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Sperm are newly generated, but eggs have been waiting for 40 years to go into action. Is the obvious answer
/r/MensRights12/07/26 04:43 AM
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Just so we all know, in terms of real-world impact heat related illness actually affects men more (“The male:female ratio was 2·49 : 1”), and also more severely (“males exhibited a higher risk of suffering from heatstroke and having greater disease severity than females”) (Wang 202500261-5/fulltext)). In terms of more sciency, are female biologically more vulnerable, some say yes some say no. It is suggested that BMI is more predictive of outcome from exertional heat illness; rather than sex. I …
/r/MensRights10/07/26 07:44 AM
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Why was MGTOW banned?
/r/MensRights01/07/26 09:30 PM
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I wonder what the burden of proof will be that it was a “romantic relationship”, because you’re right, otherwise your housemate can just claim to be your partner and claim half your £/house
/r/MensRights19/06/26 09:15 PM
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Girls outperform boys in education in the U.K., not sure about elsewhere
/r/MensRights24/05/26 07:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights30/04/26 12:20 AM
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Scary
/r/MensRights30/04/26 12:19 AM
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Sorry dude, hope you’re doing okay
/r/MensRights29/04/26 09:24 PM
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How are they being removed?
/r/MensRights29/04/26 08:42 PM
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You know the USA is also a huge fan of circumcised penises
/r/MensRights20/04/26 08:13 AM
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They’re never called a paedophile when it’s a woman
/r/MensRights01/03/26 09:28 PM
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Umm what specifically are you interested in?
/r/MensRights03/01/26 07:35 AM
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I agree with your post, but occasional pain isn’t chronic pain. Men do have huge huge amounts of chronic back pain though
/r/MensRights02/01/26 08:12 AM
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I forgot about farming…. Farming would collapse
/r/MensRights17/12/25 08:41 AM
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I assume no overnight men working in maintenance, infrastructure, police, fire or ambulance, or hospitals then?
/r/MensRights17/12/25 08:40 AM
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For your argument to work - wouldn’t a male partner of intercourse need to have ability to veto a pregnancy?
/r/MensRights08/12/25 09:49 PM
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I’m gonna be blunt, as an older guy. Just don’t do it. Weigh up - what’s the best that happens, what’s the worst that happens. On that balance it is not worth it. BUT, ironically publishing on a website/newspaper in the “real world” is likely much safer and better for you
/r/MensRights24/11/25 08:07 AM
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Also dying in war
/r/MensRights23/11/25 10:19 PM
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I think it’s better to move on with your life, and seek out more positive associations
/r/MensRights07/11/25 03:13 PM
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I think a few things worth noting - these don’t sound like the actions of Buddhists, this place sounds horribly toxic. I think you’re better off leaving
/r/MensRights05/11/25 06:01 PM
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It’s because pregnancy causes of death still occur for sometime and it’s important we catch those - this is from a medical point of view
/r/MensRights21/10/25 01:17 PM
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Reversed genders and I suspect the story would be framed and grooming and murder.
/r/MensRights07/10/25 07:21 AM
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Yup
/r/MensRights02/03/25 09:21 AM
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I’d love to suggest some brave move to rectify this. But this is life (the sexism - the kebab was bad luck). Sorry. I have no idea what the solution is, sorry dude
/r/MensRights26/02/25 10:53 PM
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I think the problem is that “mental load” or “emotional workload” is an easy buzzword, but there isn’t an easy buzzword for “does a more physical job”, “more manual labour”, “higher risk of occupational death”. These issues are therefore not talked about, and so then don’t become buzzwords
/r/MensRights17/02/25 10:22 PM
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They were a rescue service, she was not a rescue service, you required technical rescue.
/r/MensRights22/01/25 03:38 PM
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To be clear - that medical responder - saw you’d jumped off something and snapped your leg, and then decided it wasn’t safe to do the same thing…
/r/MensRights22/01/25 03:34 PM
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Shhhh
/r/MensRights12/01/25 10:50 PM
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(Dude - great job on escaping homelessness and tackling your depression! Fucking ace man! Well done!)
/r/MensRights22/11/24 04:39 PM
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When you’re talking hundreds of thousands that remaining percent is huge - elective also includes those for which there would be huge emotional or financial harm to the parents to continue the pregnancy.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 08:05 PM
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No I’m just trying to progress the discourse
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:14 AM
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Letting Women die the answer?
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:11 PM
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At what point do you want to start referring to it as a child? Fertilisation? Implantation?
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:11 PM
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I think the word “child” is doing a lot of heavy lifting in that sentence.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 12:27 PM
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I don’t think choosing to use emotive language assists the discussion around termination of a pregnancy, especially when laws are being introduced making such an act illegal even to save the life of the mother.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 12:01 PM
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Yeah - that’s an interesting philosophical question: to what extent should one group of people control another groups liberties
/r/MensRights06/11/24 12:00 PM
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Yes I agree that is a problem. Banning abortion is a different issue.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 11:40 AM
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Abortion rights are good for men and women.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 10:35 AM
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The article quoted in the news story
/r/MensRights04/11/24 10:14 PM
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Anyone got a link to the academic article?
/r/MensRights04/11/24 06:00 PM
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It’s not clear who was in power as your quote has no date attached. Presumably one of the coalition governments? This is also not forced sterilisation nor abortion.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 04:39 PM
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Fancy providing a citation that left wing governments enact forced sterilisation and forced abortions?
/r/MensRights07/10/24 04:18 PM
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“Leftism” funds education, social care and healthcare…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 08:28 AM
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Bullshit - men manage to keep fed, go on holiday, single dads exist. IMHO women like things more organised and organised more in advance and so inflict that on their male partners.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 07:47 PM
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You guys need to communicate better and not let this word pattern of counting each hours become a *thing *
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/24 08:45 AM
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Shit
/r/MensRights28/04/24 06:43 AM
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Thanks, sounds like OP heard them speaking and indicating an opinion in the opposite direction. Perhaps they were trying to elucidate the difference between being suicidal and completing suicide
/r/MensRights18/04/24 11:11 AM
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Yeah Needed a comma there.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 07:35 PM
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You should definitely report this dude
/r/MensRights05/03/24 04:03 PM
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It’s just a poor argument on her part, not a genuine discussion.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 09:10 PM
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Men used to wear high heels….
/r/MensRights08/01/24 10:34 PM
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Wow That’s harsh, sorry you went through that
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:26 PM
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Believe all women - this is the result
/r/MensRights07/01/24 10:47 PM
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Red Cross will take interest in this
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:19 AM
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As the acronym suggests, the common steps involved are: The abuser denies the abuse ever took place When confronted with evidence, the abuser then attacks the person that was abused (and/or the person's family and/or friends) for attempting to hold the abuser accountable for their actions, and finally The abuser claims that they are actually the victim in the situation, thus reversing the positions of victim and offender.[2][4] It often involves not just playing the victim but also victim blamin…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 09:19 AM
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It’s a form of manipulation and an easy way for her to discount any and all issues and concerns you have. Sorry. Sounds quite vile. Keep recording all conversations incase she escalates this
/r/MensRights14/12/23 09:17 AM
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It he U.K. there was a move to equalise retirement age between men and women.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:39 PM
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I started to realise that many feminists are actually just misandrists. I still support equality, but it seems the feminism movement does not.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 04:37 PM
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That’s my thoughts, but put very articulately
/r/MensRights25/11/23 03:47 PM
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Let it run its course. She made bad decisions and has to face the outcome. You have a choice - forgive and move on or leave.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 12:50 PM
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Why nott
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:28 AM
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I mean, paedophilic tendencies. Presumably based in power and control.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 03:28 AM
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Male sexual assault is comedy gold unfortunately /s
/r/MensRights17/11/23 07:34 PM
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Just need to be fleshed our characters with some good writing….
/r/MensRights14/11/23 03:03 AM
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People seem to forget the fucking awesome films with female leads. Kill Bill springs to mind… female leads. Excellent reviews. More or less aimed at men. Then bullshit miss marvel flops and everyone says it’s because men don’t like strong female leads
/r/MensRights14/11/23 02:47 AM
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It’s a weird US thing Nearly all the rest of the world think it’s a bit weird
/r/MensRights11/11/23 11:27 PM
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This is one of the problems with the field of study. There are a lot of perpetuated myths.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 10:13 AM
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Unwanted joke - assault
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:26 PM
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It’s targeting your sexual reproductive organs…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 08:36 PM
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If you actually look at the data, or ask men. Many will have been groped by women, kicked in the balls by women etc which is sexual assault.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:20 PM
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If you believe in conspiracies - he was speaking “truth” and should be silenced. If you’re less wacko, he’s a victim of an overly vicious “me too” political movement which is moving towards making “women are wonderful” law. Or - accusations are all true. And the media have really really solid evidence, so they know they can hit him hard with accusations safely
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:59 AM
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Isn’t that exactly what most posters here are arguing for “let’s wait to see any evidence or a conviction”
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:56 AM
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Interesting correlation
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:55 AM
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You’re only allowed to shame how men dress, not women
/r/MensRights21/09/23 08:53 AM
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1 is a big problem. Which makes any attempt at these calculations a dead duck from the get go
/r/MensRights22/08/23 11:56 PM
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Also (On average) men do a lot of the DIY type chores round the house, which seem to be ignored in these “calculations”
/r/MensRights22/08/23 11:54 PM
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Very well described. Thank you.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 09:12 PM
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Cancelled
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:01 PM
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And more likely to kill their children I believe.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 05:33 PM
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I mean. It was a deadly weapon.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 05:32 PM
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DNA test
/r/MensRights30/07/23 10:27 PM
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When I got married. It became clear the wedding day wasn’t about me (groom) and was only about the bride. Multiple people told me this is various ways. I’d never quite considered it before - sure women have their “dream wedding” and get to pick “the dress”, but I’d never quite comprehended how none of it is about the man at all. I was told - “no one cares what you’re wearing as long as you’re there”, and I think that sums it up. Looking back in it makes me sad, as I guess I always believed it wa…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 10:10 PM
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Being unable to interact with children without being seen as a criminal.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:11 PM
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or more than one.. and each one cuts deeply, because you know they were just a guy, like you, wandering through life, trying there best, and eventually the depression won.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:11 PM
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Quite a nice article
/r/MensRights21/07/23 01:15 PM
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A hierarchy exists. Men are mostly the ones who have something to gain from climbing that hierarchy (historically).
/r/MensRights16/07/23 11:05 AM
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This does not fit the narrative
/r/MensRights16/07/23 11:03 AM
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This does not fit the narrative
/r/MensRights16/07/23 11:02 AM
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The matriarchy
/r/MensRights14/07/23 04:56 PM
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There are certainly female only spas. And also… does that matter?
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:02 PM
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Or used any of these https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_female_superheroes
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:36 AM
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If the stories are good - no one cares what gender he character is
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:31 AM
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Storm! Would bed a great film Or any of professor Xs women
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:29 AM
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If they were well written, no one would notice.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:26 AM
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This is the massive issue with women’s sport (in general) Women just aren’t into it… Not to the extent men are, so there isn’t the cash behind it
/r/MensRights03/07/23 09:10 PM
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🚩
/r/MensRights28/05/23 10:41 AM
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It’s an inherently unprovable statistic
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:45 AM
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I also call bullshit on women being in fear of physical violence but not men. When I’m out (M) I’m very conscious that if I spill someone’s drink or bump into an angry man I’ll get a kicking. Women can get away with a lot more because it’s socially unacceptable to hit a women. I think men are more aware of the real risk of physical violence towards them day to day than women
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:37 AM
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Yes Sorry
/r/MensRights28/05/23 12:06 AM
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If you demonise mens choices and preferences you can then tell them when you want them to like and control them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:09 AM
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I wouldn’t be a teacher as a man - too risky in terms of false accusations
/r/MensRights01/05/23 07:36 PM
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Huge risk.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 12:21 PM
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I mean, maybe that tip more because they think some 17 year old probably needs the cash to save up and move out / get a car etc.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 07:06 AM
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Found guilty. Still kept her job.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:28 AM
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Good job
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:25 AM
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Men’s preferences are often demonised, women’s preferences are praised
/r/MensRights18/03/23 09:19 PM
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Sounds reasonable You’ll notice when men set boundaries or express a preference in dating - women will often respond with an insult “you’re insecure”, “that’s controlling”, “that’s body shaming” etc etc
/r/MensRights09/03/23 11:29 PM
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Was she not also cleaning her own house… and the mess made by her own two children…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 06:23 PM
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For those wondering: Cher 76, Her boyfriend 36
/r/MensRights04/03/23 09:25 PM
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“Females are 78% of the perpetrators of fatal child abuse” Wow. I mean. Wow. EDIT: as highlighted below, I was direct quoting but assume their comment is good faith and this is 78% of a subset
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:52 AM
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I assume the statement was based on his factual knowledge?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:38 AM
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Gynocentrism is probably more useful in many situations as a word than misandry - because it’s less evocative of hatred but highlights the issues really well
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:55 PM
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Why did she kidnap the children?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 03:29 PM
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Theory behind that here
/r/MensRights16/02/23 10:25 PM
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Boys only computer games night!
/r/MensRights15/02/23 09:25 PM
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I think that FWB was in denial about being a sex worker
/r/MensRights12/02/23 11:02 AM
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Yeah that’s true, flip side, I know plenty of slim USAR personnel - as it’s immensely beneficial
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:30 AM
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Women are traditionally under represented in a number of fields, but in general have high representation in humanitarian work, so I was surprised I hadn’t seen any women on the rescue teams flying in to Turkey. I wasn’t so much “making a point” as starting a discussion.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 11:29 AM
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That’s really good! Thanks, good find
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:40 AM
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I was talking about the rescue teams, I’m pretty sure all the locals involved are mostly struggling to survive EDIT: as you’re keen on pushing a different narrative. I’d like to highlight that I believe a buried child likely has a mother and a father, not just a mother waiting on the sidelines.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:38 AM
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That’s not what I was saying nor implying, don’t create a straw man. I was highlighting what appears to be an international issue - looking at the teams - Of women being under represented in disaster relief/resilience efforts. Like many other dangerous and “dirty” jobs, it’s nearly always male dominated. I’d never noticed this in disaster relief before, so was curious whether others had seen any women in the rescue teams - and one other Redditor had which was really good to see.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:09 PM
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Well done, first I’ve seen
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:12 PM
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I mean, firstly that’s amazingly misandrist, secondly there wouldn’t be any women there.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 08:00 AM
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You said “he has some pedo fetish”
/r/MensRights07/02/23 09:43 PM
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I’m not sure it’s valid to label this paedophilia, they’re adults
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:46 PM
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Why not all female platoon?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 12:45 AM
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Why can’t it be an all boys drinking club though
/r/MensRights07/02/23 12:16 AM
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Don’t bring innocent snakes into this
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:45 PM
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I think ask the gym to make a rule - tripods is a whole new level of arsehole behaviour
/r/MensRights29/01/23 11:54 AM
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Go to a men’s gym
/r/MensRights29/01/23 11:51 AM
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I think the challenge here is, many women will openly state they prefer older guys… but disapprove of guys their age dating younger
/r/MensRights27/01/23 10:38 PM
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I think when it’s on the scale of perhaps 600 dates, and none of them are someone you maybe wanna see again and interrupt your 6 dates a week, it becomes fairly clear it’s a scam. If the genders were reversed no one would argue it’s a scam. In the grand scheme of things it’s only say, $18,000-30,000USD scam over two years, so not the biggest crime in the world.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 12:41 PM
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I think you are perhaps naive
/r/MensRights25/01/23 12:37 PM
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Her purpose seems to have been to eat for free, the other party perceives the purpose as finding a partner. It’s obtaining goods (food) through deception, in essence fraud.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 11:48 AM
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Makes you wonder if all the teachers had to stand up in assembly and apologise for raping children
/r/MensRights22/01/23 05:40 PM
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Wow And that is hugely abusive behaviour. Fucking hell
/r/MensRights22/01/23 05:39 PM
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Hitchens's razor
/r/MensRights20/01/23 08:37 PM
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He should report to the police
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:59 PM
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Worried he’s being rushed into a huge commitment with someone he barely knows
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 11:08 PM
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Wow And the post was removed. Jesus, it’s getting ridiculous
/r/MensRights09/01/23 07:53 PM
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Oh interesting
/r/MensRights04/01/23 07:03 PM
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There will always be a spending gap - because maternity care is expensive, so it’s about understanding that gap
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:31 AM
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We need people like this to publish their experiences in academic journals
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:34 AM
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What the fuck?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:50 PM
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You’re allowed to move
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:35 AM
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I would also see neither
/r/MensRights19/12/22 09:51 PM
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It’s fine if they do both
/r/MensRights18/12/22 09:08 PM
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I’m okay with this - I just wish we had the same for men
/r/MensRights12/12/22 08:12 PM
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I get that it’s very frustrating, but it sounds like this was your project which you were choosing to manage - I think it’s important to be mindful of that, and that’s why he assumed you had it all in hand
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 04:52 PM
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You are clear here - you wanted to go, you wanted to organise it, you like organising stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 04:18 PM
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Sale of sunglasses sky rocket
/r/MensRights09/12/22 03:01 PM
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_Denzo stared at me. Lock them up
/r/MensRights09/12/22 03:00 PM
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I think that would be entirely fair yes
/r/MensRights03/12/22 09:33 AM
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Agree The problem is when there are limited places (and unfilled jobs)
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:27 AM
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The chances of an accidental pregnancy on birth control pills and condoms (which is implied here) is very very very very very low.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:40 PM
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Bit like the “women suffer most in war”
/r/MensRights22/11/22 06:01 PM
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I agree, but the concept of “buy them a spontaneous gift” or “take to favourite restaurant” is the same
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/22 08:42 AM
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Anything a man might do
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 11:55 AM
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Umm can’t both men and women make romantic gestures, I’m unsure of your point here
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 11:52 PM
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How romantic are the women being?
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 09:25 PM
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I think this is very very common
/r/MensRights01/11/22 11:10 PM
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Can we read the full text?
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:44 PM
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That’s taking it quite quite far
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:44 PM
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I think more laws are coming out in various regions centred on “how someone felt” rather than “what you actually did”, so… 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:43 PM
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Many causes of early male death or hugely modifiable: Occupational injury, Suicide These are hugely modifiable - it’s not that men are just programmed to die young
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:13 PM
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Yeah - it causes huge issues.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:19 PM
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There’s the classic “because your feelings are more important”, is he abdicating decisions (what to watch, where to eat)? Could be because you end up “winning” so he now doesn’t bother having an opinion. In arguments do your feelings tend to be given more weight than his? This is a common thing and men usually avoid it by deferring to their SO, so avoid pointless discussions they know they’ll lose
/r/MensRights16/10/22 08:12 AM
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Holy fuck, man, that’s harsh
/r/MensRights15/10/22 07:38 PM
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Have you spoken about it since?
/r/MensRights09/10/22 07:35 PM
1

Thanks for the great reply. It’s a shame, because batwoman is an ace character and deserves a proper crack at the whip
/r/MensRights07/10/22 01:26 AM
1

Or Kill Bill for example…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:44 PM
3

Kill Bill!
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:38 PM
1

What happened with batwoman?
/r/MensRights06/10/22 10:37 PM
1

I tried watching it, it’s not very good… EDIT: looks like the next Black Panther movie has a female lead and should kick ass
/r/MensRights06/10/22 06:53 PM
4

Any references to the original articles
/r/MensRights05/10/22 08:25 AM
2

Gender pay gap
/r/MensRights05/10/22 01:36 AM
2

Hitting men. Mocking men based on physical characteristics (phallus length, height, waist size). Assumption men cannot undertake parental role.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:08 AM
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Good to know women are becoming aware of this issue
/r/MensRights18/09/22 03:12 PM
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I thought she wasn’t a Princess as they relinquished all official royal ties EDIT- internet says I’m wrong.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:52 PM
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Edit it with valuable sources to make it accurate and factual - not an opinion
/r/MensRights29/08/22 08:11 PM
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Seems one editor is set on deleting it due to it being “pointy”. Seems fairly well referenced to me
/r/MensRights29/08/22 08:09 PM
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Her book Self-Made Man: My Year Disguised as a Man https://amzn.eu/6FMwzJS
/r/MensRights20/08/22 04:30 AM
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Because mostly this sub tries to engage in discussion, so to shut it down - insults are used
/r/MensRights24/07/22 02:04 PM
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Lazy term of abuse to avoid discussing serious issues.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 10:47 AM
11

Same text, switch genders
/r/MensRights11/07/22 01:37 PM
2

Avoid at all costs. Keep at amiable neighbour level, do not approach the line or cross it towards flirty. Install blinds on the windows. Lock your house.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:21 PM
9

What a boring slur, I’m disappointed
/r/MensRights08/07/22 11:11 AM
110

“I serve the women first”, I don’t think this is the win that they think it is
/r/MensRights08/07/22 11:10 AM
3

If they do it both ways - it’s weird but I’m okay with it
/r/MensRights07/07/22 09:17 AM
4

This is where its very difficult to follow the argument that there actually is a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 07:58 PM
4

Could have been advised to plead guilty for a more lenient sentence
/r/MensRights01/07/22 12:06 PM
1

Which benefits
/r/MensRights29/06/22 07:52 AM
10

Plenty of examples of this happening: https://www.thelocal.de/20120420/42059/
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:21 PM
3

Same happened to me
/r/MensRights16/06/22 02:54 PM
3

I’ve just been banned from r/askfeminists for asking about this
/r/MensRights14/06/22 03:00 PM
5

My ex proved that
/r/MensRights14/06/22 07:32 AM
3

Disappointing , but not surprising EDIT: I’ve just asked in r/askfeminists https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/vbxzte/patriarchal_violence_as_a_concept_for_all/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights14/06/22 07:28 AM
6

They just delete any comments on that thread.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 10:44 PM
2

The thing is, she admitted to physical abuse against Depp. I haven’t seen the evidence he did the same, but either way, she was definitely abusive
/r/MensRights13/06/22 10:37 AM
4

Sounds like an unhelpful theory
/r/MensRights13/06/22 10:14 AM
2

How does that model interact with same sex female couples?
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:20 AM
2

What about same sex female relationships?
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:19 AM
3

So - women are so without agency, that when they enact abuse or violence, they’re essentially doing so in the role of a man…..
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:19 AM
3

Yeah - that fact is often ignored when discussing domestic abuse isn’t it
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:16 AM
3

But that devalues the experiences of (everyone) women who were victims of abuse from other women…
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:16 AM
1

I mainly find it a bit sad - because it was a genuine question about feminist theory, which is what I thought the sub was about - discussing feminism
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:15 AM
5

I get that one could argue a butch partner might be enacting the patriarchy (I wouldn’t argue that), but I’m not sure how we can say all DV/IPV is patriarchal violence… seems a big jump to say the patriarchy is responsible for it all
/r/MensRights12/06/22 11:18 PM
3

But your thesis is without transition there’s high suicide incidence. We’re now providing gender affirming treatments. So there should be a notable drop in suicides.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 04:57 PM
1

Nearly all of those conflate reported suicidality with completed suicide
/r/MensRights10/06/22 04:24 PM
1

Is there clear different in number of suicides among trans individuals? Can you link to it?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 04:21 PM
2

All the Suicide data I’ve seen shows steady numbers or increased rates. Can you link to data for significant drops in suicide rates?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 03:37 PM
3

It’s stayed the same at around 10/100000 for a good few years. U.K. Data as example: https://www.statista.com/statistics/282226/suicide-figures-in-the-united-kingdom-uk-since-2000/ Given there are perhaps 200000-500000 trans people in the U.K., and treatment is now available, why haven’t we seen a drop in suicides? EDIT- suicide rates also increased in USA.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 03:33 PM
2

If we accept your stats, why, when we now widely provide gender treatments, haven’t we seen a significant drop in suicides? Would you agree there has been a huge increase in the incidence of Gender Dysphoria in recent years? What do you think is causing it?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 01:09 PM
1

This is an interesting discussion, and goes into whether cosmetic surgery should be facilitated for psychological reasons.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 01:07 PM
16

What’s the staring law?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 01:00 PM
1

Same, Colleague in same profession killed himself this week
/r/MensRights10/06/22 12:54 PM
11

Women have reproductive freedom, free from conscription, have specific gender-based resources (DV sanctuaries), gender based scholarships & prizes. Men have higher suicide & occupational death rates and there is a lack of mens health initiatives leading to worse physical and mental health outcomes for men. Men and women both have unique issues, but it’s hard to think of a right or ability a man has, which a woman cannot match or surpass.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 08:28 AM
10

She can claim she’s had a miscarriage and the evidence of your innocence disappears
/r/MensRights10/06/22 08:07 AM
3

Get your parents to get you a lawyer, and ask them about 1) your defence and 2) counter claims
/r/MensRights10/06/22 08:06 AM
25

Which is a huge problem - moves to reduce the production of evidence is unhelpful to improve conviction rates though
/r/MensRights01/06/22 06:00 AM
1

Agree it opens bigger questions. Is it rape is someone removes the condom mid coitus, or if they’re having an affair…
/r/MensRights26/05/22 04:58 PM
4

Didn’t they wear it AND use it on someone without the other persons consent?
/r/MensRights26/05/22 03:50 PM
8

In some militaries, only men can apply for some roles, i.e. the most dangerous or the ones requiring the highest levels of military ability - i.e. special forces. Not sure we should count being able to more easily die for your country as a privilege though.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 04:20 PM
5

parking lots just for women....?
/r/MensRights23/05/22 04:19 PM
1

What’s FDS?
/r/MensRights23/04/22 06:19 PM
3

Interesting, as a bloke I’ve experienced the opposite. I’ve only ever had another guy prompt me to rein in emotions when there is the risk of a woman seeing/hearing/attacking. Both romantic and platonic relationships with women has sanctioned me for expressing both “positive” and “negative” emotions. I’ve never had another man overtly or covertly try to dampen down an expression of emotion.
/r/MensRights23/04/22 06:15 PM
4

Remindme 1 year
/r/MensRights19/04/22 08:04 PM
2

We’re as women and girls have perfect control from birth right?
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:51 AM
3

I think what you’re saying is that incel now has a broader meaning - but let’s be clear it’s “involuntary celibate” so in essence a new version of when “virgin” was used as an insult. So here we are seeing the insult of “you’re a virgin” thrown at underage boys.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:46 AM
1

Other issues aside - it would be better reporting
/r/MensRights17/04/22 07:42 AM
10

My SO interesting defended the conscription of men in Ukraine and that a slap isn’t really an assault in this case. Interesting as it makes me wonder if there’s some ingrained pain of modern feminist which actively endorses violence against men
/r/MensRights31/03/22 12:29 AM
25

My first thought was that he’s in an abusive relationship
/r/MensRights28/03/22 09:50 PM
1

Don’t delete any texts from back then. Print off any texts or emails and store multiple copies
/r/MensRights25/03/22 01:00 PM
7

Well - the men are dying right. Once you’re dead you can’t complain.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 08:54 PM
4

Huge majority of murder victims are men - like 75% plus
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:45 PM
4

Yes Unfortunately quite standard. As a rule as you get older - run away, don’t hit back, don’t grab their arms to stop them hitting you - just run
/r/MensRights14/03/22 06:27 PM
3

On divorce I think women come out better financially
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:16 PM
2

So, if I was there, I was a 20 year old man, not yet conscripted - am I free to leave in the same way as a woman?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 12:34 PM
2

I’m really confused, you say no ones being forcefully drafted, but you’re also saying there’s conscription
/r/MensRights26/02/22 11:45 AM
9

Why can men not leave? Why can women leave?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 01:01 AM
13

Exactly this, and it doesn’t require screaming orgasms and ridiculous positions - just a bit of enthusiasm to join in
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:02 PM
1

Me…. Need to reassess my laundry habits
/r/MensRights04/09/21 05:07 PM
1

You add bleach to your wash?
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:52 PM
1

To only do it to men…?
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:50 PM
1

Why not message them now?
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:36 PM
1

See if you feel the same in 3 years
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:35 PM
4

I think even on a micro level - there’s often the expressed desire by women for their partners to express their emotions, but often when they are expressed the women then seem to feel very uncomfortable and shut down the conversation - because it’s not “socially normal” for men to have feelings
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:12 PM
1

Firstly, just don't discuss it. Secondly, you could use this to your advantage; think of a skill or sport or something you want to pursue, ask them for help (lifts there and back, $ for the club or whatever), if they are reluctant, tell them you thought it would be a good way to meet people (subtext - meet girls), they'll think you've come around and will help you out. win. win.
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 04:24 PM
1

Interestingly I think there is a law in most countries against giving someone medication against their will
/r/MensRights10/02/19 07:58 PM
10

1000%
/r/MensRights10/02/19 07:57 PM
8

Alas it isn't legally, but ethically I think this certainly is,
/r/MensRights10/02/19 07:57 PM
1

In the US, if this woman got pregnant, but the man didn't want her to have the baby - is he also liable for the obstetric / delivery charges from the hospital? or neonatal care charges for the baby?
/r/MensRights10/02/19 07:53 PM
16

This is a really interesting well made point thank you
/r/MensRights10/02/19 07:52 PM
1

Oh yeah don't get me wrong we also discuss gender, race, disability etc equality.
/r/MensRights28/01/19 08:46 PM
1

Thanks I'll have a look
/r/MensRights28/01/19 08:45 PM
2

To be honest, I've tried in conversation, but its a dangerous subject now. Its really interesting because we can discuss stuff, but just not this sort of gender politics. The other issue we have is she doesn't seem to acknowledge that "feminism" has got a bad name for itself - so, I can't never highlight the bad things people do in the name of "feminism"
/r/MensRights28/01/19 08:44 PM
72

This is really interesting because I feel the same with my SO, we agree on politics and would both be considered "Feminist" (in that we want men and women to be treated as equals), but we have trouble talking about the areas where men are strongly disadvantaged as it doesn't fit with the patriarchy story we all (and women specifically) have been taught.
/r/MensRights27/01/19 05:52 PM
2

Oscar Alex, you’ve cheered me up! You make reddit a better place
/r/MensRights22/12/18 11:21 PM
1

L.G.B.T.Q.Q.I.A Apparently
/r/MensRights31/10/18 08:41 AM
55

Well, I think that argument would hold more water if a woman was incapable of hurting a man. As women are more than capable of inflicting significant mental and physical harm to men, this analogy probably doesn't really hold up.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 04:58 PM
1

can you point to where in that study they found equally was perceived as hostile sexism, i couldn't find it
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:50 PM
4

Did the person who accused him get a criminal record? anyone know?
/r/MensRights08/03/16 06:35 PM
1

what about sex offenders register?
/r/MensRights11/06/15 10:03 AM
5

wow
/r/MensRights10/02/15 04:28 PM
28

dear god yes!
/r/MensRights10/02/15 04:27 PM
4

is this what you're looking for?
/r/MensRights11/09/14 07:08 AM
12

Yes. It's really sad. More so probably because all the "good guys"/gentleman, are affected most by the "how dare you flirt with me" rhetoric, so essentially women are filtering who they want talking to them, because only the douche bags lack self/social awareness and still flirt and chat up any women... All women...
/r/MensRights11/09/14 07:05 AM
1

Amusingly the last link I read from /r/mensrights was the one about how men should never approach women, because they find it creepy and intimidating. Talk about mixed messages
/r/MensRights11/09/14 07:02 AM
11

BE....BE someone to be respected! ARGH! How annoying
/r/MensRights09/09/14 09:41 PM
1

Well, in theory we both want equal rights. So if we can come together with that core aim, that would be great, and it would alienate the people who are just being sexist
/r/MensRights06/09/14 08:14 PM
12

well, I'd hope that one day we can just have a sensible discussion, and merge feminism and mensrights... one day
/r/MensRights06/09/14 05:54 PM
5

Has anyone dared to xpost to 2xchromosomes?
/r/MensRights06/09/14 03:12 PM
6

I am very very angry that these guys completely exclude men from their domestic violence support, but do offer a hand online course for men who "want to be nicer men". What the hell? EDIT: they also offer a men's version of the domestic violence book, called "How hard can it be..." Which is full of fun facts about men abusing women and why you shouldn't hit your wife. This is all actually quite upsetting that an organisation like this can be so sexist and unsupportive of victims of abuse. I woul…
/r/MensRights20/08/14 07:01 AM
1

For serious?
/r/MensRights20/08/14 06:54 AM
1

People assume a lot of stuff is partly our basic training which isn't... :(
/r/MensRights20/08/14 06:53 AM
3

I like that intro, it's really simple and effective
/r/MensRights20/08/14 06:53 AM
13

Hi, I'm a newish doctor. How would people like to be asked this, assuming I'm not working off computer prompts...?
/r/MensRights19/08/14 10:06 PM
3

How about getting a schoolboy restrained while you throw something at his groin?. /u/borderrat is that enough?
/r/MensRights16/08/14 10:11 PM
3

heres a random advert where a man gets punched in the face.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 10:07 PM
3

This i believe is from Frozen a children's animation
/r/MensRights16/08/14 10:01 PM
3

Well, here's a clip from friends where the audience laugh when Rachel hits Joey in the head
/r/MensRights16/08/14 09:57 PM
43

Isn't it fine when I woman is violent and abusive? Pop culture taught me that makes her a loveable and free spirited woman who is firery and in touch with her emotions.....
/r/MensRights16/08/14 08:40 AM
1

Without going bankrupt
/r/MensRights29/07/14 06:30 PM
4

What you seem to be saying there is - "if a man didn't have sex with me when I wanted, I looked for it elsewhere". Is that what you meant to say?
/r/MensRights28/07/14 10:50 AM
1

Yeah, I've had that too. I think women just assume men are constantly 100% poised for sex! oh well
/r/MensRights28/07/14 09:37 AM
0

Thanks, this was a really inspiring reply. (I also like your use of Plethora)
/r/MensRights28/07/14 07:45 AM
1

Yeah, I agree. I think men certainly handle rejection much better, perhaps men have more of it to deal with, or perhaps it's just another expression of the "men have to be strong". I can't imagine any of my male friends throwing a paddy because a new SO says they want to wait before having sex...
/r/MensRights28/07/14 07:44 AM
2

Does this definitely improve with age?
/r/MensRights28/07/14 12:49 AM
2

I'm not on anybody's side. Because no one is on my side.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 12:01 AM
1

If it isnt fake (which I hope, but y'know, the internet lies), Do we think OP should show this conversation to someone? I mean, thats quite a threat shes made...
/r/MensRights11/05/14 07:08 PM
6

Well, that husky certainly is a canine, and so is a wolf... seems legit
/r/MensRights24/05/13 02:28 PM
14

I don't think it is
/r/MensRights24/05/13 02:08 PM
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