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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 3rd date no sexOk thanks. Yes this seems less needy. So you believe in still leading/initiating? I guess it makes sense, I don't have much experience getting girls to re-initiate | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexCan you tell me how you would have done it? I am thinking maybe the right course would have been wait until she's gone and test "Sorry I don't think we're compatible" and soft next. That's what I saw in another thread anyways | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexI'm a literal computer programmer too. I wish I could just run a forceSex() command on these bishes. Joking(half). In the past I was always so nice. Didn't progress much because of shyness. Swinging towards callous is probably a better ground to learn on, better to be too unfazed than too sensitive IMO | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:16 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexI definitely did. She was withholding because of it too, to break against the "cheap thrill" stereotype. Do you know how to get past that? I was so stuck on this point but didn't know what to do. Until the end where I may have over-reacted by cancelling everything | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexThanks. You're right, I hardly ever push. Old habits compel me to pull and I feel like any push would end things immediately. Probably stems from low value internally | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexInteresting take, thanks. You mentioned that direct communication is bad here but I thought that was part of shedding beta behaviors and being a man. Maybe there's more nuance to this and sex talk is cultural risk area, that's the sense I get from the replies. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:46 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexI told her I don't believe in withholding sex as some sort of proving ground What do you think about this part? In another sub i read that's decent because it builds your frame and diminishes the "hard to get" frame they sometimes/often try to use | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:37 PM |
| 3 | 3rd date no sexI notice this general attitude in any relationship discussion especially tactical ones. I think the desire to build status is really hard to overcome | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Rules regarding sleeping around in a relationshipDoesn't fit with my value system | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Rules regarding sleeping around in a relationshipSeems fair and straight up to me. How else do you play the field without lying or creating a double standard? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menJust pointed out that girls do pay for sexual attention in other places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menSome are but most are not. White(r) skin and boyish faces are pretty common though. Here is the common look: http://www.rambarchiangmai.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Ram-Bar-Staff-1.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menGood point. TBH I don't really know how often they engage in that kind of stuff. No doubt its lower than for guys. I'm in Thailand right now which is more liberal in some ways. Girls here go to karaoke bars to spend time with cute singer guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menBefore you mentioned the wife getting horny again at the end, i thought it was a case of the regular relationship falloff. Well played on getting back to the gym! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menI went to "top rated, all time." Pic quality is definitely better. But the muscle mass difference is large too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menIt's a low amount to be sure. Probably 3% at my local gym. But the path is clear, one just needs to put in the work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 03:09 PM |
| 5 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menI've seen a few studies that say women like muscles too. For example: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2017/12/12/women-rate-the-strongest-men-as-the-most-attractive-study-finds/?noredirect=on But the level of muscle is still up for debate. The study above suggests more is better to a fairly high point. But others suggest something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 02:23 PM |
| 3 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menThere are male strippers do do that kind of stuff. Do you believe that entire sub's commenters are gay men, often posing as women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 02:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menSexy Son theory is the idea that beneficial traits taken to excess continue to be attractive so long as they don't cause harm. Because people have a keener sense of what is a good trait, than the level it becomes unnecessary. Combined with Hollywood's impact on standards of desirability, I can see an evolutionarily excessive physique being seen as attractive. As someone who spends time in Asia the story would be quite different there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menValid point on the first part. I wish we had a better way of pulling demographics of a subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menSelection bias is definitely a concern. Why do you believe women seeking out nude pics of guys would prefer high muscle / low body fat guys though? Why not low muscle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menSoft by top posts, all time. If you check them you'll see a lot of female names in the user handles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:56 PM |
| -1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menI think there is a lot of truth to what you say. At my level as an intermediate though, shirts really reduce my perceived physique. A guy with an advanced physique doesn't have to make that compromise. I personally don't think that a 300 bench at 10% bodyfat is excessive; the subreddit mentioned seems to confirm that view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menHaha ok then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menSure, I somewhat agree. But the topic was about the sexual desirability (or not) of the look, not how one should live or behave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menI think we should be upfront about our biases. I'm not really here to defend my beliefs just to defend my sense of self. Although if an argument against my view is bad i'll call it as I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menHaha I am doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: An overwhelming majority of women prefer muscular menWell as a 2nd post I sense that this topic will devolve into a giant flame fest instead of the impersonal discussion I was hoping for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How does one protect himself against false rape allegations?Yes maybe video in a non-sexual space and voice recordings in the sexy time room is the right combination. Not sure if this is legal but I think it would be okay. | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | MoneyYa but you will outside a hospital nomsayin? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/18 10:40 PM |
| -1 | Enough about lifting. Lets talk reading.The problem of false truths and understandings still looms in those types of texts. There are accounts of what people felt and encountered that don't rely on fiction as well. It does seem that the case for fiction reading is quite... ficticious [self-indulgent smile] | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What is a good downtime hobby for when you're tired?I actually tried to get strategic about napping when I was hardcore trying to "maximize my alphaness." I would do an intense ride, then a workout, then socialize, then try to nap to recover and do some other outdoorsy thing. What happened was it messed up my sleep schedule. I'd sometimes drift off for 2-3 hours, causing issues late at night. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Enough about lifting. Lets talk reading.To what end is fiction beneficial? Better to read some history, philosophy etc and learn through fact and reason than story, which is a vehicle to slip in various non-truths in hard to detect ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The Poor Man's Style and Dress GuideHey, why do you recommend tipping the tailor? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 11:57 PM |
| 6 | How do you get over dating being so much easier for girls?Being terrible is a death sentence internally. Also consider that women go to the gym at half the rate of men. Why is that. The answer I've arrived at is that having it easy is not a life advantage. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 08:27 AM |
| 41 | “All Women Are Whores”The first 2 points were well crafted. The attitude/life part though, was "shooting exotic guns and public sex." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Are TRP and seduction a good fit?Interesting I wouldn't have expected that of them. I can kinda see it when you get to stuff like running routines > requires memorization > requires preplanning how to give a damn. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Are TRP and seduction a good fit?Haha well I guess that would be a way to find one good at giving blowjobs... while it lasts! | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Are TRP and seduction a good fit?I'm not sure "improvement in all aspects of your life" is a fair characterization. Sure, we may encourage weight lifting, pursuit of other hobbies etc. But just look at the sidebar. I think it is clear where the majority of focus is. Seduction also preaches becoming better all around for the same reasons. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 01:06 PM |
| 2 | How not paying for a drink screwed up a guranteed lay with nice booty. Didnt look at the situation with the right perspective.This wasn't a price issue but a frame issue. I would have said something C/F like "well you're on a stripper income so you're buying your half princess" with a smile. If she gets offended you maintain frame and unreactivity. Never give up the frame to convince yourself into some false economy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Red Piller here who's been working in strip clubs for the last 8 yearsBasically the skill cap for having a good life is much higher for guys than girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 01:05 AM |
| 3 | What is the solution to the growing inpermanence of relationships?A couple things. One, studies showing that kids do better in marriages that stay together. Two, the concern about not having a partner in old age. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you.Deadlifts in the 300s are mostly intermediate level based on the strength scoring sites. I pull 400 as an intermediate (but I'm tall). Mid 400s to 500s are considered advanced numbers. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Hide a feminine skill or own it?No but you are. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Hide a feminine skill or own it?I don't know, I don't watch those shows. What are you saying though? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 10:18 PM |
| 2 | We grow tolerances in almost everything we doThis topic is about a phenomenon called "hedonic adaptation" which is basically habituation to all positive stimuli over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the right amount of muscle?haha that's funny. Good advice man, I'll check out those symmetry articles. My dominant forearm is definitely bigger than my other one and I don't know why since I do a lot of unilateral work. Maybe I need to lay off the tube sites for a while | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | What is the right amount of muscle?Pretty cool/insightful chart! I think I'll try for 3A or maybe 4B (though that's getting heavy/towards the natty max, if not past it) | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What is the right amount of muscle?This is a bad reframe of the question. Goals matter. I'm almost 2 years in myself and yes can choose to stay a little above my current weight, or keep progressing. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the right amount of muscle?Good to hear. I'm your height but 182 and probably higher bodyfat too. Actually now that I think about it, your height and weight probably puts you at +30 lbs lean mass already. I was hovering around 160 without weight training a couple years ago. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How dynamic is the alpha male / beta male concept in real life?I take it you don't like the question. This is not philosophy though. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 06:42 PM |
| -5 | Finally have a good physique… Now how do I actually benefit from it?I bet you felt pretty clever as you wrote that. Of course this is a false presumption | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I stick with anything?There is a general flow of emotions that comes with starting something new and trailing off. The key is to know that the trail-off will come, and think of ways to continue when the emotional thrust itself is gone. For weightlifting I have moved a short cardio burst before the weights. A short jog is very easy to get into because it takes me outdoors and is somewhat enjoyable. My sweaty, energized body is then ready to do the arduous weightlifting work afterwards | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is sex so important?Studies have shown that happines is essentially tied to 3 things: a base of good health and finances, and then relationships, both platonic and sexual. Working backwards from that it is fair to say that being sexually satisfied is important. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the most important thing a guy should do for face care?I haven't been using anything yet but yes the tropical heat/humidity could definitely be an issue | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the most important thing a guy should do for face care?Thanks, I'm in Thailand so will probably have to buy online from ebay. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What is the most important thing a guy should do for face care?Thanks, does this reverse wrinkles or just prevent them? I'm already in my thirties (31). I look about my age. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/17 01:36 AM |
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