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| 1 | trying to talk to a girl buy feels like a Interview.I'm spelling it that way from now on | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:37 PM |
| 4 | trying to talk to a girl buy feels like a Interview.So jerking off like a fucking loser and getting virtual women is more productive than getting actual pussy? | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | trying to talk to a girl buy feels like a Interview.shrugs seems way more productive than talking to girls? | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Need more info. How and why did you break up? What was the nature of your relationship, e.g. what needs did you fulfill for each other? How did you cope with the initial trauma? | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?It sounds like you're mentally compartmentalizing "sex" and "romance," which is a common fallacy. This fallacy makes people feel objectified. The kind of "emotional" talk you're describing doesn't sound normal and probably not much a result of the sex itself. But for an unstable person, it can help them cope with objectification - by themselves and you - that is a direct result of this compartmentalization. Just my two cents. The rest of your post frankly spiraled into being unintelligible. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with her Instagram stories?Delete Instagram and Facebook and snap chat and everything else and enjoy mental health | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | I have feelings for my physiotherapist, and I don’t know if she’s giving me signs. Someone help me out! ThanksWho the fuck asks someone directly about this? That is in no way neurotypical. Sounds like the exchange of direct info definitely already happened. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginSeems like we agree on pretty much everything. Nice write up, and appreciate the personal anecdote as well. Many of us were in similar situations. I am always pushing the boundaries when it comes to the physical side of relationships just because that's what I do naturally. Not all are this way, but many need to learn to enjoy it more. What I disagree with is the original comment's procedural tone/approach, which to me came off as kind of creepy and aggressive. And I think my response may have b… | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginWhat's your secret to seduction? You sound like a charmer. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginYou're right, I do say pretty dumb shit sometimes. But I'm open to correction, if you would care to suck some of that nasty shit out of my head and replace it with something else!:) | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginYou, sir, are a meme. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Advice for a 37 year old virginClearly he isn't saying grab hands against their will. He's just saying to go for the hand hold sometimes. This is incomprehensible to me. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 10:13 PM |
| -3 | Advice for a 37 year old virginI'm an even bigger asshole than you, and even i know that assault is a turnoff at best | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Advice for a 37 year old virginYeah...... you don't just grab people. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a 37 year old virginAsk girls out > grab the gets arrested | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedYes! Let the man vent, clearly it was one small thing that finally broke him. Someone in this frame of mind doesn't need to be told what they're missing or doing wrong, they need encouragement and a listening ear, something most guys these days have no idea what it even feels like to have or give. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?What? | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?Don't be goofy. Ever. Not just to girls. It's a learned ploy to get people to like you. Except that it makes people like you less, and they just pretend to like you for that moment. They're not laughing at what you said, they're laughing at the fact that you said it. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 01:05 AM |
| -1 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedSick of this man up shit, gents these days are sick of bullshit like the above and rightfully so. The answer is not to ignore all feelings of frustration over the fact that we get fucked over all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightAt least you're beautiful on the inside | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightSad and desperate when people resort to blaming God | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightSorry, too many lines to follow. Anyway, point still stands, get better friends. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightGreat. Are you getting jacked? It helps your dopamine receptors just as much as any medication, at least according to my doc. Get jacked. I remember feeling like SHIT when drinking even a small bit when first on the meds. Now I know why they come with those little warning labels. These days I dgaf and drink a ton anyway but I think I've been on the meds long enough that I can tolerate it. Point is BE CAREFUL!:) | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:41 PM |
| 4 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightBullshit. Nothing wrong with being horny, as men are wont to be, and going out with the full intent of getting some. You do have to be ok if you fail though because some random unfortunate shit can happen like what happened here with OP's friend wanting to introduce him to the woman his "friend" fucked. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 4 | I got really mad at myself while leaving the bars last nightHoly shit u/Snoo-50214 you're worse than the people harrowing OP. This shit presumes bullies should not be stood up to, all but gaslights OP for his very valid feelings ("man up!",) and if OP follows this, his behavior and the bullies' behavior are REINFORCED. Listen, OP, about the "no," that is NOT YOUR FAULT. In no way should YOU feel responsible for that kind of rude, antisocial behavior. Don't give a bully what they want by becoming offended, though. I would have fired back with a "you have … | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Trying to put the pieces together after years of failure and watching other people succeed on the sidelines. Where do I even begin?As usual, hate the replies here except the upvoted. Just came here to say you sound highly intelligent and witty. You write creatively and efficiently. This way of clear and organized thought will take you far in life, including love life. Once you accomplish what you need with the physical features, you can capitalize on this and stand out. That's all I had to say, gl. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Question about a crushYou don't understand... I'm successful at this and married as a result, and I'm telling you that your answer is wrong. Well not exactly wrong, but only works in a very specific circumstance. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Question about a crushI want to put a giant [citation needed] next to every formulaic answer especially yours. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Question about a crushThis whole sub is just porn fantasies replying to other porn fantasies | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Young Man Saving His Virginity Till Marriage (Turn Off?)I'm a conservative Catholic. If you attend this type of church, women looking for the same thing will put their numbers into your phone. It's crazy. Marriage happens fast but the men actually like it because of the traditional values and gender roles. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Young Man Saving His Virginity Till Marriage (Turn Off?)Yes. As a married person (for religious reasons) - the sexual compatibility argument is a lie because sex life gets hard [giggity] in marriage inevitably. So is "boys will be boys" because real men have the self control to act on principle. Society isn't used to this. "You'll be stunted and repressed" - the opposite is true, you will know exactly who you want when she comes, and get her. Don't listen to the coomers, please. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I keep attracting what I don't want.As a medieval and Christianity scholar: If you want my seduction advice, seek a stoner GF. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I keep attracting what I don't want.Fine, I'll take the bait... eucharistic theology isn't creepy and gross if you actually seek to understand it. Which I hope is the spirit of your comments. Isn't that Matthew verse just the "let the children come to me" verse? Anyway, Catholics don't place a huge emphasis on this kind of biblical interpretation. I've never met any religious person who believes or talks about what you described, lol. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | I keep attracting what I don't want.What you're describing sounds absurd. I've studied cults, and that sounds strange even for fringe groups. We're Roman Catholic. About as cerebral and no nonsense as it gets when it comes to this stuff. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I keep attracting what I don't want.To answer your question - my wife and I are married mostly for religious reasons and not because of sexual/romantic attraction. But I guess we're probably outliers. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...TL;DR just skip to 9. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Sharing a bed with acquaintance - was she down to fuck?Fuck that shit | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"Because you clearly have low standards | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I sexualize a conversation?Make dirty jokes. Don't be afraid to toss in a that's what she said | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What if I just said this? Would it work?This is amazing | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Aproaching guys during collegeObviously as a male i assume if a female asks for a pen it's code for "Let's have many children much sex!" But not all guys are that smart and observant | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Aproaching guys during collegeYou just got about 4 guys friendzoned. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 14 | Aproaching guys during collegeUnfortunately if this is all you do then all you will get from the dude is a pen | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with loss of confidence/not knowing what to say?A nice compliment is usually welcome. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Where can I find smart (or nerdy) women?You've got it | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Wow, I wish you the best getting out of there asap. Try to stay in the will 🙃 | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Depends on your theological background. For example, reformed Christians and a lot of Evangelical sects believe that the culmination of things is already set in place by God (double predestination) while the Catholics and Orthodox have a more nuanced view of the relationship between human will and God's - everyone agrees that He is omniscient. But even the staunchest Calvinist should agree that, as OP replied, "you still gotta get out of bed and make things happen" since we are creators vis-a-vi… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.I'm talking about dispensing with the childish Disney fantasy of encountering the "true love" that God/the universe/cupid/whoever picked out for you and you just have to wait for. When people apply this deterministic reasoning to their relationships, no matter what religion, it's incredibly immature. Psychologically speaking, it inevitably outsources one's personal responsibility to make good choices. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Some young adult events at churches are sausage fests but the non-creeps really stand out to women. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 7 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Most mainstream churches are dying quickly because they can't appeal to younger generations, which are down-to-earth and genuine, eschewing anything mainstream. Go to a conservative or traditional environment and you will find a MUCH different situation. See my post above. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:09 PM |
| 11 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.Here is some of my experience chasing women within my religious environment, which in full disclosure is highly traditional. Women at church will throw themselves at you (especially the older they get) because they need to get married if they're the religious type. They go crazy for commitment. If you give off a vibe you're prepared to commit, they will be aggressive. Out of the six guys I know who joined the YA group, 4 of them got married because of it, as well as myself. The group now boasts … | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:07 PM |
| 5 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.I've been laughing at this for 3 minutes | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:59 PM |
| 8 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.The answer you gave is basically the other side to the same coin as the answers already given | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 0 | UBER Driver here, any tips on how to get laid/get girls interested?Wth? Are you trying to get op arrested? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Simply asking for sex, or asking someone if they would like to have sex, is a HUGE turnoff, but seems to be basic advice herewell thanks for clarifying | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | why might I feel like I would literally get arrested if I make any physical move on a woman?What a dumbass comment | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | why might I feel like I would literally get arrested if I make any physical move on a woman?OH, this makes perfect sense. I think a "consent ask" is exactly what she was waiting for! Last time I did anything physical was back in crazy high school days. Thanks for explaining. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | why might I feel like I would literally get arrested if I make any physical move on a woman?Plot twist: I'm currently in prison | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Should I ghost a girl I really like or tell her why I want to end it?I would never take relationship advice from someone who would downvote this | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | What's a sure way to know if a woman really is genuinely interested in you or just likes to receive your attention and validation?Interesting. Well, the conference is over, so she missed out. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What's a sure way to know if a woman really is genuinely interested in you or just likes to receive your attention and validation?Helpful hypothetical: 3 dates within 2 weeks My sitch: three within 4 days (conference hookup attempt) | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What's a sure way to know if a woman really is genuinely interested in you or just likes to receive your attention and validation?What if she does ALL of these except sex? What might one be doing wrong? | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What's a sure way to know if a woman really is genuinely interested in you or just likes to receive your attention and validation?Maybe women stuck in childhood. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Final bullet advice, please?Then she's into some hot shit | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:37 PM |
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