sebK1 Archive

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2	How to keep this girl's attention for 2 weeks until we meet? Dude, this might hurt, but if you feel like you have to keep her attention, it's already a lost cause. She should be the one that has to keep your attention, or at the very least show a similar interest in you, as you show in her. But you're already putting her in a special place, above you, and that means, that at the slightest sign of rejection, it's gonna hurt. Though you probably know that already, if you have had some experience in this business ;).	/r/seduction	29/11/16 04:49 AM
4	How does "Netflix and chill" work? Dude, if you need someone to give you advice on that... if you plan to follow some guidelines or instructions... you'll get nervous and anxious... and it's not going to be the pleasant (or amazing i'd say) experience that it should be. It's a situation you gotta take complete charge of... and I mean COMPLETE charge of... in order to see that you are totally free, to do as you please, then and there... and right now as well why not... you just gotta realize that.	/r/seduction	30/10/16 07:52 PM
1	[Serious] What do you say when a girl calls you hot? "I'm hot. You're hot. We're hot. And I feel there's things we can do to stir this fire even hotter, ya know." All while looking straight into her eyes with a stone cold gaze.	/r/seduction	11/09/16 05:46 PM
1	Approach anxiety or approach excitement? Well, yes, but "overcoming" is not the right word here. Because what is anxiety really? I'm gonna lay it real bluntly here: It's what happens when you start doing stupid things in your head. How do you get rid of anxiety? Stop doing stupid things in your head. Something that simple, how easy it is to accomplish, it all depends on your commitment and resolve. A tip I like to give is: You need to start using all the power and intelligence that is available to you, it's not just your mind. Mind is …	/r/seduction	31/08/16 06:25 PM
1	Approach anxiety or approach excitement? If it were real excitement then you would have no problem doing it. You would be excited to do it, right?. But if it's something that just makes you more hesitant, I wouldn't call it excitement. You know this whole "reframing" thing seems like just another useless mind trick to me, it may seem work for a little while, but then you find another obstacle, and you start looking for another mind trick to fix it. You're caught in an endless circle, or worse a downward spiral. No good possible outcome…	/r/seduction	30/08/16 03:44 PM
1	Advice on fun? Err, no, that's the whole point of it. I'm talking about the context, not the content. What you do or say is just content, you're smart enough to come up with something on the spot.	/r/seduction	20/08/16 06:44 PM
2	Advice on fun? Dude, you don't say things or do things to "get the fun started", fun should be your whole perspective on the matter BEFORE YOU EVEN START. Now how do you achieve this? There is no possible guide for the internal adjustments one has to make in order to fix one's perspective, all I can tell you is you gotta use all the intelligence that's available to you, not just the one in your head.	/r/seduction	20/08/16 05:52 PM
2	Advice on fun? Dude, if talking to a girl doesn't look like fun right from the very first moment that you see her, forget it, don't do it. In some rare cases guys can actually loosen up after starting a conversation but trust me, that's not usually how it goes, as most guys here would know, it becomes an uphill struggle. And that's NOT how it should be. Only when you start with the right foot, when it looks like real fun from the start, that's when it has the potential to be a truly fascinating experience, and…	/r/seduction	20/08/16 04:47 PM
0	What tips have been working for you lately? yeah I've just got the ultimate tip: drop ALL the tips and tricks that you have ever learned in your life and just do what you really want to do, that which you will really enjoy, that which comes straight from the very inside of your being. Trust me once you find that you will never need any external advice again, no matter how inexperienced you are, there will be no more looking around for help, because you have all that you need already, you will see.	/r/seduction	28/07/16 03:01 PM
3	Being present in the moment? Dude, being "present in the moment" is being in the exact same way you are when you are sitting in the toilet trying to squeeze out a really fat turd out of your ass. YES. It is the most obvious and simplest way to be for a human being. If you somehow "try" to be in the moment, you will never be in it. Period. The first step to become present is stop trying to do things inside your head/body.	/r/seduction	21/06/16 05:17 PM
6	Being present in the moment? Being 'present in the moment' just means that you shouldn't worry about the past and future. That's just one aspect, it doesn't really encompass the whole issue. You can be thinking about all sorts of things in all sorts of places inside your head and not be present in the moment.	/r/seduction	21/06/16 05:12 PM
4	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15 It's not a mentality, it's just a clarity, a simple realization that you arrive to. You don't have to think it, you just have to see it. Make an effort to see properly what is around you.	/r/seduction	06/04/15 05:15 PM
20	Mind goes blank I have a very simple method. Works like magic. First, you always want it to be spontaneous and natural, nothing planned or premeditated, that is key, so don't look for ideas inside your head, don't go to your memory for topics, ever. Whenever you wanna talk simply do this: stop focusing on the other person's eyes for a second, and look at the whole place you are in at that very moment, look at the situation around you -including the other person- from a broader perspective, and comment on the ve…	/r/seduction	20/04/14 04:14 PM
23	How Do I make the people around me feel comfortable? Your state of being is contagious. When you are truly enjoying yourself and expressing freely, without any kind of worry or distress in your mind, that is when you will naturally irradiate that contagious energy, which will not only make everyone with you more comfortable, but also feel more attracted to you. It is simple human nature. Now as for how to attain that state, all I know is that everyone has to look for that answer within himself.	/r/seduction	02/09/13 05:38 AM
1	Something I noticed about the "Most Interesting Man in the World" thread that applies directly to /r/seduction When talking to anyone for the first time, the only meaningful thing they'll take away from the conversation is their impression of your character. Right on the money... Since you are in complete control of who and what you are, you are in control of your character...and therefore able to influence what people think of you. There is nothing stopping you from being The Most Interesting Man in the World. You only have to believe it about yourself, and become it. One thing is to be inspired and try…	/r/seduction	02/08/13 04:48 AM
97	If you're going on a date, make a reservation and chat with the hostess for a minute on the phone. pay them $20 to know you by name Like, really? everything was good until this...	/r/seduction	01/06/13 02:22 PM