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| 49 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.Boundary pushing is always wrong and never flattering. The first push is annoying, then it's a giant red flag waving in your face that he doesn't respect you whatsoever and thinks your boundaries are negotiable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 20 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaI'm so glad that you saw him for who he was and left that relationship! A man who has been in therapy does not equal a healed or healthy man. His emotional regulation is/was not your responsibility whatsoever. It's his responsibility to handle his own reactions to his triggers and to self-soothe and seek professional support where necessary...not your responsibility. It sounds like he expected you to act somewhat as his therapist and even to take on the role that his own inner parent is supposed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 8 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.Tell him that you want to keep things strictly professional and not go beyond being mentor/mentee. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. It really sucks being put into these awkward positions! I go through something like this once in a while with my private drum teacher who is over 30 years my senior (lonely old disabled man). I always emphasize that I do not want to go beyond the teacher/student relationship and he never has a bad reaction to it and never pushes. Luckily you won't have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Did First Cold Approach- Quick Rejection. Advice?As a woman, I absolutely hate this kind of opener. If a guy comes to me and asks me a question about where blah blah is and then doesn't proceed in going to that place/following through with what I told them, it just feels creepy and very manipulative. Any time a guy employs some tactic that doesn't indicate or hint at interest basically immediately, it's very off-putting and makes the guy come off as untrustworthy. When it comes to approaching people in whom you have a romantic/sexual interest … | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 02:44 PM |
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