t just automatically given whenever a baby is born. I got ripped to shreds with the replies, a ton of very angry and hostile people towards my question. The disproportionate outrage made me feel suspicious of the users making the comments. Seriously though, why isn’t paternity testing automatically done whenever a baby is born? IMO it should just be done…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:55 AM
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I’m surprised a boss is allowed to demand you to cut your hair/wear makeup. Sounds like borderline if not outright harassment IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:34 AM
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My life would be the same. I’m a masculine guy, I like being a masculine guy because it’s just who I am. Wouldn’t change at all even if I felt more free to do girly things. I already get teased for things that I do that supposedly are girly/feminine which I think is dumb such as preferring fruity tasting alcoholic beverages, having a skin care routine, enjoys cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:33 AM
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It’s entirely possible, I have no idea. Idk if anyone has ever done a good study to try and estimate what percentage of kids don’t have dads genes. It’s something I’ve thought about before though. I bet it’s something kept under wraps by women, perhaps some of them cheated and don’t really know who the kids father is (their husbands or not) and would prefer to not know themselves. The women who do this probably feel more comfortable/less guilty in clinging to the hope that the kid is their husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:25 AM
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Lmfao most blue pilled naive response I’ve ever heard in my life. You don’t have to be a pessimist to see the nonsense that this comment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:39 AM
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Wut. Be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:25 AM
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Why? That seems like an enormous assumption/generalization about dating women who makes < income than a man does. I’m not doubting a certain percentage of women who don’t make a lot of $ date rich guys because of it, eventually fall out of love for whatever reason, and then divorce him. But for a certain percentage it doesn’t end that way. I personally would prefer dating a woman with less $ for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:44 AM
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Lmfao. Your last sentence is so raw but so true, legitimately laughed out loud irl reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:57 AM
2

“Two months later she was married to some other dude” Married someone only after knowing them for 2 months wtf that’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:45 AM
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In my experience being kind to your girlfriend doesn’t lead to anything good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:37 AM
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Oh wow you invest in index funds? You are wise my friend, I largely do the same (but I also use a some of my portfolio for stocks/options trading). But yeah def agree with you, low fee index funds are the smart way to invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:22 PM
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Good for you man. Hope you are investing your money instead of leaving it in a shitty savings account like my brother does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:09 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:00 PM
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You’re right, I am abnormal I have high functioning autism. Really you don’t care about the people you casually sleep with at all? I’m not saying you should love them or bend over backwards for them in anyway that’s silly. But really you don’t care at all? I hire escorts sometimes and I care about them at some base level/to a certain extent. I mean damn really you’d sleep with someone who you had literally zero interest in as a person? Even when I hire escorts I read their profiles and talk/get …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:57 PM
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shrug I think we just view things differently. That’s okay though you be you and I’ll be me 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:40 PM
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I don’t think you’re a normal person so I take back my last sentence. But seriously you do sound like a self centered person and I’m genuinely not saying that to insult you. Your posts literally come across that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:37 PM
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Your posts make you sound like a narcissist. You keep repeatedly talking about yourself, what you want, and that what any man wants who is with you doesn’t matter. Can you at least see how that would sound self centered and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:35 PM
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I think normal people with functioning compassion would care if they ruined someone’s life. But I have already figured out from your other posts that you’re a self centered narcissist who doesn’t care about anyone else but herself so you’re just being you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:15 PM
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If you give a woman special treatment she friendzones and disrespects you. That’s why we don’t do it, it has nothing to do with the woman not being good enough. It has to do with women being insane and everything is backwards with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:12 PM
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“Assertiveness is seen as Napoleon complex in short guys” As a 5’9 guy with a baby face.........this hit a raw nerve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:05 PM
2

You are too short bruh gotta be 7 feet 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:05 PM
2

Bruh you sound like a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:50 PM
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You’re a very strange person. Especially with that second paragraph. I certainly hope you’re an outlier and not a relatively normal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:47 PM
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You wouldn’t care if you ruined someone’s life? Damn you’re cold blooded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:45 PM
1

“In fact I’ve had guys come over and eat my pussy and then send them home” Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 09:13 PM
1

Not even a cleavage pic or lingerie/underwear pic? Ya idk we aren’t compatible with everyone I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:43 AM
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Interesting perspective. I can understand with the problem of revenge porn why women wouldn’t feel comfortable sending pics at all, I respect that. Some women are the complete opposite and put their pics on onlyfans. You can never really know how a woman will feel about it you just have to have good communication. Also yeah a constant stream of it would be annoying. But what about something more special/less common like where she really dresses up and takes very good photos but only on rare/spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:51 PM
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Perhaps this is a dumb question because I’m not that experienced with relationships (only have had a few that were no more than 6 months, haven’t been in a relationship in 7 years) but why do guys even watch porn in a relationship? In all of my relationships I didn’t even want to watch porn when I was in them. Instead I’d ask my girlfriend to send me pics of her and that was my jerk off material (I’d tell them why I wanted the pics) when I didn’t see her often enough and needed to get off. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:05 PM
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That’s interesting, I didn’t expect this but it does match me. I’m a guy, 30 years old have been drinking alcohol since 17. However I don’t drink often (once a week or once every other week) and even when I do I don’t get that drunk. For most of my 20s I didn’t drink at all. I’m def more of a 420 guy than an alcohol guy (don’t smoke tobacco/cigs at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:23 PM
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A lot of the time the kids end up disliking the step mother/father because they aren’t their biological mother/father. A lot of kids out of feelings of loyalty towards their actual mother/father will actively dislike and rebel against the step parent. Who the hell would want to deal with that bullshit? I remember being a kid and while I didn’t have step parents some of my friends did and I remember how the dynamic was more complex/confusing/not as close as a real mom/dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:14 AM
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It’s nothing personal or vindictive towards single mothers, it’s a matter of wanting different lifestyles. I don’t want to take care of a kid, I only would if the kid were mine or a niece/nephew if something happened to their parents. I expect there are plenty of women who feel the same way as I do with single fathers. They just don’t want to deal with kids unless they are their own/blood relative. It’s nothing personal even if it feels that way which I can understand since our society is kinda/…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:10 AM
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I’m high functioning autistic. Can confirm women haven’t been very big fans of me in my lifetime although I am grateful for having some experiences instead of zero/incel. About 10 years ago I was in a relationship with a girl I really loved, I guess I am so atrocious as an autistic she dumped me and preferred her rapist over me. Shit sucks bruh. Then again there are people born with physical disabilities, bad health problems, etc that I don’t have so hey it could definitely be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:39 AM
1

NN = Neural Network I assume? Why do you wanna go into animation? I’m assuming you’ll be using your other math skills with animation (linear algebra, multi var calculus maybe idk). Ahh I see. You write code with python or C or other stuff? Well I think you’re smart, def smarter than me. I’d feel privileged if I could do what you do for a living and the fact that you do it alone is even more impressive IMO. If you freelance and work online then you can probably travel wherever you want (or at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:53 AM
1

I would think high frequency trading algorithms is creative. Lots of programming and math? I studied math in college and options trading is my hobby although I’m a degenerate trader compared to the stuff you do. I’d imagine someone smart like you wants a job that is creative and analytical, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:46 AM
1

Wow....that’s impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:29 AM
1

😂👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:43 AM
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No. I’m sure I do check out some women my own age (Asian women look younger much longer for example so they can be hot).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:28 PM
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I never said ugly guys are more likely to be nice. I agree with you, there’s no connection between how a guy looks and how kind he is. I’ve met very good looking men who were kind/decent and I’ve also met ones who were absolute trash. Same thing with ugly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:27 PM
1

So roughly 1/5 marriages have an age gap 6+ years. My parents are 7 years apart (mom was 25 and dad was 32 when they met). They then married 2 years later and have been together for over 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:24 PM
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Nah that’s kinda cringe. When I say “treat women better” I don’t mean it in an overly chivalrous way I mean more like basic decency (being honest, being straightforward, responding to texts with a reasonable time, not insulting her, etc). What I’ve noticed with men is if I treat them with respect I’ll get treated with respect in return, if I’m straightforward and honest they reciprocate. Guys are easy to interact with. With women if you treat them with respect they start to look down on you and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:19 PM
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The men who treat women better are invisible or friendzoned lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:14 PM
0

People are free to date whoever they want. If you want to date a younger woman I don’t blame you, I’m the same way. I can tell at 30 years old I don’t even notice women my own age, pay zero attention to them. I’m strictly attracted to younger women, women around my age or older are pretty much invisible to me in a sexual sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:12 PM
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“People go after familiar partners” Yes and they are responsible for who they choose to date. It’s absurd to make a choice and then claim you’re somehow a victim forced to make that choice. Absolute childish bullshit victim mentality. All this “I’m a victim” bullshit is making people irresponsible and feel like they have no responsibility over their own lives because it’s someone else’s job to keep them safe and police.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:40 PM
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You need to assert yourself dude. I had the same problem when I was a teenager but I eventually figured out how to assert myself and that shit disappeared very quickly. Don’t let people walk all over you and if people tell you you’re an asshole or something, fine let them. People often call you names to manipulate you. They’re the asshole not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:38 PM
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This is what women tell themselves to absolve themselves from any responsibility. Guys can tell, we can tell who’s a douche and who isn’t. Women think they’re really good at vetting but they’re actually pretty terrible at it which is why it takes lots of women’s decades to finally have the light bulb turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:36 PM
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Oh bull shit. If a woman dates abusive guy after abusive guy she is doing something wrong and is partially responsible. Just because you’re a victim of something doesn’t mean you hold zero responsibility. Someone who is a clueless idiot is a victim too, they’re still responsible for being a clueless idiot A poor schmuck on Medicaid who votes for Republicans and then Republicans go on to remove their health insurance is not a “victim” he’s a dumbass who is responsible for screwing himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:32 PM
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The latter. I’ve met a lot of guys who look like bad boys (dark clothes, lots of tattoos, etc) but are not at all when you interact with them. Whereas I dress very clean cut (dress shirts, leather shoes, etc) and have a baby face but I’m kind of an asshole. It’s hard to judge a book by its cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:29 PM
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They do fuck before marriage. It’s just that the wife becomes uninterested once they marry. It’s like they use sex to lock a guy down and then once he is locked down they stop the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:16 PM
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Idk how common it is but I’ve heard from a number of married men that their wife’s sex drive plummeted after they got married. I always assume she married a beta she’s not turned on by and that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:48 PM
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Lets be frank. Women are the ones who fucked all this up. They teach all the bad lessons and incentives when we’re in our formative years when we’re more malleable. Women don’t make rational dating choices until typically they’re older but by that time we’re past our formative years and we have morphed into the man we will be, we have absorbed the lessons from our youth in which women prioritize men who are abusive aloof douchebags who don’t care about anyone else but themselves. Women are the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:43 AM
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=O I didn’t know you could do this. Wtf this is genius. I don’t like beer personally, but I like drinking mikes harder (not hard, harder) lemonade. It’s my alcoholic beverage. Damn I’ve always wanted to stroll around town and drink it, I’m gonna look into getting a coozie so I can do this. Thank you for telling me about this 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:00 AM
1

Where I live you can’t drink in public. I wish I lived somewhere where you could drink beer on a beach. Sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:37 AM
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Oops it just changed again. Now the percent is 99.9 percent 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:28 AM
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That’s also true with white people in my experience. With white women if she complains a lot about a particular guy, talks about how terrible he is, lots of drama then she’s probably fucking him. Whereas if a woman compliments a guy and describes how wonderful he is. There’s a low chance she is fucking him. With women everything is backwards, and then some of them wonder why men don’t listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:36 AM
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Lol just get taller bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:39 PM
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For me there was no single event or single story (although there was one in particular that was the most impactful), it was an accumulation of years of experiencing life. When I was a teenager and early 20s I had a thriving social life with a lot of friends and plenty of girl friends too, I dated, partied, hooked up here and there (but def not a chad). I consistently noticed that my much more morally questionable friends (by morally questionable I mean my friends who did hard drugs, got in troub…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:35 PM
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I doubt that. Women will just rationalize/hamster it some how. Sorry but there’s a reason why a lot of men don’t listen to women. Too much experience with women saying one thing and then doing the opposite in their actions. Eventually you realize women’s words don’t carry a lot of weight/conviction and they’ll change their mind at the drop of a hat. Honestly women’s brains are a lot like the previous US presidents behavior was like. Say one thing one day and then the next day say something total…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:02 PM
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You can judge whoever you want and no one can stop you from doing so. You don’t need to be “allowed” to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:59 PM
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I’m 30. Literally no interest in having a kid and have never been interested in having one. Idk why people even want kids they take away your free time and drain your resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:58 PM
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You’re wrong it’s not 30 a day it’s 300 a day 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:52 PM
3

30 men a day 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:51 PM
2

Orange orange orange. Someone likes orange. But hopefully not the orange 45
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:50 PM
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Lol smoking meth dawg some serious shit yo 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:48 PM
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Ahh yes I see, yes I totally agree with what you pointed out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:32 PM
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It means they’re statistically less likely to be faithful though, that’s the point. It’s all about probabilities and avoiding risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:28 PM
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Bad for long term relationships. Can’t pair bond because of high body count. Will compare you to past partners of hers and chances are because she’s promiscuous she is an alpha widow too. Promiscuous women are fun to be friends/hook up with but they are to be avoided when it comes to anything serious. Those are usually the three main reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:27 PM
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What? Hahaha I like your username by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:22 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:45 PM
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But but but
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:44 PM
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“Very few women would voluntarily be with a man” In my experience women have a PHD in convincing themselves that they are a victim forced to do something when no such coercion exists and is all in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:41 PM
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6’0 and 140 lbs? Damn bruh you’re skinny. I’m 5’9 and 175 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:33 PM
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Yes people often take the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:21 PM
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Those rapists and criminals I was picked over when I was younger must have done a lot of reps at the personality gym because they sure as hell didn’t do reps at a real gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:18 PM
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There’s probably more women who want to be sugar babies than guys who have the $ and are open to being sugar daddies. But no, I highly doubt sugar dating is taking over regular dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:06 AM
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I’m not mad at anyone lol. I just think it’s stupid to pay for something that is free but hey it’s not my money so whatever. There are people who buy 100k Pokémon cards, I think that’s stupid too but it doesn’t mean I’m mad at anyone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:03 AM
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I feel you, but IMO what you “miss” never actually was. It was a delusion, a lie that a lot of us men are fed when we’re younger. You know better now. I say just enjoy what you have and don’t take it too seriously. Build good memories with the women you hang out with. Don’t have any expectations for women, just have fun with them, enjoy the moment, and build good memories with them. Be grateful that you get to experience these things. Also now that you do know better, use that wisdom to avoid an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:46 PM
1

Good sense of humor is also very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:25 PM
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I agree with this. While looks are super important there is diminishing returns at a certain threshold. I.E most guys would rather be with a woman who looks like a 7 or an 8 and has a good personality than a 10 with a bad/mediocre personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:21 PM
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It happened to someone I know. I know a woman (a friend of an ex) who was with a guy for a long time. Like around 10 years or something and they were high school sweethearts. Guy gets a new job and finds a younger/hotter coworker who was interested in him. After only knowing this woman for like 2-3 months he breaks up with his girlfriend and gets with the hotter younger coworker. Shortly after that they get married and have a kid. Pretty fucked up man, feel bad for the woman who got dumped. Can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:18 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:14 PM
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As a man OP has a point. It’s pretty sad but there’s definitely truth to what OP is saying. But I also think it just highlights how important looks are for women. Looks are important for guys to but it’s not as deterministic as it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:13 PM
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Because you’re paying for something that can be free. At least with the other stuff you’re getting something more when you pay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:03 PM
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You have a way with words.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 07:59 PM
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“Paid whores” I hope one day sex workers are treated with more respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:51 AM
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Damn that actually sounds like something I legitimately wouldn’t want to hear about. Good to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:14 AM
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Summa cum loudly hahaha bruh 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:09 AM
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“A+ at attracting emotionally unavailable men” I have an A+ in running away from women who are attracted to abusive men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:09 AM
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It’s arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:05 AM
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I see what you’re saying but can men dying early really explain the large gap between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:40 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:37 AM
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Weird how only 20 percent of men 65 or older are single but 50 percent of women are. I had no idea so many old women were single and that the disparity between men and women at that age is that large. The gap between young single men and women isn’t as big as the gap between old men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:53 PM
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It’s so amusing because my brain is just so different. To me lying takes more effort, manipulation seems like a giant pain in the ass. I think being honest and genuine is a lot easier/takes way less effort. Me being honest isn’t because I’m a good person it’s because it’s just easier to be honest IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:48 PM
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You must live in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:43 PM
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Lmao wtf communist incel 😂 fucking weird mate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:32 PM
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These graphs are misleading. The last time I got laid was in Jan 2020 right before covid. If this survey would have asked me if I had sex in 2020 I’d say yes and hence I’d be considered “sexually active” even though I only did the deed in January before the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:19 PM
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“You’re surrounded by the wrong people” “The wrong people” is just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:41 PM
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Holy shit do I relate to this comment so much. As an autistic person myself the manipulative and constant lying nature of normies......my god you mother fucking normies lie so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:36 PM
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You’re ready to settle down as soon as you have a kid? More like you’re looking for a meal ticket.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 10:10 AM
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Wait what? She wants a guy who will “let me do whatever I want” but also a man who is protective and jealous? Lmao k. Woman is clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 10:05 AM
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Why does this topic keep getting brought up. Fact of the matter is two (or more) people who are 18 years or older can date and have sex with each other legally and there is nothing anyone can do to stop that from happening. If you want to date an age range some people don’t approve of, well so the fuck what? And why are you seeking validation from random people online lol who ducking cares what they think? Live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:14 AM
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Wtf is up with the dads? Jesus I know I’m not competent enough to be a dad (I have the resources but not the maturity) so at least I have the decency of not becoming one. I really don’t understand people who have kids “just cause” and put little/no thought into it. They’re bringing another life into this world, one that will suffer if you don’t know how to raise them correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:01 AM
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Your cousin seems like a ticking time bomb. If he’s willing to overstep the boundary of stealing someone’s pet (that’s seriously fucked up, to a lot of people a pet is loved as much as a family member) sooner or later he’ll overstep other boundaries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:05 AM
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Wtffff that’s so sad. Wow that story has no happy. I hope she gets her dog back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:25 AM
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Why does he hurt? Does he miss her? That’s terrible, why did he steal her dog that’s fucked up and that’s illegal/animal abuse. I can see why she left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:12 AM
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Hey for an autistic 2 full years is pretty good, he probably made good memories with her that he’ll be grateful to have experienced. The best I’ve ever done in a relationship is 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:43 AM
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A lot of us have moms who fed us BS and lies and then had fathers who lack backbones/didn’t guide us and just go along with whatever their wife wants. This fits me. Mom fed me a lot of lies, I’m high functioning autistic and something common with people with autism is we take things at face value more than normal people. Luckily I figured out that my moms advice was not reliable by the time I was in my late teens through experience. Could have certainly been worse, I’ve heard a lot of men not fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:16 AM
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And to whom does that reflect badly on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:06 AM
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What if older men want to date younger women because they themselves (the man) is immature/inexperienced compared to women his own age so they feel like they vibe more/have more in common with younger women? I find it weird this is never considered as a possibility despite the simultaneous claim that a lot of men are immature for their age. If a lot of men are immature compared to women their same age, wouldn’t those men wanting to date younger women not only make sense but also be advantageous …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:56 AM
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I don’t think everyone who plays games is a nerd. Far from it. It goes without saying nerds are the ones who spend hours on it a day/it’s a significant/the main hobby of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:10 AM
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Oh damn I don’t get carded for r rated movies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:06 AM
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I haven’t heard about this woke interracial dating thing you speak of. Cate to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:24 AM
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I wear leather loafers that look nice. Highly doubt it’s my shoes. I think it’s my face. I look much younger than I am. I have one of those innocent looking faces and my entire life people have treated me differently for it. I’m 30 and people frequently mistake me for being a college student. Just a few weeks ago I was in an elevator and one of my neighbors joked that I’m going out to go egg peoples houses (like I’m a teenager or something).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:21 AM
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Ha I don’t own any video game consoles 😂 If it’s universal I’m probably just being a baby feeling that way. It just brings back memories of being bullied in school when I’m assumed to be some big video game nerd even though I don’t know a fucking thing about what’s going on with video games these days. I played games when I was younger but that was 7+ years ago for me. I also want to clarify I don’t dress like a cringy nerd as well (sizes too large, cringy graphic tees, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:56 AM
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Yeah see that height gap just looks weird IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:52 AM
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When I say “frat boy” I don’t mean a literal guy who is part of a frat. I mean a guy who acts like a stereotypical “frat boy.” It’s the way they act/being a complete tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:52 AM
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Kinda a random question to ask you but I don’t play video games at all. However women for whatever reason assume that I do. I get annoyed/feel insulted when women assume I’m some video game nerd. Should I be offended or is it just so common for guys to play video games that women assume it’s universal among men? I feel like women my entire life have stereotyped me as a nerdy video game player because I’m 5’9 and have a baby face (but I’m not overweight/obese or stick thin) even though I’m not at…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:48 AM
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Damn you took this down a dark road lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:40 AM
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It’s none of my business in truth but at some point height gaps look really weird, like an adult dating a kid. An example of a height gap being way too big for example is when Kim kardashian married that tall white basketball dude (forgot his name). Go look back at old photos of them standing together, dude it just looks ducking weird when the height gap is that big. Of course I wouldn’t harass someone, but I’m not gonna lie if I saw a couple with a huge height gap like that in public I’d think …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:36 AM
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I don’t really care who women date as long as the guy they’re dating isn’t a complete fucking scumbag (I.E criminals, drug dealers, gang members, cringy frat/fuck bois, etc). If you’re dating a guy who is just a straight up garbage human or totally cringe (guys who try way too hard to be tough/wannabe gangster) hell yes I will judge you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:33 AM
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Most women are a fucking buzzkill bruh. They sap the fun out of things due to an over abundance of caution, not wanting to offend anyone, etc. Of course there are the occasional women who aren’t like this who are awesome 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:21 AM
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No self respecting man (person) wants to be a beta bucks with an older/same age woman. F that. If you are going to be a beta bucks there’s gotta be a worthy trade off (much more attractive younger woman for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:59 PM
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I like it when they borrow your sweatshirt and then when they give it back to you it smells all feminine in stuff. Just smelling it gives you this dopamine rush it feels good but it’s hard to explain how it feels but it’s something euphoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:19 AM
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I don’t think incels, right wingers, whatever necessarily are obsessed with genetics. Rather they simply acknowledge that it’s a relevant/important factor in life. It’s something the left has pretty much eliminated from their entire worldview which is obviously an absurd view of life. Of course genes matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:31 AM
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Sorry bruh I have depression too it hurts ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:25 AM
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I don’t see what there is to avoid. I mean it’s only a 1 minute video or so, so obviously I can’t judge her as a person but she seems in that 1 minute clip to be a completely normal/reasonable person. I mean she said she wants a guy to “spoil her” and she clarified that to mean to think of something fun to do. Like.....idk I don’t get what there is to criticize/avoid. That’s bare minimum IMO, I don’t think I’d want to date a woman who lacked self respect and was fine with a lame ass Netflix/chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:22 AM
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I don’t like lower back pain though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:13 AM
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It’s way easier for a woman to get a man than the other way around. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:57 AM
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FDS doesn’t like us “scrotes” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:46 AM
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Very true. Chad can be a violent maniac and won’t be broken up with/still loved but an average dude gets dumped for having the wrong colored shirt on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:37 AM
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Nah I think Republicans suck dick at economic policy and have no idea wtf they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:35 AM
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Oil is the same price now as it was in 2018 and I never heard any Republicans complain about gas prices then. Interest rates are super low right now, borrowing right now and investing for the future is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:29 AM
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Oh yeah I keep forgetting it’s illegal in most places since I live in a state where it’s been legal for a while now. Seems weird to me that weed would be illegal, it’s so normal where I live. Just the other day I was smoking a blunt and biking around town out in the open on a hot day (technically it’s illegal to smoke weed in public here but I live in a well off area where cops are virtually nonexistent/don’t care).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:46 AM
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I think a lot of people outside of the US have a better grasp of US politics than the typical Republican voter does. People who should know better often don’t in life. Sometimes outsiders can actually see things more clearly than people directly involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:39 AM
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All your standards are fine except being against 420. This is an outrageous injustice!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:33 AM
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That’s actually a really interesting point. So if I’m understanding you, what you’re essentially saying is that because women (not all but most) have only recently become the selectors and hence since they’re still new/inexperienced at it like with anything else you’d expect them to not be good at it and make a lot of mistakes/try to learn along the way. This is the case because women were not the selectors for thousands of years up until the last arguably few decades or so. Interesting point if…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:37 PM
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No idea. I’ve never even looked at a single OF page. I don’t understand why people pay when porn is free already but hey if idiots want to hand their money over more power to the ladies making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:34 PM
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That’s a fair point actually if you’re talking about the thousands of years before the present 😂 What if men who are predators are selected more now because predators in the past just raped women and thus propagated their genes more? A really fucked up thought but nature is really gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:31 PM
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That’s true. But I would assume women who have the best combination of looks/good with photos do the best. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:29 PM
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I like turtles
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:21 PM
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What do you mean? Women are nature. They’re the ones who literally decide who they have sex with/get pregnant by. Unless it’s rape which happens but I mean for most women that isn’t the case, most women chose to have sex and got pregnant that way. Women are literally the ones shaping natural selection. If they aren’t then who the fuck is Lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:19 PM
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Agreed. Women are being groomed to not even see themselves as agents capable of making choices in life. It’s like women are raised to believe that everything just happens to them and they have no control/responsibility over anything. It’s nonsense, destructive, and I would think a true feminist finds this attitude to be counterproductive. But idk I assume I’ll just get called names or something whatever 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:13 PM
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You just post naked pictures/videos of yourself. If you already are decent at taking pictures/videos which most women already are then it is an easy way to make income. Honestly those women who make a lot of money on OF have it made. I don’t pity them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:12 PM
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Depends how her screams and yells sound tbh. Sometimes it’s hot, sometimes it’s distracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:28 PM
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This is what I don’t understand about women. Y’all will break up/reject with a guy over the most random reason ever “On our date his shirt had a spot on it so I broke up with him” but you won’t break up with a guy who is physically doing something to you you don’t like. If you don’t like your boyfriend choking/soapy you in bed then tell him you don’t want him to. If he doesn’t listen, break up with him and find another bf. Women are crazy, their standards make zero sense. Break up with men over …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:26 PM
1

“Literally had zero to do with female selecting good genes” Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:18 PM
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Why? Someone who is above 6 feet in height has better height genes than I do because an overwhelming majority of women area attracted to tall men and I’m not tall (only 5’9). Some people are better than others, this “equality” BS is really confusing people and setting them up for a life time of disappointment when they discover the whole “equality” ethos is just cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:17 PM
1

Trying to change human nature will never work. Nature always wins out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:15 PM
3

Yeah It’s just terrible Terrible for both involved
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 05:51 AM
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That’s because there is something sexually attractive about abusive men. Maybe abusive men are better in bed or something? Whatever the reason is, women will lie and never tell us why. Maybe they don’t even know why they’re attracted to abusive men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 06:08 PM
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As soon as I start hearing a woman talk about abusive relationships, toxic relationships in her past I have already written her off and head for the exits. I dated a girl once when I was a late teen who I was madly in love with. She dumped me for the guy who raped her. It crushed my self esteem and emasculated me. Not going through that again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 02:15 PM
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Agreed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 02:09 PM
1

This would be useful. As soon as you see an abusive guy in the HOEFAX it’s time to head for the exit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 02:02 PM
1

Introverted guys need to wisen the fuck up. They’re targets for women who will prey on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:52 PM
1

So I guess that kid will grow up thinking the earth is flat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:38 PM
2

Bingo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:23 PM
1

Are you serious??? Homeless? With a daughter? 🤦‍♂️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 01:12 PM
1

Her entire self identity seems to be around being a Christian yet she admitted she wasn’t always “with the lord” or whatever. That is such a huge red flag of epic proportions. Guarantee you she’ll get bored of whatever desperate beta bucks decides to pick her up and she’ll leave him for another dirtbag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:58 PM
1

Graduated high school in 2018 has 4 kids Bruh.....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:54 PM
1

You’re in your 40s and you’re only talking about 4 men wtf did you expect?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:49 PM
4

“Mentions how nice and sincere the guy was” You know it’s already over for that guy after hearing that 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:43 PM
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She looks really good for 42. But yeah wouldn’t go near cause of the 2 kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:33 PM
1

Am I the only one who has a degree from a good school and isn’t proud of it? I studied mathematics at a prestigious school. I get complimented and told I should feel proud about it all the time when people learn this about me. I couldn’t care less about my stupid degree, in fact I kinda hate it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:31 PM
2

Feel bad for whoever she ends up “settling” with. She’s comparing you to a guy who is literally imaginary. Yeah good luck with that lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 12:27 PM
4

Exactly. Who wants to be a chump?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:04 PM
10

As a guy I wish more women had your attitude. Being honest and straightforward is so much easier and less stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:58 AM
3

There’s no way cow fish are actually real.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:20 AM
1

Oof I relate to this to an extent What I experienced wasn’t as extreme as this but I’ve had similar experiences growing up as a 5’9 man with a pretty boy/baby face who went through puberty a bit later than average. Sorry bruh, it’s tough. And you can’t really talk about this irl with people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:31 AM
2

Yes. It doesn’t even have to be something amazingly spectacular and it doesn’t really matter to me how talented she is at it. What matters though is she has some hobby or something she does and is working towards. I don’t understand people who have no hobbies besides Netflix and video games/watching sports. Idk it’s just unsettling to me when someone doesn’t have any hobbies. I wouldn’t want to date someone without hobbies because that means I’d have to entertain her all the time which is certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:39 AM
9

I can only speak for me but it depends. If she has a long term boyfriend or husband I can be friends even if attracted cause I’m not interested in being a home wrecker. If she’s super super hot, like way out of my league I have zero chance then I can be friends with them too because I know I have zero chance so I won’t feel bad for not even trying. The problem with being platonic friends with women comes when shes single/jumps relationship to relationship and is attractive but I believe I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:24 AM
12

This just seems cynical and mean spirited. Like....being a single mom seems hard enough. They’re already trying to raise a kid on their own and whatever happened to the father it wasn’t good (very few people willingly choose to be single parents, those who do are mental IMO lol). A lot of people already look down on single mothers. I wouldn’t date a single mom myself but I don’t dunk on them for being single moms or ridicule about how they aren’t “good enough.” being mean and unnecessarily negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:28 PM
1

I’m not denying what she said. I see a lot of guys here say really over the top things about women too. Just confused how it’s relevant to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:21 PM
2

What does this have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:49 PM
5

Bruh this topic just ain’t worth talking about. The same shit is always said over and over again. It’s like dealing with a hive minded parrot that just repeats the same talking points. It’s just like every time there’s a mass shooting in the US it’s always the same stupid arguments, everyone gets even more pissed off and frustrated, nothing ever comes of it. Rinse repeat. It’s a waste of time, I’ll be glad to say “I told you so” when this thread turns into a cluster fuck of stereotypical respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:48 PM
3

You for real? People mask you know, and a lot of people are good at it. Trust me I would know, as someone who is deeply depressed but people irl always think I’m happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:18 PM
1

Wtf....what a fucking loser. Throw that jackass in the middle of the ocean with a gun in his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:12 PM
1

It’s not worth it if I have to treat her poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:43 AM
1

But I don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:00 AM
4

The way I view it is this. If you’ve been lonely and single for an extended period of time you eventually settle into it and depending on who you are as a person the misery will vary. However there is a small possibility, a window of a chance that things could get better from here, maybe you will find that special someone or whatever. That hope, that possibility that things can get better actually in and of itself makes you feel better because hey things can only go up from here right? However i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:43 AM
2

Idk how debt works when you divorce. If you divorced you’d still be liable for all 50k as opposed to half like 25k?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:53 AM
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I’d agree with this. It seems like women are harder to satisfy in general and I don’t mean just mean in terms of relationships. This fact makes me wonder who the privileged sex really is. If men are more privileged why do so many men grow up with so little expectations and are gracious to have so little compared to what makes a woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:42 AM
0

But then if you don’t treat them like crap they get bored/lose respect in you and cheat or leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:38 AM
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Based. Also this is what the marriage is like between my parents. My dad has a full time job and works around the house constantly. My mom is a stay at home mom, she does some chores, but honestly throughout my whole life my dad was the one who worked much harder. My mom thinks she works harder than my dad and does more work which is just completely wrong. My dad has to work every weekend on the house when he never really wanted a house as big as they have only got it because my mom wanted it bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 11:04 PM
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Marriage seems terrifying. The thought of being with this one person for the rest of your life.....idk it just seems suffocating and scary to me. Like seriously I’m less afraid of dying alone as a loser. A lot of people think dying alone is the worst thing that can happen. Maybe I’m biased because I’m an autistic weirdo but I strongly disagree. Being in a sour marriage seems more terrifying to me. A bad divorce can completely destroy a persons sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:45 PM
3

Women are pickier and in general have more complicated needs in a relationship than a man. The result of this is more often than not if at least one person in the relationship is dissatisfied it’s more likely to be the woman. Or maybe when men are dissatisfied in a marriage they are more likely to go the lazy route and just cheat/have an affair instead of divorcing? Honestly I don’t know the reason, but that’s the first thought that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:38 PM
2

Selena Gomez is really cute, but I’m meh about her personality. She seems nice enough but too sensitive/serious IMO so ultimately while cute not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:23 PM
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If you don’t want to be someone’s emotional tampon then don’t be. Don’t listen to them when they talk to you about their issues. For a short period in my teens when I first started dating and was clueless I too was the “emotional tampon” guy. I quickly learned to set boundaries and assert myself. I have lost friends before for doing this and I’m okay with that. It’s your choice to be an “emotional tampon” and it’s also the choice of the other person to not be friends with you if you want do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:03 PM
11

We’re always presumed to be guilty bruh. We’re not trusted and assumed to be guilty even when we haven’t done anything. Our mere existence is a threat and makes us guilty for the crime of being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:04 PM
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I don’t mean to be disrespectful to her because I have a lot of respect for her, but AOC is a beautiful woman IMO. Not only is she pretty but she’s also smart, talented, uncorrupted (by big campaign donations), and vocal about her beliefs. Also she looked super cute and it was hot when she grilled mark zuckerberg and had those big glasses on 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:24 PM
2

Mitt Romney has different views but I don’t question his mental sanity. It’s not about differing views, it’s about Trump cult not living in reality/a complete denial of basic facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:14 PM
1

I’m pretty much the same. Lefty on most issues but the overly SJW stuff is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:12 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:11 PM
3

I disagree. Who you put into office actually matters, they make policy decisions that actually matter and have an impact on people’s lives. People should be more politically involved and aware, I don’t agree with your pessimistic attitude towards politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:02 AM
2

Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:25 AM
2

I can somewhat relate to why he was elected in 2016. My politics at the time were very “anti establishment” at that time. I think a lot of people felt the same way and Trump appealed to that sentiment. Luckily I didn’t vote for him in 2016 (or 2020). Even though I sympathized with his anti establishment/politician rhetoric at that time, he was just a nut bag and an obvious liar, had no grasp of policy details, was obviously a showman. That’s good what your mom did. I was able to convince my brot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:21 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:17 AM
3

Stupid, dishonest, ignorant. All of them fit in at least one of three categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:14 AM
1

Idk how 70 million Americans voted for the orange baboon after his absolutely horrible Covid 19 response. I mean his 4 years in office were already bad, but the covid 19 response was really the slam dunk of fuck ups in world history idk how anyone voted for that fucking moron in 2020. Amazingly my parents voted for him “law and order” “immigrants” yeah I don’t get it. Voted for Biden couldn’t be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:12 AM
2

What you wouldn’t date Jewish space laser lady?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:09 AM
5

People who have no interest in politics/the world/current events are boring. I don’t understand people who’s lives center around some combination of video games, watching sports, Netflix, celebrity gossip. Don’t they ever have some existential crisis.......like everything they focus on is ultimately of no significance since it’s all made up entertainment. There’s a lot of people like this, idk I can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:08 AM
0

Agreed. MAGA morons don’t live in reality, they live in some incoherent Trump cult fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:59 AM
2

I agree with what you have said 100 percent. That third paragraph really nails it in terms of what I like in a woman. Some how she can correctly balance being feminine, caring, etc while having that sass and combative side to her. I can’t explain it but there’s something really attractive when a woman has that sass to her but it isn’t overbearing. Sometimes when a woman “puts me in my place” it makes me smile and kinda turns me on tbh 😂 Not that I’m saying you deserved to be treated poorly when …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:50 AM
3

I question the mental state of anyone who voted for that orange clown. It’s one thing to have voted for him in 2016, however in 2020 there was no excuse to vote for him after 4 years of an absolute disaster of a president and who fucked up the covid 19 response beyond comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:27 AM
5

Republicans love being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:23 AM
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So am I. I have depression, high functioning autism, etc. The only person I’ve ever thought about seriously harming is myself. So yeah I didn’t mean to imply people with mental illness are inherently dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:00 AM
1

Yes. Absolutely. I follow politics closely and it’s very important to me. In a concise way my standards are no Trump supporters, no overly religious women, no SJW/crazy left women. I think besides that I’m open minded. These days though I really question someone when I learn they are a Republican since that party is Trump cult now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:53 AM
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Maybe I did when I was younger. As I get older though I find myself becoming a more self centered person. I don’t mean I dislike or am hostile to others, just mean I’m more focused on myself, people I care about, and don’t really care about random strangers or the rest of the world for that matter. So am I protective to strange women who I don’t know? No, I barely even acknowledge strangers or even look strangers in the eyes anymore tbh I kinda just treat people I don’t know on autopilot if I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:38 AM
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Elliot Rodger was a fairly good looking dude (his face definitely above average) but he had a history of mental illness. I think his parents were well aware of his issues. I bet women picked up on that and that is why he was rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:25 AM
2

Who believes this BS I mean really? Are people this naive? Woman dates hot guys has lots of sex with them, marries and settles for an average looking/not bad boy guy and the sex dries up. It’s not because he isn’t washing the dishes every night after dinner 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:39 PM
2

You keep talking over what he’s saying instead of addressing it.... It comes off as disingenuous, like you see the validity of what he’s saying but don’t want to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:35 PM
2

Wow this thread triggered a lot of people. Good job OP you touched a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:15 PM
2

I’ve only ever been able to get two kinds of platonic friendships with women to work out. The first is when I had no attraction to her at all (unfortunately these ladies often would end up becoming attracted to me even though I’m not attracted to them but then attracted to women who aren’t attracted to me, story of life lol). The other was when the woman was not only already taken but so obviously out of my league that I’d never been bother trying. I can be friends with these kinds of women too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:36 PM
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I’m confused by this and I’m a guy. So there are men out there who will have sex with a woman who they don’t find physically attractive? That sounds so alien to me, if I’m not attracted to someone I don’t want to do anything sexual with them. Hugs and even cuddling is fine with women I’m not attracted to, but anything beyond that is gross if I’m not attracted to them. Men actually have sex with women who they don’t find attractive? Where is the fun if you aren’t attracted to them I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:08 AM
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Don’t know if this is what OP is looking for but I’m 30M and hire escorts. Short version of why is I’m high functioning autistic. I have money but women never really liked me. I wasn’t incel/no experience before hiring escorts but was never really that successful with dating was used a lot, cheated on, etc. Also I was abused when I was a teenager for a couple of years which left me with trust issues, mental health (depression), and self esteem issues I still struggle with. I just feel more comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:38 AM
4

This is a debate topic? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:05 PM
3

So effect is a noun/pronoun and affect is a verb?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:50 PM
2

Notice too much? That doesn’t sound inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:29 PM
7

I have a feeling we’re going to see a massive increase in male suicides over the next 2-3 decades. When I see how boys are being raised today I can’t help but feel sorry for how screwed they are when they get older, they are being mislead on so much they will grow up bitterly disappointed when they have to accept the truth and reality that their parents, school, the entire society lied to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:09 PM
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This is how I feel and it legitimately effects/affects (can never figure out which one is correct lol) my mental health and self esteem. I didn’t always feel this way but I’ve felt it more and more strongly recently. I don’t feel welcome anywhere I go, I always feel like I’m unwelcome anywhere there is women because I’m automatically perceived to be a potential threat. I wonder if other men feel the same way? It sounds self centered to make it about myself but it’s just how I feel. It also doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:05 PM
8

Why is everyone such a fucking degenerate weirdo on this subreddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:36 AM
3

Both of you aren’t even listening to each other and just talking over one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:34 AM
3

You’re surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:56 AM
1

God damn you’re getting interrogated like you murdered someone wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:39 PM
1

Put it on a conveyor belt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:35 PM
3

Cheating is never a good thing. That said there are situations where I can understand why the person cheated (dead bedroom, abusive relationship, etc). Although it’s always better to just end a bad relationship instead of dragging it on with cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:09 PM
0

If you think orphans are so wonderful no one is stopping you from adopting them and taking care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:06 PM
1

You can’t tell I’m being sarcastic with my post? Idk if I blame you though we are on PPD after all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:59 PM
3

It’s not logic it’s just a feeling. Raising my own kid is something I already wouldn’t want to do, raising someone else’s kid is an absolute nightmare. Pets are cool though, I’ve owned a lot of pets in my life and always made sure they were well taken care of, vet visits, etc. Pets and kids aren’t remotely the same. One is just a dumb animal that is easy to take care of and is a loyal companion. The other is a human being you have to raise. Yeah I wouldn’t want to be a godparent but I doubt anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:58 PM
2

YES All women. Every single one of them All 3.5 or 4 billion individual women on the planet. Not one deviates from AWALT yo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:56 PM
6

You are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:48 PM
0

I wouldn’t foster or adopt a child to begin with. That is literally like my worst nightmare. Taking care of a kid that isn’t mine. I’d legitimately prefer to kill myself than be responsible for some other fuckwits DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:47 PM
1

Seems reasonable to me. Why would anyone want to raise a child that isn’t their own unless it’s their nephew/niece or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:46 PM
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I can’t speak for the “manosphere” (idk about you guys but this is the only place I really pay any attention to gender politics) I can only speak for myself. I often hear this from women, that they feel judged by others for either being childless and/or not married after a certain age. I’ve always found that odd because as a man it’s something I don’t experience. I’m 30 but I don’t get judged as far as I can tell when people ask me if I’m married/have children and I give a no answer to both. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:31 PM
1

Probably. The internet is really good at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:24 AM
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More people in general will be single in the future, not just men. Also I forgot where I read it but I was shocked to find out that 50 percent or so of women above 50 or 60 or something are single. Which honestly is mind blowing. If that gets even worse, bruh that’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:50 AM
3

A lot of answers in here but I didn’t really hear this one. A common one is that single people just get set in their ways after a while and don’t really feel comfortable being in a relationship because it would mean they’d have to change their lifestyle, make compromises, simply get used to being around someone all the time, etc. Being in a relationship takes work and if you have been single for a long enough period of time you just get used to it and comfortable. We also experience loneliness s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:40 AM
2

This debate is really annoying after a while. I hear it over and over again and it’s just the same things repeated back and forth. Some guys don’t treat themselves right in their 20s but do in their 30s and look better, some guys age slowly due to good genes/self care and others don’t, some guys have been plagued with a baby face but may actually make them look better in their 30s than their 20s, some guys have good hair genes and don’t experience hair thinning/balding until later others experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:19 AM
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2011 is a 10 year old study and the data they used may be even older than that. A lot has changed that has without a doubt impacting dating and sex the past decade. Does it make sense to use a study this old?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:12 AM
1

That makes perfect sense. That is why housing has gone up so much in the past year them interest rates have been super low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:56 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:42 AM
1

I don’t understand what you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:09 AM
2

Apparently everyone lives in San Francisco in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:39 AM
2

0 I don’t have any debt 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:27 AM
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I just think people look better without tattoos. I think everyone looks better without tattoos, not just women but men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:20 AM
2

Even if his success is due to his height and being white like.....damn be happy for the guy or at least try to be for a few minutes......dude didn’t even kiss or hold hands until he was 28. Just be happy for the fucking guy lol bunch of bitter jaded assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:39 PM
5

I think he had a history with mental illness. It definitely was his mental problems. The guy wasn’t at all bad looking or ugly, I’m sure plenty of women thought he had a nice looking face. Too bad mental illness can cripple people. I struggle with it myself but luckily my issues are non violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:27 PM
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I don’t think he’s particularly good looking either (I’m a guy) but he is very tall and white so that definitely helps a lot. Idk why some people are calling him a chad tho, doesn’t look like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:23 PM
2

That’s me. I can’t tell when or if women are flirting because I always just assume they’re being nice to me. I actually just had something happen to me the other day. I went to a grocery store to get breakfast and the woman cashier who rang up my items asked if she could come home with me to eat breakfast. I just took it as a joke and asked her which of the items I bought she’d like me to cook for her and she told me. I went on with my day after that exchange. I believe she was just making frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:16 PM
4

I’m surprised that a tall white dude went 28 years without doing anything, not even kissing or Hand holding? Not even once? Damn. I’m a 5’9 piece of shit and even I managed to kiss at 13. I don’t even remember the first time I held hands with a girls. Damn 28 years. That’s crazy but good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:09 PM
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she can always lie and you’d never know. A lot of people lie about their pasts it’s not some paranoid concern. In addition I’ve even heard many people say that even asking N count or about their partners in the past is “insecure.” But how can you possibly know without asking them and them giving an honest answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:29 AM
2

Aha I forgot about that concept but it is a crude summary of what I’m pointing and yes that’s one of the issues with higher N counts. But I wonder, is what I’m feeling and pointing out here “insecurity” or is it just being realistic and not naive? Maybe men who ignore these things are just naive. It’s often claimed to be an insecurity, but is it? Or is the skepticism warranted not based on paranoia stemming from insecurity but rather life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 08:07 AM
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You said something here that caught my attention. I’ll make myself vulnerable in this post and admit an insecurity I have (and I suspect many other men have which makes it a useful thing to address), I’m curious what your response is. You said that sex with an attractive man can be “more emotionally damaging if she catches feelings.” In addition you tell your friends to be careful casually having sex with attractive men. Why? Why is it potentially more emotionally damaging? The insecurity I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:26 AM
1

It ultimately depends on how good it is. It could turn into a real problem though. It’s ripe for addiction problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:28 AM
9

I have never pretended to be someone I am not. However in high school at one point I did pretend to have a girlfriend and completely made her up to make the actual girl I liked jealous. Like in other words my so called girlfriend was an imaginary person who’s name I just made up, made up every detail about her, etc. Yeah it’s pretty cringe looking back but it was the phase I went through high school where both the girl and I liked each other but were too afraid/insecure to say it or make the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:16 PM
4

Someone needs to make a topic on the elephant in the room.............Bill Gates........
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:30 AM
5

Why do women complain about being oppressed by men but are absolutely hungry for men who abuse them and are dominant over them? They have no interest in men who don’t oppress them. The whole thing is just so contradictory and confusing. You really just can’t take women at their word. They gaslight and contradict their own words with their actions way way too often to be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:48 PM
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Women seem to think men don’t want to commit because they just want to fuck around, get all the benefits of a relationship without commitment, are immature/childish or something like that. What I don’t think they consider is that maybe men are afraid to commit because they’ve had so many bad experiences in the past being the commitment/relationship kind of guy whereas they’ve had much more pleasant experiences just having short term flings with women and not really caring. Women themselves incen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:34 PM
5

I’ve heard this before. It could be true idk. However I have dated plenty of women who have backgrounds you’d expect wouldn’t make them have these problems (both parents in healthy marriage, grew up in a relatively well off area, has friends/support network, etc) and it was the same. Of course you never know what is actually happening behind the scenes in a household, but even when you eliminate the red flags it still ends up being the same so honestly I just gave up trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah I don’t relate to what those guys said at all. I just like to get along and find someone who I can have fun with and have a good time, no negative vibes, no mind games, no drama, etc. I really dislike the whole power struggle/“the hunt”/“the game” I always just wanted someone that I could have a good time with and be comfortable with. I just wanted to find someone who I could have a civil disagreement over in which I won’t be judged negatively for being reasonable. I have boundaries and I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:12 PM
1

If you want a traditional wife who will just be a supportive wife and mother it’s best to look for them in different countries. I think more men should do this but the thing that really bothers me about recommending this is that I don’t want a man who’s had bad experiences with women in the West to take out their anger/frustrations on a good woman from another country who is powerless. If a guy actually does find a good woman who is willing to be their girlfriend/wife I really hope men have grat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:53 PM
1

Damnit, I keep making this mistake. My bad. I need to read titles and actually think derp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:27 PM
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Well I have already dropped out of the whole dating scene so it doesn’t really matter now anyways. Also idk if I already said this but after the pandemic is over I plan on traveling and dating women from other countries possibly finding a new country to live in permanently. I have a job that allows me to be a digital nomad. So I haven’t given up entirely it’s just that I see it as I’m ending a chapter in my life and moving onto something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:12 PM
13

I don’t think women like my mom are easy to find tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:08 PM
2

Very very important in my experience. I’d know because when I used to date that was one of the biggest problems I had. I was “boring” because I was straightforward and honest, didn’t play games, wasn’t into the whole “wait x hours to text her back to not appear desperate” thing. I had to play mind games and overall just be inconsistent to keep a woman interested. It also doesn’t help that I have hobbies most people find boring and can’t relate to. Most guys watch sports or play video games. I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:37 PM
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I’m in the same boat. My parents have had a successful marriage for almost 40 years. I grew up in a household where both my mother and father respected each other, could workout their disagreements civilly without fighting, no violence, no emotional abuse, no yelling at each other. It’s a good thing and I’m happy for them but it really did give me unrealistic expectations of what dating is like. When I was younger and more impressionable I thought I’d be able to attract women by behaving like my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:16 PM
5

Yes they’ll get sex/really low quality dates from men who aren’t even attracted to them. There’s a point at which the sex/dates are so bad it’s not even worth it. It’s like getting a blowjob where you feel the woman’s teeth too much. It just kills the experience to the point that jerking off alone is preferable. In addition as I pointed out ugly women get none of the benefits of being a woman but all the cons, still has to worry about getting assaulted, still is judged by her appearance and noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:07 PM
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Oh I agree. Its demoralizing though when it happens over and over again. A person only tries something so many times before they throw in the towel. That’s what I’ve done....kind of. After I get vaccinated for covid 19 however and depending on how international travel is (doesn’t look optimistic so far, may have to postpone another year) I plan on traveling over the summer and possibly finding another country to stay in permanently. My job allows me to be a digital nomad. I’m going to try and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:54 PM
4

Don’t take it personally. I made a thread about sex robots recently and most of the people responding didn’t understand or really seem to even read what I wrote. A lot of us are dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:28 PM
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You could try it once and see how you like it. Since it’s an escort he probably would (at least I’d hope so) put in the effort to make you orgasm. I’m glad you have ways to express your kindness. I used to have pets but I have issues with allergies and I’ve noticed my health is better without pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:27 PM
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Disagree. Ugly women have it the worst by far. They get all the cons of being a woman without most of the pros being a woman since almost all of women’s advantages over men in life derive from their appearance and the social privileges they can leverage with their beauty. Ugly women are so disadvantaged no one ever talks about them besides to dump on them. Ugly women’s perspective is completely and totally absent in our culture. Movies are made about ugly men conquering something and gaining sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:14 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. Idk how much those experiences have hurt you but they have unalterably damaged my self esteem and mental health. If it has hurt you a lot I’m sorry, I know how confusing the conflicting signals, constant gas lighting is. I think I’m permanently broken because of it. I think this has harmed me a lot because one of my personality traits in life is that I like being kind and nurturing (but I also like to be respected which is where in my life the problem has always r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:40 PM
21

Damn that’s crazy and sad IMO. Like damn if I had a wife and died, I would understand her being single for a while. But eventually I’d want her to move on with her life and find another guy to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:30 PM
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I think she’s implying that the women in the relationship didn’t think part of the deal was the guy not progressing/being boring. A thing I hear over and over and over again from women is that guys put more effort in the beginning and then slowly over time they either stop trying or worse become abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:27 PM
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How is it news that celebrities, rich guys have access to hot women? Like yeah no shit Sherlock lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:22 PM
8

You experienced the same thing but with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:57 AM
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Who would you rather be, the woman who gets to judge men for not being good enough or the man who is never good enough in the eyes of any woman? Would you rather be in a position to call men creeps or be in a position where any expression of closeness/intimacy/interest is deemed “creepy” by others? Women have the position of power and leverage which is better than the position of having no power your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:52 AM
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This isn’t a claim about women in general or even women at all rather it has just been my personal life experience with women. In my personal experience with women they lose interest and respect in you when you do what they want you to do. The minute you go from that just FWB friends phase to the more serious BF phase where you start treating her more than just a friend/hook up she loses interest. As soon as you start doing any favors for her at all she loses respect. As soon as you start listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:41 AM
1

Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:30 PM
3

Yes but a lot of people don’t even invest at all. They just keep all their savings in some crappy savings account because their parents told the, stocks are “gambling” which is ignorant. The problem with listening to our parents is that they grew up when interest rates were much higher. However due to Fed policy interest rates have been low for 2 decades so savings accounts are a bad investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:06 PM
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I’ve heard online before that very attractive women rarely ever get approached by men because men are intimidated/assume they’ll be rejected. However women who are not super attractive but are more attractive than average get the most attention from guys. As a guy this makes sense with my behavior. If I see a really conventionally attractive woman I don’t even bother considering talking to her. I feel way more comfortable talking to women who are average or below average in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:03 PM
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Everyone who has savings should be putting it into the stock market and not using a crappy savings account. A lot of parents have given their children bad advice by claiming investing in the stock market is “gambling.” Not true if you invest in diversified securities like an ETF. If you’re ignorant of stocks/investments and don’t want to bother learning or paying attention the easiest thing to do is to buy the ETF which is just an index for the S&P 500. The ticker is SPY. If you want to invest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:46 PM
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I find it unfortunate that so many people do not invest in stocks because they see it as “gambling.” Putting your money in a savings account that pays 1 percent interest is crap. Way better to invest in a passive index fund/ETF like SPY which is just an index of the S&P 500.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:38 PM
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Your last sentence is right. Doesn’t really matter what I think anyways shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:04 AM
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I’ve seen your comments a few times in this thread. You even started attacking another user and then caught yourself that you responded to the wrong person. Sorry but I think the person you’re talking to is right, you’re perceiving hostility that isn’t there. You seem like the hostile one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:53 AM
1

Lol you think most incels are drop out neets? There are a lot of incels who are ordinary people with jobs you would never guess. People often assume I’m some party animal when I’m actually an introverted shut in, I did party when I was younger but haven’t in a long time. Also I don’t think $500 is a lot of money but that’s a subjective question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:13 AM
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People are weird. I grew up in a stable household where my parents respected each other. They would disagree but were able to be civil with each other while disagreeing. As a result I have the same attitude. I’m not afraid of confrontation, I can agree to disagree with people just fine. I can disagree and not take things personally, good at constructive criticism. However petty drama and fighting over small/dumb things is literally the polar opposite of what I find “exciting.” It’s annoying and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:05 AM
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Oh I see. I think those 2 things will be true. Attractive people won’t be as valuable as they are now and yes I do think it will be a good enough solution for a lot of men to solve their sexual frustration and loneliness. It isn’t optimal but it will be good enough to help a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:17 PM
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Yes many would if you add in a lot of context such as How much time the guy has to invest to find a woman who wants to sleep with him. How many rejections, blows to self esteem/mental health can the guy take before he throws in the towel. For attractive men these hurdles are easier to pass with a higher percentage success rate. For most men however success rate is very low despite having to invest at least some time towards dozens of women. Some men will simply calculate the pros/cons and costs …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:08 PM
1

No one is arguing that the VR is as good as the real thing. Idk why you keep repeating otherwise as if to imply I’m arguing that VR would be as good as the real thing. It doesn’t have to be as good as the real thing for it to be massively adopted. That’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:59 PM
1

Agree to disagree. I think the technology will be more significant than you’re giving it credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:57 PM
1

$500 is nothing wtf you talking about 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:35 PM
5

How is covid vaccine relevant to this sub lol wut. That said I’m having a hard time getting my appointment for my vaccine. Everywhere is booked/full close to where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:29 PM
1

Story of my life bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:27 PM
2

Lol my man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:13 PM
1

Ugh people aren’t even reading my thread. It doesn’t matter what the sex dolls/robots look like because you’d be looking at them through augmented or virtual reality so the appearance would be an avatar. I think my idea is cool but it appears people lack my enthusiasm and just think I’m talking about regular/boring sex dolls/robots. No it’s sex robots combined with augmented or virtual reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:10 PM
1

No we’re all around the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:58 PM
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It’s funny because I used to never even notice or think about my height either until the whole 6 foot craze happened on dating apps and social media. Since then I’ve become self conscious of my height. I think I was just blissfully ignorant before 2 years ago. My height has probably always held me back I just never noticed it because women don’t tell you the real reasons they reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:57 PM
2

I’m a 30 year old guy. My hair shows no signs of balding or a receding hairline. However my dad started losing his hair and it got thinner in his late 30s. I wonder if there are things I can do before the balding starts happening to prevent it longer. I’m afraid because my hair is one of the few things I’ve consistently gotten compliments from women on in my life. If I lose my hair I’ll just have even less of what I already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:45 PM
2

Honestly I’d have more respect if they were just honest. I don’t like fake and phony people, I have more respect for someone if they’re just open and honest even if I disagree with them. It shows they can be genuine and honest which is more trustworthy than a goodie good liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:42 PM
1

Am I right or am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:34 PM
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This is exactly what I mean. I’m confused by why people are having a hard time understanding me. Did I do a shitty job explaining my point or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:29 PM
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Too bad I have a thing for the shorties. There’s something really endearing about a short woman that taller women just don’t have. I wonder if women have the same feeling except with taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:03 PM
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You a guy? If so.....bro idk wtf you want me to say reality is fucked 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 03:01 PM
1

Dude those guys are fucked. Not even going to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:37 PM
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Average isn’t good enough when you’re up against the 80 / 20 rule dawg. In this day and age average is perceived as below average. Just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:32 PM
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I’m 5’9 as a man. I really don’t think I should have kids and my height is a big factor why. I don’t want to pass those problems if I were unfortunate enough to have a son. I think being realistic about your own genes is being responsible. I don’t see it as self victimizing or hating it’s just being real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:25 PM
2

Ha that’s actually pretty funny but not a bad point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:24 PM
1

People get bored of sex with their own partners too after a while. If you do anything repetitively enough it’ll get boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:23 PM
1

Lol it’s already like this to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:21 PM
2

Yes we should listen to what a pop psychologist says on climate change and climate models. I’m sure Peterson is well read on the physics and math behind climate change models LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:03 PM
1

Both of you are missing the point entirely. In fact a lot of people don’t understand what I said, perhaps my fault but whatever. Anyways my point isn’t that people would enjoy having sex with a robot VR thing more than a real person (although maybe deep into the future that could happen when AI is very advanced but that’s too long to be relevant anytime soon), rather it’s a matter of ease of access. Porn isn’t as good as real sex, however it’s easier to get and doesn’t require all the investment…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:38 AM
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Some of us have never been loved even in the context of having a sex/dating/relationship so we don’t even really relate to the whole experience. Some of us have just accepted and realized we aren’t lovable. Some people just don’t have the genes to be loved. So idk I just can’t relate with what you said, it something I’ll never experience. So at least we can be satisfied by stuff like better sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:28 AM
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I’ve tried listening to Jordan Peterson before but I always get bored really quickly and his exaggerated vocabulary is something I just find pretentious and annoying tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:24 AM
1

We shall find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:53 AM
16

Cheating is going to become the next “right” that is demanded, and only weak/insecure people don’t allow their partners to experiment with others. Clown society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:34 AM
9

Do you think men intentionally pick women who are mentally unstable or do they just pick women who are hot who happen to be mentally unstable and that’s just a cost the guy is (foolishly) willing to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:29 AM
1

Unless it creates an even more isolated society, a more unequal society, a more hedonistic society. I think it has the potential to be an enormous change and with that will come enormous societal consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:25 AM
1

I agree. Augmented reality and virtual reality look really promising IMO. I really think this will become the next big thing in tech. It will be able to do really amazing things especially as more people become developers of it. Augmented and virtual reality are entire new planes of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:21 AM
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Lol it does sound that way. Nevertheless it’s something I believe will happen. It’s not even a matter of if it’s a matter of when. Too much profit to be made, someone will do it. Maybe Apple will do it and call it iSex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:17 AM
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They aren’t going to be able to stop it. Technological advancement and innovation is inevitable and the market of lonely people is absolutely enormous. Someone will fill that market when the tech is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:15 AM
2

Yes and this will accelerate when the sex robots get good enough. That’s why I’m arguing in the long run human to human dating/sex will become a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:14 AM
2

Bro you read my mind, especially the last part. The future is goi)g to be a wild place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:12 AM
5

Maybe people don’t really need to be validated and wanted. Maybe people would be content with feeling validated and wanted, that is some people just want the experience, the experience doesn’t necessarily have to actually mean anything. it could be a lie and to some they would be content with that. A virtual GF in AR with a sexual robot could achieve this at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:07 AM
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I’m pretty sure there’s a lot of people who date/have sex or did those things in the past but never got married for multitudes of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:22 AM
3

I’d rather get nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:12 AM
1

Is that surprising? I don’t think that’s surprising or anything wrong with that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:05 AM
6

I agree, but I think human relationships will become a luxury. They will increasingly become something less common simply because sex robots are a “good enough” substitute but take a fraction of the investments needed to obtain it. It’s similar to porn. Porn isn’t as good as the real thing but is simply way easier to get and maintain. So for some people it has become a substitute. I think the same could have with human sex, dating, relationships. All of those things take effort, investment, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:53 AM
2

But it doesn’t matter how the robot physically looks. Because you’d put augmented reality or virtual reality goggles so the appearance of the robot would be software.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:52 AM
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I don’t agree with this. You could have the sex doll be blank and not look good. Because my idea is that you would put on AR or VR glasses and you’d see an avatar of the sex doll in AR/VR. The dolls themselves don’t have to look physically enticing at all because the appearance is in AR/VR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:50 AM
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I have this underlying suspicion as a man that women have this side to themselves that they don’t like to show to other people that causes inner conflict/confusion in women. Women feel shame for how this side of themselves make them feel so some of them deal with it by lying to everyone including themselves. Idk maybe I’m wrong but it’s just a suspicion I have. Also I hope I don’t have to say “not all.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:47 AM
3

Chadbot 5000 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:45 AM
4

Ahh I see. Yes that’s it I agree it’s a two way street. I got nothing else to say now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:12 AM
7

God damn those 4 boyfriends dating that 1 lady, do those men have any self esteem or is this some weird fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:08 AM
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I’ve read FDS before, not a lot but I have a general opinion of them (not that they care). They come across to me as a group of women who have had multiple bad experiences with men when it comes to dating/sex and the mainstream “lib fem” (I think that is what it’s called) attitude didn’t really work for them, perhaps it backfired on them and made things worse. I think it’s easy for people to point out the overall tone of the subreddit (angry, bitter, etc) but this is low hanging fruit criticisms…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:55 PM
1

Shrek likes to make people cry with both his words and onions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:41 PM
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I don’t know how to quote on my iPad but you say I’m acting as though men are passive creatures that have no agency over their actions. But that isn’t what I mean at all. The men who abandon their kids choose to do so. The men chose to have sex with a woman, she got pregnant, and then he chose to abandon her. I don’t get what your point is. I acknowledge these men are fully responsible. However my point is what do you want men like me who have never abandoned their kids but also never encouraged…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:35 PM
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Idk maybe it’s just my personal experience, but I feel like a lot of boomer parents do not really guide their kids much on anything. Like besides going to college, many boomer parents sort of just have this “everything will work out some how” attitude when Uuh no actually there is no guarantee that things will just “work out.” Kids need guidance but it feels like for too many there is simply a lack of guidance beyond crap like “study hard go to college.” No guidance on other aspects of life like…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:25 PM
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I get judged for holding this view but I don’t care it’s how I feel about it. A lot of women pick bad partners for LTR, they don’t just do this in isolation they have a repeated pattern of going out of their way to pick these men. I suspect this phenomena which too many men (including myself) have observed over and over again in life contributes to the problem of fathers abandoning their kids to a certain extent and then leaving single mothers to fend on their own. The common response I get when…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:11 PM
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We will find out if it’s bad. However 25 percent of an entire generation never marrying is alarming to say the least. It’s alarming simply because it’s something new, this increasing isolation is putting the society into uncharted territories. I guess it’s easier to just assume everything will be fine. Typical American attitude, just focus on the individuals and have a dismissive attitude about thinking about the collective despite the fact that we live in a society and are not individuals in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:58 PM
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It’s not just dating though. The entire country is becoming more socially isolated. Yes the typical culprits on here are the cultural changes, but I think tech is playing a significant reason too. Fact of the matter is with tech it’s just easier to live and not have a social/romance/dating life. It’s easier to keep yourself entertained, develop new hobbies for yourself, etc than it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:54 PM
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Why do I take joy in the irony that in the age of equality where we’re supposed to become “more equal” the society continues to become more unequal in multiple ways. Dating/sex is the common thing talked here, but we all know in the US the rich keep getting richer, poor poorer, and the middle class is shrinking, that is its becoming more unequal. I love it when ideas society uphold to be “absolute truth/all good” crash and burn and end up being exposed for the lie it has always been just like “e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:48 PM
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