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Only 3.6% of men identify as gay or bisexual. There aren't enough gay or bisexual men to skew the data by more than a couple of percentage points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:31 PM
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Yep. Young women are in Chad harems, or they get with other women when Chad isn't available. They want nothing to do with average or below average men. Blackpillers have been telling everyone that this was what was happening. And now the data reflects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:11 PM
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Men are almost never single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:06 PM
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Why did you start talking about homelessness if you have no first hand experience with it? I've met plenty of real homeless people in real life. I've volunteered to help the homeless. Homelessness is primarily a male problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:40 PM
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Yes that's hardly any. And what would you know about it? Unlike the US the EU has social safety nets to prevent homelessness from ever happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:36 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homeless_women_in_the_United_States That statistics do not agree with you. Homelessness is very much a gendered problem. Specifically a male problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:25 PM
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Homeless women are rare because men are almost always willing to bail them out and give them a place to stay. You said talk to women in homeless shelters. I'm saying there are hardly any women in homeless shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:21 PM
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Are you sure you’re not on the autism spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:15 PM
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I'm 6'2" and I have a wife and kid. I was blackpilled before there was a term for it. I think most Chads are blackpilled. Most of the attractive guys in my fraternity back in the day knew it was pretty much all about looks. Women don't care that much about money or status. They want good genetics for their offspring. Money and status matter much less in the modern Western world than they once did. Self improvement is a hamster wheel to nowhere. Notice how guys who are actually attractive never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:08 PM
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I'm telling you the redpill is over. Take the blackpill. Leverage your good looks when you are in your late teens and 20s. Women don't care about money or status anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:54 PM
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He got old and his looks faded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:37 PM
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They’re transactional if you are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:27 PM
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Go get your mail order bride. Just don't be surprised when she divorces you. I wouldn't do it. But it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:21 AM
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I didn't say trust me bro. I said the US government has internal data that suggests these marriages are so risky that they won't allow them without huge financial collateral. I don't find the women from most of those countries attractive. My wife is Belgian and German and tall and our son is a blonde Chad who already has a girlfriend at 5 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:03 AM
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Pretty much none of those relationships work out. It's why the US government requires you to financially support them for 10 years even (and especially) if you get a divorce. They don't want them dependent on government assistance programs when the inevitable happens. Money doesn't make you sexually attractive. You don't seem to understand the concept of someone being used for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:35 AM
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Desperate women in third world shitholes living in poverty. And they aren't attracted to you. They're just using you for immigration purposes and some money. Those women almost always get a divorce once they reach whatever Western country they're trying to get to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:20 AM
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It's not the 1950s. Women have their own money and their own careers. Millennial and Gen Z women often rival or outearn men. They could give two fucks about money. They want hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:52 AM
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They're called betabuxxers. And they got starfish/duty sex from some woman who settled for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:40 AM
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Genetics play a huge role in how men age and most men age like shit. And you absolutely can be a brokeass 20 year old and easily get hot girls if you are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:07 PM
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I’m 40. Even though my wife still finds me attractive and I get plenty of attention from women I know that I am nowhere near as sexually attractive as I was when I was 20. Hollywood is mostly run by men and is selling a male fantasy to men. Prime age 18-25 year old women by and large are not sexually attracted to 43 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:54 PM
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I mean not really. Average and above average men are usually attractive enough that they can get women in their 20s. Below average men have to self improve and can maybe get transactional relationships in their 30s and 40s that are based on their ability to provide (but there's no genuine attraction there).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:07 PM
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If someone would leave you the second the money stops flowing (laid off, hours at work cut, etc) then that's not a real relationship based on genuine attraction. It's transactional and she's just with you for money.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 04:20 PM
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What you're describing is betabuxxing. Not genuine attraction.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 01:14 PM
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What women find sexually attractive is biologically hardwired. They're looking for good genes they can pass onto their potential children. They know within seconds if they find a guy attractive. You can't force attraction. It just doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:23 AM
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Men peak in sexual attractiveness in their early 20s. The dating scene for men in their 30s and 40s sucks. It's a lot of single moms with a lot of baggage. Lock something down in your 20s if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:40 AM
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Dating/romance options peak in your 20s for both men and women.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 10:48 PM
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Says the pathetic loser who resorts to third world dumpster diving to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:46 PM
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Somebody is butthurt that a TV show makes him look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:11 PM
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This. Most “passport bros” are in their 50s and 60s, divorced, children grown, wealthy, often retired or semi-retired. They exploit third world poverty to date some girl their daughter’s age who would normally have zero interest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:13 PM
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Build a strong social circle and make friends with a lot of young women. One of the most toxic aspects of the redpill is that it stigmatizes friendships between men and women. Followers of it often end up becoming incels because they are so scared of friendships with women and being “friendzoned.”
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:26 PM
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I would suggest watching 90 Day Fiance on TLC so you can see what some of these guys actually look like. "Old gross creepy sex tourists" is a pretty good description of a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:01 AM
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I mean not if you're just doing it out of nowhere by cold approaching and you don't even know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:23 PM
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I've never been rejected by any woman I've asked out, and back when I was dating I had women ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah I can see where you're failing. You think relationships are all transactional, and see no value in female friendships unless you get sex out of it. It sounds like you don't even really see women as people, just sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:08 PM
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You guys crack me up. How do you expect to get into a long term relationship with a woman when friendships with women terrify you? You guys are so afraid of the friendzone that you end up turning yourselves into incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:42 PM
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I love how you just throw out a random percentage with no evidence to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:22 PM
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Very few of them are into casual sex. They have to worry about pregnancy and are at higher risk of STDs than men. Also terrified of running into dangerous men who might physically and/or sexually assault them. This is why hookup apps like Tinder are complete sausage fests that are like 95%+ ugly, horndog bottom of the barrel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:10 PM
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This is such a weird, disconnected from reality take on the hookup scene that I see repeated a lot in the manosphere. In my experience the people into hooking up aren't even necessarily all that attractive. The people who are real catches are usually in committed relationships with other attractive people. The hookup scene is also much smaller than a lot of people are thinking. And it gets kind of gross to still be part of that scene beyond your early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:58 PM
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Build a strong social circle and become friends with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:55 PM
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It absolutely happened. The sorority girls at our school really did make fun of him. My then girlfriend (now wife) was in a sorority so I heard all the gossip. I heard some absolutely brutal jokes from them like "muscles on a short guy are like tits on a nun!" I went to the same gym and had worked out with him a lot when he was getting in shape and thought he made great progress. The way the girls at our school treated him was appalling. As I said before he was around 5'4" or 5'5". Girls treat s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:36 PM
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Not exactly. The guys I know who failed had good careers, but also had other issues that made them unattractive. I know two guys from college ~20 years ago who have had no romantic success and are now in their late 30s. Both of them are really short (around 5'4" or 5'5") and one of them is on the autism spectrum. One is a computer programmer and the other is a pharmacist. The neurotypical pharmacist tried gymceling when we were in college. He spent about a year getting really fit. It changed not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:32 PM
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Reddit banned incel and femcel subs. That doesn't mean they got rid of incels and femcels. It means they scattered them. This is one of the places a lot of them ended up, along with foreveralone, short, twoxchromosomes, femaledatingstrategy, and a bunch of other places. Some of the real looney tunes went over to fringe websites like Incels.is or https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/, but most of them stayed on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:22 PM
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Clearly he isn’t satisfying you if you have to resort to all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:49 AM
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It's definitely not urine. I'm very sensitive to smell. If it was urine I would have been grossed out. It's clear, flavorless, odorless, basically like warm purified water.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:38 AM
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What comes out of the Skene's Glands isn't urine. It's an ultrafiltrate of blood plasma. It's clear and doesn't smell or taste like piss. In porn they're usually just pissing. But squirting is real and it's not piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:35 AM
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Incels tend to be non-neurotypical (usually autistic) social rejects, really subpar looking (short, ugly, etc), or both. I'm not convinced they can necessarily self improve their way out of their situations. Some people just don't make the cut for relationships, sex, and reproduction. Bullshit self help platitudes like what you have in the OP just come across as condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:02 AM
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Reads like some weird incel fanfiction about the Taliban that has very little basis in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:32 PM
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Because many redditors are incels and nearcels themselves, but in denial about it. They lash out at the "bad" incels who say aburd things on incel forums so they can feel better about their own shitty situations. Inceltear has lots of "I might be a 35 year old virgin, but at least I'm not hateful about it like those incels!" types posting on it. It's not even really speculation. One of the mods of Inceltear, advocatedoogy, recently got outed as a mid 30s autistic permavirgin who lives with his p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:04 AM
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Bisexuality is common in women and incredibly rare in men. If you enjoy having sex with other men you are most likely just gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:43 AM
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The real issue in most of these scenarios is lack of physical attraction, not low libido. I would argue that most of the cases over on r/deadbedrooms come down to lack of physical attraction. A lot of the guys over there are unattractive nearcel tier dudes who went the betabuxxing route. Their wives were never attracted to them, and settled for them because they are stable providers. Generally speaking young, healthy people in their 20s, 30s, and 40s don't have libido issues. The deadbedrooms cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:19 AM
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Using the marketplace analogy, online dating is like the bargain bin where all the crap that no one wants gets dumped. It's like that $1 DVD bin at Walmart. The men and women on it are generally unattractive. People who are attractive, or even just average, have no trouble coupling up in the real world, and never have to dumpster dive with OLD. On top of that there are hardly any women on it. It's like 70-95% male in most markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:45 PM
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A lot of those girls give lap dances and are escorts on the side. They also have to see and interact with the gross dudes while stripping. Camming has the advantage of never having to actually see or do anything with the gross dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:17 PM
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This post is rather dated. Nowadays these kinds of women usually do camming and don't have any direct contact with the guys who are funding their lifestyle. They don't even necessarily have high lay counts and may have a completely normal relationship with their boyfriend or husband. Technology has made it possible to be a sex worker without having to actually fuck gross men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:23 PM
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Nope. The idea that men age well is a cope for unattractive incel/nearcel type guys who hope that their circumstances with women will improve with age. In reality men peak in sexual attractiveness in their late teens and early 20s just like women. And in modern times women aren’t reliant on men as providers, so your career being established in your 30s and 40s probably isn’t going to make you an attractive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:17 PM
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This. I mean unless you eat out all the time, or your mom cooks for you, you're going to be going to the grocery store. Some of these manosphere people are just so fucking weird and disconnected from the world. Makes sense that a lot of them are autistic when they do surveys on incel forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:46 PM
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Going out into the real world and looking at what some actual couples look like is the quickest and easiest way to debunk all of the bizarre incel manosphere conspiracy theory nonsense about out of control hypergamy. You have to be a complete shut in social reject with very little contact with the real world who looks at extreme examples on the internet to believe that stuff. Go stand in the check out line at the grocery store and look at what the couples look like and try to tell me you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:41 PM
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I’ve been approached plenty of times. For instance in high school a girl asked me to prom rather than the other way around (long time ago, but that one stands out in my memory). This sounds more like a you issue than some general problem with women. If women are into you they will flirt and make it very obvious what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:22 PM
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I wish I could upvote this more. This is what the dating pool consists of mostly once you get past your early to mid 20s. College is the ideal time to be locking down a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:42 AM
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Spoken like someone who has no first hand experience in the matter. The best sex I've ever had in my life was when my wife was lactating. Women get hotter when they become mothers. Their boobs get huge. You can drink their milk. Because of the husband stitch their pussies are super tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:25 PM
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So you're an old gay firefighter who does roids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:03 AM
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This is pretty much what the manosphere consists of. Guys who are incels or nearcels and the grifters who prey on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:23 AM
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6'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:32 PM
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I know plenty of people younger than myself in their 20s and 30s. None of them struggle the way that manosphere buffoons describe. They're coupled. Lots are getting married and having kids. Nothing has changed that much since I was dating. Online dating back then was generally for losers and rejects and was mostly male. That's still true. I would also dispute that online dating is that hard if you're a normal person. I kept hearing how horrible it was. With my wife's permission I made a profile …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:23 PM
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Sounds like you might be gay. Part of the process of self discovery that gay guys I know went through was realizing that they really don't like pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:06 PM
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[quote]Or does everyone live in an alternate reality world where average guys left and right are walking around with girlfriends on their arm lol [/quote] This is the reality I live in. The only guys I know who struggle are social rejects (often autistic, mentally ill, etc), or extremely subpar looking (short, ugly, balding prematurely), or both. Average guys do fine. Get off of the internet and touch grass if you actually think an inceldom epidemic and out of control hypergamy are real things. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:51 PM
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Touch grass if you think being that tall or women expecting men to be that tall is common. I'm 6'2" (but like really 6'2" and not inflating my height like a lot of guys) and I was pretty much always the tallest guy back in high school and college. When people guess my height they always think I'm somewhere in between 6'3" and 6'6" because so many guys lie about their height and they have no concept of what 6'2" actually looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:48 PM
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Younger women in their late teens and early 20s rarely date much older men outside of golddigger/sugar daddy type situations. They usually want hot guys their own age and think old men are gross. The Red Pill community acting like these age gap relationships are common shows how disconnected from reality they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:40 PM
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It seems to be a vicious cycle with a lot of incels. They’re bitter and hateful because they’re alone, but being bitter and hateful will tend to cause you to stay alone. And as you said a lot of them have tragic origin stories involving bullying and rejection, often because they’re ugly and/or autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:12 PM
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In my experience most people who are at least decently attractive tend to couple up in their late teens and early 20s, and they only occasionally come back on the dating market (due to divorce, break up, death of their partner, etc). After that (mid 20s and beyond) a lot of the people who are still single have something wrong with them. Why these people aren’t relationship material can be a whole range of things from bad personalities, to immaturity, to something being wrong with their looks, to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:42 PM
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My wife is a clinical pharmacist and hospital administrator who makes almost $200K a year. She's physically attractive. She was a super hot sorority girl when we met back in college. I definitely married up (and I'm a man). I still shop at Walmart for some items and for the deals. Even when I'm shopping at a nicer store like Publix, Costco, Whole Foods, or Target, the couples look pretty evenly matched for the most part. Very attractive men with much less attractive women and vice versa is quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:59 PM
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Married. With my wife for 20+ years. Have a son with her. Wouldn't leave her. Would stay and take care of her if she got sick. She's my ride or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:51 PM
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Go stand in the check out line at Walmart and look at what actual couples look like. You don't need to be in the top 10% of men. You don't need to look like a male model. Most couples are evenly matched in terms of looks. All of this manosphere nonsense about hypergamy completely collapses when you set foot in the real world. The real issue with most guys who get sucked into manosphere nonsense is that they're non-neurotypical and can't navigate social situations. By their own admission somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:21 PM
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I don’t think there’s actually a crisis of modern dating or of single, lonely incel/nearcel type men. I think it just seems that way if you hang out on places like Reddit and 4chan where social rejects congregate. I would go a step further and argue that most of the guys who get drawn to manosphere ideologies, especially incel and blackpill stuff are non-neurotypical. Many are autistic and/or mentally ill and fail in social situations. And that's the real reason they struggle with dating. Not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:02 PM
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Nope. I'm married and about to turn 40 in a few days. I wouldn't leave my wife for a younger woman. I also never struggled in the way that you describe in my 20s. I was able to date pretty much whoever I wanted to date and married exactly who I wanted to marry. I have absolutely no interest in an age gap relationship with a shallow gold digger 20 years my junior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:07 AM
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Yep. Lots of guys are into chubby/thick women. The idea that they’re more attainable than athletic women is completely disconnected from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:56 PM
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