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| 327 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejections | Field Report | seaweedpotential | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:33 AM |
| 5 | emotional/descriptive language in seduction? | Outer Game | seaweedpotential | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 12:50 PM |
| 3 | important to remember that 'game' isn't a magic bullet | Fundamentals | seaweedpotential | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 08:48 AM |
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| 5 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itBut what about the people on this sub who say girls aren't visual? Why are girls suddenly approaching you and stuff? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsI didn't see this big debate going on lol. Thread got more replies than I expected and I only noticed the Q's directed straight at me personally. I'll say that I actually have field tested and analysed a lot of this stuff over the years. From mystery to john sinn, to tyler to mode 1. And everything in between. I've done it all. Tweaked and tested all kinds of things. My rough conclusion is that it's really not in your control. you can fool yourself at times and think 'ah ha! That set went well b… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsOh, it's just a term for when you use an opinion opener (not that I do it much, but I tend to just alternate basically every style of game to keep me from getting bored. I've read everything there is to read. May as well use it. Not that any of this stuff is black magic! You can't seduce a girl if she's just not into you) So if you use an opinion opener as a way to open, 'rooting' it would be explaining why you are asking her the question, basically. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 12 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsIt ain't so bad. I think I read somewhere that the very best PUA's (apparently Tom Torrerro and a few others) said they get laid about 1 in 30 approaches, so in theory they might get 29 rejections! I only got like 6 or 7 on that night haha I'm not some super handsome stud so you just have to accept the fact that rejection is gonna happen....a lot! lol | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsi move around. I have awareness and know not to stand in one place being seen to be being shot down lol | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsWere these all in the same bar? no | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 34 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsDo you feel any of the first approaches didn't land because of your game? Or was it because they were just 'no' girls. Good Q. I'm pretty convinced there's nothing I could have done about it. Even if i had mystery and tyler and every other PUA in my ear directing me lol. I've tried everything over the years and get results, but there's no magic in any of the methods. I honestly think it's a numbers game. Game helps to not screw up with the attracted girls | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 13 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsdifferent bars. Last girl was last bar. She half closed the space herself by edging towards me, and I kind of pulled her towards me at that point with my hands around her waist | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 25 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejections'let's have a drink back at your place'. She's already told me she lives close. I think any excuse would have worked tbh | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] My first cold approach ever. Come laugh at my cringe.them approaches weren't that bad tbh. I don't think it would be any different with THEM particular girls if you approached them today. They just weren't interested. It's a Numbers game afterall eg I said, “Actually, I don’t really care about ziplining. I was walking by and I saw you and thought you were kinda cute and wanted to meet you. So I thought to come in to say hello and see if you’re single”. She responded with “oh sorry I have a boyfriend” to which I responded with “oh okay, well he’s a… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls is easyit's game/seduction | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglingthat's because he's famous and rich lol | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the bagyou just need the guts to grab them and kiss them. They want to bang you (they are attracted) | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Cold approachingi don't believe there's anything wrong with a direct opener or even a compliment about about her looks. It works well for a few of my friends. Of course if you are not her type it won't go down great, but if you're not her type, nothing you say or do is going to work anway¬! | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 17 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itThis is honestly my strong suspicion. Not to sound all edgy and black pill, but I think that's just the way it is. So many people seem to spin their wheels for years and years with all kinds of methods and theory, yet get nowhere at all (at least in terms of their ability to basically pick and choose who they 'seduce' and go to bed with). And then if you scrutinize the success of the very people that teach it, again, it doesn't look good tbh. It's as if they occasionally get laid in spite of the… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 39 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itMystery method seemed to lose all popularity. Was once popular and now ridiculed. So can assume it never actually worked. Just PUA marketing? Otherwise we'd all be going up to girls and using opinion openers, and then negging them etc and getting laid with models. I think people still try it, but girls end up looking at them like a retard and then ignore 'em lol. Or maybe social media (and online dating) raised girls physical standards (and their own perceived value) so much that any type of gam… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | How to get laid in college?Let's say we talked for 15 or 20 minutes after class daily for 2 weeks then can I ask her whether she is single? yes Also I shouldn't talk about sex or ask her how many guys she slept or she is a virgin, right? correct | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid in college?Make small talk (you said you could do that) If she's asking you lots of stuff too and it's not a one way conversation you can test the waters to see if she's into you. Keep it simple and ask her if she's single. If she's not, move on. If she is, ask her why. Ask about her past relationships. Tell her she's your type. Show some intent. If she's receptive to that statement try to get her to move somewhere with you where you can be alone. A date. Or get her number. If she agrees to either, it's on… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Why this "don't tryhard" advice is stupid.At this point actual game is what could save them what do you mean though? Like, it's not as though we can make a girl attracted. You can't seduce a girl who doesn't want to be seduced by you. Or as others puts it 'you can't negotiate attraction'. I think everyone all knows game nowadays. It's mainstream. tease, cold reads, no interview questions, statements, good body language, eye contact etc etc. But none of it is magic and doesn't help if she's not attracted to you. No more than a girl you d… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:32 AM |
| 4 | Is it really that satisfying?Not an 'emptiness', but the 'high' feeling if she is into you and you get her, only lasts a day or so for me. It's interesting that even now that i know sex is a bit over-rated if i'm being quite honest, it's also all I can think about! haha (when you see a really pretty girl, the thought of banging her consumes me) | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Good books for improving conversational skills and flirting?lol yeah, that's like 'practicing' to count to 1000 when you only know numbers 1-10 lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Do girls like "nice guys" or "bad boys"?some girls like bad boys (i've known girls who ONLY seem to date legit 'bad boys' who all get in tonnes of fights and deal drugs and have been to prison lots etc) and other girls like nice guys. (my brother is a definite 'nice guy' and he's always done OK with girls, but it's always a certain type of 'artsy' girl who he hooks up with who likes intelligence and 'niceness') It's why 'game' is largely BS. Different girls like different things. There isn't some magic formula. Not to mention she FIRS… | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Is pick up just about being red pilled?it's about having the balls to approach girls, and then, assuming she's into you and thinks you're hot or whatever (you're somewhat her type and thus she's interested), having enough 'game' to not completely mess it up ('game' = don't be too weird, have the balls to escalate etc) | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 08:36 AM |
| 3 | First day alone hahahaha. First hard rejection and first soft rejection I guess hahahaGood job. Nothing more you could have done. At this point it's just a numbers game. Keep going | /r/seduction | 04/07/20 09:22 AM |
| 3 | With advanced game is it easy to get girls to cheat on their boyfriends with you?'advanced game' is a meme, tbh. There's no secret Jedi mind tricks out there that override a girls brain and make her want you lol. Game is pretty simple. However, if a girl is very into you, then yes, she will sometimes cheat on her boyfriend if she thinks she'll get away with it. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | important to remember that 'game' isn't a magic bulletcorrect | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | important to remember that 'game' isn't a magic bulletlol. Sexual attraction is different i'm afraid | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ?what country you in? To Young UK girls for example, being cold approached is so so far out of their reality that you can expect that sort of reaction a hell of a lot unless you are blessed with Godly good looks and she also happens to be a very sociable girl. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | emotional/descriptive language in seduction?how did you get on? I'm still meeting girls who seem to think this style of seduction/game sounds a bit autistic lol But it seems to work for the girlschase writers apparently, so sticking with it! | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | A question to all of you advanced players out there: would it be possible to hook up with a therapist?if she thought you were hot, of course | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 10:20 AM |
| – | Asking questionsi might be on my own here, but that whole PUA thing of not asking girls questions is one of the things that messed up my interactions for ages. I think it's basically pure BS! (which I guess JulienRSD confirmed as he loved shooting questions at girls non stop and he crushed it) As with lots of PUA stuff, I honestly think it does more harm than good. At least where I live, you can really look a bit odd if, after you open a girl, you start stacking assumptions and doing cold reads etc. It's just a… | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | How often does a cold approach actually land you a number?youtube is mainly fake. I think it depends on things like your location (is it full of tourists? Are people generally sociable/approachable like most of US or freaked out by strangers talking to them like Brits?) And of course how handsome/attractive you are Don't stress teh approach:number ratio too much | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Never run out of things to say. Use the F.O.R.D method!"What do you like about your job? / Are you passionate about your occupation? Every time I do this sort of thing (or try to 'deep dive' as per girlschase articles) the girls get bored and really don't wanna talk about it. (one girl even told a friend I bored her by asking such questions lol) Young girls don't care about that sort of stuff in my experience | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Getting laid is super duper easy AFlol. Kind of true. If you look good, approach enough girls, you should get laid a fair bit | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think that being good looking kinda makes game a little harderif you are actually very good looking, it makes the game about 1000 times EASIER lol. (same as it would for a good looking girl trying to get laid) Surely this doesn't need to be debated lol. I've had 2-3 very good looking friends over the last decade or so of going out/approaching girls in bars etc, and the evidence couldn't be clearer/more obvious Girls like handsome guys lol | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to "fake" girls?Yeah, in your example, I don't think there's anything you could do, really. Doesn't sound like she knows how to talk to strangers. I feel like this is more and more common in the social media age, maybe | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 01:38 PM |
| – | How do I talk to "fake" girls?Man, I know what you mean. With a lot of the super hot girls I meet, it's like they are kind of robots. Like you can't risk saying anything to them that shows personality. You need to look how they like of course, and almost be boring it seems. No quirkiness at all. ''I was totally not in touch with the "in" talk.'' I'm curious. Can you elaborate on that a bit? You mean topics of convo or like slang etc? I kind of know what you mean. Some girls just seem completely unattainable unless you are in… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 01:19 PM |
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