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The people at r/JUSTNOMIL can give you good advice about this situation. My advice, for what it's worth, is that you (not your husband) can tell your mom that she can either stop adding to your burden by nagging, or she can leave. Every time she nags interrupt her with that, and stick to the point. There's no excuse for her behavior.
/r/RedPillWives18/10/18 07:11 PM
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My relationship was long distance for three of seven years. Long distance can work out just fine as long as you and he are loyal people who make the time to emotionally connect. However, this is not your problem. Your boyfriend is used to a much lower standard of living than you have the potential of achieving. If you stay with him you will either have to live quite poorly, while supporting his extended family, or work to afford a reasonable lifestyle. If you want to be a SAHM and be able to giv…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 02:30 PM
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Good advice here. The whole post I was wondering why OP didn't mention why he cheated. She needs to find out, without piling on the guilt.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 11:21 AM
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Do you live in southern Ontario? I know a guy. Seriously, pm me if so. Otherwise, have you asked your female friends to introduce you to men that are a few years older, more mature? Would you trust your mother/aunt/grandmother to ask their friends if they know anyone they think would be compatible? People shudder at the thought, but older women in our families used to do the match-making, and if they care about you they can be good at it.
/r/RedPillWives13/08/18 11:22 PM
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The issue isn’t that we’re strapped for cash and can’t make our bills. I really love where we live and have been interviewing so I hope it’s just a matter of time for the right job to come. I know that the issue is that you're burning out because you've taken on too much. Taking that kind of cut would be significant, I get it. But it would reduce the 4 hours driving a day. If it's just a matter of waiting, then wait. But understand that you are resentful. Your husband doesn't think you're unsupp…
/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 02:33 AM
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Please don't talk to me about f-ing sacrifice. I didn't say anything of these things to him because I feel so beaten down and depressed that I should even have to point these things out. You sound bitter. I bet you act bitter. I think you're not being honest with yourself. That, or when you guys agreed to this you were foolish to think you could hold a 6-fig level job and keep the house. it's been difficult to find anything comparable. Take a pay cut. If you make six figures you have room. Move,…
/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 01:12 AM
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Try https://keiyakukekkon.com/en/contract-builder/ It matches you with people based on your expectations for a marriage, so all you have to do is set out what you want. Also note that women will become more conservative after marriage. It's not something to rely on, like it won't change someone, but it will shift them. Once married it is in a woman's benefit to be more conservative.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/18 05:01 PM
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