seadraugr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Most people will find love if they achieve the following things: I'm not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/26 07:50 PM
–	Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs. This is a disgusting mindset, not going to lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:21 AM
–	Is dating in the Past really comparable to dating today? It's absolutely not the same. The past survived on gender norms and roles that made it to where women were forced to marry for any sort of success or financial stability- they couldn't work 9 times out of 10, couldn't have their own bank accounts or financial independence, etc. Now there's no reason for them to be with a man unless they genuinely add something beneficial into their life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:19 AM
1	Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming. 💯💯💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:16 AM
1	Most people will find love if they achieve the following things: Lol I have all of these but live in an area where finding people roughly my age to date would require a two hour drive, and with the cost of living and low wages, I can't afford a car.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:15 AM
–	If you know how to connect with people, there is no such thing as the sexual/dating markeplace This is true. No gender is a monolith. There's a lot more that goes into attraction than just surface level values. As someone who once developed a crush on someone just from spending time with them, getting to know them, and eventually finding them attractive despite my initial preferences- it does happen. Just treat someone you meet like a human first and go from there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:11 AM
1	It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship. I see where you're coming from, and I think a large part of it is that men haven't been taught what's involved in a Long Term Relationship until they hit the frying pan and have to learn the hard way. However, I'm someone who still doesn't believe in casual sex. I've turned down multiple offers for that because I know I want a long term relationship, and to me- sex is a very intimate thing between partners, not just something someone does because they aren't strong enough to control their desire…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:06 AM
1	Are men overthinking approaching women in public? I think it depends entirely on your energy and where you are. If a woman feels cornered, they're going to feel afraid or creeped out. If there's plenty of people around and you just confidently approach her by telling her conversationally why you did so, and asking if you can talk to her and get to know her a little, then you have to be willing to accept if they don't want to and graciously accept the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:55 PM
1	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Lol that's comforting. Hopefully it's the former.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:35 PM
2	Dating is a numbers game now, and the best way to find a decent partner is to try to get to know as many people as possible This just abusing someone's emotions for your own gain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:32 PM
4	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about I disagree, only because if you are interested in someone and are going on a first date, neither of them owes anything to the other, and it's a good place in public to talk and get to know each other. More casual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:28 PM
2	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD I'm new on here. What does N count mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:24 PM
1	Men want to compete more than date. True. I also notice that this just gives "transactional approach" where a guy expects you to give him something in exchange for his effort rather than actually wanting to get to know you as a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:23 PM
1	You’re not a good person just because you proclaim so. EXACTLY. Just because you call yourself a good person, "Good" is subjective. However, expecting that being chivalrous will make a woman fall head over heals for you immediately is insane. Turns out- women do like chivalry from someone who makes them feel safe and who they can trust. The problem is that these guys don't want to be consistent. They want immediate reward for what is often false presentation of care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:17 PM
–	Men need to adapt to a world where they may permanently fail romantically. Any method to survive that eventuality is fair game Okay at first I was kinda with you, but something put up a red flag- how about instead of teaching men that they're inherently unwanted, just change the system they live in so that the focus of relationships isn't about money and success, and rather about genuine connection with someone. I think you definitely hit the nail on the head in a way. Men need to learn to control their desires. They act like they're entitled to have those desires fulfilled, and that's not the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:12 PM
2	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Lol aka - one of the ways Patriarchy affects men that they instead decide to weaponize against women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:06 PM
0	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Ew gross. This just made me shudder	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:00 PM
3	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. It gives- I have no emotional literacy or empathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:00 PM
3	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Yeah, loads of guys like to live life pretending like they can't control their desires. To me, it's bordering the "well, what were you wearing" mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 10:59 PM
4	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. "What?! You mean to tell me we can't send the poors to die for my profits and Geo-Political dominance?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 10:57 PM
5	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. Yeah, I think many men tend to ignore the way Patriarchal systems harm them too, and would rather turn to women and yell at them like they're the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 10:54 PM
1	Women have more bodily autonomy than men. All I have to tell you is this- if a woman has an ectopic pregnancy that could kill her AND the baby, numerous states in this country would either demand that she die from it, orwould put her in jail for murder if she got the @bortion to save herself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 10:52 PM
–	Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other things This is what I did. So far I've lost 88 lbs, my emotional literacy has improved, and my mental state is slowly improving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:58 PM
1	Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man. I disagree that men should just sleep around. I think men should have far more self control over their desires. However- I do agree that in a society where men are expected to do all of the work trying to establish relationships, it's harder for us to tell if we're desirable or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:54 PM
1	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? Yeah, social media is a huge poison to the dating world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:48 PM
2	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? I think this has more to do with men who know they would be a good partner also having self esteem issues and confidence problems that don't make them attractive, but they blame it on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:45 PM
1	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? That's a very small, but very loud vocal minority. Most women have reasonable caution or safety boundaries when it comes to meeting a man they don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:43 PM
1	GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes. There is an irony to it all. The same women will peddle Neo-Liberal Feminist ideology at the same time, all while reinforcing nonsense they claim they want to end. I'm convinced a lot of it is griftng for clout.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 04:30 PM