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A better question is "does it affect you?" All men are different and will have different reactions (and different amounts of time spent watching) to porn. Some guys can jerk it everyday and still have juice for thier ladies, others can't. The bottom line is that if you are having sexual problems the first step should be abstaining from porn for a month or so and reassessing your situation, even if other guys don't have any problem from porn.
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:38 AM
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!0 days is not very long. I would strictly limit communication during the trip, but make sure to send her a picture message of you doing something awesome while you are away. In fact, in the absence of a totally rad pic showing how awesome you are, I would not initiate communication at all until you are back. [EDIT] Yes, this means looking up something cool to do wherever you are going for this trip. Is there a mountain nearby you can hike up? Send her a pic of you at the summit! Kayaking? Send …
/r/seduction31/08/11 03:11 PM
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Being healthy is attractive, and fitting the cultural definition of attractive is attractive. Being attractive gets you more attraction. Feeling attractive makes you more confident. Working out relieves stress, and makes you happier about your self. I'm curious to see if the effect is more noticeable when I hit my goal of 170 lbs and start cutting to get a lot of definition. Maybe this will happen with hotter and hotter girls as I bulk up more? I think as long as you look healthy, "masculine" an…
/r/seduction22/08/11 12:20 AM
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I agree with everything you have said. It is all true. However, the only alternative is to sleep with girls you are in some sort of dating relationship with where LMR is not a problem. If you want to pick a girl up and fuck her that night she is going to give LMR and asking/waiting for her to verbally consent will kill the mood. And even if she is sober and consents, if she cries rape you're still going to have a bitch of a time defending yourself. You said it. If you are really going to worry a…
/r/seduction15/08/11 09:17 AM
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You're worrying about it too much. I've had so many girls tell me "I don't even remember what we did last night!" Girls are assholes and play these games on themselves as much as they do on men. If you are raping her you'll know it! She'll be beating her hands against your chest, slapping you, scratching at you, screaming "No, please! Don't! Stop!" That's a fuckload different from "Oh my, I don't think we should... ohhh.... I really do have to be up early tomorrow!"
/r/seduction14/08/11 10:07 PM
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Dude's are such cunts. Sometimes I get jealous of rams who just have to bash their heads together.
/r/seduction14/08/11 03:57 AM
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Urhg reading that was painful. Any meeting explicitly just for sex is going to be weird and awkward! Especially if it's set up for a few days in the future! I'm not surprised he cancelled after thinking about it. You should have asked him to hang out at such and such place, if you are both drinkers go to a bar, if you are dancers go to a club, if you are artsy go too a museum. Anywhere where you can connect and get back into each others grooves. Basically just loosen him up. Then you escalate ki…
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:32 AM
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Keep ghost hunters, drop computer building.
/r/seduction05/08/11 07:19 PM
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Hmm, not sure if there is a real difference. I mean to the oneitis afflicted person it always seems like a reasonable desire.
/r/seduction20/07/11 01:52 PM
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If you can figure out how then yes there is an undersea world of lonely wanton and female seahorses just waiting for a male who isn't too picky.
/r/seduction13/07/11 10:46 PM
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the last girl i was with slept with more guys than i have girls. Not to mention that you have to increase the number she gave you by 25% to get the real number.
/r/seduction13/07/11 06:00 PM
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It's either biological (evolutionary psychology) or social. The biological answer is that in all species which reproduce via 2 sexes the sex with the greater reproductive burden is more selective. This can be seen in seahorses, where the male carries the offspring and are very selective whereas the females swim all over trying to mate with as many males as they can. The social answer is that it is looked down on, so womens behavior is formed by the expectations of society. In both cases women ca…
/r/seduction13/07/11 05:58 PM
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So do you like Japanese stuff?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:48 PM
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I sort of degraded in her eyes like a wilting flower. That's beautiful, dude.
/r/seduction08/07/11 01:33 AM
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It seems like a lot of these comments are white knights defending/rationalizing their own possessiveness over some "little sister."
/r/seduction07/07/11 10:13 PM
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"She's like my little sister (that I secretly love and want to pork forever), bro!" You shouldn't have distanced yourself from her. Make a joke out of it and soldier on, I say. She was clearly embarrassed by the guy so it would be easy to lightly neg her about it. "Do you think his head would explode if we danced? Let's find out."
/r/seduction07/07/11 07:26 PM
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I thought that was a bag of coke. After she gets ass-slapped she says "Something something cheeky-bastard, let's get a line in first!"
/r/seduction06/07/11 08:21 PM
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"Only one way to find out."
/r/seduction24/06/11 01:52 AM
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it just didn't feel like it was "me." I think a lot of people get turned off by PUA stuff because of this impression. You already explained that "you" sucked, so why not make a new, better "you"? Obviously you have made the first steps in this transformation, but I have a feeling you are still suffering from significant AA from the way you describe your current interactions (or lack thereof) with women. Particularly in this phrase "THIS IS FUCKING IT!! I am bringing ME to the table, ladies come …
/r/seduction21/06/11 03:27 PM
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Can you expound on what you did to change?
/r/seduction18/06/11 01:33 PM
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She'll tell anyone... except the man she wants to be fucked by.
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:21 AM
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I think it's a given that if the date were to find out then it would be a 100% loss. This is a high-risk maneuver.
/r/seduction14/06/11 10:05 AM
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I just spent the past two weeks talking to her, telling her how I feel about her and trying to drink my pain away every night. I'm literally drunk every single night of the week. This is tool behavior. FYI: chicks get off on yanking guys' chains this way, something about being desired by other men even if they have no interest in a relationship with said other men blah blah blah.
/r/seduction02/06/11 10:08 PM
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26? Try 46 then let me know what you thought of it.
/r/seduction22/05/11 07:17 PM
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All you're other guy friends bring girls home, is there a special reason why you can't? You are an adult after all. Did you bring your early high school girlfriends home? Ever have friends over? Seriously, some people have problems at home that don't make it conducive to bringing people over (alcoholic/abusive parents, overly religious or intrusive parents, etc.). If you have anything even remotely resembling a normal home life then you have to realize the problem is with YOU. You need to break …
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:02 PM
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I'm in the same boat dude. Let her slip away from me last term and I felt like SHIT. Happens that we have another class together this term but she graduating so it's gotta be now!
/r/seduction19/04/11 04:38 AM
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See for me I toiled in the hole of depression and anxiety for many many years until I hit the breaking point of "do something about this now or it's seriously game over." So that's when I did something. I am still a depressed person, still an anxious person, that doesn't change. What has changed is my understanding of how easy it is to do something and every little something makes life that much better. I basically just decided that "my breaking point is now" for everything. Tl;dr: Depression is…
/r/seduction26/03/11 09:25 PM
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Being told doesn't help, actually doing it does!
/r/seduction26/03/11 09:16 PM
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I am a massively depressed person and I can tell you from personal experience that manning the fuck up works every time. [EDIT] This doesn't apply just to depression, any time you tell yourself you can't do X because of Y the solution is manning the fuck up.
/r/seduction26/03/11 09:13 PM
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Yeah, it's more like "People with bigger problems than you have overcome them through sheer force of will, while you are just a whining prick."
/r/seduction26/03/11 07:41 PM
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Masturbation and sex are two different things and do not impact each others performance (except in that masturbating too much can reduce your libido to the point of experiencing erectile dysfunction).
/r/seduction16/03/11 04:21 PM
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Nice to them, asshole to everyone else. She finally realizes he is an asshole when he porks her sister/best friend/whatever. Says "[Asshole] is such an asshole! Why can't I ever find a NICE guy?!" Cycle repeats.
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:01 AM
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As a mediocre pussy I find this disheartening.
/r/seduction09/03/11 11:56 PM
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Testosterone isn't the end-all be-all of the pro-fap vs. reduced-fap debate. There's a lot to be said for conditioning the brain to go to the computer as the easiest and most available love object (reducing alpha-state in the real world), dopamine reward pathways (a major component of most addictions), and a-process/b-process (that the brain will compensate for an quick upshift from homeostasis with an increasingly long and severe downshift, in this case dopamine upshifting (which itself gets mo…
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:06 AM
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The problem, however, was that she would soon reject a kiss. I used the typical "Kiss me", pointing to the lips technique If she would reject an advance she definitely won't make the move herself! An advance is more coercively powerful than a request!
/r/seduction04/03/11 12:29 PM
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I like doing this just for fun, personally, and when you find someone who can keep up with you, that is when it's the most challenging/exciting... and if someone can't keep up with me, I will lose interest. That's gold right there.
/r/seduction04/03/11 11:14 AM
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As the target you would not be aware of the machinations that went into coordinating the events of this evening.
/r/seduction04/03/11 10:49 AM
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You can't bring this information to the general public, a person has to become aware that something is wrong with the usual notions of intimacy first before he will search for and accept the truth.
/r/seduction04/03/11 10:24 AM
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Road head.
/r/seduction04/03/11 08:37 AM
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Good for you. So many guys, in your same position, "come clean" about there secret desire for the girl. It basically just gives her an extra cherry on her girlfriend-with-a-penis sundae by boosting her ego even more (and you still end up forever alone). It's better just to cut to the chase and forget about the girl.
/r/seduction04/03/11 08:33 AM
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She oughtta be for a $4,000 bj!
/r/seduction02/03/11 09:05 AM
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So get this shit: She says "I've been thinking about how you never get laid, and well, I'm really good at giving head, and I need a lot of money, so I was just thinking that maybe we could work something out?" So the object of your oneitis is an actual real-life prostitute? Wow, dude...
/r/seduction02/03/11 08:15 AM
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Should I be reading this thread under the idea that I want to be a pick-up artist? Basically the only reason to read this is to gain insight into human bonding and mating. Some people choose to apply that knowledge in the hopes of bonding more and mating more, these people might be called pick-up artists. Because I'm finding myself kind of disturbed... This is very interesting, could you elaborate on your feelings? What is it that is weirding you out?
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:32 PM
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"If you have to ask you''ll never know!" Straight from the playground right there. My guess is she doesn't even know what went wrong, but she doesn't want to tell the guy that, so she defaults to this absurd statement. Also possible is that he failed on a metric that she isn't willing to admit is important, ie: he wasn't dominant enough. If she is ashamed of her own desire for a dominant man, because she is a "modern independent woman," then she could be in denial of the whole thing. This leads …
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:23 PM
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I think both are absolutely necessary unless you are a natural. If you are an AFC you need to speak to women to get comfortable with them but you need the theory to understand what the women are telling you.
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:15 PM
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A guy buying me a drink will be among a bunch of things that will make him attractive in my eyes. Just wondering, do you have an idea of why this is? I mean, beyond alcohol making everyone more attractive, lol. What does the drink represent? Does a "gift" like a drink change the mood, does it show he is in control of the "date" by saying who is doing what, or is a gift of any type (ie: flowers) satisfies a need for some material gain (like, probably bad, evolutionary psychology along the lines o…
/r/seduction27/02/11 09:09 PM
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Thanks for the perspective! You seem really in touch with the reality of desire (unfortunately even though we take these things as truths for all women, when one comes out and says it she gets labelled a bitch or a whore or something. Sorry about that!). It seems like the drink buying thing is getting a lot of flack, but you make a valid point that men buy each other drinks all the time. I think the important point is that you weren't a stranger he was trying to impress, you were a familiar targ…
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:43 PM
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Well you shouldn't ever feel like you have to do something. Very often I don't kiss girls on the first date, it just seems awkward to me. We usually see each other again the next day or the day after and that is a much better time. She may have been reciprocally awkward because you felt awkward about the kiss. Maybe she thought she was being coy and mysterious by walking off after a kiss. Who knows? If I were you I would just play it cool, make it seem like you are happy about the whole thing (a…
/r/seduction14/02/11 02:40 AM
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Hey I've known a lot of guys who have literally "slept" with a girl, and in every case it has helped make the girl feel more comfortable and leads to good sex in the near future. The fact that she texted you and invited you over again shows that she didn't think you are a pussy or weak or beta for not pushing harder for sex. I would tell you not to let it happen again tonight though. You definitely want to get in a mind set where you are there to be charming, make out feverishly, and get laid.
/r/seduction06/02/11 11:56 AM
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You aren't a scumbag, but she is a really bad girlfriend.
/r/seduction06/02/11 11:42 AM
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This would be a pretty useless subred if it was only used by mPUA's.
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:40 PM
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It's so true. Although it is somewhat itis-like, I had a similar situation where I was crushing on a girl hard. She gave me EVERY IOI imaginable, and I still wasn't able to find my nuts. It was a long time ago, and I don't "regret it to this very day," but still it gives me motivation to be open to the opportunities all around me.
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:39 PM
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Seems a solid situation for k-close and maybe f-close yeah! I like both these girls. Quick advice: stow an open condom somewhere handy (leave it in the wrapper obviously). Fumbling with condoms is the #1 erection killer for nervous would-be fuckers. Also, there is a potential conflict between honesty and sex here. The fact that you are a virgin is kind of a big deal, and may lead to LMR from the girl. You could be honest about it so she knows ahead of time the sex might not be that great, or you…
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:18 AM
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Yeah I've done it too. If you have good comic sense and know the person you're speaking to will be receptive to that kind of humor it is easy.
/r/seduction30/01/11 09:53 PM
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Yes definitely. Car salesmen "get" people to do things they don't want to do, and later regret, all the time. They don't "force" the customer, they "convince" them with oft-practiced tactics. Most seduction techniques are exactly the same, the hard sell and perseverance in order to get someone to do something they otherwise would not have. When I was in sales the management would say the exact same thing "The people are here to buy, you just need to get them the right product, you may here X typ…
/r/seduction30/01/11 09:52 PM
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I interpreted it as a "theres a million fish in the sea" ending, where naturally right after Summer comes Autumn, and after Autumn there will be a Winter etc. Like just be cool, don't sweat every relationship and break up because there are infinite opportunities if you keep your eyes open.
/r/seduction28/01/11 02:15 AM
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They're so afraid they want a girl to take the initiative through the whole relationship: making the first move, etc. In other words, being the man. That's you talking about relationships. And you are wrong, many shy men have AA but are dominant in relationships once they are more comfortable with the person.
/r/seduction28/01/11 01:31 AM
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Dude, you are just a rad guy who says hello to similarly radical seeming people he runs across! Take it easy. Next time you see her just say "Hi!" Keep it natural, talk about whats going on right now not your life history (interview, bleh). "This snow is crazy, huh! I really thought it was a beautiful winter wonderland until I had to shovel it!"
/r/seduction27/01/11 10:52 PM
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Well I think you are combining two distinct characteristics which don't apply to all shy guys. Not everyone who has AA is lacking relationship experience and just because they have AA doesn't mean they would let a woman they are comfortable with walk all over them or expect them to take all the initiative forever.
/r/seduction27/01/11 10:26 PM
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Yeah that is why I told her to be persistent. This used to happen to me a lot when I was younger, and I would get very defensive. Nowadays I am able to control the situation if a girl approaches me and immediately take the dominant role, but if the target male isn't that experienced she will have to work the situation just like a male PUA would.
/r/seduction27/01/11 10:24 PM
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Shy guy here. Shy guys fantasize non-stop about women being more direct. My advice: be direct, but understand that the guy may be surprised that you are approaching him. That he is surprised is not a rejection, just be nice and keep talking to him! After a minute or two he'll get more comfortable.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:40 AM
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