seafoamwishes Archive

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1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea I mean, he’s an ex husband for a reason. Take my words with a grain of salt if they don’t apply to you. If a married couple has a kid they support that child 50/50. Why should unmarried parents be any different? Especially now that some states are forcing women to keep children forced upon them in the first place. Women are incurring tens of thousands of dollars in medical bills to carry children they don’t want (even before Friday) because society made them out to be murderers if they didn’t. B…	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 02:54 PM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea The thing is, the ones calling for “mandatory X” are such a small but loud minority. Have I joked about mandated vasectomies? Sure, but I’d never seriously support it. All I want is equal rights and equal pay to any man. They don’t give me a tax break for earning ~$0.86 per $1.00 a man earns. Rent and necessities don’t magically become cheaper for women. Pay men and women the same and make sure it’s a living wage. No country is perfect but America is self destructing FAST. If I could afford to m…	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 07:29 AM
2	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea You are the first level headed response I’ve seen in this thread. Thank you for being open for discussion. As for doctors and how they behave? This is why body autonomy should be federally mandated for EVERY person across the globe. My state shouldn’t be able to decide if or when I have children. My doctor should not be presenting me with anything but facts. If two people want to have a child together but one or both are sterilized, it may be more expensive to conceive but it’s not IMPOSSIBLE. A…	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:56 AM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea I would LOVE to get rid of my uterus and not be questioned about my “biological need” to have children one day. Except, doctors don’t let women elect for a hysterectomy. We have to fight for it, get second opinions, be gaslit…the list goes on. But also, hysterectomies aren’t reversible. Ever. Vasectomies are in many cases. So you’re comparing grapefruits to cucumbers.	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:36 AM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea Because men never lie or rape women so of course it’s all their responsibility. This is exactly why women NEED the right to abortions AND DESERVE to have men pay for the child THEY HELPED CREATE. Women don’t create babies on their own. And the “poor man” having to fork over 30% of his salary to raise a child that is half him is hardly fair. My ex husband only ever paid a measly $222 to his baby mama (which was not me) and 90% of our marriage I paid it for him because he was a piece of shit. $222…	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:29 AM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea Yuuuup. This is why I opted for an IUD because I am not the best at advocating for myself. I haven’t had any kids, 33, and I’m divorced so OBVIOUSLY I’m going to want them.	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:15 AM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea That’s a common argument doctors make to women. Assuming they don’t want to talk to the man directly.	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:13 AM
1	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea It’s not about “less consults.” Women are routinely DISCOURAGED from getting a tubal litigation, even on the basis of “you might divorce and your future husband will want kids.” Doctors will create a fantasy divorce and second marriage just to keep women fertile. That’s assuming they don’t tell you “oh you’re too young; you’ll change your mind.” Or “have you discussed this with your husband?” Lesbian couples are being asked what their man thinks or “what if you meet a nice man later?” I have rea…	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 06:11 AM