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First, allow me to say that I feel for you because I've been in your shoes many times. You are not alone. Some simple questions: 1) [Red Flag] She seems to have used sex as a crutch for validation and approval. Has that been sorted out yet? 2) What does "very faithful" mean? 3) Has she expressed a desire to have sex with you? 4) Has she showed qualities, characteristics and behavior that's becoming of a wife?
/r/RPChristians03/04/19 03:09 PM
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RP truth can be summed up in one simple sentence, but is so hard to grasp: You have to be more attractive (pull factor, not physical beauty) than her. If you can accomplish that, she will yield to you. That's it.
/r/RPChristians08/03/19 02:28 PM
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Wrong, it's in Malaysia.
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 02:19 AM
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I call bullshit. Having a high IQ is actually detrimental to your chances.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 01:05 PM
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Yes, God does help. But, at the same time, God does not promise a life without problems, struggles and fears -- he does not owe you help. Think Job.
/r/RPChristians02/12/18 12:57 PM
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I've been thinking about how's it odd that a sub called Red Pill Christians is overwhelmingly filled with (Christian) men.
/r/RPChristians27/10/18 03:21 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to give such a lengthy response. I should have been clearer in 5). I meant 10, 15 or 20 years after puberty, roughly corresponding to 25, 30 or 35 years of age.
/r/RPChristians16/10/18 11:45 PM
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"I love you." - Girlfriend "Me too." - send_it_for_the_boys End of.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 01:43 PM
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And they say men are shallow :)
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:56 PM
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She did not like the fact that the branch waiting for her at home broke whilst she has yet to swing onto the other branch(es) she's holding onto take it well. She's upset because one of her options ended; she'll get over it soon, don't worry. There is no LDR, not in 2018. Even if you did believe in LDRs, the fact that she wasn't putting the proper amount of effort into the relationship is grounds enough.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:24 AM
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This guy gets this. For a woman, anything can be rationalized because what she feels is what's her truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 02:02 PM
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Though I disagree with you, thanks for your elaboration.
/r/RPChristians03/09/18 02:42 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/RPChristians02/09/18 03:13 PM
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It's good that you brought up this question, because it is surely a question that many (especially, the young) Christian men will ask. And the reason why they ask that is that because, unlike Christian women, Christian men aren't generally being propositioned for sex. In churches, women are portrayed as these pure, docile and holy beings who've never heard of sex and certainly have no interest in having it. It's the men who have the beastly, bad need to have sex, like the animals do. (Of course,…
/r/RPChristians30/08/18 07:16 PM
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I would prefer to leave Ben "My wife's a doctor" Shapiro out of this, but he's, at best, purple pilled.
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 03:41 AM
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You're welcome. Dalrock and Deep Strength have been a treasure trove of content, but more interestingly, incredible comments from readers. As it stands, one of RP's sidebar links points to "Michael's Story" on Dalrock. That was another good one. Have you read it?
/r/RPChristians22/08/18 01:12 AM
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Teach the Word of God, not regurgitate what Joel Osteen said. Do away with political correctness. Create an atmosphere where feelings do not trump facts. Encourage women to be feminine and the men to be masculine. Get them to read RPC.
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 12:02 PM
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Some time ago, I came across this comment on Deep Strength, and I kept it precisely for a day when I would come across an article that articulates the topic better than I ever could. This comment is from a man named jack. Here goes: "I am a man, and I will try to respond as best and as respectfully as I can, because this post is very harmful to correct understanding of the difference between men and women. This post shows that even the women who think they understand often do not. I am going to …
/r/RPChristians21/08/18 11:57 AM
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Just because I do not attend a church, that does not mean that I do not regularly meet like-minded Christians like me who are unchurched as well.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 02:39 PM
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I get what you're saying, but this event didn't happen in the West. I'm Asian.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 02:28 PM
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I meant commercialised in the Joel Osteen-mega church kind of way.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 10:42 AM
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It's becoming so prevalent these days it's sad.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 10:41 AM
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Got fed up with Churchianity
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 10:41 AM
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Could you kindly elaborate?
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 10:40 AM
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Hahaha I'm glad a few got the reference.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 01:33 AM
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We all wear masks... metaphorically speaking.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 01:41 PM
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She's a divorcee who (in all likelihood) married her former husband to get a leg up in her career. And Harry doesn't want a prenup, being willing to risk his 30 million pound fortune. Not to mention she'll be 37 when they get married. I mean, sure, marry for love or whatever. But you're telling in me Harry couldn't find a better deal in the entire Commonwealth? Get the fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:17 PM
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I appreciate you being non-combative, so I will respond in kind. I was not gaming this girl. I've known her for a very, very long time, and she is not someone I need or wanted validation from. Her response was rude, and I was taken aback by her harshness. What, is TRP theory now that you cannot expect people to be civil anymore? Even among friends? I thought what I thought, and went along my merry way enjoying the rest of my evening. Everyone here is imagining I was devastated after what she sai…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:12 PM
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So TRP now means you can't go "WTF was that?" to a rude comment, even mentally. I see.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:05 PM
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Thank you Ruhkov, finally, someone who discusses the point of the article. The few women that you spoke of, certainly, they would speak from a position of actually have put in the work and made something of themselves. The vast, vast, majority though, would definitely be worse than the betas they shit on. I think it tangentially relates to the IQ variance in women, where most are concentrated in the average IQ range, with few idiots and few geniuses. The male bell curve is flatter, with more idi…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 11:15 AM
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I said it in my head. I didn't speak it out aloud.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 11:11 AM
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Actually, more than anything, this is funny. I didn't say you were like an EC. I said you think you are one. There's a difference. I'm sure you are as redpilled as you say you are, and I eagerly await the FRs of you slaying women left and right. Anyone can say they're successful with women on this forum. A big problem with this forum is that many assume an alpha is a hyper stoic man of Greek marble who's unfazed by anything or anyone. Where in this post does what it reek of poor me beta? I said …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 07:41 AM
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You've been posting here for a few months, and think you're an EC. By your logic, the alpha-est male can never be sideswiped by a random rude comment, and certainly must not commit some thought to it or that means he's not read the sidebar. Gotcha. This must be a sub for demigods, then.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 06:57 AM
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You're free to assume whatever you like, but that doesn't mean you're accurate. I am not her orbiter. I have not met her in a long time as she was abroad for many years. I have no desire to bang her, and certainly wasn't buying her drinks expecting her to sleep with me. We've celebrated birthdays together before, many years ago before she moved. I was offended because she took my generosity for granted, a slight given from one person to another, not from a woman to her orbiter. Care to make more…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 06:39 AM
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Because they operate in a reality in which everything moves towards sustaining the bluepill world/illusion.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 02:06 PM
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Classy, these hoes ladies.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 02:08 AM
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Be attractive and you can have two women. Be unattractive and you can have zero.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:58 PM
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I still say the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Let's see... she's miserable, desperate for attention and sex, and in a dead bedroom (so she says). Like you said, you matched her with your male friend. What if he found out about this? How would it affect your standing with your other friends? Most of all, she's a cheating whore. Dude, there are so many other women out there, sans complications and fat. Focus your efforts there. It's not worth it, it's highly unlikely she'll turn out attractive, a…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 08:59 AM
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If you end up fucking this chick, you're going to contribute to The Problem. The problem of fatties having overinflated egos because they know they can get some even though they are fat, post-wall, unattractive, married, cheating, lying, whores.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:55 AM
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Some amused mastery is missing here. A girl told you something? Sweet. Her words mean jack shit... until it is followed up with congruent behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:49 AM
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Why do you have the time and energy to deal with someone who acts jealous, insecure, and immature? It's probably from a lack of abundance... and a lack of vetting before you LTR'd her. LTRs are not a special time/arrangement for you to wait for her to right her wrongs. Life is short and time is priceless.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 05:48 AM
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You're listening to her words and not observing her actions. She appears jealous because she doesn't want to lose her orbiter (you). It's not rocket science, bro. Ask her what her game is? Do you expect the truth from those lips? And again you'd still be listening to what she says and not seeing what she does.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 02:49 PM
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"All women are crazy" Therefore, AWAC-AWALT? This should go into the Glossary.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 01:35 AM
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A well-known maxim on here goes: never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:42 AM
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Key characteristic to look for in a woman you're vetting for LTR (when it comes to loyalty): Does she look up to you and respect you? If she does not, she cannot be loyal to you. p/s if she respects you, an added benefit to this is that she will do things for you without being asked. What those "things" are, I leave up to your imagination ;)
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:25 AM
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There is nothing to be conflicted about. TRP teaches you about reality. You can navigate life with the correct perception and knowledge now. TRP shows you how you can improve yourself physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually, which makes you more satisfied with life, and more attractive. TRP shows you how to properly vet and sustain LTRs if that's what you're looking. TRP shows you how you can plate women if that's what you're looking for. Yes, a lot of people are fake, but it's not al…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:34 AM
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And for the Chinese to make a copy that costs 1/10th of the price.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 02:34 AM
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Learn a new thing every day. TheMoreYouKnow.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 05:04 PM
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You're absolutely right. Nice guys have been told firmly that they can't expect anything from women, can't demand anything from women, women aren't obliged to give them or do anything for them. There is just no incentive to be nice and most men only find this out the hard way. Women's solipsism rules supreme here. They, even the "good" ones think, "Oh, it's okay if I experiment and sleep with flings, ONS, or BFs. Other girls can do the chastity thing to uphold the image of women." Yeah, you and …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 01:40 AM
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Hey Matt, thanks for the comment. I don't hate women, nor do I think Michael actually does. I remember reading somewhere else on this subreddit that the anger phase doesn't really end, and I'm paraphrasing here, but it rears its ugly head again when come to face to face with the way things are. That you feel shortchanged and cheated. I wrote this article because Michael's story was meaningful to me. Perhaps I should have written this much earlier, but never got around to it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 02:32 PM
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It was my bad that I didn't clarify one thing, in that I was rewriting Michael's Story from an Asian perspective, one who's who lived and grew up in Asia all his life to show that it's the same thing half a world away, and that I am neither currently as jaded nor bitter as the story lets on (although I did feel that way earlier on in my journey). The hesitance to marry thing does hold true, though.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 02:30 PM
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Yeah Michael wrote his comment on Dalrock's site about 5 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:23 AM
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Does anyone know what ever happened to Michael of "Michael's Story" fame?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 03:51 PM
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Speaking from a MRP/LTR perspective I've been thinking about where conservatives and liberals have got it wrong with regards to sex. Conservatives, who say they offer time-tested traditional views on sex, teach chastity and abstinence until marriage, but then encourage women to delay marriage as long as possible and become good employees first. Then they expect men (and women) to live in a >15-year sexless void with no release. Liberals, who say they are more progressive and expert than frumpy c…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:11 PM
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I'd just like to learn more about men in other parts of the world. Is that okay?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:06 AM
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Following the train of thought that men are the true romantics, and I'm asking the casanovas that plate many women here, would you rather have a quality wife as in the old days or are you happy with the current arrangement?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 05:05 PM
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If you're the one sweating over her whereabouts I have bad news for you, bro.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:29 AM
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As a rule of thumb (I'm sure guys successfully game bar girls) I would say that you shouldn't outright try to game service/wait staff. These people are paid to interact with you in a friendly manner (they have to be nice to you) and gaming them outright won't work. Why? If she works in a bar and is anything of a looker, she gets gamed. All. The. Time. You have to build rapport then ask to meet somewhere, some other time. You have to game her in a different environment. Isolate then game her.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:27 AM
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Joke's on the medical professional. She isn't clinically depressed; she's crazy.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:35 PM
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You made it clear from the get go that you two were not in a relationship, right? She's an adult, right? She's responsible for her own actions, right? Yeah, you caught feelings for her. She was using you as much as you were using her, let's be honest about that. Your fault was that you muddled plate and LTR status.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:44 AM
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This may sound obtuse, but in the future you will see that this girl did you a solid. Many a successful journey through TRP begins with the utter destruction of man by his woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:33 AM
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Start with these: First get comfortable talking with people in general. Then learn to be a good storyteller. Paint pictures with your words and stories. Then learn to work kino and escalation into your communication, which like I said, will now be both verbal and physical. Once you get all these down pat, then you can exercise your ability to maintain frame, wave off shit tests, and the like. Edit: Also, bro, the reason why you are confused is that you think all those advices are for the same th…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:21 PM
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Both yes and no. Yes, in that they're wired differently, and may like different things, and no, because you're trying to think if there is some formula or sequence of sentences that are specific to attracting a woman's attention and sustaining a conversation with them. There isn't. If you're the most interesting guy in group, you become AMOG and then the wymyns will gravitate towards you, no? If a guy was telling me about an exciting trip into some exotic location, I'd love to listen and have a …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 03:53 PM
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The same way TRP applies to every stage of life: become a high value male. They may want to text all the time but you set your frame and minimise texting, using it only for logistics or getting to know her a little bit. If she doesn't budge and doesn't make the time to see you, congrats, she's using you for attention/validation.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:51 AM
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Start small conversations with strangers. Start with a smile. Progress to a "Hi". Progress to asking simple questions. Remind yourself to speak slowly, and enunciate your words properly. A man takes his time to state what's on his mind. What about talking to women? They're merely human, boyyo.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:48 AM
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How? Tell her you're seeing several women where you are. In fact, she'll likely feel competitive since she is already fucking you knowing that there's no engagement ring at the end of the tunnel. She could very well be a plate, if that's what you want. Ta da, a new plate to add to your cabinet. "What are we/where is this headed" is largely the domain of women. You've said your bit, and that is enough.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:46 AM
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Simple. Fap before you make the decision to travel half and hour away to take girls to cool restaurants and offer to pay for their meals.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:42 AM
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Read up the very excellent "Uncle Vasya’s Guide On Dating Models ", available exclusively on this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:40 AM
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If you're going to smash, record everything, if only audio. This could get ugly very easily and very quickly.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:37 AM
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A woman who doesn't respect you/look up to you cannot be loyal to you, and will fuck you with disdain (if she even is fucking you right now). Next her.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:34 AM
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You want some tough love? Your oneitis probably has to totally destroy you before you can understand the perspectives of TRP. It's one thing to read about TRP and another to experience TRP. It's one thing to read about abundance and another to actually experience it. The easiest thing you can do now to temper your extreme infatuation is to imagine her getting fucked by someone else, because she probably is, or recently has been. And then realise that you're feeling these things based on your ide…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:33 AM
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Don't beat yourself up too badly that you're going down in a spiral. It happens to the best of us. Start with baby steps. Smile at a stranger. Then move to saying hello to stranger on the street (the easiest would be saying hello to some older folk), anyone, really, and then talk to the cashier, or some service people you have to interact with. Ask easy things like "Do you sell x at this store? Where is y? Do you know how to get to z?". You'll slowly feel more comfortable talking to people. Wome…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:27 AM
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You're angry because you feel cheated, because reality isn't what you've been sold all this while. As u/ScholarInRed mentioned, read. It really is mind over matter. You have to use your god-given intellect and realise that women are just playing the game their way. They, like you, are trying to maximise their returns. It's sexual economics, plain and simple. Now your job is to find your purpose and maximise your value in that market, and you can do that by reading all the good content here.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 06:22 AM
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In your experience gaming/dating/marrying/having any semblance of a relationship with a "conservative" woman, i.e a woman whose hypergamic nature has been constrained either by religious or social mores, et cetera, have they ever had problems with your past sexual experience or issues with you being sexually experienced?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:18 PM
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That depends on the end goal of the relationship. And what you will end up dealing with will rely on how well you have vetted her.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:10 PM
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And the most egregious one of all: using 'your' instead of 'you're'.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 02:34 AM
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^ This. Fellow ASEANer here. The content on this subreddit is anathema to "Asian values", and as u/ARedPillUser said, you won't find Red Pill Meetups here.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:41 AM
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Very simply, women in conservative communities: Are greatly restrained by external pressure from being hypergamous. Once those restraints disappear, they become just like the western girls you speak about. A good example is Katy Perry - from church singer, pastor's daughter to feminist, liberal, Russell Brand-marrying superstar. Experts in faking innocence.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:30 AM
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Off the top of my head? How about a free art expo? That way your investment is almost nil. Then bounce to a live performance/event, somewhere noisy where you have to go in close to her. And for the love of god, let her pay for your shit if she offers. The paying rule is simple: pay for her if she's earned it. If she hasn't done much for you, she's earned nothing. Otherwise, the most you'll go is split.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:21 PM
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That first date "I'll pay for us both" was a really bad move imho. Did you pay for coffee too? I hope you didn't. Okay, let's assume you didn't. That's still quite a hole to climb out of from. Honestly, my guts says you'd be better off learning from this experience, improving, and trying it on another girl. But I'll offer three quick pieces of advice. I'm assuming that you're both 1) young, and that 2) want to LTR this girl. You need to insinuate through word and deed that you're not looking for…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:38 PM
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That depends. Where do you live? Some dance school or MMA gym would work wonders for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:24 PM
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Have you done any introspection into the source of the insecurity?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:24 PM
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Out of sheer curiosity, what's your age, and hers?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:22 PM
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Ghost her completely. You don't need drama in your life and there are millions of girls out there who range from slightly better than her to awesome. Life is short, man. DGAF! Adopt an abundant mentality. And read the sidebar ffs!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:19 PM
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Okay, then just assert that you want to keep this professional. It's even better now because you can I say respect you as a tutor (i.e someone with "authority" over me who should conduct herself professionally). Did she tell you this to your face? Or over text? If text, keep for evidence.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:11 AM
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Do what women do: Assert that such things are unprofessional. Don't add the word 'feel' when you address this. Don't say, "I don't feel the same towards you / I don't feel that this is right / This doesn't feel professional to me." Be cold without being mean. Just go with, "Jane, this is rather unprofessional. I enjoy our professional relationship and respect you as a colleague, and hope you will do the same." Something along those lines. Did she confess it over text? Keep it for evidentiary pur…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:24 AM
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Use the search function. There are tons of articles on here on how to vet women for LTRs, as well as red flags to watch out for if you want to date/bang them.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:14 AM
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If you have to qualify yourself in terms of what you do, believe me, brother, it won't stop there. Trying to explain how complex your work/life is isn't going to moisten any panties. Women do not care about your struggles.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:12 AM
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It would be helpful if you described these "long time beliefs". I have an idea what they might be, but I'd rather you state themselves than have me/us guess.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 06:09 AM
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Lol, this is a discussion about outliers, not the general workforce. If you want to argue that China has better gender equality than the West (not just workforce participation), then thanks for the laugh. China has a huge, hypercompetitive market, making business extremely cut-throat. So, no, it isn't obvious that it would be easier for Chinese women to become billionaires . The reason why there are so few self-made female billionaires is because women are simply not driven enough, and aren't wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 12:36 PM
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As per your link, just 2.7% of billionaires worldwide are women who're self-made billionaires. Stop the presses! It appears you understand statistics so well. So speak down to me, professor, and tell me why the bulk of these self-made female billionaires seem to come from a country where women aren't as liberated and emancipated as Western women? I await your thesis.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:25 AM
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Excuse me, but I did point out the richest self-made female billionaire on the list, who's Chinese, of all nationalities (not long-known for their free enterprise ideals and gender equality initiatives). She was from a poor family, and she made something or herself, and is now worth billions. Where are the similar success stories in the West? By my reckoning the amount of opportunities and legislation favouring women in the West should have resulted in far more super-rich women, but they are far…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 01:56 AM
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The point of the article is that the Top Ten richest women inherited their billions. And there is a difference in inheriting a multinational conglomerate from a dead father or spouse and turning a textile company into one.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:17 PM
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You're right. What I should have wrote is that he turned BH into what it is today, away from its textile roots.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:38 AM
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Perhaps you died, but at least you weren't sold used pussy at new pussy prices. I think dying would be preferable.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:49 AM
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TL;DR I am trying to sell my very used pussy at new pussy prices. Now which one of you betas would like to buy it with your life's commitment and resources?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:10 AM
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If "there are no universal truths" is true, that means that that statement is only true in some places, and not universally. It's almost like saying "there are no absolute truths", which is a self-refuting statement. Your first premise is already flawed.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:56 PM
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Lent I would accept, but not given. What valuable, alpha male would want to marry a post-Waller?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 08:09 AM
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insert Kayode Ewumi meme They can't be hurt if they don't know about it
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:17 PM
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All Tinder does is show you all the kinds of women in a hundred-mile radius around you. An index of women, so to speak. So it really depends where you're situated... and yes, people are just as slutty off Tinder as they are on it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 04:16 PM
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We often hear women whine that "All men want is sex!" and write on their dating profiles that they're not down for ONS/FWB arrangements so that got me wondering last night, and would like all youse's input on it: What if tomorrow, by some magical miracle, all men stopped needing and wanting sex and stopped feeling sexual attraction to women? Men becoming completely asexual. How do you think it would impact the dynamic between men and women?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 02:51 AM
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You will always be wondering, though, if she is improving because of what you've said or in spite of what you've said. Actually it is probably the former. And it will grow old fast, and she'll be unhappy and so will you. Why continue with her? You can extricate yourself from this predicament and LTR someone more fitting... and after you've vetted them a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 04:51 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Or go ahead and shit where you eat, if you're absolutely prepared and are comfortable with the idea of losing that job.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:11 PM
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That's completely natural given your exposure to TRP. I've wanted to write this as a post on TRP for a while now, but never got around to doing it. Here's my attempt to summarise that post. It will give you a look into my train of thought on this issue. We men are typically raised to not simply touch girls. We are reminded in school, families, social circles that you can't simply touch girls. That's why so many men start off being bad at kino. Touching is the initial stimulant of your disgust; i…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:09 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong, but betas are typified by blind happiness that a girl would want them. You're aware that you're settling. Either do something about it (it [EDIT: the jealousy] can poison the relationship) or stop whining.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:58 PM
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That depends. Where do you live? What are your passions? Have you actively thought about how you can make people's lives simpler/how you can add value or convenience to a preexisting product or service? Lots of businesses flow out of that last thought.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:55 PM
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Unfortunately, for many men, they have to destroyed by women first (crushed by their oneitis, cheated on by their girlfriend, divorced raped, etc) before being mentally primed to accept the red pill. If they are still high on blue pill feels, you'll just be speaking Greek to them.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:51 PM
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Her husband's name is Chad, but he doesn't act like one. He has sullied the great Chad name.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:26 AM
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Hence the "most" women in the paragraph... how many women are lawyers, engineers, PhDs, business professionals, bankers and entrepreneurs? Btw, don't confuse it with book smart. A lot of smart men can be book smart, bluepilled and cucked.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:15 AM
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Doesn't the word "oneitis" refer to The One rather than just having one?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:31 PM
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Good, all natural, diarrhoea to boot!
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:29 PM
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"But we are initiated." - Bane
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:50 AM
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Did Samantha Jones write this? Good grief.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:23 PM
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I've said it in other threads but I'll say it here again. LTRs are a privilege, and she lost that privilege the moment she cheated on you. It's also clear that you didn't vet her well enough -- 30 and still has deep-seated issues?! You're not supposed to be in a LTR hoping she fixes her shit. It's extremely stressful over long distances for both parties and guess what? It's phenomenally easy for women to branch swing when she isn't haaappyyyy. Ghost her and focus on yourself. And vet your LTRs b…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 04:14 PM
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I'd like to add a few things to what others have said here. Assuming you dated her since she was about 19, seriously, man, what does a 19-year-old know about what she wants? She was purely riding on the feels without a care in the world about what you really, really wanted and when she got into her early 20s she discovered that there are things she wants to do with her life e.g see the world and get paid doing it as a stewardess. So, really, you were dating one person at 19 and then that person …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:56 AM
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This is the kind of love where a guy is willing to do anything for her "out of (romantic) love" and receives little to nothing in return. He might even have to deal with her shit. This is what makes nice-guy-lovers losers. She is getting something for nothing, and the guy is whoring out his love for free.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:19 PM
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On top of that the guy will also never really know if she does something for him out of love or guilt.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:13 PM
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Let me summarise it: Oneitis is often caused by a lack of knowledge about a particular girl, and also about the nature of women in general. It is an incorrect (and often overly positive) perception about the target which usually results in 1) you being disappointed that she isn't perfect and 2) she feeling pressured/weirded out because you imposed an unrealistic, high standard of goodness and perfection on her. This is not healthy and often ends badly. Side note: women, by and large, do not suff…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:04 PM
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Another tip: Traditional, Asian girls are also very good at pretending in another way. They are great serial monogamists. What I mean is that they will have a long string of boyfriends with which they have lots of sex with. They do this to do away with the suggestion that they're easy hoes who are down for ONS or FWB arrangements but still get the all the sex they desire in "appropriate" relationships.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:05 AM
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I will say this if you're considering her for LTR. With her shit sorted out and her newfound confidence she will look at the sexual marketplace with fresh eyes and will get hit on more, etc. She may branch swing or cheat on you. Just wanted to say that.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:44 AM
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Welp I'm here to help jeyshawn. You should definitely read the sidebar in its entirety.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 12:11 PM
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Honest question: are you new around here? For the most part, men perceive reality through their mind. Women perceive it through their emotions. The Red Pill forces people to see the world as it is. It presents many uncomfortable truths that even some men find hard to swallow at the start. Where TRP speaks about sexual dynamics many women (especially modern, westernised women) will find such truths disempowering or disenfranchising (oh, the poor daffodils.) I said most women will never understand…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 10:14 AM
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I'll address your questions according to your sections: 1) Summary: I wouldn't shit where I eat. That means no women from places I have to go to every day i.e work, class. 2) TRP: Ignore this. Women say one thing but behave differently. If you were Blue Pill, she would have already left you or would be cheating on you... maybe even never have gotten together with you in the first place. Always be ready to take the L. Just state it as it is without worrying about the outcome. (That's how I roll. …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:59 AM
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The link on the sidebar for Flairs states that the LTR flair is for "Posts about Long Term Relationships, Relationship Game/Strategy. Strictly non-plate spinning discussion." But if what you say is true then we can do away with the LTR and Married Red Pill flairs then since both involve a modicum of pursuit when trying to gauge if a woman is suitable for a LTR. Hell, even daygame and approaching women literally entails you pursuing women (albeit just a little.)
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:26 PM
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Nice guys can orbit her, but what she really wants is an attractive guy... who's nice to her too (and even that's negotiable.) If all it takes is for a guy to be nice, then there will only be nice, sexually satisfied men and assholes who aren't getting any. Tip: whenever you hear a woman say "I like x guys" think of it as "I like attractive guys who are x." It helps.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 03:13 PM
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Lol I have no interest in further debating a pseudo-intellectual whom I have nothing to prove to, as I never claimed to be an expert on the Indian subcontinent. At the start of my post, I said I would be offering a general overview of the culture here. Everyone here calls people from Bangladesh "Bangladeshis", but you wouldn't know that since you've never lived here. Besides, others here who are Asian or live in Asia, unlike you, keyboard warrior from across the globe, have verified that my obse…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:48 PM
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You're spot on. Face is a big deal. Alpha Bucks do well here.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:37 AM
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Lol when you said backpackers and perverts it immediately reminded me of this skit from SNL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ctDjnG8J9cY
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:32 AM
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Indians in Malaysia are Malaysians by nationality, but most practice many Indian customs, wear Indian dress, and are Hindus or Sikhs. Malaysian "culture" isn't set in stone and is an amalgamation of various ethnic cultures, Indians' included. The spelling "labour" is British English. I do use British English and American English in my writing, but make it a point not to mix both in my posts. If I choose to write in American English, I keep it consistent throughout the post. The commonly used dem…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:25 AM
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You obviously do not know what you're talking about. Malaysian Indians already number 2 million, with a further half a million in Singapore. Let's not forget the 950,000 ethnic Indians in Burma, 130,000 in Indonesia, and a further half a million in Thailand. Shall I continue? It's the Bangladeshis that work hard labor and Indians who are doctors and attorneys. I should expect more from a non-nitwit... but I guess I can't :/ schooled
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:46 AM
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Oooh, you got me there. Except that there are many ethnic Indians living in Southeast East, whose ancestors migrated here centuries ago or those that are FOB working in IT and the like. Indians in Southeast Asia number in the millions, and there are also many millions of Bangladeshis living and working in Southeast Asia (they usually work in construction and hard labour.) So they have entire Indian and Bangladeshi communities here, and the cultural rules from back home apply here too. Though I d…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:00 AM
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I'd bet good money that they retained their Asian accents.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:50 PM
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And why not? Generous expat package? Check. Taller than average local male? Check. Pre-selection from years of consuming western media? Check. Instant access to close-knit white expat groups in the city doing cool shit? Check. Back in the 90s expat packages for whites in many Asian cities were a hell of a lot more generous than they are today -- hence the birth of the Singaporean Sarong Party Girl trope.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:48 PM
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But did she love you longtime?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:45 PM
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Education is huge in Asia. In Hong Kong, public buses have ads all over them advertising that so-and-so teacher tutors at this tuition centre. Tutors are like superstars over there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:44 PM
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No, it would not, and this post isn't a post on how to bang or game Asian women. But it would help one to understand an Asian woman's background, and how her family would react in a LTR pursuit. You can go ahead and write the next Bang France ala Roosh. Again, read my flair.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:42 PM
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You guys have conformism jacked up to 11. That and a keen awareness of shame often leading to suicide.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:03 PM
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What he means is that individualism doesn't thrive in such cultures. It's sort of like how one would say "I would die for my country." The country (society) benefits, but the dude (individual) dies.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 06:02 PM
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Many western men are fleeing the decaying western societies, headed east. Some are headed to Europe, some to Asia. This is free information for the latter. This is also free information for those men who interact with Asian women and girls in their western societies too. This is also free information for men who've never been to Asia and would like to know how to operate in our societies before they pay a visit to slay some pussy. I apologise if this article did not personally worship at the alt…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:57 PM
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The Australians call it Tall Poppy Syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:51 PM
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Possession of drugs carries the death sentence in many Southeast Asian countries. DO NOT bring drugs or do drugs here.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:50 PM
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How do you know? /s You're absolutely right.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:49 PM
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It's not semantics. Your premises are flawed. That's all I was pointing out.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:48 PM
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Arabs and Indians are also Asian.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:45 PM
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Definitely. The shift from a majority of women being home makers (those born in 1940s to 60s) to a majority working in some sort white collar job (1970s onwards) happened pretty much in a generation, leaving the little tykes to be raised by other people (grandparents/maids/pre-school centres).
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:41 PM
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Thanks, hope you learned something new.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 01:39 PM
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Actually, I think there is a sweet spot between Western and Eastern culture. I would use my magical power to bring the culture there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:48 AM
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Um, Asia and Africa are continents. They aren't homogeneous.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 11:47 AM
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I've said this elsewhere, but I'm going to repeat myself here: Wit, humour, intelligence, and other positive traits women claim to want only matter after attraction has been established. You know when women say they want a "good guy"? What they really want is for the guy that they're attracted to be good to them. Or smart. Or caring. Or whatever. If women prized goodness and niceness, there'd only be hot guys and assholes. Or sexually satisfied gentlemen and sex starved assholes.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 02:23 AM
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You've obviously never been to Southeast Asia before.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 07:44 AM
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Oh btw I forgot to add that during the chats with these womyn I straight up told all of them to come to "my" place to get pounded. All agreed, then gave "me" their numbers.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 07:38 AM
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Many people seem to miss the point of the post, which is for newbies to see firsthand what 10/10 men get away with on apps like Tinder. That is all there is to it. Good god, not everything needs to be dissected into slices.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 02:40 PM
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^ This. Because it's one thing to know something second-hand and another to experience it yourself. Obviously you didn't read my post thoroughly.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 02:37 PM
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I live in the capital city.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:33 AM
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Actually this is written from a perspective of a Southeast Asian living in Southeast Asia. It's where I conducted my experiment. Expats here tend to mingle exclusively with other expats.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:30 AM
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The only way to address those bullshit questions is with bullshit answers. "Where do I work? Willy Wonka's Chocolate Factory. Want some candy?"
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:54 AM
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I understand. I think where I'm coming from is that technology allows for these factors to seem not to matter much anyway. "You're hot? Stuff me, daddy," said the Tinderella.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:50 AM
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Consider yourself lucky. Of course there will be exceptions to this. I can't possibly know how each and every single church in the world is. I meant "by and large", not "allll the churches".
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 02:05 AM
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Tips for Christian men: 1) In churches, everyone wears masks. Feminists have turned churches into "safe spaces" where no one offends or discusses anything real anymore. 2) Churches don't emphasize bodily health and fitness (it's perishable anyway.) If you're going to marry a lardbucket before you get married, don't be surprised over the fact that most women's bodies tend to deteriorate after marriage -- and the church environment will not do anything to curb it. They'll just blame the media for …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 04:49 AM
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Carrion stinks, and decay is a natural thing. That doesn't mean the smell doesn't repulse me. I don't care that women's biology could make them hypocrites. By that measure, no one should care that we go around and force ourselves on women if indeed it were biology driving us to do so. Biology is not an excuse for human behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 04:41 AM
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I'm afraid you're missing a key nuance here. Men, upfront, will say that they don't like obese land-whales (barring those that have fetishes). So they don't look for fat chicks. Women will, upfront, say that they recognise all these positive traits in a guy (as in Mark), say that is what they want, but subsequently reject him.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 04:38 AM
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Regardless whether it's nature or nurture, Sarah is a pile of garbage. People like her disgust me.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 09:59 AM
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I've never watched either movie. Why do you think they're blue pill beta white knight mangina movies?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:16 AM
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Fact: Emma Watson only launders 77 cents for every dollar laundered by a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:30 AM
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That's great. Are you based in the US?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:27 AM
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Yes, I did read that and a few others. Which is why I wanted to contribute some content that Christians could relate to.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:25 AM
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But what does this have to do with the price of tea in China? Did he meet his highschool sweetheart in school or a church?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:24 AM
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There's a difference between "I want a life partner" and "(I'm) going to church trying to find a 'girl to marry'" I'm just talking about Church girls from my perspective here in Asia. You get hot white girls approach you? Good for you. The girls here are not like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:12 PM
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It's not Christianity that's doing the fooling.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:17 AM
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Yes, but those are bygones. Today we do have a little of the village's support, but it is a very feminised village. Women are not pushed to be cultured and feminine. In fact, many of them end up becoming very frumpy indeed. Yetch.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:17 AM
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Churchtianity is blue pill. Don't confuse the two.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:11 AM
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Yes, many churches in Africa and Asia import garbage theology from the US wholesale. The prosperity doctrine, for one.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:11 AM
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You are absolutely right, sir. Parents this side of the world too will screen prospective husbands for material means. You are also spot on with regards to the behaviour of the women and how they treat the Christian men. I guess that's why there's that "A" in AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:06 AM
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I was writing from a perspective of many church sizes. We have everything from house churches to mega churches here. I understand the point on recce'ing in a 100-mile radius, but you have to understand that the farther away from the cities you go to the girls become even more timid and boring (sounds harsh, but I am not trying disparage suburban/rural folk.) Nah, I wanted a life partner, not anymore. It's merely an option, not a must at this point.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 11:03 AM
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If I were so RP and great, I wouldn't need to search for the answers now won't I. I know you senior posters and mods are ultra RP, but please, not all of us live in your pantheon of greatness.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 06:18 AM
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"There's like a civil war going on with black people, and there's two sides: black people; and niggas. And niggas have got to go." - Chris Rock, 'Bring the Pain', 1996.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 06:07 AM
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Damn, that Wall must be a real pain in the ass for Akira.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 02:56 AM
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Thinking that being nice will get you women will only result in you finding out the hard way that it's untrue (and that pain is necessary for growth.) You see, chivalry is dead because women killed it. Niceness and kindness aren't sexy to women. Women do not reward niceness and kindness with anything more than a Thank You or an Aww, That's So Sweet. A woman will want, desire and appreciate a nice, kind man--an Alpha Provider, even--only after he Qualifies to be given a damn about. How he usually…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 05:31 AM
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TL;DR Feminism has made women more stressed out and/or more overweight and/or less feminine than ever before.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 06:50 AM
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It's not plus three. It's times three.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 03:18 PM
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Hello Kaladin and other Christian RPers here. I want you to know that I, like many of you, share in this struggle. You are not alone. If there is one takeaway from this wall of text, I want it to be that. That being said, I want to chime in with my input for the OP, as per his request. Unfortunately, this is not one of those posts where I console you by saying, okay, green light, go bang chicks. I want to offer some background on where I am coming from so you can see that this is not something s…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 01:54 PM
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Agreed. starkiwi hasn't seemed to have familiarised himself with the Thousand Cock Stare. When girls are virgins, they are like a fortress. From puberty onwards, she will start to have men trying to find a way into the fortress to get the gold. The more men she allows into the fortress, the less gold there is. After a while, there is no gold left. For women, the emotional component is stronger in sex. For men, the physical. Once all the gold is gone, she becomes man-like in her hunger for the ph…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:12 PM
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If I were you, I would never reward bad behaviour. Free steaks for a drama queen? I can't, for the life of me, ever imagine a guy getting treated to steak for being an asshole, even if he went down on her on a daily basis.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:49 AM
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